Introduction

This project is meant to serve as a holistic psychological and philosophical tool to bring peace to minds.
With great effort, I had reached realizations which I believe to be profound in bestowing greater meaning
to the human experience and so begin to eradicate conflict, confusion, frustration and many other
destructive mind modes.
This is my most subtle attempt to teach what I have learned in hopes of fulfilling parts of my own purpose
as I serve humanity as best as I can by gifting the valuable lessons I gained from suffering.
In my anger fueled youth, I died many mind deaths, standing in my own fire, aggressively smashing into all
of my preset mental barriers in attempt to escape myself. It was a chaotic mess of embarrassing failures
shrouded in a dark mess of emotional outburst, such necessary exercise which was paramount to starting
my journey. I can describe my first 30 years of life as an angry child, stomping wildly into darkness driven
only by an undisclosed desire for purpose and acceptance. Early on in life, I felt instinctively that I
possessed a certain emotive quality and a divergent perspective which I could not recognize in anybody
else. The notion of feeling different in such a big way to other people caused me to become withdrawn, shy
and quiet. Much of my pre-teen life was spent in isolation, exploring my own thoughts and birthed my
idiosyncratic creativity.
Very recently I had arrived at a mind mode which allowed me the benefit of filtering information
responsibly within the bounds of logic which still adhere to my truth without guilt or remorse of sharing it.
My fear of sharing harmful, pseudo and bias ideals kept my writing far from the public eye until now.
Presently I can confidently share my findings and conclusions and bind myself to its consequences.
Words poses concealed power to potentially create or destroy those who accept it in absolution. After
countless written pages and decades of self-torment, thanks to my stubborn obsession with
comprehension, I finally touched the surface of Nirvana. I humbly admit that I have much left to learn but
finally I know that life is not just a curse to suffer. Throughout my journey, I had to reevaluate my collected
learning and dump heaps of corrupt information from my mind library which crippled my ego time and
again. Eventually my ego eased up and graced me with its periodical absence so that I could lovingly
express my profound truth, notably but unapologetically to the annoyance of others.
When the gap between your happiness and that of others widen enough, it really bothers them.
Regardless, I stay true to my pursuit and brutally express my state of bliss. I am not responsible for how
others feel about me, if they want what I have, I do my best to share with them. How people receive my
gifts depend on them. I easily absolve myself of any responsibility toward them if they prove to be
apprehensive. My time is better spent in service of hungry souls.
The Human Condition

By now, you have surely experienced terrible pain and suffering at the hands of others. You felt betrayal,
heartbreak, grief, helplessness, shame, abuse and the rest of the lower spectrum of human experience.
These things have bent your enthusiasm and dulled your light, it made you care less and love less.
Just so, you have done unspeakable things to others too. The guilt and shame you carry around had
become heavy. I know that monster well. In efforts to redeem a sense of self-worth, you punish yourself in
very creative and extreme ways. That is a futile exercise.
The only effective cure for your affliction is to forgive yourself. The only condition is that you change and
leave those vices behind you.
In the interest of building yourself, learning to practice self-love becomes a great tool for transformation
and in turn translate to your interactions with others. Empathy is a practice that demand constant attention
to perfect. A prevalent sign of strong character shows up in not only how you treat others but also the level
of respect you attribute yourself. Healthy boundaries can only benefit your cause and it will let people
know that you won’t tolerate disrespect. Demand what you give and accept nothing less as long as you
from a place of humility, not arrogance. Those who yearn for betterment are magnetically attracted to you
if your character shine. Even introverts become social when true confidence is built this way. On the other
hand, it puts fear into those with malicious intent. Cowards avoid interacting with those who live their
truth. Truth is the slayer of serpents. Your inner truth systematically shapes your environment and so, with
little effort, your quality of life improves in leaps and bounds.
Become. Thrive. Inspire.
This is the most difficult thing you’ll ever do. My greatest inspiration is the realization that nothing is more
important than becoming whole and true. First become, from this point onward, you can achieve anything.
A few years of self-conditioning is a small price to pay for living a lifetime free of fear.
A warning to the excellent students of this path: often, even your closest compadres and admirers might
shy away from you. Novice learners still suffer guilt, self-doubt and mental tribulations heavily. Your leaps of
growth may intimidate their unattended demons. Give them time and treat them with a non-judgmental
softness. Let them know that temporary weakness is a part of the human experience. Your words of
comfort have the power to inspire a leap of faith. A great student surpasses the notions of fear and regret.
The choices you make that are anchored in your truth need no justification or apologies. Any consequences
derived from these choices hold no power over your mind mode.
Not even by threats of death will you stutter. Self-awareness is immovable and you wield great power. Your
courage is a sharp diamond; awe inspiring and oblivious to weak criticism. A lion is not bothered by a
barking dog. You need not react to taunts; insecurity isn’t part of your reality.
Be kind but stand your ground.
Your new found state of mental bliss will tempt you become the savior of humanity. Sadly, very few are
ready or willing to walk this path. They can’t see past their fear, no matter how hard you try to show them
the light. Their preprogrammed limitations will label you a fraud.
Your students will find you when they are ready. Have no expectations of them but praise their progress.
The Human Story

My way of perceiving people can be explained by imagining each person as a story that form part of a
larger book. Each person has a unique human experience that unfold their story along their journey of life. I
had come to understand that judgement contribute no value to the book or to anybody’s story.
When I recognize an opportunity to enter another story, I intend to leave an excellent impression not for
the sake of the story but to inspire a proverbial reader.
This ideal afford me the ability to show up in kindness for others, set an example of unconditional love and
plant seeds of hope in dark spaces without any expectation of reward or recognition. The thought of my
rumbustious appearance to the reader is a thrilling motivator and quickly it becomes an addictive pleasure.
As the protagonist of my story, I insist on playing my part with great poise and portray my character as a
courageous hero with extreme depth and a heart ablaze with vicious love.

Here is a simple technique that I’ve developed for councilors, teachers, referees, judges or any entity acting
as a mediator between opposing individuals of representatives of opposed groups in order to resolve
conflict and reach an agreement.

Conflict Analysis Technique