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The Unending End Result, Part II
The woman introduces the idea of trying Orgasmic Meditation with her husband after reading about Nicole Daedone's work. She explains to her husband that Orgasmic Meditation involves 15 minutes of stroking without the pressure to orgasm. They try it, with the husband stroking the woman's clitoris for 15 minutes while she describes the intense sensations she feels. The woman says she may have orgasmed but isn't sure, as the focus was only on pleasure without an end result, which was a meaningful new experience for her.
The Unending End Result, Part II
- 1. The Unending EndResult, Part II
- 2. โขWhen my husbandโskey turned in the lock, I just about jumped out of my skin. All my doubts came to the surface. Is there something wrong with me? What if Iโm too nervous? What if my husband has no interest in Orgasmic Meditation, or Slow Sex, or Nicole Daedoneโs groundbreaking work? Does he think he doesnโt turn me on (not true!)? What if heโs too tired? What if Iโm too tired? โI want to try something new,โ I said. โOK,โ he replied. โItโs ... you know how...I thought...I was reading this article today.โ โMmmm.โ โItโs...have you heard of Nicole Daedone?โ โNo.โ โSheโs...I want to try Orgasmic Meditation with you.โ
- 3. โขThat got hisattention. I explained Nicole Daedoneโs fundamentals. โThe thing that really gets me excited,โ I explained, โis the idea that there is no end result, just the concentration on the pleasure and sensation for the entire 15 minutes of stroking. Taking away the pressure of needing to orgasm -- itโs like Nicole Daedone wrote that for me. That pressure alone is enough to stop me from really enjoying anything.โ Five minutes later, I had my pants off and was lying on the bed with him sitting next to me, his finger on my clitoris. Resisting the urge to speed up, he admitted, took self-control, but the grin on his face said it all. He loved it.
- 4. โขI described whatI was feeling as the time went by. A few awkward giggles at the beginning quickly subsided and became surprised laughter. This was fun! A pleasant buzzing sensation. Sensitivity to the slightest touch, or vibration. I closed my eyes and actually felt my head spinning. All of these sensations that came with Nicole Daedoneโs Orgasmic Meditation were so intense, and much more meaningful than the ability to orgasm.
- 5. โขDid I orgasm,ultimately? Iโve got no idea. I couldnโt care less. In the 15 (OK, 20) minutes alone with my husband stroking me, my heart raced, there was quivering, shortness of breath, moaning, rosy cheeks, and glassy eyes. Perhaps I did after all.