Important Notes

The material here is for calculated purposes and is intended to provide helpful guidance.

I believe what's presented here will be helpful and poses no risk to any psychological damage to a
woman. As the creator of this program I can’t be held responsible for any error, omission, or
disagreement among your partner. As well for any upsetting reaction, damage, injury, infection, fatal
disease, or other adverse outcome as a result of applying the information or engaging in any activities
suggested in this method. Any use of the techniques that is suggested is at your own risk.
 “Value is love; real Love is Appreciation.

Something that will be built depending on your investment.”

Lord Ainsworth
Introduction
Thank you for allowing me to help you in this progress. My mission is to help you change the way you
treat, speak and communicate with women, both intellectually and sexually. I will be your guide to
seducing beautiful women; this as well as other reading material is composed for you.

The reading material plus our discussion will strengthen you in being successful. Don’t just depend on
just one, both are you to better understand the whole process. All the reading material that is provided
was designed as a step by step guide, do not think twice when encountering difficulty or in need of a
refreshment course, to check back and look back over any material. It was designed that way

Note: before you dive into this I need to clarify the following:

Women must be treated with respect, make sure you do not misuse this information to “Sleep Around”
and attempt to turn yourself into a “Player” as you might call it. Hurting people for the sake of sexual
exploitation is wrong, and using her because of some misguided views will never get you where you fully
want to be. Don’t do to women what you don’t want them to do to you, “Players” eventually end up
alone and miserable, despite the good times they had, so please – take this under consideration when
using any of The Dark Alpha Project methods, tactics, and strategy.

So with that let’s begin Part 3...

Most men will adamantly say women are irrational creatures. This may be true if you view it
from our perspective. However, if you look at it from her perspective, it will be like turning on
the lights in a dark room. To achieve this, you’ll need to consider three factors: the impact that
society has on women, how their brains are wired and how evolution affects their instincts.

A hundred years ago, women who had sex or children before or outside marriage were labeled as
whores. Some girls still grow up with “no sex before marriage” drilled into their heads by their
parents, religion and society for the most part directly or indirectly saying don’t be a ho. On the
other hand parents, and society find themselves encouraging a guy or who lays with a woman
every day is considered a “player and it’s okay.” Even religion in some aspects is okay with this
and have a conflict of interest about it. However, in our modern day and time and even after the
sexual revolution, a girl who does the same thing is called a “slut.”
Social restrictions remain with women throughout their lives due to the influence of friends,
colleagues and GUYS. Yes, you read it right: guys. We are also influenced by the world and
social expectations — as men do we want a woman to hold out on us on the first date or be able
to dive deep into her. This is a tricky question for us. We EXPECT them to not to. However, do
we want them to? That is the question.
A few years ago a 22-year-old girl I know gave a blow job to a classmate, with whom she was in
love with. The guy went around telling the whole campus about the blow job, and everyone
ridiculed the girl. If a girl gives herself to you on the first date, you won’t be able to escape the
thought that she has done this many times already. After all, if she’s not afraid she must be a
“slut,” right? That type belongs to the streets.

Too get a bit deeper in this matter, sex for women is a much bigger decision than it is for men.
They are giving themselves to you, not just physically, but emotionally as well. Most women
needs to open up emotionally to enjoy sex, not all. But there are a few who have to be there
mentally as well to enjoy it. Not to mention those who are talented and still can perform at a high
level not being there mentally and emotionally. A woman has to bypass certain thoughts that will
always surface in her mind in order to be able to relax and enjoy sex.

Let’s face it, this is social conditioning: she has to worry about the possibility of pregnancy,
something that never goes away. She questions if you really care about her, not love but do you
just care. She may even think about once it’s all over whose leaving first or most likely are you
the last option or someone she just needed to use you at the time. Whatever the case is, most
women need to feel totally safe and comfortable in your company before they can free
themselves from such worries.
Even when she can let go of these and other worries her social influences are wired so deeply
into her brain that she might not be able to have sex with a guy that she wants. Once I had a close
friend who was around 34 at the time and was brought up in a strict Christian household. She
tried to have sex with a guy she loved a few times but always ended up crying and being unable
to continue — just before the act. She had to marry someone she didn’t love, and ended up
divorcing him two years later to get rid of the whole “no sex before marriage” dogma planted
deep in her brain by her mother over the years.
There’s a term you need to know: “chick logic.” It’s supposed to mean that women might act
strange from a man’s rational viewpoint and seem totally illogical. That’s the definition; to
understand it, we have to consider the reasons described above. Chick logic is about looking for
approval from you and her friends and family member. In other words, she needs to rationalize
having sex. Here’s an example of chick logic in action:

A woman will often go out to a club with her friends to “have fun.” She doesn’t expect to find
“the One,” but she enjoys the attention and validation she gets from guys trying to pick her up.
She will quickly get drunk on all the free drinks she receives. And guess why her girlfriends are
there? To protect her from leaving with a guy. However, they’re not really protecting her from
the guys, but rather from herself.
If she has sex with a guy, she’ll be labeled a “slut” by either her girlfriends either joking or low
key hating and being serious or herself and even the guy. Still, she secretly wants to have sex!
And this is even trickier for her. If she leaves with a guy and he fucks her, she can say that she
“lost control,” or it was “all because of the alcohol” or “because her girlfriends didn’t protect her
well enough.” This way she can have sex without having to deal with her own guilt and her
girlfriend’s judgment for a while.

And do you know why she needs the alcohol? She needs it to bypass her LOGICAL BRAIN.
There’s great tension inside her when she’s about to have a one-night stand. Her body is getting
aroused and telling her to have sex, but her chick logic kicks in and says: “What are you doing?
You don’t even know this guy! Your friends will think you’re a slut! He might even be a stalker!
And what if you want something more lasting? This guy is so cute. You don’t want to seem like
a slut to him!”

Of course, when it happens, she won’t be thinking so clearly. But she will feel a DEEP URGE in
her guts to stop. This results in her saying, “No, we’re not having sex!” while rubbing her pussy
against your dick and moaning. If you can arouse her enough, her sexual instincts will bypass her
logical brain, and the gates will open wide.

There is also a common misconception that women don’t enjoy sex. They do. Let me put this
into your head in capital letters: WOMEN ENJOY SEX JUST AS MUCH AS MEN DO. Have
you ever heard a woman screaming during an orgasm? Believe me; they enjoy it a hundred times
more than we do, for many reasons. But if a woman feels you truly “match” and she is
comfortable in your company, she will never withhold sex. I don’t like using the term “real man”
but under the circumstances these types of men don’t knock women for their promiscuous
behavior. In a sense these types of men comprehend the unfair expectations and don’t live in a
fairy tale world. I would even go as far to say he might just like that she has promiscuous
behavior to a certain limit.
Apart from chick logic, there’s another big difference imposed on men and women by society;
which is the way we are brought up. So take this into account, and don’t blame them for it. No
thanks to those wonderful Disney films but from their early years, girls long to be like Cinderella
saved by that Prince Charming. They dream of romance every day.
Guys, on the other hand, play with toy cars and trucks, we dream of becoming football stars or a
rock star. We are fascinated by sports, competition and challenge. What do guys talk about?
Whose cars and trucks are bigger and better, who’s better at sports, whose favorite football star is
cooler, etc. Later, this becomes whose girl is hotter and who earns more.

Such kinds of competition attract women less. They play with Barbie dolls and dress like little
princesses or brides. They talk about whose Barbie is cuter and role-play with their dolls. During
their teens, they fantasize about their favorite pop stars or dream of falling in love. Later, this
turns into competition in the form of looks, bickering about their relationships and chatting about
the latest trends in fashion.
Instead of challenges, they are moved by relationships, fashion, romance and drama. At least,
most of them are. While you would rather watch sports or read a magazine about cars, your girl
watches love dramas and want to hold your hand, while you’d rather be having sex instead. You
will never be able to truly escape this conditioning. It’s a way of life.
Compare the way women are built to our body structure. They are generally shorter, thinner and
weaker, in other words, more fragile. Their most important genitals are inside their bodies: the
vagina, the womb, etc. We could say that men are donors (givers), women are acceptors
(receivers). During intercourse, they need to open up, not just physically, but emotionally as
well.
Just as nature has its cycles in the form of changing seasons, girls have theirs with their monthly
periods. Because of this and all of the above, they tend to focus more on the inside and listen to
their emotions. Women live somewhat in harmony with their emotions — much more so than we
do. Girls will often make decisions based on their feelings and not on rational thinking. That’s
why they seem so illogical at times.

Social expectations also appear in the form of looks. Women are required or expected to look
like supermodels — that’s what is planted into their minds by society even though society says
she looks great just being average. This causes women to be more sensitive emotionally, they
need constant validation from parents, friends and boyfriends. If she looks into a mirror, she will
instantly think, “Has my butt gotten bigger? Don’t I look fat in these pants? Is my cleavage tight
enough?”

It’s easy for a girl to get carried away into the ocean of her emotions. It’s like jumping on a roller
coaster not knowing where it’s going to stop. Women can easily make a big deal out of the
smallest things and tend to attribute certain problems they may arise to their looks. Furthermore,
girls can be very indecisive at times. Which clothes to wear, where to go, which film to see,
whether to leave her previous boyfriend or not — she can get lost among the emotional waves
quickly. As a result, she expects the Man (who is stronger and more resolute and confident) to
free her from this responsibility, to make the decisions himself and to guide her. I will cover
more on this during our session and in other chapters.
Although each and every woman is different, they have many traits in common, and their needs
change as they grow older. In their early 20s they are less experienced, and they are usually
looking for an older man. Many are moved by overwhelming emotions, excitement, adventure
and the feeling of danger.
It’s no wonder the type adventurers or bad boys, skaters and those living dangerous lifestyles
attract more chicks. Just as young people of both sexes do, they are seeking their identity and
happiness. Part of this involves getting short-term satisfaction from alcohol, drugs, cigarettes and
the adrenaline that a dangerous guy can inject into their lives.
As they grow older, their biological clocks start ticking, and they realize that if they want
children, they have until their mid-30s. Thus, they start looking for a man who can provide for
them and with whom they can create a family. Some girls get married in their mid- or late 20s,
then quickly get bored with marriage and the lack of exciting sex. Women develop their
sexuality over time, and their sex drive increases. Many of them are willing to cheat on their
husbands if he becomes complacent in the bedroom or overall.
These are rough generalizations. Different kinds of women respond to different kinds of male
characteristics and personality types. You don’t have to become a bad boy or live a dangerous
lifestyle to attract women. First, there are common manly traits to which most girls respond well
to. Second, you will decide the types of women that suit your personality the best and act in ways
to attract them.
If you’re an artist, you won’t have success with artistic girls by changing your personality and
becoming a bad boy. But, by developing manly traits in yourself and getting experience, you will
be able to attract the kinds of women you want. I am going to talk more about this later in the
E-book.

I’m sure you’ve watched the Discovery Channel once or twice and in the animal kingdom, there
is an interesting concept. In a herd of elephants, for example, there are many females, but only
one male, who sexes all of them. This is the alpha male. If another male wants to have sex with
the females, he has to challenge the alpha male which will results in a fight. Just putting this out
there but if you consider yourself an ALPHA MALE, you may have to challenge another male
for that female. I’m not saying you have to but I’m just saying but I digress.

Either the challenging male wins and takes the harem, or the alpha male remains in his position.
Females are designed to give birth to one or a few offspring at a time. A male can spread his
semen among the females in his herd and have many progeny. This process guarantees that the
offspring inherit the most powerful genes and that there is a strong alpha male to protect them.
How does this look when projected to us? During the Stone Age, women wanted a man who was
powerful enough to hunt down prey and protect the immediate family and the clan from danger.
Since then, values have changed. Women are looking for somebody to bring home money, take
care of the kids and provide for the whole family. Safety comes in the form of cash. Still all in all
many women are turned on by strong men. Why is this?

It’s because of basic instincts wired into us by evolution. Even though society changes, our
fundamentals stay with us. Basic social values, like attraction to money, come in the form of
thoughts. A woman may think, “I’m getting older; I need a man to settle down with.” She is even
willing to make a compromise and marry a less attractive male just to fulfill societal
expectations.
On the other hand, instincts come in the form of emotions. When she is with a strong male and
he puts his powerful arms around her, where she feels a sudden safety. She is not going to try to
explain it to herself; it’s just “good to be with him.”

Can you imagine a girl who’s about to get married going out with her girlfriends and ending up
in bed with a stranger, who fucks her without a condom? I don’t want to disillusion you, but this
has happened many times. I’ve seen players pull it off. And what’s more, you can’t even blame
the poor girl for it. It’s in her guts. She is about to get married to a guy who will provide for her.
Then a profound man comes and triggers such deep emotions in her that she can’t hold herself
back. Her instincts take over her body. She loses control. It’s something she hasn’t experienced
in quite a while or maybe ever. This is like a drug to all of us. If you don’t like women doing
this and think it’s okay for a man to do it. You are wrong. In many ways men and women are the
same when it comes down to certain things.

So, back to my point, what can we learn from this? A woman meets two kinds of guys in her life:
the providers and the so-called real Men. She will marry a provider and have sex with the real
Man. The real Man creates such powerful emotions in her with his presence that she is ready to
overcome social restrictions with him. And that’s what she is secretly longing for: her Prince
Charming appearing in the form of a Man. She waits for that moment to come for her entire life.

Regarding this, I have to tell you that WOMEN TEST MEN a lot. They will consciously create
certain situations to see how you react. A woman will always test how far she can go with you
and push to the limit. These tests are used to sort out the males who are not powerful enough and
to find a real Man. If you fall for it, you lose your chance.

But, if you act like a real Man, she will be instantly attracted to you and won’t care so much
about your looks — as long as you are neat and well groomed. There are many tests that women
use mostly to see if you act consistently within your frame of a Man. Some women test a lot;
some don’t test at all. It mostly depends on her personality, her experience and the number of
men she has dealt with.
The key to passing these tests is not to take it personally. Give the image that you are both the
provider and the real man. Show her that you can always have options and you’re not afraid to
act on them. One thing is fact and what I call the joker card, is how you know and she definitely
knows that her options are limited and risky. With experience, you will learn to recognize these
tests and pass them by reacting consistently.

Conclusion:
Women speak a different language. Their language is emotions and not just words. When talking
to a woman, use this knowledge to have a bigger effect. If you don’t understand her at times,
that's fine. She doesn’t expect you to because you’re a man. They get that part. But
unconsciously, because you’re a man you should get it. Somewhere deep hidden inside of her
mind she has flashbacks of her watching males growing up and not always freaking out, how he
was taught differently.
That it was all right, if he had a few females and in a way people would look the other way if he
was caught cheating. That it is perceived by many that he was cooler by him having multiple
women and even to some women, it may make him more attractive. In most cases he was able to
figure certain things out where it played towards his advantage.
She’s not looking at you to fully get it because you’re a man. However, and this goes back to her
fundamentals and mostly psychologically but she needs that presence of a man who can give her
that authoritarian but also someone who can relate to her. No matter what she does, she will get
some heat for it. Just because she’s a woman and she’s okay with that. It’s a part of her role as a
woman.
So she looks towards you, her man to get it just a bit. She looks at her man who has experience
in certain situations to understand and guide her. You have to go back and think about what you
just read and remember what she is facing. This will put you in a more understanding position.
You’re not going to attack her in a bad way like how society, and friends and family would. You
don’t have to think or say it’s her emotions. Which it may be but you don’t have to say it. But to
your credit you’re coming off as an ally and that male figure she needs.