The Big White Dog with Green Eyes: A Radically New Approach for Improving Relationships/Marriages

INTRODUCTION

Every day millions of couples are proving that they can stay married no matter how unhappy, unfulfilled, bored, antagonistic, or miserable they may be. Their unhappiness has become a habit, and they are teaching their children to be just like them.

In the beginning, when they first fell in love they believed their relationship was very different. Mother Nature’s love hormones designed to guide mating converged in their bloodstreams and passions seized their bodies and minds. Sex was fantastic. Each one felt that the other appreciated everything about him or her, even the unpleasant parts. The other partner was so interested that he or she listened to every word and heard or understood the meanings. They felt so close that sometimes no words were needed for communication. No subject was too difficult or embarrassing to discuss, and their intimacy grew exponentially. Unconscious memories could not touch them while under the influence of the Love Chemicals, as the hormones were dubbed by many, and the lovers were able to talk through every troubling subject to completion or compromise. Their love was perfect, and they expected to live till death us do part in the same romantic bliss. Unfortunately, these beliefs were only illusions that faded in six months when the hormones lost their effect and reality returned.

The good news is that couples may now experience the love realistically that once was only illusionary. As a result of the author’s discovery of eight communication skills that are far superior to any that we learned while growing up, couples may have a marriage they feel is perfect for them. The purpose of this book is to provide an eight-step method by which a couple may achieve the desired results. This method provides a self-check for each step. It then teaches the skill. The couple then uses the skills in prescribed exercises to determine if psychological barriers exist in the relationship that must be removed by them when possible or by a licensed professional counselor. A licensed professional counselor is one designated by state law to carry the title of a Licensed Professional Counselor, Psychologist or Psychiatrist. The exhilaration of passionate love, joy, and intimacy builds as each step is practiced. By the end of completing the eighth step the couple will be enjoying the marriage that is perfect for them.

This is a must read for every individual wanting better communication skills or hoping to fall in love and marry, for couples planning marriage, and for those who are married or those considering divorce as well as families seeking to improve loving communication between members.

Every household needs to own this Big White Dog with Green Eyes.

STEP 1: APPRECIATION

Self-Check

1. Does he feel appreciated for his inner qualities both good and bad, and does he feel appreciated for all that he does for her and other family members when present? Yes/ No

2. Does she feel appreciated for her inner qualities both good and bad and does she feel appreciated for all that she does for him and other family members when present? Yes/No

3. Does he verbally express a reason why he appreciates her every day? Yes/ No

4. Does she verbally express a reason why she appreciates him every day? Yes/ No

Learning the Skill

The skill is simple. Every day tell the other partner at least