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Modi’s Moment
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TERRORISM
Resurgence of
Global Mayhem
While the world watches Gaza, ISIS is gaining
strength and momentum, building networks
and preparing for strikes worldwide
by TO M O ’CO N N O R
“Food is the most important school supply.” ▸ P.16
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Periscope TERRORISM
on issues of counterterrorism, told from Eastern Turkestan, to Tajikistan, DEATH AND DESTRUCTION Clockwise
Newsweek, “but rather something Uzbekistan, Azerbaijan,” the author from top left: Suspected Islamic State
members in jail in Hasakeh, Syria, in
that ISIS-K has been planning wrote. “It extends to Chechnya and
2019; fleeing ISIS members set aflame
through a multipronged approach Dagestan, and from Turkey to as far oil wells in Al Qayyarah, Iraq, in 2016; a
since a few years.” as Andalus and the Middle Eastern relative of Islamic State members at al-
countries, Pakistan, Afghanistan, Hol camp in Syria in 2019; and a car bomb
From France to India and so much more...” explodes in a reported ISIS suicide attack
near the Turkey-Syria border in 2014.
China and Beyond The article went on to delineate
ISIS has never been shy about its inter- one border of the self-proclaimed
national ambitions, but its Khorasan caliphate in southern France; another prominently featured Supreme Leader
branch has been particularly vocal in between Indonesia and Australia; a Ali Khamenei of Iran, where ISIS-K
conveying preparations to expand its third between Russia’s Turkic- and claimed the deadliest attack in the
campaign. In an article in the March Muslim-majority neighbors in Cen- 45-year history of the Islamic Republic
edition of ISIS-K’s Voice of Khurasan tral Asia, which have long struggled just weeks earlier in the city of Kerman.
magazine, published before the attack with Islamist separatists; and China’s ISIS-K messaging has lashed out
on Moscow, the group said that the Xinjiang region, where ISIS-K has at a wide array of foes, including U.S.
“territory of Islam is never limited to sought to rekindle a Uyghur insur- Presidents Donald Trump and Joe
Afghanistan, but it is much wider.” gency in support of an independent, Biden, Chinese President Xi Jinping,
“The land of Islam is the one that Islamist East Turkestan. Russian President Vladimir Putin,
the Muslims gained with their sacri- The cover story of this particu- as well as leaders of Hamas and,
fices, which covers the Africa, starts lar edition of the ISIS-K publication especially, the Taliban, from which
placed a target on President Recep the group has sought to sap legiti-
Tayyip Erdogan of Turkey, where the macy and manpower.
MUSICAL CHAIRS Iraqi forces south
of Mosul in 2016 after they liberated
group claimed a deadly assault on a
it from Islamic State jihadis. ISIS Roman Catholic church in Istanbul The Graveyard of Empires
then regrouped in Afghanistan. in late January. The previous edition While Afghanistan may not be the
extent of ISIS-K’s reach, it does appear
to be the base of operations. The
group first took hold in the war-torn
country during its rapid rise in the
neighboring Middle East a decade ago
and clashed with both the U.S.-backed
Afghan government and the Taliban.
By the time ISIS’ original strong-
holds in Iraq and Syria fell to an
array of separate campaigns waged
by local forces backed by a U.S.-coali-
tion, Russia and Iran, the group had
already begun laying the ground-
work for a transition to focusing on
Afghanistan. This country has been
long referred to as “the graveyard of
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so with assurances that the Taliban of ‘internationalizing’ its agenda— multilingual propaganda campaign,
would continue the fight against which appears to have resonated which positioned ISIS-K as the prin-
militant groups such as Al-Qaeda directly with audiences throughout cipal regional and global antagonist
CLOCKWISE FROM TOP LEFT: FADEL SENNA/AFP/GETTY; CHRIS MCGRATH/GETTY;
and ISIS. But the now-ruling Islamic South and Central Asia but also those to repressive regimes.”
Emirate has struggled to contain the further afar,” professor Jadoon said. Colin Clarke, a senior research
spreading threat, despite an active “This strategy is underscored by its fellow at the New York-based Sou-
counterinsurgency campaign. fan Center who has also frequently
ISIS-K saw off departing U.S. troops worked with U.S. officials on counter-
GIUSEPPE CACACE/AFP/GETTY; GOKHAN SAHIN/GETTY
“Following the
Kabul’s Hamid Karzai International ISIS-K’s growing presence in Afghani-
Airport, killing 13 U.S. servicemem- stan as a key factor fueling its rise.
bers and around 170 Afghan civilians. Taliban’s takeover “The Taliban are the only counter-
The group quickly mobilized to take
[in Afghanistan], terrorism force attempting to con-
its agenda.”
“Following the Taliban’s takeover, govern the entire country,” Clarke
ISIS-K activated its ambitious strategy said. “The Taliban were effective
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insurgents; they are far less effective unprecedented foreign military in other ISIS-vulnerable areas such as
as a counterinsurgent force.” intervention in support of Syrian the increasingly active frontlines of
Now, Clarke warned that ISIS-K President Bashar al-Assad against Africa’s Sahel region.
poses a “significant threat” and that rebels, some of whom were backed Owing to Russia’s geopolitical sig-
both its attacks and plots from the by Washington, amid ISIS’ expansion nificance, its large Muslim population
Middle East to Europe demonstrate in 2015. Both U.S. and Russian troops and the clash between ISIS’ ultracon-
that the group “still very much has the remain in Syria in support of oppos- servative Islamist ideology and Putin’s
intent to launch attacks, along with, it ing goals to this day, and Moscow has traditional Russian Orthodox Chris-
seems, a growing capability to do so.” only doubled down on its influence tian leanings, the jihadis have long
had Moscow in their sights.
The Kremlin and the White “Russia has been a top priority
House in the Crosshairs enemy for the Islamic State since its
The relationship between Washing- “What is clear is that early days,” Lucas Webber, co-founder
ton, Moscow and Islamist groups the Islamic State of the Militant Wire research net-
is complicated, dating back to the
retains the intent and work, told Newsweek. “In 2014, former
capabilities to direct
final acts of the Cold War. When the caliph Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi named
Soviet Union sought to save a satellite Russia as a primary foe alongside
government in Afghanistan through external operations— the United States.”
direct military intervention in 1979, on a significant scale.” “Russia has attracted the attention
the U.S. moved to counter the Kremlin
by backing a broad coalition of insur-
gents who would ultimately emerge
victorious after a decade, with the
USSR collapsing just two years later.
These mujahideen devolved into
infighting that gave rise to the Taliban
and Al-Qaeda. After the 9/11 attacks of
2001, orchestrated by Al-Qaeda leader
and Afghan-Soviet war veteran Osama
bin Laden, the U.S. would launch its
longest-ever war against Afghanistan,
where Al-Qaeda was being harbored
by the Taliban. Putin, not yet halfway
through his first term in office, was
the first foreign leader to offer con-
dolences to the White House over the
historic attack on U.S. soil.
Unlike the U.S., however, Russia’s
war against Islamists has always been
closer to home. Over the past three
decades, Russia has waged two wars
against Islamist Chechen separatists
on its own territory and has sought to
support allied former Soviet repub-
lics cracking down on jihadi activity
in Central Asia.
Eyeing the rise of Islamist militants
after U.S.-led interventions in Iraq
and Libya, Moscow conducted an
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of IS through its military intervention
in Syria and across Africa, its rela-
tions with the Taliban and several
other policies,” Webber added. “Mos-
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P OV E RT Y
The States
Keeping Their
Children Hungry
The Summer Electronic Benefit Transfer could
help feed millions of children in households
experiencing food insecurity, yet 13 states
have declined to participate in the program
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HUNGER PAIN A woman and two children costs. Other governors have said they
leave a food bank in Brooklyn, New
don’t want to continue with pandem-
York. Summer EBT will give low-income
families $120 per child for groceries.
ic-era aid, while some have expressed
they don’t have faith in the federal
government to administer the pro-
Mississippi, Oklahoma, South Carolina, gram. Still, the states that will not
South Dakota, Texas and Wyoming. participate have faced criticism.
On the January 1 deadline for the Some, like Iowa, already have their
program, Louisiana was run by Gov- own state-run benefits programs for
ernor John Bel Edwards, a Democrat, those struggling with the means
who stood down from his post over to feed their children. But poverty
the new year. The Louisiana governor experts and advocacy groups have
is now Republican Jeff Landry. laid the blame on political beliefs.
After initially declining to par- “South Carolina is one of 15 states
ticipate due to administrative costs, proudly rejecting new federal fund-
Vermont has tentatively joined ing from the USDA that would help
the program after requesting a feed hungry children over the sum-
waiver from the USDA that would mer,” Dr. Annie Andrews, CEO of
allow the state to administer the fed- Their Future, Our Vote, told News-
eral benefit without having to adhere week prior to the U-turns.
to rules around data collection. She said the choice for South Car-
“It’s sad,” Vilsack said of states who olina and other Republican states to
opted out. “There isn’t really a polit- decline the program is “politics at
ical reason for not doing this. This is its very worst” and is being used to
unfortunate. I think governors may score “partisan political points.”
not have taken the time or made the South Carolina, according to the
Feeding America, one of the coun- effort to understand what this pro- USDA data from 2021, has an over-
try’s leading charities combating gram is and what it isn’t.” all child poverty rate of 19.7 percent.
hunger and poverty, said the Summer In some counties, this rate goes as
EBT will help feed around 20 million Why Have Some States high as 39.5 percent, over a third
children in participating states. Opted Out? of all children.
“This new program could not be The opted-out states have given South Carolina Governor Henry
starting at a better time. In 2022, a variety of different reasons for McMaster said in a press conference
more than 13 million children in declining the program, includ- in January: “That [Summer EBT] was
the U.S.—one in five—were living ing costs—even with the federal gov- a COVID-related benefit. We’ve got
in food-insecure households,” Vince ernment paying the entirety of the to get back to doing normal busi-
Hall, Feeding America’s chief govern- benefit and half the administrative ness. We just can’t continue that for-
ment relations officer, told Newsweek. ever, but we’re still continuing all the
“This is a 44 percent increase from other programs that we have.”
the prior year and the highest rate “This is not the time to make an
FOOD BAN K FOR N E W YORK CIT Y/G E T T Y
of child food insecurity since 2014.” argument about the need for smaller
Of the 37 states that have opted “There isn’t really a government, especially considering
to participate, including Nebraska, political reason for not that South Carolina has no problem
23 are led by Democratic governors doing this. Governors growing the government if it means
and 14 are led by GOP governors. All
may not have taken they can tell a woman what to do
administration and
games,” Andrews said. to ask the feds why they are wanting
In Iowa, Republican Governor Kim everyone to opt in before they even
Reynolds blamed the government. Congress want to make finalized the program,” Stitt told
“If the Biden administration and a real commitment reporters in January. He also said
Congress want to make a real com- to family well-being, he is “satisfied” with current pro-
mitment to family well-being, they they should invest in grams in the state.
should invest in already existing pro-
existing programs… Some Republican states that opted
one thing—hunger.”
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Bhat
Touch my vesT,” NareNdra modi
told a startled Newsweek team inter-
viewing the Indian prime minister
in his residence in New Delhi in
late March. “Come on, touch it.” Modi challenged
Nancy Cooper, Newsweek’s global editor in chief, to
guess what the blue jacket was made of. Cooper sug-
gested silk. “It’s recycled plastic bottles,” Modi said,
clearly enjoying the reaction of his surprised guests.
The vest and the moment are vintage Modi: inno-
vation, tradition, masterful messaging and, inevita-
bly, some controversy. The vest was made popular
by India’s first prime minister, Jawaharlal Nehru,
whose great-grandson Rahul Gandhi is leading the
opposition campaign to prevent Modi from winning
a rare third term in elections next week. It became
known as the “Nehru Jacket” and was a symbol of
newly independent India’s national pride as well
as a fashion statement adopted by The Beatles and
Sammy Davis Jr. Unlike Nehru, who preferred beiges
and grays, Modi wears his modified version of the
garment in brilliant hues. Indian retailers began
selling “Modi Jackets” to capitalize on the prime
minister’s enormous personal popularity. And in
2018, when former South Korean President Moon
Jae-in tweeted out his thanks for the prime min-
ister’s gift of perfectly tailored “Modi Vests”—not
“Nehru Jackets”—the controversy nearly broke the
Indian internet.
“Whatever you can rightly say about India, the
opposite is also true,” the Cambridge economist
Joan Robinson once said. Modi, like the country
he leads, is full of apparent contradictions. A relent- World Press Freedom Index under Modi. And the
less modernizer, Modi embraces the past. He speaks prime minister sees himself as a target of hostile
with equal pride of digital payments, green technol- coverage by journalists who do not accept that
ogy and his role in an ancient 11-day ritual to bring India is both less liberal in ways that are important
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the world’s second largest behind China. This also public resources on the making of one man’s myth.
means that India is by far the biggest potential car- What they miss is the revolutionary impact these
bon emitter in the world and its choices about the tactics have had on people in a hierarchical society
future will likely play an outsized role in defining the shaped by millennia-old caste structures, centuries
destiny of our planet and the species we share it with. of colonial exploitation and decades of rule by the
During his 90-minute interview with Newsweek Nehru-Gandhi dynasty whose charismatic leaders
and in written correspondence, Modi tackled these are dismissed by Modi’s followers as members of a
issues and talked of his unbridled optimism about Western-educated elite.
India. “I feel negativity has a low shelf life,” he said. Not every message lands the way Modi intends
“On the other hand, positivity is perennial.” it. A Mann Ki Baat episode notched up the most
Modi said he channels his positive energy into dislikes ever on the BJP’s YouTube channel after the
his monthly radio program Mann Ki Baat (Talks prime minister dished out advice on dog breeds
from the Heart), that one survey said had 230 but dodged a dispute over delayed exams.
million regular listeners. The state radio show is Modi said he treats all communication with the
one of the many ways the prime minister appears Indian people as a two-way street. “A leader should
accessible to ordinary Indians and puts his per- have the ability to connect to the grassroots and get
sonal stamp on myriad changes shaping their lives. unfiltered feedback,” he said.
To Western observers, Modi’s messaging tactics can A magnetic orator who fills stadiums wherever
come across as political theater, the squandering of he goes, Modi is coy about his speaking skills. “I
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bon budget—the total volume of carbon that scien-
tists estimate all of humanity can produce and still
keep global warming to below 1.5 degrees Celsius,
according to a 2022 McKinsey report.
Fortunately for the planet, Modi has chosen a dif-
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to the United States, which now views China as an majoritarian policies are popular enough to win
adversary. “As President Biden has said, our relation- elections. He also sees them creating an atmosphere
ship with India is one of the most consequential in that enables attacks on Muslims, from physical vio-
the world,” a U.S. State Department spokesperson lence to discrimination in food, dress and education.
told Newsweek. “The United States supports India’s “Modi’s electoral victories are basically a mandate…
emergence as a leading global power.” for anti-Muslim policies,” Owaisi, president of
Modi has personally pressed Chinese Presi- the All India Majlis-e-Ittehadul Muslimeen, one of
dent Xi Jinping to resolve their border dispute. India’s Muslim political parties, told Newsweek.
And he definitely wants that permanent seat on Other fault lines run through the economy. Offi-
the Security Council. In his sharpest shift from cial data shows India’s unemployment at just under
India’s proudly nonaligned past, Modi has joined 4 percent. Many economists see those numbers as
the Quad, an alliance with Japan, Australia and something of a mirage. “If you visit a notary in New
the United States, whose unstated purpose is to Delhi, you will probably see four people around him,
counter China’s influence in the Indian Ocean and all supposedly employed. One to hold the pen, one to
Pacific regions. “The Quad has established itself as move the paper, one to place the seal and the fourth
an important platform for ensuring peace, stabil- to make tea,” says Chakravorti, making a point about
ity and prosperity in the Indo-Pacific,” Modi said, India’s massive problem with underemployment.
playing down the Sino-centricity of its mission. The unemployment rate for people with college
India’s many geopolitical and economic strengths degrees is nine times higher than that for those who
are not the whole story. The government’s relation- cannot read or write, the International Labour Orga-
ship with religious minorities appears to have gotten nization said in an April report. This dynamic creates
significantly worse under the ruling BJP, which Modi a surge of overqualified applicants for government
now leads. Modi’s supporters see Hindu nationalist jobs. When a state police department posted job ads
policies as leveling the playing field, taking away
privileges granted to Indian Muslims, Christians
and others by colonial rulers and past govern-
ments after independence. Restoring what Hindus
“I feel negativity has a low shelf
see as the status quo is key to both progress and
national unity, they believe. That Modi shares this
view becomes apparent in a conversation about the
Hindu shrine of Rama at Ayodhya, now built on the
site of a mosque that a Hindu mob destroyed in 1992.
“The return of Shri Ram to his birthplace marked a
historic moment of unity for the nation,” Modi said.
The site was disputed for more than a century; a
Mughal ruler built the mosque on top of a structure
that Hindus believe marked the place where Rama
was born. The Supreme Court eventually resolved the
dispute in favor of Hindus, and Modi himself led the
dedication of the shrine in January after an 11-day fast.
He scoffs at any suggestion that India’s religious
minorities, including 200 million Muslims, are
mistreated. “These are usual tropes of some peo-
ple who don’t bother to meet people outside their
bubbles. Even India’s minorities don’t buy this nar-
rative anymore,” Modi told Newsweek.
Many of India’s Muslims, Christians and other
non-Hindu groups don’t see it that way. Asaduddin
Owaisi, a member of Parliament, knows the BJP’s
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modern India, won only a diminished majority. By
contrast, Modi’s BJP looks set to increase its majority
in the lower house of parliament, known as the Lok
Sabha, in a multistage election that ends in June with
960 million people eligible to vote. The main opposi-
tion, Congress, dominated by Sonia Gandhi, the Ital-
ian-born widow of Nehru’s grandson, and fronted by
her son Rahul Gandhi, appears headed for its worst-
ever showing. Congress Party President Mallikarjun
Kharge declined to comment for this article; other
senior Congress leaders did not respond.
Modi himself, at 73, is more popular than the
BJP. In regional elections outside the main Hin-
di-speaking heartland in northern and central
India, national parties usually support their
regional leaders, hoping to win over local voters in
a country with more than 120 major languages. In
the Modi era, the BJP has reversed that strategy and
built its regional campaigns around him.
In February, Morning Consult gave Modi a domes-
tic approval rating of nearly 78 percent, making him
the most popular global leader in its survey with
more than double the support of Joe Biden. Norwe-
for manual office helpers, it was looking for candi- gian politician and peace negotiator Erik Solheim
dates who had completed fifth grade. More than posted the survey on X, formerly known as Twitter,
33,000 people with college degrees applied. These and asked, “Maybe it is time for Western media to
trends have a disproportionate impact on Indian give India and Modiji some positive coverage?”
women, who have made remarkable progress in Whatever the nature of the coverage, this elec-
getting access to higher education and now make tion could well represent a turning point for India.
up more than 40 percent of all STEM graduates but For decades after independence in 1947, India was
just about a quarter of the STEM workforce. “Indian cast in Nehru’s image: secular, democratic, socialist,
women are rising with clear aspirations,” said Deb- scientific and unapologetically nonaligned in the
jani Ghosh, president of the National Association of CUT FROM A great power contests of the Cold War. A crushing
Software and Service Companies. DIFFERENT CLOTH victory at these elections would complete the pro-
A shop’s cutout (above)
Finding productive employment for an explod- cess of casting India in Modi’s image: democratic,
of Modi, who claims
ing workforce will be key to seizing India’s new eco- not to be part of the
populist, technocratic, far more assertive on the
nomic opportunities and addressing the inequality Western-educated elite world stage than Nehru ever imagined, and unapol-
that has plagued it for generations. that has ruled India for ogetically Hindu and nationalist.
Despite these and other challenges, polls show decades. He recently Turning the “Nehru Jacket” into the “Modi Vest”
launched 500 climate-
Modi headed for a third consecutive term as prime was just the beginning.
friendly electric buses
minister, something no Indian leader has accom- in New Delhi (left)
plished since 1962. Even in 1962 and with no serious as part of a greater ▸ Danish Manzoor Bhat is newsweek’s Asia
national opposition, Jawaharlal Nehru, architect of infrastructure drive. editorial director.
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‘I AM ALWAYS
year after IndIa overtook ChIna
to become the world’s most populous
country, its rapid upward economic
IN THE MOMENT’
trajectory and increasing diplomatic,
scientific and military weight make it an emerg-
ing superpower of ever-growing importance to the
United States and the world. Indian Prime Minister
Narendra Modi addressed Newsweek’s written ques-
tions and followed up with a 90-minute conversation
at his official residence with Newsweek President and
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On the upcoming election
We have an excellent track record of fulfilling our
promises. It was a big thing for the people, as they
were used to promises never being fulfilled.
Our government has worked with the motto
of “Sabka Saath, Sabka Vikas, Sabka Vishwas, Sabka
Prayas,” which means—Together, for everyone’s
growth, with everyone’s trust and everyone’s efforts.
People have the trust that if someone else has got
benefits of our programs, it will also reach them.
People have seen that India has raced ahead from
11th-largest economy to the fifth-largest economy.
Now the country’s aspiration is that India soon
becomes the third-largest economy.
By the end of the second term, even the most
popular governments start losing support. Discon-
tent toward governments has also increased in the
last few years in the world. India stands out as an
exception, where popular support for our govern-
ment is increasing.
On democracy and a free press There are a few people in India and in the West
We are a democracy, not only because our Consti- who have lost [connection with] the people of
tution says so, but also because it is in our genes. India—their thought processes, feelings and aspi-
India is the mother of democracy. Be it Uttara- rations. These people also tend to live in their own
merur in Tamil Nadu, where you can find inscrip- echo chamber of alternate realities. They conflate
tions about India’s democratic values from 1100 to their own dissonance with the people with dubious
1200 years ago, or speak of our scriptures which claims of diminishing media freedom.
give examples of political power being exercised
by broad-based consultative bodies. As the largest MAN OF THE MOMENT
On infrastructure and the environment
democracy in the world, over 600 million people The pace of India’s transformation in the last
FROM LE F T: PM O IN DIa ; NOaH S EEL a M /a FP/G E T T y
Modi welcomes
voted in the General Elections in 2019. In a few Newsweek’s President decade has been accelerated by the rapid overhaul
months from now, over 970 million eligible voters and CEO Dev Pragad, of its infrastructure.
Global Editor in Chief
will exercise their franchise. More than one million In the last 10 years, our National Highways net-
Nancy Cooper and
polling stations would be set up across India. Asia Editorial Director
work increased 60 percent, from 91,287 kilometers
Constantly increasing voter participation is a big Danish Manzoor Bhat [56,723 miles] in 2014 to 146,145 kilometers [90,810
certificate for the people’s faith in Indian democracy. days before Eid al-Fitr miles] in 2023. We have more than doubled our
A democracy like India is able to move ahead and was celebrated (above). airports, from 74 in 2014 to over 150 in 2024. Sup-
The PM dismissed
function only because there is a vibrant feedback mech- ported by our Sagarmala project, we have enhanced
claims that religious
anism. And our media plays an important role in this minorities, including
[the] capacity of our ports and improved the oper-
regard. We have around 1.5 lakh [150,000] registered India’s 200 million ational efficiency. We have started the tech-smart
media publications and hundreds of news channels. Muslims, are mistreated. “Vande Bharat” trains for the comfort of our citizens
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structure and availability of skilled talent, have CLIMATE BATTLE country, significant two-way tourist flows and over
yielded results. We have major global manufactur- The prime minister 300,000 Indian students pursuing higher educa-
FROM TOP LEF T: INDR ANIL MUKHER JEE/AFP/GE T T Y; IDREE S MOHAMMED/AFP /GE T T Y; B E ATA Z AW RZ EL /NURPH OTO/GE T T Y
ing entities setting up shops in India. addresses COP28 in tion in the U.S. Given this robust connection, it
Dubai last year (below).
We have initiated Production Linked Incentive would be mutually beneficial if UPI services are
Modi said despite India’s
schemes to strengthen manufacturing capabilities growing infrastructure,
made available in the U.S.
in India. These PLI schemes extend to 14 sectors a range of initiatives and
such as electronics, solar modules, medical devices, investments will ensure On the challenge of sustaining and
automobiles, among others. the country reaches net- sharing economic growth
zero emissions by 2070.
Given our strengths, India is now globally consid- Today, India has a favorable demography. We are a
ered most suited for manufacturing world-class goods young country with a median age of 28 years. We
at competitive cost. Apart from producing for the are committed to channeling this demographic
world, the vast Indian domestic market is an added dividend to transform India into a developed
attraction. India is a perfect destination for those who country by 2047.
want to set up trusted and resilient supply chains. I would not like to draw comparisons with China
and Japan as each country faces unique challenges
On digital payments and UPI, and has unique development models.
a Venmo-like system India has a unique cultural and social ethos. We
I feel there are three important lessons from the have a culture of savings. There is also a unique
success of UPI. First, technology should be open, model of family-oriented lifestyle which puts val-
interoperable, scalable and secure. Second, there ues at the center. In such a setup, no family member
should be democratization of technology. Third, is unproductive.
people should be trusted to adapt quickly to tech- We are also focused on developing the full poten-
nology and evolve. tial of our youth and also making them resilient
UPI is a fine example of Indian innovation at its and adaptive to future disruptions.
best. I see UPI as a simple tool that broke countless We are allocating a huge amount of money to
barriers, from financial barriers to geographical facilitate long-term research in the sunrise sectors.
barriers. It has opened the world of digital trans- India is venturing in areas like space, AI, green energy,
actions to the person at the last mile. semiconductors and other futuristic technologies.
We have expansive economic ties with the U.S. The phenomenal growth of Indian startups is
In addition, we have a large Indian diaspora in the clearly visible. From hardly a hundred in 2014, we
have over 1.25 lakh [125,000] registered startups today
emerging from every corner of India. By constant
skilling, reskilling and upskilling, as well as becom-
ing employment creators, our youth will ensure that
they continue to lead even in the coming few decades.
For us, the aim of rapid economic growth is to
ensure empowerment of the poor and their social
mobility. You will be happy to know that the biggest
beneficiaries of India’s rapid growth in the last 10
years have been India’s poor.
India has run the world’s largest poverty-eradi-
cation drive in the last 10 years and has pulled 250
million people out of poverty. Only four nations
in the world have a population more than that.
According to a recent research paper, India has
eliminated extreme poverty.
As a result of the robust economic growth, we
have been able to run unprecedented welfare
schemes. These welfare schemes have ensured that
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the poor get 40 million houses, over 100 million On the Indian diaspora
clean fuel connections, around 110 million clean My association with our diaspora goes a long way
water connections, over 110 million toilets, 500 back, even before I came into politics. I have been
million people get free health care and the last involved with our diaspora since the time I was
remaining 18,000 villages get electricity. doing social work.
These welfare measures have not only improved In those days, I traveled extensively across the
the standard of living for our poor but have also U.S. I would have traveled to around 29 states
ensured multiple second-order effects like improv- even before I became the Chief Minister of Guja-
ing productivity, monetary and time savings and rat. There used to be a scheme from Delta Airlines
health outcomes. which offered unlimited discounted travel for
Our efforts at improving social mobility have a month. However, there would be no luggage
also extended to different sectors and geographies allowed and no reservation of seats. I planned my
A HIGHER MISSION
which were previously ignored. With the aspira- travels meticulously, often using a map. I would
Hindus pray on the
tional districts program, we have brought about a banks of the Ganges
take red-eye flights to ensure seat availability and
transformation in more than 100 districts which in Varanasi on April 9 opt for longer flights to avoid the need for hotel
were previously termed as backward. With the (below) and line to see stays. In the morning, someone from the diaspora
vibrant villages program, we are bringing about a statue of Hindu god would pick me up, and I would spend the whole
Ram (bottom). Modi said
a transformation in border villages, which were day with the community. This way, I observed
government programs
previously ignored. The eastern and northeastern benefit all Indian
them closely and got to know them well over time.
part of India, which was long ignored, has seen [an] citizens regardless I understood their potential, strengths and desires,
unprecedented push on infrastructure. of their religion. but they lacked support and guidance.
Our diaspora has been staying abroad for a long
time, often two to three generations. It is natural for
the older generation to feel a special connection to
their roots. They want their children to also be con-
nected to their roots and it is also our duty to ensure
that this bond remains strong. Our diaspora should
feel that there is someone back home who cares
about them and is there for them in any situation.
Hence, we directed our efforts toward ensuring this.
Through hard work and commitment, they have
earned name and fame for themselves. The success
of the Indian diaspora is a global talking point
today. Our talented people are filling skill gaps
across the world. Whenever I go abroad, leaders of
the country always have high praise for them. They
are acting as our ambassadors across the world.
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itself brought the nation together into a celebration, iarity with me and the urge to call me directly. I
akin to a second Diwali. Every home was illumi- asked him what could be the reason. He told me
nated by the light of Ram Jyoti. I see it as a divine that the railway line passes close to his house and
blessing that I could experience the consecration it could be something related to the railways. So, I
ceremony as a representative of 1.4 billion Indians. called the district administration, railway officials
and my staff to inquire about the incident. None
On his legacy of them had heard about it, but immediately the
I think it is not my job to think about how I will be entire administration set out to work. It turned out
remembered, neither does this thought motivate me. to be a train accident. However, because we had a
My motivation is the impact I could make in the head start in terms of getting timely information,
lives of every Indian, whom I consider my family. we were able to react promptly. Before sunrise, we
If they are able to live a life of dignity, achieve their had managed the entire situation: The injured were
in the hospital, and the accident site was cleared.
I am also a firm believer in delegation of work.
poor and their social mobility.” I spend long hours understanding and discussing
important matters and developing consensus. Once
there is consensus, I believe in empowering peo-
ple to execute it.
I didn’t even know that I am good at communi-
dreams, I would consider my task done. But till cation. People observed this when I joined politics.
then, I am going to work tirelessly and devotedly So I said to myself, let’s make good use of this skill.
to fulfill the aspirations of 1.4 billion Indians. I get hundreds of thousands of physical letters
every month. I manage to check many letters and
Modi on leadership see for myself the emotions expressed by the people.
Listening is an important quality for leadership. I am It is from these letters that the thought of Mann
god-gifted with this quality, and I have also cultivated SUCCESSFUL BRANDING Ki Baat [his radio program] came to my mind. We
it. Another quality that I have is that I am always in Modi has been have had 110 Mann Ki Baat episodes till now.
merchandising his image
the moment. I am not distracted by phone calls, mes- I feel negativity has a low shelf life. One needs
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Horizons S C I E N C E , T E C H N O L O G Y + H E A LT H
“I have a bit of a wink in my eye and a little bit of a smirk.” ▸ P.48
M E N TA L H E A LT H
The Secret
to Being an ADHD
Whisperer
Loosening up and ceding control are some of the most important
strategies for making life easier for a neurodiverse loved one
Penn and Kim Holderness are widely celebrated for their entertaining viral parody videos (singing included!)
on topics ranging from parenting and helping kids with homework and masking up for the pandemic (to
the tune of the Hamilton soundtrack) to “stupid” healthy habits and everything in between. Now, Penn and
Kim are tackling a serious subject close to their hearts in their new book, adhd is awesome. It’s a lively
but informative dive into what the ADHD brain is and systems and strategies that neurodiverse people and
their loved ones can use to make the most of their unique brain chemistry. In addition to so many practical
tips, the book is as humorous as the Holderness Family videos are and reads like a love letter between Penn
and Kim, modeling a relationship in which the partners value one another and work hard to strengthen
those bonds. This excerpt from their book highlights things anyone can do to support a loved one with ADHD.
GE T T Y; TOP RIG HT: P RE SLE Y AN N/DAOU FA MILY E STATE S /G E T T Y
On a recent episOde Of Our pOdcast, miscalculations can lead you to a place far, far from
musician and inspirational speaker Carlos where you’d hoped to be. If this is the case in your
Whittaker shared a story that his dad used to tell life, take heart, friends, because even if your rela-
him: if a ship sets out on a thousand-mile journey tionship with your ADHDer is wildly off course, you
and it steers true, it will arrive at its destination. But can course-correct with small but effective changes.
if the navigation is off by as little as one degree, the The main thing to avoid is slipping into reaction
ship will miss its mark by miles. Why am I talking mode, where you are playing Whac-a-Mole with
about ships (aside from the fact that crises as they pop up. This can leave you
they seem to defy the laws of physics—a frantic, out of control and incredibly
fully loaded aircraft carrier can hold 75 by tense. There is a better way.
aircraft and 4,500 crew and weigh more PENN Kim and I have friends who have an
than 100,000 tons...and still float!)? Life and Easter tradition called the Battle of the
in an ADHD household is similar to nav- KIM Eggs. At the end of dinner, each family
HOLDERNESS
igating a long distance. A series of small member selects one of the dyed hard-
Q A
the table and knocks their egg against when they know that I didn’t get
their neighbor’s egg, trying to crack it. to the end of their sentence.
The last person to have an uncracked &
egg wins. The secret to coming out on For someone who does have
top is to hold your egg loosely so your ADHD, your emotional reaction
hand absorbs the shock. Hold the is probably even more intense.
egg too firmly, and the shell shatters. P _ We ADHDers are really good
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MASTERING IT Penn’s hyperfocus helped
him and Kim win The Amazing Race. Their
book is a collaborative effort sharing what
they’ve learned about managing ADHD.
sort of requires it. Some days it’s as six seconds at a time. That is your phones away. For me it
really hard. But the ADHD brain nirvana for an ADHD creator. was heaven because I didn’t
is just pure magic and creativi- have distractions. I had very
ty. Like fireworks and unicorns How do you deal with the direct tasks in front of me.
inside there, it is so much fun. toxicity of social media?
Some days, I’m like, “Thank God K _ You are missing the beauty of What do you ultimately hope
HARPE R HORIZON , A N IMPR IN T OF HARP ERCOLLIN S FOCU S
these brains are wired this way.” social media if you’re not reading people take from the book?
comments. To me, it’s a conversa- P _ You’re not broken. You’re
You present having ADHD with tion. I love that I recognize people’s not alone. There’s no reason to
all kinds of funny aspects. How names in the comment section be ashamed. Your brain is not
has it benefited your career? when it’s on our page. That’s why weird. It’s wonderful, incredibly
P _ I’ve actually sought out jobs I say I don’t love it when things creative. The name is terrible. It’s
that are ADHD-friendly. I went go like crazy viral, because then not a deficit of attention. It’s an
into working in live news televi- somebody else has put them on abundance of attention. All you
sion, where you have deadlines their page and I don’t know who have to do is learn more about
every day. And you’ve got to beat that audience is, and then they what it is, take that knowledge
the clock. It allows you to throw don’t know anything about us. I and use it to build systems to
away all of your other distractions take that stuff super personally. minimize where you get in trouble.
and have one task. And then this I wish I didn’t. Social media has And what’s left is spectacular.
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(and shame) evaporating. That’s the body—the slower movement, trou- neously explaining the rules
power of connection. ble holding on to things, poor bal- of baseball to someone who
A quick note here: notice that ance, etc. Workers who tried the has never played.
Kim doesn’t take on my emotional suit, which limited their mobility _ Attempt to follow the plot of
state by getting all worked up herself. and made it harder for them to use a long-form podcast, a televi-
Nor does she make my problem her fine-motor skills, developed a greater sion show and an audiobook
problem. It is still on me to resolve appreciation for what it was like to be playing all at once.
whatever issue has arisen. It’s just old. How cool is that? Next time you c atch yourself
much, much easier to do that when If you want to know what it’s like angry-sighing at your ADHDer’s
I feel like Kim is standing beside me to live with ADHD, here’s my best symptoms, remember what it feels
sympathetically, rather than looking attempt at how you can simulate like to live inside a brain where
at me over her glasses and tsk-tsking. it for yourself. Give one or more of expectations feel outsize.
Psychiatrist Dr. Edward Hallowell these scenarios a whirl:
wrote in Driven to Distraction: “I see _ Try to plan a dinner menu for four 3 _ Send Good Vibes Only
the human connection as the single vegans who have nut, gluten and I hate fighting with my wife. I dread
most powerful therapeutic force in egg allergies while you perform it with every ounce of my being, so
the treatment of ADHD.” That’s pretty the improv exercise of pretending when I sense she is getting annoyed
powerful. The great news is, connec- to clean up after a party in a house with me, my brain gets hypervigi-
tion is free and available to all. If you you’ve never been in, all while try- lant, and I get testy—which obvi-
can find it in you to connect instead ing to remember where the imag- ously doesn’t improve the mood
of correct when things get hard, it inary Solo cups, broom, garbage around the house or my ADHD. On
will make a world of difference. can and passed-out guests are. the very rare occasion when Kim
_ Assemble something complicated lashes out at me for an ADHD mis-
2 _ Empathize like a new grill while simulta- take, I grouch out, which just makes
The cornerstone of connection is my symptoms flare up. Negative feed-
empathy. I once read about a senior back leads to negative feelings. When
KEEPING BUSY Penn was diagnosed
care facility that made its employ- with ADHD more than 20 years ago.
she is relaxed about her expectations
ees wear a suit that simulated the He often stimulates his senses by of me—which, bless her, is most of
FROM LE F T: COU RTE Sy OF HOLDE RN E SS Fa M ILy PROD UC TION S; S E aN DR aKE S /GE T T y IM aGE S
difficulties of living with an aging playing air piano—and actual piano. the time—I am way better equipped
to fulfill them.
Admittedly, it would be great if
everyone in our lives would be exqui-
sitely, immediately and cheerfully
responsive to our requests. But our
loved ones are not butlers (or most
aren’t anyway—there are approxi-
mately 12,000 people employed as
butlers in the U.S., which is about
11,000 more than I would have
guessed). While I totally get that it’s
maddening to have to ask us to do
something more than once, fights
about frustrations tend to have
a much bigger negative impact
on the situation than the annoy-
ing behaviors do.
If you are looking for a way to
lessen some of the household tension
that comes with living with someone
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FAMILY AFFAIR The family videos
involve Penn and Kim, as well
as their kids Lola and Penn
Charles, here in March 2022.
“Fights about
family. I get a rush when Kim compli- there. With the right tools, infor-
ments me for something I have done, mation and support, you can live a
like when I wrestled the wisteria vine frustrations tend to wildly creative and successful life.
into submission. The promise of that
have a much bigger The secret is that it’s not actually
negative impact
praise is much more effective and ADHD that’s awesome. It’s you.
keeps the household running more
smoothly than if she had criticized on the situation ▸ Adapted from adhd is awesome.
me for letting the yard get out of
than the annoying Copyright © 2024 Penn and Kim
behaviors do.”
hand even after she asked me to take Holderness. Published by Harper
care of it five million times. Horizon.
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PA RT I N G S H OT
Jane Lynch
Revivals RaRely woRk. successful Revivals of populaR game shows aRe How exciting is it for you to be part
even rarer. That is, except for when they’re hosted by Jane Lynch. Now in of the legacy of The Weakest Link?
its fourth season, NBC’s The Weakest Link has the energy of the original show— I love it. I always admired how
hosted brilliantly by Anne Robinson—but with modern flare. “I’m a softer, gen- [Anne Robinson] was able to
tler Anne Robinson, but that doesn’t mean I’m squishy,” Lynch said. While “it’s hold such a stern presence where
exactly the same game,” what gives it a different feel are the “people and the everybody was kind of afraid of
questions. Each game has a different tone to it.” One of Lynch’s favorite things her. I have a little bit of a wink in
about the show is that it gives people the chance to put “useless facts” to good use. my eye and a little bit of a smirk.
“There’s nothing more satisfying than to be able to pull something out of your
head that you thought you’d never use and here it is being asked on The Weakest What do you think makes
Link. I love that.” Also known for shows like Glee and countless Christopher Guest people tune in to the show?
films, Lynch was one of the first stars to become successful while being openly We’re not doing complicated things
queer. In terms of timing, she said, “I came along at the exact right time… the here. It’s a simple game that’s
great thing is I didn’t have to hold a press conference because nobody cared.” challenging. And when you tune
in, you know exactly what you’re
getting, there’s a familiarity.
doing
be on such a praised show?
It’s a dream come true. Who
complicated would have thought I would be
It’s a simple
then [Martin] Short. I’ve been a
fan of his forever. It’s a thrill to
game that’s be there as one of the gang.