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Communication
The word communication is derived from the Latin word “communis”
which means common.
Feedback
Decoding Receiver
Source Encoding Channel
Message Message
Message Message Message
Need for effective communication
How Business environment has changed over a period of time?
Concept of Globalization
Intercultural sensitivity, Diverse teams, Cross cultural working environments
Leadership skills (requirement and role of communication skills in it)
What do experts say?
Asian countries, consider English language proficiency as one of the
major criteria for the recruitment purpose (Ayokanmbi, 2011; Pratoomrat &
Rajprasit, 2014; Marina & Rajprasit, 2014).
Aspiring minds’ (2016) employability report: 17.91% of engineers are
employable for the software services sector, 3.67% for software products
Robert Hall International: 1,000 employers in the United States revealed
that 96% of the executives voiced the need of effective communication
skills to excel in career (Fisher, 1998).
The wall street Journal: leadership and communication skills most in
demand and necessary to stand out from the competition (Perry, 2002).
Classic miscommunication
examples
For sale: an antique desk suitable for ladies with thick legs and
large drawers.
Dog for sale: eats anything and is fond of children.
Used Cars: Why go elsewhere to be cheated? Come here first!
Role of perception in
communication
Ability to see
What we have seen in the past
What we are prepared to see
What we want to see
Importance of Feedback
We may say that communication has
occurred only when the message has been
understood.
Understanding occurs in the mind of the
receiver.
Feedback is critical to ensure that
accurate understanding of the message
has occurred.
Constructive and Destructive feedback
Constructive Destructive
tries to imrove the Derogatory
current situation. Hurting
positive and correct Harmful
tone of message.
e.g-The design needs e.g-This design is
to be reviewed from absolutely useless and
the practical angle impractical and lacks
attention to little
and minute issues. details.
Feedback
Some points while giving feedback:
Avoid giving bitter feedback directly
Look at areas that can be improved upon
Do not highlight the negative areas too much
Do not settle your personal scores while giving
feedback
Explain your limitations
Take time to give feedback
Feedback
Some points while receiving feedback:
Listen to the person and be more open to receive
feedback
Avoid giving justifications as much as possible
Focus on the key areas where you can improve
You may choose to ignore some of the feedback given
Feedback
Some ways to be more comfortable and confident
when receiving feedback:
Be open-minded
Look for the lesson
Ask clarifying questions
Ask for their advice
Suspend judgment: depersonalize it
Say thank you
Feedback at the Workplace
Feedback: Denotation and connotation
Constructive Feedback: Improve the current situation with the right
tone
Destructive Feedback: Derogatory and does more damage than
good
E.g. This report is useless and will not serve any purpose.
This report can be modified with better clarity and we need to work
on the content.
Consider while giving feedback
Avoid giving bitter feedback directly
E.g. Your performance at work has been very poor this year.
Your performance needs improvement from this year.
Cultural values
Hierarchy
Personal Space
Individuality
Physical and other Barriers
Noise
Filters
Failure of Communication channels
Receiver’s Barriers
Misunderstandings
Lack of interest
Physical and psychological distractions
Listener’s bias
Inability to comprehend
The seven C’s
Principles tells us how your message can
becomes effective for your target group.
better decision-making
When you talk to your client always use facts and figures
instead of generic or irrelevant information.
The following guidelines should help you to achieve
the Concreteness.
e.g
General
He is very intelligent student of class and stood first
in the class.
Concrete
Is that CLEAR???
In effective business communication the message
should be very much clear. So that reader can
understand it easily.
“A good check of your data is to have another person read and comment
on the validity of the material”
OTHERS
MYSELF
At the Beginning of a Relationship (left)
After a Closer Relationship Has Developed (right)
Self-disclosure is the
process by which people
expand the Open Area
vertically.
As relationships develop,
the open area should grow
Johari Window: Advantages
The Open Area is the ‘space’ where good communications
and cooperation occur, free from confusion, conflict and
misunderstanding.
Ego states
Transactions
Strokes and games
Life positions
Ego States
Berne believed that when we interact with other people,
our state of mind affects what happens
He believed that there were three states of mind in all
humans, no matter how old they were, called ego states.
ADULT
PARENT
CHILD
TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
Be intimidating or controlling
Recognizing the Parent State
A person in a NP stated is likely
Use a loving, caring, comforting or
concerned tone of voice
By
Navdeep Dhillon
School of Humanities and Social Sciences
Thapar Institute of Engineering and Technology
EGO STATES
TAUGHT concept of life.
Crossed transactions
Ulterior transactions
1.COMPLEMENTARY TRANSACTIONS
A complementary P P
transaction occurs when
a message sent from a A A
specific ego state, gets the
predicted response from
C C
a specific ego of the
respondent.
A: "Have you completed the
report?"
B: "Yes - I'm about to email it
to you.“
(This exchange was Adult to Adult)
A: "Would you like to skip this meeting and go P P
watch a film with me instead?"
A A
B: "I'd love to - I don't want to work anymore,
what should we go see?"
C C
(This exchange was Child to Child)
Eg -2
Scientist A- There may be some variables we
haven’t considered for this experiment.
Scientist B-So what, who cares around here.
3.ULTERIOR TRANSACTIONS
Ulterior transactions
always involve more
than one ego states.
WHEN AN ULTERIOR
MESSAGE IS SENT, IT
IS DISGUISED UNDER
a socially acceptable
transaction.
A: "Have you completed the
report?”
“You never finish your work on
time.”
Eg - Man: " Where have you hidden my cuff links
now?“
Eg- Car sales man: This is our finest sports car, but it
may be too racy for you.
4. Salesman: “This car has got everything you’d ever want from a
performance sports car, but it may be too expensive for you.”
Customer: “Well let’s give it a test drive.”
OPEN/CLOSED is the most obvious. People with arms folded and legs
crossed and bodies turned away are signalling that they are rejecting
messages. People showing open hands, fully facing you and both feet
planted on the ground are accepting them.
How these modes are expressed in posture and gestures varies from
culture to culture.
Gesture clusters for each of the positions i.e. responsive, reflective,
combative and fugitive are as below:
Responsive
EAGER (sprint position) READY TO AGREE
♦Open Legs closes papers
♦Feet under Chair Pen Down
♦On Toes Hands Flat on Table
♦Leaning Forward ENGAGED leaning forward
Open Body
Open Arms
Open Hands
Reflective
LISTENING with head EVALUATING : sucking
tilted glasses / pencil
Lots of Eye Contact Stroking Chin
Nodding Looking Up and Right
High Blink Rate Legs crossed in 4 pos.
Ankle on Knee
ATTENTIVE (standing)
Arms behind Back
Smile
Open Feet
Combative
LET ME SPEAK
finger tapping leaning forwards
Foot Tapping Finger Pointing
Staring Fists Clenched
Fugitive
BORED LET ME GO
Slumped Posture Looking Around
Doodling Buttoning Jacket
Foot Tapping REJECTION
Staring into space sitting/moving back
Arms Folded
Legs Crossed
Thigh on Knee
Head Down
Frown
Several gestures indicate
openness and sincerety.
Open hands,
unbuttoned coat or collar,
leaning slightly forward in the
chair,
removing coat or jacket,
uncrossing arms and legs,
moving closer.
When people are proud of what they
have done, they usually show their
hands quite openly.
When they are not often put their
hands into their pockets, or hide
back
When people show signals of
openness that means they are
generally beginning very comfortable
in your presence which is good.
People who are defensive usually
have
a rigid body,
arms or legs tightly crossed,
eyes glancing sideways or darting
occasionaly,
minimal eye contact,
lips pursed, fists clenched and
downcast head.
Evaluation gestures say that the
other person is being thoughtful
or is considering what you are
saying. Sometimes in a friendly
way sometimes in an unfriendly
way.
Typical evaluation gestures include:
tilted head,
hand to cheek,
leaning forward and
chin stroking.
These unproductive feelings
are usually conveyed by the
Drumming of fingers
Cupping the head in the
palm of the hand,
Foot swinging
Brushing or picking a lint
Looking at your watch or the
exit.
This is an emotion that you
love to see in other people
and they in you.
It is conveyed by
A small upper or inward smile,
Hands open and arms
extended outward,
Eyes wide an alert,
A lively and bouncy walk,
A lively and well-modulated
voice.
Handshakes
The knuckle Grinder
Dead fish
Double Handed Hand Shake
Elbow Grasp - The elbow grasp, transmits more feeling than the wrist hold, and
the shoulder hold.
-the wrist hold and the elbow grasp are acceptable only between close friends or
relatives.
Proxemics-Space Language
Intimate Zone
Only those who are emotionally close to that person are permitted to enter it.
This includes parents, spouse, children, close friends and relatives
Personal Zone
we stand from others at cocktail parties, office parties, social functions and friendly
gatherings.
Social Zone
We stand at this distance from strangers, the plumber or carpenter doing repairs
around our home, the postman, the local shopkeeper, the new employee at work and
people whom we do not know very well.
Public Zone
Whenever we address a large group of people, this is the comfortable distance at
which we choose to stand.
WHEN YOU INVADE MY SPACE
• Feel troubled
• Get defensive
• Become aggressive
• Retaliate
OCCULESICS
“Eyes are so transparent
that through them
one sees the soul”
• FORMAL GAZE
• INFORMAL GAZE
• PERSONAL GAZE
• LATERAL GAZE
PURPOSE FOR EYE CONTACT
• SPEAKING INFORMATION
• SHOWING ATTENTION AND INTEREST
• INVITING AND CONTROLLING INTERACTION
• DOMINEERING, THREATENING, INFLUENCING
OTHERS
• PROVIDING FEEDBACK DURING SPEECH
Too much eye contact: dominance, lack of respect,
threat, wish to insult
Too little eye contact: not paying attention, impolite,
insincere,shy
your audience.
•Voice
•Pitch variation
monotones fail to keep listener’s attention
People in authority or When excited speak in high
pitched voice
•Speaking Speed
Fluency in language is not the same thing as the
speed of speaking
present easy parts of message at a brisk pace and
difficult, complicated parts at slower pace.
In state of anxiety, urgency we speak fast and when
relaxed at a comfortable speed.
Volume Variation
Familiar Words:
Examples: I fail to contemplate what makes me vulnerable
to such dispiriting behaviour of the management. My
contemporaries who on the other hand have been
mediocre, have been bestowed with better rewards.
Garrulous: Talkative
Pertinent: relevant
Concurrent: Simultaneous
Disseminating info: giving info
Avoid SMS language
Choosing the Right Words
Contd..
Simple Words
Pursuit Search
Audacity Courage
Anomaly Irregularity
Apropos regarding
Anguish pain
Alacrity eagerness
Choosing the Right Words
Contd..
Concise Words:
We Lost money last year
Our losses were rs 100000 last year.
The Employee turnover was significant.
The Employee turnover was 10%.
Lets meet next week.
Lets meet next Monday at 10 am.
Choosing the Right Words
Contd..
Unbiased words
Gender:
E.g. If an employee violates the internet security policy, he
is liable to be terminated.
A violation of the internet security policy will lead to
termination.
Race or Religion:
My assistant who is a Tamilian, is really hardworking
Disability: Physically handicapped Mary is a good
employee.
Age bias: Young people in the office have spoilt the
work culture.
Few more points to remember
Restrict the use of negative words
E.g. This kind of callous and indifferent behavior is not
expected of you.
Company expects more commitment and better conduct
from you.
Use Right Set of Words
His attitude on the issue of discrimination is noteworthy.
He has completely wrong attitude about himself.
His attitude towards work should be more positive.
Forming Correct Sentence
Core ideas put together logically
Step 1: Collect all the information
Raja has worked in the company for quite a few years.
He has decided to quit the company and we have
decided to give him a farewell this month-end. We
may plan a gift for him.
Forming Correct Sentence
Step2: Plan What You Want to Write:
Kumar is very hard working. He has been absent for
last couple of days. This is due to his bad health. His
performance has also come down.
Kumar has been absent for the last three days due to
his bad health. Although an extremely hard worker, he
has not been able to maintain his performance levels
like before.
Kumar is extremely hardworking; however, he has not
been performing like before. Due to his bad health, he
is absent for the last three days.
Forming Correct Sentence
Step 3 Construct the Sentence:
Should not be too long or choppy
The employee turnover for the year 2009-10 has been
extremely high with over 2500 employees leaving the
company which may have been higher than the
previous years.
The employee turnover for the year 2009-10 has been
extremely high. Many employees have left the
organization. This is higher than the previous year.
Forming Correct Sentence
The restaurant served excellent food. It was only two
years old.
football. On other days, I also get to watch football but not all day. There are
mine because I eat with my father in front of the TV. All the other days, I
have to eat at the table which is less fun. Some days my dad doesn’t make it
home from work until after I’m in bed. Some weeks my dad travels, and I
don’t see him for several days. The highlight of the day is when we watch
the Dolphins play. Dad and I get so excited, we yell and cheer together. The
Self Study
Communication in an Organization
External
Formal
Informal
Flow of Information
Upward
Downward
Horizontal
Diagonal and Cross Communication
A document with a objective of persuading a target
audience about an issue,product,or process
•internal-within organizations.
Logical plan
Stress upon the benefits
Illustrate your suitability
Give statement of qualification.
Make the proposal attractive
Error free
Do not make reader search for information.
Checklist
Understand why you are writing the proposal
Divide proposal text into sections and subsections
Check for standard templates
Use the persuasive approach.
Stick to the template while responding to
RFPs(request for proposal)
RESUME WRITING
RESUME WRITING
By
Navdeep Dhillon
School of Humanities and Social Sciences
Thapar Institute of Engineering and
Technology
What is a resume?
A resume is a
personal summary of your
professional history and
qualifications.
It includes information
about your career goals,
education,workexperience,
activities, honors, and any
special skills customized
to the target job
Difference between Resume, Curriculum vitae
(CV) and a bio data
Resume: An outline of what you are, does not list all the details,
showcases specific skills customized the target job.
CV: Contains details related to education and life, has more in depth
details than a Resume, covers general talent rather than specific skills
for any specific position.
Bio data: Short form for Biographical Data, an archaic term for
Resume or CV, the focus is on personal particulars like name, gender,
date of birth, religion, race, nationality, residence, marital status etc.
used while applying for immigration to another country.
A good resume
- Clarity
- Precision
- Honesty
General Guidelines
Length: It is best to limit an entry-level resume to one
typed page. Be as concise as possible in stating
information in each section of your resume.
References
List names and contact information of 2-3 referees who know you and
your work in sufficient details
Bad example: Good example:
Address: 57 Residency Greens Rahul Srivastav
New Delhi 57 Residency Greens, New Delhi
Tel: 07900xxxxx Mob: 079 33xxxxx
Email:coolguy007@hotmail. com Email: [email protected]
DoB: 27 February 1985
Nationality: British
Gender: Male
Marital-status: Single
Objective:
I am a hard-working individual who enjoys working. I am excellent
at meeting deadlines. I have two years of experience in business and
I would like to contribute to a business with my excellent skills and
past work experience.
(Bad example)
(Good example)
Rahul Srivastav
57 Residency Greens, New Delhi
Mob: 079 33xxxxx
Email: [email protected]
Objective: To obtain entry- level position as a trainee engineer with Orient Technologies, allowing me to utilize my
education and internship experience while gaining valuable work experience in a team oriented environment.
Education
Listed in reverse chronological order
Degree in Subject,
Institution,
Date
Specialization
Education and qualifications
Bad example:
1991 – 1992 Collingham Gardens Nursery
1992 – 1996 Stamford Primary School
1996 – 2002 Hall Green Secondary School
2002 – 2004 A-Levels Sandwell Sixth Form College
• English: A*
• Mathematics: C
• Biology: B
• Geography: A
• Business: C
October 2004 – June 2007 UCB, Birmingham BSc Psychology
Education and qualifications
Good example:
Education and Training
2009 – 2013 BSc Computer Science (Hons) Aston University
1st Class Degree with Professional Placement
Relevant Modules:
Professional and Social Aspects of Computing (73%)
Data Modelling and Database Systems (59%)
Understanding Information Systems (93%)
Information Security (67%)
Human-Computer Interaction (80%)
Objective: To obtain entry- level position as a trainee engineer with Orient Technologies, allowing me to utilize my
education and internship experience while gaining valuable work experience in a team oriented environment.
Education: 2009 – 2013 BSc Computer Science (Hons), Aston University, 8.5/10 CGPA
Relevant Modules: Professional and Social Aspects of Computing (73%)
Data Modelling and Database Systems (59%)
Understanding Information Systems (93%)
Information Security (67%)
Human-Computer Interaction (80%)
2007 – 2009 BTEC National Diploma in IT, Hall Green College (Grade Achieved: Triple Distinction)
2000 – 2007 Bournville Secondary School (8 GCSEs at grades A*–C.
Work Experience
Listed in reverse chronological order
Dates of employment
Position occupied
Chief responsibilities
Achievements
Hobbies and interests
Keep it short and to the point (maximum 2-3 lines)
Be specific
Don’t list down your interests- describe them in paragraph
Keep it real and don’t exaggerate
Full name
Designation
Affiliation
Email
Phone number
Mr Evan
Tesco Birmingham, West Midlands, B55 1KE, United Kingdom, Europe,
World, Universe.
Tel: 078 4320 3833
E-mail: [email protected]
Bad Example
Well placed white space can help the reader’s eye move across
the paper
Remember in your
RESUME, you
mentioned swimming
as your hobby ... See
you tomorrow at work
@ 7.AM sharp
Remember
A resume does not get you a job…
January 5, 2002
Dear Sir,
I am applying for your training program in the area of marketing research. I learned of this position through Career
Services at Morningside College.
Your training program requires experience in marketing. I am graduating in May 2000 with a Bachelor of Science
degree in business administration and an emphasis in marketing. In addition, I have work-related experience in the
area of marketing. During the past four years, I have worked part-time for an advertising agency. In this capacity, I
have had responsibilities for editing and market research. Also, as a volunteer with United Way, I have coordinated
campaign materials. Please see my enclosed resume for more details on my qualifications.
I believe my course work, part time employment, and volunteer activities make me an excellent candidate for your
training program in market research. Further, I am greatly enthused about a career in market research and in
working for Dynamics Corporation.
Please consider my request for a personal interview to discuss my qualifications further. I shall call you next week to
see if a meeting can be arranged. Should you need to reach me, please feel free to call at (712) 277-3953. Thank you for
your time and consideration. I look forward to talking with you.
Sincerely,
Iwannajob Jones
“ Enclosure: resume”
Resume Curriculum Vitae (CV)
Emphasize skills Emphasizes academic
Used when applying for a position accomplishments
in industry, non-profit, and public used when applying for positions in
sector academia, fellowships and grants
Is no longer than 2 pages, with an Length depends upon experience
additional page for publications and includes a complete list of
and/or poster presentations if publications, posters, and
highly relevant to the job presentations
After 1 year of industry experience, Always begins with education and
lead with work experience and place can include name of advisor and
education section at the or near the dissertation title or summary (see
end, depending upon qualifications examples). Also used for
merit/tenure review and sabbatical
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