[CONDENSED INNER GAME GUIDE]
[Link] your game congruent to who you genuinely are
[Link] to a Pump-Up Playlist to get in state before going out
[Link] mindset that you are the prize and dont need validation from others.
[Link] it til you make it
[Link] matter what happens, it is NO BIG DEAL
[Link] that you are chosen by everyone, and in position of choosing
[Link] develop an ego: be confident without being arrogant.
[Link] on being internally happy before trying to get laid
[Link]-stress your life: learn to not give a fuck about what you cant control
[Link] grateful for how good your life is
[Link] proud of your accomplishments and past successes
[Link] happiness and contribute to creating a fun atmosphere
[Link] a value-giver, not a value-drainer (in terms of who you hang out with)
[Link] brutally honest: to yourself and to others
[Link] taking things personally
[Link] let others define who you are
[Link] assume that someone is out of your league or too good for you
[Link] DO IT: take risks, fail, and try again
[Link] be negative: stop complaining and find positive traits about everyone
[Link] listen to what people say instead of waiting for your turn to talk
[Link] rushing: learn to live in the moment and stop worrying about the future
[Link] what you start
[Link] be learning: read often and gather interesting knowledge
[Link] peace with your past, because you can do nothing to change it
[Link] your friend network: meet many people and stay in touch
[Link] are what you think: it is a controllable process, so think positive thoughts
[Link] meditation to clarify your mind and stay fully focused in the present moment
[Link] a sense of style that correlates to who you really are
[Link] hygiene up, stay in shape, and eat right
[Link] a multitude of hobbies and interests
[Link] day, reflect on what you can improve on
[Link] clinging and neediness at all costs
[Link] passionate and enthusiastic about life
[Link] away the rulebook: be innovative and avoid attachment to strict guidelines
[Link] every individual as an opportunity to practice social skills
[Link] attraction: just see it as self-evident that every girl in the area is attracted to
you
[Link] to have a carefree, fun time, and you will attract
[CONDENSED ALPHA GUIDE]
Inner-characteristics
[Link] of men
[Link], assertive, but not controlling
[Link] in his values and identity: self-assured as to who he really is
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[Link] not take anything personally
[Link] of outcome dependence: just enjoys the process
[Link] engaged in the present moment
[Link] and carefree: walks through the world with ease
[Link]-judgmental
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[Link]-taker
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[Link]-reactive and non-reaction seeking
[Link] mindset that he is the catch/prize.
[Link] give a fuck about seeking others approval
[Link] of close friends/family
[Link] story-teller
[Link] gives excuses
[Link] like a man who is busy and has things going on in his life
[Link] afraid to state true opinion on something
[Link] a people pleaser: calls people out if they deserve it
[Link] their state from within, not dependent on the environment
[Link] an abundance mindset
[Link], doesnt ask (e.g. take my hand,follow me, wait for me)
[Link] people feel comfortable in his presence
[Link] polite & calm authority,without aggressiveness.
[Link] under pressure
[Link] happiness and contributes to making the atmosphere more fun
Outer-characteristics & body language
[Link] face
[Link] with your hand gestures without overdoing it
[Link] chin up during interaction
[Link] when it is appropriate but doesnt over do it
[Link] tonality to his voice, avoids monotone sound
[Link] slowly, rhythmically, and with pauses and emphasis
[Link] puts hands in pockets or in front of face
[Link] drink by side, not by chest
[Link] relaxed and easy-going
[Link] unique in his style and appearance: stands out
[Link]-dressed and well-groomed
[Link] unaected by shit tests and rude remarks
[Link] up space with his body: leans back and has a significant physical presence
[Link] walk, but struts. Takes his time without rushing to get anywhere
[Link] fidget
[Link] afraid to touch a girl during conversation
[Link] eye contact, never looks below her mouth