Maisa Ribeiro
Maisa Ribeiro
Who is Maiza?
She is 45 years old and married to Missionary Leandro Ribeiro. They do not have
children of the couple, but they love the child that God gave them named Marcos Junior
who is also a missionary, currently living and serving God in
Bolivia.
I lived almost nine years in the USA as a Missionary and Bible Worker, from where
even today beautiful fruits for the kingdom of God are harvested as a result of your
work committed to the Work of Saving from Sin and leading to Christ
Jesus in the Heavenly Sanctuary.
She has been working as a Biblical Worker for almost her entire life, giving her
first Bible study at the age of thirteen, having paused his work
only in the years between 1985 and 1989, when he had to work for
to ditch the studies and the life I was leading.
Belongs to the Seventh-day Adventist Church for all the days lived
remain faithful to the principles that this faith received from Jesus Christ, which makes
issue of proclaiming.
Maiza is a Counselor and Psychologist, being able to assist and help her
brothers from all over the world who will get in touch with her.
Where did you come from? Where were you born and who are your parents?
I was born in Bahia, in a small town on the banks of the São Francisco River called
Barra. I remember little about it, after all, I left there when I was just a few months old.
We returned a few times to see family. My maternal grandparents
I used to live there. I loved going to the place where I was born.
My paternal grandfather, Galdino Marques, was an African descended from Cape Verde.
Green and Angola. Lived little, died young, around 50 years old. Left
a legacy of respect, work, and honesty behind your name, a
example followed by the children raised by my grandmother.
They had many children here in Brazil. It was curious how I met my
past history. Only after I turned 34 years old, in a conversation with
one of my paternal aunts, I was able to understand who my ancestors were
and the way they lived. There are always beautiful stories behind lives,
isn't it?
I have three brothers. Murilo, the oldest.... Mulinaron who is older than
me, and Marcos, the youngest... I am the third daughter... and the only one in the house.... (laughs)
We were happy... we really feel the loss of dad... I could never come to terms with it.
death... I don't think we were made to die. ...life, that indeed gives me
drives...
Our home and origin have always been of great simplicity... but very full.
of incentives for the good... we understand since it values work and the
communion... we had Christian Adventist parents and that made a big difference.
Our house served the Lord of Hosts.
There were six of us... now there are five, but we respect the memory of our father.
we want to get it right, exactly as he would like us to get it right if
was alive.
We have always been poor and simple... my mother was a domestic worker.
my father was a sewing machine mechanic... we had little,
achieved with a lot of struggle and effort from my parents, and our school was
among those rural and suburban areas of the early 70s... century
past..hahahah (laughter)
It was only in high school that I was able to attend an Adventist school,
boarding school... I studied at the dear and beloved IACS, whose directors were
Professor Earle Linhares and his wife Dona Lourdes Linhares, to whom I owe
a lot of my education and preparation for life.... I miss them!!!!!
I completed the nursing technician course at IACS, also one year of ALAC =
Laboratory and Clinical Analyses. At that time I wanted to pursue a career
doctor, and I thought that this beginning would give me a solid foundation... and it did.
so... (sigh)
I couldn't finish due to another transfer and the separation. He, the
pastor husband had fallen into the sin of adultery and that prevented again the
continuation of my studies. I had to move house once again...
One day Jesus gave me the opportunity and I went to the other IAE Arthur Nogueira to study
Theology. Those were the most fantastic days I have ever spent in my life as
student, after the days I lived at IACS, of course!
When I had been studying for a year, I was transferred to the USA.
As an evangelist. I stopped the course and went to serve the Ministry of Jesus overseas.
Maiza, we are going to ask you for advice, okay? You talked about marriage. How
Was this previous marriage?
Yes, I would have ended the marriage... but not in a way that we have so many
losses like the ones we have today.
His family and mine never accepted me, and that made the relationship very difficult.
Our family (him and me) was dysfunctional in every way.
We had problems at multiple levels and were consumed by intolerance.
mutual, neglect and marital unpreparedness and, the main thing was that we got married without the
blessing of our parents and of our God. We married in the only way that does not
must marry. We gave ourselves in marriage, and this is the best way
close to failure.
Many things happened over the course of those years, but it is not for me to tell.
but not even to remember.
There are pains that should remain in the past and I believe that remembering them would be
a negative way of facing the future.
I want him to be happy and to be able to stay within the plans and desires.
of Jesus.
Today I know that we didn't even have love for each other.
And I understand that the enemy knows very well how to neutralize lives through
wrong relationships, and this is one of the most effective ways to
to achieve.
My mother and I were there alone in that hospital room where there was
a little empty crib swaying to the whims of the wind that came through the window... and in
my heart had a giant crater (distant look), and a feeling
immense from another failure.
I firmly believed that we were getting it right... but it wasn't quite like that.
Pure nonsense... in a marriage, everyone makes mistakes and I made many, but
It hurts more to betray, and I have never betrayed. Betrayal is one of the greatest misfortunes.
what can be caused to the marriage, to oneself, and to the other.
We were at work but we were lacking the power of the Spirit of God. We were living
bad, we never had worship at any time in our lives, not even a worship service.
do-sol... and what if we could choose whether to go to church or not, I think not.
we would... objectionable movies, forbidden fun, and we lied horribly...
Our life was a complete lie. We lied and the other confirmed it.
a lie that was spoken. We were dishonest and anti-Christian.
God miraculously helped me. I went to the IAE, studied as I have already told and
after that to the USA... where I continued working as a Biblical Worker and
Evangelist for 9 years.
And your current marriage? Can you tell something about it?
Adriana, the youngest, has the gift of being the family artist. She cooks like
nobody.
It has been in an environment like this that my love with my husband has
grown.
I met him when I went to preach in Fort Lauderdale, USA, on a day of
week... Wednesday of prayer (smiling).
He was there listening and I didn't realize... he spent months surrounding me and
analyzing the 'prey' .....(laughs...lots of laughs)...when I was launching
my third CD, together with the Brazilian Consulate in Miami, he
I was in the audience watching, when the Spirit of God spoke clearly to
he wanted me to be the wife he was asking for... at the end of that day I
I met him... he had been analyzing me for months and I only saw him that day.
December... it was very good...
I took about three months to accept that he was courting me... it was a
time for many decisions, and I was still not accustomed to the idea of
to date, to marry again... I still had a fantasized feeling that
I would be betraying my ideal of being the wife of just one man... but thanks to
God guided Leandro by the Spirit of God... and he managed to overcome the
barrier that was in me arising from all the suffering and pains endured by the
previous marriage.
But our God led everything in a surprising way... even the words
what I asked God to be said he spoke... It was a dream of love... the
fulfillment of all my deepest longings as a woman and as
girl... I felt everything that someone guided by true love is capable of
feel...
Love when guided by God does not cause shame in anyone... it causes
joy and everyone considers... everyone approves... everyone feels part of this
incredible magic surrounding the couple that got it right...
in the tasks related to the Christian faith. Even when he is alone, he has for
practice meditation and the reading of the Word of God... and obey what you read.
And you know what? My life is busier now than at any time
time... But the big difference is that there is no competition between us and
we do everything together.
We both work for each other's well-being and feel the
responsibility and love for the cause of the Lord.
We are going to have a little boy this year. He asked God for this for our 7th year of ...
married. And I know that I will be a mom once again. Blessed be the name of God.
for the husband who gave me.
Wow! What a beautiful story! So you believe that God has you
did it compensate?
Oh! Beautiful indeed... too much... but sorry, I don't consider myself
rewarded... I do not deserve rewards! Only a figure of speech!
The truth is that God had mercy on me... and that is the specialty.
It's not from God, is it? He knows how to fix lives... and He fixed the
mine. Hallelujah!
But you have a son, right? Have you heard that you have a dark-skinned son?
with green eyes! Are you single? (laughs)
Yes, it's true. Junior wasn't born from my womb but he is my blood.
is the son of my younger brother. He is a beautiful balm that God gave to
our family. I am your heart mother. When he was small and me
I would ask how he was born, and I always replied that he was from my
heart... and this is one of the purest truths I have ever felt... it belongs to my
heart... (sighs)
Junior is 17 years old now... and he is a missionary in Bolivia. He is studying.
to be a Missionary pilot for Jesus Christ. We have been praying for the girl with
Junior is getting married... we want him to be faithful.
You know, God gives us the best, He always gifts us with the best that
He can give. He gives us people. And we receive from Him the best gift: Junior.
That's it.
A rumor is going around that you never had a legitimate child. What can we do?
say about that?
I've heard that too. I know that these people are at serious risk of
to lose their salvation over an insinuation of that caliber. God have
mercy on them... I always pray for these people...
Please read Psalm 15 and see there described who will dwell on the Holy Mountain of God.
God!!!! God abominates gossip and perjury... slander is one of the greatest evils
biblically condemned and is behind all the intrigue between people... and
even among brothers...
After asking for a lot of guidance from God, I felt very sorry for him and
shame to see that a minister of God made such a mistake
I provided the death certificate of my little boy to him so that
he could regret it and not say anything else he is not sure about.
But dear ones, speaking about others even if it is true is a sin... God does not
gave us this task.
This only harms the work of God on earth... speaking ill of someone never
helped nothing and no one.
Maiza, what advice would you leave for the young people who are thinking about becoming
to marry?
Many times in life I have had the desire to live again. There have been so many
errors that seemed to me there was no way out for all the memories and
sad consequences that my choices had brought to myself and
to my dear ones...
But thank God there are good examples of life and testimony.
We can reflect on the lives that triumphed and make better decisions
correct.
There is no way to win without a true commitment to control and with the
experience of the elders.
The dating period should be beautiful and full of lovely memories. It is the phase of
a more delicate preparation that a couple can go through. Overcoming barriers is
a very deep well. I know what I'm talking about... I've lived both.
situations and I can distinguish the significant difference between the two. To marry
with blessing is the best way. Don't risk your life choice...
sanctify your lives. It is worth being faithful... we have all been called
to be faithful. We have a huge responsibility with the life that God
He entrusted us... we are in this world as witnesses of our God and
as samples of who our Heavenly Father is... He, and only He, must
regulate our history.
I lived both ways of life... the good and the bad... and I know what should not be done.
to do... and I also know where and how to find happiness... there is no way
be happy and successful while we do not live the true life of
Authentic Christians.