GE 1 - Module 6
GE 1 - Module 6
3) Relationships
● Humans are hardwired to connect with others.
● We have a need for connection, love, and physical
and emotional proximity to others; this need begins
at birth.
● Humans develop and learn about life through
interactions with other people.
● Studies have shown that the one thing that sets
happier people apart is the quality of their
relationships.
● Robert Waldinger's 75-year study on adult life
(since 1938) revealed that good relationships are
key to happiness and health.
o The study involved surveying men every two
years about the quality of their marriages, job
satisfaction, and social activities, and
examining their physical health every five
years.
● Christopher Peterson: "Other people matter."
4) Meanings
● Martin Seligman defines meaning as "using your
signature strengths and virtues in the service of
The PERMA Model In-Depth something much larger than you are" (Seligman, 2002,
p. 249).
● By chasing only pleasure without using our strengths
1) Positive Emotions
toward something meaningful, we might squander our
● Barbara Fredrickson, through her Broaden-and- potential.
Build Theory (1998); explains that positive emotions ● Applying and developing our unique strengths and
can build our physical, intellectual, and social virtues toward something bigger than ourselves leads
abilities. to a deeper sense of meaning.
● Broadening our awareness and thought-action
repertoire, we look for creative and flexible ways of
5) Accomplishments
thinking and acting.
● Over time, this this broadening effect builds skills ● People who feel personally involved in achieving
and resources. their goals indicate higher levels of well-being and
are in better health than people who lack a sense of
● Research shows that people who experience positive
direction in their lives.
emotions:
● Goals that lead to well-being are personally
o Make more connections
meaningful.
o Create more inclusive categories
● In the early 1960s, drive-reduction theory stated that
o Have heightened levels of creativity
all animals act based on the need to satisfy their
o Help us perform better at work and
biological needs.
strengthen our relationships
● Robert White argued against this, stating that people
and animals often acted for the sake of mastery over
2) Engagement their environments.
● Flow - an experience of optimal psychological ● Seligman found this to be true; we often pursue
functioning. accomplishment for its own sake, even if it doesn't
o We are completely absorbed in a task that translate into an increase in positive emotions,
slightly exceeds our skill level, requiring us meaning, or the quality of relationships.
to stretch to a new level of performance.
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