1) It is an internal condition in counseling wherein clients are encouraged to work hard on their problem and consider perspectives that are not easy for them. This refers to caring detachment.
2) It is most easily seen through a convergence – or match – between what you say and do as a helper. This refers to genuineness. 
3) These are defined as unique set of thoughts a person uses to process information, order one’s world and make decisions. This refers to personal constructs.