DIALECTICAL BEHAVIOR THERAPY (DBT) FOR DEPRESSION: A

CLINICAL GUIDE TO HEALING THROUGH EMOTIONAL MASTERY

DR. WAN MARZUKI BIN WAN JAAFAR

DIALECTICAL BEHAVIOR THERAPY
(DBT) FOR DEPRESSION: A CLINICAL
GUIDE TO HEALING THROUGH
EMOTIONAL MASTERY

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Preface

Depression is not simply a state of sadness — it is a complex, multifaceted experience

that touches every corner of life. It clouds perception, dulls motivation, and fractures
the connection between people and their sense of purpose. For millions, it is a silent
struggle that persists despite medication, support, or even previous therapy. In these
dark and heavy spaces, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers more than symptom
relief — it offers a path toward healing with skill, compassion, and hope.

I wrote this book because I have witnessed how DBT can change lives — not just
through theory, but through practice. In my work as a clinician, educator, and mental
health advocate, I have sat with individuals who were drowning in emotional pain,
feeling invisible, misunderstood, or simply “too tired to try again.” And I have watched
as, step by step, they discovered tools to regulate emotions, survive distress, build
relationships, and begin to believe — sometimes for the first time — that life could be
worth living.

This book is for them.

And for the therapist who wants to help them.
And for the family member who wants to understand them.
And for the individual who is them.

DBT, developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan, is best known for its success with borderline
personality disorder and suicidal behavior. But its principles — the balance between
acceptance and change, the development of mindful awareness, the validation of
emotional truth, and the structured training in life skills — are profoundly effective for
treating depression, especially where emotional dysregulation and hopelessness
dominate the clinical picture.

This book is designed as both a clinical guide and a practical workbook. Whether you
are a therapist seeking a structured treatment path, a graduate student learning DBT, or
a person living with depression who wants tools to manage the struggle, this resource
will walk you through DBT's concepts, techniques, and real-life applications step by
step.

In its pages, you will find:

• A clear explanation of DBT’s theoretical roots

• A breakdown of each DBT module as it applies to depression

• Adaptations for individual and group therapy settings

• Worksheets, diary cards, evaluation tools, and case studies

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 • Reflections on the healing journey from both client and therapist perspectives

You will not find perfection or oversimplified promises. You will find structured hope —
a framework to begin again, to show up, to try one more time with one more skill, until
life feels just a little bit more livable.

Healing from depression is not linear. Some days will still be hard. But with the right
tools, guidance, and belief in your own capacity for change, those hard days can
become less overwhelming. And little by little, healing is possible.

May this book serve as a guide and companion — and may it remind you, in every
chapter, that you are not alone.

Warmly,
Dr. Wan Marzuki Wan Jaafar, K.B.; P.A.
9 June, 2025.
Serdang, Selangor Malaysia.

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 TABLE OF CONTENT

Chapter Page

Preface 2

Part I: Foundations of DBT and Depression

Chapter 1: Understanding Depression 6

o Types, causes, and symptoms
o Cognitive and emotional patterns

Chapter 2: Theoretical Foundations of DBT 9

o Origins of DBT by Marsha Linehan
o Core principles: dialectics, validation,
mindfulness

Part II: DBT Framework for Treating Depression

Chapter 3: The Four Modules of DBT 13

o Emotion Regulation
o Distress Tolerance
o Mindfulness
o Interpersonal Effectiveness

Chapter 4: Adapting DBT for Depressive Disorders 17

o Differences from treating BPD
o Customizing interventions

Part III: DBT in Clinical Practice

Chapter 5: Assessment and Treatment Planning 21

o Screening for depression and suicidality
o Setting treatment goals

Chapter 6: Individual DBT Sessions for Depression 26

o Session structure
o Building the therapeutic alliance

Chapter 7: DBT Skills Training for Depressed Clients 31

o Exercises and handouts
o Skills application to depressive
symptoms

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 Part IV: Special Topics and Case Applications

Chapter 8: DBT for Adolescents and Young Adults with 36

Depression

Chapter 9: DBT in Group Therapy Settings 41

Chapter 10: Case Studies and Success Stories 46

Part V: Resources and Tools

Chapter 11: Worksheets and Skills Practice 51

Chapter 12: Evaluation and Progress Monitoring Tools 56

Appendices 61

• Appendix A: Sample Treatment Plan

• Appendix B: DBT Diary Cards for Depression
• Appendix C: Clinical Supervision Tips
• Academic References

About the Author 66

About the Publisher 67

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Chapter 1: Understanding Depression

Introduction

Depression is one of the most prevalent and debilitating mental health conditions
globally. It affects how a person thinks, feels, and behaves — often leading to emotional
and physical problems that interfere with daily functioning. While traditional treatments
such as medication and cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) are effective for many, a
significant number of individuals continue to experience chronic or treatment-resistant
depression. In this context, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) emerges as a powerful
and compassionate approach, particularly for individuals with emotion dysregulation,
suicidal ideation, or comorbid conditions.

The Nature of Depression

• Definition and Diagnostic Criteria

o According to the DSM-5-TR, Major Depressive Disorder (MDD) is

characterized by persistent sadness, loss of interest, changes in appetite
or sleep, fatigue, feelings of worthlessness, and difficulty concentrating.

• Subtypes of Depression

o Persistent Depressive Disorder (Dysthymia)

o Atypical Depression

o Depression with anxious distress

o Depression with suicidal behavior

• Prevalence and Impact

o Depression affects more than 280 million people globally, cutting across
age, gender, and culture.

o It is the leading cause of disability worldwide (WHO, 2023).

• Risk Factors

o Biological: Genetic predisposition, neurochemical imbalances

o Psychological: Cognitive distortions, unresolved trauma, low self-esteem

o Social: Loneliness, relational conflict, poverty, social injustice

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 Emotional Dysregulation in Depression

Many individuals with depression experience overwhelming emotions that they struggle
to regulate. This includes:

• Persistent sadness or emptiness

• Intense guilt or shame

• Hopelessness and helplessness

• Difficulty tolerating distress

These features overlap significantly with emotion dysregulation, which is a central

target in DBT. This conceptual alignment makes DBT particularly effective for individuals
whose depression is rooted in emotional vulnerability.

Limitations of Traditional Approaches

While antidepressant medications and CBT offer relief, they may fall short for:

• Clients with chronic suicidal ideation

• Clients with severe emotion dysregulation

• Individuals who feel invalidated or misunderstood by structured cognitive

methods

DBT fills this gap by combining acceptance strategies (mindfulness and validation) with
change-oriented strategies (behavioral skills and problem-solving), making it highly
suitable for complex depressive presentations.

A Shift Toward Skills-Based Healing

DBT reframes treatment from “curing depression” to “building a life worth living.” It
empowers individuals with:

• Skills to endure pain without self-destruction

• Tools to manage emotional storms

• Strategies to communicate and connect effectively

This skills-based, validating approach not only alleviates symptoms but builds
resilience, self-respect, and agency — key ingredients in long-term recovery from
depression.

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 Summary

Depression is not just a mood disorder but a full-body, full-mind experience that impairs
functioning and well-being. When traditional treatments don’t fully address the
emotional and interpersonal complexities of depression, DBT offers an integrative, skill-
based, and life-affirming approach. Understanding depression from the lens of emotion
dysregulation paves the way for the rest of this book — a clinical journey into how DBT
transforms despair into hope.

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Chapter 2: Theoretical Foundations of DBT

Introduction

To effectively apply Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) for the treatment of depression,
it is essential to understand the theoretical and philosophical roots of the approach.
DBT is not just a collection of behavioral techniques; it is a comprehensive therapeutic
model grounded in dialectics, behaviorism, mindfulness, and biosocial theory. These
elements work synergistically to address the complex interplay between emotional
suffering, cognitive rigidity, and interpersonal dysfunction that often accompany
depressive disorders.

Historical Development of DBT

• Origin and Purpose

DBT was developed in the late 1980s by Dr. Marsha Linehan to treat chronically
suicidal individuals, particularly those diagnosed with Borderline Personality
Disorder (BPD). Linehan herself, having experienced intense emotional suffering,
sought to develop an approach that validated emotional pain while also offering
concrete methods for change.

• Transition to Broader Use

Over time, DBT’s effectiveness extended beyond BPD. It is now successfully
applied in the treatment of mood disorders, substance use, eating disorders,
PTSD, and, notably, major depressive disorder (MDD) — particularly when
traditional therapies prove insufficient.

Core Philosophical Principle: Dialectics

• Definition
The term “dialectical” refers to the synthesis of opposites. DBT’s central dialectic
is the balance between acceptance and change — two concepts that often feel
contradictory, especially to individuals struggling with depression.

• Application to Depression
Many clients with depression struggle with black-and-white thinking, self-
criticism, and internal conflict. DBT helps these individuals move from:

o “I’m a failure” ↔ “I am struggling, but I can grow.”

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 o “Nothing works” ↔ “Some things haven’t worked, but new strategies may
help.”
This dynamic process fosters cognitive flexibility and hope, rather than
resignation.

The Biosocial Theory

• Core Concept
DBT is built upon the biosocial theory of emotion dysregulation, which posits
that emotional disorders arise from a combination of:

1. Biological vulnerability (e.g., heightened emotional sensitivity)

2. Invalidating environments (e.g., childhood neglect, societal stigma)

• Relevance to Depression
Many individuals with depression were raised or live in environments where their
emotional experiences are minimized or ignored. Repeated invalidation leads to:

o Emotional suppression

o Low self-worth

o Difficulty trusting one's inner experience

DBT addresses these wounds by validating emotions and teaching
healthier responses to them.

Behavioral Science Foundations

• Operant and Classical Conditioning

DBT incorporates behavioral analysis to identify how maladaptive behaviors
(e.g., avoidance, withdrawal, self-harm) are reinforced over time.

• Chain Analysis
This technique helps clients identify the sequence of thoughts, feelings, events,
and behaviors that lead to depressive spirals. By understanding these patterns,
therapists and clients collaboratively explore alternative responses.

• Skills Acquisition
Like CBT, DBT emphasizes skills training — but DBT’s modules are deeply
focused on tolerating emotional pain and building interpersonal strength, which
directly support recovery from depressive states.

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 Mindfulness: The Heart of DBT

• Origins
DBT integrates principles of mindfulness from Eastern contemplative traditions,
especially Zen Buddhism, into Western psychology.

• Functions in Depression Treatment

o Encourages present-moment awareness

o Reduces rumination and catastrophizing

o Promotes non-judgmental acceptance of one’s emotional state

o Increases tolerance for unpleasant emotions without impulsive reaction

Validation as a Healing Agent

• Radical Acceptance
In DBT, validation is not passive agreement, but active recognition of a person’s
internal experience as real and understandable. For someone with depression,
who often hears “Just snap out of it,” validation is profoundly healing.

• Levels of Validation
DBT therapists are trained to validate across six levels — from basic listening to
deeply acknowledging a person’s internal logic — helping depressed clients feel
seen and respected, even in their darkest moments.

The Structure of DBT

• Multimodal Approach
DBT typically includes four treatment components:

1. Individual Therapy

2. Skills Training Group

3. Phone Coaching

4. Therapist Consultation Team

While some adaptations may simplify the model for depression treatment, maintaining
the skills-based and relationship-based framework is crucial.

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 Integration with Other Theories

• DBT complements elements of:

o Cognitive Therapy (challenging unhelpful thoughts)

o Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) (acceptance and values-

based living)

o Interpersonal Therapy (IPT) (improving relational patterns)

Its flexibility makes it a robust, integrative model well-suited to the heterogeneous

nature of depressive disorders.

Summary

Dialectical Behavior Therapy represents a revolutionary integration of Eastern

mindfulness, Western behavioral science, and a compassionate understanding of
emotional suffering. At its core, DBT views clients not as defective or irrational, but as
people doing the best they can with the tools they have — and capable of building new,
life-enhancing tools. Understanding DBT’s theoretical foundations provides the
scaffolding upon which this therapeutic journey toward healing depression is built.

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Chapter 3: The Four Modules of DBT

Introduction

At the core of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) lies a structured skills-training

curriculum designed to empower individuals to manage emotional distress, improve
relationships, and lead more fulfilling lives. These skills are taught through four
interrelated modules: Mindfulness, Distress Tolerance, Emotion Regulation, and
Interpersonal Effectiveness. Each module plays a vital role in helping clients with
depression break out of cycles of despair, hopelessness, and self-defeating behavior.
This chapter provides an in-depth exploration of each module and its application in
treating depressive disorders.

1. Mindfulness: Cultivating Present-Moment Awareness

Purpose:

To anchor individuals in the present, enhance self-awareness, and reduce automatic,

judgmental reactions to thoughts and emotions.

Key Concepts:

• Wise Mind: The integration of Emotional Mind and Rational Mind, leading to
balanced decision-making.

• What Skills: Observe, Describe, Participate

• How Skills: Non-judgmentally, One-mindfully, Effectively

Relevance to Depression:

• Reduces rumination and self-criticism

• Enhances emotional clarity and perspective-taking

• Teaches clients to observe depressive thoughts without fusing with them

🛠 Example Practice:

“Leaves on a Stream” — A mindfulness exercise that helps clients watch their thoughts
float by like leaves, reducing identification with negative content.

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 2. Distress Tolerance: Surviving Emotional Pain Without Destruction

Purpose:

To provide short-term strategies for enduring crises and intense emotional pain without
resorting to self-harm, isolation, or maladaptive behaviors.

Key Skills:

• TIPP (Temperature, Intense Exercise, Paced Breathing, Paired Muscle Relaxation)

• Distract with ACCEPTS (Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions,

Pushing away, Thoughts, Sensations)

• Self-Soothing using the five senses

• Radical Acceptance: Accepting reality as it is, without resistance

Relevance to Depression:

• Prevents impulsive decisions during depressive episodes

• Offers tools to cope with suicidal urges or emotional paralysis

• Helps build emotional endurance during times of hopelessness

🛠 Example Practice:

“Crisis Survival Plan” — A personalized toolkit clients use when overwhelmed by

depressive symptoms.

3. Emotion Regulation: Managing Emotional Vulnerability

Purpose:

To help clients understand, label, and change unhelpful emotional responses through
skillful action and self-awareness.

Key Skills:

• Identifying and labeling emotions

• Checking the facts: Are the emotions justified?

• Opposite action: Doing the opposite of what depressive emotions urge

• Building positive emotional experiences (short-term and long-term)

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 • Reducing vulnerability with ABC PLEASE (Accumulate positives, Build mastery,
Cope ahead, Physical illness, Eating, Avoid mood-altering substances, Sleep,
Exercise)

Relevance to Depression:

• Teaches clients to break the cycle of avoidance and withdrawal

• Builds confidence in managing mood fluctuations

• Promotes resilience by encouraging proactive emotion care

🛠 Example Practice:

“Emotion Diary” — A daily log of emotions, triggers, and responses, helping clients
become more emotionally literate and reflective.

4. Interpersonal Effectiveness: Strengthening Relationships

Purpose:

To enhance clients’ ability to communicate their needs, set boundaries, and maintain
self-respect in relationships.

Key Skills:

• DEAR MAN (Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, Mindful, Appear confident,

Negotiate) — for objective effectiveness

• GIVE (Gentle, Interested, Validate, Easy manner) — for relationship effectiveness

• FAST (Fair, Apologies not overused, Stick to values, Truthful) — for self-respect
effectiveness

Relevance to Depression:

• Many clients with depression isolate or struggle with conflict and rejection

• These skills help improve social support and reduce interpersonal stress

• Builds empowerment and self-worth through respectful assertiveness

🛠 Example Practice:

“DEAR MAN Role-Play” — Practicing assertive communication in session to request

support, say no, or resolve conflict.

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 Summary

The four modules of DBT provide a structured and dynamic roadmap for healing from
depression. They help clients:

• Become more aware of their internal experiences (Mindfulness)

• Survive emotional storms without falling apart (Distress Tolerance)

• Manage and shift overwhelming emotions (Emotion Regulation)

• Cultivate healthy, meaningful relationships (Interpersonal Effectiveness)

Together, these skills move clients from surviving to thriving — from passivity to
purpose. In the chapters ahead, we will explore how these modules are applied in
actual therapy sessions to support clients facing depressive symptoms.

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Chapter 4: Adapting DBT for Depressive Disorders

Introduction

While DBT was originally developed to treat individuals with Borderline Personality
Disorder (BPD) and chronic suicidality, its structured, skill-based, and validating
approach makes it highly effective for treating depressive disorders, especially in
individuals who struggle with emotion dysregulation, rumination, low self-worth, or
interpersonal conflict. However, using DBT for depression requires thoughtful
adaptation — not just replication of the original model.

This chapter outlines how DBT is tailored for depressive clients in clinical settings,
addressing symptomatology, therapeutic focus, session pacing, and integration with
other modalities where appropriate.

Why Adapt DBT for Depression?

While depression and BPD share some overlapping features (emotional instability,
hopelessness, impulsivity), clients with depression typically:

• Exhibit lower levels of behavioral impulsivity, but higher levels of passivity and
withdrawal

• Struggle with anhedonia, motivation, and mental fatigue

• Have fewer interpersonal conflicts, but often feel lonely or misunderstood

• May experience more persistent low mood than emotional reactivity

Therefore, treatment goals, pacing, and skill emphasis must be adjusted to:

• Match the client’s energy and motivation level

• Focus on re-engagement with life, not just crisis survival

• Emphasize behavioral activation, not just emotional stabilization

Adapting the Structure of DBT for Depression

1. Session Frequency and Duration

• Standard DBT involves weekly individual therapy, weekly group skills training,
and as-needed phone coaching.

• For depressive clients:

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 o Group sessions may need more structured facilitation to reduce
disengagement

o Shorter, more frequent check-ins can be more effective in acute phases

o Flexibility is key — some clients may benefit more from individual

sessions initially before joining group work

2. Therapeutic Priorities

DBT uses a treatment hierarchy to prioritize interventions:

1. Life-threatening behaviors

2. Therapy-interfering behaviors

3. Quality-of-life interfering behaviors

4. Skills acquisition

For depression, these priorities shift slightly:

• Passive suicidal ideation, self-neglect, or emotional numbing may be the

primary safety concerns

• Therapy-interfering behaviors such as avoidance, missed appointments, or

disengagement may be more common than overt conflict

Targeting Depression Through DBT Skills

Emphasize Behavioral Activation (BA) through Emotion Regulation Module

• Depression thrives on inactivity, avoidance, and low reward sensitivity

• DBT helps reverse this through:

o Building Mastery: Small, achievable daily tasks

o Accumulating Positives: Scheduling pleasurable or meaningful activities

o Opposite Action: Doing what depression tells you not to do (e.g., going
outside, calling a friend)

Use Mindfulness to Counter Rumination

• Depressed clients often replay negative thoughts or memories

• DBT Mindfulness teaches clients to:

o Notice these thoughts non-judgmentally

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 o Redirect attention to the present

o Practice one-mindfully to reduce overwhelm

Tailor Distress Tolerance Skills for Low-Energy States

• Standard distress tolerance skills (e.g., TIPP) may feel too activating

• Instead, use more self-soothing, acceptance, and grounding techniques for

clients who feel emotionally flat or stuck

Adapt Interpersonal Skills for Social Withdrawal

• DEAR MAN and GIVE may feel too advanced for clients in deep isolation

• Begin with:

o GIVE skills to build warm connections

o Psychoeducation on the role of support systems

o Role-playing small social steps (e.g., initiating a short conversation)

Balancing Validation and Encouragement

In clients with depression, the therapist’s role is to walk the line between validating
emotional pain and gently encouraging action. Validation fosters trust and safety;
encouragement fosters momentum.

Example Dialogue:

• Validation: “It makes sense that getting out of bed feels impossible right now —
your body and mind are exhausted.”

• Encouragement: “And I wonder — could we try just sitting up for a minute

together? You don’t have to do it alone.”

This dialectical stance — holding space for pain while moving toward hope — is the
therapeutic heart of DBT for depression.

Integration with Other Modalities

Although DBT can stand alone, it is often enriched by integration with:

• Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): For targeting core beliefs and cognitive
distortions

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 • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): For values-based action and
cognitive defusion

• Medication Management: Antidepressants may be helpful, especially for

moderate to severe MDD

Therapists should coordinate with psychiatrists and other providers as part of a

comprehensive care plan.

Therapist Self-Care and Awareness

Working with depressive clients can evoke countertransference — therapists may feel
hopeless, drained, or ineffective. DBT therapists are trained to:

• Attend consultation teams for support and skill-building

• Practice mindfulness and self-compassion

• Set clear boundaries while maintaining a stance of radical genuineness

A regulated, hopeful therapist becomes a model of emotional resilience for the client.

Summary

Adapting DBT for depression involves more than teaching skills — it requires a
recalibration of the entire treatment lens. By emphasizing validation, building
motivation, and aligning skills with depressive symptomatology, DBT becomes a
powerful vehicle for recovery. Clients are not just learning to manage depression — they
are learning to build lives infused with meaning, connection, and strength.

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Chapter 5: Assessment and Treatment Planning

Introduction

Effective treatment of depression using Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) begins with a
thorough and nuanced assessment process. Unlike traditional approaches that focus
primarily on symptom severity, DBT emphasizes a functional understanding of
emotional dysregulation, behavioral patterns, environmental influences, and the
client’s capacity to engage with change. This chapter outlines a DBT-informed
approach to assessment and treatment planning for clients with depression, including
tools, clinical considerations, and goal-setting strategies.

Comprehensive DBT Assessment for Depression

1. Establishing Diagnostic Clarity

Although DBT is not diagnosis-bound, a formal diagnosis of Major Depressive Disorder

(MDD) or related mood disorders is important to:

• Guide treatment direction

• Coordinate care with prescribing professionals

• Monitor outcomes over time

Tools for Diagnostic Assessment:

• Beck Depression Inventory-II (BDI-II)

• Patient Health Questionnaire-9 (PHQ-9)

• Hamilton Depression Rating Scale (HAM-D)

2. Assessing Suicide Risk

Depression is frequently accompanied by passive or active suicidal ideation. DBT

prioritizes life-threatening behavior at the top of its treatment hierarchy.

Assessment Tools and Questions:

• Columbia Suicide Severity Rating Scale (C-SSRS)

• Direct inquiry about thoughts, plans, intent, means, and history

• Use of behavioral chain analysis to explore self-harming urges

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 Note: Early identification and safety planning are critical. DBT therapists must be
trained in managing chronic suicidal ideation with validation and behavioral
containment strategies.

Functional Behavioral Analysis (FBA)

Rather than focusing solely on symptoms, DBT emphasizes a behavioral

understanding of emotional responses:

• What triggers depressive behaviors?

• What maintains them?

• What consequences reinforce them?

Example:
A client stays in bed for most of the day.

• Trigger: Feelings of worthlessness upon waking

• Behavior: Avoids getting up

• Consequences: Temporary relief from pressure, but worsened self-criticism

later

Understanding these sequences through Chain Analysis allows for precise intervention
planning.

Assessing Emotion Dysregulation

In clients with depression, emotions may feel:

• Blunted (emotional numbing)

• Overwhelming (grief, shame, despair)

• Persistent (sadness or emptiness that doesn’t lift)

Use structured interviews and self-report inventories such as:

• Difficulties in Emotion Regulation Scale (DERS)

• Emotion Regulation Questionnaire (ERQ)

This helps identify which DBT modules need emphasis (e.g., Emotion Regulation vs.
Distress Tolerance).

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 Exploring Environmental and Systemic Factors

Depression is often shaped and sustained by invalidating environments, such as:

• Emotionally distant family systems

• High-performance academic or workplace stressors

• Societal or cultural stigma

DBT assessment also explores:

• Availability of support systems

• Environmental triggers for shame or helplessness

• History of invalidation (especially in childhood or adolescence)

Readiness and Commitment to Treatment

DBT operates from the principle that clients are doing the best they can, but they also
need to work harder and learn new skills. Therapist and client collaboratively explore:

• Motivation to change (without judgment)

• Barriers to change (e.g., fatigue, trauma history)

• Willingness to practice DBT skills

Tools such as the DBT Commitment Questionnaire and Diary Cards help evaluate
readiness.

Tip: Use motivational interviewing techniques alongside DBT to engage clients who
feel ambivalent about recovery.

Treatment Planning in DBT for Depression

DBT treatment plans are collaborative, dynamic, and skills-based. Each plan is
structured around:

1. Treatment Goals

• Decrease depressive symptoms and suicidal ideation

• Increase emotional regulation and self-efficacy

• Enhance daily functioning and social engagement

• Build a life worth living

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 2. Target Behaviors

Following the DBT hierarchy:

1. Suicidal and self-harming behaviors

2. Therapy-interfering behaviors (e.g., disengagement, avoidance)

3. Quality-of-life interfering behaviors (e.g., isolation, poor sleep, lack of routine)

3. Skills Training Priorities

Tailored to client needs. For example:

• Clients with severe hopelessness → Distress Tolerance and Mindfulness

• Clients with low motivation and inactivity → Opposite Action and Building
Mastery

• Clients with conflictual relationships → Interpersonal Effectiveness

4. Monitoring Tools

• DBT Diary Cards: Daily log of emotions, urges, behaviors, and skills used

• Mood Tracking Apps or Worksheets

• Regular check-ins using BDI-II or PHQ-9 scores

These tools ensure the plan remains responsive and measurable.

Collaborative Contracting and Treatment Agreements

Before therapy begins, DBT uses a treatment contract to clarify expectations:

• Commitment to attend sessions

• Willingness to work on skills

• Agreement to prioritize safety

This contract supports therapeutic alliance, reduces dropout, and sets a clear path for
accountability and progress.

Cultural and Contextual Sensitivity

Depression may manifest differently depending on cultural background. For example:

• In some cultures, depression is expressed somatically (e.g., fatigue, pain)

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 • In collectivist cultures, interpersonal harmony may be prioritized over self-
assertion

DBT therapists must:

• Validate culturally specific expressions of distress

• Adapt skill examples to be relevant and respectful

• Collaborate with family or community supports when appropriate

Summary

Assessment and treatment planning are foundational to successful DBT intervention for
depression. By moving beyond diagnostic labels and embracing a behavioral,
emotionally sensitive, and collaborative framework, DBT therapists empower clients to
see their depression not as a permanent identity, but as a pattern that can be
understood, challenged, and changed. With a personalized plan and strong therapeutic
alliance, the path to healing becomes structured, hopeful, and deeply human.

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Chapter 6: Individual DBT Sessions for Depression

Introduction

In Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), individual therapy plays a central role in

supporting clients through the intense challenges of depression. While group skills
training teaches the "what" of DBT, individual sessions focus on the "how" — helping
clients apply skills to their real-life struggles, understand the function of their behaviors,
and build a meaningful life through sustained therapeutic support.

This chapter outlines how DBT individual sessions are structured for clients with
depression, including session flow, therapeutic stance, use of behavioral tools, and
strategies for fostering client engagement and change.

The Role of Individual Therapy in DBT

DBT individual therapy serves four essential purposes:

1. Targeting problem behaviors using behavioral analysis

2. Motivating and reinforcing skill use

3. Applying skills to real-life depressive challenges

4. Strengthening the therapeutic alliance through validation and structure

This is especially vital in depression, where clients often struggle with:

• Hopelessness

• Passivity or avoidance

• Emotional withdrawal

• Self-judgment or shame

The therapist becomes both a coach and an emotional anchor — validating pain while
guiding the client toward change.

Structure of a Standard DBT Individual Session

A typical DBT individual session (usually 45–60 minutes) follows a semi-structured

format designed to maintain therapeutic focus while remaining flexible to the client’s
evolving needs.

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 1. Diary Card Review

At the beginning of each session, the therapist and client review the DBT Diary Card,
which tracks:

• Emotional intensity

• Urges and behaviors (e.g., isolation, self-harm)

• Skill use

• Sleep, appetite, and medication adherence (if relevant)

This data helps the therapist prioritize session content and reinforce skill application.

2. Session Agenda Setting

Using the Diary Card and any new developments, the therapist and client
collaboratively identify priority targets for the session. This may include:

• A recent crisis (e.g., suicidal ideation)

• Failure to use skills during a depressive episode

• A conflict or challenge in applying interpersonal skills

In DBT, life-threatening behaviors take precedence, followed by therapy-interfering

behaviors and then quality-of-life-interfering behaviors.

3. Chain Analysis (When Needed)

If a problematic behavior occurred (e.g., skipped work, social isolation, binge eating),
the therapist guides the client through a Chain Analysis:

• What were the vulnerability factors?

• What triggered the behavior?

• What thoughts, emotions, and urges followed?

• What skill was or wasn’t used?

• What was the consequence?

This process uncovers behavioral patterns and identifies points for skill insertion and
emotional understanding.

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 4. Solution Analysis and Skill Coaching

After analyzing the problem, the therapist helps the client generate alternative
responses using DBT skills. For example:

• Use Opposite Action to counteract avoidance

• Use Self-Soothing instead of ruminating

• Apply DEAR MAN to request support from a friend

The therapist reinforces self-efficacy and experiential learning, encouraging practice

between sessions.

5. Validation and Encouragement

Validation is a core component of every session. Depressed clients often feel that their
suffering is dismissed or misunderstood. DBT therapists validate by:

• Acknowledging the internal logic of the client’s experience

• Affirming the difficulty of change

• Balancing validation with encouragement: “I see how much this hurts — and I
believe you can take one small step.”

6. Homework Assignment

The session ends with a collaborative plan for:

• Skill practice (e.g., mindfulness or opposite action)

• Behavioral experiments

• Updating the Diary Card

• Planning pleasurable or mastery-building activities

Therapist Stance in DBT for Depression

DBT therapists embody a unique combination of compassion and structure, often

described as:

• “Validating, but not rescuing”

• “Accepting, yet challenging”

• “Kind, but focused on behavior change”

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This dialectical stance is particularly important for depressed clients, who may:

• Crave support but fear rejection

• Feel stuck but resist change

• Want to be understood but push others away

The therapist must remain:

• Genuine — sharing observations without condescension

• Nonjudgmental — avoiding labels like “lazy” or “resistant”

• Optimistic — maintaining hope when the client cannot

Managing Common Challenges in Sessions

1. Low Motivation and Energy

• Use micro-goals: “What’s one thing you might do after this session?”

• Validate fatigue while reinforcing action

• Apply behavioral activation principles

2. Therapy-Interfering Behaviors

• Address missed sessions, disengagement, or Diary Card avoidance

• Explore the function: avoidance of failure, fear of being judged, etc.

• Frame challenges dialectically: “You’re struggling, and you’re still here — that
matters.”

3. Emotional Shut Down or Numbness

• Use Mindfulness of Current Emotion or Observe and Describe techniques

• Reinforce any small emotional awareness as progress

• Avoid pressuring the client to “feel more” — let awareness emerge naturally

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 Case Illustration: Sample Session Flow

Client: “I stayed in bed all weekend. I didn’t answer any messages.”

Therapist:

• Validation: “It sounds like you felt overwhelmed and hopeless, and withdrawing
was the only way you knew to survive the weekend.”

• Chain Analysis: “Let’s look at what led up to that — what was happening Friday
night?”

• Skill Insertion: “If we paused that moment — what skill could we have used
instead?”

• Encouragement: “Would you be willing to try one opposite action tomorrow

morning — maybe just opening the curtains or stepping outside?”

This session builds insight, strengthens self-efficacy, and deepens the therapeutic
alliance.

Therapist Supervision and Self-Care

Depression can be contagious — emotionally and cognitively. Therapists working with

severely depressed clients must:

• Attend consultation team meetings

• Monitor their own emotional responses (e.g., hopelessness, frustration)

• Practice self-validation and mindfulness

• Reflect on progress, not just symptoms

Summary

Individual DBT sessions for depression are where healing becomes personal. With each
conversation, each chain analysis, and each skill coached, the client reclaims a sense
of agency and hope. The therapist's role is not to “fix” depression but to walk beside the
client, guiding them skillfully and compassionately through the darkest valleys toward a
life worth living.

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Chapter 7: DBT Skills Training for Depressed Clients

Introduction

At the heart of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is skills training — a systematic,

structured method of teaching clients how to manage overwhelming emotions, navigate
interpersonal difficulties, tolerate distress, and develop present-moment awareness.
For individuals with depression, these skills serve as life-saving tools, equipping them
with practical strategies to disrupt patterns of passivity, withdrawal, and emotional
suffering.

This chapter explores how DBT skills training is adapted specifically for clients with
depression, including instructional techniques, pacing, module prioritization, and group
vs. individual delivery formats.

The Role of Skills Training in Treating Depression

Many individuals with depression feel helpless or stuck, unable to change their
circumstances or reactions. DBT reframes this experience by offering the message:

“You are not broken. You may just lack the skills you need. And skills can be learned.”

DBT teaches skills across four core modules, previously discussed in Chapter 3:

1. Mindfulness

2. Distress Tolerance

3. Emotion Regulation

4. Interpersonal Effectiveness

But when working with depression, therapists must go beyond teaching content — they
must help clients practice, personalize, and embody these skills to create meaningful
change.

Structuring DBT Skills Training for Depression

Group vs. Individual Skills Training

• Standard DBT offers group-based skills training (weekly, 2–2.5 hours).

• For depression, consider:

o Smaller groups to reduce overstimulation or withdrawal

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 o Shorter sessions (e.g., 60–90 minutes) to match energy levels

o Supplemental individual sessions for personalized skills coaching

o One-on-one skills orientation for those too withdrawn for group settings

Tip: Use examples relevant to depression (e.g., using distress tolerance to face
mornings, applying opposite action when isolating).

Session Flow (Recommended Weekly Format):

1. Mindfulness Practice (10–15 minutes)

o Grounding exercise to begin

2. Homework Review (15–20 minutes)

o Discuss use of previously taught skills

3. New Skill Introduction (30–40 minutes)

o Use handouts, metaphors, real-life examples

4. Application Practice (15–20 minutes)

o Role-play, small group discussion, or personal reflection

5. Homework Assignment (5 minutes)

o Choose a skill to apply during the week

Prioritizing Skills Modules in Depression

Clients with depression benefit from a strategic order of skill introduction based on
symptom profile:

1. Mindfulness First

• Why: Depressed clients are often trapped in past regrets or future fears.

• Focus:

o Observing thoughts nonjudgmentally

o Grounding in the present moment

o Reducing rumination and emotional fusion

Practice: "Five senses check-in" — grounding by naming 5 things you can see, 4
things you can touch, 3 you can hear, etc.

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2. Distress Tolerance Second

• Why: Many depressed clients experience emotional crises but lack coping tools.

• Focus:

o Surviving suicidal urges or emotional shutdown

o Using ACCEPTS, TIPP, and Self-Soothing to interrupt collapse

o Radical Acceptance to reduce struggle with unchangeable pain

🛠 Example Skill: Create a “Distress Tolerance Box” with sensory comfort items and a
crisis coping card.

3. Emotion Regulation Third

• Why: Depression is marked by persistent negative emotions and loss of joy.

• Focus:

o Naming and validating emotions

o Opposite Action to counter hopelessness

o Building Mastery and accumulating positive experiences

Real-World Strategy: Plan one daily "mastery moment" — something small that
offers accomplishment, such as watering a plant or taking a walk.

4. Interpersonal Effectiveness Last

• Why: Many depressed individuals struggle with social isolation or

unassertiveness.

• Focus:

o Asking for help (DEAR MAN)

o Maintaining self-respect (FAST)

o Practicing boundary-setting and saying no

Practice: Role-play a conversation where the client asks for emotional support using
GIVE + DEAR MAN.

Teaching Techniques for Depressed Clients

Teaching DBT skills to individuals with depression requires adaptation and creativity to
overcome cognitive, emotional, and motivational challenges.

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 Use Accessible Language

• Avoid jargon; explain skills in simple, concrete terms.

• Link skills to the client’s personal struggles.

Instead of: “Use opposite action to address emotion incongruence.”

Try: “When you feel like staying in bed all day, the skill is to get up and do the opposite —
even if it’s just making your bed.”

Engage with Stories and Metaphors

• Depression distorts perspective — stories can reframe experiences.

• Examples:

o “Emotions are like waves — they rise and fall. Skills help you ride them
instead of getting dragged under.”

o “You’re not lazy. You’re emotionally overwhelmed — and DBT gives you
new tools.”

Use Visual Aids and Skill Cards

• Create colorful handouts or “skill reminder cards”

• Encourage clients to post skills in visible areas (mirror, notebook, phone)

Incorporate Movement and Creativity

• Depression slows the body and mind — include brief energizing activities

• Allow drawing, journaling, or music to explore emotions

Normalize Struggle

• Clients may feel ashamed when skills don’t “work” right away

• Emphasize that skill learning takes time, practice, and experimentation

Addressing Barriers to Skill Use

“I don’t see the point.” → Use validation + motivational linking

“You’re right — it can feel pointless. But remember how low you felt last Sunday? These
skills might help you feel even a little better next time.”

“I forgot to use it.” → Use reminder systems

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Suggest phone alarms, visual cues, or pairing skills with routines (e.g., doing
mindfulness while brushing teeth).

“It doesn’t work.” → Explore application

“Let’s look at how you used the skill. What was the situation? Did it match the emotion?
Could we try a different one next time?”

Measuring Progress and Reinforcing Growth

Skills are only useful if they translate into real-life change. DBT therapists:

• Track skill use on Diary Cards

• Celebrate small wins (e.g., one successful social interaction)

• Reinforce effort, not just outcomes

• Invite clients to reflect on changes in thinking, behavior, and emotion

Summary

DBT skills training empowers individuals with depression to stop being at the mercy of
their emotions and start building control, clarity, and connection. By teaching skills
progressively, validating each step, and adapting to the client’s pace and energy,
therapists open a path for depressed clients to reclaim their lives — one skill at a time.

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Chapter 8: DBT for Adolescents and Young Adults with Depression

Introduction

Adolescence and young adulthood are periods of profound emotional, cognitive, and
social transformation. For many, these years are marked by identity exploration,
academic and career pressures, changing family dynamics, and evolving peer
relationships. Unfortunately, they also represent a high-risk period for the onset of
depression, often accompanied by self-harming behaviors, suicidal ideation, or
emotional dysregulation.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), with its structured skill-building and validating
framework, is uniquely suited to address the developmental and emotional
complexities of depression in this age group. This chapter explores how DBT is tailored
for adolescents and young adults with depression, including theoretical considerations,
engagement strategies, family involvement, and developmental adaptations.

Understanding Depression in Adolescents and Young Adults

Developmental Risk Factors

• Biological: Hormonal changes, neurodevelopmental shifts, and sleep pattern

disruption

• Psychological: Identity confusion, perfectionism, low self-esteem, and

existential fears

• Social: Peer rejection, bullying, social media pressure, academic failure, and
family conflict

Unique Manifestations of Depression

• Increased irritability rather than sadness

• Withdrawal from family and friends

• Academic disengagement

• Risk-taking or self-destructive behaviors

• Physical complaints (e.g., headaches, stomachaches)

• Suicidal ideation or self-injury

Note: Many adolescents with depression also meet criteria for other disorders such
as anxiety, ADHD, or emerging personality traits. DBT helps address these comorbidities

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by focusing on behavioral functioning and emotional resilience rather than
diagnostic labels alone.

Theoretical Adaptation of DBT for Youth

Dr. Alec Miller, Dr. Jill Rathus, and Dr. Marsha Linehan developed DBT for Adolescents
(DBT-A) by adapting the adult model for younger populations. Key changes include:

1. Inclusion of Caregivers or Family Members

• Weekly Family Skills Training Sessions

• Family involvement improves communication, emotional validation, and system-

level change

• Caregivers are taught the same DBT skills to model and reinforce them at home

2. Shorter Treatment Duration and Sessions

• Adolescents may have limited attention spans and higher emotional reactivity

• Skills groups often run for 12–16 weeks, with briefer session times (60–90
minutes)

3. Developmentally Appropriate Materials

• Skills content is simplified and contextualized using:

o Games

o Visual handouts

o Stories, analogies, and metaphors

o Videos or digital apps

4. Increased Focus on Identity, Autonomy, and Peer Connection

• Interpersonal Effectiveness modules often address:

o Assertiveness with friends

o Handling peer pressure

o Navigating romantic relationships

• Emotion Regulation and Mindfulness help youth tolerate internal chaos without
shutting down

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 Engagement Strategies for Youth with Depression

Building trust and motivation in young clients is a critical part of DBT for depression.

1. Start with Validation

• Teens often feel misunderstood, dismissed, or labeled.

• Validation builds safety: “It makes sense that you’re overwhelmed right now —
you’re juggling so much and trying your best.”

2. Collaborate on Goals

• Allow youth to articulate their own goals (e.g., “feel less angry,” “get back to
school,” “talk to my parents without yelling”)

• Connect skills to real-life needs: better friendships, fewer punishments, more

freedom

3. Use Humor, Creativity, and Pop Culture

• Share examples from TV shows, music, or social media influencers they admire

• Encourage expressive activities: drawing emotional states, creating skill memes,

or using journaling apps

4. Normalize Fluctuation in Progress

• Adolescents may engage one week and shut down the next

• Therapist must model consistency, nonjudgment, and radical acceptance:

“Progress doesn’t always look like a straight line.”

Skill Focus Areas in Youth DBT

While the four core DBT modules remain, specific emphasis is placed on:

Mindfulness

• Cultivates emotional awareness and impulse control

• Exercises: Breathing apps, mindful eating, “name the emotion” games

🌪 Distress Tolerance

• Helps with self-harming urges, impulsivity, or family conflict

• Skills: TIPP, distraction with music or exercise, self-soothing kits

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 Interpersonal Effectiveness

• Focus on peer validation, boundary-setting, and repair after conflict

• Role-plays: handling rumors, apologizing, asking parents for something

Emotion Regulation

• Reduces emotional overwhelm and builds daily structure

• Use of mood trackers, positive activity scheduling, “opposite action” contracts

The Role of Parents and Caregivers

In DBT-A, family inclusion is not optional — it is essential.

Parents Learn to:

• Validate instead of lecture

• Regulate their own emotional reactions

• Coach DBT skills at home

• Create a safe, structured, and supportive environment

Example Family Exercise: Each member shares one emotion felt during the week
and one DBT skill they practiced.

Tip: Use a shared “DBT family diary” to log skill use, family goals, and moments of
success.

Managing Challenges in Youth-Focused DBT

Resistance to Therapy

• Frame therapy as skill-building, not “fixing”

• Use motivational interviewing and collaborative problem-solving

Family Conflict

• Use DBT’s Middle Path module (specific to DBT-A) to teach:

o Dialectical thinking

o Letting go of “right vs. wrong”

o Finding common ground

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 Suicidality and Self-Harm

• Use chain analysis to explore internal experiences without blame

• Build safety plans collaboratively with teen and family

• Emphasize the use of crisis coping skills as life-preserving tools, not

punishments

Case Example: Emma, 16-Year-Old with Depression

Presenting Problem: Emma has been skipping school, self-harming, and frequently
arguing with her mother. She reports feeling “numb” and “tired of life.”

DBT Intervention:

• Weekly individual therapy + skills group

• Mother attends parent skills group

• Diary card shows peaks in sadness after social conflict

• Chain analysis reveals Emma self-harms after feeling abandoned by friends

Skills Applied:

• TIPP and self-soothing during emotional peaks

• DEAR MAN to request space from mother without escalating

• Opposite Action: agrees to go for walks when urges arise

Outcome: Over 10 weeks, Emma reports fewer self-harm incidents, improved

communication at home, and increased school attendance.

Summary

Adolescents and young adults with depression often struggle with emotional storms,
identity uncertainty, and social stressors that can feel overwhelming and isolating. DBT
offers not only a set of coping skills but also a relational framework that validates their
struggle, empowers their growth, and involves their families in healing. Through
developmentally attuned strategies and collaborative engagement, DBT helps youth
rediscover their capacity to live with resilience, purpose, and hope.

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Chapter 9: DBT in Group Therapy Settings

Introduction

Group therapy is one of the cornerstones of DBT, particularly for teaching and
reinforcing the practical skills that clients need to manage depression. While individual
sessions focus on personalized application and emotional processing, DBT group
therapy offers a structured, skills-based environment where clients learn together,
support one another, and practice new behaviors in a safe, validating space.

In the context of depression, group therapy provides more than just skills training — it
offers community, connection, and accountability, which are critical components in
overcoming the isolation and inertia often associated with depressive symptoms.

Purpose and Power of Group-Based DBT for Depression

Why Group Therapy Works:

• Reduces Isolation: Clients realize they are not alone in their struggles.

• Normalizes Emotional Experiences: Hearing others speak openly about similar

issues reduces shame.

• Encourages Peer Learning: Clients model skill use for one another.

• Builds Social Skills: Group members practice assertiveness, empathy, and

boundary-setting.

• Reinforces Hope and Progress: Seeing others grow motivates change.

🗣 “One of the most healing aspects of DBT group is the moment someone else shares a
feeling you thought only you had.”

Structure of DBT Group Therapy

Format and Frequency

• Typically conducted once weekly, for 90 to 120 minutes.

• Group size: 6–10 participants, ideally with two facilitators (lead and co-
facilitator).

• Delivered over a 24-week cycle (6 weeks per DBT module), but can be extended
or repeated based on need.

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 Core Components of a DBT Group Session:

1. Mindfulness Practice (5–10 minutes)

o Grounding at the start of every session.

2. Homework Review (15–25 minutes)

o Discuss how skills were used during the week.

o Peer sharing and therapist feedback.

3. Didactic Teaching (30–45 minutes)

o Introduction of a new skill using handouts, metaphors, real-life examples.

4. Experiential Practice (15–20 minutes)

o Role-plays, journaling, small group exercises, or problem-solving.

5. Homework Assignment (5 minutes)

o Clear, specific goals for skill practice during the week.

Key Facilitation Techniques for Depression-Focused Groups

Working with depressed clients in a group setting requires sensitivity to their common
struggles: low motivation, self-doubt, negative thinking, and social withdrawal.
Facilitators must cultivate a space that is structured yet flexible, and validating yet
empowering.

1. Set Clear Expectations

• Emphasize the group is a skills class, not a process group.

• Establish safety, confidentiality, and respectful boundaries.

2. Foster Inclusion and Safety

• Use warm-up questions and check-ins.

• Acknowledge small contributions — even just showing up is a success.

3. Normalize Struggle and Progress

• Reframe setbacks as learning opportunities.

• Share that skills require practice, not perfection.

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4. Use Structured Participation

• Invite participation without pressure.

• Offer options: speaking aloud, writing on sticky notes, or contributing via chat in
online groups.

5. Maintain Energy and Engagement

• Integrate movement breaks, creativity (e.g., drawing skills), or media (videos,

music).

• Vary teaching methods to accommodate different learning styles.

Managing Group Challenges

1. Silence or Low Energy

• Reframe silence as a form of communication.

• Use open-ended but specific questions:

“Has anyone ever tried opposite action when feeling unmotivated? What
happened?”

2. Over-sharing or Monopolizing

• Redirect gently:
“That’s an important story, and I want to make sure we also get to today’s skill.”

3. Emotional Reactivity or Withdrawal

• Validate emotional intensity:

“This topic can bring up strong feelings.”

• Offer a distress tolerance skill in the moment.

4. Skill Application Resistance

• Use the dialectical approach:

“It makes sense that using a skill felt difficult — and we’ll keep practicing to make
it easier.”

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 Types of DBT Group Adaptations for Depression

Standard DBT Skills Group

• Best for clients with moderate to severe depression who can commit to regular
attendance and homework.

• Includes all four modules (Mindfulness, Emotion Regulation, Distress Tolerance,

Interpersonal Effectiveness).

Short-Term or Modular Groups

• Ideal for clients new to DBT or with mild/moderate depression.

• Focused 6–12 week cycles on one or two modules (e.g., Mindfulness and
Distress Tolerance only).

Age-Specific or Demographic-Based Groups

• Adolescent groups (often include caregivers).

• Young adult groups (college-age clients).

• Women’s or men’s groups.

• Trauma-informed groups for clients with comorbid PTSD or history of abuse.

Sample 8-Week Group Curriculum for Depression

Week Module Skill Focus Practice Activity

1 Mindfulness What & How Skills 5-senses grounding

“Mindful Breathing”
2 Mindfulness Wise Mind
exercise

Identify and Name Emotions chart +

3 Emotion Regulation
Emotions journaling

4 Emotion Regulation Opposite Action Behavior experiments

5 Distress Tolerance Self-Soothing Create sensory toolbox

6 Distress Tolerance Crisis Survival TIPP skills simulation

Interpersonal Role-play boundary-

7 DEAR MAN
Effectiveness setting

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Week Module Skill Focus Practice Activity

8 Review & Integration Personal DBT Plan Group feedback circle

Therapist Reflections: Balancing Group Leadership and Connection

A successful DBT group leader is:

• Structured — maintains consistency and timing.

• Flexible — adapts to emotional moments or learning needs.

• Warm — brings empathy and respect into every interaction.

• Skillful — models DBT language and principles in real time.

“The group room becomes a microcosm of life. If they can show up here, speak here,
fail and try again here — they can do it in the world too.”

Summary

DBT group therapy transforms the isolated, internal world of depression into a shared,
skill-building community. In the group, clients learn that their struggles are not signs of
weakness, but signs of being human — and that there are tools, people, and hope to
help them move forward. Structured with care and led with compassion, DBT groups are
more than classes — they are incubators of recovery.

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Chapter 10: Case Studies and Success Stories

Introduction

Real-life application is the truest test of any therapeutic model. While the theoretical
foundations and structured skill sets of DBT provide a clear roadmap for treating
depression, it is through the lived experiences of clients that we see how healing
unfolds — slowly, messily, courageously, and often unexpectedly.

This chapter presents a series of case studies and success stories that illustrate the
transformative potential of DBT for individuals struggling with depression. These stories
— drawn from fictionalized but realistic composite cases — reflect the depth, nuance,
and humanity of the therapeutic journey. Each case demonstrates a different facet of
DBT in practice: skill application, treatment challenges, recovery milestones, and the
power of the therapeutic alliance.

Case Study 1: Maria — Rising from Emotional Numbness

Profile:

• Age: 28

• Background: Corporate marketing executive, high achiever

• Presenting issues: Persistent depressive disorder, passive suicidal ideation,

emotional numbing, isolation, chronic fatigue

Initial Presentation:
Maria arrived in therapy exhausted — not from crying, but from feeling nothing at all.
She described life as “grey,” her body as “heavy,” and her thoughts as “static.” She was
highly functional on paper, but emotionally bankrupt.

DBT Focus Areas:

• Mindfulness: Learning to recognize subtle emotional shifts

• Emotion Regulation: Using "ABC PLEASE" to restore routine and reduce

vulnerability

• Distress Tolerance: Creating a “reconnection” ritual (warm tea, music, nature

walk) for daily grounding

Therapeutic Turning Point:

In week 6, during a mindfulness practice, Maria noticed sadness arise. Instead of

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pushing it away, she described it as “a small rain cloud that I could watch without
getting drenched.” It was the first emotional shift she recognized in months.

Outcome:
Over 6 months, Maria regained a sense of vitality and reconnected with long-abandoned
interests (painting, volunteering). She no longer feared feeling — instead, she saw it as
proof she was alive.

Case Study 2: Darren — Breaking the Cycle of Self-Criticism

Profile:

• Age: 22

• Background: University student, history of emotional neglect

• Presenting issues: Major depressive disorder, low self-esteem, severe self-

criticism, social withdrawal

Initial Presentation:
Darren spoke softly, often with his head down. He referred to himself as “useless,”
“lazy,” and “a waste of space.” Most of his depression stemmed from internalized
invalidation and shame.

DBT Focus Areas:

• Opposite Action: Challenging the urge to isolate by attending a DBT group

• Interpersonal Effectiveness: Practicing DEAR MAN to ask his professor for an

extension

• Validation: Learning to self-validate instead of attack

Therapeutic Turning Point:

In week 10, Darren wrote a “self-validation letter” with his therapist’s guidance. For the
first time, he acknowledged his pain and resilience: “I’m trying. Even showing up to this
session is proof.”

Outcome:
Darren completed the semester, made a new friend in his DBT group, and began setting
boundaries with his emotionally dismissive father. His BDI-II scores dropped by 60%,
and his sense of agency improved significantly.

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 Case Study 3: Alya — From Crisis to Stability

Profile:

• Age: 17

• Background: High school student, artistic, emotionally intense

• Presenting issues: Recurrent depressive episodes, non-suicidal self-injury

(NSSI), family conflict

Initial Presentation:
Alya had been in and out of therapy. Her parents described her as “dramatic,” while she
felt misunderstood and rejected. She self-harmed when overwhelmed, which worsened
her guilt and depression.

DBT Focus Areas:

• Middle Path (DBT-A Module): Helping Alya and her parents validate each other’s
perspectives

• TIPP: Managing urges to self-harm

• Mindfulness: Learning to pause and name emotions rather than act on them

Therapeutic Turning Point:

In a family session, Alya used GIVE and DEAR MAN to express her need for emotional
support instead of discipline. Her mother cried — it was the first time she had seen Alya
speak without shouting.

Outcome:
After 16 weeks, Alya’s self-harm incidents dropped to zero. Her family relationships
improved, and she began writing poetry again — her emotional outlet transformed from
harm to healing.

Case Study 4: Imran — Rebuilding After Burnout

Profile:

• Age: 35

• Background: Former schoolteacher, recently unemployed

• Presenting issues: Atypical depression, chronic stress, loss of purpose

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Initial Presentation:
Imran described feeling “invisible” and “purposeless” after losing his job. He struggled
to get out of bed, experienced guilt for not supporting his family, and often engaged in
emotional eating.

DBT Focus Areas:

• Behavioral Activation through Emotion Regulation: Building Mastery by setting

micro-goals

• Distress Tolerance: Using ACCEPTS and self-soothing for managing guilt and
restlessness

• Interpersonal Effectiveness: Reconnecting with peers and networking support

Therapeutic Turning Point:

During one session, Imran shared that he applied for a part-time tutoring job after using
opposite action — despite wanting to cancel. “It didn’t fix everything, but it reminded
me I still have something to give.”

Outcome:
Imran began part-time work and eventually created a YouTube channel for sharing
educational content. His depressive symptoms decreased significantly, and he began
redefining his self-worth outside of employment status.

Common Threads of DBT Success in Depression

These stories highlight several common elements that contribute to positive outcomes
in DBT for depression:

Factor Description

Therapeutic Alliance Strong connection, trust, and radical genuineness

Skills Practice Regular application of DBT skills, especially opposite action

Validation + Challenge Balance between empathy and behavior change

Hope and Meaning Rebuilding life purpose and identity

Community Support Connection via group, family, or peer networks

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 Reflections on Healing

DBT does not promise instant transformation or the elimination of pain. What it offers —
and delivers — is a pathway through suffering. Clients learn not only how to survive
their depression, but how to live in spite of it. And often, because of the resilience they
build, they emerge stronger, wiser, and more compassionate.

“You don’t have to feel okay to start healing. You just have to take one skill, one step,
one breath at a time.”

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Chapter 11: Worksheets and Skills Practice

Introduction

Skills are the foundation of Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), but knowledge alone is
not enough — transformation happens through structured, consistent practice. This
chapter provides a range of worksheets, practice tools, and exercises designed to
help clients with depression apply DBT concepts in real life. These tools reinforce self-
awareness, emotional mastery, behavioral activation, and interpersonal empowerment.

Whether used in individual therapy, group settings, or personal reflection, these

resources are practical anchors for the therapeutic journey. Each worksheet aligns with
one or more of DBT’s four core modules, adapted specifically for depression treatment.

Mindfulness Worksheets

Worksheet 1: Wise Mind Check-In

Instructions:
Reflect on a recent situation where you felt overwhelmed or stuck. Use this chart to
explore the different “minds” and access Wise Mind.

Emotional Mind (What I Rational Mind (What I Wise Mind (What I know
felt) thought) deeply)

Reflection Questions:

• What was your immediate reaction?

• How would Wise Mind respond to this situation?

• What values or long-term goals can guide your next step?

Worksheet 2: One-Mindfully Practice Log

Activity: Choose one daily activity (e.g., brushing teeth, eating, walking) and practice
doing it one-mindfully for one week.

What did you Was your mind How did you bring it
Day Activity
notice? wandering? back?

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 Distress Tolerance Worksheets

Worksheet 3: Crisis Survival Plan

Instructions: Create your personal toolkit to use when depressive distress becomes
overwhelming.

My Distress Triggers:
1.
2.
3.

My Go-To DBT Skills:

• ACCEPTS:

o A (Activities):

o C (Contributing):

o C (Comparisons):

o E (Emotions):

o P (Pushing away):

o T (Thoughts):

o S (Sensations):

Emergency Contacts / Support Resources:

Safety Plan Steps (if suicidal thoughts arise):

1.
2.
3.

Worksheet 4: Self-Soothing Inventory

Instructions: List comforting, grounding activities for each of the five senses.

Sense My Soothing Strategies

Sight E.g., looking at nature, candles, favorite photos

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Sense My Soothing Strategies

Sound E.g., calming music, nature sounds

Smell E.g., essential oils, scented lotion

Taste E.g., herbal tea, favorite snack (mindfully)

Touch E.g., soft blanket, warm bath, petting a dog

Emotion Regulation Worksheets

Worksheet 5: Emotions Tracker

Instructions: Track your mood and emotional triggers over 7 days.

Day Emotion(s) Felt Trigger Skill Used Outcome

Use this to identify patterns and assess how DBT skills impact your mood.

Worksheet 6: Opposite Action Planner

Instructions: When you notice an unhelpful emotion, use this sheet to apply the
Opposite Action skill.

Urge / Opposite Willingness (0– Action What

Emotion
Impulse Action 10) Taken Happened?

Worksheet 7: ABC PLEASE Self-Care Assessment

Evaluate how well you’re reducing vulnerability to depression.

Skill Today’s Status Plan to Improve

A – Accumulate positive emotions

B – Build mastery

C – Cope ahead

PL – Treat physical illness

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Skill Today’s Status Plan to Improve

E – Balanced eating

A – Avoid mood-altering substances

S – Balanced sleep

E – Regular exercise

Interpersonal Effectiveness Worksheets

Worksheet 8: DEAR MAN Script Builder

Instructions: Use this to plan a request or assertive conversation.

Step Your Script

Describe “The situation is…”

Express “I feel…”

Assert “I need / I would like…”

Reinforce “It would help because…”

Mindful Stay on topic (practice ignoring distractions)

Appear Confident Use body posture and voice tone

Negotiate “I’m open to…” or “Let’s work out a plan”

Worksheet 9: GIVE for Relationship Effectiveness

Use this to plan or reflect on a recent interaction.

GIVE Skill Example from Your Conversation

Gentle

Interested

Validate

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Easy manner

Weekly Practice Journal Template

Use this to track your DBT progress and identify weekly themes.

Prompt Your Reflection

What skill(s) did I practice this week?

What situation challenged me the most?

What helped me stay grounded?

One thing I’m proud of this week is…

One thing I will focus on next week is…

A quote or reminder to carry with me is…

Using Worksheets Effectively

To get the most benefit:

• Review completed worksheets with a therapist or group

• Reflect, don’t just record — explore what worked and what didn’t

• Keep a DBT journal or binder to track your evolution

• Be gentle with yourself — skill use grows with time and effort

Summary

These worksheets are more than exercises — they are lifelines. In moments of despair,
they provide structure. In times of growth, they provide clarity. For clients living with
depression, practicing DBT skills on paper becomes the first step toward living those
skills in the world. With consistency and support, each worksheet becomes a stepping
stone on the path to a life worth living.

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Chapter 12: Evaluation and Progress Monitoring Tools

Introduction

In any therapeutic approach, monitoring progress is essential for guiding treatment,

identifying barriers, and sustaining motivation. In DBT, particularly when treating
depression, progress monitoring not only informs clinical decisions — it also empowers
clients by making their growth visible.

This chapter outlines the tools, strategies, and principles used to evaluate the
effectiveness of DBT in treating depression. It includes both quantitative measures
(such as symptom scales and behavior tracking) and qualitative reflections (such as
client self-assessments and therapeutic observations).

The goal is not perfection, but meaningful, measurable change toward a life worth
living.

Why Monitor Progress in DBT?

For clients with depression, improvement is often gradual and nonlinear. Without
tracking tools, small wins may go unnoticed, and temporary setbacks can feel like
failure.

Progress monitoring:

• Validates effort and improvement

• Helps tailor interventions over time

• Strengthens the therapeutic alliance

• Identifies early warning signs of relapse

• Encourages skill generalization into daily life

“What gets measured, gets strengthened.”

Key Areas to Monitor

Domain Why It Matters

Mood and emotional

Tracks symptom severity and emotional range
intensity

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Domain Why It Matters

Suicidal ideation or self-harm Identifies crisis risk and treatment urgency

Skill usage Reflects integration and effectiveness of DBT tools

Therapy engagement Measures attendance, participation, and goal alignment

Assesses progress in relationships and boundary-

Interpersonal functioning
setting

Daily functioning Monitors ability to manage responsibilities and routines

Quantitative Assessment Tools

1. Beck Depression Inventory-II (BDI-II)

• 21-item scale measuring severity of depressive symptoms

• Administered every 2–4 weeks

• Score changes indicate treatment response over time

BDI-II Score Severity

0–13 Minimal depression

14–19 Mild depression

20–28 Moderate depression

29–63 Severe depression

2. Patient Health Questionnaire-9 (PHQ-9)

• Shorter, client-friendly scale aligned with DSM criteria

• Can be used for weekly symptom tracking

• Built-in item on suicidal ideation (Item 9)

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 3. Difficulties in Emotion Regulation Scale (DERS)

• Measures aspects of emotional dysregulation common in depression

• Helps identify which DBT module to emphasize (e.g., Emotion Regulation vs.
Distress Tolerance)

4. DBT Diary Card

• Daily/weekly tracking of:

o Emotions and intensity

o Target behaviors (e.g., self-harm, withdrawal, binge eating)

o Skill usage

o Urges and actions

• Encourages client ownership and reflection

Example Diary Card Data:

Day Emotions Urges Skills Used Notes

Withdraw Opposite Action, Self- Took a walk despite low

Mon Sadness 7/10
6/10 Soothing energy

Hopelessness Self-harm
Tue None Skipped group session
8/10 5/10

Therapists use these data to:

• Celebrate gains

• Problem-solve skill barriers

• Reinforce consistent engagement

Qualitative Evaluation Methods

1. Therapist Observation Notes

• Track emotional openness, session participation, and motivation

• Note patterns: “Client is initiating more check-ins” or “Client is laughing again”

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 2. Client Reflection Journals

• Allow clients to explore:

o “What’s different about me today compared to last month?”

o “Which DBT skill helped me the most this week?”

o “When did I feel proud or alive recently?”

3. Session Check-In Ratings

At the beginning and end of each session, ask clients to rate:

• Mood (0–10)

• Hopefulness (0–10)

• Willingness to use skills (0–10)

Tracking this over time provides insight into session impact and long-term shifts.

Goal Tracking and Functional Measures

Progress in depression treatment is also reflected in daily life improvements.

Use SMART Goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-bound)

Example:

• “I will attend 3 DBT group sessions this month.”

• “I will use Opposite Action to get out of bed at 9 a.m. at least 4 days this week.”

Monitor Functional Areas:

Domain Baseline Mid-Treatment End of Treatment

Sleep (hrs/night) 4–5 6 7

Social interactions/week 0 2 4

Missed work/school days 5/month 2 0

Self-harm episodes/month 6 1 0

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 Progress Review and Feedback Sessions

Schedule formal review sessions:

• Every 4–6 weeks

• Use standardized assessments + narrative summaries

• Revisit the “life worth living” goals

• Update treatment plan based on new needs or successes

Celebrate progress, no matter how small:

• “You haven’t used any crisis behaviors in 3 weeks — that’s huge.”

• “You used skills even when they didn’t feel like they’d work — that’s real
courage.”

When Progress Stalls

DBT recognizes that plateaus and relapses are part of the change process.

Strategies:

• Use Chain Analysis to explore missed skill use or new triggers

• Revisit core validation strategies: “It’s okay that this is hard”

• Reaffirm client’s strengths and reestablish small, achievable goals

Reminder: Lack of progress does not mean lack of potential — it often means the
need for renewed strategy, not blame.

Summary

Progress monitoring in DBT for depression is about more than tracking symptoms — it is
about mapping the client’s journey toward wholeness. With a combination of structured
tools and compassionate reflection, therapists and clients can witness real change
unfold, one skill, one session, and one step at a time.

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Appendices

The appendices provide practical, ready-to-use tools and supplemental resources for
therapists, clients, trainers, and supervisors. These materials support the application of
DBT principles and skills discussed throughout the book and are suitable for individual
therapy, group settings, clinical training, or client homework.

Appendix A: Sample Treatment Plan – DBT for Depression

Client Name [Client Initials]

Diagnosis Major Depressive Disorder (Moderate)

Start Date [MM/DD/YYYY]

Treatment Model Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Therapist [Therapist Name]

Primary Treatment Goals

1. Reduce depressive symptoms by 50% within 3 months.

2. Eliminate suicidal ideation and self-harming behavior.

3. Improve daily functioning in work, school, and relationships.

4. Increase frequency and confidence in DBT skill use.

Target Behaviors & Interventions

Target Behavior DBT Strategy/Module Planned Intervention

Passive suicidal ideation Distress Tolerance TIPP, Self-Soothing, Crisis Plan

Emotional shutdown / Mindfulness, Emotion Observe/Describe, Mindfulness of

numbness Regulation Current Emotion

Social withdrawal and Interpersonal GIVE, DEAR MAN scripts,

isolation Effectiveness Opposite Action

Negative self-talk / self-

Emotion Regulation Opposite Action, Building Mastery
criticism

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Target Behavior DBT Strategy/Module Planned Intervention

Missed sessions / Treatment Agreement, Weekly review, therapist

therapy-interfering acts Diary Card validation, behavior analysis

Assessment Tools Used

• PHQ-9 (biweekly)

• DBT Diary Card (weekly)

• DERS (monthly)

• Progress Reviews (monthly)

Appendix B: DBT Diary Card Template for Depression

Day Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat Sun

Mood (0–10)

Hope (0–10)

Urge to self-harm (0–10)

Urge to isolate (0–10)

Skill used: Mindfulness ✓/✗

Skill used: Opposite Action ✓/✗

Skill used: TIPP / Crisis Plan ✓/✗

Sleep Hours

Physical activity (Y/N)

Medication taken (Y/N)

Notes/Reflections

Instructions for Use: Complete daily. Bring to individual therapy and group. Highlight
patterns and progress.

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 Appendix C: Evaluation Rubrics – Clinical & Self-Assessment

Therapist Evaluation Rubric (Monthly Review)

Area Indicators Rating (1–5) Notes

Symptom Reduction Decreased BDI-II or PHQ-9 scores

Skill Acquisition Uses 3+ DBT skills consistently

Emotional Regulation Identifies and labels emotions accurately

Crisis Management Uses TIPP or other distress tolerance skills

Therapy Engagement Attends sessions, completes homework

Interpersonal Progress Assertive communication increases

Self-Efficacy Expresses hope, self-belief

Client Self-Progress Reflection Form

1. What DBT skill has helped you the most this month? Why?
Your answer:

2. When did you notice a shift in how you handle difficult emotions?
Your answer:

3. What has improved in your daily life? (e.g., sleep, motivation, relationships)
Your answer:

4. What is still difficult? What support or skill might help?

Your answer:

5. Overall, how would you rate your progress (0–10)?

Rating: ___/10
Why you gave this score:

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 Appendix D: Supervision Tips for Therapists

1. Use Weekly Consultation Teams:

o Structure sessions using Linehan’s 5-function DBT team model.

o Normalize therapist burnout when working with suicidal or depressed

clients.

2. Track Therapist Behaviors:

o Are you reinforcing client avoidance by “softening” too much?

o Are you challenging enough while still validating?

3. Practice Your Own Skills:

o Model mindfulness and distress tolerance during supervision.

o Reflect on therapist emotions (e.g., hopelessness, over-identification).

4. Encourage Therapist Diary Cards:

o Rate validation, directness, energy, and emotional reactions per session.

o Note patterns and discuss in supervision.

5. Reinforce Therapist Resilience:

o Celebrate client growth and therapeutic courage.

o Acknowledge your own learning and emotional labor.

Appendix E: Suggested Weekly Skills Practice Schedule

Week Module Primary Skill Focus Homework Practice

Mindful eating or breathing 5

1 Mindfulness Observe & Describe
min/day

One-mindfully, Non- Notice & record judgmental

2 Mindfulness
judgmentally thoughts

3 Emotion Regulation Labeling emotions Daily emotion log with triggers

Choose one depressive urge

4 Emotion Regulation Opposite Action
and do opposite

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Week Module Primary Skill Focus Homework Practice

Create a five-senses
5 Distress Tolerance Self-Soothing
emergency kit

Crisis Survival Apply at first sign of emotional

6 Distress Tolerance
(ACCEPTS/TIPP) overwhelm

Interpersonal Practice in text/email or role-

7 DEAR MAN
Effectiveness play

Interpersonal Evaluate a recent interaction

8 GIVE / FAST
Effectiveness using skill checklist

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About the Author

Dr. Wan Marzuki Wan Jaafar is an esteemed educator, counselor, clinical supervisor,
and author who has dedicated his life to the advancement of mental health, education,
and human potential. With over two decades of professional experience in academia
and counseling practice, Dr. Wan Marzuki is known for his ability to merge scientific
knowledge with deep empathy, and therapeutic rigor with genuine human connection.

Currently serving as the Dean of the Faculty of Educational Studies at Universiti

Putra Malaysia (UPM), Dr. Wan Marzuki plays a vital role in shaping national and
regional conversations on counselor education, clinical mental health practice, and the
psychological well-being of students, educators, and professionals. His leadership is
marked by innovation, collaboration, and a commitment to empowering others through
knowledge, compassion, and action.

Dr. Wan Marzuki holds a doctoral degree in counseling and specializes in integrative
psychotherapy, existential therapy, and evidence-based clinical models such as
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). He has trained, supervised, and mentored hundreds
of counselors, and his work continues to influence the next generation of practitioners
in Malaysia and beyond.

He is also a respected public speaker and keynote presenter at both national and
international conferences. His voice is recognized for its clarity, its balance of intellect
and heart, and its focus on human resilience in the face of adversity. In recent years, he
has published several impactful books on counseling, mental health, and motivation —
all aimed at equipping people with tools for emotional healing, personal growth, and
purposeful living.

A firm believer in lifelong learning and service to others, Dr. Wan Marzuki is driven by
one central philosophy: that every individual, no matter how broken they feel, holds the
capacity to rise, transform, and thrive. His work is a living testimony to this belief.

When he is not writing, teaching, or counseling, Dr. Wan Marzuki can often be found
traveling, exploring cultural connections, and advocating for well-being and human
dignity across communities.

"I believe that therapy is not just about solving problems — it's about helping people
reconnect with the parts of themselves that are strong, hopeful, and whole."

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About the Publisher
Publisher : Life Coach Global Network

Place : Seri Kembangan, Selangor Malaysia.

Year : 2025

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