NFP: Theology
"The promotion and teaching of the natural
methods is, then, a truly pastoral concern, one
that involves cooperation on the part of priests
and religious, specialists, and married couples,
all working in cooperation with the bishop of
the local Church and receiving support and
assistance from him. ... In this way the Church
is better able to present to the world the
values of the natural methods, and reduce the
strong emphasis on contraception, sterilization
and abortion that we often encounter in the
world.”
“At the heart of this work in natural family
planning must be a Christian view of the human
person and the conviction that married couples
can really attain, through God's grace and
commitment to the natural methods, a deeper and
stronger conjugal unity.”
— Pope John Paul II, in his address to
the Family Congresses on June 8, 1984.
The Body as Icon of the Trinity
• “God has revealed His innermost secret: God
Himself is an eternal exchange of love, Father,
Son and Holy Spirit, and He has destined us to
share in that exchange” [Catechism, ¶221].
• “This is the central mystery of Christian faith and
life. It is the mystery of God in Himself. It is
therefore the source of all the other mysteries of
faith, the light that enlightens them” [Catechism,
¶234].
• The Blessed Trinity is an eternal common union
(“communion”) of Persons.
Mutilating the Body
• Extreme “body modification”
• Unnecessary amputations
• Addictions to surgery
• So-called “sex change” operations
• Contraception and sterilization
As the source of life,
family, Faith and
society, the union
between the sexes “is
placed at the center of
the great struggle
between good and evil,
between life and death,
between love and all
that is opposed to love.”
— Pope John Paul II’s
Letter to Families,
1994, ¶23.
• Marriage: “I give myself to you unconditionally.”
• Contraception: “I give myself to you, except …”
• Christ’s love is divine (agape): Free, total, faithful
and fruitful. In a Christian marriage, eros and
agape are called to meet and bear fruit.
The Language of Sexuality and
the Lie of Contraception
• Each and every marital act must be open
to the transmission of life.
• Never sterilize the marital act.
• Church’s concept of “responsible
parenthood.”
Openness to Life and
Responsible Parenthood
“In relation to physical, economic, psychological and
social conditions, responsible parenthood is
exercised, either by the deliberate and generous
decision to raise a numerous family, or by the
decision, made for grave motives and with due
respect for the moral law, to avoid for the time being,
or even for an indeterminate period, a new birth ... If,
then, there are serious motives to space out births …
the Church teaches that it is then licit to take into
account the natural rhythms immanent in the
generative functions, for the use of marriage in the
infecund periods only, and in this way to regulate
birth without offending the moral principles which
have been recalled earlier.”
― Humanae Vitae, ¶10, 16.
The Planned Parenthood concept of
“responsible parenthood” means to have
as few children as possible, regardless of
economic, social or other conditions, for
the good of the planet and for individual
self-fulfillment.
Contrasting Definitions of
“Responsible Parenthood”
The Church teaches that “responsible
parenthood” consists of prudently and
generously deciding to have a large family
for the Kingdom of God or, for a serious
reason, decide to space and/or limit their
children, even for an indeterminate period.
— Humanae Vitae, ¶10.
Contrasting Definitions of
“Responsible Parenthood”
NFP: Practical Matters
The Four Basic Types of NFP
The Four Basic Types of NFP
(1) the "rhythm" or calendar method, also
known as the Ogino-Knaus method, which
is now obsolete;
(2) the Basal Body Temperature (BBT) method;
(3) the ovulation method; and
(4) the Sympto-Thermal Method (STM).
Advantages of NFP
† NFP does not interfere with the
natural reproductive system and
process designed by God.
† NFP is morally acceptable to all
religions and cultures.
† NFP avoids the use of mechanical
devices or powerful hormones, which
often have harmful physical, mental,
emotional and spiritual side effects.
Advantages of NFP
NFP strengthens marriage and family. It
allows husband and wife to have the
dignity of actual stewardship of the gift of
fertility according to their unique
circumstances. It fosters sexual self-
control, which is central and essential to
human freedom, true love and maturity.
It also sets a good example of chastity in
married life for teenaged children.
Advantages of NFP
Chastity: Lead by Example!
“Contracepting parents
beget fornicating
teenagers.”
–– Father Paul Marx,
Founder of HLI.
Chastity: Lead by Example!
“Contracepting parents
beget fornicating
teenagers.”
–– Father Paul Marx,
Founder of HLI.
More than a dozen sociological studies
have shown the following divorce rates
among couples who;
Use contraception: 51%
Use NFP: 2%-6%
In general, those who live by God’s plan
are always happier.
Advantages of NFP
NFP is aesthetic. Of all of the methods of fertility
regulation, only NFP allows the couple to make
love as God and nature intended.
It is amusing that "lovemaking manuals" try to
work condoms, diaphragms, and various messy
jams and jellies into the act of making love —
"getting rigged to make love," as one noted
gynecologist calls it. It is an enduring contradiction
that many of the same people who pride
themselves on the "natural" aspects of their lives
don't hesitate to pollute their bodies with drugs and
devices, and cannot let the most intimate aspect of
their existence be truly natural and human.
Advantages of NFP
Simple Secret to a Happy MarriageSimple Secret to a Happy Marriage
Simple Secret to a Happy Marriage
(1)(1) TheThe PhysicalPhysical (the body)(the body)
(2)(2) TheThe MentalMental (the mind)(the mind)
(3)(3) TheThe EmotionalEmotional (the heart)(the heart)
(4) The(4) The SpiritualSpiritual (the soul)(the soul)
(Mark 12:30)
Simple Secret to a Happy Marriage
Advantages of NFP
† NFP is among the most effective
methods of nonpermanent fertility
regulation known when learned and used
properly — up to 99 percent.
† NFP is virtually free of charge, whereas
contraceptive and abortifacient methods
cost anywhere from $530 to $2,680
annually. This is particularly crucial in
areas of developing countries where
health care is rudimentary and expensive.
Advantages of NFP
† NFP can be used to detect early illness in
the wife.
† Unlike all contraceptives, the couple can
use NFP to pinpoint the fertile time and
to become pregnant.
Advantages of NFP
Finally, NFP, unlike all contraceptive and
abortifacient methods, lets women and
men learn about their bodies and work
with them, rather than remaining
ignorant and subduing them with
chemicals.
And NFP allows husbands to more
intimately understand the psychology of
their wives by understanding the nature
of their menstrual cycles.
Advantages of Breastfeeding
Breastfeeding provides babies with the best
possible food.
Human breast milk contains at least 300
compounds, including 15 elements, eight proteins,
18 amino acids, six forms of nitrogen, six
carbohydrates, at least 15 vitamins, and antibodies
to protect the baby from various infections.
Breast milk even evolves its composition from
colostrum to transitional milk and then to "mature"
milk over a baby's first 15 days of postnatal life in
order to keep pace with the infant's development.
Advantages of Breastfeeding
• Breastfeeding provides bonding by
allowing extensive skin contact, which
helps children thrive physically and
emotionally.
• Breastfeeding helps the uterus to contract
after childbirth. Breastfeeding appears to
help reduce the risk of breast cancer.
• The unique "suck and swallow" reflex of
breastfeeding reduces tooth decay and
encourages optimum jaw, mouth and
speech development.
Advantages of Breastfeeding
• The high level of calcium contained in
human breast milk helps an infant's bones
develop quickly and strongly.
• From an NFP standpoint, breastfeeding
helps suppress ovulation from a period of
three months (if the mother feeds the baby
supplements) to as long as 1½ years (in
the case of ecological breastfeeding).
Advantages of Breastfeeding
If NFP is So Great, Why
Don’t More Couples Use It?
Three Reasons:
• Ignorance
• Laziness
• Profit
Brian Clowes
Human Life International
4 Family Life Lane
Front Royal, Virginia USA 22630
E-mail address: bclowes@hli.org

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  • 3.
  • 5.
    "The promotion andteaching of the natural methods is, then, a truly pastoral concern, one that involves cooperation on the part of priests and religious, specialists, and married couples, all working in cooperation with the bishop of the local Church and receiving support and assistance from him. ... In this way the Church is better able to present to the world the values of the natural methods, and reduce the strong emphasis on contraception, sterilization and abortion that we often encounter in the world.”
  • 6.
    “At the heartof this work in natural family planning must be a Christian view of the human person and the conviction that married couples can really attain, through God's grace and commitment to the natural methods, a deeper and stronger conjugal unity.” — Pope John Paul II, in his address to the Family Congresses on June 8, 1984.
  • 8.
    The Body asIcon of the Trinity • “God has revealed His innermost secret: God Himself is an eternal exchange of love, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, and He has destined us to share in that exchange” [Catechism, ¶221]. • “This is the central mystery of Christian faith and life. It is the mystery of God in Himself. It is therefore the source of all the other mysteries of faith, the light that enlightens them” [Catechism, ¶234]. • The Blessed Trinity is an eternal common union (“communion”) of Persons.
  • 9.
    Mutilating the Body •Extreme “body modification” • Unnecessary amputations • Addictions to surgery • So-called “sex change” operations • Contraception and sterilization
  • 10.
    As the sourceof life, family, Faith and society, the union between the sexes “is placed at the center of the great struggle between good and evil, between life and death, between love and all that is opposed to love.” — Pope John Paul II’s Letter to Families, 1994, ¶23.
  • 12.
    • Marriage: “Igive myself to you unconditionally.” • Contraception: “I give myself to you, except …” • Christ’s love is divine (agape): Free, total, faithful and fruitful. In a Christian marriage, eros and agape are called to meet and bear fruit. The Language of Sexuality and the Lie of Contraception
  • 13.
    • Each andevery marital act must be open to the transmission of life. • Never sterilize the marital act. • Church’s concept of “responsible parenthood.” Openness to Life and Responsible Parenthood
  • 14.
    “In relation tophysical, economic, psychological and social conditions, responsible parenthood is exercised, either by the deliberate and generous decision to raise a numerous family, or by the decision, made for grave motives and with due respect for the moral law, to avoid for the time being, or even for an indeterminate period, a new birth ... If, then, there are serious motives to space out births … the Church teaches that it is then licit to take into account the natural rhythms immanent in the generative functions, for the use of marriage in the infecund periods only, and in this way to regulate birth without offending the moral principles which have been recalled earlier.” ― Humanae Vitae, ¶10, 16.
  • 15.
    The Planned Parenthoodconcept of “responsible parenthood” means to have as few children as possible, regardless of economic, social or other conditions, for the good of the planet and for individual self-fulfillment. Contrasting Definitions of “Responsible Parenthood”
  • 16.
    The Church teachesthat “responsible parenthood” consists of prudently and generously deciding to have a large family for the Kingdom of God or, for a serious reason, decide to space and/or limit their children, even for an indeterminate period. — Humanae Vitae, ¶10. Contrasting Definitions of “Responsible Parenthood”
  • 17.
  • 18.
    The Four BasicTypes of NFP
  • 19.
    The Four BasicTypes of NFP (1) the "rhythm" or calendar method, also known as the Ogino-Knaus method, which is now obsolete; (2) the Basal Body Temperature (BBT) method; (3) the ovulation method; and (4) the Sympto-Thermal Method (STM).
  • 20.
  • 21.
    † NFP doesnot interfere with the natural reproductive system and process designed by God. † NFP is morally acceptable to all religions and cultures. † NFP avoids the use of mechanical devices or powerful hormones, which often have harmful physical, mental, emotional and spiritual side effects. Advantages of NFP
  • 22.
    NFP strengthens marriageand family. It allows husband and wife to have the dignity of actual stewardship of the gift of fertility according to their unique circumstances. It fosters sexual self- control, which is central and essential to human freedom, true love and maturity. It also sets a good example of chastity in married life for teenaged children. Advantages of NFP
  • 23.
    Chastity: Lead byExample! “Contracepting parents beget fornicating teenagers.” –– Father Paul Marx, Founder of HLI. Chastity: Lead by Example! “Contracepting parents beget fornicating teenagers.” –– Father Paul Marx, Founder of HLI.
  • 24.
    More than adozen sociological studies have shown the following divorce rates among couples who; Use contraception: 51% Use NFP: 2%-6% In general, those who live by God’s plan are always happier. Advantages of NFP
  • 25.
    NFP is aesthetic.Of all of the methods of fertility regulation, only NFP allows the couple to make love as God and nature intended. It is amusing that "lovemaking manuals" try to work condoms, diaphragms, and various messy jams and jellies into the act of making love — "getting rigged to make love," as one noted gynecologist calls it. It is an enduring contradiction that many of the same people who pride themselves on the "natural" aspects of their lives don't hesitate to pollute their bodies with drugs and devices, and cannot let the most intimate aspect of their existence be truly natural and human. Advantages of NFP
  • 26.
    Simple Secret toa Happy MarriageSimple Secret to a Happy Marriage
  • 27.
    Simple Secret toa Happy Marriage (1)(1) TheThe PhysicalPhysical (the body)(the body) (2)(2) TheThe MentalMental (the mind)(the mind) (3)(3) TheThe EmotionalEmotional (the heart)(the heart) (4) The(4) The SpiritualSpiritual (the soul)(the soul) (Mark 12:30) Simple Secret to a Happy Marriage
  • 28.
    Advantages of NFP †NFP is among the most effective methods of nonpermanent fertility regulation known when learned and used properly — up to 99 percent. † NFP is virtually free of charge, whereas contraceptive and abortifacient methods cost anywhere from $530 to $2,680 annually. This is particularly crucial in areas of developing countries where health care is rudimentary and expensive.
  • 29.
    Advantages of NFP †NFP can be used to detect early illness in the wife. † Unlike all contraceptives, the couple can use NFP to pinpoint the fertile time and to become pregnant.
  • 30.
    Advantages of NFP Finally,NFP, unlike all contraceptive and abortifacient methods, lets women and men learn about their bodies and work with them, rather than remaining ignorant and subduing them with chemicals. And NFP allows husbands to more intimately understand the psychology of their wives by understanding the nature of their menstrual cycles.
  • 31.
  • 32.
    Breastfeeding provides babieswith the best possible food. Human breast milk contains at least 300 compounds, including 15 elements, eight proteins, 18 amino acids, six forms of nitrogen, six carbohydrates, at least 15 vitamins, and antibodies to protect the baby from various infections. Breast milk even evolves its composition from colostrum to transitional milk and then to "mature" milk over a baby's first 15 days of postnatal life in order to keep pace with the infant's development. Advantages of Breastfeeding
  • 33.
    • Breastfeeding providesbonding by allowing extensive skin contact, which helps children thrive physically and emotionally. • Breastfeeding helps the uterus to contract after childbirth. Breastfeeding appears to help reduce the risk of breast cancer. • The unique "suck and swallow" reflex of breastfeeding reduces tooth decay and encourages optimum jaw, mouth and speech development. Advantages of Breastfeeding
  • 34.
    • The highlevel of calcium contained in human breast milk helps an infant's bones develop quickly and strongly. • From an NFP standpoint, breastfeeding helps suppress ovulation from a period of three months (if the mother feeds the baby supplements) to as long as 1½ years (in the case of ecological breastfeeding). Advantages of Breastfeeding
  • 35.
    If NFP isSo Great, Why Don’t More Couples Use It? Three Reasons: • Ignorance • Laziness • Profit
  • 36.
    Brian Clowes Human LifeInternational 4 Family Life Lane Front Royal, Virginia USA 22630 E-mail address: [email protected]

Editor's Notes

  • #24 As Father Paul Marx, O.S.B., the founder of Human Life International has said, "Contracepting parents beget fornicating teenagers."
  • #28 There is Only One Secret to a Happy Relationship: The Four Elements of the Person. We have learned from experience that every human being is a unique creation of God. Each person born is singular and unrepeatable, and everyone lives a different life and has different experiences that shape their personalities. Our Lord told us “… you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength” [Mark 12:30]. This means that, however unique each person is, everyone is comprised of four primary elements; (1) The physical element (the body); (2) The mental element (the mind, or intellect); (3) The emotional element (the heart); and (4) The spiritual element (the soul). Theologians and missionaries recognize that we are all born with birth defects of varying degrees of severity. The most visible to man's eyes, of course, are the physical birth defects or handicaps. Everyone immediately knows if someone is wheelchair-bound or suffers from severe cerebral palsy. But as we move from physical to mental to emotional to spiritual birth defects and handicaps, they become less obvious to the eyes of man and more evident to the eyes of God. In other words, spiritual birth defects are much less visible to human eyes than physical birth defects — but are much more important and central to the identity of a person.      The key to a happy life – and a happy marriage – is lost on this world. These days, most relationships between men and women start with the physical (having sex). As the relationship continues, the man and woman may proceed to find out if they are mentally compatible. Usually, they get no further than this. They do not ever plumb the depths of the person – the emotional and the physical, upon which enduring relationships are based. This is why about 80 percent of marriages between people who cohabit, or “shack up,” end in divorce. By contrast, the Catholic Church knows full well the secret of living a long and happy life together. If a young man and young woman find that they are compatible spiritually first, this is the foundation of a lasting relationship. They then go on to find that they are compatible emotionally and mentally, and, finally, if they are in tune on these elements, they will find on their wedding night that they are indeed compatible physically. In the United States, married couples who use natural family planning (NFP) and observe the teachings of the Catholic Church, have about a three percent to six percent divorce rate.
  • #37 One interesting Web site that may be of interest is updated by Brian Clowes and maintained by Human Life International; The “Abortion Violence” Web site at http://www.abortionviolence.com, which lists more than 8,500 incidents of pro-abortion violence and illegal activities, arranged by state and Canadian province. These acts include more than 1,300 documented cases of murder by pro-abortion persons. Contact Information Brian Clowes Human Life International 4 Family Life Lane Front Royal, Virginia USA 22630 E-mail address: [email_address]