Because

ILoveYou
Family
Organizer
Valuable Forms for
You, Your Spouse,
Loved Ones and
Aging Parents
 A Special Message from the Author

Growing up, my father always told me,

“A short pencil is better than a long memory.”

Dear friend,

When it comes to living life and loving our families, there are so many things we need to remember.
But it is truly impossible to remember everything we need to remember without writing it down somewhere.
The problem for many of us is that we try to keep all the information in our own head or we write things
down on slips of paper scattered everywhere that no one understands but us (and even we find notes that we
wrote that we no longer know what they were about)!

So, I set out to create for you and your loved ones the ultimate FAMILY ORGANIZER with the most
comprehensive collection of helpful family forms available anywhere on the planet! The goal was to give you
one source to record needed information that you could have in your home and/or share with loved ones.

My prayer is that by using my father’s advice (“a short pencil”) and any of the pages in this FAMILY
ORGANIZER that you will find your life and family better organized so you can be free to enjoy and love
each other more. My hope is that some of the forms and lists you find here will help you in your planning,
fixing, finding, shopping, traveling, searching, earning, spending, paying, giving, living, dying, distribut-
ing, and praying! Note: An electronic version is also available for those who prefer a keyboard to a pencil.
Go to: www.MyFamilyForms.org

I want you to know there are personal stories about real people connected to every page in this FAMILY
ORGANIZER. As I was writting each form or list, I was always thinking of someone I knew that benefited
from having this organized information or someone that struggled or suffered from not knowing these
details. For help in inspiring you about the value of each page, you can hear or watch many of these personal
stories by going to the audio and video clip files at www.MyFamilyForms.org.

I trust each and every page you choose to fill out will be a great help to you, your spouse, and your loved
ones for years (and sometimes generations) to come.

Yours for loving our families,

Dr. Brian Kluth

P.S. If you find any of the forms in the FAMILY ORGANIZER useful in your life, feel free to email me (organizer@
kluth.org) a note or testimonial that I can share with others on the www.MyFamilyForms.org website.

Because I Love You FAMILY ORGANIZER by Dr. Brian Kluth ISBN10: 1-59971-855-9 ISBN13: 978-1-59971-856-9 Retail: $19.95 US
Disclaimer: The FAMILY ORGANIZER is only to be considered informative in nature and is designed to be a useful resource to help you better organize your personal information and
instructions for loved ones. None of these forms is a legal document and should not be used as such. Please consult with an attorney, accountant, financial planner, funeral professional,
and/or charitable estate planner to develop official and legal documents for your medical, estate, financial, charitable, or funeral needs. Special copyright rules apply for your personal
use and sharing of the material in this manual, please see the bottom of the back inside cover for details. © Dr. Brian Kluth | www.MyFamilyForms.org | 5201 Pinon Valley Rd | Colorado
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 Family Organizer
List of Forms & Pages

Household Matters
List of Advisors & Service Professionals ...................................................... 3
Seasonal Household To Do Checklist ........................................................... 4 Recommendation:
Documents Checklist .................................................................................... 5
Important Household Items .......................................................................... 6 In order for you and your
Family Calendar & Scheduler ....................................................................... 7 loved ones to gain the greatest
Errands, Grocery, and To Do List ................................................................. 8 benefit from any of the forms
Trip & Travel Planner ................................................................................... 9 and lists in this FAMILY
Trip & Travel Packing List ............................................................................ 10
ORGANIZER, it will probably
Quick Reference Phone List .......................................................................... 11
be best to set aside a specific
Family Matters 30-90 minute time period each
Personal or Marriage Inventory .................................................................... 12 week to work on this over the
Over 100 Family Questions ........................................................................... 13-16 coming months.
Family Tree .................................................................................................. 17-19
Notes & Cartoons ..........................................................................................20
Also remember to write things
Special Days, Birthdays, Anniversaries ......................................................... 21
Gift Giving Planner ....................................................................................... 22
in PENCIL, so you can easily
erase and update information
Financial/Legal Matters as things change.
List of Accounts ............................................................................................. 23
Income Sources ............................................................................................. 24 NOTE: You also have
Lifestyle Expenses ......................................................................................... 25
the option of ordering an
Liabilities and Debts ...................................................................................... 26
Assets and Possessions ................................................................................. 27 electronic Microsoft Word
Christian and Charitable Giving .................................................................... 28 version and an Adobe PDF
file so you can easily print,
Retirement and Medical Matters modify, or customize any of the
List of Internet Resources for Retirees............................................................. 29
forms and lists in the FAMILY
Family Medical Information .......................................................................... 30
ORGANIZER. See page 49 for
Medical & End-of-this-Life Decisions ............................................................ 31
ordering information or go to
End-of-Life Planning Matters www.MyFamilyForms.org.
Most Important Spiritual Decision ................................................................ 32
Personal Information and Funeral Plans (Man) (Woman) ........................... 33-34
Distribution of Special Personal Possessions ................................................ 35
Equitable Distribution of Family Possessions ............................................... 36
People and Groups to Notify About My Homegoing ..................................... 37
42 Things to Do After a Loved One Dies ....................................................... 38
Estate Planning Matters
Top 10 Estate Planning Mistakes................................................................... 39
Top 5 Ways to Get Your House in Order ....................................................... 40
9 Biblical Insights for End-of This Life Planning .......................................... 41-42
Guardian Choices for Children ..................................................................... 43
How to Conduct a Family Meeting ................................................................ 44
Estate Planning Tools for Effective Charitable Giving .................................. 45-46
Additional Resources
Additional Resources ..................................................................................... 47
Products and Resources by Dr. Brian Kluth ..................................................48
Ordering Information .................................................................................... 49
Tips for Effectively Using the Family Organizer ........................................... 50

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 LIST OF ADVISORS &
SERVICE PROFESSIONALS

Name, Company, Phone Numbers, Address or E-mail

Accountant
Appliance repair
Attorney
Auto Insurance
Baby sitter
Banker
Car Dealer
Car Mechanic
Charitable Giving
Clergy
Computer support
Contractor
Dentist
Doctor for:
Doctor for:
Doctor for:
Electrician
Employee Benefits
Estate Executor
Exterminator
Financial Advisor
Handyman
Heating & Air Cond
Home Insurance
Home Warranty
Hospital
Interior decorating
Landscaping
Lawn Care
Life Insurance
Med. Insurance
Med. Power of Atty.
Medical Clinic
Pension Fund
Pharmacy
Plumbing
Power of Attorney
Snow Removal
Tax Preparation
Veterinarian
Other:
Other:
Other:

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 Seasonal Household TO DO Checklist
Photocopy, highlight and post items on this list for each new season (spring, summer, fall, winter)
as a reminder of things to do or schedule in the coming weeks and months.
To view filled out samples, go to: www.MyFamilyForms.org/sample.htm

Family Events Children ¢ Hose/sprinkler system ¢ Interior/exterior painting

Plan, schedule, invite, decorate, ¢ Sports ¢ Outdoor furniture ¢ Fences/gates
purchase gifts, food, planning, ¢ Music ¢ Pantry – clean out old food ¢ Sports equipment
shopping, get tickets, etc. ¢ Extracurricular activities/clubs ¢ Tighten cabinet knobs ¢ Pool maintenance
¢ Birthdays ¢ Camps/Retreats ¢ Oil hinges/locks/springs ¢ Phones/long distance service
¢ Graduations ¢ Lessons/Classes ¢ Thermostat/settings ¢ Computers/networks
¢ Weddings ¢ ¢ Planting/gardening ¢ Electronics/TV/Cable/Internet
¢ Anniversaries Vacations/Trips ¢ Plumbing inspection/leaks ¢ Closets/drawers (discard or
¢ Mother’s/Father’s day ¢ Determine location(s) ¢ Sump pump inspection rotate clothing)
¢ Memorial weekend ¢ Flights/transportation ¢ Weather-stripping ¢

¢ Sports events ¢ Vehicle maintenance ¢ Gardens/flowers/plants Vehicles/Engines

¢ Family reunion ¢ Passports/visas (overseas) ¢ Lawn fertilizer/aeration ¢ Inspection/tune-up

¢ Independence Day (July 4th ) ¢ Lodging plans/choices ¢ Lawn care/mowing ¢ Tires

¢ Vacations ¢ Activities ¢ Trees/bushes/leaves ¢ Routine maintenance

¢ Labor day weekend ¢ People to see ¢ Roofing/overhangs ¢ Oil changes

¢ Thanksgiving ¢ Meal plans ¢ Attic vents ¢ Brakes

¢ Christmas ¢ Purchases for trip ¢ Sinks/tile caulking ¢ Exhaust

¢ Hunting/fishing ¢ ¢ Insect/pest control ¢ Transmission

¢ New Year’s Day House ¢ Windows/screens ¢ Alignment

¢ Super Bowl ¢ Patio/decking/stairs/porches ¢ License renewal

Possible items to inspect, clean, fix,
¢ Coming travel/trips take out of storage, store, prepare, ¢ Chimney cleaning ¢ Body work

¢ Date nights/social outings repair, replace or update. ¢ Firewood ¢ Motorcycle/ATV/RV/Boats

¢ ¢ Furnace inspection ¢ Electric sockets/lights/bulbs ¢

Spiritual ¢ Furnace filters ¢ Septic tank Financial

¢ Daily Bible devotions ¢ Hot water heater ¢ Insulation ¢ Regular Christian giving
¢ Way(s) I will serve ¢ Humidifier ¢ Siding ¢ Financial record keeping
¢ Special prayer times/days ¢ Air Conditioning ¢ Fire extinguishers ¢ Year-end giving
¢ Fellowship activities ¢ Washer/Dryer/Vent ¢ Hose/sprinkler system ¢ Tax preparation
¢ Bible study/Group/SS class ¢ Refrigerator/Freezer ¢ Lawnmower maintenance ¢ Because I Love You Guide
¢ Camp/conferences/retreats ¢ Stove/oven/range hood ¢ Snow blower maintenance ¢ Investment planning
¢ Fasting ¢ Dishwasher ¢ Driveway ¢ Financial goals/plans/budgets
¢ Outreach/service activities ¢ Microwave ¢ Walks/sidewalks/paths ¢ Training/seminars/classes
¢ Missions trip ¢ Test smoke detectors ¢ Shelving/storage ¢

¢ Books to read or class to take ¢ Carpets cleaned ¢ Furniture/furnishings Other

¢ Pastor Appreciation (Oct.) ¢ Flooring ¢ Housewares/dishes ¢ Dentist/doctor appointments
¢
¢ Scripture memory ¢ Tiled surfaces ¢ Kitchen items
¢ ¢ Gutters/downspouts ¢ Medical/safety supplies ¢

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 DOCUMENTS CHECKLIST
Gather your official, financial, and legal documents and let your spouse, key family member(s),
personal representative, or executor know where they are located for easy access/retrieval:

Location of copies
Physical Location of Originals (if applicable) or names
Documents (and/or name of hard drive location
of people who have copies
of computer file)
with date given

5 Wishes Document (if applicable)

www.agingwithdignity.org (See page 30)
This “Family Organizer” manual
Automobile Titles
Birth Certificates or Adoption papers
Business Agreements
Business or Partnership Agreements
Citizenship Papers
Death Certificates
Debt/Loan Certificates
Deeds
Disability Insurance Policies
Divorce/Separation Papers (if applicable)
Employee Life Insurance Policies
Financial account numbers
Financial/Bank/Inv. Statements
Funeral instructions
Home & Vehicle Insurance Policies
Leases
Life Insurance Policies
Marriage Certificates
Medical Power of Attorney
Memos/Instructions about distribution
of personal, sentimental, or heirloom
possessions
Military Discharge Papers
Mortgages
Partnerships
Passports
Past Income Tax Returns
Personal address book
Personal Financial Statement
Power of Attorney
Pre-paid funeral arrangements
Recreational Vehicle/Equip Titles
Retirement/Pension Benefits
Social Security Cards & Benefits*
Stock Certificates/Bonds
Wills/Trusts/Estate Plans
Other:
Other:
Safe Deposit Box Info (if applicable) – Physical Location: ___________________________ Box Number: _______________
Location of keys: _____________________________________________________________________________________
Name of Financial Institution: ___________________________________ Phone Number: _________________________
Address: _____________________________________________________________________________________________
*Note about Social Security Benefits. The SS phone number is 1-800-772-1213. To claim SS death benefits after the death of a spouse, go to your local Social Security
office and bring with you your spouse’s death certificate, social security card, birth certificate, marriage certificate/license, and the birth certificates for each child.

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 Important Household Items
To view filled out samples, go to: www.MyFamilyForms.org/sample.htm

Location of Important Household Items:

Main water turn off valve:
Hose and/or sprinkler system turn off valve:
Gas turn off valve:
Phone line junction box on the exterior of the house:
Electric circuit breakers/fuse box:
TV satellite or cable box:
Cans of paint used in interior or exterior:
Family photos:
Address book:
Owner instruction manuals for applicances/etc:
Passbooks for checkbook/saving accounts:
Cash/gold/silver/coins/precious gems:
Firearms:
Inventory or video of household items (for insurance purposes in case of fire, etc.):
Other:
Other:
Location of keys OR combination lock numbers (xx-xx-xx) OR security codes:
Alarm/Security/Fire system: Name of company: Phone:
Vehicles:
Exterior house doors: Interior house doors:
Garage:
Cabin/vacation home:
Lawn mower or yard equipment: Snow blower:
Boat: Boat trailer: Motorcycle/ATV:
RV or trailer:
Gun cabinet: Gun trigger locks:
Boat house:
Storage shed:
Location of Safe: Key location or combination:
Location of Fireproof lock box: Key location or combination:
Electronic entry gates:
Bicycle locks:
Television satellite or cable security codes:
Combination Lock for: #’s: - - Combination Lock for: #’s: - -
Combination Lock for: #’s: - - Combination Lock for: #’s: - -
Combination Lock for: #’s: - - Combination Lock for: #’s: - -
Other:
Other:
Computers
Location of computer hub:
Security code to access internet wi-fi:
Location of internet modem:
Location of computer software programs/CD’s::
Location of computer hardware owner’s manuals and operating CDs:
Computer #1: Account name: Password:
Computer #2: Account name: Password:
Computer #3: Account name: Password:
Email address: Login: Password:
Email address: Login: Password:
Email address: Login: Password:
Email address: Login: Password:
Other:
Other:

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THE WEEKLY CHART SUN MON TUE WED THU FRI SAT
on the right can be organized
in any of the following formats:
• Individual names and their
typical weekly schedule
(morn/aft/eve)
• Hourly slots for an individu-
al’s typical 16 hour day
• Daily slots for the next
16 weeks
THE ANNUAL CHART
Below is a 12-months-look at
personal or family activities,
events, and tasks.
POSSIBLE ITEMS to put
on these weekly and annual
family schedules:
• Lessons
• Performances
• Committee meetings
• Club meetings
• Sports practices/games
• Group meetings
• Travel dates
• Vacations
• Days off of school
• Holidays
• Retreats /camps
• Spiritual priorities
• Menu planning
• Special events
• Social activities
• Daily/weekly chores

NAME JAN FEB MAR APR MAY JUN JUL AUG SEP OCT NOV DEC
To view filled out samples, go to: www.MyFamilyForms.org/sample.htm
Photocopy and use this form to determine your family member’s schedule in a
FAMILY CALENDAR & SCHEDULER
typical week, month, season or year. Once filled in, post this in a visible place in your home.

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 ERRANDS, GROCERY, AND TO DO LIST
ERRANDS BAKING STARCHES FRIG/FROZEN INTL FOODS
¢ Automotive ¢ Baking powder ¢ Rice ¢ Chicken ¢ Tacos/Tortillas
¢ Bank ¢ Brown sugar ¢ Pasta ¢ Burritos ¢ Mexican
¢ Dry cleaners ¢ Candles ¢ Spaghetti ¢ Desserts ¢ Asian
¢ Clothing ¢ Cakes Mixes ¢ Mac & Cheese ¢ Fish ¢
¢ Coffee ¢ Choc. chips ¢ ¢ French fries PAPER/KITCH
¢ Gas/Car wash ¢ Cinnamon MEATS/FISH ¢ Fruit/berries ¢ Aluminum foil
¢ Gifts ¢ Cocoa ¢ Bacon ¢ Ice Cream ¢ Coffee filters
¢ Electonics ¢ Icing ¢ Beef ¢ Juices ¢ Cups
¢ Fast Food ¢ Flour ¢ Bratwurst ¢ Pizzas ¢ Dish soap
¢ Hardware store ¢ Jello ¢ Chicken ¢ Popsicles ¢ Dishwasher soap
¢ Prescriptions ¢ Non-sick spray ¢ Ham ¢ Rolls/breads ¢ Garbage bags
¢ Repairs ¢ Oatmeal ¢ Hamburger ¢ TV dinners ¢ Lunch bags
¢ Post Office ¢ Pepper ¢ Hot dogs ¢ Vegetables ¢ Napkins
¢ Video/Library ¢ Salad dressing ¢ Lunch meats ¢ Waffles ¢ Paper toweling
¢ ¢ Salt ¢ Pork ¢ ¢ Plastic wrap
¢ ¢ Sauces ¢ Sausage PERSONAL/MED ¢ Plates
DAIRY ¢ Spices ¢ Steak ¢ Shampoo ¢ Sandwich bags
¢ Milk ¢ Sugar ¢ Turkey ¢ Conditioner ¢ Sponges
¢ Butter ¢ Sugar substitute ¢ Crab ¢ Cosmetics ¢ Toilet paper
¢ Cheese ¢ Vanilla extract ¢ Fish ¢ Deodorant ¢ Utensils
¢ Cream ¢ Vegetable oil ¢ Shrimp ¢ Feminine items ¢ Wax paper
¢ Eggs ¢ ¢ ¢ Tissues ¢ Zip lock bags
¢ Margarine CEREAL/BRKF DRINKS ¢ Hair spray or gel ¢
¢ Yogurt ¢ Breakfast bars ¢ Coffee ¢ Liquid soap ODDS & ENDS
¢ ¢ Cereals ¢ Decaf ¢ Lotion ¢ Batteries
FRUITS ¢ Oatmeal ¢ Juice ¢ Mouthwash ¢ CD/DVD’s
¢ Apples ¢ Pancakes ¢ Tea ¢ Toothpaste ¢ Flowers
¢ Bananas ¢ Pop Tarts ¢ Soda pop ¢ Razors ¢ Greeting cards
¢ Berries ¢ Waffles ¢ Water ¢ Soap ¢ Hardware
¢ Grapes ¢ ¢ ¢ Shaving cream ¢ Ice
¢ Melons BAKERY ¢ ¢ Toilet paper ¢ Insect products
¢ Oranges ¢ Bagels SNACKS ¢ ¢ Light bulbs
¢ Strawberries ¢ Buns ¢ Candy ¢ Allergy ¢ Magazines/books
¢ ¢ Cookies ¢ Chips ¢ Aspirin ¢ Office supplies
VEGETABLES ¢ Cake ¢ Cookies ¢ Cream/Lotion ¢ Sun products
¢ Carrots ¢ Donuts ¢ Corn curls ¢ Cold ¢
¢ Celery ¢ French bread ¢ Crackers ¢ Cough ¢
¢ Cucumbers ¢ Rolls ¢ Fruit snacks ¢ Eye care PHONE
¢ Lettuce ¢ Sliced bread ¢ Nachos ¢ First aid items ¢
¢ Onions ¢ ¢ Nuts ¢ Prescription(s) ¢
¢ Potatoes PETS ¢ Pretzels ¢ Sinus ¢
¢ Tomatoes ¢ Food ¢ Popcorn ¢ Vitamins ¢
¢ ¢ Litter ¢ Pudding ¢ ¢
CANNED ¢ Treats ¢ Tortilla chips CLEANING ¢
¢ Applesauce ¢ ¢ ¢ Air freshener TO DO
¢ Beans SPREADS ¢ ¢ Bathrm cleaners ¢
¢ Corn ¢ Honey BABY ¢ Bleach ¢
¢ Mixed Fruit ¢ Jelly ¢ Diapers ¢ Detergent ¢
¢ Pasta sauce ¢ Ketchup ¢ Food ¢ Fabric softener ¢
¢ Pickles ¢ Mayo ¢ Lotion ¢ Dryer sheets ¢
¢ Soups ¢ Miracle Whip ¢ Formula ¢ Dusting items ¢
¢ Tuna ¢ Mustard ¢ Wipes ¢ Floor cleaner ¢
¢ Tomatoes ¢ Peanut Butter ¢ ¢ Glass cleaner ¢
¢ ¢ ¢ ¢ ¢

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 TRIP & TRAVEL PLANNER
Make a photocopy to help you plan your next trip.
Leave a completed copy with your family and others who need to know your itinerary.
To view filled out samples, go to: www.MyFamilyForms.org/sample.htm

Scheduled Activities TO DO LIST BEFORE YOU LEAVE

Lodging Locations R Check any items that are applicable to this trip
(flights, car rental,
DAY/DATE Contact Person(s)
appointments, meetings, ¢ Tickets purchased
Phone numbers
social activities, etc.) ¢ Lodging scheduled
¢ Transportation scheduled
¢ Arrange for travel to and from the airport
¢ If long trip in a vehicle, have a “vacation safety
checkup” done by a mechanic
¢ Contact personal friends and/or business
contacts to schedule any of the following
(meetings, social outings/activities, lodging,
and transportation needs)
¢ Stop newspaper and mail
¢ Arrange for pet care
¢ Arrange to have someone watch the house
¢ Notify a trusted neighbor that you will be gone
¢ If children aren’t going with you, arrange for
your children’s needs/schedules
¢ Leave medical card and signed permission slip
with person(s) watching your children
¢ Make photocopies of your passports, drivers
license, front/back of credit cards, medical card,
HELPFUL TRAVEL WEBSITES visas (put it in your carry-on luggage)
¢ Locate and record your credit card PIN #’s
Save hours, headaches, hassles, and hundreds of dollars through these websites
¢ Recharge batteries for electronic equipment
• www.tripadvisor.com Travelers personal reviews, ratings, and opinions. (cell phones, laptops, Ipods/MP3 players, DVD
about specific hotels, cruises, entertainment, and tourist attractions. player, shavers, etc.)
• www.Farecompare.com, www.Sidestep.com and www.Kayak.com ¢ Check weather reports
Compares hundreds of travel websites for the best airfares and travel prices ¢ Clean fridge, empty garbage, take out trash
• www.seatguru.com Shows you the best & worse seats on ANY airplane! ¢ Program “lights” to turn on and off
Lists ALL AIRLINES and all of their website links, phone numbers & airplanes. ¢ Give or email (this page) or your itinerary to
• www.farecast.com Compares airline prices and best time to buy. family, trusted neighbor, and workplace
• www.flycheapo.com Compares best prices for traveling to Europe. ¢ Turn down thermostat
• www.vayama.com Compares international travel airfares. ¢ Lock doors/sheds/set any alarms
• www.Airtreks.com Helps you plan multi-location international trips. ¢ If required or allowed, go online and print your
• www.lastminutetravel.com Finds savings on last minute travel plans. board pass within 24 hours prior to your flight
• www.vrbo.com Vacation rentals by owners – great US and worldwide deals
on lodging options – houses, apartments, condos, villas, etc. INTERNATIONAL TRAVEL
• www.cruisecritic.com Cruise reviews & news. ¢ Passports (3-6 months prior) Check expiration date
• www.vacationstogo.com & www.cruise.com Discounted prices on cruises. ¢ Visas (3 months prior to trip)
• www.Viamichelin.com Maps and driving directions in Europe. ¢ Shots (6-12 weeks prior to trip)
• www.maps.google.com Maps and driving directions. ¢ Notify credit card companies and bank of your
• www.Xe.com Converting currency. travel plans (countries and dates)
• www.Weather.com US and worldwide weather forecasts. ¢ Purchase international phone card
• www.Tripprep.com Listing of US embassies in over 200 countries, visas/ ¢ Notify cell phone company about your trip.
vaccinations required, traveler warnings, crime advisories. Ask if your cell is useable overseas and what is
• www.traveldocs.com Assistance in getting a visa or passport fast. the per minute cost in each country
• www.DontForgetYourToothbrush.com Creates personalized to do and ¢ Change phone voice mail messages (cell, work,
packing lists for business, beach, winter, camping, cruise, or personal trips. home) and setup email autoresponder
• www.travelsense.org Great site for tips, trips, ideas & traveler information. ¢ Get traveler’s medical insurance
Note: Many insurance plans do NOT cover international travel.

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 TRIP & TRAVEL PACKING LIST
Photocopy this page for each person going on the trip. Use highlighter or underline
the itemseach one will need to personally pack. R Check off each item when packed.

CASUAL WEAR ATHLETIC WEAR ITEMSINCARRY-ONS BEAUTY BABY/TODDLERS

Note: Choose colors that ¢ Jogging Suit ¢ $1 bills for tips ¢ Cosmetics ¢ Diapers/Wipes
will “mix & match” so you ¢ Gym Shorts/Socks ¢ Tolls/Meters/Coins ¢ Blow dryer ¢ Powders/Lotions
can take LESS clothing. ¢ Swimwear/Suit ¢ Cash/Travelers Cks ¢ Hair straightener ¢ Bibs/Wipes
¢ Jeans/casual slacks ¢ ¢ Credit & Debit cards ¢ Curling iron ¢ Bottle
¢ Shorts ¢ ¢ Driver’s license ¢ Haircutting scissors ¢ Formula/milk
¢ Skirts ACCESSORIES ¢ Passports ¢ Electric shaver ¢ Baby food/snacks
¢ Dresses ¢ Watch/Jewelry ¢ Airplane, car ¢ Small Mirror ¢ Car seat
¢ Sweatshirts ¢ Wallet/Purses rental and hotel ¢ Tweezer/Clippers ¢ Stroller
confirmations
¢ Sweaters ¢ Belts ¢ ¢ Crib
¢ Medical card
¢ T-Shirts ¢ (or traveler’s insurance) PERSONAL ITEMS ¢ Favorite toys/books
¢ Polo shirts ¢ ¢ Glasses + extra pair ¢ Blanket
¢ Vaccination record
¢ Shirts/blouses ELECTRONICS (International) ¢ Contacts + extra pair ¢ Night light
¢ ¢ Laptop/Battery/ ¢ Itinerary/schedule ¢ Eye care products ¢ Baby monitor
DRESS CLOTHING Adaptor ¢ Tooth paste/brush ¢
¢ Business cards
¢ Dress slacks ¢ Thumb drive ¢ Floss/toothpicks MISCELLANEOUS
¢ Gum/breath mints
¢ Dress shirts/blouses ¢ Memory cards/ ¢ Dental floss
sticks ¢ Moist towelettes ¢ Pillow for the car
¢ Dresses ¢ Lip balm ¢ Deodorant ¢ Towel & wash cloth
¢ Cell phone/spare
¢ Skirts battery/charger ¢ Makeup/cosmetics ¢ Hairspray/gel ¢ Sleeping bag
¢ Suit(s)/Sport coat(s) ¢ PDA/charger ¢ Liquid hand cleaner ¢ Cologne/perfume ¢ Shoe Polish
¢ Ties/Belts ¢ Camera/Charger/ ¢ Brush/comb ¢ Mouthwash ¢ Snacks
¢ Extra battery/ ¢ Travel umbrella ¢ Shampoo/Cond. ¢ Plastic laundry bags
Memory Card
FOOTWARE ¢ Snacks ¢ Razor ¢ Travel sewing kit
¢ Camcorder/Tapes or
¢ Dress shoes CD/ Charger/Battery ¢ Card/travel games ¢ Shaving cream ¢ Flashlight
¢ Casual shoes ¢ Tripod ¢ Magazines/books ¢ Allergy products ¢ Insect Repellant
¢ Walking shoes ¢ Video games ¢ Pictures of family ¢ Aspirin/pain killer ¢ Waterpurifying
¢ Tennis/jogging shoes ¢ Diarrhea medicine tablets
¢ Ipod/MP3/CD Player ¢ Work papers
¢ Nighttime cold med ¢ Woolite for hand-
¢ Sandals/Flip flops ¢ Headphones ¢ Bible/tracts washing clothes
¢ Hiking boots ¢ Music CDs ¢ Notebook/pen ¢ Prescriptions
¢ Spot Remover
¢ ¢ DVD player ¢ Maps/Travel Guide ¢ Ear swabs ¢ Money belt, fanny
UNDERGARMENTS ¢ DVD movies ¢ Berlitz Language Bk ¢ Toilet paper (Intl trips) pack or passport &
¢ Socks ¢ Tissues $ holder
¢ Travel Iron ¢ Photocopies of
all important ¢ Moisturizer ¢ Gifts and thank
¢ Tights/Stockings ¢ Elec Converter Kit you presents
documents
¢ Slips ¢ Feminine products ¢ Day pack/backpack
¢ Electrical adaptor ¢ Address or email
¢ Underwear for cigarette lighter list for sendng ¢ Intimacy items ¢ Binoculars
¢ T-Shirts/Bras ¢ GPS postcards/notes ¢ Nail care items ¢ Sports equipment
¢ Handkerchiefs ¢ Extra batteries ¢ Extra car key ¢ Band aids ¢ Recreational equip
¢ Pajamas ¢ Keys at destination ¢ First aid kit ¢ Beach towels/toys
¢ 2 prong adaptor
¢ for 3 prong plugs ¢ Sunglasses ¢ Suntan/Sunblock ¢ Pet food, leash,
OUTERWEAR ¢ Travel alarm clock/ ¢ Ear plugs ¢ Travel sickness pills dishes, meds, treats
¢ Winter coat radio/weather ¢ Any <3 oz toiletries ¢ Sleep products ¢ Kitchen sink A
¢ Spring or fall coat ¢ in quart size bag ¢ Jetlag products ¢
¢ Rain coat/gear ¢ ¢ ¢ Hearing aid ¢
¢ Hat/gloves/Scarves ¢ ¢ ¢ ¢

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 QUICK REFERENCE PHONE LIST
Keep this list near your kitchen phone, desk phones, and/or bedroom phones

EMERGENCY NUMBERS IMMEDIATE FAMILY H=Hm C=Cell W=Work

Fire, Police, Ambulance 911
Police (non-emergency #)
State Patrol
Emergency Room
Hospital
Poison Center 800-332-3073
Doctor
Dentist
Veterinarian

REC/SPORTS/LESSONS
Movies
Videos
Library
City Parks-Rec-Pools
Coach
Instructor FRIENDS & NEIGHBORS

FOOD/RESTAURANTS
Pizza

FINANCIAL
Bank
Broker
Insurance

CAR/HOUSE
Mechanic
Emergency Road Service

CHURCH/CIVIC/SCHOOL/GOVT
Church
Civic Group
School
City Hall

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 PERSONAL OR MARRIAGE INVENTORY
Here is a list of helpful areas of life to review (annually? seasonally?.) As you look over the list, there are certain items
that will normally “rise to the top” that you realize could be thought about, discussed, prayed about, evaluated, adjusted, acted on,
and/or changed in order to benefit you, your spouse, and your family. It is usually best to dedicate a block of time
(full morning, afternoon, or an evening) or a day or weekend away to spend time going over some of these areas.

PHYSICIALLY MARRIAGE ¢ Conflicts? ¢ Groups needing ¢ Taxes?

help?
¢ Healthy eating? ¢ Communications? ¢ Confession? ¢ Will & estate plan?
¢ Personal exercise? ¢ Intimacy? ¢ Forgiveness? ¢ Individuals needing ¢
help?
¢ Aerobic-type ¢ Serving each other? ¢ ¢
exercising? ¢ Church needs?
¢ Household? ¢ HOUSING/AUTO
¢ Committees/Boards?
¢ Weight goals and ¢ Forgiveness? SPIRITUALLY
plans? ¢ Routine jobs decided
¢ Special events or
¢ ¢ Church? programs? upon? Delegated?
¢ Sleeping: Time to
go to bed? Get up? CHILDREN ¢ Daily Bible ¢ Teaching? ¢ Repairs needed?
¢ Spiritual well-being? devotions? ¢ Improvements?
¢ Public sports & rec? ¢ Counseling?
¢ Health? ¢ Devotions as a ¢ Discipling? ¢ Furnishings?
¢ Meal times?
¢ Problem areas? couple? ¢ Seasonal tasks &
¢ Menu plans? ¢ Helping?
¢ Personal “dates” ¢ Family Devotions? projects?
¢ Fasting? ¢ Physcial/material
with an individual ¢ Bible study? needs of others? ¢ Special purchases?
¢ Family member’s parent?
health, activities, ¢ Scripture memory? ¢ Spiritual/emotional ¢ Things to discard or
¢ Schedule? needs of others?
and exercise? ¢ Prayer time? give away?
¢ Discipline problems?
¢ ¢ Witnessing/Sharing? ¢ Financial needs of ¢ Coming changes?
¢ Schooling? others?
SOCIALLY ¢ Outreach? ¢ Renovations?
¢ Tutoring? ¢ Social needs of
¢ Get-togethers? ¢ Service? ¢
¢ Friends? others?
¢ Celebration events? ¢ Financial giving? PURCHASES
¢ Sports? ¢ Sharing our faith?
¢ Holiday plans? ¢ Sabbath rest? ¢ Clothing?
¢ Service projects? ¢ Music?
¢ Family gatherings? ¢ Journaling? ¢ Housing?
¢ Clubs and activities? ¢ Writing?
¢ Out of town trips? ¢ Worship? ¢ Tools/equipment?
¢ Lessons (music, ¢ Leadership?
¢ Vacation options? arts, dance)? ¢ Bible study group? ¢ Personal?
¢ Missions?
¢ Date nights? ¢ Purchases? ¢ Fasting? ¢ Transportation?
¢
¢ Weekend getaways? ¢ Work projects? ¢ 7th year sabbatical ¢ Health?
¢
¢ Neighbors? plans? ¢ Education/training?
¢ Coming special FINANCIALLY
¢ Phone calling? events? ¢ Spiritual retreats ¢ Furnishings?
or special days of ¢ Spending plan?
¢ Correspondence? ¢ prayer? ¢ Kitchen?
¢ Giving plans?
¢ Christmas cards? VOCATIONALLY ¢ Electronics
¢ Confession? ¢ Budget plans?
¢ ¢ Present schedule? ¢ Ent/Rec/Sports
¢ Forgivness? ¢ Savings?
INTELLECTUALLY ¢ Desires/Goals? ¢ Children?
¢ ¢ Debts?
¢ Reading habits? ¢ Relationships? ¢
¢ ¢ Investments?
¢ Books to read? ¢ Changes? OTHER
SERVING OTHERS ¢ Record-keeping
¢ Further education? ¢ Problems? plan set-up? ¢
¢ What are my, yours,
¢ Special classes? ¢ Future schedule? our gift(s), talent(s), ¢ Records up-to-date? ¢
¢ Conf’s/seminars? ¢ Income matters? and interest(s)? ¢ Problem areas? ¢
¢ ¢ Coming changes? ¢ Civic groups? ¢ Insurance? ¢

Helpful websites to strengthen your marriage or family: www.familylife.com www.iquestions.com www.family.org

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 over 100 family questions
Ask or answer these family history and legacy questions
What is a legacy? A legacy by definition is something you “hand down or pass along” to others. When it comes to end-
of-this-life issues, many people focus on handing down money and possessions but miss out on handing down a legacy
of their life to their children, grandchildren, and/or loved ones. The truth is the money will soon be spent or redirected,
and the amount given will be forgotten. What will be remembered most is your living legacy of lessons learned, loving
counsel, and laughter springing from past memories that you share in stories, writings, or recordings.

The Bible speaks about passing along life legacies and our spiritual heritage to our families:
• Proverbs 13:22 A good man leaves an inheritance (legacy) for his children’s children.
• Psalm 71:18 Even when I am old and gray, do not forsake me, O God, till I declare your power to the next generation,
your might to all who are to come.
• Psalm 78:2-4 I will open my mouth in parables, I will utter hidden things, things from of old--what we have heard and
known, what our fathers have told us. We will not hide them from their children; we will tell the next generation the
praiseworthy deeds of the LORD, his power, and the wonders he has done.

recommendations: Or you can also ask a few questions each time you call
younger families: Let your children look through to talk on the phone.
the list and take turns asking any question they parents or grandparents: You may want to write
want to ask you. This would be especially good for out, record (audio or videotape), email, or put on a
conversations around the dinner table, in the car, or website your answers to some of these questions and
during family travels, vacations, and trips. then give them to your children and grandchildren.
adult children with aging parents: Look Choose from the following list of ideas to jog your
through the list and highlight some items you can use memory or to start family conversations about things
as conversation starters at holiday or family gatherings. you can hand down and pass along to your loved ones
If possible, have a recorder or videotape running. as part of your living legacy and spiritual heritage.

Places you’ve lived? Addresses, description, or location (if you can remember them)?

Names and cities of the schools you attended (grade school, middle/junior high, high school, colleges)?

Who were your best friends in school? What were they like?

What were your favorite pastimes or fun activities to do as a child?

What were some of your earliest memories about church?

What type of jobs did your parents have while you were growing up?

Did you ever move from one place to a new place? How did you feel? How did it impact your life?

What did you used to do to celebrate birthdays? Christmas? Easter? Thanksgiving? July 4th? Spring break?

What were your family finances like while you were growing up? How did that affect you?

What did your family do on the weekends? Special outings? Vacations? Where did they go for trips?

Did you ever take lessons or special classes (music, art, sports, etc.)? Did you ever collect anything?

When you were a child or a teenager, what did you want to be when you grew up?
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What was a favorite school subject, school memory, or year/grade in school? Favorite teacher? Why?

How did you get to school (walk, bus, parents drive you, car pool, or…)? How far was it?

Were you ever in band, choir, club, school play or drama production, student council, sports team, etc.?

What type of grades did you have in grade school? Why? Jr. High or Middle school? High school? College?

If you played sports, what sport and position did you play? Did you ever score/win? Were you ever hurt?
What were some of the biggest highlights and memories you have from being on this team?

Did you ever go to school dances or proms?

Was there ever a big tragedy among your immediate family, relatives, or friends?

Were you ever taken or called to the principal’s office? Why? Did you ever go through a time of rebellion?

Special or silly talents or abilities you had growing up (or still have)?

Did you ever have any nicknames growing up? What were they? Who gave them to you?

What do you remember about the people and the neighborhood where you grew up? What did the kids do for fun
in your neighborhood? What were some funny stories or people you remember?

What were experiences you had growing up camping, hunting, fishing, going on vacations, going to camp, going to summer
school, being on a farm, going on retreats, being in the scouts, etc.?

Awards, trophies, records, badges, medals, scholarships, elections, or prizes you won?

What about college—if you didn’t go, why not? If you did go, what was your major and why did you choose this major?

First crush? First kiss? First serious boyfriend/girlfriend? First heartbreak? First job(s)? First car?

Most funny, unique, memorable, amazing, unusual memories you have of growing up?

Names (and cities where they live or lived) of aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents?

What were your political affiliations, beliefs, involvements, offices, or views of voting and citizenship?

Did you have physical or medical problems as a child or in your adult life?
Were you ever in a serious accident? Were you ever in a hospital?

What was the biggest event you ever attended (concert, conference, rally, game, etc.)?

The three people that have had the greatest influence on you—what did you learn from them?

Lessons learned from failures or difficulties in your life? Hardest times in your life?

Places you’ve traveled? Most exciting or fun things you’ve ever done?

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 Were you in any clubs, fraternities/sororities, civic groups, associations, non-profit boards, or government groups? Did you hold
any leadership positions? Were you ever elected to a special office?

What was some of the best advice you ever received? Who gave it to you?

What are some of the most important lessons you learned about cars?

How or when you met your spouse? Why were you attracted to them? Details about your dating, courtship, engagement, wedding
day, honeymoon, and early years before children? How did you know this was the person God had for you? Did you almost marry
someone else—and if yes, what happened?

Marriage - How are you different from each other? How do these differences complement and strengthen you as people, as a
couple, and as parents?

Favorite memories of your children? Most difficult, fun, or frightening experiences with your children?

Did you ever invent anything, write a book, make a musical recording, or…?

Lessons you learned along the way about money - earning, saving, giving, borrowing, investing, budgeting, gambling, credit,
record keeping, paying taxes, shopping, etc.?

Lessons you learned about marriage and relationships - loving, forgiving, caring, helping, talking, or more?

Names of your sister(s), brother(s), their spouse (and where they live) and their children (and where they live)? How did you get
along with your sister(s) and brother(s)?

Special attributes and abilities you see in each child and/or grandchildren? Things about them or special times when you were
really proud of them?

What do you remember about how you chose each child’s name?

Specific wishes and desires you have for your children and/or grandchildren?

Favorite aunt/uncle, coach, teacher, employer, friend, pastor, etc.? Why?

What are some of your favorite songs, funny songs, and hymns? If you can, sing them.

Jobs, vocations, occupations, and employers you’ve had over your lifetime?

What was the dumbest, bravest, most foolish, courageous, funniest, or smartest thing you ever did?

What were the circumstances or people that influenced you on your primary career path?

If you were in the military, where did you go, what was your rank, what are your most vivid memories, what did you
learn, and how did you benefit from the military?

What are some funny stories from your personal life or family?

Most meaningful successes or things you have been proud of in life?

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Favorite jokes and stories? Favorite recipes, meals, and desserts? Favorite pets? Favorite toys? Favorite vacation(s) or trip(s)?
Favorite house? Favorite place you lived? Favorite movie(s)? Favorite bands/singers?

Encounters you have had with any famous people?

What were the major life changing events in your life?

Instruments played? If you can, record your playing.

Stories and facts you know about your parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, or siblings?

Where were your parents or grandparents born/raised? What did they do for a living? What do you most remember about them?
What was their spiritual background/heritage? What stories do you recall about them? Where are they buried (if known, provide
name of town/city, cemetery, address, row #, lot #, block #, section #)?

Where (cities/towns/areas) are most of your relatives living in (sisters/brothers, cousins, aunts/uncles)?

Lessons have you learned about gambling, lying, cheating, laziness, immorality, drinking, smoking, or drugs?

Favorite hobbies, interests, activities, and sports you enjoyed in your lifetime?

Greatest tragedies or disappointments you’ve experienced? Greatest regrets? Greatest joys?

YOUR SPIRITUAL HERITAGE—Churches you were part of?

Circumstances and details on how you were born again?

When were you baptized?

In what ways or places have you served the Lord?

Spiritual gifts God gave you? How you used your time/abilities/gifts to serve and follow the Lord?

Stories of God’s leading, provision, calling, faithfulness, forgiveness, or more?

People that most influenced you in your spiritual journey? How did they impact your life?

Things you learned and practiced about reading, studying, memorizing, and obeying the Bible?

Favorite Bible verses? Explain why these are special (or stories) about how God used these verses in your life?

How and when you came to be a generous giver? What ministries did you faithfully support? Why?

Are you assured and confident you will go to heaven when you die? What are you basing your answer on?

Other:

SPECIAL NOTE ABOUT PHOTOS: Take one evening a month and go through your family photos and write the approximate date,
place, names, and connections (i.e. cousin, aunt/uncle, grandparents, etc.) of other people that may be in the photo.

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 couple’s Family Tree
Record the person’s name and then add any of the following information:
n B (Date of birth/location) n L (Current location: city/town) n C (Cementary location) n SS (Step-sibling)
n W (Wedding date/location) n O (Primary occupation/s) n A (Adopted)
n S (Spouse’s first name/maiden name) n D (Date of death) n H (Half-sibling)

CHILD 1:

Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
CHILD 2:

Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
CHILD 3:

Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
CHILD 4:

Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:
Grandchild
Great Grandchildren:

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 Man’s Family Tree
Record the people’s names and then add any of the following information:
n B (Date of birth/location) n L (Current location: city/town) n C (Cementary location) n SS (Step-sibling)
n W (Wedding date/location) n O (Primary occupation/s) n A (Adopted)
n S (Spouse’s first name/maiden name) n D (Date of death) n H (Half-sibling)

FATHER:
Father’s Father:
Father’s Mother:
Father’s Sibling 1/Spouse:
Children:
Father’s Sibling 2/Spouse:
Children:
Father’s Sibling 3/Spouse:
Children:
MOTHER:
Mother’s Father:
Mother’s Mother:
Mother’s Sibling 1/Spouse:
Children:
Mother’s Sibling 2/Spouse:
Children:
Mother’s Sibling 3/Spouse:
Children:
SIBLING 1/SPOUSE:
Child 1: Child 2:
Children: Children:
Child 3 Child 4:
Children: Children:
SIBLING 2/SPOUSE:
Child 1: Child 2:
Children: Children:
Child 3 Child 4:
Children: Children:
SIBLING 3/SPOUSE:
Child 1: Child 2:
Children: Children:
Child 3 Child 4:
Children: Children:
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 WOMan’s Family Tree
Record the people’s names and then add any of the following information:
n B (Date of birth/location) n L (Current location: city/town) n C (Cementary location) n SS (Step-sibling)
n W (Wedding date/location) n O (Primary occupation/s) n A (Adopted)
n S (Spouse’s first name/maiden name) n D (Date of death) n H (Half-sibling)

FATHER:
Father’s Father:
Father’s Mother:
Father’s Sibling 1/Spouse:
Children:
Father’s Sibling 2/Spouse:
Children:
Father’s Sibling 3/Spouse:
Children:
MOTHER:
Mother’s Father:
Mother’s Mother:
Mother’s Sibling 1/Spouse:
Children:
Mother’s Sibling 2/Spouse:
Children:
Mother’s Sibling 3/Spouse:
Children:
SIBLING 1/SPOUSE:
Child 1: Child 2:
Children: Children:
Child 3 Child 4:
Children: Children:
SIBLING 2/SPOUSE:
Child 1: Child 2:
Children: Children:
Child 3 Child 4:
Children: Children:
SIBLING 3/SPOUSE:
Child 1: Child 2:
Children: Children:
Child 3 Child 4:
Children: Children:
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 notes

For 50+ more “Financial Funnies”cartoons by Brian Kluth, go to: www.Kluth.org/cartoons.htm

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 Special Days,
Birthdays & Anniversaries
of Family, Relatives & Friends
To view filled out samples, go to: www.MyFamilyForms.org/sample.htm

JANUARY FEBRUARY MARCH

APRIL MAY JUNE

JULY AUGUST SEPTEMBER

OCTOBER NOVEMBER DECEMBER

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 GIFT GIVING PLANNER
To view filled out samples, go to: www.MyFamilyForms.org/sample.htm
Checklist of people you may want to include on this page…
¢ Spouse ¢ Children ¢ Grandchildren ¢ Parents ¢ Grandparents ¢ Siblings ¢ Aunts/Uncles ¢ Friends
¢ Nieces/Nephews ¢ Neighbors ¢ Co-workers ¢ Children of friends/family ¢ Clergy ¢ Teachers ¢ Coaches

To help you purchase GREAT GIFTS, find out (or have people fill out) some of their FAVORITE…
A= Sports teams F= Sports K= Artists O= Flowers T= Restaurants
B= Singers/bands G= Entertainment L= Collectibles P= Gemstones U= Foods
C= Authors H= Hobbies M= Fragrances Q= Jewelry V= Countries
D= Toys I= Movies N= Perfumes/ R= Electronics W= Colors
E= Recreation J= Actors colognes S= Video games X= Clothing styles/brands

NAME: Birthday: Anniversary: Clothing sizes:

Favorites (choose from list above)

Gifts purchased/dates:

NAME: Birthday: Anniversary: Clothing sizes:

Favorites (choose from list above)

Gifts purchased/dates:

NAME: Birthday: Anniversary: Clothing sizes:

Favorites (choose from list above)

Gifts purchased/dates:

NAME: Birthday: Anniversary: Clothing sizes:

Favorites (choose from list above)

Gifts purchased/dates:

NAME: Birthday: Anniversary: Clothing sizes:

Favorites (choose from list above)

Gifts purchased/dates:

NAME: Birthday: Anniversary: Clothing sizes:

Favorites (choose from list above)

Gifts purchased/dates:

NAME: Birthday: Anniversary: Clothing sizes:

Favorites (choose from list above)

Gifts purchased/dates:

NAME: Birthday: Anniversary: Clothing sizes:

Favorites (choose from list above)

Gifts purchased/dates:
Make photocopies of this page for additional people.

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 LIST OF ACCOUNTS
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Provide important and confidential information for the following types of accounts:
n CK (Checking Account) n LO (Loans & Payments)
n SV (Savings Account) n ATM (ATM Card/Pin #)
n RF (Retirement/Pension Fund) n WS (Website Account)
n ST (Stocks) n EM (Email Account)
n BD (Bonds) n ON (Online shopping accounts—E-bay, Paypal, etc.)
n CC (Credit Card) n INS (Insurance—Life, Medical, House, Vehicle, Disability, etc.)
n INV (Investment) n CHR (Charitable Giving Account)
n MO (Mortgage) n FF (Frequent Flyer Account)
n VP (Vehicle Payment)
NOTE: Treat this info with the UTMOST CONFIDENCE. Only give to a spouse and/or individuals involved in your finances and estate.

Company and/or Website Contact Person $ Value

Type: Acct #: Phone #:
Account Name: & Login Info: (if applicable): & Date:

To research if your family has any unclaimed money sitting in insurance companies, banks, utility companies, stocks, etc.,
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 INCOME SOURCES
“ Honor the Lord by giving him the first part of all your income.” Proverbs 3:9
“Everything comes from you, (Oh LORD) and we have given you only what comes from your hand.” 1 Chronicles 29:14-15
This form will help you and your spouse understand your annual income sources.
It will also help you assess how much you may want to give from your various income sources
if you want to be more faithful and generous in your Christian and charitable giving.

R Normal Cash & Income Over 12 Months Amount: Freq: ___% =

¢ Income, wage or salary from:

Step 1
¢ Income, wage or salary from:
¢ Income, wage or salary from:
¢ Overtime pay
R Check any item that ¢ Bonuses
is a source of God-given ¢ Tax returns/refunds
cash flow or income that ¢ Commissions
you normally receive ¢ Business income
over a 12 month period. ¢ Severance pay

Step 2
¢ Part-time work or moonlighting
¢ Consulting fees
¢ Sale of products or assets
Determine an ¢ Home-based business or services
approximate “financial ¢ Sale of stuff I/we own
value” ($ amount) that ¢ Workmen’s Compensation
this item represents ¢ Honorariums
in your life. ¢ Social Security
Indicate the frequency ¢ Pension income
of how often you receive ¢ Military pay or pension
these funds: ¢ Annuity
¢ Union pay or pension
W (Weekly) ¢ Disability income
B (Bi-weekly or ¢ Unemployment or workmen’s compensation
2x a month) ¢ Spousal or child support
M (Monthly) ¢ Trust fund
Q (Quarterly) ¢ Inheritance monies
Y (Yearly/annually) ¢ Insurance settlement
S (Sporadically) ¢ Legal settlement
O (One-time amount) ¢ Income from rental or leased properties

Step 3
¢ Interest and/or dividends
¢ Repayment of personal loans
¢ Royalties from copyrights/patents
Indicate the percentage ¢ Rebates/Refunds/Returns/Coupons
(%) you have prayerfully ¢ Government welfare, food stamps, etc.
decided you will ¢ Other:
normally give to honor ¢ Other:
the Lord from whatever
CHILDREN (if applicable)
God-given resources He
has provided for you. ¢ Work projects
¢ Allowances
¢ Cash gifts (birthday, Christmas, etc.)
¢ Part-time jobs or home business
¢ Babysitting, lawn mowing, etc.
¢ Other:

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 LIFESTYLE EXPENSES

Step 1 As best as you can, estimate how much money you are spending on a “monthly basis” in each
Money talks: It says, “Good bye!” Where is your money going?

area listed on the next page (Helpful hint: Take ANY quarterly, yearly, sometimes and one-time
expenses and prorate this amount on a monthly basis).
HELPFUL NOTE: If you would like to find out how your spending compares to recommended
national budget averages, visit: www.crown.org and click on tools and their budget guide calculator.

AVG: “MONTHLY AVERAGES” OF WHERE YOUR MONEY GOING AS OF ___/___/2____

$ GIVING: Church: $____ Building: $____ Needy: $____ Missions: $____ Other: $____ Other: $____
HOUSING: Rent/Mortgage: $____ Utilities: $____ Trash $____ Lawn: $____ Maintenance/Repairs: $____
$
Furnishing/Decorations: $____ Special Projects/Purchases: $____ Other: $____ Other: $____
$ TELECOMMUNICATIONS: Phone: $____ Lg Distance: $____ Cell Phone/s $____ Internet: $____ Text: $_____
$ VEHICLES: Payments: $____ Gas: $____ Insurance: $____ Maint/Repair: $____ License: $____ Other: $____
$ GROCERIES AND HOUSEHOLD: Groceries: $____ Supplies: $____ Miscellaneous: $____
ENTERTAINMENT/RECREATION: Cable: $____ Videos/Movies: $____ Lessons: $____ Health Club: $____
Crafts/Hobbies: $____ Sports: $____ Events/Concerts: $____ Music: $____ Vacations: $____ Trips: $____
Camping: $____ Vacation Home: $____ Hunting/Fishing: $____ School/Scout/Civic: $____
$
Dinners Out: $____ Other: $____ Other: $____ Alcohol*: $____ Tobacco*: $____ Gambling*: $____
*These are not recommended uses, but rather are listed to help someone determine how much money they may
be spending unwisely on these items.
$ INSURANCES: Medical: $____ Life: $____ Disability: $____ Other: $____
$ CLOTHING: Man: $____ Woman: $____ Children: $____
MISCELLANEOUS: Fast Food/Restaurants: $_____ Meals out at work: $____ Childcare: $____ Toiletries: $___
$
Hair: $____ Pets: $____ Vet: $____ Subscriptions: $____ Coffee:$_____ Vending Mach:$_____ Other: $____

GIFT GIVING & CELEBRATIONS: Anniversaries: $____ Birthdays: $____ Weddings/Babies/Graduations: $____
$
Holiday Parties: $____ Children’s Birthday Parties (cake/activity/favors/etc.): $_____ Other: $____
$ MEDICAL: Doctors: $____ Hospitals: $____ Dental: $____ Prescriptions: $____ Other: $____
$ SAVINGS/INVESTMENTS: Savings: $____ Pension: $____ College: $____ Investment: $____ Other: $____
$ EDUCATION: Tuition: $____ Books: $____ Fees/Activities: $____ Room & Board: $____ Other: $____
$ DEBTS: Cred Cd Pymts: $____ Personal Loans: $____ Student Loans: $____ Medical Bills: $____ Other: $___

Step 2 Prayerfully review the list. Are there any items the Lord may be showing you that you could
eliminate or modify to become more generous and/or to eliminate any indebtedness:
• You don’t really “need” and could eliminate from your spending?
• You could meet this need more affordably by shopping around or by lowering your expectations?
• You should decrease or eliminate because you realize this expenditure is hurtful to your personal health
OR to your spiritual growth and service?
• You could postpone or trust God to meet this need in another way?

Step 3 Based on items you identified in step 2, determine any increased amount you could give to the
Lord monthly to meet a special need or giving opportunity ($________/month for increased giving)
and/or to eliminate any indebtedness ($________/month for paying off debt).
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 LIABILITIES & DEBTS
“The borrower is servant to the lender.” Proverbs 22:7
“The wicked borrow and do not repay, but the righteous give generously.” Psalms 37:21
“Pay all your debts except the debt of love for others - never finish paying that!” Romans 13:8

There are Christian classes and counselors nationwide available to help you get out of debt:
www.Crown.org • www.DaveRamsey.com • www.goodsenseministry.com
www.cheapskatemonthly.com has a great online get-out-of-debt calculator (RPDP = Rapid Debt Repayment Plan)

Today’s Date: Total Minimum

Lender Account # Phone # Balance Payment
% Rate
___/___/20___
Sample First Bank VISA 3456-7891-0123-4567 303-555-1234 $3211 $125 18%
Mortgage 1
Mortgage 2
Home Equity
Car loan
Car loan
Furn/Appliance
Furn/Appliance
Rec Equip/Veh
Rec Equip/Veh
Electronics
Electronics
Credit Card 1
Credit Card 2
Credit Card 3
Credit Card 4
Credit Card 5
Medical 1
Medical 2
Medical 3
Medical 4
Medical 5
Medical 6
Student Loan
Student Loan
Personal Loan
Personal Loan
Business Loan
Business Loan
IRS/Taxes
Other
Other
People who owe money to me/us:

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 ASSETS & POSSESSIONS
Periodically, it is wise to prayerfully consider what God has Visit www.idonate.com if you want to donate some of
entrusted to you: these assets to a church, charity or Christian organization.
1. R Determine the items (and the market or resale Important note: It is wise to discuss with your
value) you have in your possession. charity, church, or ministry the best way to give an asset.
2. Prayerfully and honestly determine which of these Depending on the value and type of asset, it may be wise
items you need and are actually using? to have the organization assist you in obtaining the help of
3. Are there any items that could be passed along to an experienced estate planning professional to determine
someone you know who could benefit from their use? how to most effectively and affordably “transfer” an asset.
4. Are there any items that should be sold? Careful planning with experienced professional counsel
5. Are there any items (in the near future or after your versed in evaluating tax and estate planning issues will
funeral) that could be given to benefit your church, maximize the value of this gift to a non-profit, to yourself
a Christian ministry, or charity? and to your family.
“From what you have, take an offering for the LORD. Everyone who is willing is to bring to the LORD.” Ex 35:4-5

Estimated Details, descriptions, or specific desires

Value for these items. If applicable, identify
List of Assets You as of: any item(s) you feel God would like you
R Have In Your Possession to give to a ministry now or in the future
(i.e., sell the item and give the cash proceeds OR donate the
________ specific item to a ministry to use or sell)

¢ Vehicle:
¢ Vehicle:
¢ Checking Account(s) & Cash
¢ CD’s or Savings Accounts
¢ Motorcycles/Recreational Vehicles
¢ Motor Home/RV/Trailer/Camper
¢ Boats/Watercraft & Equipment
¢ Home
¢ Timeshare, Condo, Vacation Property
¢ Sports, Exercise, Hunting Equipment
¢ Workshop or Garage Tools/Equipment
¢ Craft or Camera Equipment/Supplies
¢ Musical instruments
¢ Appliances/Furniture/Furnishings
¢ Jewelry or Gems or Furs
¢ Antiques, Art, Memorabilia or Heirlooms
¢ Books – Videos – Albums
¢ China/Crystal/Glassware/Silver/etc.
¢ Stocks/Bonds/Mutual funds/CDs
¢ US Notes/Bills/Bonds
¢ Commodities
¢ Pension Funds (Employer or Military)
¢ Retirement Accounts
¢ College Savings Funds
¢ Collections (Coins/Stamps/Crafts/Toys)
¢ Trust Fund(s) or Inheritance Funds
¢ Rental Properties
¢ Business, Farm, Ranch: Buildings/Land
¢ Business Vehicles/Equipment/Supplies
¢ Undeveloped Land or Farmland
¢ Livestock, Animals
¢ Possessions in Storage Units
¢ Foundation or Donor-Advised Funds
¢ Business Partnerships/Ownership
¢ Real Estate Partnerships
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 CHRISTIAN AND CHARITABLE GIVING
Identify: “What ministries, projects, programs, and people do you care about and want to support?”
“You are generous because of your faith.
And I am praying that you will really put your generosity to work, for in so doing
you will come to an understanding of all the good things we can do for Christ.” Philemon 5-7

Step 1: Identify the Christian

ministries and charities you are currently
supporting or would like to support If desired,
(see ministries list below.)
Support If desired,
Special

Step 2: After prayer, circle any

Ministries & Charities in the $ or %
Gift
You Support: past 12 to include
within
existing ministry you support OR a
months in will?
1-5 years?
new ministry opportunity that could
best utilize your increased or sacrificial
support. Your local church

Step 3: Determine “future” giving

Benevolence/help for needy
Church building project(s)
priorities, amounts, or percentages you
believe God wants you to give to within
the next few years.

Step 4: Determine end-of-life gifts

(percentages or amounts) you feel God
wants you to give for a select group
(specific church, ministries, or charities).
suggestion: If you give 10% or more
to the Lord’s work, consider tithing your
normal expected income (your main
income source) to your local church.
Then consider giving 10% or more from
all your other income sources to support
other ministries and special needs.

TYPES OF CHRISTIAN &

CHARITABLE ORGANIZATIONS:

• CHURCH: Pastoral staff, missions,

benevolence, youth, children, adult,
women, men, worship, facilities,
media, denomination, etc.

• BUILDINGS & EQUIPMENT: New

facilities, relocation, expansion,
renovations, vehicles, computers, • SPECIAL GROUPS: Children, women, men, families, minorities, etc.
program equipment, etc.
• MISSIONS: Missionaries, home missions, international mission organizations,
• NEEDY: Widows, homeless, urban 10/40 Window, church planting, theological education, relief, leadership
ministries, crisis pregnancy, prisoners, training and development, economic development, facilities, etc.
refugees, relief, orphans, rescue • OUTREACH/DISCIPLESHIP: Evangelism, evangelistic crusades, media,
missions, disbled, scholarships, etc. magazine, books, TV, radio, financial, campus, professional groups, sports,
• EDUCATION: Schools, colleges, men, women, children, teens, camps, conference centers, etc
universities, seminaries, etc. • CULTURAL/ARTS/WORSHIP/MUSIC

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 Helpful Internet Resources for
Retirees, Aging Adults and Caregivers
n Because I Love You Christian Planning Guide www.MyFamilyForms.org 30+ pages of valuable resources,
checklists and forms for spiritual matters, finances, household information, documents, family tree, life legacy,
funeral plans, wealth sharing/distribution, aging parents, child guardians, estate planning and more!
n Christian Retirees with RVs - Volunteer Service Opportunities www.workersonwheels.com
www.mmap.org www.sowerministry.org www.rvics.com www.habitat.org/gv/rv.html
n Christian Volunteer Opportunities for Retirees www.servantopportunities.net www.finishers.org
n Kingdom Quest Christian Website www.kingdomquest.com/seniors.html Links to 100 senior websites.
n 5 Wishes Booklet www.agingwithdignity.org A valuable “fill-in-the-blank” document to communicate your near-the-
end-of-this-life medical, personal, emotional and spiritual wishes for family and medical staff/professionals.
n American Association of Retired Persons www.aarp.org
n Administration on Aging www.aoa.gov
n Solutions for Better Aging www.agenet.com Articles, online tools and
checklists on caregiving, housing, legal, insurance, health, drugs and home.
n Aging Parents and Elder Care www.aging-parents-and-elder-care.com
Excellent source for valuable articles, checklists, referrals and website links.
n Alzheimer’s Association www.alz.org
n Assisted Living Info www.assistedlivinginfo.com Online guide for selecting
an assisted living facility, retirement community, or other personal care facility
anywhere in the United States.
n Benefits Checkup www.benefitscheckup.org Helps you find and enroll in federal, state,
local and private programs that help pay for prescription drugs, utility bills, meals, health care and other needs.
n Caregiving website www.caregiving.com
n Center for MEDICAID and MEDICARE Services www.cms.hhs.gov Valuable online help and answers.
n Center for Medicare Advocacy www.medicareadvocacy.org Non-profit organization which provides
education, advocacy, and legal assistance to help elders and people with disabilities obtain necessary healthcare.
n Children of Aging Parents Association www.caps4caregivers.org A nonprofit organization serving
caregivers of the elderly or chronically ill with reliable information, referrals and support.
n Christian Association of Senior Adults www.gocasa.org
n Drugs.com www.drugs.com Comprehensive info on 24,000+ different drugs and medicines.
n Eldercare Locator www.eldercare.gov
n Family Caregiver Alliance www.caregiver.org
n Focus on the Family www.family.org Valuable articles, resources and referrals from a Christian perspective.
n Government Senior Citizens Resources www.seniors.gov
n Health Assistance Partnership www.healthassistancepartnership.org Information about the needs of Medicaid
and Medicare beneficiaries, commercially insured consumers, and the uninsured.
n Mayo Clinic www.mayoclinic.com Health and wellness information from the Mayo clinic.
n Medicare www.medicare.gov The official US site for people with Medicare. Information about nursing homes,
physicians, benefits, and coverage questions.
n National Alliance for Caregiving www.caregiving.org
n National Family Caregivers Association www.nfcacares.org
n Natl Assoc of Professional Geriatric Care Managers www.caremanager.org On-line referral service.
n Nursing Home Info www.nursinghomeinfo.com Info about choosing a nursing home, listings of facilities and a
needs assessment tool.
n Senior Net www.seniornet.org Provides older adults education for and access to computer technologies.
n Social Security Administration www.socialsecurity.gov
n Web MD www.webmd.com Online medical information and advice.
n Well Spouse Foundation www.wellspouse.org Support to partners of the chronically ill and/or disabled.

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 Family Medical Information
Insurance (company, policy number, phone number):
Location of insurance cards (wallet/s, desk drawer or?)
Medicaid/Medicare info:
Location of organ donor card/instructions/permissions:
Prescription/Dental/Vision:
Doctors/Dentist/Etc. (name, specialty, phone number):

Medical History
Name of family member/relative and approximate age at time of diagnosis (if known)
Heart disease:
Stroke:
Cancer (specific type/s):
Depression/suicide:
Diabetes:
High cholesterol:
High blood pressure:
Miscarriages:
Infant/childhood deaths:
Allergies:
Amputations (reason):
Other:
Other:
Immunization history
Write names of family members and date(s) immunizations given (if known)
Hepatitis A:
Hepatitis B:
Influenza:
MMR:
Pneumonia:
Meningitis:
Tetanus:
Chicken pox:
major surgeries
Write person’s name, type of surgery, year and/or approximate age at the time of surgery (if known)

prescriptions
Write person’s name, doctor’s name, name of medication, reason for medication (if known)

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 MEDICAL & END-OF-THIS-LIFE DECISIONS
One of the easiest, most effective, and most broadly-recognized resources to help you make medical and end-of-this-life
decisions is a booklet called, Five Wishes®. There are over four million in print. The booklet costs $5 (or $1 each for 100
copies or more). Place orders at www.agingwithdignity.org or by calling 1-888-594-7437.

The Five Wishes document is one of many possible Medical Power of Attorney forms, important forms that help you express
how you want to be treated if you are seriously ill and unable to speak for yourself. It is important to sign a Medical Power
of Attorney that is valid in the state where you live, and that it is properly witnessed and notarized. The Five Wishes form
is unique among living will and health agent forms because it looks to all of a person’s needs:
medical, personal, emotional and spiritual. It also encourages you to discuss your wishes with
your family and physician.

Five Wishes lets your family and doctors know:

1. Who you want to make health care decisions for you when you
can’t make them yourself.
2. The kind of medical treatment you want or don’t want.
3. How comfortable you want to be.
4. How you want people to treat you.
5. What you want your loved ones to know.
What is the Five Wishes booklet? The following information is from the Five Wishes website
(www.agingwithdignity.org). Five Wishes is an easy-to-use legal document that lets you plan in advance for how you want to
be cared for in case you become seriously ill. Some people refer to it as an “advance directive” because when you complete
Five Wishes you give direction to your doctor and family, in advance, on how you want to be treated.
• Wish One lets you choose the person you want to make decisions for you when you can’t make them for yourself.
Lawyers call it a “durable power of attorney for health care.”
• Wish Two is a living will. It lets you put in writing the kind of medical treatment you want, or don’t want, if you
become seriously ill and can’t communicate to anyone.
• Wishes Three and Four let you describe in detail how you want to be treated so that your dignity can be
maintained.
• Wish Five gives you a chance to tell others how you want to be remembered, and express other things that might
be in your heart, like forgiveness.

Why should I fill out Five Wishes? Without an advance directive like Five Wishes, you may have no control over
important medical care decisions that will be made if you ever get seriously ill – such as whether to give you life-support
treatment or aggressively treat your pain. Everyone has different wishes and yours won’t be followed unless you make them
clear. Not expressing your wishes can put your family, friends and doctor in the difficult position of guessing what kind of
treatment you want, which could lead to disagreements. Completing Five Wishes gives you control over your care and peace
of mind for you and your loved ones.

When do I need to use Five Wishes? The best time to fill out a document like this is before you face a health crisis.
You never know when you are going to need Five Wishes, and many people put it off until it’s too late. If you are over age
18, you should complete the forms now. If you are married, you and your spouse each need to fill out your own Five Wishes
document.

When does Five Wishes take effect? You will always make your own health care decisions, if you are able to talk
with your doctor and understand what is being said. Five Wishes only takes effect when you are too ill to communicate. So if
you have a stroke and can’t speak, or are in a coma, then your Five Wishes and the person you chose to be your health care
agent, can help direct your care with your doctor.

Is Five Wishes a legal document? Yes. It was written with the help of the American Bar Association’s Commission
on the Legal Problems of the Elderly. It meets legal requirements under the advance directive statutes in most states.
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 your most important spiritual decision:
Steps to Peace With God
The greatest gift you will ever be able to leave your family is to give them the assurance they know what will happen
to you when you leave this world. In order to do this, you must receive the greatest gift that God willingly offers you,
the free gift of eternal life. The Bible says in Romans 6:23, “The wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life
through Christ Jesus our Lord.” Read through the rest of this page to know what you must do in order to receive this
free gift and live forever with God.

1. God’s Plan--Peace And Life

God loves you and wants you to experience His peace and life. The Bible says, Our choice
“For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that results in
whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have life.” John 3:16 separation
People from God
2. Our Problem (Sinfall) God. (Holy)
Being at peace with God is not automatic because you by nature are
separated from God. The Bible says, “For all have sinned and fall short
of the glory of God.” Romans 3:23
There is only one remedy
3. God’s Remedy--The Cross for this problem of
God’s love bridges the gap of separation between God and you. When Jesus separation.
Christ died on the Cross and rose from the grave, He paid the penalty for
your sins. The Bible says, “He personally carried the load of our sins in his Good Works

own body when he died on the cross...” 1 Peter 2:24 People Religion God
(Sinfall) (Holy)
4. Our Response--Receive Christ Philosoph
y
You can cross the bridge into God’s family when you receive Christ by Morality
personal invitation. The Bible says, “But as many as received Him, to them
He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in
His name...” John 1:12 Are you here... or here?
To receive Christ you need to do four things:
1) ADMIT your spiritual need. “I am a sinner.”
2) REPENT and be willing to turn from your sin. CHRIST God
3) BELIEVE that Jesus Christ died for you on the cross.
People Peace
4) RECEIVE through prayer, Jesus Christ into your heart and life. Sin
Forgiveness
Rebellion
The Bible says (Christ is speaking), “Behold, I stand at the door and knock; Abundant Life
Separation
Eternal Life
if any man hears my voice, and opens the door, I will come in...” Revelation 3:20
“Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” Romans 10:13
© Billy Graham Evangelistic Association
Here is a suggested prayer for you to pray: Used by permission

Dear Lord Jesus: Thank you for loving me. I know I am a sinner. I believe you died on the cross for
my sins. Right now, I turn from my sins and open the door of my heart and life to you. I receive you
as my personal Lord and Savior. Thank you for now saving me. Amen
I want my family and loved ones to know that I have prayed to receive Christ, and I have assurance that when I leave
this world I will go to heaven to be with my personal Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ.

Man’s signature:________________________________________________ Date:_______________

Woman’s signature:_____________________________________________ Date:_______________

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 PERSONAL INFORMATION & FUNERAL PLANS (Man)
Use additional paper if necessary

Full Name: Social Security Number:

Date of Birth (DOB): Place of Birth:
Driver’s License State/Number:
Full Name of Father: Father’s Birthplace: Father’s DOB:
Full Name of Mother: Mother’s Birthplace: Mother’s DOB:
Siblings and their current location:

If married, Wedding Date: Spouse’s Maiden Name: DOB:

Child #1 Name: DOB: Soc Sec #: Spouse:
Child #2 Name: DOB: Soc Sec #: Spouse:
Child #3 Name: DOB: Soc Sec #: Spouse:
Child #4 Name: DOB: Soc Sec #: Spouse:
Occupations/Position -Title/Years:
Employers/Years:
Do you have any life insurance with an Accidental Death Benefit (which pays extra if you died accidentally)?
Grade School/s, Middle School/Jr. Highs/Cities:
High School(s)/City/Year Graduated:
College(s)/Universities/Years/Cities/Degrees/Majors:
Places lived in/years:
Military from ________to _______ in the (branch): Rank: Serial #: Discharge Date:
Places served in Military:
Churches Attended/Cities/Years:
Professional Groups, Civic, Clubs, Lodges, Associations:
Closest friends:
FUNERAL PLANNING Provide instructions, notes, name(s), addresses, phone numbers, emails, etc.
Church/City: Phone:
Funeral Home/City: If prepaid, account #: Phone:
Cemetery/City: If purchased, what row #: Lot #: Block #: Section #:
Casket or Urn Company: If prepaid, account #: Phone:
Preferred Clergy:
Meal after funeral? Where?
Memorial Service (in another city?):
Obituaries (what cities?):
Preferred Pall Bearers:
Flowers? Or Memorials to?:
Special Songs Requested:
Special Scriptures:
Special Poems or Stories:
Preferred Singer/s:
Preferred Instrumentalist/s:
Preferred Speaker/s:
Should gospel (&/or testimony) be shared? Invitation for salvation given?
Instructions for choosing casket or urn:
Clothing or jewelry desires:
Grave marker choice:
Location of Will, Policies, etc.:
Viewing choice: ¢ Public Viewing ¢ Private family viewing only ¢ No viewing
Burial/Cremation choice: ¢ Casket followed by burial ¢ Casket followed by cremation ¢ Cremation
If casket, open or closed?
If cremated what to do with ashes?
Items for the memorial table:
Location of photos (computer files?)
Other:
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PERSONAL INFORMATION & FUNERAL PLANS (Woman)
Use additional paper if necessary

Full Name: Social Security Number:

Date of Birth (DOB): Place of Birth:
Driver’s License State/Number:
Full Name of Father: Father’s Birthplace: Father’s DOB:
Full Name of Mother: Mother’s Birthplace: Mother’s DOB:
Siblings and their current location:

If married, Wedding Date: Spouse’s Maiden Name: DOB:

Child #1 Name: DOB: Soc Sec #: Spouse:
Child #2 Name: DOB: Soc Sec #: Spouse:
Child #3 Name: DOB: Soc Sec #: Spouse:
Child #4 Name: DOB: Soc Sec #: Spouse:
Occupations/Position -Title/Years:
Employers/Years:
Do you have any life insurance with an Accidental Death Benefit (which pays extra if you died accidentally)?
Grade School/s, Middle School/Jr. Highs/Cities:
High School(s)/City/Year Graduated:
College(s)/Universities/Years/Cities/Degrees/Majors:
Places lived in/years:
Military from ________to _______ in the (branch): Rank: Serial #: Discharge Date:
Places served in Military:
Churches Attended/Cities/Years:
Professional Groups, Civic, Clubs, Lodges, Associations:
Closest friends:
FUNERAL PLANNING Provide instructions, notes, name(s), addresses, phone numbers, emails, etc.
Church/City: Phone:
Funeral Home/City: If prepaid, account #: Phone:
Cemetery/City: If purchased, what row #: Lot #: Block #: Section #:
Casket or Urn Company: If prepaid, account #: Phone:
Preferred Clergy:
Meal after funeral? Where?
Memorial Service (in another city?):
Obituaries (what cities?):
Preferred Pall Bearers:
Flowers? Or Memorials to?:
Special Songs Requested:
Special Scriptures:
Special Poems or Stories:
Preferred Singer/s:
Preferred Instrumentalist/s:
Preferred Speaker/s:
Should gospel (&/or testimony) be shared? Invitation for salvation given?
Instructions for choosing casket or urn:
Clothing or jewelry desires:
Grave marker choice:
Location of Will, Policies, etc.:
Viewing choice: ¢ Public Viewing ¢ Private family viewing only ¢ No viewing
Burial/Cremation choice: ¢ Casket followed by burial ¢ Casket followed by cremation ¢ Cremation
If casket, open or closed?
If cremated what to do with ashes?
Items for the memorial table:
Location of photos (computer files?)
Other:

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 DISTRIBUTION OF SPECIAL PERSONAL POSSESSIONS
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This form helps you consider leaving specific personal items to specific people or ministries -- your children,
grandchildren, relatives, special friends, colleagues, church, Christian workers, ministries, charities, etc.
Items to be considered could include:
¢ Special collections ¢ Handmade items ¢ Bibles ¢ Craft items
¢ Jewelry ¢ Travel artifacts ¢ Sports/Hunting/Recreation ¢ Pictures or
¢ Instruments ¢ Family heirlooms Entertainment equipment Photographs
¢ Certain articles of clothing ¢ Dishes ¢ Electronics ¢ Tools
¢ Military paraphernalia ¢ Silverware ¢ Furniture ¢______________
¢ Awards ¢ Kitchenware ¢ Vehicles ¢______________
¢ Artwork ¢ Books ¢ Antiques ¢______________
In the form below, write a description for the specific item, then put a “P” after the item if you have personally talked with
the person about this item, and they know it has been promised to them. Put an “S” after the item if this gift will be a
surprise to them. To be a legally binding document, it will be important to provide this information to the person who
draws up your will or estate plans, so they can include this information as part of your official wishes.

Person/Relationship or
Description and Location of Item P or S
Ministry/Organization

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 EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION OF
FAMILY POSSESSIONS
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After the distribution of Special Personal Possessions (see previous form), there will usually be additional
items that need to be distributed. Use this form to equitably distribute remaining possessions.
Instructions:
A. Have one individual go through the remaining possessions and write down brief item descriptions
(Make additional copies of this form if necessary).
B. Make copies of this completed inventory and distribute to family members.
C. Allow everyone a specific time period (probably 24 or 48 hours) to fill out this sheet.
D. Have everyone put the following numbers by each item:
¢ 1=Would really like ¢ 2=Would be willing to take ¢ 3=No interest
E. Then have the executor of the estate, or a trusted family member, seek to equally and equitably divide
up the number of #1’s or #2’s each family member receives. Distribute unwanted items to charity.

Name(s) of family members:

Choice Choice Choice

Item Description Item Description Item Description
# # #
1 24 47

2 25 48

3 26 49

4 27 50

5 28 51

6 29 52

7 30 53

8 31 54

9 32 55

10 33 56

11 34 57

12 35 58

13 35 59

14 37 60

15 38 61

16 39 62

17 40 63

18 41 64

19 42 65

20 43 66

21 44 67

22 45 68

23 46 69

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 People AND Groups to Notify
About My HomeGoing
Suggestion: It is often possible to have your family contact “one key person” who will contact/call someone and
have them call others on your family’s behalf (e.g. one well networked cousin can contact all of our other cousins).

LOCATION OF MY ADDRESS BOOK: _________________________________________________.

Potential people or groups to be notified of your homegoing could include:

n Parents n Grandchildren n Hobby friends n Professionaljournals/
n Grandparents n Great Grandchildren n Churches magazines/newsletters
n Siblings n Employers n Civic Groups/Clubs n Alumni magazines
n Cousins n Sports friends n Fraternal Organizations n Current town/
n Aunts-Uncles n Work friends n Professional Organiza- city Newspapers
n Nieces-Nephews n Childhood friends tions/Associations n Past town/city
n Children n School friends Newspapers
Notice of my home going, funeral plans, and/or copies of my obituary should be sent to the following:

Person’s name, Group, Telephone or Email Who should they pass

Relationship
or Newspaper or Address along death info

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Items a Spouse, Family Member(s) or Executor Needs to Review and Act Upon
Date
(As Applicable)
1. Make sure the person’s organ donation wishes are followed.
2. Contact funeral home (if applicable, have prepaid funeral plans or life insurance information available).
3. Contact clergy and/or church.
4. Locate address book and notify family and friends (by phone and/or email).
5. Place obituary(s).
6. Contact Veterans Administration (Military honors for funeral and death benefits). www.va.gov
7. Conduct viewing and/or service(s).
8. Order an adequate number of death certificates from the funeral home (at least 10-15).
9. Locate will, trusts, important papers/documents/statements/memos/deeds/titles.
10. Review will, trust, estate, and probate information with executor and/or attorney (identify attorney fees).
11. Distribute personal possessions (as recorded in this booklet, will, or estate papers).
12. Write thank you notes for food, flowers, memorials, people who assisted in the service(s), etc.
13. Notify employer or employer’s HR department (apply for any life insurance benefits, pension benefits, transfer any
medical coverage into the name of the spouse).
14. Notify life insurance companies and apply for benefits.
15. Gather unpaid bills you find or that come in the mail. Organize the information for payment from the estate.
16. Notify the Social Security Department and apply for benefits. 1-800-772-1213 www.ssa.gov
17. Notify company(s) holding pension account(s) and apply for benefits.
18. Notify any provider of income source(s) about the person’s death.
19. Notify company(s) holding annuity account(s).
20. Notify the motor vehicle department and change titles for vehicles, boats, recreation vehicles.
21. Notify stock brokerage houses and investment companies where the person had accounts.
22. Notify motor vehicle departments.
23. Notify the post office.
24. Notify credit card companies (apply for any possible life insurance benefits that might exist on the account).
25. Notify bank(s) or credit union(s) and change account information.
26. If applicable, reestablish title/ownership of Safe Deposit Box.
27. Change all jointly held accounts, investments, mortgages.
28. Get help going through a person’s personal belongings—identify items you will keep, items you will give away
to specific individuals, and items you will donate or have picked up (by a church, Christian organization or a
local charity) for their use or resale.
29. Distribute any memorial gifts or charitable gifts to church, ministries, missionaries or non-profit organizations.
30. If applicable, apply for Veterans Administration benefits. www.va.gov
31. Review bank records and cancel automatic withdrawals related specifically to the deceased.
32. Notify any union, professional, religious, or fraternal organizations or associations to which the person belonged.
Some groups will announce this to their membership. Also, check to see if there are any life insurance benefits the
person may have had through their membership in these groups.
33. Review mail and cancel subscriptions and reoccurring charges (cell phone, etc.).
34. Contact Medicare for possible assistance with the final medical bills, if the person was 65 or over.
35. Finalize hospital bills, doctor bills, nursing home accounts.
36. Notify any creditors and mortgage companies (Note: See if any loans were insured. For example, the person may
have had a home owner’s insurance policy that pays off the mortgage at their death).
37. Locate previous tax records. File federal and state taxes for the year the person passed away.
38. Have executor transfer assets and inheritances to heirs and beneficiaries.
39. If applicable, become part of a grief support group or identify someone(s) who can journey with you through
the grieving and adjustment process.
40. Have an autoresponder setup on a person’s email address. After several months, delete email address.
41. Give charitable gifts or establish scholarship accounts in loving memory of the person that passed away.
42. Distribute any pictures, personal mementos, family heritage/legacy information to family, relatives, friends.
43. Research if there is any unclaimed money sitting in insurance companies, banks, utility companies, stocks, etc.,
go to: www.missingmoney.com

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 TOP 10 ESTATE PLANNING MISTAKES
Here is a “Top 10 List” pertaining to an important topic—-will and estate planning. This list may start you
thinking about your estate plan. Perhaps you’re making one or more of the following mistakes:
1. Thinking you don’t need an estate plan: No estate is too small, and you’re never too young to have an
estate plan. This lets your loved ones know how you want your assets distributed. Every adult, regardless
of age, should have an estate plan.
2. Putting off writing or updating your will: Later may be too late. It is especially important for families with
minor children to have a will specifying legal guardians and trustees.
3. Having a will as your total estate plan: There are other important parts to an estate plan besides a will.
Many of the forms in this Family Organizer will be vital to your family’s welfare.
4. Underestimating the size of your estate: Your estate is probably worth more than you think. Have you
considered life insurance, appreciated value of your home and property, potential inheritances, retirement
plans, etc.? Accurate values make a big difference in estate tax planning.
5. Leaving your entire estate to your spouse or having all assets in joint ownership with your spouse:
For some this may be a good plan, for others it might be the wrong thing to do. Poor planning can result in
substantial and unnecessary federal estate taxes or probate expense upon the death of the surviving spouse.
6. Not understanding estate taxes: Estate taxes may be considerably reduced or avoided with proper planning.
7. Not using the annual gift tax exclusion: This is a good way to enjoy sharing your estate with loved ones and
individuals now. It may also help reduce future estate taxes. As of 2008 you can give $12,000/person.
8. Keeping life insurance in your estate: Life insurance will be considered part of your taxable estate unless
you take steps to avoid this potential estate tax liability.
9. Failing to keep good records: All of your financial assets, accounts, wills, trusts, capital improvements,
insurance policies, etc., should be up-to-date and easy to find. You should tell someone you trust where
to find these important records.
10. Failing to name your church, Christian ministries, or charities in your estate plan: Have you considered
leaving part of your estate to God’s work? The government supports your decision to include Christian
causes in your estate plan, and such gifts can help reduce your taxes now and later.
Source: Dick Edic of www.visionresourcing.com Used by permission.

There are only three places to distribute your estate: family/friends, ministry/charity, or the government.
If you don’t do some basic planning, the government may get more than you ever intended,
Your family may be left confused, angry or short-changed, and God’s work will get nothing.

WHEN should you consider changing or updating your existing

will, trust, living will, estate, or charitable giving plans?
n You need to change your estate executor, personal representative, power of attorney, or medical power of attorney
because you have changed your mind, the person has died, or the selected person cannot fulfill this role.
n Additional children have been born or adopted, or your choice(s) of guardians has changed for underage children.
n You want to restate your end-of-this-life medical preferences and wishes.
n You have moved to a different state or have purchased real estate in a different state.
n Your financial affairs and assets have changed.
n You desire to make a specific or significant charitable gift to a church, ministry, or non-profit organization.
n A beneficiary has died.
n Tax laws have changed that will impact your estate.
n Professional advisors have shown you ways to restructure your estate plans to decrease your tax liability and
increase the amount you can leave to children, church, Christian ministries, or charities.
n Your attorney, accountant, or estate planner has advised you that changes are necessary.
n Your spouse has died, or you have become divorced.
n You want to include additional individuals in your estate plans (i.e., new grandchildren or great grandchildren).
n You want to change (add, delete, modify) how much a specific individual, church, ministry, or charity receives.

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 top 5 ways to Get Your House In Order
Facing Fundamental Issues Regarding Your Faith, Final Wishes, Finances, Family & Funeral
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“This is what the LORD says: Put your house in order, because you are going to die.” Isaiah 38:1

1. Get your faith in order

Eccl. 9:12 No man knows when his hour will come.
Heb. 9:27 It is destined that each person dies only once and after that comes
judgment. NLT
2 Cor. 5:10 We (Christ following believers) must all appear before the judgment
seat of Christ, that each one may receive what is due him for the things done while
in the body, whether good or bad.
1 John 5:11-13 This is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is
in his Son. He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does
not have life. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God
so that you may KNOW hat you have eternal life.  
John 3:3 Jesus declared, “I tell you the truth, no one can see the kingdom of God unless he is born again.”

2. Get your final wishes in order (medical/health care directives)

Prov. 27:12 A sensible man watches for problems ahead and prepares to meet them. The simpleton never looks and suffers
the consequences. TLB
2 Cor. 5:1-4 We know that when this tent we live in now is taken down-when we die and leave these bodies-we will have
wonderful new bodies in heaven, homes that will be ours forever-more, made for us by God himself and not by human hands.
How weary we grow of our present bodies. That is why we look forward eagerly to the day when we shall have heavenly bodies
that we shall put on like new clothes. For we shall not be merely spirits without bodies. These earthly bodies make us groan
and sigh.TLB

3. Get your finances in order

Prov. 27:23-24 Riches can disappear fast. And the king’s crown doesn’t stay in his family forever-so watch your business
interests closely. Know the state of your flocks and your herds.TLB
Prov. 3:9 Honor the Lord with your capital (wealth, riches, goods, possessions, substance) and sufficiency from righteous
labors and with the first fruits of all your income (revenues, increase, fruit, produce). AMP
Deut. 16:17 Each of you must bring a gift in proportion to the way the LORD your God has blessed you.

4. Get your family affairs in order

Prov. 13:22 A good man leaves an inheritance for his children’s children.
Prov. 20:21 An inheritance quickly gained at the beginning will not be blessed at the end.
(See also: Luke 15:11-24 Prodigal son).
Prov. 17:16 What use is money in the hand of a fool, since he has no desire to get wisdom?
Prov. 19:14 Houses (=a place to live) and wealth (=enough stuff for the place you live) are inherited from parents, but a
prudent wife is from the LORD.

5. Get your funeral celebration in order

1 Thess. 4:13-14 Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like
the rest of men, who have no hope. We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus
those who have fallen asleep in him.

The rest of this manual provides helpful Biblical insights, practical ideas, and helpful forms to better communicate your medical
wishes (health care directives), financial information, life legacy, Biblical generosity, and funeral planning desires with loved ones
and professionals.

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 9 BIBLICAL INSIGHTS FOR
END-OF-THIS-LIFE PLANNING
Biblical Insight 1: Recognize the certainty of your departure from this world and the need to get
your house in order
• Isaiah 38:1 This is what the LORD says: “Put your house in order, because you are going to die.”
Also look up: Eccl. 5:15, Prov. 27:12, Eccl. 9:12, Ps. 39:5-6, Eccl. 5:19-20, Eccl. 4:7-8, Eccl. 6:1-2.

Biblical Insight 2: Recognize the certainty of judgment to come and the opportunity for eternal life vs.
eternal punishment
• Heb. 9:27 It is destined that each person dies only once and after that comes judgment. NLT
• 2 Cor. 5:10 We (Christ following believers) must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, that each one may
receive what is due him for the things done while in the body, whether good or bad.
• 1 John 5:11-13 This is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. He who has the Son has
life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the
Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life.

Biblical Insight 3: Recognize the need to honor the Lord from whatever resources He has entrusted
to you while you are living AND when you are leaving this earth (i.e., legacy giving)
• Deut. 8:17-18 You may say to yourself, “My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me.”
But remember the LORD your God, for it is he who gives you the ability to produce wealth.
• Prov. 3:9 Honor the Lord with your capital (wealth, riches, goods, possessions, substance) and sufficiency from
righteous labors and with the first fruits of all your income (revenues, increase, fruit, produce). AMP
• Deut. 16:17 Each of you must bring a gift in proportion to the way the LORD your God has blessed you.
RECOMMENDATION: Remember your church, Christian ministries, and/or missionaries and charitable
interests in your will.
IMPORTANT NOTE: Many standardized attorney or will forms do NOT ask about your Christian or charitable interests.
This is something you must personally and intentionally insert into your will.
Here is sample wording from our estate plans:
“Seven months after our death, the financial net assets are to be distributed as follows:
10% to our current local church
5% to Fort Wilderness Ministries in McNaughton, WI
3% to Samaritan’s Purse in Boone, NC
2% to Gospel for Asia in Plano, TX
Remainder to be distributed as instructed or to be put into trust(s) for our children.”

Biblical Insight 4: Be aware of the pitfalls of giving an inheritance all at once (at death or before death)
• Prov. 20:21 An inheritance quickly gained at the beginning will not be blessed at the end.
• Luke 15:11-24 The story of the prodigal son and his demanding an earlier inheritance.
SUGGESTION: Divide up inheritance distributions over three (3) or more time periods.
Here is sample wording from our estate plans:
“Estate distributions to our children: 10% at age 23, 30% at age 27 and 60% at age 31. From each child’s portion of the
estate, the trustee is to allow for monthly living, education, activities, and medical expenses for each child until they are 23.
Each child is to go to their choice of a Torchbearer’s Bible College for 1 year following their high school graduation before
receiving funding towards their college education, vocational training, or business endeavors.”

Biblical Insight 5: Consider wealth sharing before your death for special purposes
• Prov. 19:14 Houses (a place to live) and wealth (enough stuff for the place you live) are inherited from parents,
but a prudent wife is from the LORD.
• Prov. 13:22 A good man leaves an inheritance for his children’s children.

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 Possible ideas for “early inheritance gifts” for
children or grandchildren could include: funds for
education, vocational training, help in establishing
a business, equipment, house down payment,
household furnishings, music or athletic lessons,
adoption, etc. According to current IRS rules,
you’re allowed to give $12,000 tax-free to any
person or child each year.

Biblical Insight 6: Be wise when distributing

wealth or estate resources
• Prov. 17:16 What use is money in the
hand of a fool, since he has no desire
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• Prov. 17:2 A wise servant will rule over a go to: www.Kluth.org/cartoons.htm
disgraceful son, and will share the inheritance as
one of the brothers.
• Job 42:15 Nowhere in all the land were there found women as beautiful as Job’s daughters, and their father granted
them an inheritance along with their brothers.
• Luke 9:25 What profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and is himself destroyed or lost? NKJV

Biblical Insight 7: Be wise in naming guardians for minor children. Choose people that will honor your
Christian beliefs and values
• Prov. 22:6 Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it.
• Deut. 6:6-9 These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts. Impress them on your children.
Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.
Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses
and on your gates.

Biblical Principle 8: Research and receive professional counsel on appropriate legal ways to lay up for
yourselves more treasure in heaven (i.e. limit funds going to taxes and redirect these resources to God’s work on earth)
• Matt. 6:19-21 (Jesus said) “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy, and where
thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where moth and rust do not destroy, and
where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”
• 1 Tim. 6:17-19 Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth,
which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command
them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. In this way they will lay up treasure
for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life.

Biblical Insight 9: Be wise in your distribution of personal possessions

• Prov 27:12 A sensible man watches for problems ahead and prepares to meet them. The simpleton never looks and
suffers the consequences. TLB
On pages 32 and 33 of this booklet, you will find forms which will allow you to provide a clear and equitable distribution
of your personal possessions. When your personal possessions are distributed after your death, the following possible
distribution levels can be used.
Distribution 1: Any items indicated on page 31 of this booklet are to be distributed.
Distribution 2: Each child is to fill out their list and return their form (see page 32) within 48 hours to the Personal
Representative. The Personal Representative will then seek to, as much as possible, fairly distribute
the personal property.
Distribution 3: A similar list of remaining items can then be given to (indicate names of specific relatives or friends).
Distribution 4: Any remaining assets are to be sold and/or given to local charities (i.e., ARC, Salvation Army,
or Goodwill).”

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 GUARDIAN CHOICES FOR CHILDREN
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One of the most important decisions you need to make as well as the family unit, when it comes to guardianship
concerning your under-age children is who will become issues. It is usually best to appoint a few choices in
their guardian if you were to die before they were 18. order of your preference, in case a desired guardian is
Even after 18 years old, it is still important to designate unavailable or unable to serve in this important role.
someone who can help provide godly counsel, wisdom, In addition to family considerations, it is important to
prayer, and care for their life and their choices. identify potential guardians who share similar spiritual
It will be helpful to consider each child individually, and personal beliefs.

Name of Child: Date of Birth: Soc Sec #:

Likes & Dislikes: Special notes: Wishes for future activities/ Your hopes/dreams for their
experiences: future:

1st Choice - Name(s): Location:

Email: Phone: Relationship:
2 Choice - Name(s):
nd
Location:
Email: Phone: Relationship:
3 Choice - Name(s):
rd
Location:
Email: Phone: Relationship:

Name of Child: Date of Birth: Soc Sec #:

Likes & Dislikes: Special notes: Wishes for future activities/ Your hopes/dreams for their
experiences: future:

1st Choice - Name(s): Location:

Email: Phone: Relationship:
2 Choice - Name(s):
nd
Location:
Email: Phone: Relationship:
3 Choice - Name(s):
rd
Location:
Email: Phone: Relationship:

Name of Child: Date of Birth: Soc Sec #:

Likes & Dislikes: Special notes: Wishes for future activities/ Your hopes/dreams for their
experiences: future:

1st Choice - Name(s): Location:

Email: Phone: Relationship:
2 Choice - Name(s):
nd
Location:
Email: Phone: Relationship:
3 Choice - Name(s):
rd
Location:
Email: Phone: Relationship:

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 HELPFUL IDEAS FOR A FAMILY MEETING
In the Bible, when people were nearing the end of this life they often gathered their family members
around them and communicated important information with them.

If you effectively use many of the forms and lists in this FAMILY ORGANIZER, you will be in a wonderful
position to clearly communicate a great deal of valuable information and important instructions to your
spouse and loved ones. The best way to normally do this is to schedule a special evening, weekend retreat,
or even a family vacation to gather family together and share important information everyone needs to know
and understand. Without some type of clear verbal and written communications, family members often find
themselves confused, upset, and hurt about things that happen in
the closing months and the months following the death of a parent.

Note: Sometimes a family meeting is called and organized by the

aging parents for their adult children (and possibly spouses and
older grandchildren). Other times it is the adult children that
come to the realization that they need to schedule a time to meet
with their aging parent(s) to go over a number of important items
together. On occasion, some families even decide to utilize outside
professional counsel or a trusted family friend to help plan and
guide a family meeting.

Suggestions for the type of things that could be covered

or included in one or more family meetings:
1. Take turns to express love and appreciation for each other.
2. Recall and share positive stories or life changing memories/moments with each other.
3. Reflect on the character qualities, personal attributes, and positive strengths of each other.
4. Ask or answer some key questions from the FAMILY ORGANIZER 100 questions (see pages 13-16.)
5. Identify and ask for forgiveness for any specific wrongs that have been done in the past.
6. Have the parent(s) express their wishes for their children’s and grandchildren’s futures.
7. Talk about future housing plans/needs and timing (i.e. transitioning from a house to an apartment/
townhome/condo, retirement community, living with adult children or sibling, assisted living, etc.) and
transportation plans (when it will be necessary to stop driving, who can help drive to appointments, etc.).
8. Talk about who (adult child? adult children? sibling? relative? paid worker? assisted living staff?) will
assist with caregiving needs that arise in the future.
9. Review and discuss in detail the financial picture - - current and future (see pages 23-28). Decide who
will have power of attorney, access to financial accounts, and/or check writing authority.
10. Go over health insurance coverage and end of life medical wishes (see page 31).
11. Go over spiritual issues related to the future (see page 32).
12. Share with your family when and how you became a Christian, what Christ means to you, and your
assurance that you know where you are going when you leave this earth. Express your desire for
each of them to also come to have a personal faith in Christ.
13. Share and discuss funeral plans and wishes (see pages 33-38).
14. If applicable, family business issues and planning for the future.
15. Share key aspects of the estate plans: Christian/charitable giving decisions and wishes, how will the
estate finances be handled and divided up, who is the executor or trustee (why?), specific instructions
on how assets and possessions are to be handled and divided up, where are key documents located,
and any other questions (see pages 35-46).
16. Determine if there is a specific family member that can assist in helping to fill out many of the helpful
forms associated with the FAMILY ORGANIZER.
17. Pray together. Sing a favorite hymn together.

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 ESTATE PLANNING TOOLS
FOR EFFECTIVE CHRISTIAN
& CHARITABLE GIVING
Adapted from materials by Dick Edic of www.visionresourcing.com

In 2 Kings 20:1, the prophet Isaiah said to King Hezekiah, saying, “Put your house
in order, because you are going to die; you will not recover.” Basically, God was telling
Hezekiah to complete his estate planning, so that when he died, his wishes could
be carried out by those who survived him. Proverbs 13:22 says, “A good man leaves
an inheritance for his children’s children”. Estate planning is the process of planning
your estate in such a way that after you die, it properly affects the people in your life,
transfers your property efficiently while minimizing probate and tax expense, and
guides those who will assist you in achieving your goals. It involves the right legal
documents that will direct those in the process of settling your estate. Included in this
process is the opportunity to leave a charitable gift. This is the sacred privilege given
us by God to continue giving to His kingdom ministries after we are gone.
Here is a list of helpful tools for giving gifts from your current assets or estate plans.

Bequests A bequest through a will or trust is the most common type of planned gift. Almost every adult should have a will or
living trust, and every Christian should at least consider making gifts to their church, ministries, and favorite charities through his
or her estate. Since everything a person owns (during life and at death) belongs to God, a Christian should distribute the estate to
family members, friends, and ministries that will use those assets in a way that honors the Lord. A gift through a will or trust can be
a specified dollar amount or a percentage of the estate. Since the final size of the estate is uncertain at the time the will is written, it
is often more desirable to use percentages than dollar amounts to describe how the estate is to be distributed. One of the benefits
of a will or trust is that it can be changed at any time. A person can reevaluate his or her giving priorities as family and financial
circumstances change over time. Any gift through a will or trust to a qualified charity is deductible for Federal Estate Tax purposes.

Life Estate Gift A person may deed a personal residence, farm, or other real property to the Lord’s work now, but retain
lifetime enjoyment and use of the property. The person may continue to live in the home. In the case of other property, the person
may continue to collect any income generated. The person continues to pay the taxes, insurance, and maintenance of the property.
At the person’s death, the property becomes the immediate property of the church, ministry, or charity. If desired, the church or
ministry may sell the property and use the cash proceeds. In the case of a personal residence, the church or ministry may decide to
keep the home for use by pastoral staff or visiting missionaries, or ministry expansion. An irrevocable Life Estate Gift will generate
a tax-deductible gift based on the “remainder interest” the person holds in the property. This value is determined according to
government tables and the person’s age. This amount may be claimed as a deduction for Federal Income Tax purposes in the year
the agreement is completed. This arrangement removes the property from the estate, and it will not be subject to either probate or
the Federal Estate Tax.

Life Insurance Gifts Life insurance is one way of making a larger gift than a person may be able to make otherwise. This
gift option is available for both new and existing policies. If done properly, the annual premiums paid on the policy can be deducted
as a charitable gift for Federal Income Tax purposes. Life insurance proceeds are included in the gross estate for calculation of
the Federal Estate Tax. If the beneficiary of the policy is a qualified charity, there is a charitable deduction for purposes of the
Federal Estate Tax. Sometimes people have old life insurance policies they no longer need. They may be paid-up policies with
significant cash value. These policies can be gifted directly to a church or ministry, who in turn can decide whether to cash them
out or wait until it receives the death benefits. Another option is to encourage people to add their church or a ministry as one of the
beneficiaries of an existing policy. Some people also choose to use the concept of “tithing” their life insurance proceeds just like in
their will or living trust. They do this by changing their beneficiary designations.

Charitable Remainder Unitrust is designed for the person who wants to make a gift to the Lord’s work, but needs
income during life. This trust is especially suited for a person with highly appreciated property (either securities or real estate). It
is possible to transfer the property to the trust and avoid all tax on capital gain. A Federal Income Tax deduction is available for the
year the trust is created. It is based on the value of the trust, the age of the person, and the payout percentage selected. A Charitable
Remainder Unitrust may be created and funded at the time of death for the benefit of one or more survivors. Assets transferred to
the trust would not be subject to probate or the Federal Estate Tax. One or more Christian or charitable beneficiaries may be named
in the trust. At the death of the person, the assets from the trust would be distributed to these charities. The Charitable Remainder
Unitrust is one of the most technical gift plans, and requires expert help to both set up and manage. Your church’s denominational
foundation or independent counsel should be able to assist from the beginning to the end of this process.

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Charitable Lead Trust is almost the opposite of the Charitable Remainder Unitrust. The person creates a trust to provide
current income to a charitable organization for a specified period of time (5, 10, 15, or more years). At the end of that time the assets
of the trust are returned to family members. The Charitable Lead Trust may help wealthy families transfer assets to heirs, with little
or no estate or gift tax. Seek professional counsel.

Gift Annuity Agreement - Deferred Gift Annuity Agreement is a perfect plan for a person who wants
to make a future gift and receive a guaranteed stream of income for life. Annuity rates are based on age, and often are quite
competitive with what a person can earn from low risk investments in the market. A deferred payment annuity allows for payments
to begin at a later day (such as at retirement), and results in both a larger charitable gift and a greater annual income. Both
immediate and deferred annuity plans are an excellent means of “supplementing” retirement income, but are not meant to be
retirement plans.

Charitable Gift Annuity is less complicated than a Charitable Remainder Unitrust (CRUT), but the CRUT has greater
flexibility and applications. This plan provides a Federal Income Tax deduction in the year that the annuity is entered. The amount
of the gift is determined by the age of the annuitant, the annuity rate, and the principal amount. Another advantage of the gift
annuity is that part of the annual income is considered tax-exempt. Also, if the annuity is funded with appreciated securities, there
is significant savings related to capital gains tax. A portion of the capital gain is avoided altogether, and the remainder is reported
in small increments over the life expectancy of the annuitant. All remaining funds in the agreement at the annuitant’s death are
available for the ministries designated by the person. The amount placed in the annuity during life is removed from the estate and
will not be subject to probate or the Federal Estate Tax. NOTE: The Gift Annuity Agreement and Deferred Gift Annuity Agreement
are less complicated than the Charitable Remainder Trust. However, few churches or ministries would be able to administer
their own annuity program. Again, refer to your denominational or independent counsel, or get help from the National Christian
Community Foundation (www.nationalchristian.com 800-681-6223) in Atlanta, GA who can provide planned giving administration
services.

Living Trust is a good “will substitute” estate-planning tool for some families. Such a trust can be written to include a charitable
bequest, just like in a will. Assets in the trust are distributed according to the terms of the trust and do not pass through the probate
process.

Naming a church or ministry as a beneficiary One easy method of making a planned gift is by naming the church,
Christian ministry, or charity as beneficiary of any account that allows such a designation. A checking account or savings account
would be one example. In a banking situation, this is often known as a Pay on Death (or POD) account. Some institutions may
refer to this arrangement as Transfer on Death (or TOD). These arrangements allow for the assets to pass directly to the named
beneficiary and avoid the probate process.

Retirement plans allow the owner to name a beneficiary, or beneficiaries. At the death of some high wealth individuals, there
may be two taxes levied against a qualified or tax-deferred retirement account—income and estate. These taxes can be avoided if
the “secondary” beneficiary of the plan is a qualified charity. This is “win-win” because family members would end up inheriting the
same amount or more when using this tax strategy. With married couples, when a spouse dies, the “primary” beneficiary is usually
the other spouse. The surviving spouse could then “roll” the tax-deferred retirement account into a personal tax-deferred retirement
account and continue to defer any income taxes. When he or she dies and the proceeds of the account go to a “non-spouse,” like
children, that becomes a “taxable event.” Current tax laws allow children to “stretch out” their receipt and subsequent taxation of
the proceeds. However, by naming a church, ministry, or charity as the “secondary” beneficiary, some or all of potential income
taxes can be avoided. Since other assets in the estate may not be subject to income taxes at death, such as cash, life insurance or
real estate, consider “using” the tax-deferred retirement account for any charitable gifts and pass the other assets to children or
friends.

Automatic Transfers at death are often referred to as “will substitutes” because they bypass distribution through the will.
Such transfers avoid the probate process. These assets will avoid the Federal Estate Tax when transferred to a qualified charity.
Examples are joint tenancy, life insurance, IRAs and business agreements.

Endowment or Scholarship Funds can be set up so that members can make current or deferred gifts into the
endowment or scholarship fund knowing that it will annually give from the earnings of the investment portfolio in the fund. These
funds can produce an economic “hedge” against hard times.

Outright Gifts (other than cash) Gifts other than cash can be a significant benefit to a local church or ministry. Such
gifts might include stocks, bonds, mutual fund shares, real property, or tangible property. Transfer of ownership will often require
some form of legal document. There are special Internal Revenue Service rules for valuing and reporting non-cash gifts. The tax-
deductible value of some gifts will be limited to the person’s cost basis or the Fair Market Value (whichever is lower). You will be
allowed to deduct the full value of some gifts (including all appreciation), and will avoid any tax on capital gain. Any property given
during life will be removed from the estate, and will not be subject to probate or the Federal Estate Tax.

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 ADDITIONAL RESOURCES
Resources for your personal finances
• Crown Financial Ministry: www.crown.org or 800-722-1976
• Willow Creek Association's Good Sense Ministry: www.goodsenseministry.com
• Dave Ramsey Radio Show: www.daveramsey.com
• www.iquestions.com Experts provide video answers to questions about life and finances.

Resources to help you become more generous

• www.generouslife.info A Bible devotional to help people become more generous.
• www.MAXIMUMgenerosity.org Generosity resources by Brian Kluth for use in
churches and ministries.
• Generous Giving: www.generousgiving.org or 423-294-1640
• The Gathering: www.gatheringweb.com (for those giving over $200K/year)
• National Christian Foundation: www.nationalchristian.com or 800-681-6223
This organization can help you set up your own your own charitable giving account.

Resources for investing

• Sound Mind Investing with Austin Pryor: www.soundmindinvesting.com
• Stewardship Partners: www.stewardshippartners.com (for people with over $100K to invest)

Resources for financial & estate planning

• Because I Love You FAMILY ORGANIZER: www.MyFamilyForms.org
• Kingdom Advisors: www.kingdomadvisors.org or 404-497-7680
• Ron Blue & Company: www.ronblue.com or 800-841-0362
• The Christian Legal Society: www.clsnet.org Referrals to Christ-centered attorneys.

Help with your giving and philanthropy

• Evangelical Council for Financial Accountability: www.ecfa.org or 800-3BE-WISE
• www.guidestar.org IRS990 financials for non-profits.
• www.NetworkforGood.org Allows you to give electronically to churches, ministries
and non-profit charities.
• www.Ministrywatch.com
• www.idonate.com Allows you to donate cars, jewelry, art, assets to your church or
favorite charities.
• Better Business Bureau for Charities: www.give.com

Help for Christian CEO’s and business owners

• Christ@Work (also known as Fellowship of Companies for Christ International)
www.fcci.org or 405-917-1681
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 PRODUCTS AND Resources
by DR.Brian Kluth

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 “Many people will never fill out all of the pages in this FAMILY ORGANIZER, but
every page you do fill out and use will be a great blessing to you, your spouse, and your
loved ones. I believe that the information you complete on any of the forms will save
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Dr. Brian Kluth

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why and how to use many of the pages in this manual. possessions, spiritual matters, etc.).

2 Go to the www.MyFamilyForms.org website and

check out the sample pages to see how others
have used some of the pages to benefit their family.
7 Organize a small group of people to meet
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3 Pick out a regular block of time each week for

a few months (a morning, afternoon, or evening)
to work on filling out pages that you know will be
accountable to keep making progress on filling out
many of the key pages in this manual. The group could
consist of people in your neighborhood, workplace
the most helpful to you, your spouse, and your loved (meet over the lunch hour), friends, family, church, Sun-
ones. day School, Bible study, book group, and ladies group.

4 Write in pencil so you can later update or edit

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discuss and fill out information on your family tree, print out pages and put them in a 3-ring binder.
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6 If you have aging parents, have personal or

family meeting(s) with them and help them fill
out important information that is needed concern-
email it to family members in other places. Keep a
file of this paper version or electronic document with
your will.

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About the Author and Speaker

Dr. Brian Kluth is a bestselling author, inspirational speaker, minister, and a

leading authority and media expert on family finances, generosity and philanthropy.
He has been interviewed by NBC news, CBN TV, NBC Dateline, radio and TV talk
shows, Kiplinger’s Personal Finance magazine, Chronicle of Philanthropy, and major
newspapers and magazines. Dr. Kluth is a popular speaker for conferences, special
events, and large churches. His materials have been translated and distributed
into over 40 foreign languages worldwide. Brian lives with his wife and family in Colorado Springs, CO.