How To Have A Beautiful Mind
Millions software for  computers Software for the  human brain
 
Great  physical beauty  with a boring mind is  boring You might get attention but will  never keep  that attention Older, physical will  fade Beauty of Mind is  independent of age Can actually  increase  with wisdom and experience
Ways? How To Agree How To Disagree How To Listen How To Differ How To Respond
How To Agree
Genuinely  seek  to find points of agreement – not  sycophantic pretence No  contribution  if you simply agree with  everything Other person view right –  spell it out Changing perceptions  to look at things in  different way  is an important step
 
Do not disagree  for the sake  of disagreeing Do not disagree just to show  how clever you are  or to  boost your ego Do so  politely and gently  /= rudely and aggressively Distinguish  between having a  different  opinion and  disagreeing  with an opinion Point out that a fact or statement is  simply wrong
How To
Listening is not just having  to wait impatiently  until you can yourself speak A good listener  pays attention  and  seeks  to get the maximum value You should make a habit of  repeating back  to the speaker what you think you have understood You should use question to  check on fact
How To Differ
There are times when only  one of a different  set of opinions can be right Seek to  explore and explain  the reasons for the difference Different  may arise  from: - Personal preference, values, point of view - Perception, personal experience
How To Respond
Go  further  than just agreeing with a point that has been made You may wish to  extend a suggestion  by enlarging it and growing the suggestion You may want to  modify an idea  to make it more acceptable to yourself, stronger and more practical Instead of the usual ‘battle’ of arguments there is a  joint effort  to explore the subject
Additional Questions Concept Alternatives Emotion And Feeling Information and Knowledge Attitude
 
Questions are key means of interaction in any conversation or discussion. A listener should  seek to ask  question
Concept
Concepts are like  parents  that  breed  children ( ideas ) and like road junctions that  open up  several other roads
Alternatives
Because we have an adequate ways of doing something does not mean that there might not be a much better way.  If we try we can find that better way
Emotion And Feeling
Adjectives are usually subjective and  tell more about what their user is feeling than about the matter itself . Beware of adjectives used to make a point in place of logic or information Ultimately, choices and  decisions are based  on emotions and feelings
Information And Knowledge
You  do not need  full and complete  information  about a subject in order to discuss that subject Very little information??  Imagination and speculation  is the basis for discussion
 
 
 
Credit Pictures: Flickr.com Random Google Search Book: How To Have A Beautiful Mind by Edward de Bono Quotes: Brainyquotes.com

How To Have A Beautiful Mind

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    How To HaveA Beautiful Mind
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    Millions software for computers Software for the human brain
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    Great physicalbeauty with a boring mind is boring You might get attention but will never keep that attention Older, physical will fade Beauty of Mind is independent of age Can actually increase with wisdom and experience
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    Ways? How ToAgree How To Disagree How To Listen How To Differ How To Respond
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    Genuinely seek to find points of agreement – not sycophantic pretence No contribution if you simply agree with everything Other person view right – spell it out Changing perceptions to look at things in different way is an important step
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    Do not disagree for the sake of disagreeing Do not disagree just to show how clever you are or to boost your ego Do so politely and gently /= rudely and aggressively Distinguish between having a different opinion and disagreeing with an opinion Point out that a fact or statement is simply wrong
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    Listening is notjust having to wait impatiently until you can yourself speak A good listener pays attention and seeks to get the maximum value You should make a habit of repeating back to the speaker what you think you have understood You should use question to check on fact
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    There are timeswhen only one of a different set of opinions can be right Seek to explore and explain the reasons for the difference Different may arise from: - Personal preference, values, point of view - Perception, personal experience
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    Go further than just agreeing with a point that has been made You may wish to extend a suggestion by enlarging it and growing the suggestion You may want to modify an idea to make it more acceptable to yourself, stronger and more practical Instead of the usual ‘battle’ of arguments there is a joint effort to explore the subject
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    Additional Questions ConceptAlternatives Emotion And Feeling Information and Knowledge Attitude
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    Questions are keymeans of interaction in any conversation or discussion. A listener should seek to ask question
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    Concepts are like parents that breed children ( ideas ) and like road junctions that open up several other roads
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    Because we havean adequate ways of doing something does not mean that there might not be a much better way. If we try we can find that better way
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    Adjectives are usuallysubjective and tell more about what their user is feeling than about the matter itself . Beware of adjectives used to make a point in place of logic or information Ultimately, choices and decisions are based on emotions and feelings
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    You donot need full and complete information about a subject in order to discuss that subject Very little information?? Imagination and speculation is the basis for discussion
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    Credit Pictures: Flickr.comRandom Google Search Book: How To Have A Beautiful Mind by Edward de Bono Quotes: Brainyquotes.com