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Jessiah Okai
Mrs. Perry
English 12
Senior Portfolio
Strengths and Weaknesses
“The Christian often tries to forget his weakness; God wants us to remember it, to feel it
deeply. The Christian wants to conquer his weakness and be freed from it; God wants us to rest
and even rejoice in it. The Christian mourns over his weakness; Christ teaches His servant to say,
‘I take pleasure in infirmities. Most gladly …will I…glory in my infirmities’ (2 Cor. 12:9)’ The
Christian thinks his weaknesses are his greatest hindrance in the life and service of God; God
tells us that it is the secret of strength and success. It is our weakness, heartily accepted and
continually realized, that gives our claim and access to the strength of Him who has said, ‘My
strength is made perfect in weakness.” Christians often strive to hide or overcome their
weaknesses because they believe it holds them back from being successful in life and from being
a faithful servant to God. I often try to hide my weaknesses out of shame and my need to appear
strong in front of others but making these flaws into strengths will help me to serve God better.
I struggle with my weaknesses everyday, and with God’s help I can transform these flaws
into strengths. One of my biggest weakness is my anxiety. Feeling anxious has hindered me
throughout my entire life, it’s kept me from making friends and from standing up for myself. My
anxiety spikes whenever I fear someone won’t like me, I often feel like avoiding friends entirely
is better than feeling anxious all the time. Growing up I would never stand up to my bullies
because I was scared of the situation escalating and scared they would simply laugh at me.
Another one of my weaknesses is my passive aggressiveness. I have difficulty showing people
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when I’m having an issue with them or a situation I’m involved in. When I get angry I bottle it
up and let it stew until the feeling goes away or I blow up at someone.
The strengths God has given me has helped me through my middle and high school years.
One of my biggest strengths is perseverance. Being perseverant has helped me continue working
towards my graduation and has made strong enough to get back up every time I fall. My second
strength is my ability to encourage others. I feel best when I am helping friends through their
problems and helping provide them with the strength they need to get through hard times. My
desire to appear strong around others has helped me become a strong and independent person
who helps others.
Making your weaknesses into strengths has helped me learn to serve God better and
helped me to become a resilient person. My inability to be forward and brave has made me more
resilient and empathetic towards others. People often create their own strengths when they learn
to live with your weaknesses.