NLP IN CLASSROOM
SIX PILLARS OF NLP
BY:
WAJID HUSSAIN
Among the many things that NLP enables us to do are to:
• Build high quality personal relationships with those whom we come
into contact with in our everyday living. Having a close rapport with
children, parents, management and ourselves will prove mutually
advantageous;
• Exercise control over our emotions so that we can effectively manage
our thoughts and feelings. Controlling the way we feel raises our
confidence level in whatever we attempt to do, and reinforce the
tendency to perform at our best at all times;
• Introduce greater flexibility which leads to increased choices and more
influence over events in our life, and creative ways to solve problems;
• Develop effective ways to communicate taking into account our
sensitivity to ourselves and others, and increase our persuasive skills;
• Set desired outcomes for ourselves and for our business, and
maximize our chances of achieving them.
Introduction to NLP
• NLP started in the early 1970’s in Santa Cruz, California, when Richard
Bandler, a 20-year-old psychology student at U.C. Santa Cruz, met and became
friends with Dr. John Grinder, who was in his late 20’s and an associate
professor of linguistics at the college.
• Bandler modelled the methods used by Virgina Satir (1916-1988), American
author, social worker, and internationally esteemed family therapist; co-founder
of the Mental Research Institute (MRI) in Palo Alto, California.
• They studied the work of the famous medical hypnotist Milton Erickson (1901–
1980).
• Bandler and Grinder were captivated by Milton Erickson’s techniques , and
incorporated Erickson’s manner of conversational hypnosis into the NLP.
Neuro Linguistic Programming
Attitude Methodology Behaviour
Curiosity Modeling Ideas and Action
Wanton Experimentation Continual exploration
Your thinking process, Your words, the way Your behavior and the way
the way you use your you use language and you organize your ideas
senses to understand how it influences you and actions, which
what is happening and those around you. produces expected and
around you. unexpected results.
Neuro Linguistic Programming
Attitude Words and language Behaviour
Curiosity Ideas and Action
Wanton Experimentation
When do think positively? The words you often use when you are How do you feel when you are positive?
_________________________________ positive for yourself? _________________________________
_________________________________ _________________________________ _______________________________
__________________________. _______________________________ What do you want to do when you are
What do you see, feel and hear at that _________________________________ positive?
time? _________________________________ _________________________________
_________________________________ _________________________________ _______________________________
_________________________________ __________________________. How do you feel when you are negative?
__________________________. The words you often use when you are _________________________________
When do you think negatively? negative for yourself? _______________________________
_________________________________ What do you want to do when you are
_________________________________ _________________________________ negative?
__________________________. _______________________________ _________________________________
What do you see, hear and feel at that _________________________________ _______________________________
time? _________________________________
_________________________________ _________________________________
_________________________________ __________________________.
__________________________.
Rapport Exercise
Secrets in a Basket
Conditions: Appropriate for big and small groups, all ages. Participants need to
be able to write. You will need enough time to go through everyone’s
contributions.
Procedure: Ask participants to write something unusual about themselves on a
slip of paper. Warn them that the content will be made public! Place all papers in
a basket. Whenever you need a break, an energizer, during class, randomly draw
two or three slips from the basket, read the contents to the class, and ask
students to guess who it belongs to. If the person identified is not the author,
(s)he stands up. Continue until the class finds the true author who is invited to
then briefly explain what he wrote on the slip of paper.
Tip: Use opportunities to help student reflect on the content and ask questions
to the authors; point out interesting links to aspects that you find useful for
building rapport in the group. Go through the basket until it’s empty; no one
4 MAIN PRINCIPALS IN NLP
RAPPORT GOALS AND OUTCOMES SENSORY ACUTIY FLEXIBILITY
A time when your physical rapport was What exactly do you want from your What Is actually happening to you for How many choices of action have you
not with you? How you felt? life? List at least 10 things? getting most important thing of your got in getting your most important
_______________________________ 1. life? goal. List 5 choices.
_________________ 2. Look (visual) 1.
A time when you mental rapport was 3. _______________________________ 2.
with your physical rapport? How you 4. _______________________________ 3.
felt? 5. 4.
_______________________________ 6. Listen (Auditory) 5.
_________________ 7. _______________________________ How can you keep changing what do
A time when your spiritual Rapport 8. _______________________________ until you get what you want?
wasn’t with you. How you felt? 9. 1.______________C______________
_______________________________ 10. Feel (kinesthetic) 2.______________C______________
______________________ Which are the things important to you? _______________________________ 3.______________C______________
How often do you feel uneasy and List any two. _______________________________ 4.______________C______________
uncomfortable in a week? How do you 1._____________________________ 5.______________C______________
relate your physical, mental & spiritual _2.____________________________ Do you notice this everyday?
rapports? __ _______________________________
_______________________________ Write one the most important thing _______________________________
_______________________ you exactly want.
_______________________________
_______________________________
•Sensory Acuity Exercise
Count every ” F” in the following text:
FINISHED FILES ARE THE RESULT
OF YEARS OF SCIENTIFIC STUDY
COMBINED WITH THE
EXPERIENCE OF YEARS…
(SEE BELOW)
HOW MANY ?
WRONG, THERE ARE 6 — no joke.
READ IT AGAIN !
Really, go Back and Try to find the 6 F’s before you scroll down.
The reasoning behind is further down.
The brain cannot process “OF”.
Anyone who counts all 6 “F’s” on the first go is a genius.
Three is normal, four is quite rare.
This blog post proves we all have some way to go to improve our sensory acuity to a level of mastery or ‘genius’…
So we might as well have some fun along the way!
ENVIORNMENT BEHAVIOUR CAPABILITY BELIEFS & IDENTITY SPRITUAL
Where am I? What am I doing? What do I know how to VALUES Who am I? What am I here for?
do? What skills do I What is important to What am I part of that
have? me? What do I expect is greater than myself
( in a given
suitutation)?
1.Where are you living? 1. What you do to THINKING What is very true to you? What is your statement How do you feel when
1.___________________ where you live? STRATEGIES ____________________ of identity? Write one you see a picture of Holy
___________________ ____________________ How do you think? ____________________ sentence about yourself. Kaaba?
2. The surroundings ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________
where you live is? ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________
Excellent:___________ ____________________ ____________________ What is more important ____________________ ___________________
Very Good:_________ ____________________ ____________________ to you? ____________________ How do you feel when
Good:______________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ you see face of your
Poor:_______________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ mother?
Worse:_____________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________
Worst:______________ 2. What do you do with ____________________ ____________________ ____________________ ____________________
3. What do you think the people you meet? Are there some skills you ____________________
about the people you are ____________________ PHYSICAL SKILLS would like to develop, How do you feel when
living with? ____________________ How do you define your but you think you can’t? you see your class room
Most:_____________ ____________________ physical skills: List 3. and children?
Most selfish:_________ ____________________ Walking:____________ 1.___________________ ____________________
____________________ Talking:_____________ 2.___________________ ____________________
____________________ 3.__________________ How do you feel when
____________________ Is there a skill you need hear your best friends
____________________ CONCIUOSLY to learn but you don’t voice from you beck?
LEARNT SKILLS consider important? ____________________
Subject:____________ ____________________ ____________________
Sport:______________ ____________________ ____________________
Representational systems
•I Hope you must have enjoyed
the session
Thanks for your precious time