MELTING HEARTS:

30 SWEET AND ROMANTIC

TEXTS FOR HIM

A Practical Guide on How to Start and Build a Meaningful

Conversation With a Man You Like

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 CONTENTS

Introduction

Importance of texting in terms of building relationships

Challenges women may face while texting men

Main contexts and solutions addressed in the file

1 - Texts for Women to Start a Conversation

1.1 Effective conversation starters for women to approach men

1.2 How to start texting men you really like

1.3 Texts you can send men to make him want to chat with you more

2 - Texts for Women to Make Him Interested

2.1. Texts for attracting his attention

2.2. Texts to get him to call you

2.3. Tips and strategies to make him want to meet you

3 - Texts You Can Send Men to Become a Couple

3.1. How to clear up his intentions

3.2. Texts that can help you build a meaningful connection

3.3. Do's and Don'ts for communication with potential partner

4 - Texts for Women to Build a Long-Term Relationship

4.1. Texts for setting the tone for a long-term relationship

4.2. Texts to establish trust

4.3. Tips for preventing arguments

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5 - Texts for Improving Your Communication as a Couple

5.1. Texts to revive the passion

5.2. Messages that can help you after a conflict

5.3. Texts to express love and support

Conclusion

Bonus: 5 Practical Steps to Melt His Heart

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 INTRODUCTION
Are you tired of endless swiping and meaningless conversations on dating apps?
Do you find it difficult to communicate effectively with the men you meet online or
in person? If so, you are not alone. Many women struggle to connect with men in a
way that leads to meaningful relationships or even just enjoyable conversations.
That's why we have compiled a Guide "15 Texts You Can Send Men" you can use
to communicate more effectively and build stronger connections.

These texts are designed to help you move beyond surface-level small talk and
get to know the men you are interested in on a deeper level. Whether you are
looking for a long-term partner or trying to improve communication with your
man, this Guide can help you express your intentions, interests, and desires in
a clear and engaging way. By using these texts, you can communicate your
personality and values, establish common ground with potential or existing
partners, and build stronger connections that are based on genuine interest
and mutual understanding.

So, if you're ready to break free from the endless cycle of meaningless
conversations and start building real connections, read on to discover the Guide
"15 Texts You Can Send Men" that will help you communicate more effectively
and create lasting relationships.

CHALLENGES WOMEN MAY FACE WHILE TEXTING MEN

In today's world, texting has become an essential part of our communication. It has made
communication much easier, faster, and more convenient. However, when it comes to
texting men, women may face some challenges. So what are the challenges women may

face while texting men?

One of the biggest challenges that women may face while texting men is the possibility of
miscommunication. Women often use more words and emoticons to express their feelings,
while men tend to use fewer words and may come across as abrupt or disinterested. This
can lead to misunderstandings and misinterpretations of what the other person is saying.

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Another one is the expectation of immediate response. Women may feel the pressure to
respond immediately when they receive a text message from a man. Men tend to expect
an immediate response, and if they don't receive one, they may assume that the woman is
not interested or ignoring them. This can cause unnecessary stress and anxiety for women
who may not always be able to respond right away due to work or other obligations.

In addition, men and women often have different communication styles, which can lead to

misunderstandings. Women may be more inclined to use emoticons and emojis to express
their feelings, while men may be more straightforward and to the point. This can lead to
misinterpretations and misunderstandings, as men may not always understand

the nuances of the emojis used by women.

If you add to this list fear of being judged and fear of being too needy, it would better
represent the whole context. Those fears can lead to women holding back and not
expressing themselves fully, which can in turn lead to a lack of emotional connection and

misunderstanding.

CONTEXTS THAT WILL BE ADDRESSED IN THIS GUIDE

The Guide "15 Texts You Can Send Men" was developed by relationships professionals
keeping in mind all of the enlisted challenges.

The Guide will be divided into five main sections that aim to provide you with practical and
effective texting strategies to help you start, maintain, and strengthen your romantic
connections with men.

It will address such contexts as:

Starting a conversation, which includes tips on initiating conversations and

getting to know your potential partner

Making him interested, which provides advice on how to create intrigue and
excitement in your conversations to keep him interested and engaged

Becoming a couple, provides helpful tips for women looking to take their
relationship to the next level and establish a committed partnership

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 Building a long-term relationship, focuses on strategies to maintain a healthy
and lasting relationship with your partner

Improving communication as a couple, offers insights into how to effectively

communicate with your partner to build intimacy, resolve conflicts, and foster
a deeper emotional connection

No matter what stage of your romantic journey you're in, this Guide has got you covered
with practical advice and helpful tips to improve your texting game and strengthen your
relationship with the man you're interested in.

Let's get started!

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TEXTS FOR WOMEN TO START
A CONVERSATION
Starting a conversation with someone you're interested in can be nerve-
wracking, especially if you're a woman trying to approach a man. But don't
worry, there are many effective conversation starters you can use to break

the ice and get the conversation flowing.

EFFECTIVE CONVERSATION STARTERS

The first step to starting a conversation with a man is to have a good opening line.

Here are some effective conversation starters that can help you get the ball rolling:

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Ask for his opinion:

opinion:

Everyone likes to feel valued and heard.

You can start by asking him a question Hey, what do you think of
the latest superhero movie?
about his thoughts on a particular topic.
For example, if you know he likes movies
from his profile, ask

Compliment him:

Giving a genuine compliment is I really like your sense of style, you

look like someone who can break a

always a good icebreaker. Make sure

woman's heart
it's something specific and authentic

Mention a common interest:

If you know the man shares a similar I couldn't help but notice your shirt,
are you a fan of the band?
interest with you, that can be a great
conversation starter

HOW TO START TEXTING MEN YOU REALLY LIKE

Approaching a man you really like can be daunting, but there are a few things you can
do to make it less intimidating.

Keep it casual:

When starting a conversation with someone Hey, how’s your day going?
you really like, it’s best to keep things casual.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself or
him. You could try sending a simple

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Use humor:

A little humor can go a long way in breaking

the ice. If you can make him laugh, you’re off to What's exactly your type
a great start. Try sending a funny starter like and why is it me?

Show interest:

Ask open-ended questions that show you're I noticed you're into baseball, so

I decided to buy the tickets to this

interested in getting to know him better game on Saturday. Are you in?

TEXTS YOU CAN SEND MEN TO MAKE HIM WANT

TO CHAT WITH YOU MORE
Share something interesting:

If you come across an article or news Just saw this guy in a pineapple
shirt, I couldn't help but think of
story that you think he’ll find interesting, you wearing it on that photo
share it with him. It’s a great way to show
that you’re thinking of him and that you
have similar interests

Show your appreciation:

If he does something thoughtful or helpful, Just wanted to thank you for

recommending me that movie. It
don’t be afraid to show your appreciation.
literally made my day! Didn't know
A simple “thank you” text can go a long way you're such a guru in movies

Be flirty:

If you’re feeling brave, try sending a flirty text. Can you please stop thinking
about me? I really need to focus
Just be sure to read the situation and make on my work right now
sure it’s appropriate before you hit send

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TEXTS FOR WOMEN TO MAKE
HIM INTERESTED
As women, we often find ourselves in a situation where we're interested in a guy,
but we're not sure how to get him to notice us. While some of us may feel
hesitant to make the first move, sending a well-crafted text message can be a
great way to capture his attention and spark his interest.

TEXTS FOR ATTRACTING HIS ATTENTION

The first step in getting him interested is to attract his attention. Sending a text message
that stands out from the crowd is key, so it's important to put some thought into what
you're going to say. Here are a few examples of texts that are sure to grab his attention:

Hey, I just saw the I'm trying out a new I just read an article about
funniest meme that or recipe tonight, and I need or
[something he's interested
made me think of someone to be my taste
even in], and I thought of you.
you. Wanna see it? tester. Are you free? Have you heard about it?

These texts are all great because they show that you're thinking of him and that you're
interested in things that he likes. They're also lighthearted and fun, which makes them
more likely to get a response.

TEXTS TO GET HIM TO CALL YOU

Once you've got his attention, the next step is to get him to call you. While texting is
great, it's not the same as having a conversation over the phone. Here are a few
examples of texts that can get him to pick up the phone and give you a call:

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 I've got a funny story to tell you, but it's
I'm having a lazy day today and could

too long to text. Can I call you? or use some company. Wanna chat on

the phone for a bit?

These texts all have one thing in common: they give him a reason to call you. Whether
it's to hear a funny story or catch up on your latest adventure, he'll be more likely to pick
up the phone if he knows there's something interesting to talk about.

STRATEGIES TO MAKE HIM WANT TO MEET YOU

While texting and phone calls are great, nothing beats face-to-face interaction. Here
are a few tips and strategies to make him want to meet you:

Keep the conversation light and flirty. Avoid heavy or serious topics, and focus
on having fun.

Be confident and playful. Show him that you're comfortable in your own skin and
that you don't take yourself too seriously.

Use suggestive language. Without being too explicit, hint at the fact that you're
interested in him romantically.

Here are a few examples of texts that can help you achieve these goals:

I just saw the cutest puppy on my I'm going to this new restaurant tonight,

walk. If you're lucky, I might let you or and I could use some company. Wanna
meet him too ;) join me?

These texts are all great because they show that you're interested in spending time with
him and that you're not afraid to meet in person.

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Although these strategies are effective in terms of communication with men, sometimes
you need to adapt to the real life scenarios. For instance, you might meet in real life in
the neighborhood and these texts won't be needed to suggest meeting over coffee.
Remember, you can utilize these tools but the most important thing is to act naturally
according to your true feelings.

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TEXTS YOU CAN SEND MEN
TO BECOME A COUPLE
Sometimes men are not the brave ones when it comes to commitment, that's
why we outlined main strategies and specific texts that can help you understand
his true intentions and take your relationships to the next level.

HOW TO CLEAR UP HIS INTENTIONS

Before you start sending texts to your potential partner, it's important to clear up his
intentions first. You don't want to waste your time on someone who isn't looking for a
serious relationship. So, here are some texts you can send to clear up his intentions:

I just want to make sure we're on

I've really enjoyed spending time with
the same page. Are you interested in or you and I'm curious if you see a

something casual or are you looking potential future for us?

for something more serious?

By sending these texts, you can get a better understanding of where he's at and whether
he's ready for a serious relationship.

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BUILDING A MEANINGFUL CONNECTION
THROUGH TEXTING

Once you've cleared up his intentions and you know he's looking for a serious relationship,
it's time to start building a meaningful connection with him. Here are some texts you can
send to help you do that:

I really appreciate your honesty and I just wanted to let you know that I'm
vulnerability. It's refreshing to be with or thinking of you and I can't wait to see
someone who can open up like that. you again.

Your goal at this stage is to show him you appreciate your bond and his understanding.

Try to be as honest as possible - only honesty can bring a true love.

DO'S AND DON'TS

FOR COMMUNICATION WITH POTENTIAL PARTNER

DO'S: Don'ts:

Be authentic and genuine in Don't bombard him with texts or come

your texts. Don't try to be across as needy or desperate. Try to
someone you're not just to understand when to stop and give him
impress him. some space.

Use humor and lightness in Don't be afraid to express your feelings and
your texts. Don't take emotions in your texts. Vulnerability can be
everything too seriously. attractive to emotionally available men.

Be responsive and attentive Don't overanalyze his texts or read too

to his texts. Show him that much into them. Take them at face
you're interested in him and value.In most of the cases he means
what he has to say. exactly what he says.

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For instance, instead of saying: You cound say:

Why haven't you texted me back yet?

Couldn't wait for you to text, so doing this
Do you not like me anymore? on my own :) I had a great time on our date
last night. Can't wait to see you again soon!

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TEXTS FOR WOMEN TO BUILD

A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP
Sending the right texts at the right time can be a powerful tool for building trust,
setting the tone for a lasting commitment, and avoiding arguments. In this
section, we'll cover three key aspects of texts that will help you create a strong
and healthy relationship.

HOW TO SET THE TONE FOR A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP

The first step in building a lasting relationship is to set the tone from the very beginning.
These texts will help you establish a foundation of trust and respect that will carry you
through the ups and downs of your relationship.

Thank you for making me feel special.

I'm excited to see where this goes. I value you
I can't wait to make you feel just as loved or and I'm committed to building something
and cherished. meaningful together.

I really appreciate your honesty and openness.

or It's important to me that we can be transparent
with each other as we move forward

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TEXTS FOR ESTABLISHING TRUST
First and foremost, it's important to remember that trust isn't something that's built
overnight. It takes time and effort to establish trust, and it requires consistent
communication and follow-through. That's why texting can be such a powerful tool in
building trust. It allows you to stay connected with the people you care about and to

show them that you're dependable and reliable.

So, what are some practical examples of texts that can help you establish trust?

Let's take a look:

Hey, just wanted to check in. Let me

I know I said I would do X, and I just wanted
know if you want to talk about to let you know that I've taken care of it
anything, I'm always here to help

This text shows that you care about

This text shows that you're reliable and that you
the your partner's well-being and that follow through on your commitments. It's
you're willing to offer your support. It's a important to keep your word, and this text is a
simple gesture, but it can go a long way in
great way to show that you're someone who
building trust. can be trusted.

TIPS FOR PREVENTING ARGUMENTS

Even in the strongest relationships, disagreements can arise. These texts will help you
prevent arguments and maintain a positive tone in your communications.

Choose your words carefully

One of the biggest reasons arguments escalate is because of the language we use.
Words can be powerful, and choosing the wrong ones can trigger negative emotions
and responses. Before you speak, think about how your words might be perceived and
if they could potentially cause offense.

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For example, instead of saying: Try saying:

You always do this! I feel frustrated when this happens.

It hurts me when you say this

By focusing on your own emotions rather than blaming the other person, you're less likely
to cause defensiveness.

Listen actively
Many arguments stem from misunderstandings or miscommunications. Active listening
means making a conscious effort to fully understand the other person's perspective.
This involves asking clarifying questions and summarizing what they've said to ensure
you're on the same page.

For example,

So what you're saying is that you felt ignored when

I didn't respond to your text message earlier?

By actively listening, you're demonstrating that you value the other person's opinions and
are willing to work towards a resolution.

Take a break
Sometimes, the best way to prevent an argument from escalating is to take a break.
When tensions are high, it's easy to get caught up in the heat of the moment and say
things you don't mean. Instead, take a step back and give yourself some time to calm
down. This could mean going for a walk, practicing deep breathing exercises, or
engaging in a relaxing activity. When you're feeling more level-headed, you'll be better
equipped to communicate effectively.

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Practice empathy
Empathy is the ability to understand and share your man's feelings. By putting yourself in
the other person's shoes, you're better able to connect with them and find common ground.

I can understand why you might be feeling upset right

now. I would feel the same way if I were in your position

By practicing empathy, you're creating a more positive and understanding environment

that's less likely to lead to arguments.

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TEXTS FOR IMPROVING YOUR
COMMUNICATION AS A COUPLE
We know firsthand how important communication is in a relationship. But
sometimes, it's not always easy to express ourselves face-to-face, especially
when emotions are running high. That's where texting comes in handy!

Text messages can be a powerful tool to help you connect, express yourself,

and show your partner how much you care.

TEXTS TO REVIVE THE PASSION

When you've been in a relationship for a while, it's normal for the passion to ebb and
flow. But that doesn't mean you can't reignite the spark! Here are some texts to help
you do just that:

Just thinking about the last time we I don't think I've ever told you how much

were together...can't wait to feel your or I love your [insert body part here]. Can't
arms around me again wait to explore it more tonight.

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MESSAGES THAT CAN HELP YOU AFTER A CONFLICT
No matter how much you love each other, conflicts are bound to happen in any relationship.
When you're feeling hurt, angry, or frustrated, it can be hard to express yourself in a
productive way. Here are some texts that can help you calm down, communicate your
needs, and work through the issue together:

I'm feeling really hurt right now, can

I understand that we have different
we talk about what happened? or perspectives, but can we find a

compromise that works for both of us?

Sometimes, you will need to step up first and show your vulnerability to make him open up to

and have an effective communication. You can say something like:

I'm sorry for my part in this argument. C an we take a break and come back to
I love you and I want to work through or this when we're both feeling more calm
this together and centered?

TEXTS TO EXPRESS LOVE AND SUPPORT

Sometimes, the simplest texts can be the most powerful. Letting your partner know that
you love them, appreciate them, and support them can go a long way in building a strong
relationship.

Here are some texts to help you do just that:

J ust wanted to say I love you and

You're doing an amazing job with [insert
I'm grateful to have you in my life. or specific task or project here]. I'm so
proud of you.

In conclusion, text messages can be a powerful tool for improving communication as a

couple. Whether you're trying to reignite the passion, work through a conflict, or express
love and support, these texts can help you connect and communicate in a meaningful way.
Remember, communication is the foundation of any strong relationship, so don't be afraid
to use your words (or your thumbs!) to show your partner how much you care.

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Conclusion:
By now, you should have a good understanding of the basics of male-female
communication over texts and some practical strategies for overcoming
common communication barriers.

In conclusion, these 15 texts are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to
finding the right partner, building and maintaining a strong relationship with
him. By following the tips outlined in each section, you can establish a deep
emotional connection, keep the spark alive, and create a long-lasting, healthy
relationship.

Remember to be authentic, communicate openly, and prioritize your partner's

needs to create a strong foundation for your relationship. With a little effort and
commitment, you can create a relationship that is fulfilling, rewarding, and built
to last.

So go ahead and try out these text messages, and see how they can help you
find the one or build the relationship of your dreams with your partner!

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BONUS:

5 PRACTICAL STEPS TO MELT HIS HEART

1.Be supportive

I know you have a big

presentation today, and I just
wanted to wish you the best
of luck. You've got this!
2. Plan a surprise

I've got a surprise for you tonight.

Dress nice, and I'll pick you up

at 7 pm.

3. Listen to him

I know you've had a tough

week. How about we meet up
and talk about it over dinner
tonight?

4. Be kind and thoughtful

I picked up your favorite candy on

my way home. Just wanted to

make you smile

5. Show physical affection

I'm really looking forward to

seeing you tonight. I could use
a hug from my favourite guy.

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