Create your don’t do list & how to say ‘no’.

The idea: Create a "Don't Do" List

Developing a clear "don't do" list empowers you to say 'no' more effectively, creating space to concentrate on what genuinely matters.

30-Second Version 

• Leaders often struggle with overloaded schedules, making strategic focus difficult.
• Building a clear ‘don't do’ list helps prioritise your core tasks by intentionally eliminating distractions and low-value activities.
• Strengthening your ability to say no helps you to concentrate fully on meaningful work, majorly enhancing your productivity and satisfaction.

 The Full Read 

How often have you looked at your calendar with regret, thinking, "I should have said no to that"? This is a sign you might need to be flexing your ‘no’ muscle more deliberately.

In education, ‘the busy trap’ often seems unavoidable. However, being busy doesn't always mean being productive or effective. Too frequently, we accept commitments only to later realise they're draining our time and diverting our focus from something that would be far more important. One simple yet transformative strategy to wrestle your way out of the trap is to consciously create and maintain a clear ‘don't do’ list.

Deciding intentionally what not to do helps you clearly protect your most important tasks, ensuring your time and energy are reserved for what truly matters.

Practical Steps to Build Your "Don't Do" List

1. Crystallise your core priorities: Identify critical goals and essential tasks that genuinely require your attention.
2. Overhaul current commitments: Reflect on recent meetings or tasks that felt like poor uses of your time and add them to your ‘don't do’ list.
3. Build and use clear, respectful templates for saying no: Here are a few you can adapt for your own context and tone. 

"Thanks for thinking of me, but I’m at capacity and need to decline. Best of luck with your project."

"I’m disappointed, but unfortunately I can no longer [insert activity]. I’m sorry for any inconvenience. It means a lot that you thought of me, and I hope it’s a success. I can’t wait to hear how everything goes."

"Thanks for sending that meeting invite. Unfortunately, I am not able to attend because of prior scheduling - but please keep me updated with any action items I might help with. Feel free to send over any notes afterwards."

"I have to admit, I'm not good at saying no because I enjoy connecting and contributing. Unfortunately, I’m at capacity right now and must decline on this occasion."

"As much as I’d love to get together, my schedule’s currently packed too tightly to add anything else at this stage. If you have specific questions, feel free to email them, and I'll do my best to respond when I have downtime."

Establishing clear boundaries with these simple templates helps you learn to say no in a way that still feels kind and respectful, protects your focus, ensures productivity, and makes much-needed space for high-value activities.

Remember: Doing less enables you to achieve significantly more.

Challenge →  This week, reflect on tasks or activities that belong on your personal ‘don’t do’ list. Practice declining at least one additional commitment or task to protect your focus and productivity.