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Hijab is a woman\'s real beauty
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It often occurs to me that many of our
sisters in Islam are not properly
encouraged once they begin to observe
the requirements of Hijab. It may be
that a sister has been obliged to wear
the Hijab without truly pondering over
its superiority.
Perhaps she has reached the age of
puberty and her parents have
instructed her to wear it. Perhaps she
has recently accepted Islam and her
close companions have told her of its
obligation. Alternatively, perhaps her
husband has commanded her to wear
Hijab.
A sister who does not truly know the superiority of Hijab will always remain
envious of disbelieving women. Why? Because they observe these misguided
disbelievers attempting to look beautiful for all to see. Hence, the Muslim
woman then compares herself to that woman which causes her to feel
ashamed of her own Hijab.
Therefore, what follows is a reminder for my sisters in Islam. It is a reminder
of the true status of these so-called beautiful women. It is a reminder of the
excellence of the women who wear Hijab.
Excellent Qualities of Those who Wear Hijab:
It is well known that the Muslim woman is a creature of modesty. Allah loves
for our Muslim women to be shielded by their Hijab. It is their outer
protection from the decadence of this life. Allah's Messenger, sallallaahu
'alayhi wa sallam, (may Allah exalt his mention), said: "Allah is modest and
covering. He loves modesty and privacy." [Abu Daawood, An-Nasaa'i Al-
Bayhaqi, Ahmad].
Thus, as modesty is a quality that is loved by Allah, our sisters must take
comfort in knowing that they are modest and that they are not like those
women who show themselves off to the world. Such women will not be
shielded from Allah's Wrath. Allah's Messenger, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa
sallam, said: "Any woman who takes off her clothes in other than her
husband's home, has broken Allah's shield upon her." [Abu Daawood
and At-Tirmithi)
Therefore, we see that the Hijab of the Muslim woman is indeed part of
:
modesty. Modesty accompanies Eemaan (faith). That is why Allah's
Messenger, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: "Modesty is part of Eemaan
and Eemaan is in Paradise." [At-Tirmithi]. Also: "Modesty and Eemaan
are companions, when one goes away the other one goes away." [Al-
Haakim and others]
The Muslim women must know that the disbelieving women who beautify
themselves for the world to see possess no modesty, thus, they are void of any
Eemaan. Instead of looking to the latest fashion models for guidance, you
must look to the wives of the Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam.
Look at the regard for modesty that our mother, 'Aa'ishah, may Allah be
pleased with her, possessed even in the presence of the deceased; she said: "I
used to enter the room where the Messenger of Allah, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa
sallam, and my father (Abu Bakr), may Allah be pleased with him, were later
buried in without having my garment on me, saying it is only my husband
and my father. But when 'Umar bin al-Khattaab, may Allah be pleased with
him, was later buried in (the same place), I did not enter the room except that
I had my garment on being shy from 'Umar."
It can be quite difficult for the Muslim woman to go out wearing Hijab in a
society that mocks and torments her. Indeed, she may feel strange and out of
place. However, if she knows the status of those who are mocked by the
disbelievers, then she would continue to wear her Hijab with dignity.
Allah Says in His Book (what means): "Verily! The criminals used to laugh
at those who believed. And whenever they passed them, used to wink
at one another. And when they returned to their own people, they
would return jesting. When they saw them, they said: 'These have
indeed gone astray!' But they (disbelievers, sinners) had not been sent
as watchers over them (the believers). But on this Day those who
believe will laugh at the disbelievers. On (high) thrones, looking (at all
things). Are not the disbelievers paid (fully) for what they used to do?"
[Quran 83:29-36]
Allah's Words should serve as a support for you my dear sister. Also, take
comfort in being a stranger among these lewd and sinful women. Allah's
Messenger, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said (what means): "Islam began
as something strange, and it would revert to its (old position) of being
strange, so good news is for the strangers." [Muslim]
The Characteristics of the Exposed Women:
Instead of practicing the Hijab (covering), the disbelieving women expose
themselves, making a dazzling display of themselves for others. Such a
display is an attribute of ignorance. Allah Says in His Book (what means):
"And stay in your houses and do not display yourselves as you used
to during the times of ignorance." [Quran 33:33]
Allah's Messenger, sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam, said: "The best of your
women is the affectionate, the fertile, the comforting, the agreeable --
if they fear Allah. The most evil of your women are those who expose
and display themselves, and those who strut (to show off) and they
are the hypocrites. Those who enter al-Jannah (the Paradise) are like
the red beaked crow." [Al-Bayhaqi]. The simile of the red-beaked crow is
:
to show that those who enter Paradise will be as rare as this kind crow is rare.
We see from the above Aayah and Hadeeth that displaying oneself is indeed
unlawful. Further, it is a quality of the most evil of women! Therefore, do not
be envious of the disbelieving women. They only have this life to enjoy,
while the believing women will have Paradise. There is nothing in your Hijab
to be ashamed of, as it is the garment of the righteous and pious female
worshippers of Allah.
In order to truly show you how evil those women who expose themselves are,
let us ponder over the following statement of Allah's Messenger, sallallaahu
'alayhi wa sallam : "Of the people of Hell there are two whom I have
never seen, the one possessing whips like the tail of an ox and they
flog people with them. The second one, women who would be naked
in spite of their being dressed, who are seduced (to wrong paths) and
seduce others. Their hair is high like the humps of the camel. These
women would not enter Paradise, nor will they smell its fragrance,
although its fragrance can be sensed from such and such a distance."
[Muslim]
These women who expose themselves are common among us today. These
are women that even the Prophet, sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam, did not see!
Look around you and you will see those women who are clothed but naked!
Look at the hairstyles of the women who expose themselves -- are they not
high like the camel's hump?
Perhaps we are the first generation since the time of Aadam, may Allah exalt
his mention, to witness such women. If one ponders over photos taken thirty
to fifty years ago, one will see that the disbelieving women did not expose
themselves in the manner that their offspring do today! These women are
among the people of the Fire! Thus, how can you envy them?
Such lewd women will not even smell the fragrance of Paradise; so our
women must avoid their path.
Another lesson from the above hadeeth is that it confirms that what the
Prophet, sallallaahu ‘alayhi wa sallam, came with is indeed the truth! This is a
prophecy that has come to pass in front of our very eyes. Hence, will we
continue to envy these evil women, or should we be grateful to our Lord for
the Hijab, which brings modesty, which leads to Paradise?
To sum up, the Muslim woman should abandon all of the ways of the exposed
women, and adopt the ways of those who are modest through their love and
practice of the proper Islamic Hijab.
By: Salah Brooks
Wednesday 15-5-2013
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