Lajwanti
Text Interpretation
'Lajwanti' is a story that sheds light on cruelties of Partition against women and forces us to
reflect upon the simple question of whether the trauma of this historical event was the same for
both genders. The author, Rajinder Singh Bedi, one of the leading Urdu writers of the
progressive writer's movement, is primarily known for this genre of Partition tales and had done
a great job in 'Lajwanti' in showing the disparity in the suffering of a woman and a man in the
Partition time. The story is set just in the aftermath of Partition and revolves around 'Sunderlal,' a
man whose wife, 'Lajwanti,' has been abducted during Partition. His loss has made him sensitive
to this cause, and that is why he leads a committee in the locality for the rehabilitation of women
who had been abducted and raped.
The abduction of his wife has made Sunderlal realize the importance of her, and he decided that
he would honor her if he ever found her back, the same wife whom he used to thrash cruelly for
trivial issues. Domestic violence was not something that was frowned upon in society at that
time. Instead, a husband was expected to beat his wife, and the women used to think that getting
a beating is their job. It was such an integral part of the culture that there were songs about it:
Lajo herself used to sing, "I shall never marry a city boy/ He wears boots and my back is
slender…"
This social stigma on gender power division was so ingrained in the masses that even women
despised their husbands if they treated them as equal or let them have some kind of say in things;
they expected to be treated as properties and live under the thumbs of their husbands. This can be
seen from the following extract from the text:
Like the other girls of the village, she knew that all husbands beat their wives. Indeed, if some
men let their wives show independence and spirit, the women themselves would turn up their
noses in contempt and say," What kind of man is he! He can't even control a woman…!"
Another noteworthy point the author has tried to make about the Indian society at that time is the
sheer degree of denial to accept the abducted and raped women as victims and survivors of the
brutality of barbarous criminals. They were treated as if they were responsible for the savagery
against them; it was their fault for being kidnapped and raped. Rather than welcoming and
celebrating these women for fighting through the horrifying cruelty bestowed upon them, they
were shunned and disdained by not only the society but were even forsaken by their own families
in many cases, as shown in the text:
There were some amongst these abducted women, whose husbands, parents, brothers and sisters
refused to recognize them. "Why didn't they die? Why didn't they take poison to preserve their
virtue and honour? Why didn't they jump into a well? Cowards, clinging to life! Thousands of
women in the past killed themselves to save their chastity!..."
The author has also conveyed how the orthodox promoters of this immoral practice of
abandoning women just because they were forcefully abducted and raped during the Partition
based their arguments on Hinduism's ancient scriptures. In the text, the local priest validates the
abandonment by referring to how 'Maryada Purushottam Raja Ram' banished Queen Sita.
However, that is not completely true. Ram never in his heart has the slightest of doubts about his
faithful wife; it was not Ram who ordered Sita to go through 'Agniparikhsya.' (exploring the real
reasons for the banishment is out of the scope of this writing). However, the crux of the point is
the prevailing use of propagation of misinterpretation of sacred texts, which the people held in
high regard, by conservative preachers of the society to justify the immoral abandonment of
women by their families.
The most important part of the story is the one that depicts the mixed emotions of Lajwanti after
returning to her beloved husband and how Sunderlal was deaf to the vibrations of the emotional
rollercoaster her wife was going through due to the trauma she has experienced. First, Lajwanti
was happy, seeing her husband treat her like a goddess and even calling her 'Devi,' the same
husband who used to beat her on most minor issues. She has never been receiving end of such
kindness and love from her husband in her entire time with him. She wanted to let it all out about
her horrifying experience to her husband so that she could feel better. However, her husband
always discarded the proposal believing that it would reopen her wounds, and she is too fragile
like the leaves of 'Lajwanti' to go through that experience again in her mind.
At last, Sunderlal talked a little to Lajwanti about her 'dark days' in abduction, asking her about
whether the kidnapper treated her well or not, whether he was violent with her or not, but that's
it, he never gave her a chance to get it all out of her chest, and her sorrow remain locked up
inside her. Although she was in a state of pure joy with her husband's newfound love and respect,
she was apprehensive that her dream world would get shattered any moment, and she will be
forced to again live with her abductor. This shows how the inability to open up to her husband
about her horrifying experience was pushing Lajwanti towards negative thoughts and anxiety,
which are precursors to post traumatic stress. Soon, suspicion found a place in the mind of
Lajawanti because her husband continued treating her like a fragile being. She started wishing
her life to get back to the way it was before the unfortunate incident. Her husband was unwilling
to listen to the pain she had or was going through due to his misconception that talking about the
incident would be painful for her, but it was the exact opposite.