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Find Sexy In A Man

BY DEREK RAKE

D
o you know which part of a woman’s body gives her the most sexual
pleasure?

Surprise, surprise. It’s not her vagina, or clitoris, or her nipples. It’s
her brain.

It’s strange, but true. For a woman, sexual pleasure comes more from imagination than the
physical act itself.

In other words, what’s inside her mind is more arousing than what she sees or touches. 1

Guys are different, right? Nice boobies plus tight asses equal instant arousal.

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When it’s time for sex, the brain shuts down as the dick takes over. Imagination is optional.

To a woman, though, imagination is everything. And I mean, everything.

In fact, what she imagines a man can do turns her on more than what he could actually do.
It’s true.

So, what does this mean?

This–it doesn’t matter if you’re a hobo who lives under the bridge and dress like one. Work
her imagination and she’ll get the hots for you.

Now, don’t get me wrong. Looks do matter. It’s just that there’s something else that
matters more.

If you’ve seen an ugly guy parading with a busty supermodel in his arms, you know why.
What he lacks in looks, he makes up in his ability to work a woman’s sex organ–her brain.

The Hero Archetype

So, how do you get this ability to work a woman’s brain? How do you become sexy
in your woman’s imagination?

Well, to answer this question, consider this–

What type of men that woman usually call sexy?

The hero in a movie.

James Bond. Tyler Durden. Indiana Jones.

“But wait, Derek. Those guys are handsome as fuck. Didn’t you say looks don’t matter?”

True, but here’s the thing. Even the uglier looking heroes (or sometimes, anti-heroes) get
lots of action.

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Does this man look familiar?

His name is Danny Trejo. He’s a Hollywood actor.

Now, let’s be real here. That’s not exactly male model looks, right? And yet, he got to snag
Jessica Alba at the end of Machete. Jessica fuckin’ Alba.

Of course, that’s just a movie, but you can be sure that this dude gets laid in real life by
beautiful women.

So, this is what I want you to know–

Women love heroes.

Be the hero in her imagination and everything else matters little.

The Key To A Woman’s Imagination

Quick recap–

1. A woman’s imagination of you is what makes you sexy, not how you physically look
2. You can manipulate a woman’s mind to imagine you as a sexy man.
3. Women think heroes are sexy.

So, to make a woman picture you as a sexy man in her mind, the answer is obvious–

Craft a story where you are the hero.

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And this is where your Shogun ability of storytelling is in play.

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Indeed, the best Shoguns have one thing in common–they are amazing storytellers. Why?
Because if you can tell engaging stories to a woman, you can make a woman imagine
anything you want… including the picture of you as the hero in her mind.

Shogun Method is storytelling. Shogun Sequences are stories, right? What about Intrigue
Pings? Short stories in two to three sentences. Fractionation? A story that brings a woman
through an emotional rollercoaster.

Anyway, back to storytelling. Shogun Method is effective because it’s different from
conventional storytelling. The differences are–

1. You’re not simply narrating the story to her. The story is experiential; she is in the
story with you in real life.
2. There’s a specific story Formula that works on women.

What’s this Formula?

The Monomyth+
Before we get into the specifics of the Formula, here’s what I want you to
understand–

Throughout history, we humans have been telling ourselves one story, again and again.
Yes, only one. It’s the same story rehashed with new faces and new places.

What’s this story?

The Monomyth.

Some call it the Hero’s Journey because it tracks the journey of a hero from creation to
redemption–

1. The hero lives a mundane life.

2. He receives his calling and leaves home, going on an adventure.
3. He faces his enemies.
4. He defeats his enemies and receives a lesson.
5. He wins a victory.
6. He returns home, bringing with him the spoils of the victory. 1

Every (good) story follows this six-step structure. Let’s go through a couple of examples.

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Lord of the Rings:

1. Frodo is a hobbit that lives a normal life at the Shire.

2. His friend Gandalf entrusts him with the One Ring, and later asks him to destroy it.
He leaves the Shire for Mordor.
3. He gets ambushed by Sauron’s minions.
4. He survives the attacks with the help of the Fellowship of the Ring.
5. He tosses the One Ring into the lava at Mount Doom. Sauron crumbles.
6. He returns to the Shire, victorious.

Star Wars:

1. Luke Skywalker lives a boring life on Tatooine.

2. He receives a distress call from Princess Leia meant for his friend, Obi-Wan Kenobi.
Obi-Wan asks him to answer the call.
3. With the help of his friends Han Solo and Chewbacca, he seeks to rescue Leia from
the Death Star. The Empire attacks him.
4. Luke rescues Leia.
5. He destroys the Death Star.
6. Leia awards Luke and Han medals for their heroism.

Fight Club:

1. The Narrator lives a humdrum life.

2. His apartment burns down. He moves in with Tyler Durden, someone he met on the
plane.
3. He found that he is Tyler Durden himself.
4. He “shoots” Tyler Durden by shooting himself in the mouth.
5. Tyler Durden dies.
6. The world crumbles as he looks on with his woman.

Hollywood follows this Formula like a zealot. Why? Because it’s a surefire way to churn out
blockbusters that make them shitloads of money. Movies that follow the Monomyth
immediately appeal to our collective psyche.

That’s the power of the Monomyth, or the Hero’s Journey.

Now, here’s the thing… 1

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The Monomyth can sell a couple of movies, sure. The Hero’s Journey may appeal to
normies, but you need something extra to make it work on the woman you love.

You want that secret Shogun Method sauce that gives your story that seductive magic.

What’s that secret sauce?

Fractionation.

Your woman wants not only a hero. She wants a hero who gives her the emotional
rollercoaster that she craves.

Or, to put it differently…

She wants a hero who fractionates her.

That’s the Shogun Method’s twist on the Monomyth–the Monomyth+ (plus). Hero’s
Journey plus Fractionation… is the combo that plants the imagery of YOU as the sexy hero
in her mind.

Got all that?

As a Shogun, you should already be familiar with Fractionation.

The Hypnotic Storytelling trilogy is free with Shogun

Method X

To take a step further, you must learn how Fractionation works inside a story. Hypnotic
Storytelling 101 will teach you advanced Fractionation in storytelling–

Fractality 1

Conflict & Resolution

Tension Addiction
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With this understanding, proceed to master the Monomyth in Hypnotic Storytelling 102.
It’s our canonical framework of storytelling–the Hero’s Journey with that unique Shogun
Method twist.

Good news: you’ll get the Hypnotic Storytelling series bundled together with Shogun
Method X for free. To redeem this offer, check out Shogun Method X.

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COMMENTS

Robson says

I have one girl she always say she is buzy when i call her giving me too little time,
even when i greet her , before i say a word , i hear her say am busy call me later.

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Arnab says

Block her in all social media sites i.e. Facebook Instagram etc. Including
WhatsApp then wait for her to notice that and call you back. When she calls
u back & demand an explanation readily avoid the topic . If she presses
more then try to fix a meeting with her in a nice restaurant. But never discuss
why u blocked her.let it always be on her imagination.. hope that works.. all
the best

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Mike says

Forget the fancy restaurant. Unless she’s buying.

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zeus says

what happened next

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Brandon says

This brings me to make this point. A lot of guys out there who think that they can’t
get any action is because they are too short, too fat, too ugly. Yes, women do
care about looks, but looks are just a secondary. What is primary is how you
engage a woman mentally and emotionally. Those guys who stop dating women
because of looks are making excuses to being failures with women.

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Al says

Robson,

Move on. Next

She not feeling you. So you cannot proceed. She has on Intrigue for you and no
rapport for you.
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IRAE ( Intrigue, Rapport, Attraction is needed before Enslavement ). It starts with
Intrigue and YOU don’t Intrigue her.

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You never win every trade and you will not win every woman.

It’s called Life

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Alex says

I’ve a girlfriend I used fractionation before on her to get her we were working
together. Somehow she left her abusive boyfriend and was with me then i had to
travel to my parents house and got stuck there from one country to another 7
months but i visited her twice this year. She told me that she want to get married
with me i agreed. My parents disagreed with me and we started crying. Then
again i went to her, country where i she is living now. Overthere i went to some
psychologist, psychologist (she) gave her that rhing which i was afraid of getting
out of my finger. She advised her to be independent and to be strong life is about
change. After then some how i managed to then my parents took away my phone
it was difficult to be in contact with her as she was loosing interest. So i some
video, in that it should we should do breakup then try coming back to her life, i did
same way. But things came out different. She blocked me and i kept beging ger to
come in my life, she gave me once chance, but now she doesn’t respect me at
all. After all this she asked me whether i want to get married with her or not i said
yes. I want to get married with her only. Because my snatched the phone again i
was not able to talk or msg to her. Then i started to feel like she is doing
something wrong like as if she sex with some other guy. And she is lying to my
face that she didn’t do any wrong thing she just had a walk. Daybefore yesterday
we had a fight, then i end up calling messaging her. And messaging her sister
that why isn’t she picking up the phone. As she was angry with me for no reason.
She said she was upset and she doesn’t feel that emotional connection with me
like before and i ended up begging to be with me.

Shoguns, Dereke rake, and shogun brothers help me out so that i can marry her.
And by the she is also studying psychology. And I’m to afraid these days to use
shogun method on her.
Your responses is highly appreciated.

Regards 1

Alex

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Alex says

Dereke rake and shogun brothers.

Plz advise me it would be very helpful

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Bobby says

Alex: You’ll want to post this in the Shogun Method coaching section
because you’re more likely to get a helpful response there…

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