Founder | Building inclusive fitness communities at Oak and Iron | Small business growth & leadership
The Power of Looking Ahead to Live Better Today One of the most overlooked tools for success isn’t about chasing the future — it’s about examining the present. Before starting a new project or chasing a dream, I often do what’s called a pre-mortem. Instead of asking “What if it works?”, I ask: “If this fails, what likely caused it?” Most of the time, the answer isn’t mysterious. It’s in the daily habits, the small shortcuts, the things we already know aren’t serving us — but we convince ourselves we’re the exception to the rule. Another practice I lean on is what I call introspective perspective. I imagine my future self looking back at the current version of me. What would he wish I had done differently? What would he thank me for having the courage to do now? This reflection isn’t about regret — it’s about awareness. These self-audits — of health, business, relationships, or personal growth — are not meant to be harsh. They’re meant to give us clarity. They help us identify risks, create contingency plans, and pivot when life inevitably throws obstacles in our path. At the end of the day, I often think about how I want to be described by others. I want to be seen as a leader who develops other leaders. A loving and present father. A devoted and faithful husband. A reliable friend. Someone who actively listens and seeks to understand even opposing perspectives. A pillar in my community for good. A person relentlessly pursuing the best version of themselves. Someone who creates safe spaces where all feel welcome. Known as inclusive and caring. Someone who transcended the landscape of wellness. And, ultimately, a person who made the most of their life. Life has a way of distracting us, pulling us off course. But by pausing to reflect — not just on where we’re going, but on who we’re becoming — we can set ourselves up for real success and happiness. Don’t ignore the truth of today. Use it as your compass for tomorrow.