Development Two To Three Years
Development Two To Three Years
CHILDREN'S
grasp, and as children approach three
years of age, they will begin to use a
more mature grip (between the thumb
Written by Kristin Zolten, M.A. & Nicholas Long, Ph.D., Department of Pediatrics, University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences
Artwork by Scott Snider
©1997, 2006 Page 1
have a vocabulary of about 900 words,
and they will speak in sentences of Toilet Training
three to four words. Many will begin to
use pronouns, including the personal Between the ages of two and a half to
pronoun “I.” Most children will be able three years, most children develop
to repeat short rhymes and sing short better control over their bowels and
songs. bladder. By this time, most children are
able to verbalize their toileting needs.
Highlights in Some children may be in full control of
Social/Emotional Development their bowel movements, but will
probably still need help with wiping.
Negativism, which usually begins
sometime after fourteen months of age, Children become toilet trained at a wide
is still present in many children during variety of ages. It is important that
the period from two to three years. parents not be too disappointed if their
Temper tantrums are quite common children develop bladder and bowel
during this time. Most children this age control later than other children. Some
assert their independence by saying children simply develop these abilities
“no,” by throwing temper tantrums, and later than others. Patience and
by demonstrating stubbornness. This understanding on the part of parents
negativism is a normal and important will make toilet training an easier
part of development. This is simply how process for all involved.
children let the world know that they
have ideas of their own, and that they
want to make some decisions for
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of their two to three year old children,
because if they react too strongly to
these rebellions, they run the risk of
reinforcing rather than discouraging the
negativism.
Written by Kristin Zolten, M.A. & Nicholas Long, Ph.D., Department of Pediatrics, University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences
Artwork by Scott Snider
©1997, 2006 Page 2