Guidance Philosophy
Guidance Philosophy
situations that may make you upset, manners, and respecting others.
Observation will be an essential tool in your guidance philosophy. If mistaken
behaviors are occurring you will need to observe to see if it is the
environment or other factors. If you want to decrease challenging
behaviors, children must feel in control of the environment they are in. The
invitation needs to clearly send the following messages: you can decide
where you go in this place, you can decide how long you stay in that place,
you can change the space to make it fit your needs and interests, you can
change that space to make it fit your needs and interests, you can take
objects from one space to another, you can decide what activity takes place
in that space. Children cannot practice self-control until they are in
environments that provide opportunities for control.
As a teacher it is important to see each child as an individual and
welcomed member of the group. It is important to not praise a single child,
but to encourage the whole group. The teacher relies more on guidelinespositive statements of expected behaviors-than on rules with negative
wording and implied threats. It is important to tell children what you want
them to do instead of what not to do. Most times children will only hear run
down the hall instead of dont run down the hall. Children need many
opportunities to learn to work out problems among themselves. Its
important for adults to distinguish between behavior that calls for immediate
intervention and behavior that is just part of normal developmental
exploration of control. Try not to single a child out it will only make other
children single them out. Everyone is looking for a place to feel a sense of
belonging. Children who take us to the end of our rope especially need a
climate that says, You are important and need to be here. It wont help to
build their self-esteem and will make them strive for negative attention. A
teacher understands that children who feel accepted in the classroom have
less need to show mistaken behaviors.
Teachers intervene by modeling and teaching conflict management
initially using high-level mediation and continually encouraging the children
to negotiate for themselves. The teacher avoids public embarrassment and
rarely uses removal (redirection and cooling-down times) or physical restraint
as a last resort. Taking time to know the child, be honest, be kind, show
respect, make your non-verbal and verbal messages agree, redirect, use
humor, allow for natural consequences, use logical consequences, use Imessages, work with the children, establish one way communication, be an
active listener, evaluate your environment, make chores games, give
choices, make clear statements, minimize adult-imposed transitions. These
are all ways to help guide childrens behaviors. Teachers recognize that
even in the most developmentally appropriate classrooms some conflict---the
result of everyday disagreements as well as strong unmet needs---is
sometimes you need to increase the length. One of the most important
things to remind yourself of as a guidance teacher is Change is not easy; it
requires relearning.