Game Solved

by ___________

Let me start with some bad news before getting to all the awesome stuff... Everyone in this industry needs to sell you stuff
to stay in business, so you'll never really hear this. Game is FUCKING HARD unless you have absolutely PERFECT
knowledge and instruction. I've been through damn near every program you can imagine, and watched a good 500
different guys who were putting YEARS of hard work into their game. You know how many of them that weren't full time
instructors I ever saw that were actually getting the kind of success you almost certainly want (say relative choice of 8+
girls they ran into)? About 4-5. Out of 500. These are guys in immersive programs like RSD Vegas Immersion or
LoveSystems Project Rockstar, guys taking bootcamps and watching every DVD, guys going out 3-7 nights a week. Guys
doing EVERYTHING they're supposed to. In which case success should come with time in the field according to
everything we're taught... But it doesn't.

Furthermore, let's say you're like I was when you started game – you just want a hot girlfriend you can be awesome with.
Well, I've found that if a girl knows you couldn't get 50 more girls like her, it's not going to last. Even if you happen to put
some time in, learn some things, maybe get lucky... If you happen to get the kind of girl you want, it's going to implode
because over weeks, months, years, she's GOING to see that you can't really do better than her and she could get a lot
more guys like you. Maybe better. Basically every girl I date on some level has done some type of modeling – though that
doesn't make them a legitimate model (those are the girls I've dated who were Dallas Cowboys cheerleaders, Ford agency
models traveling the world for Sephora, one of the hottest strippers in Austin, Texas. I wouldn't even count the girl who
was in a Macklemore music video, though she was one of the hottest of them all). Even girls I mildly thought were cute
told me that professional soccer players flew them to Vegas. The girl in the Macklemore video got grabbed out of a hotel
and stuck in the video just because she was that hot. The Cowboys cheerleader was on that Dallas Cowboys cheerleader
TV show and in Beyoncee music videos. The stripper had a clinger that flew her around the world and got her back stage
with Penn and Teller. EVERY girl that's a solid 8 or hotter has these stories. ALL of them. So if she knows you can't get 50
more of her, and you're not a professional soccer player... What are your chances she won't eventually get curious about if
she can go out and find herself a professional soccer player again? Pretty terrible. You have dreams of dating a hot girl?
She has dreams of dating a famous guy just the same.

Want your girl to feel like she's settling for you? How's that relationship going to feel?

Don't believe me? Watch Season 5 of Bachelor in Paradise and see what happens when people actually wind up dating the
people they really want, but their personalities are flat. Like Analiese – she's a sweetheart, but how exciting, funny, and fun
is her personality? Guess what, she couldn't keep stonefaced Kamil even though he was her dream man and he told her he
loved her (sorry for the spoiler). Kevin later gives a different explanation for breaking up with whats her face, but she has a
flat personality too, and he didn't feel right. What about Eric and Angela?
Who's the happiest couple at the end? Jordan and Jenna. Two people with incredibly vibrant energies and personalities.
Very 'strong energy' as we'll call it by the end of the book. They're great with playing with tension. They're great at living
in emotionality. They're the most engaged with each other. Generally, they have more than half of the categories we'll teach
you by the end of this book.
This shit won't just teach you 'game'. It will ensure that if you get a relationship, it'll be a happy one. Because you can learn
all the lines in the world and maybe get a girl shortly. Though you won't get that many hot ones as noted a few paragraphs
above. But even if you do, those lines won't last you. You'll be left with your energy, with your skills with tension, with
emotions, with engagement. You're probably thinking it shouldn't be hundreds of pages in two volumes of a book to learn
some lines and tricks to go get girls... You'd be right. Because this isn't about that. This is about learning the very fabric of
what it means to BE sexy, to BE fun, to BE someone who creates vibrant emotions and is charismatic and fun and funny
and 'hot' and everything else. My friendships are now dozens of times more vibrant than when I started game... And out of
now 11 years gaming, it's only in the last 2 years that I've gotten to that point. And it'll take you that long too... If you don't
get full on mastery level information.

No, it doesn't take hundreds of pages in two volumes to learn some tricks. But those tricks won't get you choice among 8+
girls – you'll get lucky occasionally and get a couple lone wolf, slightly weird 8+ girls and they won't want to keep dating
you. The really cool, well rounded ones won't even get that far. You have to fix your energy, your very understanding. You

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have to become someone that just vibes in a totally different way by default. An effortless master. THAT takes hundreds of
pages in two volumes. And we WILL get you there (though you might have to take a live bootcamp with me as well to see
it all live and make sure you're doing it yourself).
This is mastery level shit. It TAKES mastery level shit to get you what you really want. You can spend 11 years and around
$100,000 getting there like I did. Or the only other source of mastery level information I've ever seen is to go try to be an
instructor, get selected, and have someone like RSD Tyler personally mentor you for around 2 years and then you have to
actually work as an instructor at the end to get all that effort put into you. Which, btw, at RSD means plastering your face
all over YouTube as a pickup artist (which is why I'm writing an anonymous book and not doing that... I have a real
fucking career in Silicon Valley). So those are your options: Buy into the salesmanship from the major companies that in
two years of learning some lessons and lines that you'll get what you want – but only 4-5 people out of 500 I've ever seen
have gotten what you want, and then after more like 5-8 years of killing themselves. Or lower your standards and settle. Or
spend 11 years and huge amounts of cash killing yourself like I did to figure it all out. Or convince the major instructors to
let you shadow them for 2 years while they train you to instruct (by the way, I shadowed one of the best pretty much
nightly for about a year, and it still took me about 5 years after that to get here – though he wasn't trying to make me an
instructor, we were just friends). OR buy this book, plus the trainers offered with it, plus about 1.5-2.5 years of hard work
and probably a bootcamp with me and maybe one other with RSD or LoveSystems. Those are the tracks. There aren't
special flowers. Your competition is pro soccer players and photographers with a hundred thousand followers and club
promoters with phones full of models and, oh yeah, there's also lots of pro baseball players, NFL players and NBA players
that aren't famous enough to get Jennifer Lopez and so they date the girls you want instead... So how easy do you think
this should be? When any girl that's at least a solid 8 knows they can at least go hook up with one of those guys and
convince themselves maybe they could marry one...

I'm sorry to burst your bubble. But in all honesty, if someone had burst MY bubble when I was 21 and getting into game 11
years ago, it would've made my life a LOT better. If they told me the above, I would've tried way harder way earlier and
lived WAY better the last 5 or so years. Though I'd literally pay a million dollars to give this book to myself at 21 because I
could've lived like I do now since I was like 23 or something. And those 9 years are something I'll never get back. Granted
I dated the Cowboys cheerleader and Macklemore girl at like 28-29, so I got some good ones in during my twenties... But
still after 7-8 years of killing myself, and I still lost those two because I couldn't get 50 more of those girls at that time...
And they knew it. And my energy and my emotionality and my use of tension and my engagement and all of the things
we'll get you to master here – they weren't good enough. Macklemore girl was one I really would've liked to stay with
quite a long time. But it didn't happen, and you don't get those back. Or the Swedish model bombshell that never quite
happened because we missed each other at the end of my trip and then my game was insufficient. All of these things that
could've gone SO much better if I just had what you can now buy and just absorb for a few hundred bucks and a couple
hours of your time.
But hey – take your pick. Life's full of choices. You can totally put this down and go do something else. Believe that you're
a special flower, the exception to the rule above. You're smarter. You're cooler. Life happens easier for you. I thought that
at 21 too. It wasn't true. I just needed to know. Would I have listened? I don't know. Let me say this – those 4-5 people that
got what I'm sure you want? Well, one of them was my first wingman. He didn't get there until about 7 years of going out
with me, he was incredibly good looking (girls would walk across diners to tell him so), and he was a 1 in a million natural
combination of most of the energy and engagement skills we'll talk about. So when he learned a little game to correct his
errors, he caught fire. Another guy shadowed then RSD Todd and now Todd Valentine for a year as his personal assistant,
then helped out on RSD Vegas Immersion alongside RSD Luke for a year. Those are the only two non-instructor students I
can think of for sure that got the kind of success, just at an entry level, that you probably want (choice amount like solid
8's). They weren't even running around with a ton of 9's and models. Plus me (starting around 9 years in, after killing
myself). There was a guy on Lovesystems Project Rockstar who could probably claim to get the success you want, though
I'd argue that may or may not be the case. So when I said 4-5, I can't even think of one or two more, I'm just padding the
number to be safe. Even one guy who's read my book, taken a bootcamp with me, but struggles with laziness and is only
just now starting to do most of the things we talk about in this book and really listen to me – he's skyrocketed to where he
can get pretty much any 7 he wants and he's regularly getting 8's... But due to only partially doing what we talk about here,
I wouldn't say he has choice among 8+ girls by any means. This guy has even taken an RSD Julien bootcamp and watched
most RSD video programs, plus gone out for years. So the biggest problem you can possibly have in game is believing in
the fallacy that it doesn't take that much, it's not really all that hard, and that if you just learn a little and go out, you'll get
what you want. It's just not true. You need WAY more deep level, sophisticated knowledge and guidance. And at a certain

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point, the knowledge becomes so sophisticated that while it takes a long time to explain – it's actually pretty damn simple
and elegant. That's when you hit mastery level... When things start to simplify but at a level where you don't lose much
when you simplify them. That's where we're going here. If you think you're going to get that by watching some RSD
YouTube videos for free, maybe buying one video program, and doing one 3 day bootcamp with like 6 other dudes, you're
fucking high.
In fact I'd say a solid 10 real INSTRUCTORS told me that the level we're talking about, and that level of knowledge, was
just impossible. Not even worth trying. Luckily for you I'm a stubborn motherfucker and found teachers like RSD Tyler
and RSD Julien who not only didn't think it was impossible, but were basically there themselves (though they decline to
release that level of knowledge in any products, as Julien personally told me). It's clearly not impossible because by the
end of volume 2, I will have taken you there. Though I'll be the first to admit that I spent years trying to get there and even
I myself thought it might be a waste of time and perhaps it truly was impossible. Now you can just read and skip all that
shit I had to go through wondering if I was wasting years of my life and having to ignore 10 different instructors telling me
to give up and get rich or something instead (dead serious, they were telling me the goal was too high, it was impossible,
and I'd be better off just getting rich). And now you can just get that 'impossible' knowledge right here – because at the end
of the day, that 'impossible' level of skill is mostly hard, hard, hard won 'impossible' knowledge combined with hard work
learning to execute it. And that's 'impossible' level skill. Bruce Lee shit. The 'impossible' secret Bruce Lee level knowledge
is the hardest part to get, but it can be communicated... It just takes a lot of communicatING. Once you know it to its
fullest, it seems mindblowing and crazy, but not all that complicated.
What's 'mastery level'? I'd argue that, in practice, it's looking at a girl – no matter how hot – and saying 'I want her' or 'I
want her to be into me so we can get to know each other and see what happens' and then being able to go over and having
a reasonable chance at making that actually happen. An advanced guy can't do that, he'll have to play a lot of numbers and
ultimately won't really have choice – he'll still be walled in and many things will be off limits to him. An intermediate guy
will get girls, but sort of the ones that are 'given' to him via circumstance, her randomly liking his physical 'type' etc, and
they'll be pretty capped in how hot they are. So your thing where you want to go through the grocery store and actually
have a solid chance at going out with that hot girl you see? That's actually such a high level wish that it requires full on,
full blown mastery level game. To put it another way, most INSTRUCTORS aren't really mastery level. Most instructors
are kind of between advanced and mastery level (or just advanced). Only the top instructors really can go up to any hot girl
in the supermarket and really have a very real chance that that will happen no matter what. So the real 'impossibility' of
this book is teaching YOU to actually have that same ability, and making it simple enough you can go do it without
spending 8 years full time becoming an instructor. All while not bullshitting and making you FEEL like you got the full
picture, but when you go out and try it you find out you actually don't have everything you need to do that. You'll get ALL
of what you need. You'll find I don't bullshit. Why don't I bullshit? Because I don't NEED to. I have the REAL answers, in
whatever format and depth you need them. I no longer have to use rosy bullshit to cover over gaps.
I've found that most people are not AT ALL serious about reaching their goals that they're incredibly attached to with
women. It's baffling, but I even know RSD Tyler's personal assistant, a guy who has spent years working his way into RSD
and going out with instructors. I'm not even sure he fully qualifies as advanced, and despite all that effort, he's not
realistically serious about getting what he wants. Guys that aren't serious about what they want, no matter how badly they
want it, can't even get through reading this free intro. That will be most of you. But if you ARE serious, you'll find the
answers you desperately want. It's you I wrote this for. It's you I'm talking to.

I'm not fucking kidding when I say I'd pay a million dollars – EASILY – to take this back to myself at a younger age. This
ain't no fucking simple ass basic ass shit. The catch in all this is that if you REALLY know how things work. Really, truly
GET IT, then you can actually get there YEARS AND YEARS faster. The trick is you just don't know and will wind up
doing it all wrong for years first, doing nothing but unlearning and relearning. I GUARANTEE what's in this pages will
CHANGE YOUR LIFE, not just teach you some shit. No joke. No exaggeration.

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Okay... Let's get to it
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This, my friends, isn't a book. This is a whoooole different animal entirely. This will change your fucking life in ways
you've never imagined. And I'll guarantee it, literally. But before you can wrap your mind around how that claim is even
possible, let's give the introduction to what the hell is even in these pages.

I'm about to give you the background of how this all happened. Why this is the best book ever written on game – if only
because people make DVD programs and not books these days (though probably because it's straight up the best thing on
game period. Let's be honest). Let's first say, however, that this is INCREDIBLY advanced shit. It's intended for someone
who has been gaming at least a year already, it doesn't teach basics – it DOES go all the way through how you can be as
good as the best instructors in the world. Which is what makes this really unique. There IS no other source that answers

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that question. This is THE only source that goes that advanced and that deep. So let's get into how the hell a book turns
into that, and why I would write it...

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I started the, uhh, journey that this book represents because I couldn't live the rest of my life penned up in a cage where
without a choice of who I got to date.
Every girl I wanted didn't want me. I wanted to find the girl for me and in order to do that, I saw that there had to be a
numbers game. I had to date a bunch of girls to find 'the' one. But that wasn't a possibility for me. When I wanted to go on
a date with a girl and get to know her and see what happened, I always wound up with zero ability to actually make that
happen.
I was pretty much living in a suffocating, miniature, dream destroying cage that smashed me into a tiny ball of person. A
person who had everything else going for him that in theory anyone would want – but regardless I was just stuck staring
out at girls from inside my bars.
It was pain. Loneliness. The ultimate in feeling utterly constricted. No one could explain to me why I was there. Why I
was going through that. And people didn't really care. That was even lonelier.

Then I found game. I watched and listened to and tried pretty much everything. That seemed like it explained most of what
I needed to know. After the hundreds of hours of shit I watched and listened to, plus the hundreds of times I went out and
worked my heart out, I should have had it all on lock. But I just got to the point where I had a SHOT at the girls I wanted...
And that shot would never quite materialize. Perhaps I had been let out of my cage... but it was still painful and lonely. At
some points more painful and lonelier, because I had done everything I was 'supposed to do' according to the world and
now according to game- but the vast majority of the time I still didn't have a girl I'd be psyched about calling to hit up a
movie or a restaurant or a hot tub. Granted, I'm fucking picky... But not unreasonably picky.

Game and dating is a unique thing. We only get one life to live. There's no real replacement for it. I didn't really have a
choice to give up- I was stuck having to find a way forward.
I finally sought training that we'll talk about a little bit. That got me to where I had successes... Rarely.
I got good at online game and that brought me some dating I was happy with, and at some points a good bit of it.

But it still felt like there was so much missing. A massive wall seemed to remain there. I wondered if it was me. If it was
something that was just impossible. For me. People told me it was elements of both. Even people paid to teach game.

Picture that. Feeling that you're moving through life caged, separated from what you want, from what you know you
deserve... And then going through every bit of training, all the reading and instructional videos and everything you can
finally find, only to feel that maybe it just will never happen for YOU. Just for you.

I either didn't believe them or refused to believe them that it was impossible for me. Though what choice did I have? Curl
up into a ball and rot away for life? Maybe I was born to have mediocrity with women at best? But even if I was, did that
mean I should just quit? There wasn't really an option, not for me. This is my one shot at life, and I'm not going to just fuck
off and be unhappy.

I started the process of writing this book trying to solve that unbreakable barrier stopping me from living the life I knew I
deserved.
Why the fuck had I read everything, heard everything, even gone through one of the world's best immersive training
programs and I STILL felt like there was a wall between me and what I wanted? It did turn out that the standards of what I
wanted were abnormally high... But so what? I wasn't demanding Hollywood A list actresses. I just wanted to date some
solid 8s and occasionally get a 9. And I wanted to feel like that was I thing I could do, not something I was naturally barred
from.

After banging my head against a wall for a year or more following my time in the immersive, 3 month long Lovesystems
program 'Project Rockstar,' I wound up writing a post about game in one of the most popular online forums. It detailed
how I finally got myself 'unstuck' from that position where I had learned all this stuff, gone out so many times, taken this

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intensive program, but still really couldn't move forward. It was almost 80 pages long. I didn't think anyone would read it,
or perhaps just very few people.

Instead I got messages from about one quarter of the coaches at the company whose forum I had placed the post on. Some
of those coaches even told me it was the most inspiring thing they read, period, in two years. Some told me it was one of
the most compelling things they ever read on game. Some passed my post on to students. It was crazy. Before that moment
I felt like I was the butt of the joke of the game community in a way. I'm sure you would have labeled me a solidly
competent intermediate in the grand scheme of things, but given my background and level of training, I felt like the
fucking retard sitting in the special class and riding the short bus.
But all these people LOVED what I had written. They were even telling me I was a good writer... I was like “Huh, how the
fuck did that happen? I was just ranting through my fingertips as fast as possible.”

Then one guy said “You should write a book.” I kind of laughed. Those 78 pages were everything I had to say. What else
could I add?

That entire post was just about how to get yourself out of being jammed up and feeling like you'll never succeed with girls.
How to get moving forward and get at least SOME of what you want. It was about how to play among the big boys. Don't
worry, you won't miss out on it – that information is the first part of this book. If you're curious, it was titled something to
the effect of “How to Get Unstuck in Game”; if you happen to have read that, which apparently more people than I ever
anticipated have, then this is the sequel... Putting it lightly.

The information contained in that post, however, just got you narrowly in the door to playing in the big leagues with the
big boys. It didn't even TOUCH what you needed to become one of the biggest.

I started telling people I gamed with what my goals were. Having conversations with them trying to determine how I might
get there. I didn't have SPECIFIC goals, because what I really wanted was just CHOICE.
I wanted input into my own dating life. A relationship was supposed to be 50/50 right? Why was it 99.999999 to .0000001
in terms of choice, even WITH all this game? One of my mentors finally asked me to put some numbers on what 'choice'
was to me, so he could fathom it. I said two 8.5s a month from night cold approach.
That really set fire to the series of guy after guy telling me it was impossible. Almost everyone said that. There was just
about no one who believed that was a possibility.

But here's the thing... I'm not someone you should say the word 'impossible' to. I just might spend the next 5-10 years
obsessing about it constantly.

Which is exactly what I did.

I rarely, rarely fail at anything I put my mind to. Whether it was bench pressing twice my weight, getting straight A's all
the way through high school, getting into the school of my choice, graduating with a bachelors and masters in only 4 years,
or joining the elite at an objective Olympic sport. Some of those things I was naturally good at, some of them I was just
stubborn as fuck and refused to take 'no' for an answer. Pulling two 8.5s in a month from night cold approach became the
next thing in line. The proverbial game retard was now challenging the status quo.

Have you ever felt like you were in that position? I hope so, because I wrote this to get you out of it. Mother fucker's are
gonna be jealous of your life with women by the time you get through this. That much I guarantee.

So I went about blazing my own trail, trying to figure it out. Trying to 'solve' game. Where was my fucking choice? Where
was my fucking choice? Where the hell was MY fucking choice? For the love of anything good in this fucking cold world,
where was MY fucking choice?
I would hear people talk about white male privilege on TV. I felt stabbed in the fucking eye. Being born a male didn't feel
like privilege at all. It felt like hell.
Didn't I get a say? Didn't I get to be with others that I really felt were comparable to me? That I really was attracted to?
That I felt I belonged with?

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It wasn't like I was sitting around saying there were a bunch of things I wouldn't do, then saying I just DESERVED
success. I was banging down every door I could, begging for even the tiniest tip that might help. I was like a fucking
alcoholic sipping spilled drinks off the pavement in the street. I was stripping the world bare trying to find something to let
me live a life that felt good. Felt free. Felt like I had a damn say in it.

That was how this book began. I just started writing all of that down. I just started writing each lesson and each realization
that got me one step closer.
It started growing and growing. Sometimes I would have a realization or learn something from someone else, then try it
out and then immediately run home and write it down... Only to look at it on the page and I would just be utterly
mindblown.
I Could. Not. BELIEVE. That THAT level of amazing wisdom had just wound up on the pages of my little roadmap to
what it took to have choice in life. To 'solve' game.

Not only was the information unreal, but everything in this book I have personally tried repeatedly in the real world to
make sure that it not only WORKS, but that it all works TOGETHER. And to simplify all of it down into the easiest
possible set of information to learn and successfully execute. Ever wonder what would happen if you took the best pieces
from all the best pickup instructors in the world, assembled them into some crazy super-game, and then unleashed that on
the world? You're about to find out.

After a while I started to be really humbled and impressed by what was on the pages. It was becoming truly unbelievable.
Truly. The kind of information I would have absolutely, positively KILLED for when I was a kid. Like world shifting on
the level of 'There is no Santa Claus' to a seven year old type shit. Except in a good way. A really good way.

That process, of course, sent me into the land of a million false peaks.
If any of you have ever hiked/climbed a large mountain, you probably know that you always see a peak ahead of you and
think it is THE top. You then get to the top of that top where you can finally see behind it... and find that there's like seven
more mother fucking tops to the mountain behind it. And they're all about a billion times higher. Bitches.
That was my experience. I constantly thought I was almost there. Then found out that I wasn't.
This dramatically ballooned my collection of amazing wisdom that was evolving into a book. It became a longer and
longer and longer thing. But every single fucking page was twice as good as the last. I wanted it to be as short as possible
without depriving the reader of the ultimate, actionable answer they needed. But every extra page was SO fucking good
that I couldn't take any of them out.

People started asking when I would put the book out.

I gave early drafts to several people. We're talking over 500 pages. I didn't even think they'd read it... Then only a few
weeks later they'd be like “I finished your book. It's REALLY good.” A few that read it said “Just put it out, it's more than
good enough. It doesn't have to be complete, if that's even possible.” I refused. I had drawn a line in the sand, if I couldn't
pull two 8.5s in a month from cold approach night game – with no warm intros, no major assists from friends, etc, then I
wasn't putting the book out. The book was going nowhere until I lived it. If I couldn't live it, I could tell you up to 99% of
what it took to get there, but I didn't really KNOW until I could actually do it. And if I didn't really KNOW, I wasn't going
to tell other people.

The last few months before I hit that goal were insanely stressful. I just got to the point where I decided to smash the
problem with the biggest hammer I could find and see what happened. I went and took multiple boot camps with the best
RSD instructors, after having already worked long term with most of the best of Lovesystems instructors. I watched all but
maybe one or two of RSD's many, many 20 hour plus DVD programs. I moved to Vegas. I did RSD Immersion in Vegas (a
month long daily program). People kept asking me why I was even taking bootcamps or training- after all I was close to
being able to coach the programs, and definitely able to assistant coach them.
What I wanted to say was “You have NO idea how hard this shit is if you really try to push to getting the success that you
almost certainly wish you had somewhere in your head. If you don't know EVERY little thing you can possibly find, you
probably won't get there.” But I didn't want to be a hater, so I said “I have a goal and I've learned you just have to smash it
with the biggest hammer you can find. No amount of extra anything hurts.”
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every single night in Vegas. It was winter, so I was forced to work my way into several clubs per night on weeknights.
Which in Vegas isn't easy to do.
I was exhausted. I was frustrated. Sometimes I was just floating around like a zombie. I trained and trained and trained out
of the field. Doing endless drills I had to make up myself because nothing like them existed. I pushed and pushed and
pushed in the club. I never realized how hard this last bit would be. And I definitely never realized the absolutely insane
lessons I would learn by holding a gun to my own head, and insisting that I would hit this arbitrary number in this arbitrary
time frame, no matter what.
The pressure was crazy, but the reality was that pressure DOES make diamonds.

I opened January with a bang. Literally and figuratively. It was my first New Year's kiss, first midnight kiss, first pull quite
like that one, and one of my first pulls with a pretty damn young, really hot girl from a club. (I had pulled multiple girls
like that online, but generally didn't pull girls under maybe 24 from clubs)
I now had 30 days to pull another 8.5. And my game was pretty sick. No problem right? I didn't miss a fucking chance to
go out for nearly an entire month. I was frantic. If 31 days passed I was back at square one again, which had already taken
place a couple times in the preceding months. I had one 9 in my place and then had this fucking dude INTENTIONALLY
fuck it up for me, even though I had set him up to hook up with one of her friends. There were nearly fisticuffs, to make it
sound innocent.
I went through everything. But around the 27th of January I stuck it out with a girl and her chubby-ish but reasonably cool
friend to the point of creeper walking them back to their hotel, sitting in the lobby having drinks with them, doing
everything I could to keep her into it despite the boring circumstances... and somehow I fucking succeeded. It was like an
episode of TV's Survivor- Outwit, Outplay, Outlast.

When I woke up the next morning it was like an entire lifetime of weight had been removed. We wound up semi-dating for
months afterwards and she's still one of my favorite people I ever dated. Former Sephora model, had bounced around the
world with models and rappers like The Far East Movement (remember 'Like a G6'). She was funny and fun and Canadian.
It was a hell of a way to earn freedom from a lifetime of having a monkey on my back. I can tell you there are few better
feelings in the entire world. I went from living in a hell where I didn't feel like a full citizen of this world, to finally feeling
like my life was MINE, I could spend it with who I want... Even if it took a lot of effort. I was empowered. Then I stopped
to look around and realized I had gotten better than the vast majority of the other dudes in game.

But leading up to that ultimate break through, I had taken a bootcamp with RSD's Julien and he had dropped some seeds in
my mind that were starting to materialize into seeing a bigger picture that was still out of reach. I realized there was
something even bigger going on. I wasn't at THE peak yet. Some things I just didn't understand. Some things were out of
my conception and understanding and reach.

I hadn't 'solved' game. There were major things I was missing out on. Major understandings. Major abilities. So I started
wondering, how DO the best guys in the entire world get there? What ARE they doing. You start realizing quickly that
those best guys in the world never really answer these questions fully.
They realize the answers are beyond what most people want or need, and they sort of dance around the question. But I
wanted to know. I didn't want to be THE best, but I wanted to hang with them. I wanted to be in there with them. Then I
wanted to tell other people how to do it.
I already realized my collection of wisdom and breakthroughs and lessons had turned from post into book into the best
book ever written on game. Though, to be fair, the legends like Tyler D and RSD Julien and Venture from Lovesystems
weren't writing books – they were making DVDs or just training. Guys like Mystery were retired or semi-retired, and the
same with Style and others. So just writing a really good book with modern info was likely to mean you were writing the
best book ever written on game. But the shit I had on these pages wasn't just mind blowing. It was time and space warping.
It was other worldly. It was nuclear.

Still... I really wanted to call it 'Game Solved'. Why? Because that was what I had really set out to do- solve game. While
most people would've read it and thought it fulfilled that promise, I didn't. I had seen people like RSD Julien doing things
that weren't encompassed in my book. I had watched him getting reactions I didn't get. The book couldn't possibly be
complete until it told you how to do those same things.

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So I set out again. Taking a full five day boot camp with Julien. Studying his video and the video of other guys to a depth
where I knew things about their game that even THEY didn't realize until I pointed it out. I've gotten a lot of “Oh yeah, I
do do that!” in the last few years from literally the very best guys in the world.

Want to know what things are SO in depth that the very best guys in the entire world don't even realize that they're doing
them? We'll go there.

I even got Julien to talk about some major, earth shattering... No, star smashing... Stuff that he had never put out publicly
in any product. That he said he would never put out publicly. Buuut, he didn't tell me that I couldn't tell YOU those
things... In fact he didn't really seem to care. So we'll go there too!

We'll go into how the hell you reconcile what you learn from Lovesystems with what you learn from RSD with what old
school Mystery taught with what old school David D taught with what the very best naturals do.

All of that seems very contradictory and like it could never possibly all go together, right? All of it WILL go together by
the time you read the very last page. Promise.

Do you want to know how to put together what RSD Max, Tyler D, RSD Julien, RSD Jeffy, RSD Madison, and even RSD
Ozzie teach, all in one? And not even have them seem like complete opposites? I did too.
Do you want to know what happens if you evaluate and try pretty much everything all of these legends teach, and then
take the best pieces and somehow mix them together into some mutant super game? I wanted to know that too. So I did it.
And I'll tell you.

Ultimately, there will never, ever be a perfect source or take on game. But does this 'book' really 'solve' game? I'd actually
say yes. Yes, finally, it does.
Five years after I wrote an 80 page post so good that some of the best instructors in the world told me it was phenomenal,
head and shoulders above most other info out there, I would say that this finally 'solves' game.
Just imagine that. Take something that multiple of the world's best INSTRUCTORS called phenomenal, one of the best
things they'd ever seen in game in years, then add FIVE YEARS onto it where ALL of it is more advanced than the
original post. Add about 800 more pages, all more brilliant than those first 80. Add a training program that can help you go
out and execute it all, almost without having to even do any research or decide what to do. Add in the input of pretty much
every single top expert in game, including many of the best giving in-person answers to questions they never addressed
publicly. Questions that few people were ever advanced enough to even ask them. Pack it all in here.

As I narrowed in on finally being able to wrap this up, I started realizing even MORE crazy lessons at a staggering rate.
Tyler D says that every year he thinks he gets 3-5 times better at game... And I see why. The more you know, the more the
puzzle comes together.
While I had broken through the barriers most told me existed on cold approach, I realized that at the same time they
weren't totally wrong. That there were levels of success that extended out beyond cold approach. I also found that those
avenues beyond cold approach can only be best exploited WITH cold approach skills. I ultimately realized that fame is the
ultimate game. And I realized that financial success is not remotely necessary for great success with women, but that a
certain level of using money in the right ways can open up success that nothing else can. So while the book isn't really
about how to go date A list Hollywood actresses and to have as many international cover models on your yacht as
Leonardo Dicaprio... I wound up exploring how you might do that. In this book. I even got a decent amount of the inside
story of how Dan Bilzerian wound up where he is. And guess what? That's in here too. That's the shit I'm working on now,
personally.

I made you a promise with the title- game SOLVED. It doesn't say 'most of game mostly solved'. The title promises you
that you'll have a deep level of understanding without any major missing pieces in every area of game. So even a large
amount of the process for how you can become famous, or work the yacht and bottle service life in order to date real top-
of-the-line models constantly is in here too. I'm still mid-process in executing some of that, so those parts aren't 100%
complete. But the pieces you need in order to understand, embark on, and succeed in those areas are here too.

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So now back to my first statement. This isn't a 'book'. I intended for it to be a book. But it isn't. As I was thinking about
writing this part earlier, I realized that while I don't have anything in common with Style from 'The Game', if you look at
my life over the last ten years, you could kind of argue that I am the modern Style. I'm the guy that visited all the best in
the world, learned from them, asked them the hard questions, even spent a lot of time with some of them, and then melded
it together and wrote it all down. I'm just a lot fucking cooler than Style ever was or ever will be ;)

This shit is so fucking gold. Actually platinum. Diamond. If you read through all of both volumes, then go out and execute
on it hard for at least six months and use the training software... But you can call me up on FaceTime, look me right in the
fucking eye, and tell me in all sincerity this wasn't one of the three most life-changing, mind-blowing, perception altering,
door-opening, gravity defying things you EVER read, listened to, or watched in your ENTIRE FUCKING LIFE – I'll give
you all your money back right then and there. Dead fucking serious. Why? Because everyone I've ever met that watched
every minute of Tyler D's 'Blueprint Decoded' and took it seriously, has told me that it changed your life. I have one friend
that came at it with a grain of salt and didn't like it, and I strongly believe he didn't focus and watch every minute of it.
This takes that information from Blueprint Decoded and then expands multiple levels beyond it, plus adding in Tyler D's
own new information that extended multiple stages beyond Blueprint. I KNOW for a fact you can't get through all of this,
execute on it, and then honestly look me in the eye and say that. I KNOW it. It's just not possible. So there's the guarantee
of guarantees. In fact, if anyone can tell me straight to my face, I might even send them $100 just because. I'm not worried,
it's not happening.
Why do you think I'm giving away the first 50 pages of this for free? Because that shit ALONE will implode your former
reality- and it's fucking child's play compared to the rest. It's unbelievably phenomenal. And it barely scratches the surface.
That, and the fact that I was originally just going to give this whole thing away entirely. But that would break the rules of
doing anything scalable (which we go over in the entrepreneurship add-on section), plus everyone says no one takes things
seriously when they don't pay for them.

Anyway, as we started this intro, the result of all of this isn't a book. It can't be. How could you call that a 'book'? It's like
900 fucking pages between two volumes. There's training SOFTWARE that gives you literally Olympic level training, but
for your mind in game. (I was an athlete two levels below the Olympics and good enough to go one level below the
Olympics, in the world's hardest Olympic sport. Like hardest overall, not physically hardest – though it has that aspect
too).
There's a whole section so fucking great on how to become a millionaire entrepreneur that I'm working on spinning that
off, and I think it has a real shot at becoming an New York Times bestseller. A fucking SPINOFF of this book could
become an NY Times Bestseller! A SPINOFF of a SUBSECTION! This is something that just doesn't exist anywhere else.
You think I'm kidding? Not only was I an athlete pushing Olympic levels, but I got a masters degree from one of the top
three universities in the world. And I got it with my bachelors degree in only four years. In engineering. And I'm using the
information in that section of this book on business to very legitimately try to go wayyy beyond millionaire right now. Two
of my college friends are billionaires already. I have three friends with Olympic gold medals in two different sports. That I
can think of right now. I've seen what it takes to excel. I don't fuck around. The information here doesn't fuck around.

This is not a book. It's an ANSWER.

It's a journey. It's an education. It's a Ph.D. on PDF. It's an utter shift in life. It's a complete rewrite of every misconception
you were ever taught or didn't question.
It's execution handed to you on a platter. It's entering a different paradigm, a different dimension. If a few months ago
these pages were nuclear, now they're fucking antimatter. I would throw an entire animal shelter of puppies off of a cliff to
take this back to my 17 year old self. I'd push the button on an entire petting zoo. I'd climb a ladder to the fucking moon.
This is years of your life lived the way you'd always hoped, and it's being given to you before it's too late. Before those
years are gone and you'll never get them back. It's a hole in the fabric of what you thought was reality. It's X-ray fucking
vision. It's a program. It's a lifestyle. It inducts you into a community and an elite class. It's a new life.
It's like you were a spy toiling away in the dangers of Afghanistan before today, and now you finally got out. And to
reward you the powers-that-be decided to give you a yacht and a briefcase of bucks and a few fashion photographer friends
that trail models behind them everywhere they go, with a little message that said “Thanks for busting your ass all those
years. We'll see you later, James.”

This ain't a fucking book. It's an ANSWER. It's THE answer.

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Welcome, gentlemen, to Game Solved.

---

I spoke with a group of guys who had all met at a conference from one of the main game companies. I think we started out
with about 12 people on the call. Granted, we talked for about 2 hours... but at the end of the call there were only 5 people
left.

Why? Well, this book is for guys who are anywhere from intermediate to instructor level. Yes, instructors. Instructors
would get more out of this book than anyone, in fact. This information is as high level as it gets.
The reason within the reason for these guys leaving the call was not JUST that they were largely newbies and my shit is for
guys that want the advanced shit. But within that, they wanted me to tell them “Say this and you'll succeed.” “Use that cold
read, and you'll succeed.”
Ironically, a number of them thought I was teaching them inner game. I wasn't. I WAS telling them what to say. But I was
telling them what to say in almost ANY situation... By telling them how to think and how to look at the world.

When you properly understand the world, and women, and what women want, then you can have what you really want.

Let's face it. You SAY that you want women. In which case if there were some world where telling you “say this and you'll
get women” existed (it doesn't), then you'd be stoked to have those words. But you wouldn't be. Because what you
ACTUALLY want is to be GOOD WITH WOMEN. You want that as a trait. You want it as a part of you. You want choice
with women, and you want to be good with women. Giving you a few lines won't give you that. First of all, a few lines can
get you good reactions, but it won't get women to date you or have sex with you or whatever you want. It'll just get you
laughs or momentary interest. Second, when you rely on those words to get those limited reactions, you'll feel like it's just
the words and not you. So you won't get women, and you won't feel like you can get them...
Those guys were leaving the call because they thought they wanted me to tell them what to do and say, specifically.
Ironically, I WAS telling them what to do and say. But I was telling them for all situations by telling them how to look at
those situations and how to look at women and how to take that into actions and words.

That's what you're in store for. This book goes through a complete path of learning just about everything there is to know
about women, game, social circles, emotions, even fame. What works, what doesn't, the practical aspects of game... All of
it. Whatever questions you have about game, no matter how good you are, they will almost certainly be answered by the
end of this book. Like I said, part of the target audience of this book IS instructors. If you want to get to a point where you
just ARE good with women, even solid fashion models, then read on. If you want a few lines so that you get laughs from
girls, this isn't for you.
How do we achieve this? By slowly correcting all kinds of perceptions and knowledge to the point where your brain is
simply aligned with succeeding with women and what women love. It slowly turns you into living as a woman's ideal,
fantasy man.

--
Preview of What's to Come

I want you to understand how this is going to go. The first half of the first volume is going to be primarily practical shit
that will help you get from intermediate to advanced right now. If you're intermediate, you NEED that. You need it for
game. For experience. And to understand the rest of what we get into, you'll need that. The first half of the first volume is
where you're going to go from frustrated and perhaps lost to “Holy shit, I'm getting good at this!” Then in the second half
of the first volume we're going to really turn it on. As I'll mention again, this is kind of like the Blueprint Decoded by Tyler
D. If you bail early on, you have NO IDEA how insane it gets by the end. In the second half of the first volume shit starts
to get crazy. We're going to go through concept after concept that will slowly change everything for you. Your results. The
way you see game.

At first it will seem like mastery level game is just insanely complicated and will take years of hard work to come close to

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achieving. That's what I thought while writing through that section, too. Sorry if some of that attitude is still there, this will
take two months to carefully edit that stuff out, so I might not get to editing every comment I made late one night while
tired and annoyed... However, we'll go through so many mind-blowing things it will start to feel like you see new colors in
the world that you never knew existed. It's really insane. Truly a rush. It will take some time, but through the end of the
first volume and then throughout the second volume, we'll take that huge amount of information that seems overwhelming.

Then we'll start to distill it down, combine it together and bring it to a point where you have a very small focus that
encompasses just about all of the information we've covered. The vast majority of the most recent, most advanced things
I've added come near the end of the second volume's game section. That's by far my favorite shit. It's really like you can
just see game in the air between everyone. The last section I added, on getting 'Guru Level Arrogance' as Tyler D called it -
or super confidence in your game - is perhaps one of my favorites. I drug my ass out to bars and clubs, then basically drug
myself through gaming throughout most of the entire ten years it took me to learn and to write this book. It was fun in the
moment when I was actually gaming, but I just forced myself to start everything and generally just hoped it would go well.
I would often get into a good rhythm and have some confidence about it... But it was sort of flimsy or limited confidence. I
figured that huge level of confidence instructors describe would come over time, especially with competence. In all
honesty as my competence increased, my confidence stayed pretty much the same as the confidence I had when I was
intermediate. Maybe there's some level of success that I'll achieve in the future where the success alone breeds confidence,
but I haven't seen that happen to be honest... I found that my ability far exceeded my confidence throughout pretty much
my entire journey. I could do a lot more than I felt like I could do. So I FINALLY got down to studying, breaking down,
and FIGURING OUT crazy level of confidence. It's the last thing I did and the last thing I added to this. And it's
FUCKING AWESOME. For the first time in my game journey going out TRULY FELT DIFFRENT after I figured that
section out. I would get excited to go out even if I was exhausted and rusty and everything else, because I was
CONFIDENT.
So that's what you're in for... Increasingly seeing more and more and more of game until you just look at the world
differently, and everything comes together. Until you get to a point where everything is SIMPLE. You just GET IT. At a
level that enables you all the way up to cold approach pulling models regularly (you may or may not execute enough to do
that, but you'll UNDERSTAND it fully and will have the opportunity to act on it). Every other bit of material I've seen on
game was lacking a TON of steps and required knowledge for achieving that level of success. This isn't. This has
EVERYTHING you need. Probably plus some more. You won't have to bang your head against the wall any more, and you
won't run into any glass ceilings. THEN you'll be confident about it and FEEL EXCITED about going out, pushing
yourself, and dominating.

If that's not crazy enough, like I mentioned on the website we're even going to abolish the concept of 'opening' as you
know it for good. Way farther and more actionable than saying “It's already open.” We're going to fundamentally change
the way the community thinks of opening, transitioning and hooking. In fact, the second volume of this book is going to
blow the game community into tiny pieces. You won't think of game the same way EVER again. And you'll be FAR better
for it.

For those of you who aren't picking this up, this whole thing is effectively about “9's and 10's”. Or, in my experience, any
girl 8.5 and up acts about the same. What that really means is that your game is airtight and you'll understand those girls
and what attracts them – which also works for any other girl. It'll get you the 7's just as easily. I don't really go home with
7s, but if I ever wanted to I basically just have to say yes to them. The converse isn't true- what works for 7s often does
NOT work for 9s. You'll see why throughout the book. It's effectively just the outcome of competition though, the 9s are
just more bombarded and thus pickier. Though they're also more concerned with their social image, they test harder, and
are less reactive. In any case, this covers everything you might want to know. By being able to regularly get the hottest
girls, you can also rack up numbers, game that girl in your class, game your social circle, etc. All of that combines
BECAUSE of how well distilled and linked this information is by the end. I the abstracted concepts on my friend's ex-
girlfriend right in front of him – just to make sure she'll talk me up to other girls (not because I would ever swoop my
friend's ex, I never would). It looks like I'm basically just being social. And I am, just in the right way. He doesn't bat an
eye. It's THAT smooth. It's THAT integrated with the normal social fabric ('natural' you might say, though that buzz word
annoys me). So by the end of the book, we'll get you to where you can do THAT, but it's capable of pulling a legit
magazine model. Sound good?

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What is the Real Reason – that No one Knows – for Why Game and Dating are the Way they Are?

This is a very deep topic, very similar to what is covered in the latter half of the first volume of this book, and the entire
second volume. I wanted to put this section here, in the free section of the book, so you really see the kinds of knowledge
we're going to get into over the course of the book. We're going to go INCREDIBLY deep into things that have never been
covered ANYWHERE else. And when we do, you're going to be left with a fundamentally different understanding of the
world that will forever change how you interact with it – in a way that will let you smoothly achieve success simply from
having a different perspective.

So why is the male-female dynamic the way that it is? Why do dating and game turn out the way that they do? What is it
that forces the buyer-seller dynamic to turn out the way that it does? Why do women always hold the upper hand when it
comes to dating, partying, etc.?

It's actually something quite simple but very hard to see- In any situation where you have buyers and sellers, the BUYER
is the one with the more MUTUALLY AGREED UPON resource!

That's likely to not make a lot of sense at first, it took me a second when I first realized it...

Think about a mall- you've got buyers walking around it with one resource, and you've got sellers in stores with another
resource. What's the buyer's resource? Money. Like US Dollars or other country's currencies. Backed and guaranteed by
the government of that nation.
What's the seller's resource? Goods. Like shoes, watches, and jackets.

Between US Dollars, and shoes, watches and jackets, what is the more mutually agreed upon resource? The US Dollar is
accepted in probably 50% of the entire world. Probably 3.5 billion people put value in the US Dollar, often above their
own country's currencies in the third world.
How many people value an individual shoe? Maybe 300,000 people will buy a single model... Maybe twice that would
potentially buy it. That's for an INCREDIBLY popular shoe, an absolute smash hit. And how many people have feet? Just
about all 7.5 billion people (no offense whatsoever if you don't! All respect from me). That means the US Dollar is about
6000 times more universally valued than even the hottest, smash-hit shoe that has ever been created. The most popular
Louis Viton or Air Jordan of all time is 1/6000 as agreed upon as the US Dollar.

Thus, when you've got one group of people walking around the mall with dollars, and another group of people in the mall
with shoes and watches and jackets... The group with the less agreed upon resource, the people with the shoes and watches
and jackets, are the SELLERS.

Why? Because anyone would readily take the dollars. But among thousands of different options for everything the sellers
are selling, none of which exceeds more than about 1/6000th the level of mutual agreement – and thus widespread value –
as the money, you have to do a lot of WORK to get the buyers to want to trade their mutually agreed upon resource for
something that has a far more individual appeal. If someone has a massive shoe collection, some people might find that
really impressive. Others, like me, won't give a fuck. A massive shoe collection means you traded a lot of a resource that
anyone would accept, for one that just about only you can appreciate. You've put yourself in a corner. So you have to be
REALLY convinced to like those shoes in order to be willing to do that.
Granted you NEED one pair of shoes. But if you have one... Getting you to buy an entire shoe collection is going to take a
whole lot of marketing and convincing before you decide that's what you really want.

Thus, the buyer-seller dynamic is what it is because one side has a far more mutually agreed-upon resource. That side has
far more options. And is reluctant to trade all those options for a scenario where they can't easily trade back. To pay $100
for a pair of shoes, a buyer actually has to see $120 or $150 of value in them. Otherwise it's better to keep the resource that
can be used for just about anything.

Now think of dating, or game. Between men and women, who has the more mutually agreed upon resource?

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Well, put up ONE picture of a woman, and millions of guys would want to be with her. Some would be willing to try
dating her straight out. The rest would at least want to hook up with her, or go on a date with her. Just from looking at her,
millions or even billions of men might agree that she has a value they are interested in.
Now put up one picture of a guy. Girls go, “He's kind of cute. But how tall is he? What does he do for a living? Would I
have fun with him? What if he's clingy? What if he's a pussy and is needy? What if he's no fun to be around at all?” And on
and on. They're worried if he can put them in socially competitive positions. They're worried if he ACTS in a way that is
sexy to them. Aka if they have 'chemistry' (we'll explain EXACTLY what that means in a minute). They're worried if he's
suited to what they, particularly, want. In fact, they just generally worry a lot about it.
He's the shoes. He might be very valuable to them, but they need some marketing, some convincing of it. She's the dollars.
If you don't like her – plenty of other guys will.
Does that mean your value is below hers? Not if you're the shit. She's some 22 year old girl that has generally done nothing
with her life. BUT she has no clue if you have any value without marketing. A Lotus car has a LOT more value than
10,000 dollars... But if you don't market it to someone, they won't know that.

Suddenly you can see why women are obsessed with famous men- a famous man is mutually agreed by hundreds of
thousands or, often, even millions of people as valuable. For an average hot girl, there might be thousands of tens of
thousands of guys that think she's hot. But for Brad Pitt or Ryan Gosling, there are TENS OF MILLIONS of women that
think they're sexy. The mutually agreed upon resource inherently implies value. In a basic sense, he's got more options,
Ryan Gosling has more options and is more universally acknowledged as a valuable person than she is. So selling him on
herself would be a trade up for that girl. If she's then seen dating him, now people will mutually agree that SHE is valuable
at a much higher rate...
Why are comedians not generally that sought after by women? They're famous. What about Jerry Seinfeld, Jim Gaffigan,
John Mulaney, Brian Regan, Nick Swardson? Some of them are ugly, some aren't so much. Why aren't they chased like
crazy by women? Because they're not mutually agreed upon as being SEXY. It's mutually agreed that they're FUNNY. So
dating them isn't a trade up in romance- or sex-related value.

We'll talk later about how a girl's largest drive is to be the most socially competitive girl in any given environment. Really
this means she's trying to maximize her mutually agreed-upon value. Dating a celebrity is one way to do that. Becoming a
celebrity is another. Why do girls like to be around top photographers? Because top photographers can get them huge
exposure and make them hot in the modeling world, which drives up their mutually agreed upon value. In their
subconscious, that means they can now be more eligible to receive mutually agreed upon value themselves... Money,
dating famous men, yachts, private jets, bottle service, exclusive parties at Cannes and Art Basel...

Why do girls love bottle service, yachts, private jets, and exclusive parties – but they don't love things that are better
experiences like sky diving, the world's best restaurants, or playing pickup volleyball games?
Because bottle service, yachts, private jets, and exclusive parties have two factors: A) They're mutually agreed upon as
valuable in the socializing/dating scene. B) They're mutually agreed upon as EXCLUSIVE. In other words, other hot girls
and attractive guys have just come to agree that these things are valuable in socializing and dating. They have ALSO
agreed that they're exclusive, which means you need to be near the top of the chain in the socializing and dating worlds to
have access to them. So being in those settings means that you're doing something valuable, just according to a lot of
people. AND it means that YOU are valuable because you had to out compete others to get in those settings. That's why
girls are so obsessed with the completely mentally retarded concept of exclusivity. You post a picture on Instagram of you
doing those things, and suddenly more people believe that YOU have value. And that's the girl's biggest driver.
Girls don't care about money, they care about increasing their mutually agreed upon value. Save your money on the Rolex
or the Mercedes or the fancy dinners. Girls care about things that show off THEIR mutually agreed upon value. You and
your buddies are better off renting a yacht for a day... But you'll need game or social circle to get hot enough girls on it to
1) Enjoy it and 2) To take pictures of it to post to show off to future girls that you're a guy that can increase their mutually
agreed upon value. (RSD Max has a great and highly recommended YouTube video on what he calls “Setup game” which
he really derived from RSD Luke)
Money doesn't do shit for women. Increasing their mutually agreed upon value in the eyes of others does. That's why girls
don't give a fuck that I graduated from one of the best universities in the world. How does that increase THEIR mutually
agreed upon value? If they aren't going to marry me and brag about it, it doesn't. But how do they want to marry me if they
haven't dated me? They won't. And how do they want to date me if they don't first want to have sex with me? Hate to break

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it to you... they won't.

Now, what about raw cold approach game? You see, the thing about all of this is that it's happening in everyone's BRAINS.
It's all PERCEPTION and BELIEFS. Being on a yacht might be 'real'. But, first of all, what would happen if you went to
the 1600s and asked a princess if she wanted to go spend the day in the sun on a giant boat? She'd be like “Boat?!?! What
the fuck is wrong with you! Boats are disgusting and are for peasant sailors and give you cholera! And who wants to toil
all day in the sun? Arrest this man! Dilly dilly”
What is considered the top of the top in the social scene today would've been disgusting and absurd at another point in
time. So the fact is, this is all happening in everyone's minds. If someone BELIEVES that someone has vastly more
mutually agreed upon value than they do, then that's the reality for that person. Someone in the middle of southeast Asia
probably doesn't know who Ryan Gosling is. To that person, he has zero mutually agreed upon value. But whatever girl
you want to meet tonight would lose her shit for Ryan Gosling. In her mind, she's CONVINCED of his mutually agreed
upon value.
That's where game comes in. Game is all about beliefs and emotions. Think about it – if a girl somehow magically
believed you had the same mutually agreed upon value as Ryan Gosling, how FUCKING EXCITED would she be to date
you!?!? Game isn't trickery at all. That's real value to that girl, just for believing that. Now, we can't do anything quite like
that. BUT, emotions are whimsical and they're all in the brain. You CAN create a scenario where a girl is very legitimately
extremely excited about dating you or going home with you... And it's just a matter of her emotions and what she believes
in her head. It's no more real than a yacht being incredibly valuable today, and being considered a thing of the peasants 400
years ago. And, let's face it, is it remotely fair that women are telling guys that women can be sexual, but that guys should
lose their careers and be permanently shamed for trying to be sexual with them... and then at the same time those women
are demanding yachts and bottle service in exchange for considering dating guys? No, it's fucking bullshit. Ain't nothing
fair going on. So don't worry about it. Attractive women are just cocky enough to think that they're entitled to say “I can be
sexual or serious or whatever I want” and then say “If you try to get sexual with me, your life should be ruined” and then
to say “I only hang out with guys with 100,000 followers, a yacht, and bottle service” [which isn't exactly true, either, cuz
they'll fuck a guy with great game too]. You just need to be cocky enough to go “Well, if we're being seven year olds and
saying unreasonable cocky shit about how we deserve everything and also should do nothing for it... Then I'll say the
same. I deserve to hook up with you and do nothing for it and you will love it and get no yachts unless I want to be on one
in which case I'll consider inviting you if you don't suck.” To which women would say “That's sexist and using women” to
which you should say “You just said a bunch of even greater nonsense yourself. Drink this Bud Light. Dilly dilly.”

Ultimately, if you can act 'as if' you have a greater mutually agreed upon value. If you can use 'preselection' and let her see
OTHER girls talking to you and enjoying talking to you... Then you can begin to level the playing field by behaving as a
person with great mutually agreed upon value. At the same time, you should act like she doesn't necessarily have the same
in your eyes (better to act as though it's a question of whether she does or doesn't, and then let her try to show that she
does). The more she BELIEVES that you have mutually agreed upon value, and the less you act as though she has it, the
more she can become the seller and you can become the buyer. Now that isn't exactly the central theme of this book, but
never forget it. Ever. Because everything we talk about in this book is generally related to making women feel amazing in
the moment emotions, which are real, but if you can also create that underlying dynamic flip- the one where in her mind
you act like everyone agrees upon your value and you're not convinced of hers – then everything can change. Why does
cockiness work? Why do some forms of fun teasing work? Why does qualifying work? In fact, HOW should you qualify a
girl? Based on her personality and character? To a degree. Is that as powerful as it could be? What if you qualified girls
about if they were going out on yachts, attending private events at Art Basel, or were signed with Ford modeling agency or
not? What if you qualified girls based on their mutually agreed upon value, what matters to THEM? Might they qualify
harder and chase more??

The bottom line is that game is ultimately about creating engagement and enjoyable emotions. That's what this book is
about. Those things all come from what someone believes. In their mind. Ryan Gosling is no more real a sex symbol than
you would be if an individual girl believed you had the same mutually agreed upon level of sexiness as Ryan Gosling.
When she has a certain level of engagement, emotions, and beliefs about you and around you, then she legitimately enjoys
that interaction as much as she would with anyone else. 'Real' enjoyment for her is just a matter of what's going on in her
mind. And the same for you. Game is about creating THAT. Because, let's face it, she's more likely to really enjoy her time
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group of young rich kids, she might like that. Game isn't fake at all. Nor trickery. It's just a matter of creating engagement
and emotions that girls enjoy/are excited and pulled in by. Not everything people are engaged by is a 'positive' emotion
either- lots of people seek out horror movies because they're ENGAGED by the 'negative' emotion of fear. Don't think so
black and white... What we really all want is engagement.

Side note: I had to change the name of Joseph Dieguez here because he doesn't want to be associated with the content of
meeting girls and going home with them same night. Though in my experience, the girls themselves love finding a guy that
brings that out of them – so we're just talking about what girls want. Even if you want to get married, there's still a certain
way that girls want to be engaged by guys. So it's Joseph's choice not to be included here, but this is the reality of what
girls want. Joseph's trying to be more agreeable to what GUYS want to hear in a broad market. I don't give a fuck about
that. This is about what GIRLS want, and how we can be what girls actually want.

It's rare you get girls to say what they want and actually be honest/even know what they really want. But this is an early
thirties girl who used to model that I know. She's an awesome person so I can't give any more information that might be
identifying. She's incredibly accurate in describing what she would want in a guy, and to me it stacks up with what about
85% of really attractive girls want in a guy in most categories (minus the parts about hiking – most girls would rather party
and have bottle service than hike. But insert whatever there). She wrote-

He'd have to...

1.) Accompany me on my free Hawaii trip twice a year. No negotiation.
2.) [Most girls probably wouldn't agree with this] Watch football all day on Sunday or at least be okay with the fact I do.
Also the occasional hockey game, multi-day golf tournament, etc. Even celebrity golf tournaments. Have you seen Justin
Timberlake and Steph Curry play golf together? It's fucking adorable.
3.) In that same vein, I often will do something like watch an Archer marathon in my underwear all day and only get up for
your aforementioned salsa. Sometimes there's a pillow/blanket fort involved. So that would have to be okay too. Plus send
me topical and pithy Archer gifs daily.
4.) Be cool with the fact I don't really cook but rather assemble shit in the fridge into semi-appetizing concoctions. It
would be amazeballs if he did cook, but not required because I'm pretty happy with potato chips and dip for dinner. Or
Qdoba. Oh, and don't criticize my diet. Or criticize anything else that truly doesn't matter in the grand scheme of the
universe, for that matter. And I'll do the same.
5.) [Personal preference of hers, but the abstracted sentiment would be shared by many girls] Love to go on road trips
without solid plans/schedules in mind, especially day trips all around CO in the summer/fall. And be the driver. I'm like a
lab or golden retriever and just love staring out the passenger side window all day. Also not talk much while driving ... but
definitely sing along to '90s alt rock ... but STFU otherwise.
6.) [Her personal preference due to situations I won't mention] Not be a drug addict or alcoholic (can't believe I have to
emphasize this point now). I'm not against weed, but generally the people who are huge fans annoy the fuck out of me.
7.) Send me funny memes on the reg, in addition to cracking witty and original jokes consistently. I should be laughing a
lot, right? I'm big on inside jokes too.
8.) [To most girls, this thoughtfulness is the right amount. Constant flowers and shit is too much for most] If he drives past
a Jimmy John's and knows he will see me within the next two hours, pick up a Beach Club (no cucumbers).
9.) [Most girls don't agree here, but she likes reading. So this is a statement of personal importance] Read regularly and be
up on current events. If you don't at least vaguely know who, say, Justin Trudeau is or that South Africa is having a major
water crisis and land confiscation issues, we're going to have a problem. I like to talk about current events and for someone
to have an actual opinion about them. Even if I disagree.
10.) Smell like a subtle mixture of sweat, pine forest, and Burberry's London for Men. Some of the Old Spice scents also
are acceptable.
11.) [My experience is most hot girls DO agree with this, minus the hiking/camping] Basically not exist a few days a
week. Go do fun shit with guy friends, don't check in with me, and just let me be my introverted self for a bit. Don't expect
to do everything together. Want to go hike and camp in the woods for a few days? Fantastic. Have fun. I'll be here when
you get back. I'm not one of those girls who passive aggressively says she's okay with that stuff but really is pissed.
12.) [This is one place where most girls would DISAGREE with her] Realize I'd rather set myself on fire than socialize
with most strangers. Formal events like weddings and informal events like "couples game night" strike fear in my heart. I
can do like two a year before losing my shit.

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13.) [A personal quirk of hers. Every girl has them] Already know how or learn to play Euchre.
14.) [Very much her personal preference] Not want kids (or already have kids) and ideally just want to borrow other
people's dogs sometimes and then give them back. Prob no pets since I currently am killing a ficus.
15.) [This is obviously a personal preference] Not be super religious, super conservative, or super liberal. Socially liberal
and fiscally conservative is ideal. Libertarian(ish), but not in a stupid, impractical way.
16.) [Probably 65% of girls agree with this. Some don't] Touch me a lot. My hair. My head. Massages. Whatever.
17.) [This is personal to this girl for reasons I won't mention] Always always always tell me the truth. Trust is #1. Unless
he secretly doesn't agree Pearl Jam's "Black" has one of the best song intros ever. Then he can lie to me.
18.) Think my parents are the coolest people ever ever ever. Plus some other fam members. We tight, in case no one
noticed.
19.) [Varies girl to girl] Grow some stubble or light beard for me. Not a mustache. Not a goatee. Not a wizard beard. Some
seriously good stubble though ... required.
20.) [Many girls don't care about this, this is unique to her] Good grammar, good grammar, good grammar. Plus mostly
correct spelling and punctuation. Even in texts like 80% of the time. Speaking of texting, not calling me ever is key. I hate
talking on the phone.
21.) [Basically every girl I've ever met secretly or less secretly wants this] Be up (literally) for tons of mind-blowing sex.
Because I lied about the ED thing. This is only thing on this list that matters, actually, because everything else here I can
get from family and friends. So ... THIS. And just lots of making out. Lots. Ha.

I think this is very useful because it shows you a (very rare) honest look at what your average attractive girl really wants.
Not too much contact. Tiny pieces of easy thoughtfulness (not over the top shit all the time). Some personal quirks. Some
personal preferences. Tons of great sex.
Notice how she says “This is only thing on this list that matters, actually, because everything else here I can get from
family and friends. So … THIS.” That's such an insightful comment, in reality. A girl can get everything else from
everyone else. So if you even want to be a boyfriend or husband, she's screening you first for #21 for her own enjoyment,
because you have a special relationship with her. She's also screening you for those things because it's her biological
instincts. We've only had leisure time in our world for like 200 years. For all of human evolution before that, a relationship
was for having and raising kids and staying alive and maybe feeling good sometimes. Which means that for all that time
the only thing that really mattered was whether or not you seemed like a good sexual option according to her emotions,
where her emotions were evolved to determine if you'd be good to have kids with.
If a girl interacts with you and #21 sounds appealing with you, she'll look for reasons to date you. She'll look for thing to
like about you. If it doesn't sound good, she assumes she can get everything else from everyone else. If a girl meets you
and #21 sounds great, that can turn into dating. And dating can always turn into more dating and even marriage. Guys
understand this process backwards – and I used to as well. If she meets you and number 1-20 sound great with you, but
#21 doesn't, you're out. She'll try to find a guy who does #21 and misses as few of the others as possible. It's both instinct
and human desire for pleasure, combined with the fact that this is her place to get that part of her life. This is so critical. Go
on a date and focus on 1-20 and you'll probably have a repeat of an experience that should sound familiar to you... It all
seemed great and you seemed to be aligned and have a lot of great things... And then you never went on another date. Meet
a girl or go on a date, focus on #21 and enough of 1-20 to seem like not a one dimensional fuck boy (which is very, very
little), and after she goes home with you SHE'LL try to find 1-20 in you.
Keep in mind, this is just straight up from a girl. The reason I commented her list is I wanted to leave it untouched. And
while she's an outlier on a couple things, which I mentioned, she's quite representative of the whole. And why not? Would
you date or marry a girl you didn't think was hot? What does it mean that you find her 'hot'? Why can you have friends that
aren't hot, but not date one? Because you're thinking about #21 in terms not of sex but about 'sex appeal'. Girls think about
sex appeal too – they just have less reservations than guys about actually having sex. Then don't talk about it.

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What Causes a Guy to Wind Up Needing Game?

Not embracing, owning, and enjoying tension. And/or non-verbals, especially in the face, voice, and movement patterns,
that fuck them over.

What does that mean? You'll see.

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Your First Mission

Watch the documentary from Starz called 'Nude'. It's available on iTunes for $8. Just fucking spend the $8 and watch it.
Immediately.
It's a documentary on one of the world's most famous fashion photographers being hired by another photographer to create
a $10,000 art calendar with photos of nude models for release at an Art Basel event in Miami. Which is one of the world's
largest gathering of models, basically. We should all be going there every year, let's put it that way.

Why is watching that the very first thing you should do before moving forward in game? Because you get to see the reality
of the world of the models you want. Look up Rachel Cook on Instagram – she's in it. She's naked in it. So that should
help.
You'll get to see how these girls think. What their hopes and dreams are. What they're like outside the pictures. What their
struggles are.
You'll get to see what they're willing to do in order to chase social competition and mutually agreed upon value. You'll get
to see how they act around photographers – in this case an old guy who's kind of weird, but also is famous and takes some
of the best pictures in the world. Most importantly, you'll never again be quite so unfamiliar with their world and how they
think again. Realistically, you should watch it repeatedly and absorb what's going on.
It also has an interesting effect where you're seeing the girls who you're chasing so hard when they're naked... And in a
way it isn't all that sexy. It is, and it isn't. It's kind of normal and utilitarian in a way too. Which is important to see. No one
wins Super Bowls every single week. The more you build something up, the less often it can happen. So thinking of
having a model in your place as pretty cool, but not all that abnormal, is a critical thing to having regular success.

Finally, photography is one of the most accessible ways for you to have great success with women. At the same time, the
documentary is BRILLIANT because it shows you what actually goes into being one of the world's best photographers.
Everyone who tries to get into photography researches camera equipment and some techniques and lighting, then goes out
and buys some expensive shit and thinks that their natural eye is better than most people's... And that their equipment and
the little research they did on light and technique will make them a photographer.

But watching the documentary Nude will SHATTER that. IF you're paying careful attention. The guy Daniel isn't one of
the world's best photographers because of his equipment or technique. You'll see that often he just photographs around his
apartment. His equipment is world class, but he's just throwing sheets over things and using the light from his window.
What makes him world class isn't that at all. It's his imagination and years of studying his craft. The same things that make
anyone great at ANYTHING.
He OBSESSES over form, shapes, positioning, the interplay of light and the body, back drops, accessories he can add to
the shots, color, the texture of the hair, the reflectiveness of the skin. He has to get girls to ACT out emotions and vibes. He
has to position them in perfect ways to play space and shape and contours against each other. Photography is all about
capturing vibes, emotions, energies, and even a perception of MOTION all in one photograph. It's about creating, clashing,
and breaking patterns – in light, in color, in shapes. The ONLY way you get good at that is to spend thousands of hours
studying the best photographs in the world piece by piece. What is the lighting like here? Where is it coming from? What
are the shadows like? Where are the shadows? What are the patterns? Why do the patterns fascinate me? What is
engaging? What are the colors? How do the colors contrast? What are the shapes? How do the shapes flow? What is the
relation between empty space and shapes? What are the patterns and clashes of the shapes? What are the energies of the
subjects? What is their vibe? How is that portrayed? How do you think the photographer got them to act that out? Where is
their hair? What texture does their hair have? How does their hair help create the emotion and vibe? How do you think
their hair was treated/made up? What's the background? What are the colors of the backgrounds? What are the textures of
the backgrounds? How are the models relating to the background? How do the colors and shapes of the models and
backgrounds work together? What motion is captured or implied? What emotional effect does it have on you? What about
all of the above factors creates that emotion?

To become a world class photographer, you have to study ALL of that. Then figure out how to create it yourself, in
practice, with real models. There's a long interplay of studying, practicing, and obsessing. What's the point of talking about

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all of that? Because if you're young and don't know what to do, and you're willing to be obsessed with photography for the
next 20 years, you'll likely get more models than anyone you've ever met – if you know even pretty decent game. But also
because it's a microcosm. That same exact study, test, obsess pattern is how I came up with everything in this book, plus
hanging out with the very best people in the world and watching all of their programs and asking questions about those
same types of things I mentioned related to photography. It's also the way you would break down, study, and get good at
ANYTHING in the world. I did it at an Olympic sport and got very close to professional level – probably would've been
professional level in a few more years. I did it in academics. I did it in game. I'm doing it in business.

As a side note, if you're a photographer good enough to get paid to photograph models, email [email protected]
– I'll teach you game in exchange for joining our social circles. You can hang with my friends that manage musicians in
Hollywood and my tech entrepreneurship friends – including a couple billionaires and others at the top of that field – and
I'll hang with you and the other photographers and models and so on. I can teach you about table/bottle service game, how
to best work your situation, the game you need in your field, how to not break the professional line. As you can see in the
documentary Nude, the photographer Daniel probably hooks up with a ton of models. He'd hook up with a TON more if he
wasn't fairly weird. The situation he's in, with girls barely dressed or naked, being physically adjusted and told what to do
by him, having their beauty enhanced by him... all in HIS apartment... If all he knew were the basics of the simplified
game we'll get to by the end of the second volume of this book, the girls would jump him almost every single time after he
put down the camera. He wouldn't have to make a move. So he would succeed without having to break the professional
line, because he could make an atmosphere with so much sexual tension and attraction that they would make it happen. If
you're a photographer, I can get you there pretty damn easily.
Which brings up another reason you might want to be a photographer- guys like me will hook you the fuck up. In part
because you have a cool social circle with models, but also because I personally find photography of humans fascinating.
Not just with female models, but with any human subjects. There's a famous Rock'n'Roll photographer who shot through
the sixties and seventies with all the greatest musicians. Go find his pictures on Google. They're unreal. It's fascinating.

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Preface-

If the intro at the very beginning got you pumped up, it's because I was using some of the skills I learned throughout the
process of what we'll talk about in this book. And by some of it, I mean I was absent mindedly typing away while eating
dinner. Honey mustard dressing, some lettuce, some jerk spice chicken. That's right, that was me subconsciously, half
heartedly, unintentionally using some of the skills and knowledge that you're about to learn... If I can fire you up like that
while eating dinner and watching football, just THINK what you'll be able to do by the time you finish this little journey
you're setting out on. But let me tell you, ain't nothing easy about this shit.

We'll make it as easy as it has ever been in the history of the world... But...

The truth is, you have no idea what lies between you and the level of success you'd always hoped you'd get when you first
got into game. Right now you have before you an undefined process of unknown length, having thousands and thousands
of possible combinations of actions you can perform and ideas you can hold, and not knowing what all it will take to get to
your destination – that's what's holding you back. You don't know where you're going, you just know a lot of options. So
where are you going? I'm going to show you. What you do with it is your choice.

What I will tell you is that if you read this ENTIRE thing, and execute HARD on everything we talk about for around 2
years, maybe three or four for some of you, you WILL have the dating life that you were hoping for all this time. Provided
you're not delusional and thinking you should date only celebrity 10's (We do even talk about how you might get there,
though that's hypothetical and anecdotal). Everything I've ever seen is about how you can start dating some girls, or a lot
of okay girls. Or it gives you tips to get higher quality girls. Nothing really seems to tell you how to actually get what you
want fully.
This will get you to date the quality you want with regularity and choice. That's exactly why this is called 'game solved'.
Because it's not “Go do this stuff and eventually if you follow that road it will go well for you.” It's “Go do this stuff, and
when you do it all, you'll be there.” Inherently that's a different offering than anything else out there. Of course, it comes in
exchange for some hard ass work over a long period of time and being willing to be very mentally flexible in your

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attitudes and perceptions. For those of you who don't like that last sentence, go cry about it. For the rest of you, at least you
realize this is the real world – welcome, let's get you going.

For those of you that think this is too long, or too expensive... You can easily read it in a month. It will then save you
EIGHT YEARS on your process to getting where I am now. And that's IF you would have been willing to do all the shit
I've done, and I've only met a handful of people that were willing to do that ever. Literally speaking, I'm the only one who
was willing to because I'm the only one who did- without getting paid a dime the whole way (actually paying about $50k).
IMAGINE what you would do at 40 years old to get EIGHT YEARS of your life back. How much of your net worth
would you give up? How many pages would you be willing to read? How much money WOULD you make in eight years
of going out an average of three nights a week? In other words, about TWELVE HUNDRED days of four hours a piece...
Forty-eight THOUSAND hours. At twenty five dollars an hour, well, you do the math for what I'm about to save you. Still
want to say it's too long and too expensive?
If you do, please don't read this because you're the type of person I don't want to help hahahaha.

“Your brain doesn't want you to be a big success. It doesn't give a FUCK about your dreams. It just wants to keep you
alive” - Tyler D, RSD

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Have you ever felt lost, frustrated, or like you're stuck beneath a glass ceiling with women? Have you ever felt that it
should be so much smoother. That there's something that just. Won't. Fucking. Click?

In under 1000 pages I guarantee every question you have ever have had about women, your interactions with them,
success with them and more will be answered. I'm sure I'll answer 100 more questions you've never even considered
answering... But when you see the questions and the answers, you will feel like you've been expanded into an entire new
world you never knew existed. You'll have to have patience. We'll get there one step at a time. I can't drop the mind
blowing content on you without first working up a large number of concepts required to learn those concepts. There's a
reason you don't look around the world and see guys just destroying left and right. The truly, truly mind blowing stuff
comes in the last two hundred pages. But if you REALLY want to succeed. If you REALLY want to have models in your
life. If you REALLY want to have this as an ingrained part of yourself, you'll find everything you wanted and more. This
IS your answer.

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Girls are blind. They only see what's shouted at them. You are like another...-

Waaaait a second. Let's take a pause before we get right into everything... We need to be real before we teach you how to
finally reach your goals in game. So. Here's reality. Sorry.

Game doesn't give a FUCK if you like it or not. For years guys have said “All kinds of stuff works, do whatever works for
you” and guys go out and after years of gaming they can just get a bunch of 7s now, whereas before maybe they could
rarely get a 7. It's bullshit.
There are areas in game where multiple things work, but by multiple I usually mean 2-4. In other areas, whether you like it
or not, there is a clear winner for what works best. And game doesn't give two fucks if you like that clear winner or not.
'The game' as it was referred to in the famous book will live and breathe just fine forever more, whether you like what
works or not. It's perfectly fine with you having shitty success or absolutely no success because you don't want to follow
it's tenets, or embrace its perspectives. So decide if you'd rather not care about game, or get over the stuff you don't like. I
had lots of stuff that 'wasn't me' or I didn't want to do for years in game. I eventually had to get over basically all of them.
And my resistance only made everything take a shit load longer. At the end of the day, you can find a part of yourself that
meshes with doing most things, and I can guarantee you can find that part of you for everything we're about to talk about.
If you want to.
I also have had dozens of friends who refused to question the way they looked at the world, and they lived year after year
of misery with women. Sucks for them.

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Success is a byproduct accidentally created by failure.

Let that sink in for a moment.

If you want to succeed in your life, just fail hard, constantly. Even uncomfortably. Fail like a mother fucker from now on
until the day you die. The harder and the more often, the better. The more ways, the more creatively you were trying when
you failed, the better. Occasionally success will just pop out of it by accident, an inherent side product of the chemical
reaction that is failure. Sound like an uncomfortable concept? That's just how life works.

I was just watching a nature documentary. They said leopards fail on 6 out of 7 hunts, and polar bears fail on 19 out of 20
hunts. They HAVE to win on the seventh and on the twentieth in order to just LIVE. You know what I would do to succeed
with 1 out of 10 hot girls instead of 1 out of 30 or so? Haaa. Nature is fucking uncomfortable. As much as you want to
believe you live in modern human society, when it comes to dating you fucking don't. You fucking don't dude. You just
fucking don't. Why does nothing with women in your life make sense or unfold like it 'should'? Because you live in nature
in that area of your life. And just like that polar bear nearly starving to death unless on time number 20 of 20 he gets lucky,
nature is uncomfortable.

We won't change anything about our lives until we go past being annoyed, inconvenienced, and even depressed by that
thing to the point of being ANGRY about it. When you're angry about something, you might finally change it. Before that
point, knowledge goes in, nothing comes out. Most likely that will be your experience with this book. If you really want to
have top level game, you have to be ANGRY that you don't. If you want to be average at getting women, you have to be
ANGRY that you aren't. Where's that line for you? That's what you'll get.
It also all comes as a package. I didn't like the effects of social pressure. But I wasn't ANGRY at its control of me. Until I
wandered around Charlotte, NC barely approaching one night... at 30 years old a week AFTER taking a boot camp with
the infamous Tyler D of Real Social Dynamics, in a place where I was fully capable of KILLING it with game, and I
barely opened one out of five hot girls I saw. Within one week of Tyler (Owen) telling me to open girls with guys, girls
with girls, girls on the street, girls on their feet, girls in a box with a fox eating lox. Not just having him tell me that, but
PAYING him to tell me that and show me how. But I, for all intents and purposes, COULDN'T. Not in the small town vibe
where all these girls were with guys, and everyone was college age and had an aura of judging about them. I couldn't.
Then I got MAD at social pressure. I vowed to change it. To go out and if nothing else got accomplished, at least defeat the
effects social pressure had on me. This is NINE YEARS into game we're talking about. Like some could dare call me a
veteran at that point. But, as I said, it all comes as a package. I was seeking game mastery, but to be a master you have to
approach everyone, and to approach everyone you have to defeat social pressure. And to change your life you have to get
angry. Which is a bit of a paradox because a master of game actually doesn't care about ANYTHING except going out and
bringing his personality and his frame and his energy to everyone in a very win-win fashion, and collaborating with his
environment (all Tyler D pieces of wisdom, btw). But to GET to that point, first you have to be ANGRY that you aren't
there. Because it's a package, I had to not only be angry that I wasn't a master of game, but angry that I couldn't execute the
inherent PIECES of game. For nine years I had tried to pick and choose. I'll take this one and that one, but that one doesn't
sound like me. I'll leave it behind.

I promise you, it doesn't work like that.

So where does your level of ANGER with your current state stop? Are you angry that you aren't a master? Are you angry
that you can't have a girlfriend you're absolutely thrilled with? Are you angry that you can't do each and every piece that
you know in your head is required to be a master? That's the level you will get to. And no farther. Until your motivation
picks up to levels that will move the mountains blocking your path.

In order to succeed on the path to the Olympics in the individual sport I competed in quite seriously, I had to get to the
point that I was ANGRY if there was ANYTHING I couldn't do. Give me some random drill, and if I couldn't do it, that
pissed me off. Give me a ridiculous challenge, and if I couldn't do THAT, that pissed me off. Sadly that was six years ago,
and only now am I fully linking that mindset with what is necessary to succeed in game, or anything, as well. If you watch
a DVD program or read this book and hear an expert talking about doing something, and you're totally unconcerned with
the notion that you probably couldn't do that, you're not READY for mastery. Perhaps you never will be, which is totally

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fine. But what ARE you ready for. You were mad enough to start searching the internet or take a friend's recommendation
and read this far. Somewhere between where you're at and full mastery level, there's a level you're pissed off that you
haven't reached. Let's fucking get you there.

Decide what you want. What you really want. What you really really want. Is it to believe the world was how you've
always believed it was, and try to find some way to get what you want under your comfortable reality? In that case maybe
you can get 20% improvement. How much more important is it to you to believe the world is a certain way than it is to get
the results you want? Is what you want to be kind of successful, but honestly you don't want to mess too much with your
own head, your own beliefs, your own perspectives, your own self view, the view others have of you, etc.?
Or is it that you TRULY want success?

This is an advanced book. In fact, I set out to create a manual that would let any socially aware, decent looking guy that
followed the book PERFECTLY, without having to innovate anything major himself, and get levels of success that
previously were considered unobtainable really even for the best masters of game in the world aside from maybe one or
two.
But that level of success is only for those willing to throw out everything they know, every perspective they have,
everything they think about women, everything they think about themselves, everything others think about them, and to go
through it all and get it right – in line with what will work, and in THAT process, finally reach that success. You don't,
luckily, have to fundamentally change who you are... In that process you'll become an insanely amazing version of
yourself that you never would have foreseen. But everything you perceive will be radically and permanently altered. It also
requires putting many times more work into this than you likely ever expected when you first got involved. This is
absolutely a journey- IF you want to see it through beyond some fun advances.

This book will LITERALLY save you 5-10 years on average off your journey of getting to a true MASTER level in game.
FIVE TO TEN YEARS. For many of you, it will be the difference between capping out at an intermediate level and never
becoming a master at all, and getting there and living that level of lifestyle for the rest of your youth. For the rest of you,
that means like HALF of your dating life will be MANY TIMES better than it would've been otherwise.
As I mentioned, a lot of people react “It's a COUPLE HUNDRED PAGES!?!!” that's wayyy too long. I will come through
this page and slap you upside the head. You can read a few hundred pages in a week. Less really. A COUPLE WEEKS OF
READING AREN'T WORTH FIVE TO TEN YEARS OF YOUR LIFE? You're right. Put the book down. It's too hard. Go
play video games. Or approach it 'your own way' and I'll see you ten years from now.

Let's be real here. Why do you think actors bust their asses for ten years to make it in acting? Why do you think people
trade most of their lives to get a Porsche and a couple million dollar house? Why do you think singers sit in their
basements playing guitar until their fingers bleed, then tour the shittiest bars in the country for years trying to 'make it'?
Why do dudes on Wall Street spend 100 hour weeks, sleeping under their desks and snorting coke trying to make a fortune
and get to 'live the life' in bottle service in NYC? Why did Tyler D from RSD go out almost every day for nearly fifteen
years? Why do dudes bust their ass and wait until they're 47 years old to buy a 25 million dollar yacht they can cruise
around the French Riviera and host parties on? Why do dudes spend their twenties as bartenders? Because they can't find a
job when the sun is up? Why do dudes spend ALL THEIR FUCKING TIME trying to hang out with and throw parties for
the hottest girls in their city? THOSE ARE YOUR FUCKING COMPETITION. They're doing ALL that shit to take the
girls you think you can get through game. This is one of the most complicated human behaviors there is, the very secret to
life and perpetuating it. The driver for almost everything men do. And women for that fucking matter. And you want
someone to sum it up to the VERY HIGHEST LEVELS, where few people ever get to, in 35 pages so it's a nice convenient
summary for you? Go fuck yourself if you're reading and that's your attitude. This isn't that kind of shit.

RSD released FIVE video products the year I wrote this section ALL with between TEN AND FORTY HOURS of new
content each, PLUS in field footage. This is a summary of how to put all that, and everything that came before it, together,
distill it down to its best pieces, fill in missing information, complete all mindsets you need, how EXACTLY to train it in
the fastest and most efficient way, assemble all the different viewpoints into one theory and one system. It's ALL tested
fully and it WORKS, and you think that can be done in a few dozen pages!? Holy crap. That's ridiculous. Please, go
complain on some internet forums about this horrible torturous multiple hundred page book you found.

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I was recently researching a specific subject to finish my game system and theory and make this all complete. I found a
post that someone had made somewhat intelligently on a forum (though their game concept was totally misguided).
Someone else responded “That shit is way too complicated. You want me to think all that? I just go in, fun, tease her a
little, bam. Simple.” Okay, brah. Let's see the pics of the 5 hottest girls you hooked up with this month... Oh, you've got a
couple phone numbers that flaked you? Sweet. Internet brah's guide to getting 6 phone numbers a month that will all flake
you: “Go in fun, tease her a little bit, bam! 6 Phone numbers a month. No dates, no sex EVER. Simple.” If you honestly
think that it shouldn't be this complicated – it should all fit into less than 70 pages all to the HIGHEST FUCKING LEVEL
– then I don't WANT you to succeed. GO AWAY. You have NO CONCEPTION of the lengths that other dudes are doing to
out compete you for these exact same 'hot' girls, and you don't know what it means to do something that requires actual
hard work, and real change. You don't know what a journey is.

By the end of this book, we WILL sum everything that you really need to know on a daily going out basis up in a small
number of pages. But guess what? That was the HARDEST part of this entire book to create. It takes everything ELSE in
this book to understand and execute. And it took over TEN YEARS for me to figure out and distill. Without everything
else, that holy grail section of the book that sums game up incredibly succinctly would be worthless to you.

If you're thinking “Why would I read a few hundred pages from you, I've never heard of you?” You should be able to tell
good information from bad. Particularly because this isn't for brand new dudes. If you want to cut 5 to 10 years off your
learning curve, you better damn well realize that that level of information is going to be hard, ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE to
find. It's not going to be three words. It's going to be in depth, complicated, and raw. This is the real fucking world dude.
Results that high aren't a fucking joke. If you're so damn concerned that you haven't heard of me and you can't recognize
good information when you see it – cool. Go out there with the standard sources. I even list the best ones here. They might
take 3 to 4 years off your journey by themselves.
There's a good reason you haven't heard of me. I've been putting all this shit together rather than marketing and advertising
a pickup company, and now I'm launching a real company – not a pickup one – and I don't WANT anyone to know who I
am except perhaps a couple people that seek me out to learn from me.

The fact is, for the first TWO OR THREE YEARS that I was working on what became this book, I was thinking it would
provide a complete road map, but that it would take people 5-6 years to master. Still almost half what it took me, though
almost no independent research and fooling around in the dark.

That's what I thought. I didn't believe there was ANY way to make this level of game accessible any faster than that.

Right near the completion of this book I found some things out that I now think will make this take TWO YEARS OR
LESS to master. FOR REAL. As in 1/3 what I thought and 1/5 what it takes guys on their own...! Holy shit. The last page
of what I just wrote has been mostly to scare off the pussies. It's actually a game technique. To polarize. Make the people
that aren't going to like you run away early, which means that the people that ARE going to like you are a lot more likely
to LOVE you.
A few of you are probably thinking “What kind of fucking pussy can't read a few hundred pages and spend ONLY TWO
YEARS to be among the BEST IN THE WORLD and live that life from then on!?! A level most people currently will
NEVER get to!!” A few of you are loving this. You might even love that I'm scaring off the pussies. You're my guys. Some
of that limited number of you are like “Bro, I've been fucking with this looking for ANY answers to get to the top level for
YEARS and if you have it, count me fucking in NO MATTER WHAT.” You're me like 5 years ago. I would've kissed
someone for putting this out. With tongue. I would've been SO FREAKING HAPPY you have no ability to understand. In
fact, I would've been unbelievably beyond psyched for this book on day one of my 10 year journey. Either way, I would've
been living like I am now for YEARS at this point, and that would've been SO FUCKING GREAT I'd trade almost
anything for it.
Well, here you go. Hopefully the pussies stopped reading somewhere in the last page.

Here's the truth – 98% of the guys that read this book are going to go “I don't know, this sounds complicated.” “That
sounds hard.” “This is really advanced.” “It doesn't have to be this in depth.” “That doesn't sound like me.” “But this other
guy said...” You might stop saying that when you get to the end of the second volume because I manage to simplify the shit
out of a lot of it... But the journey to getting there is pretty crazy.

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The fact is, nobody cares if you don't pull models from nightclubs. Honestly, even the instructor that you pay, who makes
it his job because he cares so much about how you do, that you might even become friends with and hang out with for
years... That guy still might barely care if you pull models from nightclubs.
You should be psyched if someone like that is even willing to entertain you enough to help you become his own
competition. The thought of not putting this book out has gone through my head a hundred times simply because I don't
want to take ten years of my life and hand it over to make other dudes my competition. But I also want people to live their
twenties the way that I would have liked to, and I wish someone else had put this out ten years ago.

I want to move an art and a science forward. But honestly, do you think models walk around nightclubs looking at all the
guys they'll never go home with and never date and go “Ohh, poor guys. I wish somehow their dicks could be inside me
too... Saaad.” Fuck no. That's preposterous. Even if you're in this to get a wife, at some point that means sex, and no model
has ever looked at a guy that doesn't have what it takes to pick her up and make her want to have sex with him and said
“Poor guy, he deserves to have his dick inside me too.”

Seriously, I'll say it multiple times – I'm not a crass dude. I wish all of this wasn't focused on sex. I don't like being crass.
But what do you call someone you spend time with that you don't have sex with? A friend.
What do you call someone you spend a lifetime with that you don't have sex with? A lifetime friend.

So EVEN if your goal is to marry someone you feel really deserving of, which is probably in your mind a girl with model-
esque looks and a cool personality, that girl is NOT walking around the super market or the club or wherever looking at
other guys and pulling for them. Because pulling for them means letting them have sex with her.

So. Other dudes don't care if you aren't getting models. Your instructors don't care if you aren't getting models. Your
friends MIGHT care that you aren't getting models – but if they aren't getting models either, they don't really want you to
either.
Quite simply, if you think this sounds too complicated. Or too in depth. Too hard. Sounds like it's 'Not you.' Then name
someone who's regularly getting models who gave you a step by step roadmap to how they do that and tell me it doesn't
sound this complicated. By all means.

But you know what? This IS too complicated, I agree. It is too in depth, I agree. It is hard, I agree. It probably isn't 'you'
right now, I totally agree. Other dudes on the internet who don't regularly pull models from nightclubs say contradictory
things, I totally agree. (By the way, I wrote this BECAUSE of those dudes running around saying contradictory shit based
on their shitty results).

I agree with all of that, 100%. But guess what, life doesn't fucking care.

No one fucking cares. Models do not care – they will date someone. They will have sex with someone. That someone will
be Dan Bilzerian. Or the bartender. Or worse, the promoter. Or a broke dude in a van or on a moped who's just vibing hard
(yeah, a decent number of them date dudes with tattoos and cool friend groups who are just broke mother fuckers. It has a
certain appeal... But almost always that comes with a social circle and a group, and usually starts with bottle service).

It won't be you. You can have your excuses. I can agree with you about them. I can tell you that you're right. I can pat you
on the head. Your friends can pat you on the head. The models can pat you on the head. And then you can not get what you
want.

Or you can get the fuck over it, realize that it's all fucking true. In an ideal world it wouldn't need to be this complicated,
this in depth, this difficult. It wouldn't have to challenge any of your beliefs, and everyone would agree. But this world is
far from ideal and you either want the truth and success, or you want a pat on the head. Decide which it is. If you want a
pat on the head, don't even read this book. Then you'll be angry you wasted your time and go talk shit on some internet
forum like dudes that don't date hot girls generally do. And no, I don't mean to say it's all about 'models'. Those might not
even be your type. But if you want to NEVER get those type of girls, then you can have your excuses. Or you can abandon
your ego and your excuses and the fact that 10,000 other dudes with opinions say 10,000 other things... and just fucking
thank your lucky fucking stars that one dude chronicled EVERYTHING you need to be successful at the HIGHEST level,

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and just devour this shit, turn your doubting brain off, and go bust your ass to execute everything in here exactly as-is for
at least two years, and see what happens.

Ready to finally get started? Cool. So am I. Where were we?

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Girls are blind. They don't see anything about you that you don't powerfully demonstrate to them. You are like another bus
advertisement or TV commercial among hundreds daily making a feeble attempt to pop out and get their attention. Even if
you're friends with them, they're still blind to ANYTHING about you that you don't powerfully demonstrate. You're a
loving, caring, protective guy? So fucking what. You're funny? Guess what – that can work AGAINST you (yep – this isn't
going to be your regular book on game. Get ready). You want girls? You have to boldly, powerfully demonstrate the things
about you that GET their attention in a way that is DIRECTLY linked to dating and... You guessed it, sex.

Why sex? Some of you, maybe many of you already know why.
However, if you're like me when I first picked up the book “The Game” - you might not realize why in the field of dating
where soooo many things are involved, sex should be such a focus.

I'll tell you why, very easily- There's a name for people that you really like to be around but don't want to have sex with:
Friends.

Period.

Neglect the sexuality and, yes, SEX, with your interactions with women, and your results will be spotty, inconsistent, and
unsatisfying. Long story short, you'll be frustrated and won't have your choice. That's why you're here, right? Choice. On
some level or another, that's why anyone who ever picks this up will be reading. Choice. This book is NOT about 'getting
you laid' – it's about CHOICE. However, at the same time, this book deals with how to really be successful in the real
world. The real world. The one you can't change, no matter how idealistic and well-intentioned you are. The world where
people who don't want to have sex with you, on some level somewhere (even subconsciously) are nothing more than your
FRIENDS.

Why can being funny be bad for you? I bet I blew most of your fucking minds when I said that. Actually, you just didn't
believe me. You thought about not reading any farther. All studies say women want a guy that makes them laugh almost
above anything else. Every game book involves jokes and says if she's laughing you're doing well. EVERYONE knows
that funny means success in game. It's not even a question.

Or is it.

How many comedians get laid like rock stars? Dane Cook, 10 years ago. Eddie Murphy 35 years ago. That's it. Notice the
end of that question “like rock stars.” How many rock stars are funny? Less than half, maybe much less. And how many
rock stars get laid like rock stars? Most.

Hmmmm. What the fuck? We'll talk about this all a LOT more below. But it relates to the first paragraph, and it ties into
the second. Girls ONLY SEE WHAT YOU POWERFULLY DEMONSTRATE TO THEM. And if they don't want to have
sex with you... at least subconsciously... if it doesn't at LEAST 'sound nice' to them in a way- you're just a friend.
Tie the two of those together – if you don't powerfully demonstrate to a girl that you are someone she would like to have
sex with, she WILL BE BLIND TO THE FACT THAT YOU ARE ANYTHING BUT A FRIEND.
Whew.
Yikes... Hmmm- So... If you're funny all the time, and you're really good at it, what might happen? Maybe the ONLY thing
you're powerfully demonstrating is that you're funny. Do you have dreams at night about funny girls? No. No you don't.
You have dreams about bleached blonde, tan girls with big ___ and tight ___.
Guess what!? When those girls take those surveys, they SAY they want funny guys. But what they mean is they want guys

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that they want to sleep with who ALSO HAPPEN TO BE FUNNY. Take away the sexy part, and you can be funny as crap
and she won't even care. You can be anything as crap – she still won't care. The first piece is ALWAYS that the idea of
having sex with you is pleasant, even if she's an uptight conservative virgin. That thought must at the very least strike at
some hidden, repressed, subconscious part of her brain that deals with attraction. Period.

Maybe that's hard to understand.

Let's flip it...

Are you interested in fat girls? Fat unattractive girls? What about fat unattractive hilarious girls?
...Still no, eh?
Fat, unattractive, hilarious, adventurous, rich girls...? Still no, I'm guessing?

Well, now you get it. You want the girl to be attractive. FIRST. Nothing else matters if she isn't. And what is an 'attractive
girl'? The more conservative of you are saying in your heads “It's an attractive girl, of course!” The less conservative of
you are saying “One I want to fuck.”
Guess what, even the conservative among you are reacting to the fact that part of your brain likes the idea of having sex
with her – or kissing her, touching her, doing sexual things with her. I don't care HOW repressed your sexuality is, you
STILL want a girl who first of all is attractive. Ie one with whom the idea of being sexual on some level is appealing to
some part of your brain.
(Sorry to the more conservative readers for being blunt at times... Not trying to scare you off, you will definitely still find
this book to be for you. I'm actually more conservative than it might sound, in some ways, but you have to understand
reality to get real success)

Girls are no different from you, my friend. Being funny doesn't GET the girl. It makes her want to be around you. It
loosens her up. She could care less how funny you are if the idea of having sex with you isn't appealing to her. The good
news? For a girl, your vibe, the way you carry yourself, how you act, and many other factors are as important if not a bit
more important than your looks. Do looks matter? I'm not going to bullshit you like everyone else – if you have to have a
'score' of 5 points for a girl to find the idea of being sexual with you appealing on some level, being really attractive can
give you 3 or 4 of those points. Sometimes even 5 (though the way you act can DEFINITELY lose you points from there).
So it's a huge leg up. But if you have 1 point or 0 points based on your looks, and you nail everything in terms of game,
then you can, at least sometimes, get the 5 points anyway. As a guy. Be thankful you weren't born an unattractive girl.
Sorry for being realistic.
What about on average? You can probably make up like 2.5 out of 5 points in ways other than being physically attractive
via your game alone. You could make up another 1.5 points, at least, situationally by having the right things going on
(bottle service, yacht, whatever). So if you're physically attractive enough to get 1 out of 5 points towards finding sex with
you potentially attractive, then have game and are on top of your situations, you can get most girls. In just straight cold
approach, you probably have to get at least 2.5 out of 5 points towards being sexually appealing via your looks to get the
average girl. Though with SOME girls sick game can get you almost all 5 points (maybe 4-4.5 of them).
Now that's beginning to sound like jumbled nonsense. Basically I'm saying if you're trying to get a girl who's a 9, you're
going to have to have some level of physical appeal to her the vast majority of the time – but you can be about half as
appealing as the guys she might prefer to date in theory by having sick game. So maybe you can be like a male 7.5 or
something. A male 6 is probably going to need some situational help to get an average 9, even with sick game. But even a
male 6 can get some 9s with straight game if he's FUCKING NASTY with game. I would argue that I'm about half as
appealing as the typical guys a 9 would LIKE to date (not who she DOES date, which often wind up being older dudes
with yachts and promoters and photographers), so that means 9s require everything I've got in game. At least at night. If
they were at a pool party at my place, probably not that difficult.

We'll go into the key ways that you make up those 'points' that make the idea of being with you attractive, which is the
door she must pass through BEFORE she appreciates anything and everything else about you. Basically every other game
book, DVD, etc focuses heavily on how to make girls want to hang out around you. That's where being funny and
interesting and high energy and all those things come in. Do those things lead to success with women? Yes, in the sense
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being sexual sounds good to them.
Why do those theories of game fall short? Because they only indirectly help you build up the 5 points you need for her to
think the idea of being sexual with you is attractive. They don't directly address the root of the problem. So most girls wind
up spending time around you because you're funny and interesting, and then leaving because you never made yourself
more interesting for them to be sexual with. You came in with 1 or 2 or 3 points, you were fun to be around, maybe added
a point along the way, but never reached 5 points and thus failed to be successful. Or you reached 5, but she got distracted
or something came up. That can be dealt with by standard game, working the process better. It can also be helped along
greatly by making sure that you have 7 of the requisite 5 points so that when she thinks through all the guys she's
interested in, you stand far above the rest in her mind... And she is a lot more concerned with spending time with you than
all the 5 point guys she knows.
That's the basic overview of the point of this book. One of the main underlying concepts of this book, and the one that is so
different from everything else.

The book 50 Shades of Grey is more interesting than I first thought when people told me about it. I thought, “Interesting,
sounds like a book that shows an average woman's sexual fantasies are far more dramatic than what most guys believe.”
But when I read it, especially the first 80 pages, I found that it really shows far more. One interesting tidbit is that the main
character acknowledges that a guy she knows, who is very strongly in her 'friend zone', is 'hot.' She says it. She calls him
hot. Them she says she has no interest in him whatsoever, and later says that the idea of even kissing him is nauseating to
her; when he tries she even feels troubled and violated. Even though she thinks he's hot. Why? Because how he acts
doesn't add in the other points he needs to reach sexually appealing to her. He gets 3 or 4 points for being 'hot,' but he's not
even in the running for her because he doesn't act right. He doesn't have the right vibe. To her, this 'hot' guy is the
equivalent of a fat girl to you. His actions make him unappealing to her no matter what qualities he has. His actions ensure
that no matter how many good traits he has, they don't matter because he's not sexually appealing to her. As the genius of
game Captain Jack once said, her 'hot' friend is not a 'player in the game' in her eyes. He's invisible to her as more than a
friend. Anything about him that might make him a great person to date – including all the things that make him fun to be
around and make her like him as a friend – make no difference because in her mind, he's basically fat. Despite his 'hot'
physical appearance. Weird, right?

That's what this book is about. The idea that how a guy ACTS and what he does is the dominant factor in whether he is, in
sexual attraction terms, 'a fat girl' or not. We're going to address EXACTLY why that is, and then combine it with
everything you need to do, to think, and to FEEL in order to make sure that you're always the exact opposite to girls.
Realistically, you can be effectively fat to a girl one minute, and then you can be sexy the next. And later you can be fat
again. Because her sexual attraction to you depends on how you act and what you do. A fat girl is invisible to you because
she's fat. You don't care about how nice, funny, interesting, smart or rich she is, because she's fat. A guy can be
metaphorically 'fat' to a girl because of how he acts, and how physically hot he is, how funny he is, how interesting, rich,
and smart he is can all not matter at all because in her mind he is metaphorically 'fat.' If you don't address the right areas,
you're 'fat' to most girls. Sorry.
Think it's unfair? Then start dating fat chicks. Otherwise accept that you do the same exact thing to fat girls, that other girls
do to you if they see you as metaphorically 'fat'. This book is all about how to first avoid being 'fat', then worry about
everything else. This book flips everything backwards from all other game sources that first teach you how to be a guy that
girls want to be around, and then try to patch together enough attraction for success. It's much better to first be seen as
attractive, as a player in the game, and then be interesting enough for her to spend time around – in that case, eventually
things will go well as long as the situation allows.

Really, if you boil it down, this book is about doing two things: The fact that you must demonstrate powerfully anything
about you that you want her to see (and how you should do that). And the fact that if you don't demonstrate key things,
you're 'fat' in her mind. Then near the end it's about how to integrate the best level of this into your daily behavior and your
permanent mindset as much as possible.
I'm all about finding the minimum number of required things for success, making things as simple as humanly possible,
and then getting really really good at the key aspects. The best system for doing anything is the simplest one. The hardest
thing about developing a really successful system to do anything complicated is always trimming it down... figuring out
what REALLY matters, and what is just an accessory. Because of the fact that we are, at the core, worried only about
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worry about in the viewpoint that we found to be most successful. Far fewer complications, routines, things you have to
remember, concepts you must master. You can focus on being really, really ridiculously good at what really matters – and
that will give you far, far more success than being pretty good at dozens and dozens of topics and tactics.
The core of this book revolves around this one concept: Demonstrate powerfully that if she wants a guy to have 5 points in
order to be sexually attractive, you have 12. Then she'll help you succeed because she rarely ever meets a guy with 12 out
of 5, and she's not interested in letting that go.

There's another factor that is a practical matter in game: Game is ALL about leadership. A pickup artist is really a master of
situational control and sexual/interactional tension, with a minor in social rules and navigating them. Strong fucking
leadership wins. Most 'pickup artists' miss this point and languish in mediocre results. In fact, I used to scratch my head at
why the jock quarterback from the football team got so many girls when comparing that to my 'game knowledge' that I had
learned from books and DVDs and Mystery and Style and David DeAngelo and older Lovesystems stuff.

It didn't make sense. The quarterback stereotype is that of a douche. He cracks jokes, but he's not particularly funny. He
isn't really that interesting at all. He isn't a whole lot. He just has social proof and is the center of attention. So I assumed
that's why he gets the girls. And it is. But there's another part of it. On the face of it, he's sort of the anti pickup artist. He
doesn't make a lot of sense in 'game' knowledge. He shouldn't win. But he does. Most pickup guys assume “Well, it's ALL
because he's the center of attention. And that makes up for his lack in other areas.” So you mean to tell me that you think
his game and demeanor are actually detrimental to his success, but he has so much value that he wins anyway?
No, that doesn't add up. Though I just assumed that was true for a long time. Then I came to realize otherwise. He's
actually quite a good model of game. He wins not only because of his position, but also because he does a number of
things right. In fact, his only major deficit is he's not the kind of guy that can open, which is the specialty of traditional
pickup wisdom. But he is a great model of pickup in many ways. He's strong and masculine and such, which is nice, but
not central to his success. More importantly, he ISN'T beta. He also generally understands sexuality better and earlier than
those around him. Being a strong guy, he often has some level of feel for sexual tension that he has probably accidentally
acquired. And, most importantly, to uphold his manliness he puts himself constantly as the leader- and he is the head of a
social scene (Friday night football games).

Old game would tell you that it's attractive that he's a leader and that's a bonus. Yes. True. But that's not why he wins. He
wins for two reasons: A) He's the top of that social scene, and B) because HE LEADS THE FUCK OUT OF GIRLS. When
they're at a party talking to him, he grabs their wrist with a grin and pulls them out alone on the porch. There they flirt a
bit, then he holds her face and kisses her. Then he grabs her hand and pulls her through the party to a bedroom. Never
aggressive. But leading the shit out of it. It's never awkward because she gets nervous but he doesn't get nervous back –
she just interprets it as butterflies from being around him and his powerful presence and the experience he puts out.
Whereas if he got nervous back... Suddenly the same feeling is awkward. Really, the quarterback of the football team
embodies the second of the two most important factors of pickup: leadership. Ridiculous certainty, sudden and unwavering
leadership. Leadership that overpowers her constant slight hesitations.
So there you have it. Game - which was founded on tricks and funny lines and routines and mysterious knowledge -
should really have been about sexual tension, interactional tension (I'll explain that in the second volume), leading the fuck
out of girls, and just throwing in a couple tricks to make everyone have fun and be comfortable. Or, more simply, the two
tensions, leadership, and loosening people up.

All that leads us to this: Game is a dance. A dance that leads to sex. Period.
In fact, if you think of game as a SUBSET OF DANCING, everything might quickly fall into line in your mind.
Particularly ballroom dancing. After all, after thousands of years of refinement, dancing is really nothing more than an
artistic, encapsulated embodiment of courtship.
Perhaps no one person had the knowledge we have now about that 'courtship', but the combined knowledge of thousands
of years and millions of people – which evolved into ballroom dancing – actually encapsulates it quite well.

Look at it this way: How does a perfect ball room dance go down? A strong, unwavering man walks up to a woman, grins
a giant grin, and takes her firmly by the hand and pulls her out to the dance floor. He dances briefly with her to get her in
sync with him, then he flashes a bigger grin and spins her, then dips, her then takes her through a few more flashy moves
to get her giggling and her heart up. Then he pulls her in tight, locks eyes with her, slows the dance down, and stays in

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perfect sync as they move to the music. He leads her around, guiding every step of the way so she doesn't have to think –
only follow. The tension and emotion between them builds as they look into each others eyes, going through the
experience together. It then escalates again, building to a dramatic (rather than light hearted and funny) crescendo, he dips
her and poses right before he would kiss her. The audience applauds, and he returns her to the side of the floor.
Sounds completely irrelevant, right? Not at all. The perfect pickup involves the strong, confident man approaching the girl
and opening – reaching out his hand, if you will – and flashing a smile. He shows both his certainty and confidence, as
well as that he knows how to have fun, perhaps with a joke or a facial expression. She evaluates his hand, then takes it. He
cracks a couple jokes or does something to get the energy up and get her used to him, get her to agree to talk to him for a
minute. Just as the dancer begins slow so that the woman can adjust and sync up. Then maybe he says a great joke or does
something flashy or dramatic, possibly pulling her in tight and surprising her with something that creates sudden emotion,
or saying something a bit shocking but also hilarious. Just as the dancer opens with some flair, some big moves to wow
everyone and get her going.
Then the pickup artist pulls her in tight, slows things down, builds the sexual tension, stares straight into her eyes. Just as
the dancer transitions and slows down, making things more intense. The dancer leads with absolute certainty so she doesn't
have to think, guiding her through the dance. The pickup artist leads with absolute certainty, guiding her through the bar.
First into the conversation and the sexual tension, then to get a drink, to sit with him alone, to walk out the door, then back
to his place or to get a number that leads to another date. If someone tries to cut in on the dancer but he knows his dance
must make it to the end of the night, he skillfully, gracefully, but with no uncertainty guides her away and does not let her
go. A pickup artist does the same. Then, when the pickup artist has led her through the steps, out of the bar, and back to his
place, he leads her back to the rising action and they reach the dramatic peak of the dance – sex. Just as the dancer led her
from the intense middle through the escalation to the finale. It's all there.

It's nearly a perfect model for pickup. How do you open? With certainty, a grin, and flair. And, just like dancing, FOLLOW
THROUGH. How do you hook? By easing your way in, then escalating to more flair, with a bigger grin and an edge for
energy and fun. Though it could also be by escalating into a more dramatic and intense emotion. That depends on the
dance and the dancer.
But all dances then slow down and become more serious and intense. Just like all pickups should. What do you do in the
middle? You slow the rhythm down and build your sexual tension, just like a dance. Are you done there? No, of course not,
you must be a strong leader and take her through the steps towards the rising action and the climax of the dance –
otherwise you've cut the dance short and the purpose is ruined. Just as in pickup, if you stop there your phone number is
going to most times turn into absolutely nothing. What's the most repeatable and successful way to win at pickup? Well, in
dance it's to be a very strong and certain leader who carries the girl through the whole way so she only has to keep up and
follow and has little time to screw it up, to get nervous, or to wander off. If the dancer wasn't a good enough leader or
stopped leading, things would come to an awkward halt and she'd excuse herself. Same in pickup. If the guy isn't good at
following the rhythm of the dance, he'll fuck it up without a doubt. Same in pickup – if the guy doesn't get the rhythm that
interactions, conversations, and other aspects of the dance have, he will certainly ruin it. If a dancer is too nervous, he'll
ruin it. Yet he's always secretly a bit nervous because he performs in front of a crowd. It's just his job not to show it. The
same in pickup, if you show your nerves the pickup almost always fails. But you'll always be nervous, it's just your job to
lead smoothly and not show it.

But it's more than just a metaphor. In the animal kingdom the birds and all the other animals have some version or another
of mating dance or ritual. The guys with the best dances or best rituals get laid (except in the animals that just fucking
fight... So you could see dancing as a way to avoid fighting).

We have a mating ritual too. We don't want to admit it. But it really is pretty much that simple. It just requires going
through the process that mirrors the ballroom dance. If you're a good leader, good at sexual tension, good at the flare
opening, know the rules, follow the rhythm, can prevent other dudes from cutting in, and can lead strong all the way to the
end so she doesn't have to think twice or get nervous, then you can finish the dance. Over and over. When you realize that
it's really that simple, that similar each time, really just a dance... Then you can see the path between you right now, and
you having repeated success of the type you want. Just get really fucking good at understanding the dance and really
fucking good at each of its parts. Just as in dancing, your vibe and the way you carry yourself are basically first and
foremost. Then your rhythm. Then your knowledge of the rules and how the dance unfolds. Then your ability to lead very
well. Then your early flare. Then your ability to slow things down and carry out the intense middle component. Then your

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ability to lead to the crescendo and finish.

That's almost exactly the order you want to learn the components of pickup in, too. Vibe and how you carry yourself first.
If you're weird, you'll get nowhere. Bad vibe. Then following social rhythm and conversational rhythm. If you do things at
the wrong time, too eagerly, or out of place, you'll get blown out. Then your knowledge of the rules and how the game
unfolds. Now that you're in the game, you have to know where the fuck you're going or you're screwed. After that, you
have to be able to lead. Even if you don't have your flare down, if you lead well enough you'll sometimes still get to the
end. Then your flare kicks in and really helps.
Often you'll get stuck in the middle. That's where you learn to slow it down and build sexual tension. The middle of the
dance is most of the dance, in terms of time. The middle of the pickup is most of the pickup. The sexual tension in many
ways forms the largest and most important part, as does the middle of the dance. The middle of the dance tells the story
and forms the relevance. It cements the story of the dancers together. So does the sexual tension, which produces what
she'll call 'chemistry.'

Finally you have to learn to lead her through the final stages, because if you don't reach the end of the dance, the audience
will be fucking pissed and you're not much of a dancer. In pickup, if you don't learn to lead to the end of the pickup, she'll
be unimpressed and unattached and you usually won't see her ever again. In some cases the end of the dance is her secretly
thinking “I really would love to... But here's my number.” But a successful end to the dance is basically never “I'm not sure
about you yet... here's my number.” That's having left the dance far too short of the goal. It's okay for the dancers to stop
for a moment and build the suspense for the audience, but if they don't proceed the dance is incomplete. Getting her to the
end is all about how strong and how certain you lead the entire way. It's about leading her through every time she tries to
make a misstep that could break apart the dance. And it's about gracefully but certainly getting rid of anyone who tries to
cut in, again through rock solid leadership that kicks in without hesitation.

In pickup, many guys learn all kinds of routines, all kinds of things they can do, and piles of scattered knowledge- then
they wonder why they don't succeed. Think about dancing – what good is knowing tons of random dance moves and
pieces of how to put them together if you don't thoroughly understand the underlying steps of the dance? Or what good is
knowing a bunch of dance moves if you're not a strong leader, and a strong leader that knows how to lead from one move
to the next all the way to the end?
The reason most people struggle in pickup is because they are doing things that would make a terrible dancer. Perhaps
they're only good at the flare at the beginning, but not the whole dance. They have bad rhythm. They don't get the
underlying rules. Or their vibe and the way they carry themselves just doesn't please the audience. Too clumsy, forced,
tight, weak, uncoordinated, or serious. If the flashy flare moves in dancing are the same as being funny in pickup, you can
see why a guy who relies only on those will rarely complete a whole dance – he lacks all the other skills. In fact, he
probably ignores them. Maybe he doesn't even notice their importance. He might not even realize that it's all built on
leadership and vibe. He might not realize that there should be slower, more intense period in the middle. He might not
realize that his flash can't lead the way to the crescendo because it can't navigate the final steps of the dance. Though every
once in a while he might get lucky and stick together a whole dance that seems fairly decent – only perpetuating his
inability to truly dance, the way it was meant to be.

The only difference between a ballroom dance and pickup is that pickup is really more like dancing through a minefield
with a bunch of other dudes and drunk chicks trying to drag your dancing partner away from you. You have to fight to get
through the minefield, which will never be that pretty, and you have to battle off all the dudes and drunk friends. And, just
like dancing in a minefield with drunk people interfering, it will never be pretty or elegant or go smoothly or to plan.
Furthermore, it would take a bit of creativity to try to create a relatively good dance in a minefield filled with drunk people
– you might have to think on the fly and adjust your original game plan on the spot, all while leading with so much
certainty that the dance never breaks for even a second. It's the same with pickup, the original plan might have to change,
you might have to think creatively on the fly to find a way to finish the dance, but you also must lead so conclusively and
so swiftly in every new situation that the audience (her) sees no break in the dance.

The most effective way to think of pickup, is to think of it in terms of four basic and required building blocks. It's possible
to pick a girl up without doing all four of these, but very hard and your chances go down significantly. Even better, you
can trace basically 100% of the errors you make back to one of these four steps or to logistics.

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The process, at its most abstracted and most all-encompassing (day game, night game, online. Hell, even business sales of
a product...) is this: Loosen her, Build interactional tension/Get into rhythm with her, Build sexual tension (ie Desire) with
her, Lead Hard.
Loosening her begins, in a way, with 'melting'. That starts the instant she sees you. It has to do with a connection in the eye
contact. With you showing warm dominance in the eye contact, and not flinching. It also has to do with a moment of
human connection that happens in the eye contact, and with an air of cockiness. Perhaps an air of you being the cockiest
guy in the entire club/on the whole street/in all of the city. All of this is done in seconds.
I might say a word or two while locking eyes with her, or maybe turning her. Then it's silence, and a cocky half smile (a la
Tom Cruise in Top Gun) and holding eye contact. Think of it as a battle. A game of chicken. The one to flinch first loses. If
you do it right (and with PROXIMITY. Proximity ALWAYS helps, provided you're not so close she jumps backwards),
you'll see her melt. She'll relax and smile.

If she doesn't, you generally have to tilt your head back and to the side, giving her a cocky look that says “I'm evaluating
you.” You'll need to maintain eye contact and 'be in her head' – an advanced concept will get to later in the book, moving
your face to get her to loosen. There is an entire skillset and 'field' of loosening people up, which relates to basically
freeing the both of you from the standard constraints of logic. One example is with jokes, with humor... But it actually
doesn't have to be funny. We'll discuss that in the second volume of the book, as it is reasonably advanced. The best thing
you can do is to get things off on the right foot straight from the start.

Preferably you hold that eye contact and tension, and get into a flirty rhythm with her. You're ultimately working to create
'interactional tension,' but that's a advanced topic we'll also discuss in the second volume of the book.
Getting into a flirty rhythm means two things 1) That you control the rhythm to being SLOWER than conversational.
Because every type of conversation happens at its own rhythm, and flirting is a slower rhythm than conversation.
Sometimes you jump quickly between things to create a certain effect, to keep her off-balance for fun... But generally the
rhythm you do everything with should be SLOWER. We'll get more into that later. And 2) That you get into a rhythm with
that is matched up with hers.

It's a dance, remember. You two have to find a rhythm together, you move and she moves with. Or, perhaps more
accurately, you get her to move when you move. You lead and she's there with you. If you're out of rhythm, you won't sync
up. It'll feel off. She'll exit eventually. You just have to feel it. But unlike a lot of advice like this, this is specific enough
that you can actually focus on it, feel it, and act.

This is a big component of what usually gets haphazardly and unintuitively called “calibration”. (Which, in my opinion, is
a word used to disguise “We don't fully understand this”).
Then you have to build her desire to be around you. This amounts to interactional tension, but, as I said, we'll get to that
later.
There are actually a number of ways you can do this. But as we'll stress throughout the entire book, sexual tension (a
subset of interactional tension) is the most important and most effective one. Nearly required. You can also add other types
of desire. Like that you have access to events she might really like. That you're funny and exciting. That the future
(whether it's tonight or for the next 5 years) she had in mind for herself is something that she can get to by being around
you.

If there's no desire, then there's no incentive and that means no motivation.

Finally, you have to lead hard. I first wrote this book as a 77 page post to The Lounge for Lovesystems. At that point, I had
learned the first three stages to some level. That post, and that original core portion of this book, was about getting yourself
unstuck in game- getting moving from decent to a high level. But to really become a master of game, to really start killing
it, I had to learn quite a LOT more. One skill, in particular, was very necessary: That of leading hard.

Leading hard is effectively being a hard charging, dominant closer to your core. Someone who knows the world and
pickup are chaos, and nothing will ever go smoothly, but with some ridiculous certainty, swift decisive action, dominance,
and thinking on your feet, you can schmooze, nuance, and sometimes just about drag her through any obstacle with
perseverance past all kinds of “Nos” and “I can'ts” and “I have to go with my friends” to success. “Closing” is almost

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always discussed as the end game of pickup, and when people talk about closing advice and tactics, they mean at the end
of the pickup. But as most all great salesmen will say, closing starts from the beginning. And these salesmen are the type
who have made millions and sold person after person all day every day – representing far more closing experience than
any pickup artist will ever have. So I'd listen to them on closing. The fact is, the hard leading closing mindset doesn't only
apply to closing the pickup, it applies to closing HER TIME. You have to have a closers mentality about getting her time.
You have to lead hard to keep her on YOUR plan and keep her around you, to keep getting and dominating her TIME so
that things can go forward. Then you can close the pickup. Without time, you have nothing. You can't build enough desire.
You can't get far enough to make a number worth anything. And you certainly can't get her to an isolated place tonight.

We're going to go over several models as we go, finally getting to the best model ever created by the end of the book. But
that one's pretty dang representative. Melt/loosen her – Create interactional tension/get into rhythm – Build sexual tension
– Lead hard. Notice how it's all based around guiding things in a certain way. When I originally wrote this paragraph I
wrote 'controlling,' but that causes other problems if you think of it that way. At the same time, if you don't guide things in
a direction or have any control whatsoever, things will NOT naturally unfold in the direction you want them to.
Biologically speaking girls have evolved to put up BARRIERS to getting with a 'mate' so they can find a strong one.
NEVER expect things to 'just unfold' in the right direction – that's how girls think of things. (Don't burst that bubble for
them, though)

Pickup is fundamentally about guiding situations and emotions. Why do alpha males win? Because being alpha is
attractive? That's a tiny fraction of it. Mostly because they're winners in terms of human interactions, simply because they
know how to guide situations. Who's the best at getting a girl's time? The alpha guy, because he can guide situations so that
he gets that time. And what is the hardest thing to get in order to pick up a girl? Time.
A guy who's really good with girls is going to be a guy that can guide things while simultaneously making it feel good for
the girl to move in that direction. It's like putting a pizza in a window and letting the smell draw people to it. Then you put
another, better pizza in another window further down the street. Then another. Then an amazing pie. Pretty soon, you
guided someone all the way down the street, but you did it by making it feel good for them to walk down the street. Not by
shoving them down the street.

However, if you try to take the guiding part out and just attract without any format, you'll very rarely succeed. That would
be like putting pies and pizzas randomly all over town... People are going to wander around town after the nice smells until
they're tired, and then they'll just go home. Which is pretty much exactly what happens to a lot of guys who game and then
go “I don't think about it much bro, I just go up, make a few jokes, and it just works out.” No it doesn't bro. Everyone
wants to act like everything's so easy for them, so they say crap like that to sound badass. Then no one wants to be like
“No bro, it's actually harder than that” because you don't sound cool. But that nonsense comes from dudes stroking their
own ego and trying to make guys think they're great with girls, in order to cover over the fact that they really aren't. Cool,
glad you get a 7 every other week man. Keep being so fucking cool.

We'll get around to an advanced version of this model that has steps involved in the 'lead hard' phase. Maybe more
accurately after the first attempt to lead hard. Those steps deal with breaking down the subconscious reasons she might
have to not follow your lead. Then once you've broken down those hurdles, you go back and try to lead again. If she
doesn't follow, you do what Jordan Belfort calls 'looping' and you break down more hurdles and keep trying until you
succeed or you lose her entirely.

Let me pause for a second and ask you a question: Have you ever wanted to put a doughnut up your nose?

Ever?

Like even once?

Like the best, tastiest, most awesome doughnut in the world – have you ever thought you would want to put a doughnut up
your nose?

No?
Neither have I.

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Do you think anyone around the world routinely wants to put doughnuts up their nose? Yeah, I don't either.
Does the thought even seem a bit unappealing to you? Like maybe if someone tried to get you to do it, you'd say “Fuck
no!” and run away?

But people put cocaine up their nose all the time. They pay money to do it. They pay fortunes to do it. They ruin their lives
to fucking do it. They have sex with people to get it. Cocaine's not for me and never will be. It may or may not be for you,
I don't really care. But cocaine and doughnuts are both things that you put in your body, both things that are appealing to
many, many people – so why does no one ever want to put doughnuts up their nose?

Because doughnuts DON'T HAVE THE CHARACTERISTICS of something that goes up your nose. For people who are
into having things up their nose, there are certain required characteristics. A doughnut, while it is something that
metabolizes in your body, goes inside of you, might have white powder on it, contains things refined from plants, and has
many other seeming similarities to cocaine... is still simply not something that goes up your nose. It doesn't create
pleasantness up your nose. That's not its place in the world.

SO, one of the hardest things for guys (and myself) to accept when getting into game – or for many guys that have been
gaming for years – is that a good conversation guy, a funny guy, a guy that she smiled at because of a joke is NOT
necessarily a sex guy.
In a girl's mind, there are guys that you talk to, guys that make you laugh, guys that maybe you chat with and then run
away from, and then there are guys that you have sex with. Guys that you meet in bars and later go inside your vagina.
Both guys are guys that are socially pleasant, just like doughnuts and cocaine both go inside your body. However, just like
doughnuts are missing inherent and key characteristics that are required for going up your nose, guys that are fun to chat
with in a bar are missing INHERENT and KEY characteristics for going in vaginas. (Sorry I'm being crude, but I'm
making a point).
In fact, a guy that is fun to chat with but missing the characteristics for going in vaginas can be repulsive, and make a girl
want to run away if he tries to get into her vagina. Just like you might run away from me if I insisted you stick a doughnut
up your nose.

For instance- I recently was out by myself in Chicago, had a half decent interaction with a girl that I felt wouldn't respond
to my text (she didn't, though she had read receipt on and was sitting their reading my messages). Then I opened a group
with a really clubby girl and had them interest for a moment – only to have her go elsewhere in the bar with her friends. I
was like “Hey, let's get a drink later this week” (I was well out of my best mindset, and hadn't resolved exactly what I'm
telling you about right now).
She looked at me and goes “Ehh, I'll let you know later” at which I just laughed, because this was like the 3,000th set in my
life or more. Anyway, I sat there feeling like I came in sooo weak. She was actually letting me pull her in and stuff, and I
was half assing it. I was far far far from my most aggressive, powerful, emotionally eliciting, etc. In fact, I had started
joking around about Taylor Fucking Swift. 10 minutes later she was dropping it low like a straight club ho on the dance
floor, and I felt like an idiot.
Here I am, Mr. Sexual Tension expert and I'm talking about Taylor Swift to a girl that wants nothing more than to basically
twerk on the dance floor. And she was flirting with me... At first. Later in the book we'll actually go into exactly why
talking about something like that is stupid in many contexts.

So then I'm looking around the room at other girls and thinking about being dominant in the interactions and leading them
forward properly, and my mind just isn't feeling like it's ready to do that. Like it CAN'T do that. I started feeling this heavy
nice guy vibe floating in my mind. I saw myself in the way that the clubbiest of guys see a nice guy. Talking about Taylor
fucking Swift when someone just wants to twek. And that's where I realized the true definition of what people feel, but
can't describe, when they think someone is a 'nice guy.'
A 'nice guy' is someone who DOES NOT DOMINATE TOWARDS HAVING SEX. A guy who doesn't dominate
interactions with women and push them towards sex IS a nice guy. He's hoping that things will be romantic, whether to
him that means sex or not, but he's not capable of taking things in that direction. A creeper is a guy who tries to get
interactions towards sex but doesn't dominate on the way. He tries to get it to go that way, but in this strangely weak or
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In the case of this story, I went up to a super clubby girl, the type that cuts most guys off if they aren't dominant, and I
turned her initial interest into chatting about Taylor Swift.

A couple days later, I figured it out more completely. Guys that go in vaginas are guys that DOMINATE TOWARDS SEX.
Guys that have sexual tension. Girls don't know what the fuck they're doing, they're full of nos, and they don't want to
know what they're doing or lead at all. They want to bounce around like lunatics and let guys figure it out. So they WANT
guys who can dominate their nonsense and drive them towards sex. Guys that don't do that are LACKING AN
INHERENT AND NECESSARY FACTOR for being proper for sex.

Tyler D takes it even further and says that if you're being a 'nice guy', you're basically calling her a slut. You're sitting
around asking her if she wants to have sex, at least at some point, forcing her to say 'yes' or 'no'. If she says 'yes, I'd have
sex with you,' then she's kind of saying 'yes, I'm a slut.' She wants to just go along for the ride and not have to say yes. Just
have it happen 'naturally' (from her perspective).

A guy that is fun to talk to and has good conversation seems, on the surface, like a guy a girl should want to spend time
with. And eventually the type of guy she should have sex with. Right? When you've had a good conversation with a girl
and she just fucking blows you off or doesn't text you back, you think it's crazy and that your good conversation was
worthless, right? The thing is, that great conversation only put you in the category of 'socially acceptable guy', just like
doughnuts and cocaine both fall into the category 'go inside body.' Without being a powder and making people high if
snorted, things don't go up the nose. Period. No one tries snorting marijuana leaves. No one tries snorting chicken
seasoning. One makes you high, but isn't a powder. The other is a powder, but doesn't make you high. Neither goes up
your nose.
If you sit there and think about it, we actually kind of split hairs when we classify how things will play out in our lives.
But, at the same time, those classifications work out pretty well because even for someone into drugs, snorting pot
leaves/bud or chicken seasoning are both COMPLETELY ridiculous. The required characteristics are actually quite narrow
and specific. And unforgiving. There's no niceness here. Just because chicken seasoning is delicious and we like it a lot, we
don't snort it so that the chicken seasoning doesn't feel left out. EVER. Ever ever ever ever ever. And no matter how much
we like it, we'll fucking push someone away and get mad if they try to get us to do it. Even if you're Robert Downey Jr
from 10 years ago and snorting things is your favorite past time.

So your conversation that you were so happy to have with a girl? It still left you a COMPLETELY RIDICULOUS choice
to have sex with. You DO NOT go into the vagina. It's actually sort of repulsive to think about. Even if you were funny,
made their night better (btw, the first girl in Chicago – they were bored as fuck and about to leave and I DEFINITELY
improved their night. She actually sought me out and told me she was leaving), whatever.
The best conversation in the whole entire world only makes you the best doughnut in the whole entire world! It STILL
doesn't go up the nose, and you STILL don't go in the vagina. Got it? But as soon as you dominate towards sex/have sexual
tension, you become a sex guy. If you suck at it, maybe you're bad coke. A picky person might not sleep with you. But they
might on some day and not on another. No one ever, on ANY day sticks doughnuts up their nose. But some days even a
picky druggy might snort some bad coke. So at least you have a chance provided that you do the things to put you in the
right zone.

This is SO important. Next time you're talking to a girl and you think it's going well because the 'conversation' is going so
well, just remember that no matter HOW well the conversation is going, you're still a doughnut. Conversation is NOT
more important than dominating towards sex, no matter how good it is. Conversation makes you a socially acceptable guy.
Just like being something the body can metabolize makes both a doughnut and cocaine something that goes into the body.
But cocaine has to have the 'bad boy side' of making someone high. And a guy that is for sex has to have the 'bad boy side'
of dominating towards sex. Has to. HAS to. It's NOT optional. There ISN'T another way around it. No one snorts things
that don't make them high. There isn't another option. There isn't a way around this.

Be aware that DOMINANCE is NOT forcing or being aggressive. It is strong, certain, unwavering, but calm and slow
leadership. It is being firmly in the lead.

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I've gone on dates with serious Christian girls who go to church basically every weekend. I never know how to play that
because I'm Christian and it would be cool to settle down with a Christian girl if she was really what I wanted, and I
wouldn't want to be overly aggressive in terms of any physicality with a conservative girl. So multiple times I've let off the
throttle and not built sexual tension. And pretty much every single time at the end of ONE SINGLE DATE they smile and
say we'd make good friends and run away. From me, the fucking sexual tension pickup guy! Like, you have to be kidding
right? No one EVER friend zones me.
EXCEPT it's happened multiple times with those girls – because I backed off with them. Now, if I tried to pick them up
and carry them to my apartment like I would with another girl, that wouldn't go over well. Well, occasionally it might. But
dominating towards sex can happen at different rates. At the very least, it always requires dominating towards sexual
tension. Often these more conservative girls steer the conversation towards really sanitary and intellectual subjects. And
then by the end of the date they feel we don't and never will (so wrong) have 'chemistry', and they friend zone me.
'Chemistry' is just sexual tension. That's it. So because I didn't dominate their sanitary conversation enough to at least build
sexual tension, they cut it off. (Even if it doesn't involve talking about sexual topics, or trying to take her straight home).
I'm saying this because you need to know that for EVERY girl, for EVERY speed of dating – even slow ass, conservative,
marriage minded dating – a guy that doesn't dominate towards sex on SOME path, even a reduced speed one with only
sexual tension right now, is NOT for romance.
A guy that isn't for sex EVENTUALLY, on SOME timeline, is not for any form of romance or dating right now. No ifs,
ands, or buts. If you're not dominating towards sexual tension, towards a sexual path, even if her sexual path is months or
years long and involves marriage, you are NOT for dating, for sex, or for anything other than friends. For ANY girl. And if
you're in a club talking to a clubby girl, her path to sex is short and ends in an hour or two. If you can't dominate the
interaction and get her onto that path, you're not for sex, you're not for romance, you're not for a drink date later this week,
you're not even for a fucking popsicle at 11AM. You're for NOTHING but friends.

Do you ever go out to game in order to make friends with ugly girls? When you go out to game girls, are you hoping to
meet some unattractive females to be friends with? Are you even open to meeting up with an unattractive girl later as
friends? NO. Because if a girl isn't for sex for you, in your world – ie hot – you don't want to meet her up in any way. And
neither does any girl you meet, whether she's a conservative religious girl out for marriage, or a club girl that you're going
to see twerking in 10 minutes with her 'bitches'.
So DO NOT making any fucking excuses. NONE.

Each girl has her own path towards sex. Some slower, some faster. Girls are SUPER used to guys trying to race ahead and
then having to slow the guy down. They will rarely stop interacting with a guy because he tried to go too fast, they just
slow them down – as long as the guy isn't an idiot about it and is aware enough to realize she's serious. As long as the guy
slows down. But girls ALL THE TIME ditch guys because they're going too slowly for their path. So not only do you have
to dominate her towards sex, but you have to do it at her rate – or just slightly faster than it.

This means you should never again leave a girl and be like “I had such a great conversation with her, I'm sure we'll see
each other again” or “why didn't she want to hang out with me more.” Because you KNOW you were a fucking doughnut.
If you're sitting there talking to a girl, and you realize you're just having conversation – no matter how fun – you should
realize you're a fucking doughnut. If you ever see that you could dominate towards sex faster, and you're not, then you're A
FUCKING DOUGHNUT. Whatever she'll let you get away with, you should basically do that plus a little.
She's the brakes, you're the engine. You're the high in her night. You're the bad boy. You're the cocaine. Why do girls like
the bad boy? Because they want the adrenaline. A sports car isn't anything without an engine that hits hard and turns the
whole thing into a wild ride. People don't do drugs without the high. You're the fucking engine, you're the high. From now
on, you NEVER just 'converse' with girls. You DOMINATE TOWARDS SEX. It might start with a little energy and fun,
but that only lasts 10 seconds before you're creating sexual tension. And you're only doing that for 2 minutes before you're
moving her, or ramping it up. And that only lasts so long before you kiss her, or isolate her. And that only lasts so long
before you isolate more, or escalate more.

Your job, from now on, is to CONSTANTLY LOOK for the fastest path forward you can get away with, and to
DOMINATE her towards it. And that makes you EXCITING. That makes you DESIRABLE. That makes you the
MISSING ELEMENT in her life. That makes you the high she went out looking for. That makes you the electricity in the
spark plug, the gunpowder in the bullet. You're the turbocharged 6 liter in her sports car. And it ain't because you're funny.

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And it ain't because you can have conversation. And it ain't because you ask permission or 'try' to do things. It's because
you whisk her away as fast as she can go. Just like the engine of a sports car, always pushing things forward as fast as the
car and road will allow.

If this is what girls want, why don't they make it obvious? Why don't they run around looking for it? Why are they so
fucking weird about it?
Simple, because the biggest worry on their minds is always the social layer of the world. They're always SO worried about
being at the top of the social game, about not ruining their social ties, about what people will think, about improving their
place in the world socially. It's your job to satisfy, avoid, distract from or otherwise handle all these social worries, desires,
and thoughts – as part of dominating towards sex. You've always got to make sure you're sensitive to, and dealing with her
social mind, and a huge part of your job when dominating towards sex is handling her social shit.
In addition, as we mentioned, biological evolution has taught girls to put up walls and difficulty related to 'mating'. They
WANT it to be confusing, difficult, convoluted on a subconscious, evolutionary level.

This is your ROLE IN LIFE.

This is your relationship with women from now on. Don't you want to be the excitement girls long for? Don't you want to
be their bad boy high? Don't you want to be the fucking addictive, compelling element? The one who is driving things
forward to adrenaline inducing speeds? Okay.
Guess what? She ABSOLUTELY wants that, but girls are little silly creatures. 10 times worse when out drinking and
bouncing around in overwhelming social situations. They don't exactly know what they want or how to find it. Society
tells them to slow things down. Society tells them to say no. This is a big part of this book. They feel they have to be 'no'
machines. In fact, in some practical ways they have to be. So expect no help. Your job is to LEAD her there, to lead your
interaction there, and she'll LOVE you for it. She might even become addicted to you for it. And if you don't do it, she
might be repulsed if you try to in any way, shape, or form date or be romantic with her. Because you're a doughnut if you
don't.

Dominate towards sex. Don't feel bad about it. That's going to be one of the biggest struggles for many readers. It's still
weird to me. Girls want to be dominated towards sex. More than you ever wanted to do so.
Feel like you're LETTING HER DOWN, and allowing her night to fail if you don't. If a couple girls get mad at you over it,
it's either for side factors (like she doesn't like something else you did or something else about you), or because she has
some tangled shit going on in her mind.

Don't worry about those girls. Bottom line – if you're not dominating towards sex, you're letting her down. If you're not
taking all the opportunities to build sexual tension and lead things forward, you're letting her down. You're keeping things
tame and safe, when she wants to feel alive, electrified.
She came out for the night feeling that she wanted some sort of excitement, but she doesn't sit around thinking about
dating and sex and relationships and trying to figure them out. She doesn't read books like this. So she doesn't really get it.
She'll definitely get in the way of the process in some ways, possibly as a test, possibly because she feels she has to say no
occasionally. But you're fucking failing her if you're not dominating towards sex. Just like every OTHER guy around you.
You should walk into the club and feel superior. You should feel like the gunslinger, the Ferrari, the bad boy James Dean.
You're one of the few guys, maybe the only guy, that gets what every girl in there is hoping will happen to them. Strap on
your wicked cocky grin, hear the old west saloon doors swinging behind you when you walk into the club, you're the
fucking spice in this social world. Congratulations.

And yes, there is a requirement to be loose. Smooth. Carefree. A wild party. Light in many ways. We'll talk throughout this
book about how you reconcile being the badass that dominates towards sex, with the loose party guy that has crazy fun and
gets everyone around to let go. It's such a tough thing to balance that it will only be fully answered right before the end of
the book. But there is absolutely a good solution for it.

Okay, unpause. We'll get back into this shit.

Too look at it another way, on a holistic level, game is a timed obstacle course. It will be hard virtually every time. It will
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It will be scrappy and dirty, not clean and graceful. Every day you ever do it. And, much like Ninja Warrior, you often
won't finish either on time or at all.
You HAVE to understand that.

I screwed myself over for about the first 8 years that I gamed thinking that as I got better I could turn game into a smooth,
beautiful show of my awesome abilities that would cart girls off to my bedroom. I banged my head against the wall,
stressed, worried, and studied – totally unsure of why my results weren't there, when I knew so much about game and had
so much skill. This same problem even returned a few years later when I thought I had gotten good enough that I was no
longer in an obstacle course, but had somehow risen above the brutality of game.

My problem was that game is calf roping in the rodeo, not a formula one race on a pristine asphalt track prepared only for
you.
I showed up in my city slicker Gucci suit expecting gracefulness, but when it came time to dive off the fucking horse and
grab the bull by the horns I wouldn't do it.
Or I'd hesitate like a mother fucker. While guys whose game skill was so far beneath mine that it was laughable would pull
girls and tell stories I was jealous of.

Fundamentally I thought game guys were suave ace pilots zipping through the sky and taking out the enemy with pure
skill and savoirfaire. All while sipping brandy and smoking a Cuban. They're not.

They're fucking persistent, horny lugs who know how to handle any grimy situation in the book, in a way that seems
smooth and funny and witty. And most of all they know how to yank a girl out of her current state and put her into the one
that they want.
They know how to command, how to pull away from friends, how to direct, how to turn on, and how to get into a car
headed to a place with a bed. When that fails, they might know how to switch on enough charm, humor, and intrigue to
lock in a phone number that will turn into a date. Only then does game become a bit more clean white collar and less down
in the muck.

The fact is, game is a scrap and always will be. And should be. Embrace that. Change your mindset to accommodate it.
Think of yourself as a rugby player getting beat up in the scrum, enjoy the taste of your own blood, and wear your bruises
and your never die attitude as a badge of honor just as much as your skill for the game which you play. Do that, and you'll
succeed. Don't do it, and you'll have to follow my long trajectory to success.

Don't get me wrong. My trajectory eventually led to a significant wealth of knowledge, very unique viewpoints, and the
ability to combine information from many sources and to innovate.
But the keyword is eventually. My twenties had nearly disappeared in smoke before I was even dating the 8+'s I got into
game for in the first place. And even then it was a struggle to add any sort of regularity to that occurrence. It was when my
wingmen suddenly hit overdrive by being persistent and suggesting all manner of insane ways to stay with the girl and
advance to another level that I noticed the final gap in what I was doing – the scrapping frame of everything from open to
close, and the mindset of creatively pounding the pavement.

The obstacles in the obstacle course are effectively these, effectively every time:
1) Open in a way that creates an instant impression of sexiness while also “getting it” - where “it” means an
understanding that could be different things, depending on the girl and the situation. In clubbier situations with
fiercer, bitchier, take no prisoners girls that like sex and attention and a hard partying night, “it” is generally that
she wants someone dominant and hot to come in and lead and she doesn't want some freaking goofball with a
bunch of time wasting nonsense. It can often be that she wants to be winning the social competition going on by
being in the DJ booth or in one of the better tables. Or by being with a cool 'crew' or 'squad'. In more laid back
situations with more 'normal' girls, it's usually that she doesn't want some creeper to come over and try too hard, be
all aggressive and douchey, or unknowingly violate social norms, etiquette, and intelligence. But at the same time
she wants to flirt, she wants interactional tension, she wants to be loose and let go.
2) Hit a couple jokes or throw in a bit of energy. Get her to accept that your presence is fun and help her let go.

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and that is enough. But that's a narrow range of girls. Underneath this, you should have a 'strangely sexy' or
'mysteriously compelling' vibe where she feels butterflies and can't pull her eyes away from yours. You don't get
much time to do this, generally... Fuck around with talking about boring stuff for more than a couple lines and
you're probably done
3) Escalate the emotions, particularly the interactional tension and/or sexual tension. Show hard leadership and the
right level of dominance for the girl (timid girls are scared by too much dominance, clubby chicks will laugh in
your face at the slightest sign that you aren't dominant). Do NOT hesitate/waffle on the edge of leading and making
decisions. Get right in there and stay in there. One of the least sexy things to any girl is hesitation/waffling. Girls
hate beta males. Your uncertainty makes her uncomfortable, makes the situation awkward, and for many girls kills
the attraction outright
4) Move her somewhere. This isn't always necessary, but to show command of the situation, to change the feel of
what's going on, and – even better – to show her it's okay to split up with her friends, move her. I've had a lot of
success moving her 15 feet to a table in full view of her friends. I've also had success taking her outside to sit on a
bench or go for a walk. People I know have had success with bouncing to bars and going to completely different
locations and getting drinks and everything in between. This is not as necessary a step as everything else, but if you
do it, your life generally winds up a lot easier (it's like you broke down the overall picture into smaller steps)
5) Crush any situation that pops up that might take her away from you. Meddling friends. Clinger guys. Unfortunate
occurrences. Whatever. The moment she shows that she likes you, you need to fucking keep her until there's
nothing you can do about it or you're starting to piss her off by keeping her around. The more you practice, the less
you'll piss people off. But, to be honest, you should occasionally piss people off with your efforts. Don't be
negatively aggressive, but who gives a fuck what they wanted to happen with their night, they didn't think about it
hard anyway. This is your night and your life and you need to get what you want because no one will give it to you.
Ever. Not to mention if you're doing things right, you'll be making her night FAR better in doing what you had in
mind. I had some of my early instructors tell me that I was being too aggressive, and act like it was scary and I was
on the verge of being excommunicated from pickup. That shit scared me off of being persistent for a long ass time
because even though I knew they were just reacting to one fucking girl that said I wouldn't leave her alone- of
course I didn't want to be 'that guy' by any means. The truth was, I had just been really persistent a couple times
and girls got mad that I wouldn't leave, then the instructors reacted to that like I was being aggressive or that was
constant, and they gave me really shitty advice. The fact was, until that point I hadn't been nearly persistent enough
– and I was just learning to be persistent without yet knowing how to keep it so that girls felt good despite my
persistence. Sometimes even if it's awkward for a minute, you still have to be persistent and trust you can make it
feel good again
6) Become creative, persistent, and absolutely powerfully certain of your leadership in order to get her out of there
and back to your place or to somewhere equivalent. We're talking saying things like “Ah fuck it, your friends will
be just fine without you – you're staying with me now” and “Let's get out of here” and turning and leading her
outside by the hand. LEAD HARD as Tyler D says. That doesn't mean yank her around, that'll never go well, but it
means lead in an instant and lead decisively- like a semi truck that gets going and keeps going. Your leadership and
dominance are the second and third most compelling and sexy things about you. You heard that right. Leading her
hard isn't you being an annoying douche – it's actually something that's exciting and a turn on for her (though the
extent varies per girl). Provided you do it with awareness and intelligently
7) DO NOT take a fucking number and pat yourself on the back. Girls generally only go on dates with guys that they
felt they had a really unusually significant experience with. That's not the cool 10 minutes of conversation you had.
You ALWAYS want to take a number, even if you think you're pulling her, but never think you had a good pickup
because you got a number. IF you have to get a number, create an abnormally powerful and unusual emotional
experience with her. There's old school games and routines designed to do these things. You could tell her to grab
five people of her choice and bring them over and you'll buy them all shots and make them each tell a story. You
could take her out of the bar and jump into the ocean with all your clothes on. I'm just saying dumb examples
because the point is you have to do SOMETHING that REALLY stands out in her mind. If you've got limited time
and have to take a number, you need this to increase the likelihood of her calling you back. You should do some
research, some soul searching, some deep thinking and find something. I have an old school game routine that I
use. I don't want to say it because I don't want it making a comeback until it causes me to get blown out rather than
succeed. Find yours. Put the damn work in. Game is all about prep work and practice and always will be

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The greatest compliment a pickup guy can receive is “I never do ____ this quickly/early.” That means that you've done the
most difficult balance of game – communicate powerfully to create powerful emotions at all times, while keeping her
around you, and in your tunnel of emotional experience for as long as possible. Ten minutes with you should be like an
hour with any other guy, even a guy with game. An hour with you should be an experience she's never had before. In other
words, your game should kick so much fucking ass that, to quote Big Butts, “Them other brothers can't deny.”

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The fact is, the journey in game is about your perceptions shifting massively. So your perception at the start of that journey
won't be able to fully comprehend what it ultimately needs to in order to win. Sometimes you need to be given an in depth
explanation, then just go do, and THEN you can win. Which my teachers told me over and over and I more or less listened
to them. Often when I didn't listen to them, I eventually came around to what they were telling me after spending years
banging my head against the wall.
Other times, because no one had put together a comprehensive road map to the top level of success , I HAD to rethink
things. Which is the reason for this book. It ISN'T incomplete. There may be some alternatives. But while the wise man
questions everything, the wisest man masters the best working system there is BEFORE fucking with it and trying to
innovate or change stuff to his liking.
Fuck around with the formula once you're pulling models from nightclubs and then over time you might see ways to do
that better.

I'm going to define game a dozen times from different angles in this book. This book has been written in pieces over
several years. I'd learn things and then add them to this book.
Many, many times I thought that I was almost at the finish line. Then I'd hit a wall and find I was nowhere close.
Eventually my world would cave in when I found this whole subject was so much bigger than I thought. I'd learn new
information I never imagined existed, shipping me right back to square one all over again.

I had to piece things together from about a dozen brilliant minds in pickup. Then I had to piece things together from
studying characters in movies that I found had the traits game masters had over looked. Then I had to piece things together
from just banging my head against the wall over and over and over and over in the real world. You won't have that
experience if you follow this perfectly, because you're starting from a finished product. Fucking bastard, hahaha. But
there's no way to get to the full results available here without years of hard practice and difficult internal searching and
change. Minimum two years I'd say. A drastic improvement in results can be had without that, but not reaching the level
you'd probably associate with a good pickup guy.

Because I wrote this down over time, I wound up recording many different ways of defining and summing up game from
many different angles. If I left a definition or viewpoint after I went through and edited this book, then it's a valid
viewpoint that adds extra value to your overall perception. They all work, but on different levels. The most core definition
I'll ultimately get to near the end – effectively it is that game is all about creating certain vibes/emotions in response to the
situation based on where the girl is at that moment, and then leading. And that there are three basic, overarching skills and
vibes in game.

That's the most abstracted level, really. But there's actually a step before that. It's slightly more specific and less abstract, a
less overarching definition, but it's critical because it comes BEFORE that. And that means if you DON'T do this, you can't
achieve the previous definition. And that is that game is all about choosing, aligning, and empowering your INTENT, and
being able to switch it onto different focuses throughout a night.
You have to know WHAT intent, or actually intents, to have. You then must fully align all your focus, your actions,
everything you have behind one intent at a time. You must mean it to your very core and put all your resources, mental and
physical, towards making it happen. Then you must put all the power in the world behind that intent and MAKE SURE it
happens. And THEN you have to be able to SWITCH intents several times over the course of an interaction, align behind
and empower the new one, and do it all over again. All to make the FINAL intent happen, which is coming together with
the girl.

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whole process through. Right from going up to her, all the way to the end. That intent has to start BEFORE you ever go up
to her. And you must not waiver in that.
Within that road you'll have to focus your intent fully on several different things, one at a time, then jump it between them.
Even knowing WHAT to focus your intent on is a real bitch, but not having that alignment behind your intent, and not
knowing what to align behind will fuck you over.
I know this because for 8.5 years I fought with everything I had inside me trying to master game... but I was coming from
a place where my intents were rarely aligned. I didn't know what they should be aligned behind during the interaction, and
I wasn't capable of switching between them. Obviously... since I didn't even know what they should be.
So I flailed about like a baby bird... Except one that worked really hard and had tons of knowledge, real world experience,
and even half decent success.
For all of the best part of my youth, I cruised through my opportunities with girls without aligned intent and without a
roadmap of what it would be focused on if I did actually align behind it. Even after I knew the concept, I was reluctant to
force myself through the discomfort of choosing the proper intents, aligning between them, and mastering the different
skillsets of each.

Hardest of all was to align my intent to the point that if I was going up to a girl, it was with the full intent of taking it all
the way - unless an iceberg fell from the sky forcing us apart. That was so difficult, in fact, that after I eventually reached
that level, it again fell apart when I wasn't gaming full time and I had to find it again.

Ultimately, game is about duality. You have to be aligned, grinding, pounding pavement, pushing through fear- a total
badass going hard. But at the same time you have to have an amazing vibe that in the moment just doesn't care about what
happens later. You have to do all of that badass side of game while letting go into the fabric of the interaction between the
two of you. The vibe between the two of you. You need to be kind of floating through the interaction. It's a strange duality
to be so aligned, so badass, and at the same time floating around so lightly and happily.
Mastering that duality is ultimately one of the hardest things in game. In fact, that's one of the things I am personally
working on right now. Just about all of the game teaching out there does students a massive disservice because it chooses
one side or another. It either talks endlessly about being a badass and taking no prisoners and going hard and the numbers
game and blah blah blah. Or it goes on in these almost hippy sounding, cloud-like loops about how you have to float
through the world, share energy, not care, be a giver, make people laugh and feel good, etc. It seems everyone picks one
camp or the other. Some of the best teachers in RSD, for instance, actually execute on this duality... but then they'll make
one video talking about one side, and a few months later make a different video talking about the other. Then they'll flip
flop again. They rarely if ever talk about the duality and how both sides are necessary at once.
The result is NOT that people wind up understanding and trying to execute the duality. Rather the effect is that some
students cling to the grinding, badass side at the expense of the fun, loose side. And others cling tightly to the fun, loose
side and don't grind and lead. Then those two groups bicker amongst themselves about who's right.
Neither of those polarized halves of the community winds up having that much success... Why? Because the reality IS
duality. You need BOTH. AT ONCE. Not sometimes one, sometimes the other. Not optionally. You need to learn to do
BOTH AT ONCE.
How is that possible? The badass grinding thing is a bit of a momentum. If you feel your brain bitching and feeling afraid,
you whoop it's whiner ass and get it to start grinding and going hard. Once you're doing that, then that has a momentum of
its own and while you're in that momentum you can then let go into the vibe of the interactions that you're in. We'll call
that the 'vibe fabric', but that's something will fully explain later in the most advanced sections of the book.

I want to make it clear VERY early on in this book that the duality is critical. It is NOT optional. Because no one else sees
fit to discuss the duality, at best alternating between those two sides, I want YOU to get started right now learning to
execute BOTH SIDES at once. If I would have known from the very beginning that game would always be a dirty,
grinding thing while at the exact same time requiring me to muster all the looseness and carefree vibe in the world, I would
have gotten to the endzone MUCH sooner. Instead, it seemed like you were to grind so that you could learn, and then one
day it would be easy, and smooth. Or that it was always going to be a grind, and you just worked to create a bunch of
emotions while doing it. I never knew that one of the most important things I had to learn was to be doing both sides at the
same time, and that no matter how good I got- that would NEVER change.

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likes people... But it also goes up to EVERYONE and tries to get ALL of them to throw its tennis ball. It never stops
grinding. It doesn't see a reason not to sniff crotches. It doesn't even think “Your loss,” it just goes “That guy looks like he
wants to throw a tennis ball!” If someone doesn't like dogs and pushes it away, it just wags its tail and goes to the next
person. Largely because it's just too stupid to see any reason not to. And that's a beautiful mindset. A cocky, stupid, golden-
retriever-like dude can run around and talk to everyone and no one can get all that mad. (Though you'll always piss people
off gaming and shouldn't try so hard to avoid it). A really intelligent, carefully thought out guy can piss people off by going
into certain situations. There's a blamelessness in coming across oblivious. Probably few people reading this will value
ever seeming oblivious and unaware... but it's actually one of the most useful mindsets for approaching. Trust me – it is
one of the last ways I ever wanted to have anyone see me... And it would've been useful my entire life to have that mode.
Rather than to push, but then slip into being a little too much and make people feel like they're mood is being brought
down; or to flip to the other side and try to be lighter and looser, but to not push things towards sex or go into enough
interactions and wind up with nothing. Then rinse and repeat. Each side of the equation is useless without the other. E =
mc^2, not E=0 and 0=mc^2.

Then you have to add an extremely thorough understanding of girls, and game, and what creates success. Which permits
you to understand the very most distilled version of what it takes to have success- but only after you've seen the full
picture. And that very distilled, vastly simplified version of things is what you'll actually go out and focus on while you
game.

By the end of this book, I'm going to ninja your fucking brain.
This is a LONG process of breaking down previously deeply held notions and thoughts and attitudes and rearranging them.
Some of you will know a good amount of this already, and it will be an easier read. Some of you will object strongly
throughout this book – you're the ones that need this information the most. The fact is, the vast majority of you reading this
sentence will not read the last sentence of this book. But there's a reason there's a huge variation of success among people
in this world. I'm laying out a road map of how I went from having a vast number of deeply rooted misunderstandings
about women and how to succeed with them to, many years later, FINALLY getting what I wanted with women – choice.
Quite frankly, if that's not enough reason to read this from line one until the last and take it very seriously... Well...

Success ain't for the weak of heart.

Neither is life, really.

And the fact is, the more you learn about game and study all the seemingly very different instructors out there, the more
you see that underlying it all, all very successful guys are pretty much doing the same thing. In other words, what worked
for me to get there isn't just what worked for me individually... It's true that you don't want to do the exact same things as
me because you aren't me. But you DO want to do the exact same abstractions as me, or the best Lovesystems instructors
or the best RSD instructors or anyone else.
At a certain level of abstraction, there's pretty much only one way. The various options come within the specific things you
say and do, which fall into those abstractions.
What does that mean? Well, humor is an abstraction. And a joke is a specific thing you say under the abstraction of humor.
Sexual tension is an abstraction. Moving your face close to hers, staring into her eyes, and speaking slowly- that's a
specific way to create sexual tension.
There are countless options of the specifics of how to game, and you can tailor those to suit your personality. But the
abstractions, at a certain level, need to unfold just about the same way every time if you want high level success. This
means you can remain true to your personality, but you'll also have to expand your personality and learn new skillsets and
perspectives, and follow certain structures. Mess with things too much, and you might feel you're doing things 'your way',
but you're really breaking the underlying dance between man and woman, and the result will be greatly diminished results.
The great news is that means you pretty much just have to follow what we talk about in this book- but while inserting your
own jokes, the things you like to say, the actions you prefer from within a certain set of circumstances, and you'll succeed.
You don't need to be a super genius, you also don't have to be untrue to who you are at the core.
Other than that core 'you', though, we'll be stripping a lot of shit away, so be ready for that. We're going to take 'you' and
make you the best 'you' imaginable. On top of what's really 'you,' there's without doubt pieces that have been stuck onto
your true core that you THINK are 'you,' but really came from your parents, your friends, from movies, from television,
from some bullshit experience you had once, from misinformation... Just about all that shit is going to have to go.

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Why is this book split into two long volumes? Because I'll explain it all rather than just yelling at you and telling you to
listen. You'll know exactly WHY things need to be a certain way, and what that means is that you can feel comfortable
accepting adjusted perspectives, and letting go of things that you THOUGHT were 'you'- but after learning more, you'll
realize they never were. In other words, it's like you're about to enter a school for ninjas, and I'm gonna kick the shit out of
you... But the core of who you are will be preserved and amplified.

And like I said- success ain't for the weak of heart. It ain't easy.
You might not know it, but because of the ways girls behave they effectively turn into a limited resource. Attractive ones
anyway. And that means there's a competition for them. And that means you have to out compete other guys. Any time you
have a competition that billions of people care a lot about, you're going to have something that's not exactly easy. Feel
better that you weren't just born killing it? You should. The same way you weren't born a Major League Baseball player...
Because some other dude spent his whole life getting good at baseball, and to get there you have to out compete him.

Honestly, it's totally fine to use your time on something else that is meaningful to you. This book is for the few that
REALLY want to have their choice with the most beautiful women around. And for no one else. I'm a really nice guy, but
I've learned the incredibly hard way over the last 10 dedicated, painful, exhilarating, strange, rewarding, stressful, change
filled, and enormously frustrating years of my life that this area of the world is NOT nice. It leads to experiences, stories,
and growth that no one else will ever have, but it's not remotely 'nice.' I wish it were, my friend, but it isn't.
This shit originated in the fucking jungles of the wild with our ancestors, where surviving meant fucking up lions with a
stick. Likewise anything involving sex evolved to be equally instinctual and gnarly in human behavior.

The fact is, really beautiful women ARE generally weak hearted, bouncy, entitled human beings that think that because
they were born into it, they can do whatever the fuck they want and the world will smile at them.

And you know what?

It does.
It fucking does.

Basically they're right. If they were wrong, the world would pound on them like it has pounded on you until they finally
considered changing their ways, or gave up.
If you find one that DOESN'T think that way, keep her – unless you have no intention to EVER settle down. I've met
stunning models that were about to become radiologists and were pretty damn nice, or other models that were starting
businesses allowing Thai marketplace seamstresses to make real money selling westernized versions of their own creations
(if you're reading this – call me... heh). I was dumb enough to think there were more girls like that in this world. Generally,
there might be plenty of fish in the sea, but there aren't plenty of those. I'm a firm believer that good people are rare, but
you also have to act like they're not, so that people don't get big heads on you. And that's one of thousands of strange
paradoxes that success in this arena of life will require for you.
Sadly, we've evolved to make male-female relations a game of salesmanship. I tried probably until I was 28 or so to battle
and hold out hope that there were hot girls out there that didn't want to play games. There aren't. There are hot girls that
TALK about not playing games, but they're attracted to guys that aren't available and that get other girls and that can put
them in socially competitive places... It doesn't have to be negative mind-fuck head games. But it's always a 'game'. We'll
talk about why and how to make that as enjoyable as it can be. But sex ain't noble, and dating revolves around who you'd
want to have sex with. And there's nothing YOU can do to change that. You can spend 28 years trying to, while largely just
getting your fucking ass kicked and feeling like a piece of crap that doesn't deserve girls... Or you can just say what Tyler
D from RSD says – “They'd like to not play games. But they can't. Because... Evolution.” Or you can date ugly girls that
are willing to act like real human beings because if they don't, no one wants them.

Oh yeah, did I mention we're gonna be pretty fucking real in this book? Sorry.
We do love women. I respect the hell out of women that earn it. Just like men that deserve it. Athletes, leaders,
entrepreneurs. But I don't set people on a pedestal that don't deserve it - like male rich kids that run around acting like fuck
heads and snorting coke. I might party with them and have a good time with them. I might love what they bring to the
world. But I don't place them on a pedestal. Likewise, I love hanging out with hot girls and I like them for what they are –

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experienced head of a non-profit, etc. Then I have all the respect in the world. They are treated by society like male rich
kids, and most of them behave like male rich kids. So I'll party with them and have fun with them and appreciate that side
of them, just like for male rich kids. And I'll also shrug my shoulders and be real about what they're like. That's not
anything sexist. It's just real. You should get the level of respect that you've earned. And I do what I can to not give a shit
and judge people that haven't earned respect... I just take them for what they are and what they are good at.

There are as many seats on private jets in this world as there are models. You do the math. The guys with those private jets
don't have a large enough supply of hot girls to say “No, model. You can't get on my private jet until you fucking behave
like a human being, get a masters degree, and start a company that makes at least $500k/year.” So they let any girl that
even looks kind of like a model on. And the guys that are able to bring those girls. Then the girls get to ride around on
private jets for free, fucking the cool guys that brought them to the private jet and not even the guys that own/rent the jet.

If you were hooking up with two new models every single week, had been since you were 18, AND got invited on private
jets and yachts WHENEVER you wanted, would you read this book? NEVER. You NEVER fucking would. I wouldn't
have written it. You wouldn't read it. So they're not going to either.
A girl that does both is a special chick. Don't dare treat her that way until she says “I love you” at a minimum, or she'll run
off, but she is. Don't just throw her away.

Then you think that the girls must be aware of and afraid of the fact that when they hit 35 or 38 no one will want them and
it'll all be over. They aren't. Go listen to all the rockstars and rappers that talk about living fast and dying young. They have
everything they want, they don't care at all about 38. It's hypothetical. The girls think they'll be married to a billionaire or
movie star by then. They ACTUALLY think that. No reason to learn to behave or even be funny or interesting right now.
They're fully in the moment living it up. They don't care.
They don't think guys that they don't want to hook up with and met recently are even human. Just like you're not too
concerned about the fat girls in the bar. If one of those fat girls started texting you all the time, think of how you'd act. And
you'd be NICER than hot girls are to guys. Girls just think guys should know better, kind of like you think fat girls should
work out. There's no pressure for any of them to behave. There just isn't.

The fact is, what really attractive girls do in their lives is intriguing and has a beauty in its own way. Sometimes. As a
component of this crazy thing we call life. It's nothing to be inherently judged or looked down upon, but I'll tell you right
now that they rarely make it through their genetic luck with the Disney Princess attitude that many guys reading this wish
they had. But then again, do you ride around on a white steed? Do you own enormous tracts of land? Do you have a
chiseled jaw, black hair, giant pectoral muscles, and always say the right thing even when people are dicks to you? No?
Then you're no Disney Prince, either. So I suggest you allow people to be real and learn to get the best out of it. Many hot
girls are just good for partying and flings, just like many guys are just good for throwing a rager.
Real world girls that are very attractive are usually fun, very conscious of social factors and superficial things, and can
often be annoying. They tend to have extreme types of psychology – like any outlier in the world. The world treats them
differently, and they react by being a bit different. They fall into different categories, they are far from all the same. BUT, a
decent number of them treat the people that they see as important in their lives quite well, and, like everyone else, many do
not. People with some form of power in this world rarely handle it by treating everyone well. The nicest of really hot girls
generally aren't friendly towards random people they meet. Get used to it.

If you're willing to accept all of that and you still want to bust your ass, undergo major changes in your perception of the
world, push your comfort zone and have many crappy experiences along with all the great ones. And then view this all as
one hell of a ride with some great payouts at points in the process... Then you're suited to becoming good at 'game'. And
you've come to the right place.

Generally, in any area of human performance, people hit a point where they're exhausted of the work they're putting in and
the results are 'good enough' for them... Then they quit pushing forward and accept that level. Right now, guys are
generally hitting that level where they can pull maybe a 7.5 a week or so. My goal is to raise that to where the guys that
want to push hard are getting what they THOUGHT they would when they first began gaming. Like an 8 a week at least.
Think of that – 52 eights a year... That's what you THOUGHT game would be like.

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You really shouldn't have any major questions that are unanswered by this book. You will need to have had an introduction
to game from another source, first. Though I do list the best sources later on, so you can always hit those up if you're
confused. You might need to flip ahead to find that list (search “Social Circle Blueprint” in the document).

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Our Goal

What we're going to do by the end of the book is show you pretty much everything you REALLY need to know about
game. Which is vastly different than what just about anyone THINKS they need to know about game.
We're going to develop and then walk you through a system that's capable of getting you just about any girl, provided she
doesn't get yanked into a club's bottle service before you have a chance, or of course if you make mistakes, or perhaps your
personalities simply clash. This is something that I found incredibly lacking in everything taught out there about game.
Following any of the systems out there, in my experience, did nothing but eventually run you into a glass ceiling where
you couldn't get any further with your results. Sooner or later, there was a level that every system out there simply couldn't
get you to. Something was ALWAYS missing, no matter whose teachings I went with. I'm going to show you a system that
has no glass ceiling. The only glass ceiling will be that many of the girls you really want will be in bottle service tables
you aren't in... But there's even solutions for that, and we'll go into them a bit as well as refer you to the video programs
and guys that can teach you those solutions.

Then we're REALLY going to get crazy on you. If a system without any direct limitations wasn't crazy enough... We're
going to go through how RSD Julien gets reactions from women that are, quite literally, jaw dropping. And how he does it
over and over. I don't think anyone could fathom this unless they go out with him themselves, but what he does is truly
insane. You've never seen anything like it. You likely don't even think it's possible. It's going to take a lot of work, but we'll
eventually get to the bottom of what he's doing, break it down, and make it so you can execute on those same things. We're
actually going to break Julien's game down more than he has himself! I know because I talked with him about it and he
helped me break his game down.
We're going to then merge that with our system that has no real glass ceiling to create something that's just incredible.
When we first show you that system, however, there's going to be many moving pieces. What happens if you have to work
a lot for a long period of time? What if you step away from game?

To answer those issues, the last bit of what we're going to do is to go so incredibly deep that we can start to distill
everything down and simplify it. The last game sections of volume 2 are all about simplifying things to the point that even
if you have to work all the time, you will be able to keep the true, central keys to game in mind and STILL succeed at an
extremely high level. Then we'll go beyond that, which is making sure you understand things SO DEEPLY, that when you
interact with women – even models or any other extremely attractive women – you can just FEEL your way through the
interaction. We'll merge your understanding with your instincts in such a way that you can feel when things are headed in
the right direction, and feel when they're headed the opposite way, and allow your training to smoothly kick in. This is
what it takes to truly feel like you aren't a guy that knows game, but you're actually a guy that is fundamentally
unbelievable with women. This level of game sticks with you much better, gets rusty much less easily, and will truly, truly
transform your life. It has to be incredibly simplified, very very very well crafted to fit with the way your brain works, and
also we must have no major gaps in the system. Finally, we have to talk about how you'll think and train and perceive the
world to put it all together.
That system will ultimately be about where your focus is, what mindset you walk around with, and focusing on the three
primary, overarching, all-encompassing skillsets of game: Loosening, interactional-tension, and sexual tension. Plus, of
course, leadership. It's going to take us a good while to develop your understanding of game to the point where you can
truly comprehend and execute the top level of game by focusing on only four major concepts. But at the end, that's all
you'll need. And I promise you could pull a Victoria's Secret model (or a seven) using the end product game we're about to
give you. And do it repeatedly. Your task will be to get yourself around those girls regularly, and to train hard enough to
execute what we discuss at a very high level.
Finally, we'll also go extremely deep to take out all of the self sabotage, the internal blockages, and the other issues that
prevent you from actually getting the results that your level of game should enable you to have. We'll even reframe the
way you view women and game and all of the surrounding things so that you can have regular success in a way that it's

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That's our roadmap. We're going to have to go really deep into a lot of stuff to get you through all of that. But if it sounds
even a fraction as badass to you as it actually is, then I'm sure you can't fucking wait. It's also pretty fucking fun to learn
about, in my opinion. It's like every few pages being opened to another new world of possibilities you never knew existed.
Addicting.
Trust me, my friend, there's NOTHING like this anywhere. By the end of the first volume you'll have game with no more
glass ceiling – something that I've never seen from any game product anywhere. And that's BEFORE we even get into the
second volume... Just imagine.

Let me say this about all of it: My goal was to create a book that really 'solves' game. To me that meant regularly getting
'hot' girls. And I'm pretty fucking picky.
Eventually I chose the random number and timeframe of being able to cold approach and then night game pull two 8.5+
girls a month. We'll talk a lot about why I chose that (good reasons and also I just chose it), and also what having that goal
– regardless of how arbitrary – ultimately meant in terms of my eventual success.
Eventually, I decided that solving game was getting about that same level of success without constantly focusing on game.
Working most of the week, going out two nights a week with an hour or so of warmups before, and still being able to at
least game at roughly that level – if not even get those same results in less time.
Finally, I decided that it was not only that, but also to simply FEEL like you've got game 'solved' every time you're talking
to a hot woman. Any woman, really. Similar to how you feel if you're talking to someone who just had their dog die or got
in a car accident – you just FEEL if you're doing that properly or not. Doesn't mean you're great at it, but you feel the
directions you're supposed to go. That natural, instinctual feel and ability to navigate- that's what we're talking about here.
It occurred to me that if you can't throw a hot girl in front of me, and then have me simply feel my way through the
interaction and do all of the incredible things I've learned, on some level there's a disconnect going on.

And I'll tell you that right before I put this book out, I finally achieved that feeling. Where I could do the insane things we
talk about in this book, but at the same time my brain just FELT how to get them to happen. I still have to think about it to
a small extent because I'm still, myself, learning to execute the most advanced parts of this book... But it's slowly
becoming more and more of an automatic thing I just do when talking to women.

Picture that... Every time you talk to women, you just inherently create reactions on the level of the best masters in the
world. Just because that's how you are now... Isn't that what you REALLY want? Fucking strap in my friend. We'll get you
there. I've solved game to a level no one has yet done... And I'm about to give YOU the solution.

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Now that we've gone through the introduction, let's get into some actual game.
I'll start by introducing myself, and if you don't care skip this section and get right into the good stuff!
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Quick background on my game, how I got to feeling stuck, and how I got unstuck. If you don't care, just skip past the next
dashed line-

The foundation of my game was laid by old school books and DVDs – Mystery Method, David DeAngelo, Style. Then my
game was brought to the next level by doing a 3 month long, traveling program with Lovesystems called Project Rockstar.
I had solid foundations laid for my game by Venture and guys like Future. I was lucky enough to be great friends with
Joseph Dieguez, who in my opinion is right there tied with the best in the world depending on how you look at it. Which is
to say, if you want a bootcamp or a private lesson, and I'm not available (I'll probably only teach a few people), your short
list should be: Joseph Dieguez, Tyler D of RSD, Julien of RSD (despite the scandal he's actually a great guy and much of
the media coverage just wasn't true), Venture of Lovesystems. I think those last three are retiring largely, but if you can
learn with them – do it. Madison from RSD also knows his stuff very well, though I haven't learned from him in person
(I've been taught personally by all of those first guys). There's a couple people I don't have much experience with that
maybe should make this short list – I've heard Labby from Lovesystems is a legend, and Helicase from Lovesystems. Plus
I'm sure there are at least several more instructors that I haven't met that absolutely deserve to be right here – my
apologies, I haven't met many of you. I don't want to list everyone who has helped me because so many have, and I would

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ultimately just miss a bunch of people. To everyone else, thank you. Seriously, thank you.

After I had 'good' (reasonable?) game post-Rockstar, I was still nonetheless pretty unhappy with where I was in my ability.
I had 7's stalking me in high school. I didn't get into game for a plethora of 7's. On Rockstar I'd had a few great
experiences with very hot girls, but long story short, I wanted regularly to have 8's and better in my life. I moved to San
Diego, which is a tough place to game. A few good experiences with the girls I wanted, but only a few in 3 months. Then I
spent time in Austin with Joseph Dieguez. He finally started to get my game on track. THEN I started listening to a bunch
of Tyler D stuff. I'd ignored him for years because of his shitty reputation in the good 'ole book “The Game.” Well, I'll tell
you right now – Tyler D is a true genius of game. He's very possibly the world's foremost leader in intellectual
understanding of game. Joseph Dieguez, Tyler D, Venture and probably a few more – those are the guys you want teaching
game. They get it. They can do it.
(And no, I'm not one of these guys – this section is all about what I learned from them, and how to put it together and act
on it)
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The first thing you need to get unstuck from an intermediate level in game is to know what you need to start DOING.
Eventually to really move forward you will have to change how you perceive things and your fundamental approaches to
game, and that takes time and effort.
But to begin with, you have to start with what to DO. The best place to start is not to teach you more tactics that get used
here and there- there's more people with more tactics out there than you'll ever need. It's much better to teach you how to
do things that will make you build the emotions that you need to build no matter WHAT you're talking about, or where you
are, or what the circumstances around you are.
That sounds good, right? It's like being an attractive girl – no matter where she goes or what she does or what she says, she
still carries that attraction around with her.
You've probably assumed that guys can never quite have that... The answer is yes and no. If you're not famous, you'll never
have what a 10 has, where everywhere she goes everyone wants her. Even if you're tall and good looking and rich and
jacked, unless you also roll with an entourage of models you'll never carry around attraction automatically like a girl that's
a 10. However, guys actually CAN carry around a similar, if slightly less powerful, attraction that can kick in during the
first 5 or so minutes of their conversations. Without 'game'. And it's by using a few little things that almost all naturals do,
that almost NEVER get discussed in any type of game conversation.

That's what you want, right? You've read everything, watched everything, gamed a lot, maybe even taken all the
bootcamps. But you don't feel like you're getting where you should be in game. You either feel stuck, or that your results
aren't what you always hoped they would become. So you're reading this, hoping that maybe, just maybe, you'll get
something that's not written everywhere else.

You will. Because this is what I had to figure out after watching everything, gaming a lot, and talking to everyone in order
to get my game 'unstuck' from an intermediate level and get it to the place I had always wanted it to be. I had to figure this
out the hard way, the really hard way to be honest, so I'm writing it to make your life much easier (but don't kid yourself
that you don't need lots of hard work). So let's start with how you can change a few simple, basic things that will let you
ALWAYS carry around being attractive. Not in your mindsets that somehow are supposed to mysteriously manifest into
attraction, but actually in WHAT YOU CAN DO.

A lot of people talk about naturals and how they game and try to adopt it. The conversation invariably gets derailed into
how they think and their vibe. Their mindset, and what they put out – especially their masculinity and not giving a fuck.
Those are essential to learn and over time (years) to ingrain more and more into who you are. And they come out in how
you game. Unfortunately, those won't get you results for quite some time because you still have to DO something when
you're in set, and your brain automatically snaps back to what it is used to doing (we don't rise to the occasion, we fall
back on our training/habits). In other words, if you go out trying to 'act like a natural' tonight, the moment you're nervous
or feel stress or whatever, you're going to largely revert to what you're used to doing. This is overcome in three ways –
time and experience, training out of the field to ingrain things in your head and neural pathways, and knowing what to DO.

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not true. Those people are missing it. There are a few very subtle, very key things that ALL naturals do. They're very
intricate, but also very straightforward and at times simple. And you can learn to start doing them almost right away,
though to remember to KEEP doing them and to get good at them will take a long time and a lot of training.

Naturals do one of two things, always (unless they're social circle naturals): They either use energy to keep girls around
until the night progresses and the girl doesn't want to leave them or they wind up at an after party. OR they use sexual
tension until the girl wants to rip their clothes off and makes it happen. Or, usually, both. Now, I still haven't told you what
they all DO, have I? What I've said is only slightly more useful than telling you how masculine they are or something like
that. BUT, here's the great thing. There are a few things they basically all do in order to accomplish those goals.

Let's start with opening, because if I get into how naturals succeed with women first it can actually cause problems. What
they do in the middle of the interaction is often different from how they begin, and you can fall into the trap I fell into –
trying to pick a girl up with sexual tension but finding that you can't even hook many girls. The catch is, you're taking a
girl and turning her from her current state: Running around drinking, laughing with friends, hoping to be told she's sexy
and then walk away from the guy who told her. Then you're turning her into a state where she actually wants to have sex
with you. Some girls in the club are looking to have sex and you don't have to change their state that much. Some of them
want to just be out laughing with their girl friends and maybe get a number from a cute guy that they won't call later. Either
way, if you come in full-sexual, most of the time it's going to be surprising and too different from their state. Then they
won't talk to you. In a lot of ways, this is where the old mantra “Come in with energy equal to or slightly higher than the
set's energy” comes in.

Though I think there's a better way to put it – energy can be used to blow anything open if done right, suddenly, and in the
right vibe. We'll talk about that a lot more later. Basically, you need to hook her enough that she'll let you start building
sexual tension. There's a simple way to measure it – if she won't hold eye contact with you, won't allow you to get enough
proximity, won't allow you to talk right into her ear, then either she isn't LOOSE around you, or you have no general
appeal to you. Which we'll later discover is largely interactional tension – a new concept we're introducing her for the first
time. You need to build up the level of draw she has for talking to you – and for playing around with the interaction with
you – in which case she'll allow you to command and lead more (or you could say her 'buying temperature' will gain you
more 'compliance'... But I would argue that 'buying temperature' alone doesn't actually cover it. And thinking that can be
misleading). She needs to be excited to talk to you.

So there's a HUGE key here. Huge, huge huge. You have to be EXCITING to HER. It's not just about you being energetic.
Exciting is energy, plus an EDGE. What kind of edge do you think girls want? Well... That's why it's about being exciting
to HER, it changes. But most of them want an edge of dominance, an air of sexiness. They want to laugh, to have energy,
but they want a hook, an edge. But every girl is also different. We'll eventually get to the underlying emotions that govern
what to do here, but how exactly to apply them varies depending on the individual standing in front of you and ther
personality as a human. We'll go over that, but people naturally have their humanity.

As a general rule of thumb, making some jokes with a sexual but not offensive or line-pushing nature will generally be
exciting to most women – but doing it a way where you still have strength, where you're showing that you can be
dominant. For instance, Dane Cook's joke “I was talking to a girl the other day, and she said to me 'all guys want is sex' so
I said 'Finish blowing me and we'll talk about it'”. But, as with everything we'll talk about in this article, it's really more
about what you're doing and how you're saying things. So how do you remain EXCITING to a hot girl, while bringing
energy in the beginning, helping to ensure that she'll want to flirt with you? Generally speaking, you BRING ENERGY IN
A DOMINANT WAY, in a way that CREATES EMOTION IN HER MORE THAN JUST ENERGY.
You open, then you transition and start building energy and DON'T BREAK EYE CONTACT ONCE. Keep strong body
language. Have high energy, hit with sudden bursts of energy, but don't do the 'normal' thing where you look around the
room and act chill. That makes it too comfortable, and it kills your edge. If she's extremely tense, you'll have to be aware
of that and lean back, create some space, be 'normal'. But more than half the time doing that will just kill your excitement
for her and she'll check out. That's only for more timid girls, girls you surprised somehow, etc.
You're breaking the 'tunnel' of flirting you COULD have with her, and now you're a guy with energy rather than a sexy guy
joking and flirting with her. Now she's looking at the SAME EXACT JOKE as though it's try-hard, she's acting like you're
being a little weird. If you had kept eye contact the whole time, if you had portrayed dominance, then she's WAYYYY

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more likely to A) Be excited by anything you put energy into, and B) Roll with whatever you say. If you don't, you might
say funny stuff and she might look at you like you're weird... Funny how that works. We'll talk a lot more about this later.

There's a lot more layers with this. For instance you can have a full back-and-forth communication with her just using your
face. You can flirt with nothing BUT your face. This can be used to create other effects, interactional tension, loosen her
up, and so on. These are really advanced concepts we'll get to later... But ALL of this requires that you maintain eye
contact and add an edge to what you're saying that is NOT verbal.

Now, let's get started on pickup's most misunderstood topic – sexual tension.

To start with, naturals are often masters at building sexual tension (unless they solely rely on the more difficult and
unpredictable 'use energy until she winds up with you' method). Luckily, there are only 5 ways to build sexual tension, and
most naturals use the easiest and most repeatable ones (as should you). These are the five ways to build sexual tension:

1) Proximity. Why do you think it's loud in clubs? So you talk right in a girl's ear. Which creates sexual tension. Which
gets people laid. Which associates good memories and brings them back to that club. That and it creates an emotional
mood. Think of the player vibe guys you see out, what do you see? They usually have their mouth just about glued to the
girls ear as they yak on and on and on. You think that's just some coincidental thing player guys do? It's not. The thing with
proximity, is it's context-based. On the street in day game, if your face is 1 foot from hers, you're probably creating sexual
tension. In the club, your lips should basically be brushing her ear or at least she should be able to feel your breath. You
should be able to feel the warmth from each other's bodies. Proximity has to escalate a bit like everything else, but
especially at night it can escalate much quicker than 'kino' (touch) or almost anything else – and it's often more powerful.

2) Eye contact along with either pauses in conversation, or proximity. Eye contact alone doesn't equal
sexual tension. You could talk to her at a mile a minute from 3 feet away with eye contact all night and feel NOTHING.
But you could talk to her across a dinner table, and if you keep throwing in long pauses and staring into her eyes, she
might eventually get wet. Or, if you talk to her 4 inches from her face staring into her eyes, at a SLOW RHYHTM, she'll
get turned on no matter WHAT you say. Pretty cool, right? You can say almost anything, and you're STILL moving
towards coming together with the girl. If you say something incongruent with what's going on – something goofy, nervous,
whatever – you could kill it. But I've literally had my forehead against a girls, staring into her eyes, and talked about the
most BORING shit because I was feeling uninspired and she still wanted me like nothing else.
The hard thing generally isn't to do this – it's to remember to do it. Years after first writing this section, I still often find
myself trying to talk about things often and not engaging with the proper eye contact and everything else... If you aren't
focused, it slips easily, even after years. Plus one or two girls that get mad/uncomofortable kind of make you hesitant if
you don't realize that they were just outliers, or if you accidentally miss the right time to release some pressure or
whatever.

3) I feel like I should re-iterate the pauses in conversation (which also can be speaking very, unusually slowly instead of
fully pausing). It HAS to go along with eye contact to create tension, but really you could say the first three are proximity,
eye contact (with proximity or slow/pausing speech), and pauses in conversation.
Almost all of you feel really nervous about 'letting the conversation die'. Which, unfortunately for you, is one big reason
you're not getting the results you want. You're too nervous to shut the fuck up and build tension, which means you don't
build much tension, which means she might have fun with you but she never WANTS you so badly she can't think about
much else. Which means you only get laid when you're so fun that she wants to spend the night with you. Which is
basically the old model of game – either be fun enough or interesting enough that she stays around you long enough that
you can use kino and some sexualized conversation in order to escalate. Or until you can logistically escalate and then
physically and verbally escalate. In other words, the old model of game is to be more stimulating than anything else in the
bar until you can finally get around to dealing with sexuality at a later point.
Anything about that sound wrong? How about the fact that you're in a fucking club DESIGNED to stimulate and full of
people out looking for stimulation? Yeah, in game we train to beat all of that... But what do you think the success rate of
you being THE most interesting or fun thing in the club is? If you're the fucking man, maybe 80%. If you're not the man,
maybe 5% or 30%. Not very reliable. BUT, if you can shut the fuck up sometimes and just stare into her eyes. Or take a
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NOW instead of waiting to do it later. Which means she's already emotionally associating you with sex and her brain is
identifying you as the person she feels like having sex with TONIGHT, which in turn means you're doing something the
club is NOT designed to do, and not very many of the people in it are good at. Now what do you think your success rate
is? 40% if you suck, 95%+ if you rock. You can win that game over and over and over. And naturals do.
Granted, I'll be honest, even years after first writing this I often go through phases where I worry about letting the
'conversation die' and I don't leave enough space between things I'm saying or shut the fuck up enough... But that doesn't
mean it's ever alright.
There's another reason I separated pauses in conversation in this list. And that's because like, joke threads, you need to
STRETCH the pauses. In the first 10 seconds you can pause and stare into her eyes for a few seconds, and I personally
always do (though whether you do depends on your style of opening and what's congruent for you, and how you game...
Though we'll discuss how optional this really is later).
Five minutes in, you can pause for a fairly significant amount of time, and you should, while looking into her eyes. After
longer, when it's really on, you can pause and look into her eyes until you kiss – ie, you don't resume conversation. More
importantly what I'm saying is that as the conversation goes on, you should STRETCH the length of your pauses out, and
by and large start speaking more slowly. Conversations have rhythm, and the rhythm subconsciously holds and conveys
the CONTEXT. Watch a movie and watch how frequently they speak really slowly and pause a lot – way more, if you
were to think about it, than you and your friends EVER do. That's because those pauses and silences and slow speaking
moments convey an impact and weight of emotions that almost all of us NEVER use in our daily lives.
What does that mean for game? Opportunity. I'm telling you right now that there's an untapped world of powerful emotion
available in communication that everyone naturally understands and hardly anyone uses. That's opportunity. The kind of
opportunity that lets you play a game you can win just about every time, unlike the stimulation game that everyone else is
competing in. So, what I'm saying is, as you talk to her, when you're not joking or throwing in energy, you should be
throwing in increasingly slower speech and longer pauses with eye contact. You should be trying to make her wet by doing
this. I don't like being crass, but hey... This is the real world and you need to step up and be comfortable with what's going
on when men and women interact. You weren't born from the stork dude, it's just how things are. And you should be
making ever more tension, and not backing down from it. Don't suddenly laugh, get nervous, change the subject, look
away, or crack a joke when you're successfully building more and more tension. That ruins it.

The great thing about pauses is this is your “build sexual any time” card. If you meet a family friend at a dinner party and
your whole family is around, and you want to pick her up in a very low key and acceptable way. Just keep using eye
contact as you speak more slowly and throw in more pauses. At the end of the night, or 15 minutes later – whichever
comes first – you'll have all the attraction and tension you need. No routines, no kino escalation, not a word that your
family couldn't have sat and listened to. That's pretty useful in my book.

4) Kino. Why do you suppose I put this so far down my list? Because everyone in game already knows about it. But also
because girls are more resistant to it at first. Not to mention if you use it in the most common ways, you aren't creating
sexual tension... You're just turning her on and she knows why. Though most guys have NO IDEA how quickly girls open
up to it (in fact, I always think I have to wait longer than I do, even now). People like being touched by people they like
and people that turn them on. You do, why wouldn't she?
Guess what, she does. If you're doing well, she wants you to touch her, she likes it. Sometimes I might keep building
tension and intentionally not touch her because the proximity and pauses with eye contact without touching can be MORE
powerful than kino (because she wants you so badly to touch her- and you don't. And because sexual touching can turn her
on but it can also relieve the sexual tension. That's why makeout guy in the club makes out with the chick for an hour, and
then she feels satisfied and a little slutty and just leaves him and he gets nothing).
Anyway, kino can create sexual tension. The best types are what Venture and Sterling call “dominance bursts” which is
where you might grab the belt loops on her pants and suddenly (not violently, just dominantly) pull her into you and look
into her eyes or smell her. Of course, that's an extreme example for later in the interaction that could get you slapped if you
do it without calibration, but those types of things are powerful. Another example is I frequently, almost always, give neck
massages if I'm sitting down next to a girl. I could be talking about the most comforting of comfort things, but I'm good
enough with a neck massage that she might jump me even though I'm talking about puppies. That's sexual tension through
touch. Notice that a neck massage can start very lightly and innocently and if she's even sort of comfortable with you she is
unlikely to reject it (some girls don't like having their neck touched or things like that). And a neck massage is never an
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to her. But when I lightly run my fingernails over her skin or work my fingers into the base of her hair or deeper into the
muscle, it's very sexual. At the same time, I'm not grabbing her chest or anything she's likely to push away.
You can also do other forms of 'teasing' touch. Like lightly run your fingernails up her side, preferably almost as an
'accident.' Run your thumb along her jaw. Etc. The less sexual the thing is, while still turning her on, it creates sexual
tension. Why? Because she has this feeling that doesn't seem to be explained by what you just did, so she attributes it
subconsciously to being very into you.
Another example, though, of creating sexual tension through kino is to put her hand on your dick on the outside of your
pants. To many of you this probably sounds surprising – it did to me at first, and it did to guys like Joseph Dieguez or
Future or other Lovesystems instructors at first too, but they do it all the time with great results.
Of course, this usually requires you to be turned on enough that you're hard, meaning she's turned on enough that she's
wet, and it requires a lot of calibration or you might get slapped and thrown out of the club. (Really, it's more for back at
your place most of the time – but not always) Most of all it requires balls and just owning it because she might at first
recoil in horror or surprise or stare into your eyes and test you and see if you crack. If you crack, apologize, act like you
shouldn't have done it, that's when you get slapped and she runs away. Don't get Aziz Ansari'd and do it to a girl that's not
obviously into you...
If you grin cheekily and stare into her eyes without cracking, she might giggle and put her hand back, make out with you,
start rubbing your dick, or drag you to somewhere more private. Oddly, that creates more tension in general than you
putting your hand on her crotch – partly because she's strangely enough more likely to reject that and partly because, like I
said before, touching her sexually relieves some of her sexual tension rather than building it (there's a difference between
being more turned on and having more sexual tension. If you're actually addressing being turned on by doing something
sexual, you're relieving the tension of being turned on. If you're just turned on but there's nothing directly sexual going on,
you're stuck wanting it and thinking about it without any satisfaction. That's what you want, her wanting it and thinking
about it without satisfaction until you're alone). There's a weird effect where she catches her breath when you touch her
and it turns her on but makes her nervous and she pushes you away. Whereas if you put her hand on your dick, she doesn't
feel that sudden rush of being touched sexually, but she feels the sexuality of the situation and that creates a tension that
isn't relieved by her being touched. Effectively there's suddenly something she very much wants, but she isn't getting
anything... That gap, that difference creates the sexual tension.

5) Verbal sexualization. This is last on my list because it's the most intricate and complicated, which means that it takes the
most learning and skill, and that it can be applied in fewer situations. It's also very well known in game, like kino. Kino
and verbal sexualization are standard game teaching, actually. But both of those things get rejected a lot more frequently
by girls. Verbal sexualization probably gets rejected most, even more than kino. Some girls will fuck you but don't want to
talk about it because they get uncomfortable. Others are very comfortable talking about it. But all girls want to be touched
and have sex, which really means that verbal sexualization works with fewer girls. Of course, if you're good at innuendo –
implying sexual things – girls love that and girls that don't overtly talk about sex will play along much more often.
Frequently before they're comfortable with you touching them in any sexual manner. So it's a double edged sword.
Later on we'll talk a lot about how innuendo is really the most unique part of verbal game, and has the power to transition
interactions where just about nothing else will. So innuendo is definitely a special aspect of verbal game and you should
learn to use it to varying degrees from very subtle to much less so... It's definitely the standout tool of verbal game.
Regardless, you can't do this at a dinner party with family around. Nor can you do physical touch ('kino'). And both require
you to build more compliance with her, and both have a lot more intricacies and calibration required than eye contact or
pauses or proximity. They're also just more complicated and harder to learn than eye contact or proximity or pauses.
Basically what I'm saying is that eye contact, pauses and proximity are easier to learn, effective in more situations and in
all languages, often more powerful, used by fewer people, rejected less often, and are used more universally by naturals. I
have a friend who is an incredible natural, but his verbal sexualization is largely non-existent when he's flirting with girls
in public. His kino is there, but usually not very sexual. So why is he constantly disappearing upstairs with gorgeous girls
at house parties? Well, they like him because of his preselection, looks and reputation. But that doesn't get him to the point
that girls want to go upstairs with him (though the preselection might sometimes). No, it's his eye contact, pauses and
proximity. Everyone around thinks he's having innocent conversation, but he's constantly turning girls on even though the
people standing next to him aren't even aware of what's going on. And the next thing you know, they disappear to his
bedroom for the night. So, verbal escalation and kino are great and are the mainstays of game since “The Game,” but I
would argue they're not the best ways to get the job done. Eye contact, proximity and touch could get you laid in France
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you can't speak her language? It's tough. You can jabber at her in English and even though she doesn't understand a word,
if you use eye contact, pauses, and proximity, she might still get carried away with you. Not saying it would happen often,
but it can and has. And forget about verbally escalating in that situation.

Why do I mention this? Because the first three things I wrote are basically the universal language of sexual tension. They
don't get rejected often (though if a girl doesn't like you she may avoid eye contact and she will move farther away).
These things work on everyone. They're easy to learn. And, maybe most important of all, they carry with them a subtle
implication that you're the real deal and you know what you're doing. That you ARE an inherently attractive person, you're
not just acting attractive. Anyone can (and does) try to touch women, and anyone can try to talk sexually. It means nothing.
Girls don't inherently and subconsciously trust those things, because they can just be an act. You can still be a giant creep
or a loser or a pussy who is just talking sexually and trying to touch her. In fact, that's what most creeps, losers, and pussies
do to her. BUT, the guys who are really attractive NEVER THINK to hold eye contact with her in conversational pauses,
to talk to her with eye contact and close proximity, to speak right into her ear so she can feel their breath, to speak slowly
while staring into her eyes. Her brain subconsciously assumes that any guy that does those things is the real deal. These are
often referred to as 'honest signs' or 'honest indicators' of an attractive, alpha male who is preselected. Things our brain
thinks it can trust because they're hard to fake. These are the ways to build attraction and sexual tension without getting
tested like crazy. She'll probably still test you, but she doesn't feel as much need to because she doesn't get that feeling like
you might just be acting. You're passing the tests before she needs them, in many ways.

If you don't believe me, watch “Rock of Ages” and pay very close to my favorite movie character of all time – Tom Cruise
who is 'Stacee Jaxx.' His character is the pure embodiment of sexual tension. The way he moves, the slow way he speaks,
his long pauses and intense eye contact. The way he cocks his head to the side and evaluates people (why qualify her when
the way you look at her implies qualification already? Why use false disqualifiers or negs when the way you look at her
with your head cocked to the side tells her without words that you're not sure about her and she might need to impress
you?). Stacee Jaxx IS honest indicators of sexual attractiveness. He IS sexual tension. Of course, Stacee Jaxx is NOT a
pickup artist because if you're not famous, a girl won't talk to you unless you're also fun and she's comfortable enough
around you. Ie, if Stacee Jaxx wasn't a famous rockstar, girls would run away from him in a bar even if he was incredibly
sexy. And he sure as hell can't stand in line at the supermarket or do regular people things. No, Stacee Jaxx is sexual
tension. Stacee Jaxx is something you should be able to channel in your interactions, even more than half the time. But
Stacee Jaxx can't approach a regular girl in a club, or make her feel comfortable about going back to his place.

Now, verbal sexualization has a couple important advantages. As Boulder my Lovesystems instructor friend showed me,
there are a few situations where verbal sexualization is better. First, text game. You don't have proximity, eye contact,
silent pauses, or kino in text game. Same with any online form of game. If you want to turn her on in texting, it's either
verbal sexualization, or sending suggestive pictures (I send a lot of suggestive pictures of other people. Basically artistic
photographs of sexual situations. A lot of testing has shown it's better not to send any of yourself, regardless of what you
look like, because it just keeps the tension high... If you're really attractive you can send some just of your face or maybe
shirtless doing something innocent like sailing).
Second, if you're on a date with a girl who is a sexual tension cutter. Despite what they think, girls don't have very good
game. Many girls will talk fast, avoid eye contact, fill in pauses, and not shut the fuck up on a date. Then they might sit on
the other side of a table from you, or too far away for kino or whatever.In fact, in the years since I originally wrote this
section, I've decided that girls have a subconscious drive to STOP game and being picked up. That way the strongest guys
are the only ones that can pick them up (strongest being in terms, basically, of game – which is an indicator of how alpha
they are, how easy the world is for them, and preselection). I design around that with my date choices (sitting in the grass
somewhere outside, for instance. Or playing pool and standing in front of their shots so they reach around me. Etc.)
However, sometimes they are dead set on going to their local favorite spot where they wind up sitting on the other side of a
table and subconsciously blocking other forms of building tension (this happened to me last night, if you can't tell). Then
you need verbal sexualization. Or you have to be really strong with the frame, take the floor speaking, and speak MUCH
slower than you would if you were in rapport with the frame she's in, including big pauses and such. That's hard. Ideally
you'll do a bit of both. If you wind up in that kind of a situation, verbal sexualization will save what would be an
interesting but friendly date with no sexuality and turn it into a good situation. (A Sexuation, if you will. Ha.). In this kind
of situation, like a date stuck across a table from each other where she keeps cutting sexual tension, INNUENDO IS
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you do that, you're subtly saying “Nope, we're here to flirt and feel things” and you should slowly subvert her not knowing
how to be on a date into the right vibe. Third, verbal game will help you out in a bar picking up girls who are unconscious
sexual tension cutters in bars. Some girls (especially in lower energy bars) will lean away from you, avoid intense eye
contact, and fill pauses in conversation excessively. That's when you start using innuendo and verbal sexualization to still
get her turned on. Generally if you're using the innuendo to stretch and stretch the tension, she'll start making more eye
contact with you as well, and then it will go the way you want. Or she'll move in closer, and you can talk with your lips
brushing her ear.

But, ultimately, you should be using eye contact and proximity wherever possible. Your brain barely has to think to use
those whenever you possibly can. The hardest thing is not breaking them and not talking too damn fast/much.

I know many of you are thinking “Eye contact is NOT going to suddenly fix my game. I've been out a lot, I make eye
contact, it's nonsense to think this could change anything.” That's not the point – I'm not saying “Make eye contact.” I'm
saying “Move your face 5 inches from hers and look deep into her eyes as you talk slowly” or “Stop talking for an
extended period of time and just stare into her eyes.” I'm sure you do make eye contact all the time. But very few of you
reading this probably do either of those with any regularity. And ESPECIALLY not early in set, and especially not with the
intention of steadily building up tension. That WILL change your game. I promise. I do it every set, every night (and every
day) and you can sit there and watch the gears turning in her mind if she doesn't look away to avoid the building tension.
Fuck eye contact, that's beginner stuff. I'm talking just about eye contact with pauses or at least very slow speech, or eye
contact with very close proximity.
It's as though you're saying beneath your words, “I might be talking, but I'm thinking about doing some very, very bad
things with you...” But since you didn't SAY it, she loves it.

By the end of this book, you'll see that girls primary drivers with guys are basically ALL based on tension. On void. On a
gap between what's desired and what's happening. Both the interactional tension I keep saying will get to later, and sexual
tension. The only other thing they substantially care about is being socially competitive – which we'll also get into in
depth.

There's also a very slight difference between making eye contact with INTENT during a regular conversation, even
without pauses or proximity, and regular eye contact. In a regular situation, guys will make very slight movements of their
eyes every so often, cut even what is generally prolonged eye contact for a split second here and there, and generally have
an interested look, not one of intent. If you take away those tiny, tiny gestures (which you wouldn't even notice yourself, or
think that she would), you can build a basic level of tension with eye contact even without pauses or proximity. But the
only way to build a large amount of tension is with extended pauses including intense eye contact, or with very tight
proximity with eye contact.
By the way, for the five of you that don't listen or read people very well rather than being the 'nice' guys that most of us
were, don't fucking STARE at girls. There's a slight movement to your face, a slight movement around your eyes when
you're creating sexual tension. You can see it in Stacee Jaxx from Rock of Ages. It's like a slight narrowing of your eyes
and a slight tug at your mouth into a grin.

There are three secrets to sexual tension when you're learning: 1) If you feel it, she feels it. In other words, you should feel
butterflies in your stomach or feel yourself getting turned on. If you don't, she doesn't either. Sexual tension is a two way
street. Future from Lovesystems said if you're hard, she's wet – and while I didn't entirely believe him at first, it's pretty
fucking true. Again, crass – but accept the fact that we're human and that's what this is all about whether you like it or not.
You should be trying to stretch the sexual tension until she's wet, which means you're hard. 2) If you try something out on
your guy friend, it should feel gay. Talk to your guy friend during the day with proximity – the point where you're close
enough to feel gay is when you're close enough to have sexual tension. Try it again at night in the club, you'll notice it
doesn't feel gay until you're much closer because you're used to people being close at night. 3) Don't fucking break it! She
should back down from it first, not you – that's a good general rule. Do I always follow that? Maybe not. But if I did, it
would work well. If you're building tension and you break eye contact because you get nervous before it gets 'too much',
you're fucking up. You could've built more and gotten farther and now you've cracked and shown her you can't handle it. If
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missile, not a pussy who escapes it.

It's SUPER important to know that HUMOR CUTS SEXUAL TENSION!! So if you're in the middle of building sexual
tension, don't start joking around. And if she starts joking, you might want to ignore it. Sometimes girls start cutting the
tension for you. That might be a cue that you need to back off and build it more in a minute, or it might be her being
nervous or not knowing what to do. I'm not saying don't be funny, I'm saying build the sexual tension for a while until it's
reaches the level you want it at for the moment, THEN joke around. Then go back to building tension and build it to the
new level you want it at. Eventually, she might know she wants you and you can joke around for longer. But if you just
joke around from there on, you'll ruin the tension eventually. Sexual tension is cut by humor. Remember that. And don't go
out and do 10 seconds of building tension, 10 seconds of joking, 10 more seconds of building tension, 10 seconds of
joking. That's A) nervous and B) not going to get you anywhere. If anything, it might be 2 minutes of joking, 4 minutes of
sexual tension, 2 minutes of joking, 5 minutes of sexual tension, 30 seconds of joking, 3 minutes of tension, 5 minutes of
joking. Also, we'll get to this throughout the book – but 'joking' really just has a specific purpose in game. So where I'm
saying joking there, really I mean 'building interactional tension.' You need to give enough time to build things. And don't
take those numbers as any kind of rule, I made them up. But I assure you that 10 seconds and 10 seconds is too much
jumping around and cutting tension.

NOTE: We're all taught to tease in game. Teasing DOES NOT create sexual tension, unless it's teasing about something
romantic/sexual. Teasing DOES create interactional tension between the two of you, but it's like a sparring tension. Like
we're having fun battling each other. But it does NOT turn her on. It's not sexual tension. Which means it's basically
leading to energy, not directly to sex. Additionally, some girls don't like to be teased. I find if she doesn't like to be teased,
she will still respond to me being cocky. They're flip sides of the same coin. Teasing is playfully knocking her down. Some
girls laugh or play along. Some girls get offended. Some girls just do not like it and walk away or shut down. Can you
really blame the girls that just don't like it? Sure, they're not being fun, but who likes to be knocked down? That's why you
can be cocky funny instead, which is playfully building yourself up. Both of them basically make it so that you're “cooler”
than her (by knocking her down or building yourself up), but cocky funny doesn't threaten her or push her down at all so
far fewer girls have any sort of negative response. Anyway, teasing generally doesn't create sexual tension. It's not directly
contributing to you getting laid, it's just helping to keep her interacting with you in a fun way. This is something we'll
evaluate a bunch late in the second volume.

THE “SECRET”: At some point, not too long into the set (let's say between 1 and 5 minutes in), you need to take the
sexual tension you started with the above and have to cross it over to a level high enough that it motivates action. Most of
you reading this are good enough at game that you know if you get a girl really turned on, almost any girl, they will start
ripping your clothes off or biting you or grabbing your dick or something. Some girls only do that after you've hooked up a
time or two so they're comfortable. And not all girls do all of those things, but generally speaking almost all girls have that
mode where they're turned on enough to start pulling things along. My point is that you can get almost any girl feeling in
this way. So... You need to get that going in your interaction, and while the eye contact and everything will get your sexual
tension started and get you going down the proper road, you need to cross over to where she's ready for it to be on. There's
not a lot of ways to do this that can be fairly smoothly done in a bar.
Much later we'll talk about the concept of 'micro-commitments.' Effectively, you need her to take some real world actions
BASED on that emotion she has. The emotion will fade, but she'll reverse justify doing things like moving around the
bar/club with you; kissing you; sitting down with you; giving you a neck massage or vice versa (RSD Madison likes to
have the girl do the neck massage to him, so she's investing), and so on. A large part of what you want to do is trade in
those emotions for these micro-commitments. Another simple one can even be calling her your new wife or various forms
of that.
Another thing you can do is verbal sexualization, but you still risk having that rejected, and it's a somewhat difficult
skillset to get good at. It can also lead her to feeling 'slutty' and then could bar her from coming home with you. Another,
my favorite (and a bit of a secret), is to SPEAK INTO HER EAR SO SHE CAN FEEL YOUR BREATH ON HER EAR.
Right into her ear. It's actually best if your lips brush her ear- think of it like kissing her neck, but you have this excuse that
it's not intentional. This triggers sexual tension via proximity, but there's an important reason I recommend doing exactly
this one thing. In a bar or club environment, the music makes it so you have to talk closely. All it takes is some balls and
pushing your comfort zone to get right in her ear to the point she can actually feel your breath. Speak slowly. And it will

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build the sexual tension to the point where she's quite horny and isolation in the venue, making out, leaving, etc. virtually
volunteer themselves. Then build as many 'real world' actions as you can.

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Why do I think (know) sexual tension is SO important?

You're probably wondering why I'm talking so much about sexual tension, and why I'm talking about it first. Because it's
usually a glossed over footnote, considered one of 20 elements of game. And usually considered a lesser element. But
think about it – most people who wind up in game do not wind up with really great game. But a few wind up standing out.
What's the difference? They by and large read and watch the same things, go to the same bootcamps, even wing each other.
So how do a few wind up so good? They were born with it or are naturally predisposed? No – I've seen enough in my life
to tell you that that is blatantly stupid. We can discuss that more throughout the book, not now. The answer is simply that
they do one or more things that other people in game don't do. Think about it – when we all basically read the same things,
are taught in the same ways, and even game next to each other, how could a few people wind up doing something
differently that gives so much more success? It has to be something that's NOT stressed that much in what we're taught.
So, let's look at the best people that I've watched game quite a bit. Venture. Funny when he wants to be, but by and large
his game is dominated by piercing gazes, long pauses, and an intent and leading style. Joseph Dieguez. Absolutely
hilarious, often goes off on tangents just to crack himself and the guys he's out gaming with up, even if the girl could care
less. But when he's with a girl he really likes, you watch a gear shift, things slow down, and intensity rise. The best guy on
my year of Rockstar. Too much energy half the time, but horny as crap, laser-like eye contact, and always always always
talking about something sexual. RSD Julien. Gets jaw dropping responses left and right, always subtly fucking with the
girl, many pauses and looking around the room- he generally is playing at a slightly different tactic. Four very different
guys with very different styles, but two commonalities between all three. 1) They're all horny as fuck. Those four guys
have a sex drive like you wouldn't believe. Or at least did at the height of their game, some of them are more chill now.
But that's not the key, because we have another friend who makes them all look innocent and his game is nothing above
average. 2) They all bring a huge amount of sexuality, they all build tension to huge degrees (the first three all sexual
tension, Julien more interactional), and at some point you watch each of the four of them move to intense eye contact, and
slower rhythm.
On top of that, we have celebrities as an example. How many comedians seem to get laid a lot? How many recent
comedians are (or have been) seen as sex symbols? One – Dane Cook. If humor was the key to getting women, wouldn't
the guys that make a job of it get a lot of women? Now think of who are our sex symbols- Channing Tatum. Ryan Gosling.
Pierce Brosnan. Johnny Depp. Brad Pitt. Each of them cheeky at times, none of them hilarious. Ever. They're all brooding
and intense a good amount of the time. A couple of them are frequently just light hearted about things. Now think of
romantic scenes in movies. Intensity, anticipation, heavy eye contact, building until it snaps. It's not a long string of laughs
until everyone's naked. Sometimes it's light-hearted and fun and games until the intensity sparks and builds.
The reality is, being hilarious has its place... At the very beginning of interactions for a short period of time to get people to
loosen up, and going into logistical moves... To get people to loosen up. Something we'll also go over in more depth later.

Next, we have my own experiences. I've been in more than a few interactions where I was just in the zone being awesome
and funny. The girls I was talking to couldn't breathe, or they would grab their friends and tell them they HAD to meet me
because I was so funny, whatever. I wasn't being the age-old dancing monkey because I never do that, it's not me. And
usually I was even being cocky about it. And basically all of those girls disappeared without a trace. Nothing came of it.
On the other hand, the times that I've built up a ridiculous amount of sexual tension have ALWAYS gone somewhere. At
the least an intense makeout, or a solid phone number, or a pull that got messed up by a whiny friend or something. Almost
all my interactions where I was on fire hilarious just dissipated. But just about NONE of the interactions that were packed
with sexual tension ever just wafted away in the wind. Often the girls in those interactions HELPED me make something
happen out of it.
So – why does everyone learn game in terms of teasing and fun routines and energy and witty lines and blah blah blah?
Because that's how you grab a girl's attention and keep it in a stimulation filled environment. Does it work? Obviously –
the entire gaming industry is built around it. Everyone tells you not to be Mr. Serious, that's seen as the biggest no-no (and
I agree). But the majority of the people who are learning from this industry still don't have the game they wish they had. So
the model's obviously not complete. Why? Well, think about it. If I worked my day job with a hot girl and more or less
knew what I was doing, I'd probably hook up with her (or date her, or whatever) eventually. Just because I had so much

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time around her to work on things. THAT'S what's going on with the current model everyone uses to teach game – be fun
and energetic and she'll stay around long enough that you should be able to escalate and eventually things will happen.
That's the model you learned. That's the model that has you feeling stuck and reading my long-ass book. That, and the fact
that there's an entire world going on right in front of your face when you speak to a girl that you're not even aware of and
you've never even been taught... Sexual comfort, interactional tension, how you treat logic and how that makes her feel
loose or constrained, social competition, how you view your own brain, how you view reality, the framing effects of
rhythm, keys to leadership, micro-commitments, counter-intuitive psychology, self sabotage, adding energy and enjoying
what you say, you have to feel it first, the role of gaming with your face, how to have insane confidence... We're going to
go into a LOT of crucial things you've likely heard little or even nothing about. Many topics in this book came directly
from people like RSD Tyler D, RSD Julien, Joseph Dieguez, Venture from Lovesystems, Future from Lovesystems, RSD
Luke and more... Others come from the video products of guys like RSD Madison and even old school guys like Mystery
and David DeAngelo. We're going to put ALL of their stuff together and it WON'T seem like they disagree any more or
teach completely different stuff by the time you read the last page. But some concepts, like interactional tension and sexual
comfort and loosening – those are real world things that I'm introducing as concepts and explaining for the first time ever
here. You won't hear about them anywhere else, unless this book has been out several years and the information is
spreading, like what happened when I first wrote about sexual tension in 2012. Yet several of these concepts are almost as
crucial to game as sexual tension. And no one talks about them or even realizes that they're concepts. See why you might
not be getting the results you want??

Now, think about what I said before that. The guys that are best in game, the guys that are sex symbols in Hollywood, and
my own best interactions – it all revolves around intense sexual tension. At the very, very least 'tension' – but basically all
sexual tension. However, sexual tension is always breezed over in game. So if the guys that wind up particularly excellent
in game are doing something different than everyone else, something that isn't stressed much in game so that most game
guys wind up not focusing on it... All signs point to sexual tension as the key to higher levels of game. And that has very
much been my own experience. In fact, over the years I would focus more or less on sexual tension based on if I was
trying to learn or figure out another concept. Guess when I would have the best results? In times when I was most focused
on sexual tension. Sometimes obsessively so. At one point I was trying to get the first kiss within 5 minutes of opening in
every interaction. I believe one night for the first time in my life I kissed three 8s in one night, not in the 'flash game' style
where you run up and say a couple things and go “You'll never see me again” and get a token kiss that means nothing. But
actual kisses. The only issue with doing that was that the girl's friends would often turn around and be horrified that she
was about to, or already was, kissing this guy that literally just appeared a second ago and didn't even talk to them. I had to
learn to observe the friends better, say hi to them and get them to like me if they even seemed slightly annoyed, and to
make sure not so many girls got yanked away from me. Sadly, while learning to do that I wound up overcompensating
even until today, and that has reduced how much sexual tension I use. Relatively speaking, it took me a LONG time to get
more results than I was during my five minutes to kiss phase, and I had to become like 5x better at the rest of game to do
it... Ultimately bringing back that crazy sexual tension while using the rest of what I got very advanced at in the rest of
game is the best answer. You can effectively measure your results by how often you bring sexual tension to the point that
you're hard in your interactions, and how quickly you're getting there (while not ignoring the friends altogether).

Right now, the game industry wants you to make it so girls don't want to leave your side until they hopefully are open to
you escalating and then either wind up at your place or on a date with you. But shouldn't they WANT you to escalate them
before you do? Shouldn't they want to wind up on a date with you if nothing happens that night, and want the date to end
'well'? It would make a lot more sense if game revolved around getting girls to a point where they wanted you and helped
make it happen, rather than 'building compliance' and 'escalating,' right? Don't you think you'd have a lot more success if
the girl you were talking to was dying to wind up at your place, rather than you just hoping you didn't screw things up until
she somehow just followed you home? You would, and guys like Venture and Joseph Dieguez do. That's sexual tension.
Making her want SEX with YOU. Not just making her have a good time, making her laugh, making her comfortable,
making her want to stay around you. But making her want to have sex with you.

Don't you think that girls are pretty intelligent and self motivated humans, just like you? Sure they're emotional and they
tend to go with the flow. But if they really want something, whether it's to get the fuck away from you, or to have sex with
you, don't you think they'd actually contribute a lot to that happening? So really, this whole idea that game is based on a
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she wants you badly enough to do something about it. That's all well and good, and a lot of times that's how things will be.
But trust me, if you were Ryan Gosling that same girl you're trying to subtly escalate and keep energy up with and isolate
and blah-blah-blah would be working hard to drag you into a corner or invite you to go somewhere else. And if she wanted
you badly enough, she would be doing the same thing even if you weren't Ryan Gosling.
That's sexual tension.

I don't care if you have a more conservative view and only want to date, or aren't interested in SNL's (Same Night Lays –
some of this terminology is going out of style. It's a one night stand except you likely want to see her again). Anything
from dating to SNL's revolves around one thing – sex. Take the sex out and you just have friends spending time together.
So why would you think that the best way to game is to tease her and make her laugh and remove validation and make her
interested in your conversation and make her comfortable and on and on? No, the best way to game is to make her want
the one thing that it all revolves around – sex. And THEN to work out everything else around it. That's the vibe of your sex
symbol that every girl is out there fantasizing about. The Leonardo Dicaprio or Ryan Gosling or Johnny Depp. Why are
you different?

Think about 'the friend zone' that girls put so many guys in. Sure, you're not worried about that because your game is way
past that point. But think about what it is – it's the guys that a girl likes that she doesn't want to have sex with. Now, take
your 'pickup artist' who uses humor and good energy and social knowledge and interesting routines and removal of
validation by teasing or other means and demonstrating attractive features about himself. All of that basically makes him a
likable person who MIGHT be someone she'd want to have sex with. Said another way, he now has just made himself an
attractive likable person. Really you could argue that if the friend zone is for guys she doesn't want to have sex with, a
traditional pickup artist has done all of that work just to put himself in a gray area – where he's someone she MIGHT want
to have sex with. None of that directly, without any doubt makes her want to have sex with him. Then he hopes to escalate,
and he hopes THAT will make her want to have sex with him. But think about that – basically he wants to start the process
of building towards sex before she necessarily wants to have sex with him- hoping that it will cause her to want to have
sex with him. Sounds like a process that might fail a lot, right? Shouldn't she want to have sex with him, and THEN he can
escalate. Because she really wants him to? That's sexual tension. What I'm saying is that you can do everything that normal
game sources have taught you to do, and you only wind up in a gray area.
The guys that build sexual tension do so well because they directly make the girl want to have sex with them. They're not
in the gray area. They're in the girl's “I want you, so just don't fuck it up” area. And that's a much more reliable and high
success rate place to be in, I think we all can see that. Once they have enough sexual tension, the game is just not making
her uncomfortable and working out logistics. Their game is just making it work out. Every other 'pickup' guy is still
working as hard as he can right until the end, and often failing, and the guys who are building a lot of sexual tension are
just trying to work out how to get her alone. They're playing a different game. They're playing first to get the tension, then
just to find a logistical way to let it work itself out. It's a simpler formula – Step 1, get her attention. Step 2, keep her
attention long enough to build sexual tension. Step 3, work out logistics/prevent something from breaking the two of you
apart before logistics are good.
The point is, sexual tension IS THE DIRECT ROUTE to success in game. Everything else you've learned in game is a way
to keep her around for more time. Sexual tension is the ONLY thing that directly makes her want to reach the end goal
with you. Don't believe me? Read some of Joseph Dieguez's stuff – he's had girls go tell their friends they were leaving
with him, drag him outside, and hail the cab. That's sexual tension. Humor won't get you that.
I've gotten that too, actually, and all from sexual tension.

We have a friend who brings girls back to his place from the bar ALL THE TIME, like every night he goes out just about.
And more than 80% of the time, NOTHING HAPPENS between him and those girls. Not even a kiss. No joke. And I'm
not talking about watching this happen 5 times or ten times, it happens dozens and dozens of times. Why? How? Because
he uses fun and laughter and energy and the promise of a party and alcohol to get girls to come to his place. He's a master
at it. He does it all the time. But there is NO sexual tension between him and the girls whatsoever. None. Zip, zero, nada.
So they are not going for sex in any way, shape or form. And then, even with them drinking IN HIS APARTMENT,
nothing happens at all more than 80% of the time. So that's your extreme example – you can get girls back to your place
over and over and over by using good logistics, humor, energy and leadership. Basically doing the vast majority of things
right. But still very rarely get anywhere because of the lack of one key ingredient – sexual tension. (By the way, I'm not
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multiple times and he realizes it, but he just doesn't want to make the changes to his style). It's actually so pronounced an
effect that even when I've been at his house numerous times when this has happened, I've never even kissed any of those
girls – why? Because they're there for reasons so OPPOSITE of sex that they get uncomfortable and they often become
hard to even game when you're all in an apartment together at the end of the night. It almost makes it harder. On the other
hand, I've pulled girls where I wasn't particularly witty or special at all, simply because I had TONS of sexual tension. I
remember one time in particular, I had NOTHING to say to this girl at a bar in Austin. So I put my forehead against hers,
and just started REAAALLLY slowly saying the worst shit you can imagine. Like a straight up newbie interview. And she
kissed me and hit me up for a while texting, though it ultimately never turned into another date. Sexual tension the often
ignored ingredient that can really change your game. Seriously. And that's why you're reading this – you know there must
be a few things that aren't quite there for you that you need to really get where you want to be. There are. Sexual tension is
the first. By the last page of the second volume you're going to be stunned you never knew all of this existed, you will
immediately know most of it is correct and has been in front of your face the ENTIRE time, and you'll wonder why the
FUCK no one ever talked about it.

Now, if you talk to your favorite guy who's great at game, they might not even realize the importance of sexual tension in
their own game! They might think that they kill it because of the whole package of all the pieces of their game. Which they
do, it's true. And they want to value everything they've put so much effort into learning. But I'd bet my bottom dollar it's
their sexual tension that makes their game something you respect so much, even if they themselves don't put so much
weight on that aspect.
So – most likely if your game isn't where you want it to be and you're reading this, you don't build enough sexual tension.
How much is enough? It's never enough. Unless you build it too high in advance of her feeling like you're a safe person to
be around, in which case she might feel uncomfortable feeling those things about someone she's not necessarily
comfortable around, and leave. But you're not likely to have that problem any time soon.

All of that to say that if you have some game experience and you start adding tons of sexual tension to your game, that
alone will probably get you on the move towards finally having the level of success you want. The rest of this basically
goes along in support of the sexual tension.

One note based on a message I received after showing this section to a few people – the sexual tension really has to reach a
point where it's abnormal. As in, she doesn't feel that level of tension very often. The best measure is the blue collar one,
did you get hard? You want abnormal results? Then your interactions need to involve abnormal levels of emotions.
Particularly sexual tension. This is important because it's VERY EASY (ie, I do it more often than not still) to
subconsciously hold sexual tension at a simmer, rather than getting it to where it's about to boil over. Why? Because in
some ways you feel like a social violator by doing that. You also feel like shit's about to go down. So you keep it in check.
She may or may not do some things to keep it the same way, depending on where her head's at.

Ultimately, where sexual tension motivates consistent action is if you can get it to a stage where it's a burning feeling at the
forefront of her mind that she wants resolved. That won't always be possible, and you'll have success with far less... But
really you want it to be in that area that's almost unsettling. You need to learn to live there, to make it your home. To love
to be a social violator in terms of sexual tension. You should think “I want it to be weird” “I want there to be so much
tension that it's a bit uncomfortable.”

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If You find Yourself Conflicted About Sex Still

I think to some extent or another, we all do. Guys like Tyler D from RSD talk like they're not conflicted about sex any
more. But I think even he is.
For the rest of you (and me for quite some time), there's probably a lot of conflict in you about sex. Is it a big deal? How
do girls think of it? How big of a deal is sex to women in their desire to date a guy? What's the story about sex?

My opinion on these things is vastly different now than it once was. But I will say this- Watch the show 'Slutever' from
Vice. The whole first season. That shit is sometimes fascinating, and sometimes uncomfortable as hell. The chick goes and
interviews people with all kinds of weird sexual tendencies and fetishes. She looks into some weird, weird shit. And also

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some more normal things, like people that use marijuana products with sex. But after watching it and seeing how common
weird fucking sex shit is, and how crazy strange some of it is, I think you'll come to accept sexuality more. It helps you see
that women just see sex as this natural thing in their lives, but a thing they like to have somewhat private so that it can
retain some mystery. Seeing the crazy ass shit out there, from my experience, helps you understand how universal wanting
sex and to be stimulated by others is.

This is one thing I don't fully understand. Let me just say, if you're still like “what the fuck does all this sex and
relationship stuff mean and how do women relate with it,” then find Slutever on iTunes or something and watch it. You
might fucking hate learning some of it – in all honesty – but I think you'll understand better afterwards. After possibly
being a bit scarred first.

The thing about meeting women is that guys seem to have no clue how integral sexuality is to women. For guys, everyone
says we think about sex all the time. For some of us, yes, for a lot of us I don't even think that's true. I don't even fully
know how to describe it. I think I would say that for guys, the things we're interested in and the things we like to do are
completely integral to us. Like that shit that we love to do matters. We define ourselves off it. You can't take it away from
us.
For women, I think that's sexuality. Based on all of my experiences. They think sexuality is an integral part of them on the
level where if you take it away, they feel like they're just not complete any more. Because it's that fucking integral to
women, that shit just gets complicated. They're particular about it, but it's not that big of a deal in some ways because it's a
constant part of them, but it is a big deal because it's so central. In all honesty, who knows exactly how to describe this
shit. But every extra bit you understand it, I promise your success WILL go up.

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What are the Volumes of the Book?

To put it simply:

Volume 1: I set a goal two pull at least two girls who were 8.5 or hotter in a month. Volume 1 is a COMPLETE
roadmap for how you can do that. I wrote it as I did it, so unlike every other product out there it doesn't miss anything by
being written off memory. It has EVERYTHING you need to do it yourself. Want to date 24 girls who are 8.5, 9, or 10
THIS YEAR? Then I'm pretty fucking confident under fifty bucks is the deal of the mother fucking century.

Volume 2: How to reach Mastery level. As in, as good as any instructor in the world. I don't know how to express this
– everyone else in the game industry is just trying to sell you shit. I'm literally not, I spend all my time building businesses
totally unrelated to game. I wrote this shit as I tackled massive game goals myself, then released it when I was confident
that I'd reached them. I just put out what it took to get there. I don't need to bullshit. If anything, I'm trying to undersell or
it'll sound completely absurd. The second volume describes how guys like Lovesystems Venture and RSD Julien do what
they do – in detail, piece by piece, leaving nothing out... So that you can do it too. If you want to one day be as good as
Julien or RSD Tyler or RSD Madison or Venture, Volume 2 tells you EXACTLY how. The whole point was to leave
nothing out. In fact I had a lot of obnoxious nights where I wrote all fucking night trying to get this book out because I
refused to just cut out sections I knew were necessary in order to get the thing out the door. In any case, the second volume
is about making it so you can just “see” game in the air, you can just feel it, it becomes intuitive, it gets to where you can
just game at an advanced level without hardly thinking about it, and game at a mastery level by consistently going out and
practicing. Right now I work all day every day, and maybe take 20 minutes to warm up before going out 2-3 weeks in a
small town with only a few cute girls to talk to in an entire night... And yet I consistently game at an advanced level
anyway, at least having a shot to pull one of the two or three hottest girls out most nights. To do that while being so 'rusty'
is really unbelievable... That's the second volume. And to really be unparalleled while practicing HARD. After reading the
second volume, you'll never see the world the same way again. Everything will just make sense. That's not sales language.
If anything it's a somewhat cautious understatement.

By the end of reading both volumes, you really won't have any major game questions left. There won't be any more “Why
did this happen? What's going on there? What do I do about that?” It will just be a matter of getting yourself to execute.
This was just a tiny taste. It comes fast and hard, every section being very necessary – I cut out everything I possibly

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could. Every 20 pages or so you should have a “Holy shit!” moment throughout the book. If you've had any of those in this
preview, just know they come fast and hard throughout the book (no pun intended). And it only gets better, and better, and
better, and better as you read.

The most difficult thing about this is I want everyone that really deeply cares about their success with women to read this
book. I created this to prevent them from wasting thousands of hours of their time and years of their life. It's a gift from me
to everyone like me. But I don't really know how to preview for people the level of information within. It's just something
that's outside the realm of what 99% of people have ever seen before. Like I've said before, when I first saw RSD Tyler's
Blueprint Decoded, I was just plain floored. I was like “How the fuck could ANYTHING be that good? How could ANY
information be that powerful, that insightful, that different from anything I've ever seen before, that life changing?” I still,
to this day, marvel at the fact that everyone who's watched all of Blueprint Decoded has told me it LITERALLY changed
their lives. There's nothing else like that in human experience. If you haven't seen it, you can't fathom that something could
be like it. Just like eating at my favorite restaurant in the world in Spain – it's SO mind-blowingly earth shatteringly good
that I had to, no joke, stop and physically catch my breath THREE times during the meal. THREE. I think there's only a
handful of times food has EVER made me do that outside this one restaurant. If even a handful.
These things – that restaurant and Blueprint Decoded – are the product of pure obsession. They're the result of geniuses
spending YEARS working on something for the pure sake of creating perfection. As Tyler himself told me as we walked
out of his Hollywood Hills mansion at 6am after the last night of my bootcamp and I tried to convey to him that I have
friends who are billionaires and have multiple gold medals, but Blueprint Decoded was nonetheless one of the greatest
works of genius of any type I had EVER seen.

Knowledge on that level just isn't something you have a framework for understanding until you've seen it.
And I traveled the mother fucking planet for six mother fucking years spending all the money I had and all the fucking
time I had to fucking solve game. To write it ALL down. ALL the best knowledge from EVERYONE. The best knowledge
from Blueprint? It's IN HERE. The best knowledge RSD Julien has EVER dropped? It's IN HERE. The best knowledge
from RSD Madison and RSD Luke and Sterling and Venture from Lovesystems and Mystery and David D and Joseph
Dieguez and everyone else? It's ALL IN HERE. Then I tested it all to put it together, and in trying to assemble it all I had
to see levels PAST all of that best knowledge and come up with new theories and new pieces in order to assemble it. Guess
what? THOSE ARE IN HERE TOO!!!!
So this is the best of EVERYTHING that's out there on game and women, fused together, PLUS extra insights that go even
DEEPER in order to bring it together. There's insights in here on each major instructors game that are things they were
doing that even THEY didn't know that they did!!! In other words, their game is broken down BETTER here than they
could break it down themselves in many ways (not every way, that would be absurd). RSD Julien and Joseph Dieguez in
particular told me personally that I had insights on their own game that they never realized until I brought them up.

I don't know how to explain this to you. But for your own sake, just try it out. That's why the first volume is so fucking
cheap. Anyone who's read the whole thing would easily pay $10,000 if they had to choose between paying money and
having this book erased permanently from their memory. But you haven't read it – so you would never take that risk. Are
you wondering why there are massive donation links on the website? That's why. Because when you DO read it, you'll
understand and guys want to donate as a thank you to help me in my life for giving up six years to bring them this.
I'll be 110% fine if not one more soul ever reads this. It's changed enough lives, literally, by this point to have made the
effort worth it to me. I never intended to make a business off of this – I'm just trying to raise more money towards my tech
startup, and that's my only financial goal here. But your life will be VASTLY different if you do or don't read this.
VASTLY. That much I, and anyone who has read this, can guarantee.

It's like Blueprint Decoded. You can't imagine what you're about to learn and the effects it will have on your life until you
learn it and see for yourself. Until you read this, you just physically can't comprehend what I'm talking about. You'll just
need blind faith. You'll just have to go “You know what? Why the fuck not. I want to learn how all of those guys' game
goes together...” For your own sake, just give it ONE chance. The only problem you'll have is, like me, you'll wish like
HELL you had this fifteen years ago. I can't explain to you how many times a week I feel like I got punched in the gut and
think “MOTHER FUCKER. Why couldn't I just have grown up knowing this stuff. My life would be SO different.”
Or don't give it a chance. I mean, if you really don't want to join us and pay a few bucks as a token thank you for me
slicing off the best part of my life in order to bring you this... Then I suppose the rest of us will keep this info happily

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amongst ourselves. It's not like we really WANT more competition for the girls we enjoy. My goal is to give you enough
idea of what you COULD be in for that you can make an educated decision. Anyone that is like “Yeah, I could honestly
see how life changing that could be... But nah, I don't want to read it and I don't want to spend a few bucks on lessons
worth a thousand times the price...” well, alright bro. NBD. If that's your choice, this ain't for you – you're right. As long as
I did a decent job of laying it out there, and your choice isn't based off a lack of knowledge due to insufficient
communication on my part. As long as I didn't fail to adequately portray what you could've gotten and therefore failed you.
Then it's cool. If 1 million people tried to read this, I'd delete it from the face of the earth because I don't want my massive
competitive advantages to spread to everyone and eliminate the edge I have over just about everyone – because I damn
near put myself in the grave amassing that edge over six years. So I WANT those of you who are so skeptical or lazy to
legitimately comprehend the quality of the information here, but still say no, to pass. I WANT you to not read this. If that's
where you're at, I WANT you to go do something else. We can't have too many people read this. We can't. I'd never allow
it. But I'd also feel like a massive, massive dick if I didn't give the people that DO care a legitimate chance to get involved.
If anyone like me who wanted NOTHING more than to fix this area of their life at a VERY high level and was willing to
do anything to do so wound up reading this intro and then not buying this book because I didn't lay it out there, then that's
a good ass dude that I just failed and that would really hit me. That was someone I could've reached. That was a life that
could've gone the way the person living it desperately wanted and was willing to work for it. Those of you that
comprehend and don't care enough to go further, good! Please don't. But I hope I don't fail the few guys that REALLY care
by not saying enough and being arrogant and going “Well, it's clearly the best thing on game on the planet, so if no one
reads it, fuck 'em.” I've had that thought, trust me. A little Golum inside me right before I put the book out was in my ear
going “Don't let other people read that. You KILLED yourself to learn that shit. Keep it to yourself. Fuck 'em. Just keep it
to yourself.”
But you're reading this. So I sucked it up and decided I could let some people compete with me and it won't fuck anything
up for me. Just not too many hahaha.

So when you're telling other people about this book you found that changed everything for you... Please just tell the ones
that deserve it. Don't tell everyone. Some of those fuckers just don't deserve this shit. Some of them are douchebags or lazy
fucks and they just don't deserve to be handed something like this that easily. I never want to go to the club and see some
total jackass fucking killing it using my shit – that would annoy the hell out of me. I believe the world should be a positive,
giving place... But not everyone deserves shit like this. You gotta work for it. For real.

So for those of you that want to learn all of these topics we just discussed and more (interactional tension, sexual tension,
the true keys to opening, giving energy, enjoying what you say, the role of the face in game and opening and trust and
humor and..., sexual comfort, loosening, micro-alpha giveaways/never looking beta, stopping just about all self sabotage,
massive self confidence, the true structure of game, game with zero glass ceiling, ultra-simplified game still with no glass
ceiling, how to FEEL you way through any interaction like it's an inherent part of you...) - we'll go through all that in the
next two volumes of the book. I'd pay $50,000 easily if I could take this all back to younger me. I also paid $50,000 in
reality to learn all of this with all the programs, bootcamps, video products, travel, and more. So for 37 dollars per volume,
it's the steal of the fucking millenia. I thought about making it for free, but I never would've finished editing it (I liked
writing it, but editing is taking for FUCKING ever), you likely wouldn't take it seriously if it was free, and, most
importantly, I need the money to advertise it so the most people possible can benefit from it.
I will VERY BRIEFLY be doing some coaching while saving up for a startup company (we need $100k to get going). I've
ZERO interest in being a coach long term or competing with the other great coaches out there. However, having figured all
this shit out, I can quite certainly speed someone's game along at least as fast as anyone out there. Not because my game is
better than theirs, but because I can break absolutely anything down for you, and because my training techniques I
developed for myself are pretty insane. Since I don't want to compete with anyone else and I want to give the MOST
possible value, I'm not going to offer training in the same format as anyone else. I'm going to do week-long immersions
where you hang out with me from the afternoon all the way until after the bars close (or you pull) every night for 5-7 days
(you can choose which). This way I can create real change, get to know where you're coming from, and you can absorb
what I have to offer. Then if you want regular boot camps, I recommend HIGHLY RSD Julien, RSD Tyler, RSD Luke and
RSD Madison. As well as RSD Vegas Immersion. I'll probably only teach a few people in the next few months, then I'll be
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10500 dollars most other places (maybe more for Australia), and that includes me having to travel and stay for a week- the
deal is, you put together a group of people and all of you combined pay that. You can choose how many people you want.
If you don't know anyone, this is fucking game... Find and convince someone. Or do it privately. Just be aware if you bring
ten people, my attention is divided ten ways. My goal is for as many other people to live their twenties the way I wish I did
– with the game that I have right now and even better. If I can hang out with you for a week and make absolutely fucking
sure that happens, AWESOME!

As I developed this information and started finalizing a system that could get pretty much any normal guy the success they
really want with women, I started noticing HOW MANY guys were out at the nightclubs butchering 'game.' And I started
thinking maybe I shouldn't release this book at all. Maybe I should keep it a secret. I don't want everyone to run around
half-assed butchering my shit so it doesn't work any more. I've got it pretty damn good now that I developed all of this.
But at the same time, I want the guys that REALLY care, that REALLY want to have top, top, top results to have what they
need. So here's the deal – I was going to make this free. But no one takes seriously what they get for free, and then the
wrong people will read it and butcher it. I'm not going to put it in an easier form like videos or infield – I have really
excellent business interests that I'm NOT going to mix with attaching my face to this. I don't care if you don't think this
works because there isn't infield attached – if you're good enough to need this information, you'll see when you read it how
good the information is. Quite frankly, I don't want this to be more accessible to the masses than requiring you to read a
couple hundred pages and pay a small amount for them. Because the guy that's intermediate and REALLY wants to get
good will find this, he'll read it, he'll execute on it, and that guy deserves the results. That's the guy I want to help. That's
the guy I want to enable. And I don't honestly care about any other guys.

Word! Enjoy the rest of this mother fucking shit! Like I said, if you read through every page of both volumes, execute
HARD on it for a month, then can FaceTime me and look me in the eye and tell me this wasn't one of the three best things
you EVER read in your WHOLE LIFE – I'll give you your money back and throw in some more for wasting your time.
But that ain't gonna happen. This will be, WITHOUT DOUBT, one of the three best things you will EVER read. Not to
mention both volumes are 30 TIMES cheaper than the cheapest bootcamps out there. Ready to have a life that never looks
the same again? If you aren't, you better not move on to the first volume...

Otherwise – prepare to have your Game SOLVED.

www.Game-Solved.com

For bootcamps- In the last six months I have become, rather by accident, the best teacher in the world at getting guys
extremely rapid, massive improvements in their game. This is because of all the simplifying I've been doing at the
extreme mastery level (the stuff from the end of Volume 2 of Game Solved). This involves a simplified package of topics
including: Facial shifting (the KEY to having a girl open and light up properly), strong energy and full send, comfort is
dead – project making her safe, spikers on spikes, getting emotional movement and iterating to hooking/riding the pressure
wave, the six components that make up flirting and the four steps to getting sexual tension with ANY girl, etc. A couple of
these I ONLY teach to bootcamp students, almost all are in Game Solved volume 2. Anyway, I've simplified these into
something I can cover on the first night or two of a week long immersive bootcamp. This means for the entire week
you can DIRECTLY practicing mastery level, instructor level game in a simplified package, fully immersed. I've taken
bootcamps with Lovesystems (including 3 month full immersive project Rockstar) and RSD (RSD Tyler, RSD Julien –
twice, including his five day, RSD Vegas Immersion with Luke who offered me to instruct) and a lot more... My ability to
teach a week long full immersion bootcamp FAR exceeds how fast you'll learn anywhere else guaranteed. I got there by
accident, trying to improve my game, but if you're contemplating how you best spend your money and accelerate your
game to where you're living the life you want right now... I can finally, officially, say I can teach you everything you'd
learn from all of those other bootcamp options out there combined in one experience. You'd have to take 5 bootcamps and
spend the next 5-10 years of your life to learn what I would combine and teach you so that you don't have to go do that
yourself. All simplified so you'll learn it and get results faster than via any other option in the world.
But don't take my word for it... Just order and read Game Solved by e-mailing [email protected] and by the time
you're done, you'll see for yourself why that is the case.

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I've watched hundreds of guys game and fail to get what they want. Hundreds. The BIGGEST mistake they all make is
they buy into the marketing hype and they think if they just learn a little bit and go out for a year, they'll be getting the
results they want. It will come. They're convinced. So was I. That's the promise they want to give you so you get started...
Otherwise you might not start. The results you want will not just come via going out. Ever. You almost certainly want
the results that come with either mastery level or advanced level game. That usually takes 5 years of going out
SERIOUSLY, taking multiple bootcamps, watching dozens and dozens of RSD videos and products AT A MINIMUM.
And then I've watched dozens of guys do all that and never go beyond intermediate.

So, HERE ARE YOUR OPTIONS:

1) Believe that after watching some videos, maybe taking one bootcamp from someone else that's a 3 day introductory
where you're jammed in with 5 students learning beginner and intermediate stuff (aside from Project Rockstar and
RSD 5 day bootcamps, that's every bootcamp product out there – beginner and intermediate), you will achieve your
goals – which actually require advanced to mastery level game – in 1-2 years of just going out and practicing. [You
won't, I've never seen anyone do it. I saw ONE guy that interned full time with former RSD Todd and then assisted
full time with Vegas Immersion get there in 2 years of CONSTANT going out as a sidekick to top pros... Which is
NOT the process I just described you probably have been lured to believe in, AND he's the single outlier].
2) Go to 3 bootcamps, buy 3+ products, watch 40+ videos, game 4+ nights a week for the next 5 years.
3) Read a fucking book that, admittedly, is long. Take a single bootcamp with me. Keep working off of this book. And
get everything you would've gotten from 2 packaged into that process so that in 1.5-2 years you'll have more than
you would've gotten under #2 and everything you thought you'd get under #1 PLUS ten times more you would've
never gotten because I painstakingly did an overly obsessive amount of work to learn it all and then also to bring it
to you...

So... What's better? Saving THREE PLUS YEARS of your life and ALSO living those three years exponentially better
than you would've. Ensuring that you'll get there versus risking those five plus years and quite possibly never getting there.
Spending all that money and time only to come to the same conclusions I'll teach you here – except there's no WAY in five
years you'll learn 75% of what's in this book and what I can teach you in a bootcamp (most of this I learned in year 10
myself... When it all started coming together and after spending about $60k on bootcamps, travel and gaming).
OR
Buying and reading a long ass book so that you just are gifted that fucking knowledge. And then taking a bootcamp?

By the way, here's one thing no other instructors seem to want to talk about: The longer you spend learning game, the more
you ingrain into your brain that you're “not the kind of guy” to “get girls like that”. Every day you spend cementing that
into your head is making your journey exponentially harder. In fact, why do you think I learned so much about all of this to
write the world's best game book? Because I spent the first 6-7 years in game fucking stuck, which cemented all the worst
“I can't do this” shit into my brain, made everything SO difficult for me that by overcoming it all I had to study everything
so deeply that I learned more about game than everyone else and then wrote it all down so anyone could come along and in
a few months skip right to the top levels. But the longer you take to get the absolute best information and coaching you can
find, the more days you're welding and tattooing terrible thoughts into your brain which are becoming a monster you will
have to overcome. Then you take guys like RSD Julien or Lovesystem's Venture who quickly went straight to interning
with the best coaches in the world, got world class coaching IMMEDIATELY in their journeys, quickly became very good,
developed massive confidence early on, and then spiraled into being legends. Did I eventually reach legend status too? I've
been told that. My results certainly stack up against anyone while constantly spiraling upward at a rate that suggests one
day I might be the best in the world... Though who really knows. And my teaching and understanding have become the
best in the world and are really exploding. But because my journey took so long to get started, I still have to fight inner
doubts. Had I had this book available and just dove in at 21 years old when I started official 'game' (which I would have...
IF this had been available, rather than the Mystery Method which was sweet but terribly incomplete)... Well then I
would've become a cocky and wildly successful shit before reinforcing all these monsters in my head that I still have to
fight today. Am I a stronger person because of it? Yes. Will that pay off in business? Probably. Was it worth it on the
whole? No. You should get success as fast as possible so you don't have to fight your own brain later, because EVERY.
Single. Day. That you build your brain into a bigger hurdle, you are building the toughest obstacle you'll ever have to
unwind. FAR tougher than actual game itself.

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So get started now. Don't think you're 'doing enough'. Go as deep as you possibly can, execute like a mother fucker, do
whatever the fuck it takes to get the top success you possibly can (if you're not banging on my door or RSD Julien's door
or Lovesystem Venture's door or whatever right now, offering to follow us around and get us coffee for a year right now,
then you're on the slow road. If you think you're going to do it yourself from the mishmash of unorganized free YouTube
videos out there, you're just feeding a monster I guarantee you will regret for quite some time). Just dive in. I recommend
with all certainty in the world diving in via Game Solved, you'll find no better. But dive into something. I'll never know if
you dive into something else, but dive into SOMETHING and do it NOW. You might be able to wait, but you can't afford
to keep building up these bad beliefs. Believe me. I know you're thinking “Yeah... He's right... I'll do it next month after
this happens and that happens” or “He's talking to those other guys”. No. I'm talking to you, and I mean now. You'll read
20 examples of how I dove the fuck in and thanked myself eternally afterwards in all kinds of ways throughout the book.
I've never regretted forcing myself to dive in today. But I can list plenty of times I regretted NOT diving in. I'm sure you
can do the same. Take the damn leap.

Please note, because I have a real career in Silicon Valley, to increase anonymity I have turned off the checkout process on
the website. Just e-mail with what parts of the book you want and you can use PayPal/Venmo.
[email protected]

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