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• The Loss of an Alpha Male – “I’m not going into the cab with you” OR “No way I’m entering
there” OR “Oh common!. . . ”
– Make her feel that losing you will be so bad for her.
– If you’re eating something, make sure it’s something quick, so that she doesn’t have time
to rationalize.
– If you don’t want to forget them, then write about them.
• CALL TO ACTION: Be shameless, write down what you still need to work on and what
you’re grateful for.
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– Not every girl will feel comfortable to have you at her place.
– You have to find an excuse (“My friend is out of town. I’m living at his apartment.”)
• You can also book an Hotel, but be careful! Hotels can make the girl feel slutty, as you
are paying for a place just to have sex with her. Make her feel as comfortable as possible!
– Where does she live? – “In which area do you live, by the way?”
– How far is it? – “That’s 10 min away from here, right?” (even though you have no clue
where)
– Is she alone? – “I bet your roommates hate you because you are so messy.” OR “I bet
you still live with your parents.” OR “You do seem like a girl who lives alone.”
– How down is she to bring you? – “Do you have drinks at home?” OR “Can you cook?”
OR “I bet your place is super messy.”
• Be careful with getting sexual at public places! You need to baby step and screen
her properly.
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5. Mastering Natural Game
– It takes the pressure of her and makes you high value.
• Daygame Logistics
• Your main priority should always be to pull (if logistics allow it)
3. “I’ve been through a lot, nothing can throw me off, I’m happy that I’m on my Journey.”
• Good Game is when you and the girl are having a good time.
• The Natural waits for a sign of dis-interest. And it barely ever happens. Remember to
laugh at this, because it is not logical.
• Know the difference between Token Resistance (Fake) and Real Resistance .
• There extroverted girls (they give you some signs) and introverted girls (they don’t
give you anything).
– “Wow, he trusts himself so much he came back to approach me. He must be so cool.”
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5.4. Passive Attraction through Others
• Phantom Escalation
– Go for the kiss, and step back just before kissing her. It makes the girl in her head.
– She will think “Why didn’t he kiss me? Do I have bad breath?”
• The We Frame.
• The Hub
– Go around and pick, at least, 2 girls and come back to that spot.
• Girl Bouncing
• CALL TO ACTION: Go out, handshake the bouncers, chat up the crew and create a hub.
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5. Mastering Natural Game
1. Me (Congruence)
– No more mask!
– REMEMBER: The girl doesn’t want the perfect guy. She wants the guy who’s perfectly
fine with himself.
2. The Girl
– Verbal Game
– Vibing
– Physicality
– When you are in the zone, slow down your approach and interactions. You will make it
easier for the girl.
• CALL TO ACTION: Go out, expand your awareness about your environment. Take your
time to approaching.
• The girl will tell how to sleep with her. Be a Vigilante of her reactions.
• The Vacuum
– When it gets silent, smile and stare. By doing this, you a positive pressure on
her.
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5.7. Learning from a Newbie
– You get so much validation from a girl, and then suddenly you lose it.
– Give her shit – “That’s all you’re going to get for tonight.” OR “It was good to meet
you.”
– “Actually”
∗ It’s like you’re sharing something secret from you to her.
– “Oh. . . I see. . . ”
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– “Another one. . . ”
∗ The girl is not special.
– When she is explaining something to you, make your face look like you’re
confused or creeped out. It makes her feel weird.
• Silent Opening
3. Smile.
• Don’t give the girl any time to slut shame herself for going home with you.
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Chapter 6
Sex
6.1 Full Closing and Sex – Becoming the Intimate Lover of the Fan-
tasy
• Never forget the Humor when Escalating.
• Take the pressure of yourself, because you can never do it when you pressure yourself.
• The DTF-O-Meter
– If you ask her “What are you doing later?” and she answers “I don’t know, the night is
young”, that is a good indicator.
– The girl feels that she must chase you in order to deserve you.
– “No problem, there’s the door. There’s HD porn nowadays, I just jerk off after you leave.”
– That hits on her ego and makes her chase you, because you are free from
outcome.
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6. Sex
– She keeps giving you resistance, but doesn’t want to remove her clothes or touch your dick.
– From 0 to 100, you jump off her, you turn the light on, silence the music, and do something
else.
– Give her an excuse why you did that. (ex.: forgot to call a friend)
– Listen to her.
– Sex is natural. Every girl has the Madonna and Whore frame
– It is mutual.
– The Speech: “You know, sex is natural, everyone does it; even the Pope jerks off; but I
totally understand if you had bad experiences in the past or don’t want to do it; but when
2 people feel connected, their emotions will overcome everything and they will cuddle and
have sex, and it will be wonderful; when you want to have sex, just know that I will have
massive respect for you.”
– Take the pressure of yourself. The moment you chill, she chills.
– Keep the fun up! (especially when taking her pants or her bra)
– Give her compliments – “Oh my god girl, you drive me fucking crazy.” OR “You’re so
hot.”)
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– Just make her feel good with it – “It’s OK baby, just let it go.”
– Before making her squirt, just let her know that “It is super-hot baby!”
1. She needs to be very aroused first.
2. Massage her clitoris.
3. Make sure she is hydrated enough.
4. Use your 2 fingers, penetrate her in a come here movement.
• GETTING FEEDBACK
– After the sex, ask her “What did you like the best?”
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Chapter 7
Relationship Management
– You wanna be known as the Player guy, but you also wanna be accepted for that.
– Always be fun and have a good time with her. The meeting should always be based on fun!
– You need to keep gaming your girls, before and after having sex with them!
• Managing Expectations
– Don’t let her see as someone she can talk too when she’s sad. She has her
friends for that.
• At some point, girls ask you “What are we?” You have to be fully honest with her.
– Hug her.
– “Oh, you’re so great Lisa, you are an amazing girl, but listen. You are searching for a
relationship, and I cannot give you that right now. I’m sorry, I just can’t. I really like my
freedom. I just don’t feel that I don’t want to settle down, at this point of my life, with a
girl.”
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– “But I fucking love hanging out with you, do you know that? You are this, you’re that, you
are so hot, you are so gorgeous. When I hang out with you, there’s only you and nobody
else. I’m not thinking about any other girl. But if you can’t take that, if you don’t wanna
hang out and have fun, I totally respect that. We can stay friends, here’s the door, you can
leave.”
• When girls call you out (saying you’re sleeping with other girls)
2. Make it relatable (tell her you have a lot of fun with her).
– From all of the girls you’ve pulled, you choose the next best one from all of them.
– Ideally, a girl with whom you get along with the best and HSE + HSD girl.
• The more freedom you give a woman to walk away, the more she wants to stay with
you.
• If you want an exclusive relationship, make sure she’s very very awesome ;) (and
that fucks you super super well)
– Are you really in love with her or are you in love with the longing for love?
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Chapter 8
Wingmanship
• Your friends
• Wingman Rules
1. The guy who first opens the set is the guy who chooses what to do with that set.
2. Be willing to sacrifice your game to help your wingman.
3. Never make fun of him. Motivate him!
• ‘Cross Gaming’
– Communicate with your wingman’s girl and your wingman talks with your girl.
– Make sure they get to know about both of you, so that they can stay relaxed.
• Upon Pulling
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Chapter 9
Lifestyle
• Get out there and create the best expansion phase that you’ve ever seen in your
goddamn-fucken life!
2. What does it take to get there? What is the Mindset of a person who is there? What is
the first step that I can do right now to get me there?
• Fuck that “I’m not ready yet”. The moment you go do it, that’s when you are ready.
– Let go friends that drag you down. Stop hanging out with them.
– Drop down any addictions that drag you down (alcohol, cigarettes, porn, mas-
turbation, unhealthy food).
• Ask yourself this question everyday of your Life: “Is this bringing me further in my
Life?”
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9. Lifestyle
– Don’t hate yourself when you rest. Your self-love must come from you, not from your
achievements. You are doing this because you love yourself.
– In terms of pick up, pick the worst day of the week. That will be your off-day.
Spend that day just chillin’ with a girl or by your own, playing video games, going for a
walk or watching a movie.
– Have a cheat day (every month), and eat the nastiest fast food, don’t do anything on
that day and just chill.
• Read autobiographies.
– It shows you those celebrities are nothing more nothing less, than flesh, bones, skin and a
hell of a dream.
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9.2. Social Circle Game
– Don’t FAP!
– If you want to get an orgasm, go out and don’t go through a masturbation maratone!
• There has to be continuity. History is made by people who finish the fucking thing
they’re doing!
• There will be no results in the first 3 months, but it will eventually happen.
• If the girl sees you have a lot of friends, she will automatically feel so much attracted to you.
• DO NOT TAKE A SHIT WHERE YOU EAT – do not pull girls from your workplace. It
can destroy your reputation. (or make you build another one)
• Create your Social Circle. Don’t isolate girls from the group. Let passive attraction
work for you, as you show yourself as a leader of the group, the one who makes things happen.
• Don’t ignore the chodes! They may suck with girls, but they are good at something else.
Expand the knowledge you don’t have (that they do) and make them feel more integrated in the
group every time you meet them.
• ONLY FUCK THE GIRLS FROM THE OUTER CIRCLE (FRIENDS FROM
YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE)!
1. You have to be the Farmer, instead of the Hunter. Make connections and let Time
(your best wingman) work for you.
2. Be a connector – introduce/bring together other people to your social circle and provide
as much Value as possible.
3. Be a Mentor – offer advice for everybody that might need it.
4. Be a Scholar – be able to learn from other people. It makes you earn their respect.
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6. Be a Helping Hand – anticipate when your people might need help and do help them.
7. Be an Entertainer – people don’t really care what your problems are, they don’t give a
shit. If you’re in a bad mood, just stay at home (don’t tell them you’re in a bad mood).
Don’t go and ruin the vibe of the group.
9. Be Reliable – if you promise someone something, keep your word. KEEP YOUR
WORD. It hurts your reputation if you don’t.
10. Be a Defender – help people from your group who feel shy or insecure and other people
are trying to mess up with them.
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6. Be a Helping Hand – anticipate when your people might need help and do help them.
7. Be an Entertainer – people don’t really care what your problems are, they don’t give a
shit. If you’re in a bad mood, just stay at home (don’t tell them you’re in a bad mood).
Don’t go and ruin the vibe of the group.
9. Be Reliable – if you promise someone something, keep your word. KEEP YOUR
WORD. It hurts your reputation if you don’t.
10. Be a Defender – help people from your group who feel shy or insecure and other people
are trying to mess up with them.
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