Lessons from mistakes in grantmaking and philanthropy

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Human rights and social impact leader. Change maker.

The lessons that have stayed with me in this field rarely came from things that went right. They came from mistakes that felt awkward in the moment but revealing in hindsight. As a grantee, I once accepted funding for a project that satisfied every donor requirement but had little to do with our strategy. We delivered the outputs, the donor was content, and the team was quietly miserable. It taught me that you can secure financial survival while slowly starving the mission that gives the work its meaning. Later, on the other side of the table as a donor, I made the opposite error. I tried to make the “perfect” grant, building in layers of conditions and frameworks to keep it “strategic”. The partner carried out exactly what I asked for, but it was not what they truly needed. It was not defiance or failure, only the predictable result of trying to manage work from too far away. Everything looked right on paper, but the heart wasn’t in it anymore. Both experiences return to the same dilemma: who sets the agenda, and who defines success. If I could redo those moments, I would ask more, not to tick a box, but to let partners define what mattered, and to let their answers unsettle my certainty. Not because trust is a fashionable word these days, but because it is probably the only way collaboration becomes possible. Philanthropy does not always need another fancy mechanism or design. Sometimes it needs funders who can sit with the discomfort of not being in control. That, I learned, is more difficult than it appears.

Margaret-Jane Howe

Confidential Coach to Business Leaders Transforming Organisations for Financial and Personal results. Engineering specialism. Author Divine Guide to Leadership on Spotify. Strategies to navigate disruptions confidently.

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Excellent points Ricky Gunawan Couldn’t agree more

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