Work-Life Balance for the Busy
Band Director
Ryan D. Shaw, Michigan State University
Laura Hyler, Belding Area Schools
Why don’t band teachers achieve their desired work-life balance?
• The pressure to maintain a program—pressure from students, parents,
administrators…and from oneself!
• Extreme time commitments and administrative duties that must be dealt
with after school, at night, on weekends, etc.
• Time spent with student and parents blends work and home domains—it
becomes hard to switch out of teacher persona
• Personality traits—many music teachers identify as “type A,”
perfectionist, control freak, etc. This makes delegating and letting go
difficult or impossible for some.
Proactive Strategies:
• Setting “hard and fast” personal rules
o (e.g., I won’t work on Sundays, I won’t check/reply to my work
email when at home)
• “Making time” for family/friends
o Prioritizing and setting aside blocks of time
o Date nights (with or without kids)
o Quality one-on-one time with significant other, close friend or
family member
• Finding a support system
o Co-complaining/venting to colleagues, friends
o Communication and partnership with significant other or family
member/friend
o Form a “band director club,” bowling team or other social group
• Become an obsessively proactive and organized planner
o Make a plan for busy times of year/events
o Go home in between school and events OR Skype/FaceTime with
family
o Set up “breaks” and extra help for significant other
Proactive Strategies (continued):
• Being open and flexible in your mindset
o Be willing to consider cutting back or changing something that’s
“always been done this way”
o Be open to the idea that more time spent does not automatically
make for success (quality vs. quantity, the power of a looming
deadline).
• Let go and delegate
o Being convinced that you must have sole control of all aspects of
your classroom and program is a harmful delusion
o Empowering others (students, staff) improves everything from your
work-life balance to others’ sense of identity and worth
Frightening realities to remember:
• Around 50% of teachers quit the profession before 5 years of teaching;
stress can be a major factor
• Workloads are intensifying in subtle ways through new focus on teacher
accountability and “data-driven instruction”
• Off-kilter work-life balance often leads to…
o Burn-out, bitterness, disillusionment with work
o Health problems
o Arguments, disagreements, fights with loved ones
o Divorce (can be a factor among many)
Luckily, many of these things are (at least
somewhat) in your control: take a step
back and prioritize.
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