P. Sophia Mesalina,
Asst.Prof.in Education,
TCP.
ANGER MANAGEMENT
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Meaning
 A strong feeling that makes you want to hurt
some one or be unpleasant because of
something unfair that has happened.
 Anger is a natural emotion.
 It is nature’s way of telling us that
something wrong in our lives has gone
anywhere.
 Anger is like a mirror.
 It reflects your inner instability
 It makes you blank and blind
STAGES OF ANGER
 Low self esteem
 Irritation
 Hatred
 Frustration, useless feeling
 Verbal
 Aggressive- loose control, acting out
inappropriately
 Physical violence
 Differences between aggression and anger.
 Express your anger appropriately
Consequences of anger
 Affects your physical health
 It affects your Immune system.
 Gives coronary diseases and high blood pressure
 It affects the nervous system and Digestive
system.
 It affects the mental health.
CAUSES OF ANGER
 Try to change the past.
 Unfulfilled desire
 Lots of negativity in our mind and fixed belief
system
 Try to change others
Anger Management
 A compilation of stress reduction technique for
channeling one’s angry feeling in to social
acceptable direction.
 Develop the ability to cope up.
STEPS TO TAME ANGER
 Know what pushes your button
 Know your body get anger signs
 Stop and thing.
 Cage your rage.
 Decide what to do.
 Calm down
 Name the problem
 Find solution
 Pick the best
 Evaluate the solution
 Congrats yourself.
 Show mutual respect
 Make changes if necessary
 Review.
1-2-3 Turtle
 1.Go inside your shell
 Think before you Speak & act
 Take a “TimeOut”.
 Time heals every thing
 Leave the room
 2.Take a deep breath
 Calm yourself
 3. Walk away
 Think a good solution.
Ways to stop an Argument
 Never accuse a person of being wrong
 Admit your mistakes
 Be pleasant and polite
 Stop blaming others
 Blaming only keeps people upset.
 I express my feelings & try to work things out
Techniques
 Self awareness – Breath control
 Reason out- Write it down
 Think rationally than emotionally
 Process anger calmly.
 Don’t be attached.
 You are different from your Idea.
 Letting things go.
 Needing differ from wanting.
 Extreme words drive extreme things
 Express yourself accurately.
How to deal with Insults
 Why people insult you ?
 Insecure – Don’t feel good about themselves
 Jealous - Not they getting enough reward
 Proper understanding of their disability (Lack of
understanding)
 Fond of You- playful teasing
 Responding to it – not to react to it
 Stay calm, Express how you exactly feel, simply
ignore, Use Ignore and report Insults – related to
gender, disability Indulge in self care , Do little
good things to you.
7 Phrases for responding to rude
People
 Simple “Thank You”
 Appreciate their perspective
 Keep calm and keep going
 B clear & Explain
 Put across your point of view that you are right.
 Last nail on heated argument- laugh it away.
THANK YOU

ANGER MANAGEMENT

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    P. Sophia Mesalina, Asst.Prof.inEducation, TCP. ANGER MANAGEMENT
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    Meaning  A strongfeeling that makes you want to hurt some one or be unpleasant because of something unfair that has happened.  Anger is a natural emotion.  It is nature’s way of telling us that something wrong in our lives has gone anywhere.  Anger is like a mirror.  It reflects your inner instability  It makes you blank and blind
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    STAGES OF ANGER Low self esteem  Irritation  Hatred  Frustration, useless feeling  Verbal  Aggressive- loose control, acting out inappropriately  Physical violence  Differences between aggression and anger.  Express your anger appropriately
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    Consequences of anger Affects your physical health  It affects your Immune system.  Gives coronary diseases and high blood pressure  It affects the nervous system and Digestive system.  It affects the mental health.
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    CAUSES OF ANGER Try to change the past.  Unfulfilled desire  Lots of negativity in our mind and fixed belief system  Try to change others
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    Anger Management  Acompilation of stress reduction technique for channeling one’s angry feeling in to social acceptable direction.  Develop the ability to cope up.
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    STEPS TO TAMEANGER  Know what pushes your button  Know your body get anger signs  Stop and thing.  Cage your rage.  Decide what to do.  Calm down  Name the problem  Find solution  Pick the best  Evaluate the solution  Congrats yourself.  Show mutual respect  Make changes if necessary  Review.
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    1-2-3 Turtle  1.Goinside your shell  Think before you Speak & act  Take a “TimeOut”.  Time heals every thing  Leave the room  2.Take a deep breath  Calm yourself  3. Walk away  Think a good solution.
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    Ways to stopan Argument  Never accuse a person of being wrong  Admit your mistakes  Be pleasant and polite  Stop blaming others  Blaming only keeps people upset.  I express my feelings & try to work things out
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    Techniques  Self awareness– Breath control  Reason out- Write it down  Think rationally than emotionally  Process anger calmly.  Don’t be attached.  You are different from your Idea.  Letting things go.  Needing differ from wanting.  Extreme words drive extreme things  Express yourself accurately.
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    How to dealwith Insults  Why people insult you ?  Insecure – Don’t feel good about themselves  Jealous - Not they getting enough reward  Proper understanding of their disability (Lack of understanding)  Fond of You- playful teasing  Responding to it – not to react to it  Stay calm, Express how you exactly feel, simply ignore, Use Ignore and report Insults – related to gender, disability Indulge in self care , Do little good things to you.
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    7 Phrases forresponding to rude People  Simple “Thank You”  Appreciate their perspective  Keep calm and keep going  B clear & Explain  Put across your point of view that you are right.  Last nail on heated argument- laugh it away.
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