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Ex-CPO @ Abstraction (~18y)taking space to reflect, reset & reimagine what's next
Reflection on My Life — Almost 50. And honestly? I feel it all. Normally, I’ve never had an issue with getting older in fact, I’ve always enjoyed it. But turning 50 (almost) feels different. For the first time, I’m really pausing to reflect. Why? Because I realise I’m well past the halfway point, and it’s truly time to start thinking and choosing what I want and what I feel in my heart. That’s not the easiest thing to do. It takes honesty, both with yourself and with the people that matter around you. It’s a journey, a work in progress. But I’m moving forward, and I’m proud that on Monday, October 20th, I’ll officially join the 50+ club. Pride. Confusion. Gratitude. And yes, also a bit of excitement, but the healthy kind that comes with something that truly matters. Knowing how much effort people have put into creating this celebration tomorrow for me is truly amazing, even though I have no idea what to expect (which is… challenging for someone with control issues like mine). Tomorrow I’ll celebrate my 50th birthday, and I already know it’s going to be an unforgettable night filled with laughter, dancing, and pure joy. Surrounded by people I’ve built meaningful relations with personally, professionally, or somewhere in between. Old and new connections I’m deeply grateful for. People who have challenged me, inspired me, moved me, or completely thrown me off balance. Not everyone who matters to me can be there. But some connections you simply carry with you, and I’m certain they’ll feel that too, even if it’s never been spoken out loud. The past years have been intense to say the least. This year especially so! I’ve had to let go of many things; control, certainty, predictability and a few connections that meant more than words could ever express. And through that, I discovered resilience. That discipline only has real value when it’s balanced with emotion. That courage sometimes means not moving forward immediately, but standing still and giving things time. Turning 50 will, in its own time, bring even more clarity about what truly feels right, about what’s real, and about how difficult it can be to follow your heart when your head is used to leading. There’s nothing more complicated than being honest with yourself and nothing more powerful than doing it anyway. Tomorrow, I’ll celebrate life exactly as it is: with all its contrasts, contradictions, and challenges. The highs, the lows, the laughter, the quiet and the people who have touched me, including those who may never know they did. I don’t know what the coming years will bring, but one thing’s for sure: I’m not going to live them halfway. Still curious. Still a little unpredictable and playful. Still full of feeling. But stronger in who I am. Cheers and as I always say: Go Beyond Boundaries. Excel. Grow. Be Direct and be Honest! abstraction - a Virtuos studio