Neuroscience of Self-Motivation
Neuroscience of Self-Motivation
Therefore, his solutions to these problems clearly use principles of science based
upon how our brain functions. As you can imagine then if, if there is just one book
you need to read about getting things done, it should probably be this book. In is
very clear. He sets up a formula that is based on neuroscience principles, and you
apply that principle in what the author calls a work flow diagram. If you compare
this book with other books on procrastination, such as the book by Resa Emmetts,
for example, this book is much more likely to appeal to you as a scientist. Her
book only tells you that you need to overcome certain emotional hang ups, but
nothing that helps you to do this based upon how our brain works. If there is any
negative in the David Allen book, it's that he occasionally will compare the brain
to the workings of a computer.
As you know, we try to avoid this comparison. For example, he indicates that you
should try to clear your RAM memory, and store the information in your long term
memory. You need to be careful with this. You have read elsewhere, we do not
believe that your brain works like a computer. The brain is much more advanced
than that. But for the purposes of helping you with the ‘how’ and ‘why’ your brain
can overcome procrastination, then this book’s information will be helpful to you.
Amen, Daniel G., M.D. Change Your Brain, Change Your Life, Three Rivers
Press (1998)
c. The deep limbic system is about the size of a walnut! But/and all of its
functions are critical for survival and human behavior.
d. The DLS also affects motivation and drive! And is the relay station for
impulses that process smell.
e. Rx for good DLS health:
Every thought you have sends electrical and chemical signals throughout
your brain! Thoughts have actual physical properties. They are rea (use in
brochure). They have significant influence on every cell in your body!!!!
Whenyour mind/brain is burdened with many negative thoughts it affects
your DLS causing physical problems. Teaching yourself to control and direct
thoughts in a positive way is one of the most effective ways to feel better!! P
57+
Step five: Bad thoughts are powerful pollution, and don't always tell the
truth!
Step Six: TALK BACK TO ANTS! You can train your thoughts to be
positive and hopeful. You must notice your thoughts and talk back to them!!
When a negative thought goes unchallenged, it is believed and the body
reacts to it. When you correct negative thoughts, you take away their power
over you!
2. Exterminate the ANTS: feed your anteater; listen for them not to
them; write them down…talk back to them…and then tear them up!!
(P 61 to 64 list common ants we hear!
4. Develop and build people skills: It has been proven that enhancing
emotional bonds between people will help heal the limbic system (see p 71
for list of skills)
The Prefrontal Cortex - the most evolved part of the brain. Supervisor of
executive functions. (P 113)!!!!!! It also is the part of the brain that helps
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you learn from mistakes! And focus on important information while filtering
out less significant thoughts and sensations.
Rx for the PFC: 1. Develop and maintain clear focus! One Page Miracle.
Focus on goals ….in writing…what you want and not what you don't want.
And what you like and not what you don't like!! Get organized and get
excited!!
"Shape behavior practice" for coaching: see p 140!!!!!!
Anthony, Dr. Robert. Advanced Formula for Total Success, Berkley
Publishing Company (1988)
a. The person that you are is always perfect; what you, as that person do, is
not always perfect. You cannot fail as a person!
b. It all starts with self-talk. Self-talk is the constant conversation that you carry
on with yourself, as you perceive what you think you see, feel and hear. It is
“three-dimensional” thought; that is, made up of words, pictures and
emotion. We build and modify our self-image with our self-talk, using words
that trigger pictures that evoke emotion.
f. Your self-image controls how you perform. You always act like you see
yourself. You cannot act otherwise!! You may try to act otherwise, but you will
have to work very hard to override your subconscious picture of reality! How to
change this?? Change your self-image. How? It starts with self-talk. Never:
That’s the way I am” “I’ll never have any money” “I’ll never lose weight”
CHANGE TO “That’s NOT the way I am!” “That’s not the way things happen
to me!” “The next time I will change this”.
g. Our subconscious always makes sure our image of reality comes true!! It
works to keep us from going insane. We first, therefore, need to listen to our
self-talk…what are we saying? And then first change our self-talk and self-
image BEFORE we change or take ACTION!! Seeing is not believing!!
Believing is SEEING!! Be an unrealistic goal setter. Our brain (and us) does not
behave in accordance with the truth, but in accordance with the truth, as you
perceive it to be!
h. When you buy (or look for after deciding) a new car like none you’ve had
before, you start seeing that car everywhere now!! WHY? Because your brain
has just ‘learned’ that it’s now important to you. It now has value for you!
THEREFORE, you CAN apply this to whatever goal you give value and make
important to you! As soon as you know what you are looking for. The
information will become apparent to you; .your subconscious will work
overtime to find it and satisfy you!!
l. Successful people. You can’t improve your ‘self’. You can’t improve WHO
you are, but you CAN improve your performance! You will make mistakes! So
what! All you have to do is make corrections! Successful people are people
who are constantly busy doing things that they don’t know how to do for
sure.
And it is an adventure for them! They don’t know what’s around the bend, all
they know is that they are committed to the path and will do whatever has to be
done to get to the next level or step, and so on and so on. Unsuccessful people
are intimidated and immobilized by the fear of discovering that they are in error
or are making a mistake. Make a decision one and for all, not to be one of those
people. Look at the failures in your life and
NOTICE that you were more concerned with being right, looking good, and not
making a mistake, and protecting yourself, than you were with making a
correction. It can’t be done…you must fail to get success…you will be off
course 95% of the time on the way to your greatest achievements!! So give up
hope of not making a mistake. Pray for them, anticipate with excitement your
next mistake or failure, ‘cause once you et it and make the correction, you are
one more step, that much closer to SUCCESS.
This is an excellent explanation of what occurs when you undergo any of the
three primary emotions. These are the three emotions that appear to be hard
wired over the generations of evolution. They are reaction, anger, secondary
emotions, which are a product of cognitive thoughts, and background
emotions which really are the most important emotions that arise from your
intuitive level of the cortex.
This research results give a very clear explanation of the role of the
amygdala and the basal ganglia in controlling your reactions, your emotional
reactions, to visualizing a snake for example and is also very helpful in
understanding the need to comply with Science for Success Technique No.
7 which is ”Trust the Darkness”. Your very best emotional responses do
come from this intuitive level. This article is available at
www.brainconnection.com in the Library section.
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Arnot, Robert, M.D. The Biology of Success, Little, Brown and Company
(2000)
Man-o-man, from this title, and who wrote this, I thought it was going to be
my best find! Unfortunately this is not the case! Although I may be able to
use a little from Part One to stretch the topic of ‘science’, but it is not what I
expected. Part Two is much better!
BUT, his bibliography is fantastic and I should use MUCH of it!
PART ONE
4. The best of this crap is about music and its positive effect…see p 39
for “music and the biology of success”
5. Step 5 is also good exercise or the “biology of playing hard” and its
science effect on us! See p 66+
6. Page 91: the human species does not respond well to change! This is
due to slow evolution!! DWB theory…Therefore change it! And speed
up evolution!! With all of your
generations!!
PART TWO
17. That stuff I wrote about with Ken Griffey Jr and “playing not to
lose” are in this book and called “EMOTIONAL BROADCASTING”!!
See p 178-179 And you must train your emotions and create a neural
team and surround yourself with success!!
20. How do you live your story? There are ten stages p 206- 210!!!!!!
Blaydes, Jean. “Thinking on your Feet: Kinesthetic Strategies for
Teaching Core Academics”, Learning Brain Expo, The Brain Store,
(2002)
Bragdon, Allen D. and Gamon, David, Ph.D. Use It Or Lose It, Allen
D. Bragdon Publishers, Inc. (2000)
4. Section III discusses common cognitive problems that are not Alzheimer’s
and part IV is how to prevent and reverse cognitive decline!
5. NOTE: There are several conditioning exercises in back of book that are
usable!!!
Bragdon, Allen D. and Gamon, David, Ph.D. Brains that Work a Little Bit
Differently, Brainwaves Books (2000)
1. Not real good for us, but does have some important definitions and
statements.
2. ADHD: page 14, 16- the role of the neurotransmitter dopamine
3. Alcoholism is covered and the brain’s desire-action-reward loop is
pictured on p 29 [GOOD drawing to put in HANDOUTS11]
4. Also discussed: Autism; Déjà vu; Dyslexia; Left-handedness (see
p 73); Perfect pitch; Photographic Memory;
Brinkman, Dr. Rick and Kirschner, Dr. Rick. Dealing With People You
Can’t Stand, McGraw-Hill, Inc. (1994)
Probably out of my niche, but some things fit negative people.
1. Lists ten categories of bad people: The Tank; the sniper; the grenade; the
know-it-all; the think-they-know it-all; the yes person; the maybe person; the
nothing person; the no person; and the whiner!! (These are all defined and
explained in the last half of the book!! Also listed in each of those chapters is
an ACTION-PLAN for each type of bad people!!
AND MORE!!! Each chapter there has a segment called “Great moments in
Difficult People History” which gives real world examples of how these
types and people-problems can be solved!!! Great if we do this type of
niche-seminar!!
2. The desire to contribute to others and be appreciated for it is one of the
most powerful motivational forces known!
3. Characteristics with philosophies: Get it done; Get it right; get along; get
appreciated!!!
4. To get the best out of people, you have to develop 2 skills: blending and
Redirecting p 38-39 which evolves into: Blend; Backtrack; Clarify;
Summarize; and Confirm!! P 47
5. Best of all though is to: Identify positive intent; identify highly valued
(higher) criteria p 53
6. USE the research example on p 64-65 about Chicago teachers and
students!!! It says it all!! About expectations and perceptions! Pygmalion
Power!!!
Bristol, Claude M. The Magic of Believing, Simon & Schuster (1948)
a. I did not read this book, but on a scan did not see anything usable.
However, if we run short of ANECDOTES, review this book for
some usable ones
Bryant, Theodore, MSW. Self-Discipline in 10 Days, HUB Publishing
(1999)
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1. You must practice becoming consciously aware of your self-defeating
chatter (self-talk)
2. Neanderthal man has you by the attitude! Your brain will search for
reasons to support negative attitudes. That’s the way the brain works! It has
to! It is an automatic system. It does not weigh evidence and then evaluate
your claim; it simply believes what you tell it and then finds reasons to prove
you right, even if you are wrong. Then it begins to match your attitude and
behavior to whatever you have told it
3. Being out of your comfort zone is very good news AND REQUIRED
when you are growing as a person and reaching success.
5. Action oriented self-talk must be: positive, specific, and present tense! (It
can occur subconsciously [OSU]} sometimes negativism wins a battle in the
subconscious, that we don’t even know is taking place!
11. We have spent so much of our lives being disciplined by others we have
not developed the nerve pathways (necessary skills) to discipline ourselves.
[Nerve pathways are overgrown]
12. Do not try to get rid of your fears, only reduce their influence on our
behavior.
13. A person cannot be a failure. Use fear of failure as a stepping stone, not a
tombstone!
16. You must visualize BEFORE you take action: every day for a week or
two BEFORE you start…see yourself doing it…hear yourself…smell it…
Every time you practice before you go into action stage, you gain self-
discipline support from your subconscious and weaken isms ability to stall
your action!!!
21. Affirmations are like vitamins for the mind…written are best. They
provide you with simple and easy self-motivation that works on a very deep
level!!!
22. Write them 3 ways page 112 and then turn them into vitamins p 114- 115
23. Choose to change! In little ways at first; come up with some examples to
force yourself to do like change seats at a seminar…different route to work
etc.
Butler, Gillian, Ph.D. and Hope, Tony, M.D. Managing Your Mind, Oxford
University Press (1997)
d. Their ideas to overcome fear and anxiety is garbage (chap 16 & 17)
Buzan, Tony. Make the Most of Your Mind, Simon & Schuster (1984)
c. Up until 1970’s thought was that upper and lower brain functioned
independently! NOT SO! We now know that the upper brain can program the
lower brain and in so doing affect: physical health, athletic performance,
mental ability, motivation, and will power, AND SUCCESS LEVELS!!!!
f. Even if we lose 10,000 brain cells a day from the time we are born, we
start with so many, that by the time we are 80 years old, we have lost LESS
THAN 3% of our brain cells!
g. The complexity of all of the phone systems in every country of the world,
ALL of them…are equivalent to the complexity in a part of the human brain,
the size of an ordinary garden pea!!!
We have only begun to realize we are just on the threshold of
discovering the brains extraordinary abilities!
h. There is now evidence that our brain possibly retains ALL information
that has ever been inputted into it in you lifetime…in exact, minute detail!
(see Evidence #1-10 on p 38+) (also see happy child info)
i. We are taught that creativity is for those more intelligent than us, and that
creativity is for the more successful, and we have been doing our thinking in
a box!!! Time after time after time!!! The key word here is your perception
of the word “uses”. We are trained to think in ordinary boxes…. Now that
you know the unbelievable capacity of the brain step out of that box, think of
the far out applications. The connections, the thousands of connections:
i.e. Associations see and copy p 113, 114, 115…and practice-practice-
practice going outside the box (the last few chapters have exercises for
numerics and logic)
Would it be more likely that they would be successful at mastering this new
material or new task? Dr. Cahill responded after careful minutes of silence,
that there is no reason why this would not work. Please note, that it has been
proven, and Dr. Cahill mentioned in the conference, that the
neurotransmitters that the amygdala causes to be released, act as a fertilizer
to increase the number of growing DSPs. That the dendrite spiny protrusions
are greatly increased in numbers and their connections are much stronger
than in non-emotional states of creation. Therefore, this creates the
probability that you'll remember things much longer, and much more clearly,
and will be able to recall much better, when you are in this very high
emotional state.
However, it must be noted that if you are at extremely high levels of emotion
in negative emotional categories, it will act as deterrence to increased
cognitive ability. Those emotions are anger, stress, anxiety, and high levels of
fear.
Cahill, Larry; Prins, B.; Weber, M.; and McGaugh, J.L. “Beta-adrenergic
Activation and Memory for Emotional Events”, Nature 371, 702-4,
(1994)
This is the written published research findings from Dr. Cahill as presented
at the Brain Exposition. They are attainable from us, and are obtainable from
the magazine entitled “Nature”. Please contact us for the date and volume of
the proper issue of that magazine.
Caine, Geoffrey; Caine, Renate Nummela; Crowell, Sam. Mind Shifts,
Zephyr Press (1999)
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1. One of the most exciting recent science findings is that the number and
strength of neuron connections are influenced by experience, a phenomenon
called plasticity.
1. There are about 100 billion neutrons, or nerve cells in the brain, and in a
single human brain the number of possible interconnections between these
cells is greater than the number of atoms in the universe.
3. Every complex event embeds information in the brain and links what is
being learned to the rest of the learner’s current experiences, past knowledge,
and future behavior!
However, the book does contain some very interesting diagrams and
drawings regarding the growth of the number of D S P connections over the
first few years of a child's life. But the book would be of much more interest
to a student in
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neurosurgery studies, rather than for those of us who are studying and
searching for the science of success. This book is not recommended reading.
Canfield, Jack; Hansen, Mark Victor; and Hewitt, Les. The Power of Focus,
Health Communications, Inc. (2000)
Well, I suppose, from the multimillion sellers, of Chicken Soup for the Soul,
you would expect better. This, and many other books, sure gives me hope!!
Especially with all the syrupy stuff in the front from the Certified Speaking
Professional and CPAEs that say this book is great!
2. Your everyday habits will determine your future. If you persist at developing
a new behavior, eventually it becomes AUTOMATIC!
3. Example p 4 if the wife asks you to pick something up on the way home from
work, it’s not uncommon to totally forget because you’re programmed
(automatic)(subconscious) to take the same way home every night!
4. The great news is that you can reprogram yourself any time you choose to
do so!
5. After you have formed a new habit (21-30 days straight) after 21 experiences
with that new habit, its harder NOT to do it than to do it (Benchism: Bad Habits
are good!)
8. Priorities and Procrastination: 4-ds: Dump it, Delegate it, Defer it, Do it! Page
45 (Look for David Allen book on this) If you've got a frog to swallow, don’t
look at it too long; and if you've got more than one, eat the big one first!
10. Top Ten List for GOALS: They must be YOURS; MEANINGFUL;
SPECIFIC; MEASURABLE; FLEXIBLE (written in pencil) CHALLENGING
AND EXCITING; WELL-BALANCED; REALISTIC (There are no unrealistic
goals, only unrealistic time frames!); SUPPORTED!
11. These two pages are GREAT: p 74-75 (see attached) Your List and how to
tourney bracket prioritize your list!
12. Master Plan: 1 review goal checklist 2 set 101 goals and prioritize by
importance 3 Create a picture book 4. Use an ideas book 5 visualize, think,
reflect, and review 6. DEVELOP MENTORS AND MASTERMIND GROUPS!
14. B-ALERT Blueprint; Action; Learning see example p 103; Exercise; Relax;
Think!!! If you realized how powerful your thoughts were (scientifically) you
would never think (finish) a negative thought!!
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15. Say NO to TOXIC people! P 127 Do I Like, Trust, and Respect them???
16. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light not
our darkness that frightens us! STEP INTO YOUR FEAR p 162!!! Everything
you want is on the other side of fear
17. It is critical that you understand one thing—confidence grows by doing, not
by thinking! Self-steam is much more important than self-esteem! The road to
self-esteem and confidence is paved with daily/weekly/tiny victories
18. The world responds to those who ask! If your not moving closer to what you
want, you probably aren’t doing enough asking!
19. Seven ways to boost your business by ASKING p 189 - 205 AND this
includes HOW to ask!
22. All broken relationships can be traced to broken agreements. Integrity and
trust are based on keeping your agreements. When you make others feel good
about themselves, they will LIKE you.
23. See p 258-260 for how to get success (art link letter etc)
Canfield, Jack; Hansen, Mark Victor; and Hewitt, Les. The Power of Focus,
Health Communications, Inc. (2000)
Capacchione, Lucia, Ph.D., ATR. Visioning, Penguin Putnam, Inc. (2000)
Carnegie, Dale. How to Win Friends and Influence People, Simon & Schuster
(1964)
An absolute classic! This book was first written in 1936. Therefore, when
writing this book, Dale Carnegie certainly didn't know the difference between a
synapse and an axon. But we have included it in our bibliography for several
reasons. Number one, in our Science for Success Techniques (#2), we teach how
to stomp out all automatic negative thoughts and then turn them into positive
ones.
A part of this is that certainly your brain neuron patterns are influenced by
interactions with people. Dale Carnegie says when dealing with people you
must do so from a very positive approach. We certainly agree with that. But
most importantly, if you have previously read this book, and if it is sitting on
your shelf gathering dust, pull it off and read it again after you have gained a
very strong understanding of how the brain physiologically works. After you
know how we scientifically form our work habits, and you read this book again,
you will be amazed at how much clearer Dale Carnegie's ideas are in his book
now referred to the neuroscience research.
It is amazing, and a much better read now than it was when I first read it over 35
years ago. This books still has as much meaning
now and significance now as it did 60 years ago. His techniques make very
good scientific sense, and will certainly help you form the appropriate neuron
connections to help you influence people and reach the top. Nobody gets to the
level of total success without the help of others and Mr. Carnegie's book can
help you get to that level.
We picked up this book obviously because of its title which includes the word
“Success”. As I went through the book, I found many motivational clichés, and
many non-scientific approaches in trying to help people reach success. The
author uses 10 rules for your journey toward success. (at least the author
believes you never really reach success, but rather the journey itself is success)
Her 10 rules each had at least 10 clichés in them, and her actions that you
should take are not very clear within those rules. For example, she says that
wanting success is the first step towards obtaining it. Wow! There is some real
news for you! I found therefore, very little useful information, with the possible
exception that we agree with her, you must set goals for your journey toward
success. And you can't possibly reach success without first finding your passion
and making that your major goal.
Chandler, Steve. 17 Lies That Are Holding You Back & The Truth That Will
Set You Free, Renaissance Books (2000)
1. People lie about their limits: Roger Bannister was the first sub-4:00 mile,
people feared that human body wasn’t constructed to run the mile under
4:00…until he did…. then dozens more did it w/I 2 yrs…NOW sixty year
olds are bettering earlier gold medal times set by those in their 20s!!
2. WHY? Because humans are learning to expand their minds while the body
merely follows!! Some say this is because of better vitamins, training, and
nutrition…. BUT that doesn’t explain it!! BECAUSE the same improvement
has not happened with racehorses!! Over the same period of time, horses
have also had better training, and nutrition; they’ve even had controlled
breeding. Yet no such astounding improvements in the times of racehorses’
speed records have occurred.
3. WHY? Human beings are finding greater and greater power within their
minds!!!!
4. Two kinds of people, those who say “I failed at that” and those that say,
“I’m a failure”…. no person can be a failure!!
5. Whatever your age, your upbringing, or your education, what you’re made
of is mostly unused potential.
8. Very good stuff on Lie # 6: Nothing succeeds like failure!!! If you want to
double your success rate double your failure rate!! It is the FEAR of failure,
and the FEAR of losing that hurts us, not failure. Use here the John Cooper
example at Ohio State, and others: playing not to lose!!! P 84
12. Lie # 10 - I wrote in the book “Use this whole chapter! It is powerful!!
(People really upset me) I was right! It is terrific
13. Lie “It’s a shame we didn’t catch that on video”, is really about living in
the past, to keep ourselves out of action, and exploring the uncertain beauty
of what is right in front of us!!
14. That’s just the way I am lie is treated by physiological proof of the
contrary, but this book relates it to our lie that if someone else changes,
we say the secondary lie: someone or something changed them…. not the
truth, which is they changed themselves!! P 174
15. Can use very emotional ending to this module by using the quotes in
back of book
a. The universe is leaving us clues p 232-234
b. How do we stop the deception? Nelson Mandela quote p 235
This can be found in the brain connection library on line. This is very much
worth reading. There is a lot of talk in some of the text that we recommend
and have included in our bibliography, that indicate human beings have
never used 100% of their brains capacity. In fact usually we will see
something that indicates that man has never used more than 10 percent of his
brain’s capacity. This author takes that myth and tries to explain it. Or more
correctly he attempts to destroy that myth by explaining that we always are
using 100 percent of our brain’s capacity. Otherwise we would be dead!
Wow!
That's really good news. But you should read this book anyway, because it's
a good example of just how stupid some people that have a Ph.D. degree can
be. When people talk about human beings never using a very large
percentage of their brain’s capacity, they are referring to the brain’s
ENORMOUS capacity to form a new connections of neurons. And this is
very true! No human being has ever formed anywhere near 10% of their
brains capacity for neuron connections. What this Ph.D. is talking about, is
that we constantly use 100 percent of the brain tissue that we currently have.
This of course is true, but certainly is not what those of us are referring to
when we talk about the brain’s tremendous capacity to do new things. We all
have the tremendous capacity to form millions and millions and millions of
new connections in our brain. Once we form these new connections, our
brain, of course will use all of them. Be sure to call me, Dr. Chudler, when
you reach your maximum! [See next book entry!!]
The limbic system functions 80,000 times faster than the thinking brain,
cerebral cortex. Thinking is last, not first and foremost. Why are we so easily
swayed by other people? When we get all pumped up at a motivational
seminar, p 24, we talk to one negative person, rumors and gossip, they get
amplified! (Normal behavior for us from the Stone Age) We've got to change
our own evolution.
Competitive thoughts can interfere with the best performance - nobody has
to lose in order for you to win, p 29.
Chapter 4 - Be a Lighthouse, Not a Weathervane - be a guiding light for
people in bad weather, don't tell them about the bad weather.
Chapter 5 - Dare to Trust! - Leadership quality. When communicating with
your employees, sit down, people feel rushed when they're standing. Seated
talks are much more effective on our brains. (P 49,50) Give recognition and
honor to the greatness in others; don't forget to make other people feel
important.
Hardiness is developed, not found - we're not persistent and tough going in -
it's something we develop, along with calmness under pressure!
You've got to develop the skin of a rhino and the soul of an angel - don't take
things personally! It's all about perception. Keep challenging your edges.
Climb a different mountain - stretch your comfort zone. Be a relentless
architect of the untapped possibilities of human beings. If you do that your
path has a purpose that's long beyond where it leads.
1. Our limbic system is the area of the brain most responsible for our
emotional expressions.
2. One key part of the limbic system is the hypothalamus: it directs those
emotional reactions that have to do with survival (the fight or flight
syndrome)
3. There are SIX reasons why our memory weakens with age IF left
unattended (p 32)
4. See also ‘patterns’ p 33
5. Even better news is that the researchers have found that dendrites can
grow new protrusions or spines in response to new experiences, and
exercising the mind actually improves our physical capacity for memory!
6. See-messages” p 35 and p 36 and wow on p 37
7. WOW: a piece of brain the size of a grain of rice contains about 1 million
nerve cells, 10 billion synapses, and 20 miles of axons. Millions of signals
flash thru the brain at any given moment of time.
8. When a new piece of information comes along, it embeds itself in our
memory by changing the pattern of the electrical impulses that transport that
new piece of information thru our neurons. Long-term memory storage
therefore, involves the growth of new synaptic connections between neurons.
c. You can’t conceive of how high ‘up’ is, except for the limitations of
your own mind! Meaning, once you decide how high it is that you want
to go, that is how high you WILL go (no higher) p xviii
d. PMA is a powerful force that will allow you to reach any goal; the
secret is control (over your thoughts); and it must be practiced at every
waking minute!
n. Success and all that goes with it gravitates towards the person who does
not accept temp setbacks and adversity as PERMANENT FAILURE!
o. 12 rules of good leadership: p 83
p. How to become enthusiastic? ACT IT!!! P 95-98 for rules on how!!
q. The secret of success is that that person has made a habit of doing things
that failures will not do!
r. ‘Mastermind Alliance for business teams or groups…see p 163.
s. Great quote from Clement Stone, “one problem with self-help books is too
often they tell you WHAT to do….but they DON’T tell you HOW or
WHY!!!!! P 183
t. Page 194-105 shows how to generate ideas and turn into reality
u. Might want to re-read Ch 18 on universal law.
v. With a self-help speech/seminar/book…there is no conclusion…YOU
write the conclusion
Czerner, Thomas B., M.D. What Makes You Tick?, John Wiley & Sons, Inc.
(2001)
However, it remains a fascinating look at how our brain functions, and why
we do the things we do. And after all, what we are most interested in are
those books that give us the ‘how’ and ‘why’ of our brain. Therefore, it’s
worth reading. And in particular Chapter 10 that explains the strengthening
of synaptic connections with use of those neuron patterns. When an impulse
arrives at a synapse, while levels of neurotransmitters are high as a result of a
previous firing of that neuron, a release and buildup of calcium occurs which
causes a release of more of neurotransmitters, into that synaptic connections,
which produces a stronger signal and a stronger connection.
This folks, is what we call learning, and is very much a natural source for
your amazing mental capacities. Reading this will help you see the
tremendous possibilities that you have from a neuron scientific point of view.
Therefore from that perspective it is a good book to read over and over
again.
Damasio, Antonio R. The Scientific American Book of the Brain, The
Lyons Press (1999)
1. Visualizing the mind - the ability now to actually do a modern brain image
of our brain during thought stems from the development and imaging
technology that during the past few years has seen Positron Emission
Tomography (PET) and Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) coupled with
powerful computers that can now capture in real time, images of the actual
physiology associated with the thought processes in the brain while we are
thinking.
2. These techniques show how specific regions of the brain light up when
activities, such as reading, are performed and also show how supporting cells
organize and coordinate these tasks.
4. It is the blood flow to the brain that provides the signals detected by
functional MRI and PET when resting neurons become active, blood flow to
them increases and an MRI detects these changes in oxygen level. PET relies
on the increase delivery of radioactive injected water, which diffuses out of
the vessels to reach all parts of the brain that are in activity.
Desilet, John. Beginning to Connect Brain Research for the Gifted and
Talented. Learning Brain Expo, The Brain Store. (2002)
This was a presentation at the Brain Expo in San Diego. This is a research
paper presented by Dr. Desilet. He presented information that indicated there
is now a better understanding of the connection between the positive
emotional support and enriched environments that seem to be available to
those children who evolved to a gifted status. Previously of course, it was
believed that some child prodigies were born genetically with those skills.
But today the new research shows that this is not the case, but rather most
evidence shows that the genetic predisposition is only minor and that the
enriched environment including such things as positive emotional support,
high levels of sensory stimulation, a stress free atmosphere, a high level of
positive social interaction, and active participation, (all of which are science
indicators for the formation of permanent neuron connections formations),
create so-called “gifted” performers!.
Donovan, Jim. This is Your Life, Not a Dress Rehearsal, Bovan Publishing
Group (1999)
Oh if only a dollar for each pop-psych cliché!
1. “Trying on Success” Go ahead and do things that will give you a glimpse
of the more affluent lifestyle to come (test drive that Mercedes.)
2. Children are more enthusiastic, because they live in the present!
Yep! That’s it!
Dowling, John E. Creating Mind, W. W. Norton & Company (1998)
a. Now believe there are between 100 and 1000 billion neurons in each
human brain…more than there are stars in the Milky Way!!
b. Has the best pictures and explanations of the structure of neurons and
synapses. (Chapter 2)
c. Reticular formation neurons exert their effects on virtually all parts of the
brain.
d. The cerebral cortex alone has about 10 billion neurons (out of 100-1000
billion) (1% to 10%)
e. DO WE SEE WITH OUR EYES or OUR MIND?? (See picture on p 118
and on p 120)
f. The maturing brain. P 135+ gives ALL of us great hope and excitement!!
For certain regions of the brain, especially ones concerned with higher neural
processing, substantial neuronal modification and synaptic PLASTICITY
can continue throughout life…Harvard experiments prove that substantial
remodeling of the brain circuitry can occur.
g. P 159 Stephen Kosslyn of Harvard, has shown that when we form a
mental image of something (like Snoopy the dog for example with his floppy
ears) the visual areas of the occipital cortex are more active, as though we
are actually seeing snoopy or a picture of snoopy!!!
h. P 163 we have more vivid memories of events that evoke a strong
emotional response!!
i. We usually think of strong emotions as interfering with rational behavior;
but they also trigger in us a plan of action!
j. THE FUTURE? Certainly our increased understanding of brain
mechanisms will have enormous impact on how humans conduct their
affairs!
Dozier, R. Fear Itself: The Origin and Nature of the Powerful Emotion
That Shapes Our Lives and Our World. St Martin’s Press. (1998)
Dryden, Gordon and Vos, Dr. Jeannette. The Learning Revolution, The
Learning Web (1999)
[not done]
Durand, Dave. Perpetual Motivation, ProBalance, Inc. (2000)
You alone control what enters your head as a thought – if you don’t control
your thoughts, who does? Only you control your thinking. You cannot have a
feeling which is an emotion without first having a thought. Take away your
brain and your ability to feel is wiped out. A feeling is a physical reaction to
a thought.
A cry, blush, increase in heart rate – first signal from you thought center.
People do not make you unhappy; you make yourself unhappy by your
thoughts. To be a happy healthy person, you’ve got to think differently.
If you’re going to have new thinking it requires awareness of the old
thinking. A thought becomes a belief when you’ve worked on it repeatedly.
If you still believe that you do not choose to be unhappy try to imagine this:
every time you became unhappy you were subjected to a severe painful
electrical shock. How long would you continue to hold onto unhappy
feelings if that happened?
Your brain has enough storage capacity to accept 10 new facts every 10
seconds of your life. 100 trillion words (capacity of brain)
If you are growing you are alive, if you are not growing you might as well be
dead.
Page 32 – example, if you were told at gunpoint that you had to learn to run
a mile under 4 ½ minutes in one year of else I’m going to kill you, you
would learn to do that within a year. In order to master you must repeat –
repetition, repetition, repetition…
You need to work on loving yourself – good self-image, do not need other
people’s approval.
Approval in itself is not unhealthy – approval seeking is an erroneous zone
when it becomes a need instead of a want.
We are constantly bombarded with messages encouraging us to seek
approval (page 73)
We now know that with plasticity of the brain there are 4 neurotic senses that
you cannot use again – that’s just me; I’ve always been that way; I can’t help
it; that’s just the way I am; that’s my nature. Page 96 list – 10 typical I AM
categories
Two of the most useless emotions are guilt and worry. Eliminate guilt (page
125) - keeping a guilt journal
Explore the unknown, only the insecure strive for security. You must be
spontaneous and be open to new experiences.
Page 155 – nothing fails like success, because you do not learn anything
from success, you only learn from failure. With failure we learn to treasure
success. It’s the journey that’s important!!
Page 170 – internal vs. external locus (?) of control. You can automatically
go into the top 25% of people if you’ve learned to internalize control, if you
assign responsibility for your emotional state in all of your present moments
to someone or something external to yourself you are like 75% of the people.
You only come in the top 25% if you take responsibility for how you feel
squarely on your won shoulders. You’ve got to get rid of external thinking.
You can never find fulfillment if you persist in permitting yourself to be
controlled by external forces. All blame is a total waste of time. Blame will
never change you.
Dyer, Dr. Wayne W. You’ll See It When You Believe It ,Avon Books (1990)
This is the second book by Dr. Dyer that we have reviewed. The other book
is ABOVE. That book was good, this book is even better. Several chapters in
this book are excellent! Chapter 2 entitled “Thought”, provides an excellent
explanation for the ‘how’ and ‘why’ and the necessity for visualizations, and
the four principles that affect your ability to create effective visualizations.
Great stuff! If you read only that chapter the book is worth the price. The
first half of the book is very good, but the last few chapters get a little too
carried away into the depths of outer space for me.
Here are the four principles for effective visualization: number one-your
actions always come from your images; number two-your visualization must
be in the present tense; number three-you must be willing to do whatever it
takes until your visualization turns into reality; and number four-you must
realize there is no such thing as failures you cannot fail you can only produce
negative results not fail .
1. You cannot train your brain, until you understand how it functions. You
have to be aware of the way you think
2. By the time we are 40, we are expressing less than two % of the
measurable creativity that we demonstrated as young children.
3. What makes you creative: page 5
4. How we became NOT creative page 25-27
5. How to change: BIG WOW page 29!!!!! Your brain is always seeking
patterns learned from previous experiences or activities or thoughts; and
projecting them into new situations!
6. Number of negative messages per day to positive 6 out of 7!! Page 37
7. How to change to positive!!!! Page 42-46 Change perspective-change
expectation-visualize!!!!! Very good examples of creative visualization!!
Page 78
Cause and Effect: One must first do more than you’re being paid, to make
yourself worth more than you’re being paid! The ‘cause’ must always come
first!! Once it does you can always count on the effect!
Lock on. 2. Act 3. Manage your progress. 4. Persist
To get whatever you want in life, you only have to set in motion the
appropriate cause, and the effect will take care of itself.
1. Teaching how to brainstorm. Page 5+
2. VERY GOOD: procedure to determine your top priorities. P 8 – 11
31
3. Page 19 Finding your ‘purpose’ “It’s not what you achieve that brings you
joy; it’s the person you must become in order to achieve it!
4. You don’t get what you want from life; you get what you are!
5. Chapter 4 Eleven steps in goal selection; see attached
6. Chapter 5 The Plan: List the steps; arrange in order of most sense; then
break into smaller steps (outline) UNTIL you create steps so small they
appear inviting to you!! WOW!! Then set deadlines; milestones; scheduling;
and DO NOT FORGET: PROGRESS REPORTS---WRITTEN!!
7. Focus on the smallest step you can think of! The secret is to make that
first step so simple, so unintimidating, that you give yourself no reason to
resist it! See LIE example p 48
8. New habits = 30 days, and you cannot skip even one! If you do not have
to start over!!
9. Visualization – internal practice: foul shot example p 53, use exercises p
54-55 to see how this really works!! PREMEMORIES
10. AFFIRMATIONS – using all the senses! See attached p 58-59
23. Fear: concentrate on the execution and not the result!! Putting…pitching,
etc.
24. The myth of self-discipline. Success flows from passion, not self-
discipline. Successful people do what they need to do whether they like it or
not. That’s self-discipline…EXCEPTIONALLY successful people do what
they need to do because they love it!! That’s PASSION!!
25. MJUST see attached p 154-155. Fall in love with the cause, and the
effect will take care of itself!
26. Play the pauses! Know when to quit. That’s right! Quit!! See p 157, and
160 (relate to 440 race)
27. And don’t forget what I’ve teaching in class to Continuing Education
students. Anticipate your success and plan for it!!! P 162-163
This book is filled with clichés. The book does not really give any scientific
basis for helping you overcome procrastination. This is probably not the kind
of book that will help our students. There is no neuroscience explanation at
all in this book. For example, as one of the projects in the book it simply
asks you to list the five things you are currently putting off in your life. Then
she asks you to list the fears that are holding you back on these items. Then
the book simply tells you that you need to overcome these fears. Wow! What
terrifically good news.
Then the book stops. It gives you no further information on how to change
permanently those neuron patterns, nor how to overcome those fears, nor the
basis of those fears. Not recommend.
Farndon, John. The Big Book of the Brain, NTC/Contemporary Publishing
Group (2000)
1. The pituitary gland (straight back from between the eyes, controls the release
of chemicals called hormones.
2. See page 14 for good drawing of what a nerve cell (neuron) looks like
3. Page 16-17 has good explanation. Of neurotransmitters and the lock and key
concept of how different types of signals (thoughts) only go one direction or
route, even though many nerves are interconnected (“pass it on”)
4. We drive and see to drive or ride a bike mostly with our subconscious mind.
Inside your brain, a bundle of nerves called the “superior colliculus” is
constantly monitoring the signals coming from your eyes!!!!!!!! It makes you
dodge instantly of someone swerves into your path!!!
5. Dreams are mentioned on page 40-41, as possible indications of your
subconscious.
Fortgang, Laura Berman. Take Yourself To The Top, Warner Books, Inc. (1998)
Written by a ‘coach’ who works with many clients as a Coach, and does
most via the telephone! Title implies she might explain how to become
YOUR OWN coach—self-coached—as it were; similar to self-motivated,
but I did not find material in text to correlate to that unfortunately.
But may be able to use some of the things in book, if we go to a ‘coaching’
seminar or consulting module in the future.
1. To reach success, you may need to fire some people in your life. That is,
fire people emotional! You will no longer be investing in them or in your
relationship with them!
2 You are what you tolerate!
11. Create and STAY IN TOUCH with your frontline 20(defined on p 180)
these are the ones who bring in business simply because they believe in you!
12 Fifteen ways to SERVE PEOPLE p 183-184 # 13-make people more
important than anything else! 14-Keep your promises-15. Send people a note
or card when they are down.
Gabriel, Gerald. What is Emotional Intelligence?
www.brainconnection.comm. Topic Library. (May 2000)
Glynn, Ian. An Anatomy of Thought, Oxford University Press (1999)
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Not done
Goleman, Daniel. Emotional Intelligence, Bantam Books (1995)
Goleman, Daniel. Working With Emotional Intelligence, Bantam Books
(1998)
Not done
Goleman, Daniel. Vital Lies, Simple Truths, Simon & Schuster (1985)
3. Only good stuff I found: page 117+ on forgetting and forgetting we have
forgotten—Explains how and why we: Repression; Rationalization:
Denial; Projection; sublimation; and Selective inattention!! Re-read
these
Some people develop their wishes into desires. They want the same thing
constantly, but that is the end of their commitment and effort (10%)
Some people turn these w and d into hope (they dare to imagine that they
might get what they seek (8%)
Some people turn this into belief: they actually expect what they want will
actually happen (6%)
Some transform this belief into a burning desire, which develops into faith
(4%)
FINALLY, a very few take this faith and make a plan to get what they want
and then take ACTION! (2%)
10. Enthusiasm is the fuel that drives things forward!
11. ACT enthusiastic (lie!) and keep a log. For a month: write down the
circumstances that inspire you and the manifestations of that enthusiasm.
12. WARNING: If you have to resort to enthusiasm boosters frequently,
something is wrong! You have strayed from your vision, and maybe you got
the wrong one…Get a vision check=up!!
13. Since the only things you can totally control are your thoughts, your
success depends on the strength and quality of your controlled habits!
15. Sex is your most precious and constructive drive; it is also the most
easily debased. Sex is behind all creative forces that advance human
destiny. Why? Because the desire for sex causes us to work to please
others, and out of that work spring kindness and the understanding of
others
Hill, Napoleon. Think & Grow Rich, Ballantine Books (1960)
Page 40,41 - within each synapse hundreds of receptors on the dendrite side
wait for the proper chemical to be exuded from its dedicated axon. These
chemicals are called ligands. They make up chemicals known as neuro-
transmitters, peptides and steroids. Only 1 type of receptor can
admit its dedicated ligand. Lock and key type system. Only an endorphin can
attach to an endorphin receptor; i.e., dopamine would bounce off of it.
Page 41 - Fig. 2.3 - brain process at a glance
Nicotine interrupts the flow of oxygen to the brain particularly to the right
hemisphere of the brain. This resulting oxygen deprivation is accompanied
by decreased metabolism of sugar, which translates into sluggish and faulty
memory, ineffective problem solving and lower mental output in general.
Page 148 - regard your dreams as forms of 'brain storming'.
Page 351 - the word 'emotion' comes from Latin which means 'to move',
closely related to the word motivation - an action towards a goal, therefore,
to the degree I am motivated I am pursuing a goal - to the degree that I'm
emotional I'm perceiving either a threat to my goal
(negative emotion) or significant progress towards my goal (positive
emotion).
Page 354 - rational decision making and planning cannot occur without
access to the emotions - emotions are necessary for reasoning to occur.
Topic 19.9 - page 370 - never confuse emotions with moods
Page 377 - difference between being motivated and unmotivated
Photo copy page 378 and 379 - attach to this book bullet - use in any
presentation on motivation
Page 382 - look at book 'Learned Optimism'
Page 385 - one of the best tools for changing pessimistic to optimistic is
having positive expectation.
Page 388 - defines fear and distinguishes between fear and anxiety
Page 391- what we have to do to relieve stress and stressors that create this
release of chemicals from our prehistoric days (fight or flight) List of 15
different things
Page 425 and 426 - number 7 - very good if working with management
people in corporations - evolutionary psychology
Page 437 - the speed of habituation is associated with the threshold of the
peripheral nervous system.
Page 512 - topic 24.11 - lists some applications for a public speaker to
develop their prestige as a public speaker
Figure 25.1, p 528 - may be useful in future, process of memory formation
chart
Part 9 of this book - p 648, The Brain in the Workplace - working smarter
Page 656- topic 32.2 - empowerment, extrinsic vs. intrinsic rewards,
consensus of current thinking is that motivation revolves around who sets a
course of action - external or internal? Internal motivators are developed
when people participate in goal setting and problem solving as opposed to
letting others set their goals and make their decisions and solve their
problems.
Hutson, Don; Crouch, Chris; Lucas, George. The Contented Achiever, Black
Pants Publishing (2001)
1. When you don’t consider money, you make the right choice, and the right
choice always leads to money! Relate to Harvard or Yale study done in 1960-
80 AND 1980 to 2000 1250 graduates 945($) vs. 255(love)= 101
millionaires 100=love
2. Success model: A clear vision of what you desire; An accurate assessment
of your reality; An action plan that will move you from your current reality
to your vision
3. BE EMOTIONAL. Invest your daily time on activities that create positive
internal emotions (self-actualization!
4. Sometimes your beliefs need glasses (corrective lens), when you’re not
seeing too straight!
5. 5 Never underestimate the power of self-talk!!!
6. The quickest way to change someone else is to change something about
YOU!
When you are attacking someone else---look in the mirror! You may be
attacking them for something you don’t like about yourself.
4. Just like driving becomes a habit and therefore automatic and by the
subconscious; your habits resulting from your belief systems affect the way
you think, learn, and communicate and YET you can be TOTALLY unaware
of these silent forces at work!!
5. You have approximately 40,000 thoughts a day and the majority are
negative. You also repeat about 60% from the previous day so you repeat
what you thought about yesterday…day after day! Ask yourself: Is my
thinking resulting in the quality of life I desire?
6. So if you want to install a mental filter, you must FIRST become AWARE
of your thinking patterns!!
7. Thoughts like beliefs can become automatic…The more often you have
that thought, the more likely it is to become a habit and develop into an
unconscious thought pattern (negative) Thoughts become habits as the
connection between cells strengthens. Each time you repeat a thought it
is more likely to become a habit! The more often you have a thought, the
more easily the message passes from one cell to another. But remember, it
works both ways!! So change your negatives immediately into something
that is more supportive of your goals/vision.
8. Book has some very good ‘workshop’ type self-analysis quizzes, etc to use
with Corp clients!!
9. Good description of the Chemistry of stress! Page 108+
10 Good chapter on meetings! How and why!! P 170+
Jeffers, Susan, Ph.D. Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, Ballantine Books
(1987)
People will go the extra mile when they feel appreciated. For example, when
they feel good about themselves. So make them feel good about themselves
by showing appreciation and recognition!
Most employees are starved for ‘thank-you’s”
The American educational system has traditionally emphasized errors by
marking them in bright red. Meanwhile, correct answers go unmarked---
seemingly unrecognized. Same in business, we call them in to the office
when things have gone wrong! THIS IS NORMAL EVOLUTION!!
Jensen, Eric. Completing the Puzzle, The Brain Store, Inc. (1997)
Jensen, Eric. Brain-Based Learning, The Brain Store, Inc., (2000)
Johnson, Debbie. Think Yourself Thin, HarperCollins Publishers, Inc.
(1996) (Audio Cassette)
Kagan, Spencer. Multiple Intelligences: Strategies, Vision and Myths.
Learning Brain Expo. The Brain Store. (2002)
Kahn, Adam. Self-Help Stuff That Works, You Me Works (1999)
This is a good book, filled with anecdotal styles articles (117 of them)
These articles are divided into 3 topic-groups: Attitude, Work, and People.
Although most are not niche-specific, some are very usable, and I have
marked those with an”S4S” and did some highlighting.
A. Attitude
B. Work
C. People
Keller, Jeff. Attitude is Everything, INTI Publishing & Resource Books, Inc.
(1999)
a. Many, many statements in this book are examples of what I do not want to
teach! It gives cliché after cliché that I might want to use as examples of
motivation that doesn't last (we don't know "WHY?") P 30, 31, 32, 33, 38.
Finally, on p 39 an answer to "why." Again, p 55, a good one. P 66, on the
call with fake food poisoning, example.
b. The "why" shows up again on p 90
c. Fear, and facing it p 101 and putting under pressure and pitching under
pressure: concentrate on the execution!!!! Come up with and write the
"Scientific "WHY" Doug. P 102
d. Networking gets results quicker: Lesson 12, p 118
Knaus, Dr. William J. Do It Now!, John Wiley & Sons, Inc., (1998)
Well, as you can see, there are not many marks in this book! This means that
Best line in the whole book: “There are no failures, only experimenting to
learn what works and what doesn’t work, and where you can improve!
He even got the pattern for change wrong: Awareness…Actualization…
Action!, not what he says on p 68
Perfectionism and Fear of Failure are overcome by: PPMA, and A A A
IF YOU HAVE PROM=PEOPLE PROBLEMS: Dealing with approval
problems: See GREAT fun ideas on page 121 that you can do to overcome
them!!!!! (Two different color shoes for a day etc.!!
Learning DELAYED GRATIFICATION skills: p 132 for exercises!!
a. Both of these short books contain 52 “nuggets” or single topics that John
develops with very good word usage and quotable lines. In fact, way too
many to right down here. However I should keep the books handy and make
a “card file” of the phrases used therein when I go to do the final draft of any
speech or of a book, use some of these phrases
b. For example: “What is important is not whether a person is busy, but
whether he is ‘progressing’. It is a question of activity versus
accomplishment!”. For example: “You will find that when all of your
reasons are defensive, your cause almost never succeeds!”
Mazziotta, John. Revolutionary new Eyes on the Brain. Learning Brain
Expo. The Brain Store (2002)
1. Boy, sometimes you think WOW! I’ve finally found it! A really good
book! Just look at that title! And then you make the mistake of opening it!
Ugh! Not nearly what we wanted!
2. Nevertheless, we can use this as an example of the old clichéd CRAP!!
3. Want an example of ugliness: look at p 14-18!
4. Always Read with a pen in your hand!
5. Find a job that you love to do, and you will never work another day in
your life!!
6. Always date your papers p 74!!!!!!!!!!
7. FOUND a couple good things: Put a higher value on your time and you’ll
spend it differently!! See page 94 and 95. You are worth $600.00/hour, so put
a $10 bill on the wall with your clock to remind you that you are worth
$10.00 a minute!!!8. Only really good stuff is near the end of book.
Intro - p XIII; Miracles will begin happening to you when you begin to use
the power of your subconscious mind. Your habitual thinking and imagery
mold fashion and create your destiny. As a person thinketh in their
nonconscious mind, so are they!
Norem, Julie K., Ph.D. The Positive Power of Negative Thinking, Basic
Books (2001)
Pinker, Steven. How the Mind Works, W.W. Norton & Company (1997)
a. For our purpose, focus, and goals, this is nearly a totally worthless
book of 600 pages. It does contain some curiously interesting eye
Illusions, etc, but that’s about it. What a waste of trees!
Pryor, Karen. Don’t Shoot the Dog, Bantam Books (1999)
2. Everything vibrates - the law of vibration. All thoughts, etc. The law of
attraction is a subset to the law of vibration, says things that vibrate at
similar frequencies attract each other. You will be attracted to and will attract
those things that which you focus on. What you think about you will bring
about (coaching not to win, Ken Griffey, Jr., etc) If you spend 90% of your
time focusing on what you don't want - guess what?!?!?!
5. Page 32 - ask anyone who has every succeeded how they succeeded and
they will tell you by failing enough, a lot. If something swings to the right it
must eventually swing to the left. Everything in existence is involved in 'the
dance'.
In your conscious brain you choose your own thoughts, but your
subconscious functions in every cell of your body and those are
nonconscious thoughts (some crap)
Page 52 - definition of subconscious: ability to sensor or reject information
immediately and automatically.
Page 53 - Thoughts go to feelings go to actions equal results. Your conscious
mind is your gardener, your subconscious mind will grow the seeds that you
planted and produce results that exactly reflect the kinds of thoughts that you
planted. Yee haw!!!
Page 57 - change your life - cut your new path. This new paradigm you must
make it as real, specific and comprehensive as you can, i.e., write it down,
etc. Think in unlimiting ways, use present tense, make it emotional, can't use
negatives - must be positive! State what you want, not what you don't want.
Start living your new paradigm and it will happen.
Page 67 - Vision - your mental picture of the life you want to live. Only you
can create your vision. Combination of what you want to be, what you want
to do, what you want to have.
Page 69, 70- Repeat of vision stuff #4 - make your vision emotional -
subconscious can't distinguish between something that is happening and
something that is vividly imagined.
Page 73 - emotion needs to be the fuel that drives you toward your vision.
You must fall in love with your vision. Use visualization techniques.
Emotion drives you into action. If you bought a watch that costs more that
$40.00, you didn't buy it because it was functional or rational, you bought it
because of the way it makes you feel (I love you Doug). We take actions
based on emotions. Even if you think you are rational and reasonable you
make decisions based upon how emotionally strong you feel something is
reasonable or rational.
Page 77- your nonconscious never sleeps - the last thought you think about
before drifting off to sleep is what you give your subconscious to work on all
night long.
Page 122, 123 - accountability (Erroneous Zone book) Only when you are
willing to be accountable for everything in your life can you be responsible
to change or control your life.
Page 125 - being persistent - get into 3% clubs - weeds grow on their own,
but beautiful flowers take nurturing and commitment. Repetition is the first
law of learning. Never leave the site of setting a goal without taking some
action towards that goal within 24 hours. (Powers of 10)
Reivich, Karen, Ph.D.; Jaycox, Lisa, Ph.D., and Gillham, Jane, Ph.D. The
Optimistic Child, HarperCollins Publishers (1996)
Restak, Richard, M.D. All in Your Head: New Research Shows that What
you Thought About the Aging Brain is all Wrong! Modern Maturity
(AARP) (January 5, 2002)
Restak, Richard, M.D. The Secret Life of the Brain ,The Dana Press and
Joseph Henry Press (2001)
Restak, Richard, M.D. The Brain Has A Mind of Its Own, Crown
Publishers, Inc. (1991)
Richardson, Cheryl. Take Time for Your Life, Random House Books (1998)
1. Seems to be cliché filled, but I’ve copied the chapter modules AND made
of copy of the “life wheel” that I used in some CE classes.
2. Chart on page 57 shows how to chart and track time.
3. Also, author is a personal coach, therefore if I have any one-on-one
students who need to “take action” in specific areas, I can come back to this
book to check author’s methods to do so.
4. Also I must reread the section on “running on adrenaline” and Kicking the
Adrenaline habit” p 143+…sounds good!
10. The Limbic System is concerned mainly with the perception, experience,
and expressions of emotions. The gateway to the limbic
system is the Amygdala. Thus the visual centers of the brain in the temporal
lobes send their information to the amygdala, which assesses the emotional
significance of the incoming visual input, then transmits it to other limbic
structures where these emotions are “experienced”
11. Prior knowledge in perceptual experience enables the sensory input to be
organized, recognized, interpreted and understood! P117
12. The best of intentions do not and cannot override the unfolding of
unconscious processes, for the triggers of automatic thought, feeling, and
behavior live and breathe outside conscious awareness and control!!!! P 142-
43
13. Memory is strengthened by increasing the number of divergent
associations...You must elaborate the lines of associates to express memories
across many circumstances.
14. There are no specific storage areas of the brain for memories
Reread if we go in this direction later. It does say that we clearly now for
first time have scientific proof that we can make chemical changes occur in
the brain without evasive drugs!
Schwartz, David J., Ph.D. The Magic of Thinking Big, Simon & Schuster
(1987)
Don’t look at things as they are, look at them as they can be – visualization
adds value to everything. A big thinker always visualizes what can be done
in the future, not stuck in the present. Successful public speakers have 2
things in common: they have something to say and they have a burning
desire for other people to hear it. If you believe something is impossible,
your subconscious mind goes to work for you to find ways to prove it for
you – but when you believe, really believe that something can be done –
your mind goes to work for you and helps you find ways to do it.
Page 87 – a great example of why not everyone thinks big nor can think big
– because of traditional thinking. Average people have always resented
progress and that goes back to our reptilian brain, our non-cortex brain. It’s a
requirement that we had for 30, 50, 70,000 years. Big, successful thinking
people monopolize the listening, small people monopolize the talking. Act
important, it helps you think important!
Don’t forget, The Magic of Thinking Big tells you how to do your 60-second
commercial on a 4x6 index card (p 114) which relates to talking it into the
mirror, which relates to the power of the subconscious – which is what we’re
dealing with.
Experts are now agreeing that the person you are today, your personality,
your ambitions, your present status in life are largely, if not all, a result of
your psychological environment. Experts agree now that the person you will
be, 1, 5, 10 years from now, depends almost entirely on your future
environment, so you’re going to have to change your environment – (use on
rats (Owner’s Manual of the Brain).
Get rid of the negators (crocodiles). The most important keys to life and
success are on p 140,141. The first thing you have to do is to grow the “You
Are Important Attitude” – what does that mean? You must make everyone
around you feel important. People will do more for you, feel more for you,
respect and admire you more when you make them feel important
themselves. One of the keys to life!
Goes without saying – if you make others feel important it makes you feel more
important too.
“How you think when you lose determines how long it will be until you win”
Pages 180,181 – Grow the Action Habit – 8 things to practice!
You must set goals and then you must surrender to your goals. When you
surrender to your goals they become an active part of your subconscious and
if they’re a part of your subconscious, how does your subconscious respond
– AUTOMATICALLY! How wonderful! You don’t have to do it on your
own, it happens automatically. Notice all successful people; notice how they
are totally devoted to their goals and objectives. Their whole life is
integrated around a purpose – surrender to your goal – really surrender to it.
Page 204 – One Step at a Time Story of Eric Severide (used in past – reread)
relates to self-actualization.
Page 212 – 4 very good leadership principles (developed into exercises on
216 and 217)
Seligman, Martin E.P., Ph. D. Learned Optimism: How To Change Your
Mind And Your Life, Simon and Schuster Inc. (1998)
a. Just in the last 5 yrs has Psychiatry, MDs developed a new treatment for
depression: Programs of learned optimism.
b. What if the traditional view of the components of success were wrong?
What if there where a third component-optimism? And what if it could be
scientifically explained and permanently acquired!!!!!
c. 48 question Optimism test! For 1x, 2x p 33 PLUS analysis thereafter
d. 20-question depression test. Page 59
e. What are the costs of pessimism: list of 7, p 113
f. Test your children’s optimism 48 questions p 117
g. Rating your child’s depression p 138-140
a. When you connect a real event with a desirable one that you
imagine…you will see what becomes of the imagined one. If you
operate according to some very simple laws, the imagined event
"Even if you could never fix what's wrong in your life, what is it that's
keeping you from creating everything that you want in your life. You don't
need to fix everything in your life to create everything that you want in your
life." When you change your habits, you change who you are - when you
change who you believe you are you will automatically change your habits.
Regardless of who you are and what you have done with your life, the
number of people that will show up for your funeral is largely dependent
upon the weather.
Chapter 23 - 179: Wealthy people do what they love! The best way out of a
job you don't like is to do a great job at it. Wealthy people know the score -
you've got the keep score to know if you're winning. Wealthy people handle
stress differently that a lot of us do. Wealthy people persist and take
immediate action.
Chapter 28 - You've got to have the power to be unique, to do more than
you're paid to do. Be unique!
Page 198 - Wealthy people have plans instead of goals. When you take care
of the little things the big things will take care of themselves. Broken
window theory.
Page 208 - power of persuasion and negotiation - write down that list!
Page 215 - a way for people to adjust the way they think and react and to
change. I know I don't know what to do, but if I did know what to do, what
would I do? Then do it!!
1. Undying belief
2. Personal programming
3. Passion
Phobias are a different kind of habit - an unsubstantiated fear that was
programmed through emotion (244)
Chapter 6 - 6 steps to forming diamond hard habits
1. Commit
2. Take action now
3. Know your outcome
Page 259 - (write those rules down)
1. Use positive, not negative words and pictures
Page 20-as an infant we're born capable of speaking any of the 3000 human
languages that are on this planet, but we're not born proficient in anyone of
them. Neurons will differentiate and interconnect, and the network for sound
that isn’t in the local language may atrophy over time due to lack of use. Or
what's caused neural pruning. We can see its results in the difficulty that
older Japanese adults have with English.
There's no sound of the 'l' or 'r' sound in the Japanese language, therefore,
those neuron connections were pruned out when they were younger and
therefore it's very difficult for an adult Japanese adult to make the American
'l' or 'r' sound. But, if the young Japanese learn the American language at a
very young age before the natural pruning takes place they have no trouble
with 'r' and 'l' whatsoever - very good example.
I just found something new in this book on page 21 that deals with the
phenomenon that I have discussed somewhere else, either verbally with Jan -
or maybe I have put it in writing - maybe I haven't yet - about the fact that
evolutionary wise, biologically wise we are much slower at evolving than
technology has evolved, i.e., cultural evolution has gone much faster than
biological evolution and that's one of the reasons why people are mostly
negative - because their brain was required to emphasize the negative, back
when we had to be totally in control of the fight or flight hormones or we
would die.
Today we're forced to grapple with current social and environmental issues
using a brain that biologically is 'way far behind' and was tuned in
differently, tuned in to problems of 30,000 years ago, not today. When
physical dangers were signaled by rapid changes in the environment, not by
gradually developing problems, i.e., pollution, overpopulation, etc.
Page 20 gives us a definition of primary consciousness and higher order
consciousness, p 22. I should definitely put those in the notes.
Chapter 2, p 25 - our brain is made up of 100 billion neurons, as we know,
and then 100's and 100's of billions of glial support cells that are organized at
the cellular and systems level.
Page 28 and 29 - Brain Cells and Chemical Messengers - our brain has to
tightly control the chemical balance within its cells. A neuro-transmitter is a
molecule that's released by neurons to transmit messages to other neuron
cells and that chemical decision to send a message depends on whether the
electrical current amount and type of input have reached the neuron's
threshold for output.
Tiny web like spines, p 30, tiny web like spines may develop on dendrites
during memory formation, increasing the number of receptors, therefore the
amount of neurotransmitter information that can enter into that neuron at one
time. These web, spine, and spider web like things that can add up to that
figure, 6.2 million miles long - just the number.
Page 33 - The information that neurons process is coded in the chemical
molecules called neuro-transmitters and into the distribution
patterns of the molecules.
Molecules, of course, are formed from 2 or more atoms. These atoms in the
brain are generally carbon, oxygen, nitrogen and hydrogen - and between 10
and 30 atoms join to form the 20 different amino acids that are the building
blocks of our brain's protein, hormones and neuro-transmitter molecules. The
amino acids that make up a protein molecule are assembled in a linear
sequence within a cell and this chain then twists itself into a characteristic
globular shape before leaving the cell to carry out its protein functions, i.e.,
the messages.
The whole process takes a few minutes or a few seconds and the pattern of
electronic properties that arise out of the molecule shape determines the
effect it will have on cells and other molecules, i.e., thought and thinking
processes. These 20 amino acids can create 100's of thousands of different
protein molecules in the same manner that 26 letters of the alphabet can
create an English language of 500 thousand or more words. The information
in proteins, or words, is coded not into the amino acids or letters themselves,
but into their sequence and the length of the chains.
For example, neither 'd' nor 'o' carries useful verbal information by itself, but
'd-o' together creates the word 'do', a verb. Add a 'g' and the verb 'do'
becomes 'dog'. Reverse the letters and 'dog' becomes 'god' - insert another 'o'
and now 'god' becomes the adjective 'good', etc. When we read, we don't
read the individual letters of the word; instead we perceive the shape of the
entire word as a unit.
Page 38 and the top of p 39 talk about the problem that Dr. Carl talked about
at the NSA convention, that is that our neuro-transmitters don't differentiate
between physical and emotional danger. They can't tell the difference
between contemporary stress and the stress we used to have 30,000 years
ago, so if the stress is of an emotional nature and we don't resolve it
physically, it can create severe emotional problems and turn into severe
physical problems because we don't clear those toxins.
You may want to look at p 38 and the top of p 39 because it talks about
exercise and its positive effect of clearing these toxins and elevating
endorphins, which is one of our hormones and neuro-transmitters that makes
us feel good about ourselves in our social environment - extremely important
neuro-transmitter! We have just found out in the last 3 years that our brains,
these messages that travel via neural-transmitter - don't just travel down 1
path, they can flow down parallel processing systems!
Chapter 3, p 57 - limitations that control the amount of impulses that get into
our brain - those limitations certainly make sense!
Page 58 - sensory systems work through two distinct pathways - a fast
system on which an object is located, and a much slower system that
indicates what the object is. Relate that to our snake example - real and
imagined.
If you have a strong belief, then it will come true for you - but how do you
get a strong belief? Comes from visualization - if you can see it, you will
believe it!!
Every chapter of Tracy’s book has an exercise at the end, for the students to
do.
1. The seven ingredients to success defined: Peace of Mind; Health and
Energy; Loving Relationships; Financial Success; Worthy Goals and Ideals;
Personal Fulfillment; and Self-knowledge and Awareness.
2. Page 39-Your subconscious is your central processing unit, therefore your
task is to reprogram it to the 7 laws of mental mastery: Control;
Causes and Effect; Belief; Expectations (see and use research on page 48-49
with teachers and student expectations); Attraction; Correspondence (you
can tell what’s going on inside you, by looking at what’s going on around
you!); and finally The Law of Equivalency: thoughts objectify themselves!!!
In other words, your thoughts vividly imagined and repeated, charged
with emotion, become your reality!
3. Page 61, + attitude comes from your expectations, which come from your
beliefs AND YOUR BELIEFS COME FROM YOUR self-concept, which
comes from your subconscious program, WHICH you have the POWER to
change!!! P 65-67
4. Self-concept starts forming as a child; we as parents criticize our kids as
much as 8 times as much as we praise them! P 76 gives a list of 7 elements
to TRUE constructive criticism.
c. Verbalization: aloud-mirror-tape-video
d. Acting Lessons: walk the walk and talk the talk
e. Feed your Mind: read=listen-watch-learn
f. Association: Get around like-thinking people
g. Teach others: You become what you teach
8. Chapter 4 starting on page 111 is the most important part of book!! Use
this whole chapter re: The Conscious Mind; The discovery of the
Subconscious mind (p 119) also use:
a. The law of Subconscious Activity
b. The law of Concentration
c. The law of substitution
d. The 5-step method to create the desired condition (p 122)
e. Autogenic and heterogenic conditioning
9. Goals are the fuel in the furnace of achievement! Use 7 REASONS Why
97% of people do not set goals. P 144
10. The principles and rules of goal setting p 149-154
11. THE TWELVE-STEP SYSTEM: P 156-170!!!!! *****
12. What the author calls the “superconscious” mind, is what we call the
subconscious or nonconscious, and Chap. 6 gives all the rules on how to
trust it for all answers based on all perfect memories, etc, including the
superconscious solution
13. The most common negative emotions: doubt and fear; guilt and
resentment; envy and jealousy; anger…Causes of negative emotions other
than evolution p 208-209
14. Page 244: the theme song for seminar # 2 topic “lie your way to success”
****
15 Human relations: p 263 and 7 keys to better relationships: p 265
16. The last chapter in entitled, “The Power of Love”
Van Fleet, James. Hidden Power: How to Unleash the Power of Your
Subconscious Mind, Prentice Hall (1987)
Page 9 - all information stored in your non-cons mind is kept there forever
even though there are times that your conscious mind can't seem to recall it.
Page 15 - list of things to use to use your conscious mind to solve problems
Page 28 - tremendous benefits to be gained by using your imagination
Page 31 - fear technique
Page 44 - how non-conscious mind memory can be improved concentrate on
solution, not the problem (3 ft. putt - concentrate on stroke, not result)
(If you want to overcome your fears, stop concentrating on fear for 30 days -
concentrate drastically on what it is you want, not your fears!)
Page 48,49 - 6-step program to help you become successful - write it down
No failure, no failure ideas, only bad results - act as if it were impossible to
fail! How does a winner react in a critical situation - they take control
immediately, take control, etc. Fall forward fast.
Page 69 - how winners are always consistent in their actions
Page 81 - never discuss your goals with anyone
Find a need and fill it! Page 95 - 6 techniques you can use to fill people's
needs
Vaughan, Susan C., M.D. Half Empty, Half Full, Harcourt, Inc. (2000)
1. Same author as last book, except this time she numbers each research
citation for each conclusion!! SEE BIBLIOGRAPHY!
2. Optimism is not inborn…It is the result of a particular series of mental
machinations (processes)
3. It is clear from decades of research that how we see ourselves, the world
around us, and the prospects for the future at a given moment is very much a
product of our current emotional state!!
4. Her conclusion #1: Our modulating of the moods that color our inner
world does not depend on our external circumstances!! Page 33
5. Being in the driver’s seat. See p 43-44
6. Very Important research finding page 50 and Citation!!!
7. Martin Seligman research: “learned helplessness” p 52
Vaughan, Susan C., M.D. The Talking Cure, Henry Holt and Company
(1997)
1. I wrote myself a reminder in the front of this book. I have to get some
copies of PET SCANS and MRI SCANS to show to class!!
2. Substitute the work “talking” for the word “psychotherapy” in each quote!
3. Research evidence shows that talking literally changes the structure of the
brain p4. It actually can alter the web of interconnecting neural cells,
4. The Doctor’s theory in this book, which she backs up with research
citations! Biological connections between the neurons are literally
strengthened or forged, weakened, or broken-ultimately rewired-through the
process of Talk! When such rewiring occurs on a grand scale, through
repeated experience and work on specific patterns, particular parts of the
brain are permanently altered!!!!
This is it! This is the basis for my whole program: Teaching Permanent Self-
Motivation!!!!
5. See p 31 The association and limbic cortical systems contain the records
of ALL of our unique experiences and feelings!
6. See p 34 Memories (specific) are not held in ONE neuron, but in a pattern
(webs) of interlinking neurons distributed in the cortex.
7. See p 40-41 The brains memory of patterns and strengths of
interconnections between neuron-web-patterns is “learning” All (p 41) the
neurodes can do is add up all of the input received from other neurodes and
to fire or not to fire, depending on whether the total input is greater than its
ACTIVATION THRESHOLD!!
8 As our network is presented with version after version, the specific patterns
of activation that occur, lead to specific alterations in the strength of the
connection between various neurodes!!!!
9. P 46. Our job with teaching self-talk is to reach into your adult networks
and disconnect those neurons that link negatives and sadness, and failure
thoughts, etc!!!!!
10. If we change these patterns with self-talk, we literally alter the way
feelings and ideas are interlinked in the mind!
Waitley, Denis E., Ph.D. Being the Best, Simon and Schuster (1987)
1. Another book to review if we add senior seminars. This one looks good!!
2. It has a ‘Conclusion’ paragraph at the end of each chapter.
3. Chapter 2 has excellent description of brain formation and function as
well as a description of the 7 intelligences.
4. Many helpful self-quizzes and games etc.
5. VERY GOOD>>>IF
1. Every thought you have sends electrical and chemical signals throughout your
brain! Thoughts have actual physical properties. They are real (use in brochure).
They have significant influence on every cell in your body!!!!
2. One of the reasons people feel so good at a positive-thinking seminar is because
they surround themselves with a room full of people who are all reaffirming the
best in one another.
3. The person that you are is always perfect; what you, as that person do, is not
always perfect. You cannot fail as a person!
4. Self-talk is the constant conversation that you carry on with yourself, as you
perceive what you think you see, feel and hear. It is “three-dimensional”
thought; that is, made up of words, pictures and emotion.
6. Successful people are people who are constantly busy doing things that they
don’t know how to do for sure.
7. It isn’t so much positive thinking that’s needed as it is to INTERCEPT Negative
thoughts!! This is called cognitive therapy! And it has been research proven that
cognitive therapy…does truly change the brain!!!
8. Action oriented self-talk must be: positive, specific, and present tense! (It can
occur subconsciously [OSU]) Sometimes negativism wins a battle in the
subconscious, that we don’t even know is taking place!
THEREFORE you must turn up the volume on your subconscious self-talk that is
positive, specific, and present tense…THIS SIMPLE CONCEPT CAN CHANGE
YOUR LIFE!!
9. Do not try to get rid of your fears, only reduce their influence on our behavior
10. You must visualize BEFORE you take action: every day for a week or two
BEFORE you start…see yourself doing it…hear yourself…smell it…Every time
you practice before you go into action-stage, you gain self-discipline support from
your subconscious and weaken ‘isms’ ability to stall your action!!! Visualization
will enlist your subconscious mind to help you accomplish ALL the steps in your
project. Even while & when you are sleeping or not aware of its supportive acts.
This is what helps make it permanent!!!
11. “Something terrible will happen” is your Neanderthal man talking and is
REQUIRED, get used to it and change YOUR EVOLUTION!!
12. If enuff time do paper clip exercises in class p111 of Tony Buzan book.
13. There is now evidence that our brain possibly retains ALL information that has
ever been inputted into it in your lifetime…in exact, minute detail!
14. Now that you know the unbelievable capacity of the brain, step out of that box,
think of the far out applications. The connections, the thousands of connections:
i.e. associations! [see and copy p 113, 114, 115]…and practice-practice-practice
going outside the box (the last few chapters have exercises for numerics and logic)
15. The search for meaning in the brain—occurs through patterning (connecting
things that are related in space and time.
16. More than 90% of people who attend short-term seminars see no improvement
in their lives (they don’t take the time to implement what they have ‘learned’)
17. Your everyday habits will determine your future. If you persist at developing a
new behavior, eventually it becomes AUTOMATIC! If the wife asks you to pick
something up on the way home from work, it’s not uncommon to totally forget,
because you’re programmed (automatic) (subconscious) to take the same way
home every night! The great news is that you can reprogram yourself any time you
choose to do so!
24. Keep thinking!! Excellent example of forcing your brain to go down OTHER,
ALTERNATIVE pattern pathways! P 113 Use the 5% solution…that’s it! That’s
all it takes is 5% more than others do…. Keep thinking!!! P 155
25. If everyone else is doing it - DON'T
26. A powerful part of the brain called the amygdala wants the world to run on
routine- not change - located within the limbic system, which is an ancient area of
the mind that deals with the way we deal, perceive and respond to the world. The
amygdala relentlessly urges you to favor the familiar and routine - it craves control
and safety, which at times can be vital. The amygdala's instincts evolved over
thousands of years - we overreact to the negative because that's how our brains
evolved - unfortunate. Unless you choose to consciously override this brain
tendency you are consigned to repeating the past for the rest of your life - human
nature. When you establish a habit of asking yourself 2 questions - what did you
do last week, what will you do this week, as an integral part of your life, it can
change your approach to everything you do.
27. Our evolution requires us to amplify negative thoughts and perceptions!
28. One key part of the limbic system is the hypothalamus: it directs those
emotional reactions that have to do with survival (the fight or flight syndrome)
29. During the past few years we’ve seen Positron Emission Tomography (PET)
and Magnetic Resonance Imaging (MRI) coupled with powerful computers that
can now capture in real time, images of the actual physiology associated with the
thought processes in the brain while we are thinking. These techniques show how
specific regions of the brain light up when activities, such as reading, are
performed and also show how supporting cells organize and coordinate these
tasks. Computed Tomography takes advantage of the fact that different tissues of
the brain absorb varying amounts of x-ray energy.
30. “Trying on Success” Go ahead and do things that will give you a glimpse of
the more affluent lifestyle to come! (Go test drive that Mercedes.) Children are
more enthusiastic, because they live in the present!
31. We now know that with plasticity of the brain there are 4 neurotic sentences
that you cannot use again – “That’s just me”; “I’ve always been that way”; “I can’t
help it; that’s just the way I am”; “that’s my nature”. Page 96 list – 10 typical “I
AM” categories. You cannot train your brain, until you understand how it
functions. You have to be aware of the way you think! By the time we are 40, we
are expressing less than two % of the measurable creativity that we demonstrated
as young children
32. How to change: BIG WOW page 29!!!!! Your brain is always seeking patterns
learned from previous experiences or activities or thoughts; and projecting them
into new situations!
35A. Fear: concentrate on the execution and not the result!! Putting…pitching, etc.
35B The myth of self-discipline. Success flows from passion, not self-discipline.
Successful people do what they need to do whether they like it or not. That’s self-
discipline…EXCEPTIONALLY successful people do what they need to do
because they love it!! That’s PASSION!!
36. If we took a piece of the brain, the size of a match head alone, there could be
up to one billion connections on that surface
37. It appears then therefore, that sheer numbers of neurons are NOT as important
as the connections between them in the brain, and these connections are highly
changeable, not just in the developmental brain but also in adulthood!!! Specific
experiences will enhance the connectivity in highly specific neuronal circuits.
Memory (p 133) is somehow associated with the overlapping circuits of neurons,
and the more emotional the memory experience, the more overlapping circuits we
have (are formed)
38. The quickest way to change someone else is to change something about YOU!
When you are attacking someone else---look in the mirror! You may be attacking
them for something you don’t like about yourself.
39. You have approximately 40,000 thoughts a day and the majority are negative.
You also repeat about 60% from the previous day so you repeat what you thought
about yesterday…day after day! Ask yourself: Is my thinking resulting in the
quality of life I desire?
40. Bad news: When your subconscious sends you your answers (ideas), they go
into your short-term memory, THEREFORE YOU MUST HAVE WITH YOU AT
ALL TIMES, A RECORDER OR MEANS OF WRITING DOWN ALL OF
THESE IDEAS IMMEDIATELY!! It is not a question of getting these answers or
opportunities; it is a question of noticing them and then recording them!!! Have a
brain suggestion box.
41. Realization that there is no such thing as procrastination, or that it doesn’t
matter…WE HAVE TO PROCRASTINATE...we can’t possibly get every thing
done that we THINK we NEED (want) to do...
What’s wrong is how we choose those things to put off!!!
42. Kotulak Inside the Brain!!The POWER of PLASTICITY and the
ABSOLUTE PROOF that lying to your subconscious brain, will train your
brain to physically change itself and create a new reality!!!!!! P 22-25. Phantom
limb experiment.
43. TOP TEN REASONS WHY PEOPLE FAIL:
44. Restak, Richard, M.D. All in Your Head: New Research Shows that What
you Thought About the Aging Brain is all Wrong! Modern Maturity (AARP)
(January 5, 2002)
45. It was shown that thinking about events maintains the vividness of memories,
and that thinking about IMAGINED
events can have the same impact on vividness ratings as thinking about real
events... So much so that if you practiced/rehearsed imagined events, the vividness
of these memories would begin to approximate that of memories of real events!!!
PHANTOM LIMB RESEARCH...P 98+
46. The ‘how to do it’ will always come to the person who believes that he can do
it. Belief – strong belief triggers the mind for figuring ways and means and how-
to’s. Believing you can succeed makes others place confidence in you.
53. This is it! This is the basis for my whole program: Teaching Permanent
Self-Motivation!!!! RE-READ #52 and #54 TEN TIMES!!!!
54. The brains memory of patterns and strengths of interconnections between
neuron-web-patterns is “learning” All (p 41) the neurodes can do is add up all of
the input received from other neurodes and to fire or not to fire, depending on
whether the total input is greater than its ACTIVATION THRESHOLD!! As our
network is presented with version after version, the specific patterns of activation
that occur, lead to specific alterations in the strength of the connection between
various neurodes!!!!
P 46. Our job with teaching self-talk is to reach into your adult networks and
disconnect those neurons that link negatives and sadness, and failure
thoughts, etc!!!!! If we change these patterns with self-talk, we literally alter
the way feelings and ideas are interlinked in the mind! HABITUATION AND
SENSITIZATION. And Permanently alter the biological mechanisms of how
we think. Thinking controls actions. Actions lead to Success, permanently!
55. YOUR SUCCESS STORY!
VIDEO SERIES
Body Atlas. Discovery Videos (6 volumes)
Body Story I. Discovery Videos (3 volumes)
Body Story II. Discovery Videos (4 volumes)
The Brain: Our Universe Within. Discovery Videos (3 volumes)
The Human Animal. The Learning Channel Videos (6 volumes)
The Intimate Universe: The Human Body. BBC Videos. (4 volumes)
The Secret Life of the Brain. PBS Documentary Videos (4 volumes)
Ultimate Guide to the Human Body. Discovery videos.
Understanding the Amazing Brain. The Learning Channel Video.
RECOMMENDED WEBSITES
www.about.com
www.brain.com
www.brainconnection.com
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www.brainsource.com
www.dana.org
www.epub.org.br
www.ibro.org
web.mit.edu
www.sciam.com
www.nia.nih.gov (The Age Page)
(NOTE: Go to Yahoo search engine and do a search for: “The brain”)
This will get you to hundreds of other brain-research sites!!
RECOMMENDED JOURNALS
Brain Research Review Scientific American
Journal of Neuroscience Science
Neuron Neuroscience