THE TENSION METHOD

THE DEE GROUP

 TENSION METHOD: INTRO

I’m not here to be the guy that tells you about “inner
game”. I’m also not here to be the guy that tells you what
you should do with your life. This literature is for men who
want to get laid by women that they are purely attracted
to.
I know you’ve heard this before.

How do I get laid by lots of girls?

How do I get the exact type of girl that I
would like to settle down with?

Some gurus will start you off by saying you need to

start by building up yourself, “inner game” so to speak.
These gurus will have you go through hours and hours of
self-help rhetoric in order to make more money off of you.
I’ve been doing this for a long time, and I’ve seen it happen
time and time again.
You must remember at the end of the day for a major
pick up guru it’s a business. It’s their way of making a
living and they will do whatever it takes to keep that money
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rolling in. It’s not about telling you what’s in your best
interest but specifically, telling you what you think is in
your best interest so that they can make money off of you.

SO, WHAT IS THE TENSION METHOD?

To properly explain this, let me tell you what the tension

method is not. It’s not a self-help method, it's not a method
that contains any elements of “inner game”. It’s not a
method that contains any information on making you into
a well-built man. I mean, I actually plan on eventually
writing a book about that however, that’s not this book. If
you are looking for any of the aforementioned elements in
this book, you will not find it. Needless to say, I felt this
needed to be accurately stated in this intro.

Do you think that as human beings we

can be programmed to do certain things
subconsciously?
Even things that may or probably would
be against our best interests?

Well, regardless of whether or not you believe

this, I am here to tell you yes, this is true. You see it
every day. You see it at work, you see it in your religion,
you see it in relationships. If you are a keenly observant
individual, you will see this in every area of life. From poli‐
tics to entertainment. Even right down to your social circle
of friends and your family. You are programmed from
birth and whatever happens around you influences you
whether you like it or not. This is psychologically and
scientifically proven.

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Now that being said, my next question

would be, do you believe that a woman
can have her primal sexual desires
ignited even by a man who she never felt
those genuine sexual desires for?

Many men do not believe this. Well, I am here to

tell you yes, she can. Women are sexual beings just like us.
Now there is a huge myth out there that I’ve heard from
time to time where people, or for the most part misguided
men, think or are told that women are more sexual than
men are. If you are one of those people, I’m here to say,
that’s ridiculous. It's an ongoing myth that’s being pushed
out there. and that’s exactly what it is, a myth, nothing
more. Women are more sexual than you think, but
they are never as sexual as men. It’s just not
scientifically or even biologically possible. As men
we are designed for sexual variety whether you like it or
not. We are designed to spread seeds, although there are
many beliefs and religions out there that would speak
against that, but you can’t deny our biological makeup.

Why is a man designed to continue

producing sperm almost up until the
day he dies? Why is a woman only
designed to produce eggs up until her
mid to late 30s?
Why do men age slower than women?
Why do women mature faster than men?

By the way these are all rhetorical questions as you

should know the answer to them.
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What’s the reason for me going through all of this

shit? Because our very biological make-up means that there
are just certain things about our character and the way we
will act or react to being seduced, that for the most part we
don’t have that much control over, or do we? You see if
we fight what we are biologically designed for, you
become damaged but if you embrace it, you’ll be
exponentially happy. This is what I believe, why?
because it’s what I observe and it’s what I experience.
Convince me otherwise.

THIS BRINGS ME TO SEXUAL TENSION.

Do you think that by igniting a woman’s primal sexual

desire (meaning her desire to have sex) that she could seri‐
ously look at you and want to see you as a sex object if you
program her to think that way?
I say abso-fucking-lutley. Yes you can. By
taking specific actions from the moment you
approach a woman you can program her to see
you as a sex object even though she never saw you
as one from the very start, even if she never saw
you as her “type”.

What a woman wants and what she desires are

often two very different things.

If you can believe that then you can understand why

this method would actually work. If you believe attrac‐
tion is not a choice as well, then you can understand
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why this method would actually work. Have you ever felt
like you did not like someone at all, but then they engaged
you and interacted with you in a certain way and then all
of a sudden you thought well, this person isn’t so bad?
Now apply that to genuine sexual desire. I can tell you
right now 90% of the women I approach are never
physically attracted to me, like never.

You can program a woman to see you as a sex object

even if she never saw you as one before. You see on the
surface women know when they’re being seduced, but they
don’t really ever know how they are seduced. Which is why
you can see how asinine it is to actually ask for a woman’s
advice on how to seduce other women.

BE THE SEX OBJECT

I know how that sounds, but it could not be closer to the

truth, I assure you. A woman will either see you as a sex
object, a utility object, or both. The purpose of this
literature is to get a woman to see you as a sex
object, why? Because men need to get laid.

Whether or not it’s to get experience with many

women or even to find a good woman to settle down with,
because a man cannot find and pick an ideal
woman until he has experienced many other
women prior to that. So, this method is beneficial to
men who are looking for serious relationships or men who
are just looking to keep getting laid. A man with lots of
experience sexually with women has the capacity to pick a
woman that he would find closer to his ideal as opposed to
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a man who is not sexually successful with women. Why?

Because the less experience you have with women
the less you would likely know what you are actu‐
ally getting when you decide to settle down with a
woman. You can never truly love and appreciate some‐
thing you don’t understand. Hence, a man who does not
understand women cannot truly love and appreciate them
for being what they are by nature. Why? Because he does
not understand what he’s getting as he’s never truly experi‐
enced a variety to truly know the commonalities and the
actual nature of women in general. So, the power of
programming a woman to see you as a sex object is not
only beneficial and just about getting laid but it’s actually
beneficial in life in general. A well laid man is a
happy man.

WHAT IS THE TENSION METHOD?

It’s a way to ignite the primal sexual desires of

women you approach and making them see you as
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a sex object in the shortest time possible. Because

the quicker a woman sees you as a sex object, the quicker
she will want to fuck you. When you approach a woman,
you don’t want to act in her best interest only; you want to
act in your best interests. Because a woman is usually
thinking of her own best interest in most situations when it
comes to sexual dynamics, but she respects and appreciates
a man that can get her to act in his own best interest. His
interests become hers, because he gets her excited about
them. This makes sense on every level if you truly sit down
and think about it.

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 CHAPTER 1
TENSION METHOD: THE START

The opening phase does not matter but yet it does. You
see what you say to a woman when you approach her
matters, but only to the point where it serves its purpose.
I’m not here to tell you what the best openers are, I’m
just here to tell you that whatever you open with,
make sure it’s something that catches her inter‐
est. At least, get her interested enough to want to stop and
actually listen to what you have to say to her.

Now once you’ve got that down, it’s all about

transitioning into getting her comfortable with accepting
your physical escalation. So, the open in its essence, is just
a way to catch her attention.

Now when you open, understand that you’re not

going to win every girl. When you open a girl, for
the love of God, do not chase her. If you’re buying
temperature is terrible, she doesn’t even look at you, she
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doesn’t even respond to what you had to say, do not and I

repeat do not follow her or even worse follow right behind
her. Nothing says low value like a guy who just
tried to speak to you but yet you ignore them, and
they still followed you. I despise any fucking pick up
company or artist or “guru” that actually encourages that
shit.

And even if when you open, if she stops and listens to

what you have to say, it’s important to know when the
buying temperature just isn’t there. Now I know what I
said before, if she’s interested in hearing what you have to
say, then it’s worth moving forward with the next steps,
however some girls just want an ego rush. They just like
knowing that a guy is trying with them.

THE IMPORTANCE OF EXPERIENCE

This is an aspect of a game that can only be learned not

taught. What I mean is only experience with talking to
women on a regular basis is going to truly be able to tell
you who is wasting your time from who is not. It’s only
experience that will truly make you able to read women
accurately. A man with experience is in a much better posi‐
tion to make logical decisions about women. A man who
does not have lots of experience with women will probably
more likely make idealistic decisions about women. One of
these men usually lives a much happier life than the other.

HAVE A MAN-TO-WOMAN INTENT

When you do open, convey the image and the

energy of a man who is sexual. I’m not saying you
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should go in looking like some thirsty guy that’s looking to

jump straight into her pants and take her home and
quickly to have sex with her. What I mean is:

have a proper stance like a man straight,

shoulders relaxed, and
the way you speak should be relaxed,
keep your arms down,
not too many arm movements like a girl does.

The last thing you want to do is come off as

timid when you open a girl. In fact, the absolute
worst thing you can do is come off as timid to a
girl when you talk to her for the first time. I would
rather a quick rejection because I appear to be aggressive
and arrogant as opposed to coming off as timid, so the
rejection is simply delayed, because most women are
passive. So, you want to go in with confidence and you
want to say something that catches her interest to the point
where she stops and wants to hear what you have to say.
Sometimes you might be able to physically escalate on the
open but that’s for the next chapter.

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 CHAPTER 2
TENSION METHOD: THE STREET

My favorite place to execute the tension method is none

other than the street (or any public place where it’s appro‐
priate). Why? Because the way it plays out it’s almost beau‐
tiful to watch. It's almost magical. To witness the tension
play out in the street in broad daylight when you do a cold
approach on a girl is almost like you’re watching some sort
of hypnotic effect.
Because when you look at it, the girl almost doesn’t
even realize what’s going on;of course this will only seem
that way if you have an untrained eye.
When a beautiful woman dresses up and goes
out during the day, make no mistake about it, she
wants to be noticed by men, real men. Contrary to
what many women out there would say regarding a
woman walking around in broad daylight minding her own
business, if she’s dressed up and she looks pretty she did
that because she wants male attention, she wants to be
approached, she wants to be picked up.
A woman who embraces being a sex object is
actually playing her part, she’s doing her job by
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being a sex object to you. Hence, you must return

the favor to her by making her see you as a sex
object as well.
She will appreciate that, because a woman
wants a man who can make her feel desirable,
make her feel sexual, make her think and want to
have sex with him. Genuine sexual lust is not
something that you can push a button and make
happen. This isn’t something that any man can do. If
that were the case, every woman would want to fuck every
man. A woman knows that most men can’t do that so
when she comes across a man who can make her see him
as a sex object, this is something she deeply appreciates
and this is something she will reward you for not just with
sex, but with overall submission as a woman to a man.

WHEN IT COMES TO COLD APPROACHES,

THERE ARE THREE TYPES OF WOMEN
WHEN IT COMES TO THEIR BUYING
TEMPERATURE.

There are women who when you open

them, they will probably look straight
ahead and keep walking and probably
ignore you, probably not even say a word
to you or even act like you were there.
Don’t try to analyze this reaction. Don’t even
believe that it’s your fault actually. There are all
sorts of reasons why a woman would do that,
many times it has nothing to do with you. I can
tell you right now there’s plenty of girls I fucked
whom if I had met them in another
circumstance, another setting, another place,
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I’m sure you’d understand they probably likely

would not have fucked me much less paid
attention to me. If you’re smart enough to
understand why that is, and if you believe it,
then you truly understand why a woman never
really knows how she gets seduced, she’s just
aware that it’s happening.

The second type of girl that you

encounter via cold approach is what I
like to call “interested but not sure”.
These girls will essentially stop to listen to what
you have to say if there’s something about you
or what you said that’s interesting. These are
my favorite types of girls because they are quite
factually an actual test to how and why the
tension method works. You see being able to
transition an interaction with a girl from that of
her just being interested in what you’re saying
at that time to taking it straight to her seeing
you as a sex object, demonstrates the
effectiveness of the method, because you’ll
know if you didn’t execute it properly, she
probably wouldn’t want to fuck you.

The third type of girl you’re going to

encounter in cold approach is the “Yes“
girl. This girl is attracted to you. For
whatever reason when you opened her, she
looked at you there was something about you
she found attractive or something about what
you said that made you seem attractive to her. It
could even be a combination of both. You see,
in many cases, you’ll find simply doing a cold
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approach on a girl actually ignites attraction in

her, why? Because most men cannot and do not
approach women they don’t know, hence simply
a guy who actually would do that is found
attractive by many women. This girl is not for
the most part “easy”, but the tension method
will work like a charm and you may even be
able to miss certain key steps in the method
when it comes to getting her to see you as a sex
object because her level of attraction is already
high.

Now what if when you open a girl, and she seems

interested in what you have to say. At the very least, you
can use your vocals and her interest level, and you take it to
a place where she’s already comfortable engaging in a
back-and-forth conversation with you.
When it comes to people and their sense of touch, we
as human beings assign different feelings to who touches
you, how they touch You, and even when they touch you.
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How you feel about the touch can be greatly influenced by

how you’re already feeling when you are touched. For
example, a girl that’s laughing at something that
you said will probably feel OK with a touch on her
arm, on her back or on her shoulder. Obviously,
you would do it quickly and not overdo it and keep
your hand on there too long, because then that
just becomes a little weird and maybe even
creepy.
However, a woman who is just interested in what
you’re saying and has a very low buying temperature
where you’re concerned probably wouldn’t really want you
to touch her even though she’s interested in what you have
to say. Where am I going with this? You want to first get
her comfortable with talking to you, then you want to get
her comfortable with you touching her and her touching
you because if she’s comfortable with you touching her
then her touching you back is a sure sign she is starting to
get comfortable with you on that level. From the
moment a girl is comfortable with you touching
her, that is a clear transition point to start taking
things in the direction of sex.
When it comes to day gaming in the street, this is the
key goal. You want the girl to be comfortable with you
touching her. You can do this in many ways. The first is
and I would say the best, humor. No, I don’t really care
how you make a girl laugh, but it’s good to know the
type of humor I’m talking about is not goofy
monkey clown humor. I’m talking about any little thing
that makes her laugh but at the same time allows her to be
comfortable with you getting closer to her.

It could be any funny opener because in reality you

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could go straight into building comfort with touching right

after you open her. From the moment you open a girl
during the day in the street you want to get
straight to being able to touch her comfortably or
I should say getting her to feel comfortable with
you touching her. I say this all the time, the quicker a
woman sees you as a sex object, the quicker she will want
to have sex with you. It sounds simple doesn’t it? But you’d
be surprised how many men out there just can’t grasp the
simplicity of such a statement.

Getting a girl comfortable with you touching her is

pretty much the hard part. From there on, all you have to
do is transition that Kinetic energy into that of a sexual
nature.

If she lets you touch her hand the next time around
try grabbing her hand and holding it a little longer. The
next time she laughs again, you may get a signal that you
can touch her, and you should probably go in for the hug
but then this time maybe rub her back a little while. If she
lets you do that, then next time around, try hugging her
and pulling her in for a tighter squeeze and maybe give her
a kiss on the cheek. See where I’m going with this? It
sounds easy to say but doing it is a completely different
thing. It’s not even hard to do it either. The thing is our
beliefs and roadblocks in our minds make it hard
for us to want to do such a thing.

Men are taught from birth and this modern day to

repress his sexual nature. Anything a man does to
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optimize his sexual nature and his sexual strategy is pretty

much seen as predatorial. Hence heaven forbid he should
try to actually get closer and touch a girl he wants to fuck.
It’s sad looking at young men today.

The reason why I prefer to do the tension method

during the day and in the street is simple, because it’s the
hardest fucking way. That said, once you master it this way
your options are unlimited. Once you do it this way, you’ll
be able to do it anywhere from the club, at the train
station, the laundromat, traveling overseas and on a plane.
It doesn’t matter. When the opportunity brings itself to
pursue a girl you’re into, the knowledge, and the power is
there, and you are ready to do so once you master it the
hardest way possible.

When it comes to the tension method I will always

recommend you start playing this shit on hard mode
because the results and the rewards will be unlimited when
you’ve mastered it. This is simply a recommendation. I’m
not going to tell you “how” to game, but when it comes to
game this is merely a suggestion because I’ve seen my
students propelled to new heights in seduction by doing
this. I’ve had students come to me and tell me that they
were able to do things with women, beautiful women, that
they never even fucking imagined before. Mind you, these
are the guys who actually grew up believing that some guys
just get girls and some guys don’t. Like they literally
believed some guys are just born with the design to get
women and other guys aren’t born with that. And that’s
just the way it is supposed to be. Yes, there are literally guys
out there that actually believe that. That’s real feedback
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coming from students of mine. That’s how you know how

sad it is out there for men. That’s how you know how bad
the state of the modern man is today when it comes to
sexual relations with women.

Now in the street, once you’ve got the girl

comfortable with you touching her and starting to take it in
a sexual direction, the next phase is the biggest challenge
during the day and in the street and this is having to pull
her somewhere where you can actually have sex with her.
There are many guys out there that don’t think this is
possible, and I am here to tell you it is. There have been
plenty of times I’ve pulled a girl that I’ve met in
broad daylight, mid-day on a Sunday or on the
weekend and brought them straight back to my
place and have sex with them.
Once a girl sees you as a sex object, it doesn’t matter
what time of the day it is or what she was doing. Just think
about yourself as a man. If a beautiful woman hit you up
in the middle of the day and said “I want your cock inside
me right now. I want to come over to your place and I
want you to fuck my brains out”. You damn well know the
probability of you going home and waiting for that chick
to come by so you can do your thing is very high. Now
think about a girl who is in heat. A girl who you were able
to put in heat by using the tension method. By building
sexual tension. I’m here to tell you it’s the exact same feel‐
ing. Nothing will stand in her way if you are the guy that
made her feel that way. She will go to great lengths to have
sex with you if you are the one that’s able to make her see
you as a sex object. She’ll drop all her appointments, she’ll
jump hurdles and jump through hoops to have sex
with you.
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So, the street during the day is not a far stretch to

execute the tension method. In fact, one of the reasons it’s
my favorite is because it means I don’t necessarily have to
go out and stay out late at night and drink alcohol in order
to get women to come home with me. Sometimes a guy’s
schedule works out way better if he’s able to just pull
during the day. I know plenty of guys that don’t like going
to clubs and would rather just do their thing only during
the day. I personally recommend getting good at building
sexual tension not only during the day but in the club or
anywhere you are. Well, except work. This method should
not be executed at work, at least, not if you like your job.

A key component to the tension method is that you

have to understand and know where a girl is at throughout
the interaction. One of the things that you have to make
sure is that she is responding well to every one of your
touches when you execute these touches. Especially during
the day when she is very aware of you because you’re obvi‐
ously a stranger that just approached her. She’s watching
you and observing you keenly and she’s listening to you,
because well, who the fuck are you? She doesn’t know you.
You came out of nowhere. So with each touch pay
attention and that will tell you where you’re at.
If she reacts well to the touch take it a step further, if
she does not, pull back. If she doesn’t react that well to a
touch or she seems uncomfortable, continue talking until
you see the window to strike again. I would say if she
doesn’t react well to your touches it could be you are not
doing them at the right time, or you’re not doing them the
right way, or maybe she’s just not going to give you the
buying temperature that you need.
I’m not one of those guys that’s going to tell you if you
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execute this tension method perfectly, you will be guaran‐

teed to get laid. No that’s not the case. You’re not going to
win every girl out there. The best players in the world do
not win every girl that they approach. There’s going to
be plenty of times where you did everything right,
but the girl was just wrong.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve opened a seven
gotten brutally rejected with executing this method only to
turn around minutes after then execute it on a nine or a 10
and then fuck. This is why you can’t take rejection seriously
at all. Not even slightly. In fact rejection should be
taken as a joke to you, something you can look
back and laugh on with your friends. because it
really is a joke.
You see when it comes to women and executing logic
in order to seduce them it really is all about disposition. I
can tell you right now, many of the girls I’ve pulled off the
street using the tension method simply would not have
fucked me, had I met them in some other setting, in some
other place. Also many other girls that I’ve met in clubs
and had sex with probably would not have fucked me had
they met me on the street in broad daylight, who knows.
The bottom line is, don’t try to win every girl. I’m
not going to tell you how many times you have to keep
trying to get a girl comfortable with you touching her.
What I will tell you is this, if the buying temperature just
isn’t there at all stop for a second and ask yourself, “is this
girl worth this effort?” If when you really think
about it, the answer is no, then just stop and move
on to the next one. And this is very true if you live
in a very concentrated city with high traffic of
women such as New York City, London, LA.
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Getting rejected by girls today when executing the

tension method means absolutely nothing to me. I’ve had
so much success with it that even when it doesn’t work I
just look back on the situation and laugh, because I know
the method is so effective that it gives me consistency. So
many times I’d get rejected by a girl knowing fully well I’ve
probably fucked way hotter than her before. Having this
mindset is very key to staying in state and maintaining
frame as well as calibration during the day when executing
this method.
Your state of mind is vital when doing day
game, because there’s so many things around you
that would likely work against you. Societal pressure
from onlookers, if she’s with a friend, what she might
think, or what the friend might think, Cops looking on and
thinking you might be harassing this woman, or just other
people looking on and thinking you might be harassing this
woman. It’s important to know that the tension method
during the day does not look pretty to people that don’t
understand sexual tension. It doesn’t look like some well
executed style where if you follow each step correctly each
step plays out properly and successfully.
I’ve had many situations where I’ve opened the girl
during the day and executed the tension method and it
started off very awkward only to end up in mind blowing
sex with an extremely attractive girl that I was into. On the
flipside I’ve also had a situation where I’ve opened girls and
everything seemed to be going very well from the touching,
to making out, to heavy petting and more, only to end in
me not getting laid. Every girl is different so you must
adjust your mindset to what is being presented to you at
that moment from a woman. If she is showing you
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you have to put in extra amount of effort, it’s time

to just move on to the next girl.
One thing the tension method does or should do if you
learn it effectively, is that it will help you avoid wasting lots
of your time with women. There’s a mental strength to it
too. Some guys just don’t know when to stop when the girl
is exceptionally attractive. They look and they think, this
girl is so hot she’s worth the effort I’m just going to plough
through it until something happens. Please, do yourself a
favor and do not think like this.
When you pursue women with thirst, you give
them the value they probably don’t deserve. But
when you pursue women with logic, you’re giving yourself
value whilst screening hers. Now this sounds a little contra‐
dictory to what many people out there would say in the
community when it comes to game.
Women are not logical beings. How can you
pursue them with a logical method? Here’s why this
method will work consistently. The method is vastly logical
however it’s logical because it’s scientific and psychological.
Its logic depends on a woman reacting to it in a way which
is expected according to her biological make up. You see a
woman can hate the traits that make her a woman, but she
can’t change them. A woman can’t change what turns
her on. If the actions make her wet, she can only
hate that she’s getting wet, but she can’t change
that she actually is getting wet.

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TENSION METHOD: THE CLUB

If you are smart, you already know if you’ve

mastered the street, the club will be like taking
candy from a baby. If you’re comfortable approaching
girls, escalating and building sexual tension in the street,
you’ll be a master amongst amateurs in a club. It’s almost
like you won’t even have to try hard. You can have shitty
vocals, even terrible tonality, and you will still get results
based on your ability to use great body language and Kino
alone with some girls. I’m not going to get into openers,
that’s a very basic thing in the community. Once again, an
opener just catches a girl’s interest, that’s it, nothing more.
My expertise is building and transitioning into getting a
woman to see you as a sex object. And the club is by far the
very definition of the perfect place to see that play out.
The street is essentially the best place to train but the club
is where it looks like pure wizardry playing out right in
front of your very eyes.
The beautiful thing about building sexual tension Is
that not only does it build you to the point of being seen as
a sex object to the girl, it also tells you where you’re at and
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how a girl sees you. Because if your intention is to have sex

with a woman, which who are we kidding, we all know
that’s our intention when we approach a woman, then
you want to know how sexual she is for you.
It’s the ultimate test of knowing where you’re at from
open to close. There’s no greater way of screening a
woman besides trying to build sexual tension with her. If
you spent too much time in a club trying to “talk”
to a girl then eventually she has no choice but to
friendzone you or dismiss you completely because
it’s not going anywhere. In fact getting her to see you
as a sex object in a club is actually doing her a favor
because women come to the club to be sexual. Yes, women
go to clubs in general to be, sluts. I don’t care how many
times you’ve heard a woman say, “I just want to go have
fun with my girls”. Women go to clubs with the back
thought in their mind of the possibility that they
might have sex with some guy that they’re into.
Your job is to make her see you as that guy. If you
hide the fact that you want to fuck her, why would
she let you?

I would say from the moment you open a girl in the

club, you want to start touching her immediately. Now,
the key here is that when you are touching her
you want to start looking at her and how she’s
reacting from that touch, or each specific touch. I
always like to start small with holding her hand or even
grabbing her hand after I realize she’s interested due to
the opener. If she lets me hold her hand for a good period
of time then I move into rubbing, up down touching,
hand on waist etc. Just like in the street, this is the same
except it’s happening at a faster pace. Considering the
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environment and the music. This is just happening on fast

mode.

Essentially this really is the difference between the

club and the street. Yep, that’s it. The difference
between executing the tension method in the club
and the street is basically the time it takes for
things to progress. It’s not harder or it’s not more
complicated. It’s just moving faster.

I’ve taken girls home within less than five, heck even
less than two minutes of interacting with them in the club.
Now some could say that’s due to her being already into
you on some level. And they’re not totally wrong on that.
Essentially the tension method is effective no matter how
long it takes. Focusing on building sexual tension is the very
core of seduction. Because make no mistake, the endgame
of seduction is sex, and men need sex.

When you start to see the results, it’s going to be

scary for you. You won’t believe just how much women
want to have sex with a guy that can simply make them
feel like having sex even if she initially didn’t think about
having sex with him. Some guys don’t believe that
women are as sexual as they actually are. A
common thing that girls tell me, is “you look like you know
what you’re doing “or “you seem to do this a lot “. It’s like
they almost consider it a privilege to be with a guy that can
make them feel like having sex with him. This is how you
should look at this. A woman considers it a privilege
to be with a guy that can seduce her right and
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make her want to fuck him. That in itself should

tell you a lot about women themselves.

They want a guy that’s already made,

not a guy that’s in the making.

The one rule I would say you should never break in a

club is to never chase women. If you open a girl and you
start executing by trying to build Sexual tension and she
breaks off or walks away: I don’t care what she says, even
if it’s “I’m going to go look for my friends “or “I’m going
to go to the bathroom “or “I’m going to be right back”, do
not by any means follow a woman or try to chase a woman
in a club. In fact I’d say it’s really not good for you in the
interaction, even if she encourages you to follow her.
It subconsciously sends the message that you
are inferior in her mind. Even if she tries to lead you
around the club by taking your hand and say, taking you
over to her friends table or section or where her friends are
hanging out by the bar. That in itself will set you back a
couple of points because a woman is not designed or fit to
lead you. To put that even more eloquently, a
woman is not equipped to lead a man whom she
desires. If she wants to have you follow her
around the club, she doesn’t have that much
desire for you.
Now we’ve talked about touching and Kino. I would
say the point at which you can pull the trigger is when
things have already started heating up i.e. kissing, heavy
petting, touching private parts etc. Do not be afraid to
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transition and point this in the right direction. Do not be

scared to say “let’s go back to my place” or some permuta‐
tion of that.

O NCE AGAIN , IF YOU ’ RE TOO SCARED TO LET HER SEE YOU WANT TO

fuck her, why would she let you?

Do women get extremely sexual with you in a club but
yet they don’t want to come back home with you yet? sure.
This could mean lots of things. Her comfort level just isn’t
there yet or she just wants some reassurance that things will
be OK before she does. There is a saying out there in
the community that goes “last-minute rejection, is
actually last-minute reassurance”. At the time of
writing this, I’m not quite sure who coined that term, but if
I ever find out, I will give them respect and homage where
it’s due. Because I actually believe that to be correct. Last
minute resistance is really a woman indirectly acting out
feelings of needing to be assured that it’s OK to be a slut
with you. Because a woman will be a slut for some‐
one. It may not be you, it may not be me, but
make no mistake, a woman will eventually want to
be or act like a slut for someone.

So if she puts up a fight towards pulling her back to

your place, the answer is simple. Try moving her to
another venue or just another area of that club but you’re
already in. You want to get her comfortable with you
leading her around. Because I promise you, if she
isn’t comfortable with even moving to one side of
the club with you or even going outside of the club
with you, she’s probably not going to go home
with you. Now after a couple of tries, if she’s made it
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clear she doesn’t want to, I’d say just take the number and
move onto the next woman. You don’t need to waste too
much time in the club. If your goal is to get one-night
stands or a quick lay, I won’t judge you for that.

Some nights I feel like that’s all I want myself.

However, if that is the goal, to have sex with girls, quickly,
my advice would be to prioritize women in the club. Never
ever be ashamed of this, because women will certainly
prioritize you. When a woman is in a club she’s
looking for the best option she can possibly get,
hence, as a man it is even more critical for you to
prioritize women and only go after girls that you
want. You see, if you are a hunter, your standards
should be set higher than the prey. Prey don’t get
to pick who they get hunted by. They get taken by
whatever hunter is capable of taking them. The
hunter is fully capable of picking what type of
prey he wants, hence it’s the hunter that should
have the highest standards for himself as possible
when hunting. It’s your job as the hunter to be well
equipped to get the best prey you can get possible. In this
case it means a very solid seduction method.

Obviously logistics help. However, logistics really

matter about as much as the girl is into you. The more a
woman sees you as a sex object, the more enthusiastic she
will be about fucking you. You want to focus on building
that sexual tension between you two, so that her mind is
associating you with sex. Think about this for a second.
When you had an amazing sexual encounter with a girl
whether it was making out or touching, rubbing, grinding.
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If you thoroughly enjoyed that, chances are, you

definitely want to see that girl again, because you
want to fuck her. What if I told you this process,
isn’t all that different in women.
Where guys get confused is when they make out or
whatever, and then they don’t hear from this girl again.
Here’s something you need to know about women. Women
will flake. The best thing you can do is reduce your flake
rate. And the best thing you can do to do that is by
building sexual tension. You see the gurus out there that
say no, you need to focus on building a romantic connec‐
tion or a deeper connection, whatever that means, LOL.
This is a failed ideology. Why? Because women are not that
deep. That’s the big mistake that guys make today. They
have this notion that all women are deep thinking senti‐
mental individuals who will associate their sexual raw feel‐
ings with deeper connections with a man. I am here to tell
you this is bullshit in its purest form. This applies specifi‐
cally in a club.
Girls go to clubs to be sluts. Yes, if you didn’t
believe it before, if it wasn’t painfully obvious before, that is
the primary reason why girls go to clubs. Hence the tension
method in a club, when executed right, will be pure beauty
in its simplest form. It’ll be so easy once done right, and
you will have such consistent results, you will literally be
scared of yourself after realizing the power you have
within you. Girls in clubs aren’t looking for a deep connec‐
tion, they want sexual experience. Do you really think they
dress up in short skirts and revealing clothing, because
they’re looking for a deep connection with someone? LOL.
Absolutely not.
Women will fuck casually and on a whim. It may not
be you, it may not be me, but I guarantee you, if you live
in a big metropolitan area such as New York, LA, London,
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Houston, Seattle, San Francisco ...you get where I’m going

with this. Roughly most women will have had one-
night stands and completely quick fucks with
strangers at least once or a few times in their life‐
time. Don’t expect them to tell you about this,
most won’t. Most women are going to tell you about that
relationship that they had with the guy that took them here
and took them there for dinner and fine dining, whatever.
They’re not going to tell you about that stranger they
sucked off in a club bathroom stall. Or that guy who took
them back to the apartment and fucked their brains out
only to say goodbye to them in the morning and never ever
speak to him again. They aren’t going to tell you about
these encounters.
The question I have for you is, do you want to be that
guy? Or do you want to be the guy that puts a ring on that
finger not knowing all of the disgusting and nasty things
this girl has probably done with other guys. I know exactly
how this sounds. It sounds cynical right? I assure you this
will be the truth for most men in marriages, and long-term
relationships in general. Am I saying that all women
are like this? Absolutely not. But many more
women are like this than you think.

So when you go to a club, do you want to be the guy

that she fucked and had insanely, mind blowing, great,
nasty sex with? Or do you want to be the guy that she
makes take her out on five dates or whatever. Or, the guy
that she dates for like three months giving him rules like, “
I don’t sleep with guys that soon”, or do you want to be the
guy that ignited that raw sexual desire within her and
made her do what she, “does not normally do”.

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If you believe that women go to clubs to be sluts, then

you’ll understand when you go to clubs, you should not
take them seriously in any way. It means you should
prioritize them according to looks, attractiveness
as they will be prioritizing you as well. She wants
to be a slut and you want a worthy slut.
So to pretty much conclude this, assume every woman
you meet in the club is there to act out a nasty sexual
fantasy. Don’t hide your sexual intent even slightly.
Stay calibrated and know how to ping her for what stage
she’s at in the interaction. This is very important because if
done wrong you might creep her out or even worse. If
done right, it will be like taking candy from a baby.

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TENSION METHOD: SEXUAL
TENSION

We are now moving into the very core of the tension

method. Building sexual tension itself. After you open and
after you’ve gotten rapport with a girl, it’s important to
know, this can only go on for so long. Meaning you just
started talking to her. She doesn’t know you at all. If you
keep rambling on and talking, even if the conversation is
interesting, or exciting, at some point you have to transition
into creating a sexual frame.
You want to start doing this by well, Kino. If you’re in
the pua community you’ve probably heard this many times
before. The difference is in this case, I am flat out
telling you that if you do not start building Kino in
the first interaction, statistically, you are wasting
your fucking time.
Do you think that a woman remembers you, or is more
enthusiastic about seeing you again, if all you did was talk
about something that she may or may not have been inter‐
ested in or found interesting? People talk about inter‐
esting things all the time. It doesn’t mean that
they’re going to want to see you to discuss it
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again. The same thing applies with girls. I mean think

about it, 8-10s gets approached by many different guys on
a regular basis. Many of them probably discuss things that
they find interesting or exciting. I know every guy likes to
think his game is special and stands out, but the reality is,
it’s not about what you say because chances are it’s prob‐
ably been said to her before or something similar has been
said to her before. So it doesn’t matter what you say.
What matters is how you made her feel.
And if you want to have sex with hot attractive women
that you’re really into, you’re going to have to make her
feel like she wants to have sex with you. Sounds really
simple doesn’t it? You think that would be the proper logic
to apply, right? Well I’m here to tell you that it really is that
simple. The more a woman sees you as a sex object the
quicker she will want to fuck you. Do you think that a
woman would want to see a guy whom she talked about
something exciting with? Or a guy that brought out
her raw sexual desire when they spoke. The
answer to this question is yes for both. A woman
would definitely want to see a guy that talked about some‐
thing that she found exciting, or held a really great conver‐
sation with her, however both need to be incorporated, as
in building sexual tension as well.
If you’re going to focus on just igniting her excitement
with words and interesting topics, you must understand
that a woman who wants to see you again after this, isn’t
really going to be as much enthused about seeing you as
opposed to a woman who you left thinking about you
ramming your cock straight down her throat.
Do not expect many women to agree with what I’m
saying here. Many of them will probably tell you if you
want a “deeper “connection, waiting and delaying that
sexual tension is the way to go. What you’re going to learn
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about women, with experience, is that what they say in

regard to sexual desire versus what they do are two
different things. When a woman describes wanting a
“deeper” connection with a man, it is often used to
describe a man she’s not really that sexually attracted to;
however he strokes her ego by putting her on a pedestal
that she probably doesn’t even deserve. They’ll call this,
“true love”. You see all the guys that she fucked on a
whim prior to that, well they were “mistakes”. If
you believe this, you’re in for a rude awakening.

Why am I going into this? I am saying this to

stress the importance of this method. If you
aren’t building sexual tension with a woman, you
are wasting your fucking time. If she doesn’t
genuinely desire you sexually, you are wasting your time.
Think about this for a second. If you could, would you
rather not be the guy who a woman has raw sexual desire
for because you ignited that in her? Or the guy that she
makes wait because you’re “special” to her.
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• • •

Beneath all of this, there is a need to have an

animalistic killer instinct. As a man you are an apex
predator. You can be a predator, but not predatorial.
Because who are we kidding exactly, when it comes to
seducing women, you have to act like a hunter.
If a woman has to seduce you, she probably
won’t respect you. It’s either she’s not good enough or
you’re not man enough. So when building sexual tension,
calibration is the most important. I mean that’s exactly
how she’s going to look at it. No matter what women say
this is exactly how they will interpret this. You have to
know where you’re at, how fast you can move, reading her
reactions etc. I’ll say this to you, I can give you all the
examples, I can describe many situations I’ve been in,
personally or observed, however mastering this, is only
something that can be learned not taught. Because there’s
so many factors that play when it comes to that. What am I
here for? I’m here to point you in the right direction.
You’re reading this right now, and I bet you’re thinking,
you probably had a chance to bang a couple of girls from
your past had you executed everything I’m describing right
now. Well guess what, you’re not alone. I too have a lot of
instances from the past before I mastered this method
knowing fully well, I could’ve probably closed that chick if
I have more of an animal instinct.

You really want to master the art of sub

communicating sexual intentions whilst getting
her to sub communicate hers for you. The trick is
that on your side, you’re prompting her to get those feel‐
ings for you while on her side, she’s just getting from you
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that you want her to feel those feelings for you. Make no
mistake, she is not aware on the surface level of
what is taking place if you execute this method
right. All she’s really aware of, is that she knows what she’s
doing, she just doesn’t know why she’s doing it. She’ll
invent all types of reasons for why she may have fucked
you, but you know the truth.

To simplify this step in the method, if you master it,

every time you open a girl you would consistently appear
to people looking on like you and that girl are already a
couple. This means you are touching her, you’re hugging
her, you’re holding her, you’re grabbing her ass, you’re
lifting her up, you’re spinning her around, you’re making
out with her. Basically, at this stage she has to be comfort‐
able with you at the end. Meaning she has to see you as a
mate. Someone she wants to fuck. Doesn’t matter why she
wants to fuck you. All that matters is that she is acting as
though she wants to, because well, she wants to.

After each round of pinging her current state,

you’ll know when to turn up the heat, which is basically
when she’s comfortable or enjoying the current stage.

The basic touches I like to start off with are:

- Hand on shoulders
- hand on lower back
- hand(s) on waist
- hand on arm

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I don’t like to put a number this, but I do it a few

times until I’m absolutely fucking sure that she’s
comfortable with it. This cannot be stressed
enough. You must observe how she is reacting to
these touches. If she even slightly looks uncomfortable,
It does not necessarily mean you have to stop, but take a
quick step back, chat with her a little bit more, (because
verbals will have to work for you until you’re ready to
touch her again) and then proceed to do it again until she’s
comfortable with it.
Your verbals matter, so be ready with those canned
materials, or whatever fun shit you have in mind. Just now,
the quicker sexual tension is built the less your verbals will
matter during the interaction. Keep in mind that these
touches are also basic for me, if I even get the
slightest inclination that I don’t even have to go
through these touches and that I can escalate
faster, I capitalize on that. Be able to tell when you
can just do it. In many cases, especially when you become
more advanced, most times you won’t even have to go
through all of it.

Second round of touches:

- hold hands
- rub lower back
- rub or touch (not grab) ass
- momentary full on arm around shoulders hug

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3rd round:

- fingers under chin. Look directly in eyes

- kiss cheeks forehead
- grab ass
- grab sides of her face with fingers massaging
back of head whilst talking to her - lightly bite
cheeks
- make out

4th round:
- rub, pet pelvic area (yes, I’m serious) - rub sides of tits
while making out

5th:
Close the fucking deal

At this point, I know what some of you or I should

say many of you are thinking. Isn’t this all a little too fast?
Fuck no. Relationships begin with sex. No matter
what anyone tells you, that’s how they start. They
don’t begin with long walks in the park, movie dates,
dinner dates, sightseeing Etc. I mean fuck, I can just go on
and on. Without sexual tension, there is absolutely no
connection. It all starts with sex. You do not have any true
relationship with a woman until you have penetrated her.
This is a fact.

I know how extreme this sounds. Because it goes

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against everything you’re told, everything you’re taught,

but the reality is, if everything that you were told and
taught worked up until this point, you probably wouldn’t
really be reading this book. The fact that now we have
millions of men running around doing this pick-up thing, is
clear evidence of the fact that men in general have been
taught and stirred wrong when it comes to Intersexual
dynamics.

I am here to teach you a method that bridges the

gap. I am here to teach you how to be...... Men.

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TENSION METHOD: THE CLOSE

By the time sexual tension is built between you and a

woman, you’ve basically done most of your job. Your job
was pretty much to get her to see you as a sex object.
Because when a woman sees you as a sex object, the easier
it will be for you to fuck. This should be blatantly obvious,
but you’d be surprised just how many men just don’t get
this. You’re left with two options. You can take her home
right away, or you can set this up for another time in which
case you’ve done so much work in getting her to see you as
a sex object, that once that’s successful, the next time you
and her meet it’ll pretty much be a walk in the park. That’s
the goal.

Don’t try to ruin it by running a “text game“, and

then you’re left scratching your head wondering
where the vibe got killed. When done right there is
absolutely no need for a “text game”. I don’t even think
“text game” should be a thing. The thing about texting a

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woman is that it depends largely on how the first interac‐

tion actually went. If you start

texting a girl to try to get her to meet up with you and

her energy towards that vibe is low, then statistically I hate
to break it to you, you’re probably wasting your time. This
is my opinion as I’ve seen it time and time again. There’s
plenty of gurus out there that claim they can increase
attraction, turn a girl who was giving you low energy to
high energy, make a girl attracted to you, make a girl want
to fuck you, all via text. I am here to tell you that it is
without a doubt bullshit.

Statistically speaking, if the first interaction was

not good enough, the texting probably won’t be
either. This is why the tension method is effective in the
sense that if you do the job correctly, meaning build up to
her seeing you as a sex object the first time you meet her,

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then the texting will be purely logistics. Meaning, she is

pretty much ready to go. For some reason it just wasn’t able
to happen when you first met, and now that you're texting
her, it’s just a matter of you guys meeting up. And once a
woman sees you as a sex object, once again, the more
enthusiastic she is about fucking you. As you can probably
guess this also means she will be very enthusiastic about
meeting up with you again. You shouldn’t get much resis‐
tance if you executed the tension method right on the first
interaction.

If you want consistent closes with girls that are

attractive to you, having them see you as a sex object is the
best way possible. Don’t try to be their friend, don’t
try to run some fancy game if it doesn’t include
escalating physically, or don’t try to run some
tactic or some gimmick like I don’t know.......
magic tricks etc. etc. etc. If you’re not going to
physically escalate and make her see you as a sex
object.

When you finally meet up with her, I’m telling you

right now, she will be ready to go. Depending on how
much buying temperature she has, you may have to buy
her a drink, or maybe even a cup of coffee, whatever. The
bottom line is it’s in the back of her mind to want to
fuck you.
Hence it really won’t be that hard. In fact, if you did
what you were supposed to, even the dumbest stupidest
excuse to have sex will work. Let’s say I didn’t fuck a girl
the night that I met her. I’ve ended up having sex with a

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girl the second time I met up with them, and I just used
some of the stupidest excuses. Why did these excuses
work? Because it was already in the back of their minds to
fuck me anyway. Because I got them to see me as a sex
object.

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TENSION METHOD: FINAL
THOUGHTS

I would recommend practicing this via night game

for quickies and then use day game to pull girls
that you would like to keep around. Night game is
extremely flaky. You can think you’re the biggest G out
there. I’ve been with so many girls via night game and club
game, and yet they still flaked.
I personally don’t think it was because they
didn’t want to see me again but more so that they
had what I like to call “slut epiphany “. It’s the
feeling the girl gets when she was a slut for the night with
some guy, wakes up the next day and realizes what a slut
she has actually been. Then she chooses to run away from
the situation because that guy is probably going to expect
her to be a slut always and will always see her as a slut. Of
course that sounds ridiculous, but if you understand check
logic, it will make total sense to you.
I’m not saying you can’t form strong, long-term rela‐
tionships from one-night stands and quickies. What I’m
saying is statistically, it just wouldn’t work in your favor if
that’s the only source you seek to get relationships from.
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The big difference in what makes this method work, is

your masculine polarity. Be the best masculine male
you can be so that you can bring out the best femi‐
ninity in the women that you approach. Because
masculinity prompts gracefulness and femininity inspires
masculinity. A woman yearns to be taken by a man
that she’s attracted to, not concede to, or nego‐
tiate with man that she isn’t attracted to. If she
does not respond to your masculinity and dominant frame,
then just move on, you won’t want to be with her anyway.
Only predatorily, creepy, damaged women want to enter‐
tain weakness in men. Not only do you do yourself a favor
by trying to approach with the most dominant sexual
frame as you can, but you do her a favor by bringing out
the graceful femininity that lies within her. Essentially it’s
up to her to embrace that and if she does, it’ll be a beau‐
tiful thing. If she doesn’t, you just saved yourself a whole
lot of trouble and you can skip to the next.

Always remember relationships start with sex.

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The worst thing you can do is let a woman make

you wait for sex. Because by the act of making you
wait, she’s pretty much saying that at best you
were never good enough for her right now. In my
opinion, that’s worse than an outright rejection
because it aims to give you hope at the expense of
your time. If a woman has a raw genuine desire
for you, she won’t “make you wait “. She may
resist, for various reasons, but the end result
would be that she gives in. And that usually
doesn’t take that long, at least, not unless you
screw it up.

If you are timid about making yourself a sex object

to her, why would she want to fuck you? Why would a
woman look at a man who is too scared to show his sexual‐
ity, or act like he has a dick between his legs? If a woman
is attracted to you, she expects you to escalate. It’s
not even a matter of if she wants that, it’s a matter of how
soon she expects that to happen. And most times, if she’s
really into you, she expects it to happen right away. Dismiss
everything you’ve ever heard about women who will make
any and any Man wait for sex. All women can and are
capable of being sluts. It’s a question of whether or not
you can get her to be a slut for you.

A girl can go from being a virgin to an insatiable

slut for the right guy. If you do not understand why this
makes sense, you do not understand women.

I’m a realist and pragmatist, before I’m an idealist.

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Value does matter. For example, I have a friend. He's short,

not particularly good looking at all. He has dreadlocks and
dyed his hair to look like Rich the Kid(musician). His
face.....looks nothing like Rich the Kid.

We were both at a nightclub a while back. He was

able to convince 2 Swedish girls (really hot) that he was
Rich the Kid. This guy has confidence, but his game is
shitty. He never wanted to learn the game.
I swear to you he took 2 of them to the playground in
the park across from a popular club, .....fucked one while
he fingered the other.
This guy doesn’t get laid often.
If it wasn’t for that perceived value.....would never have
happened.
His game was shitty, but they overlooked all his
mistakes.....because of perceived value.
My point being that his perceived value had to
be exceptionally high. Which in most cases for men
without game, is rare.
This is why learning game/cold approach/ tension
method helps level the playing field. The lower your
perceived value, the more advanced your game has to be.
And you build yourself, that value will go up......but
here’s the sweet part, that advanced knowledge will still be
there.
In closing, the tension method is a method that has
worked very well for me and I have seen it work very well
for other men. Why? Because it’s geared towards
getting results. Who are we kidding, men want
sex. It’s just how we are wired. And we all, as
men, want results.
The fact that every student I meet has taken some sort
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of pick up or gaming class before with some “guru” and

long after this they still don’t know what they’re doing
when it comes to women, is clear evidence that there are in
fact plenty of people out there who, they themselves don’t
know what they’re doing, but yet they’re teaching other
people the same wrong things that they’re doing.
What actually works for men in sexual dynamics is
actually frowned upon by mainstream. What actually
works or is good actionable advice on intersexual dynamics
with women, is never liked by women. It’s never liked by
mainstream at all. The fact that when you look around in
this modern day, any guy that is successful with women is
pretty much hated on by everybody else, is evidence of that
fact. Make no mistake about it, I’m not going to try to
sugarcoat this. If you get advanced at the tension method,
people will hate you. Hate will come from people you
thought were your friends, even family and people you
don’t even know. My best advice to you is that if you work
in corporate or any job at all, keep your successes to your‐
self and other people in the community who are discreet.
Because this method is very raw and straightfor‐
ward and very controversial. And once mastered,
there’s no question about it, you will get results. The real
problem will be how to deal with the results that you get.
But that’s for another book.
By now if you’re smart, you can see that the tension
method is not just about sex. It’s about generating genuine
desire for you by a woman. Because without genuine
desire, all you’re doing is negotiating. The tension method
helps you bridge the gap between a woman’s desire and
your appeal as a man. Because you’ll be surprised to know,
many women don’t really know what they really
find desirable until it’s actually put right in front
of them.
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A woman can tell you that she finds the tall, ripped,
athletic, genetically superior guy as her ideal type, but as
you get more experience with women you’ll find out, they
end up fucking guys that don’t really fit the type that they
describe anyway. If it’s one thing I’ve definitely learned
through my experience with women, is that a woman’s
ideal man in theory is rarely her ideal man in
practice.

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