RODEL NOVESTERAS CLAUS PSYCH 1100
BS IN ACCOUNTANCY 1-2 NOVEMBER 04, 2019
“WORDS CAN’T BRING ME DOWN”
Be proud of who you are and not ashamed of how others see you
LIFE IS IRONIC. Discriminations and critiques are inevitable. Aside from death, paradoxes
and contemptuous words are something that we cannot escape from. Words are very powerful;
it can drastically change someone’s perspectives nor becomes an enormous destructive force
that drives to an abyss of violence. Words are undeniably one of our weaknesses and source of
our strengths. It is crucial yet critical.
Many of us are experiencing disapprovals, judgments and below the belt comments or
usually a case of bullying not physically but mentally and emotionally. Hurting words are too
much painful than physical abuse. Leading to a wrong destination, depression and low self-
esteem. In the eyes of our society, imperfections can’t hide. There are people who wants to
bring us down, saying that we can’t, impossible and sometimes giving of rejecting and insulting
ideas just to question our flaws to the extent of our contentment.
Despite negativities and my disadvantages, I am still proud of myself because words
can’t destroy me. I am confident with my own version of beauty because words can’t define me
and I am contented for who I am now because words can’t bring me down. People can say
what they want. Change if there is really something that needs to be changed. But ultimately,
go to God and lay down every weakness and imperfection in the light of His love. Because our
worth is found in God not in the opinion of others.
There are no boundaries, we are free to express our thoughts. But words must possess a
sense of respect and empathy to embrace everyone. Each one of us has two drive; to live with a
cause and to act with a purpose. Don’t let ourselves miserable just because of their judgement.
Words are only words. If you let it ruin your life it’s failure, but if you have courage and
motivation to face it, it’s success. In the end, it’s your choice.
I experienced a lot of criticisms. I received blaming words. I am one of those survivors of
depression. It indeed a big change in my life. Yet, I surrendered everything to God, I chose to
fight against suicide and opened the light of understanding. It is a remarkable testimony, a
worth sharing story. One thing reminds me of it; Beware of our words, be a blessing not a
burden!
BEAUTY IS NOT DEFINITE, WE DEFINE IT
Beauty cannot be seen or even touched. It must be felt with the heart.
Currently, it is apparent that beauty is a combination of such aesthetic senses of
qualities especially the sight. Basis are presence, form and other bodily attributes. Some are
judged by impressions and looks. It is clear that physical aspects greatly mark the definition of
beauty.
But I firmly believe, REAL BEAUTY do not merely focus on physical appearance but what
is inside. Beauty is when you can appreciate yourself. Wearing of confidence can lift your glory
and self-loved. Watching your actions toward respect produces an optimistic reputation. That’s
when you’re most beautiful. The Almighty God created us with our own uniqueness. He has
given us talents to be explored and sacred individuality. We are all beautiful in different ways.
Beauty does not require make-up, whitening soap, beauty cares or even plastic surgery.
Understanding and being contented for what you have, embracing yourself through positive
mindset and a pure heart with a good character and right conduct completes the definition of
beauty. Acceptance is necessary to be motivated. Characteristics has a huge factor of what is
beauty and it brings admirable attractiveness. Loving yourself that shows respect and spiritual
power makes you have a peculiar aura and charm.
Their definition of beauty is their own opinions of what attracts them, so we must not
conform to their own standard and see ourselves as less beautiful if we don’t fit the scale they
use to measure beauty. We don’t need to wear elegant clothes, expensive lipstick and extended
eyelashes to be beautiful. We only need simplicity, heart, and confidence. WE ARE BEAUTIFUL
JUST THE WAY WE ARE!
“Beauty is a heart motivated by a love of God and a love of our neighbor, which can
only be found in someone who has trusted Christ as their Savior.”
MY SEXUAL SELF
Sexual desires and attractions “lust” are unescapable but I can control my sexual urge.
Temptations are unavoidable. It is our responsibility to handle and avoid it. There’s a
right time and a certain place to experience and be engaged in sexual intimacy. Sometimes,
sexual arousal occurs due to an imaginative interpretations of mind. At times, we tend to
conclude or even foresee sexual activity that might lead us to do sudden expression of a
particular emotion. I don’t need to pretend, I tried masturbation or onanism for so many times.
A science explains the importance of it in order to avoid prostate cancer. Males must release
prostatic fluid or semen as part of reproductive function and circulation system. But, we should
know the limits. It’s usual for us hearing of different coitus story, reading and watching obscene
subject or topic. Thereby, we are conscious or confuse how it works and what are the possible
outcomes? Then unintentionally, we tried it.
I am an individual who tries to restraint my negative ideas yet, sometimes I failed.
Having a sexual intercourse or affairs are not included in my priorities. I have proper plan and
desires to be achieved other than that. Sexual intimacy for young individuals especially those
who are not yet married is a sin. It is commonly known as premarital sex. Engaging in sexual
activities offers a big responsibility. Don’t be a helter-skelter for something that may result
regrets, blames and consequences. Sex is a form of destructive change not only the sense of
virginity but accountability for what will happen after. For some reasons, we forget the means
of life in the case of abortion. HIV which is very rampant nowadays caused by improper sexual
intimacy. And early pregnancy. These are an implication of embarrassing and disrespecting the
natural law.
I am not frail when we talk about capacity for sexual feelings. I have a strong mind
controls and proper perspectives. I am filled with pieces of advice so that I can manage it. Yes, I
am both attracted to male and female. If someone show me a motive, then I’m willing to ignore
it. Sex is meant for a right couple. It is set by the real love and not because of lust.
DON’T HIED. RIGHT TIME WILL COME!
- Rodel Claus (2019)
