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Before reading this book i did'nt have a clue what the true
meaning of life was, all that i had involved boys, money and
friends. I never used to listen to anyone and just did things
of my own will. Alhamdulillah after reading your book I
realised the mistakes that I have made and a wish to repent
grew within me. Jazakallh. For this book has personally
helped me. (Muslim Sister. 15)
"...The World of Teens is great. Mashallah i really hope you
continue with these books... (Muslim Sister. 13)
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"...The World of Teens, was easy to read, less time
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"...A very blessed task, may Allah make it beneficial..."
(Shaykh Yusuf Motala. Founder of barululoom Bury. Uk)
'Allah willing, this book will help teenagers change their
lifestyle and come to the right path. May Allah, the
Almighty accept Muhammad Yahya's effort and enable him
to do more in future for the guidance of youth.'
(Shaykh baud Falahi. Lecturer of Hadith at barululoom
Leicester uk.)
“In today'stime,whentheyouthare so involved in major sins
that it seems to have becomeanaccepted part of life, there
was a dire need for a book of this sort to be written.
Alhamdu lillah, the author has addressed many important
topics related to the younger generation in a brief but
concise manner. The language and style used will be familiar
to the youth. The humorous and light-hearted approach is
sure to hold the readers interest throughout. If these
major issues can be openly talked about and explained by
parents and teachers at an early stage in life, there is hope
Insha'Allah that bad habits will not take form. Instead
these young people can develop into good, pious individuals
who will be the leaders of tomorrow. May Allah accept the
author's efforts and make it a means of his salvation in the
hereafter. Ameen."
(Shaykh Yusuf Boodi. Senior Hifdh Teacher and former A
Level co-ordiantor.)
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Acknowledgements
Special acknowledgements must go to: my respected
parents and teachers who were always giving that extra
word of encouragement to keep me going; my wife & son who
were there to support me; my brothers and sisters for
their continuous help despite my shortcomings; my English
teacher Sir Siraj Lambat for his help once again; brother
Abid Russell for the thorough editing and advice on many
issues despite his busy schedule , AAufti Ebrahim Moosafor
his assistance in setting the book; brother Rizwan Ahmed
for the beautiful design and artwork; all those young teens
out there who sent their vital suggestions and feedback
which compelled me to continue; and all those who assisted
with the publication of this book. May Allah grant them all
and the whole Muslim Ummah a Hayatan Tayyibah (a happy
peaceful life). Ameen.
Foreword
Foreword
All Praise is due to Allah, the Lord of the worlds, and his
blessings are on his noble Prophet Muhammad sallallahu
alayhi wasallam, his Companions, noble wives and all
those that follow him till the day of judgement.
It is a saying of our beloved Prophet Muhammad
sallallahu alayhi wasallam that 'from amongst all the
temptations (fitnah) that shall come upon my ummah
after me, the fitnah of immorality and indecency shall
be the most severe and the most detrimental to one's
Iman.1
The age we live in today is an age wherein modesty has
steeped to a low level that was unimaginable a few
centuries ago. Yes, vices have existed throughout
history, but they were understood and accepted as
vices, never in history has immodesty and indecency
reached to such a degree where it has been accepted
and taken up as a whole new style of living!
The world of media- newspapers, TV, magazines etc-
have dedicated a great part of themselves in service to
this new world-wide fashion of nudity, indecency, and
immorality, leading to everyone being tainted and
affected by its wickedness and corruption.
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Introduction
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Regrettably, this wave has forced itself into the lives
of many Muslims.
Hence there was a great need of the teachings of Allah
ta'ala and the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi
wasallam regarding such evils to be brought in front of
humanity for the purpose that it may protect
themselves and regain their treasure. With this in
mind, (Moulana) Hafiz Muhammad Yahya wished to
present this book to his own age group, taking their
health, wealth and Iman into consideration, for it is
the youth that are the foundations of our world.
It is my du'a that this book becomes a means of
guidance and benefit for every young and old, male and
female of the Ummah. (Ameen)
(Sheikh) Ismail Ahmed Patel.
(Principal <& Founder of Darul Uloom Leicester UK)
Introduction
In the Name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the
Most Merciful. All Praises be to Allah ta'ala and
peace and Salutations be upon the Best of Mankind:
Muhammad.
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Alhamdulillah, by the grace of My Lord the third
edition of part one is now in your hands. It is only
Allah who has made these books a huge success
helping many teenagers change their lives and
reform themselves into instrumental individuals. I
pray to Allah that he accepts this in His court and
grants us all sincerity. Ameen.
Looking around society today, we see many a youth
who were once innocent and sprightly children who
playfully ran around in the parks and playgrounds, or
were held lovingly in the hands of their caring
mothers. But sadly these same individuals have
diverted and fallen into the trap of shaytan-a trap
that waits in pursuit to lure innocent teenagers
entering the years of adolescence. Ina world where
we see disobedience, disrespect and immorality
becoming the norm, it seems very hard for young
Muslim boys and girls to disconnect themselves
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learntthatamidstanationofidol worshippers Allah
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stood all alone against the evil practices and,
through the help of Allah, prevailed. With this in
mind my main intention is to provide the young
traveller a clearing and a path through the dense
fog and the swampy mires that he/she encounters
through the golden years of teenage life.
This book has been split into several parts to make
it easy for the ’traveller' to digest and has been
written in the language and style of teens.
Insha'allah if every young person that comes across
this book picks it up and reads it with an open mind
and an intention to improve, then Allah ta'ala will
surely guidetheonewhoseeksthetruth.
If you find any fault, then correct it I pray,
For no one is faultless except Allah
(Jalaaluddin Abd Ar Rahman As Sooyuti)
Muhammad Yahya Ibn Farouk
June 2011/Rajab 1432.
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middle A on end The beginning is to get started on an
errand, the end is the process of packing up, while
the most crucial port is the middle, where the job
gets done Take the example of driving a car. The
beginning is to start the engine and to manoeuvre
onto the rood; the end part is arriving at the
destination in which the car slows down. But the main
part of driving is between the two. Similarly is the
case of life Childhood is its beginning, old age its
end and teenage life its middle and most crucial.
For this reason we see that a boy or a girl reaches
his/her peak at this age, everything is in order, he
has the strength of a grown man, intelligence
increases so that he begins to fathom things around
him, reasoning bursts out with a million 'Why s, e.g.
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possible. For example, when an apple tree is in it
first years of bearing fruit, then the farmer's moi
concern is the protection of the apples. Using oi
sorts of pesticides to keep spiders, bacteria and
fungus at bay, the farmer protects the fruits
Likewise teenagers are at such an important part of
development that if they are left in the streetsand
clubs, (as we see today) then no doubt, they are
open to 'bacteria,' which will crawl over them and
infect them.
Now, in order to keep the apples growing perfectly,
the farmer needs to make sure that large amounts
of disinfectants are not used otherwise it will result
in the fruit disintegrating due to the chemicals. Too
little an amount will also cause them to rot. Again
this example can be reflected onto the teenager
that too many restrictions will cause him to become
an unsociable person, while too less will make him
undisciplined. So, the farmer needs such a chemical,
which will make the apples grow in a way that they
are accepted by world consumers. Once that
chemical is found then the apples are protected and
ready to be exported. Again reflecting this very
example on a teenager a 'chemical' is needed that will
aid the teen to the shore, the responsible powers of
western culture began the quest for this 'super
spray' to control the 'teen tree.' What did they come
up with?
Intoxicants A women!
Keep them busy with drugs, alcohol and women. Then
we can get on with our chores while they rot!
This 'chemical' was designed to control the teen, but
as we witness today, it was totally unsuccessful. The
only 'chemical', which is fit for this very delicate
age, is ISLAM; the most moderate, natural and cool
religion.
After the creation of mankind, Allah subhanahu
wata'ala set his syllabus for each human. Each
individual after completing the syllabus and passing
his examinations, shall attain success through
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Paradise.(Jannah) God forbid any student fQj|
would face severe consequences through punisht^
in hellfire (Jahannam).
It has been stated in a Hadith reported in 'Bukhari!
Muslim' (two famous authentic books in the field of
the 'sayings <& actions of the prophet sallallahu alayhi
wasallam.')
‘Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu anhu (may Allah be
pleased with him) reports that the Prophet Sallallahu
alayhi wasallam said: “Jahannam (hell) has been
covered with temptations and Jannah (paradise) has
been covered by difficulties."
Therefore a person who follows his desires in this
temporary world shall fall into Jahannum and the one
who controls his desires and bears the difficulties of
not having all the unlawful fun shall enter the garden
of eternal bliss and pleasure.
In the build up to exams, a candidate with more
abilities is required to cover a more difficult
syllabus. Likewise, in life, the candidate with the
most abilities is a teenager and therefore the
temptations are much severe, so the reward is much
greater.
As stated in a Hadith:'Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu
anhu (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that
the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasallam said: "Seven
(types of) people whom Allah will grant shade under
his throne on that day when there shall be no shade
except His;
1.A just ruler
2. A young man/woman who grew up in the worship of
Allah.
3. A person whose heart is always attached to the
masjid.
4.Two persons who's friendship is based only on the
pleasure of Allah, they meet for Him and disperse
for Him. (they have no ulterior motives for meeting)
5. A man who is called by a pretty and honourable girl
(to sin) but he says11 fear Allah' (and abstains).
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would face severe consequences through punishment
in hellfire (Jahannam).
It has been stated in a Hadith reported in 'Bukhari
Muslim' (two famous authentic books in the field of
the 'sayings <& actions of the prophet sallallahu alayhi
wasallam.')
‘Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu anhu (may Allah be
pleased with him) reports that the Prophet Sallallahu
alayhi wasallam said: "Jahannam (hell) has been
covered with temptations and Jannah (paradise) has
been covered by difficulties."
Therefore a person who follows his desires in this
temporary world shall fall into Jahannum and the one
who controls his desires and bears the difficulties of
not having all the unlawful fun shall enter the garden
of eternal bliss and pleasure.
In the build up to exams, a candidate with more
abilities is required to cover a more difficult
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syllobus. likewise, in life, the candidate with the
MS, abilities is a teenager and therefore the
temptations are much severe, so the reward is much
greater.
As stated in a Hadith:'Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu
anhu (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that
the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasallam said: "Seven
(types of) people whom Allah will grant shade under
his throne on that day when there shall be no shade
except His;
1.A just ruler
2. A young man/woman who grew up in the worship of
Allah.
3. A person whose heart is always attached to the
masjid.
4.Two persons who's friendship is based only on the
pleasure of Allah, they meet for Him and disperse
for Him. (they have no ulterior motives for meeting)
5. A man who is called by a pretty and honourable girl
(to sin) but he says' I fear Allah' (and abstains).
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The World of Teens 1 Teenage Romance
One of the first tests a teenager goes through on
reaching the door step of puberty is that he/she
begins to recognise the opposite sex through a
different eye. Before it was just a girl or a boy'.
But now it's a ’beautiful girl' or a ’handsome boy'.
This test is very hard in its initial stages, especially
when they are sooo many about.
But not to worry, no test is set without having a
solution. It's not so difficult once a grasp has been
gained on how to tackle it. In this case we have a
very cunning being who has taken the responsibility
of tricking candidates. And who may this be? His
name is well known to all: 'Shaytan'
Yes, we have all heard of him and his army in all
spheres: he pops up somehow, somewhere
surreptitiously.
Ok, let's take a look at how he has managed to claw
his way into this with his bag of tricks.
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He has exploited this topic so much that it has
become impossible to detect this as a real test.
Wherever you look, it's either a man or a woman
being displayed in the most indecent way, be it the
billboards, newspapers or internet ’pop-ups’,
immorality has become so rampant that it makes us
think it is natural and a norm.
But, NO! It is a test, remember!
To tackle this, firstly let's take at look at how the
Qur'an has guided us for this: -
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and be
modest. That is purer for them. Lo! Allah is Aware of
what they do." (24:30)
Allah, in his infinite bounty has guided us through
this.Well you may be wondering, “What about the
9ids? Huh, they're not any better!" Well read on, in
the very next verse Allah Subhanahu Wata'ala
states:
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"And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and
be modest... And turn unto Allah together, 0
believers, in order that you may succeed." (24:31)
The main cure for this is to lower the gaze. A point
to remember is that the first accidental gaze is
forgiven but the second gaze will be penalised
accordingly or if the first gaze is prolonged to the
extent that you start to drool all over your clothes.
Obviously it's hard when they just come in front of
you. Well try it, once, twice and soon you shall feel
your head jerking away automatically. (Don't worry,
you won't become a robot!)
The rewards for lowering the gaze are magnificent.
Let's take a look at the Hadith of the Prophet,
sallallahu alayhi wasallam:
Sayyidina Abu Umamah (may Allah ta'ala be pleased
with him) said that the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi
wasallam said:
“No Muslim gazes at a woman's beauty for the first
time and thereafter lowers his gaze except that
Allah ta'ala creates within him the ability to perform
worship of which the sweetness he himself can
taste." (Reported by Imam Ahmad)
Remember exactly the same virtue exists for the
girls! You might think "it's only a bit of harmless fun"
or He or She looks so alluring, I just can't help
myself.
Her eyes are absolutely hypnotising...
The radiant smile...."
But you know, 'don't judge a book by its cover’
In the same way don't take this on face value she may
seem very beautiful, but alas will she remain
beautiful forever? Will the same skin remain
forever? Think! If she suddenly comes up with boils!
Will she still be sooo beautiful? Don't deceive
Once a person came to the Prophet Sallallahu alayhi
wasallam and said '0 prophet of Allah! Give me
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permission to commit fornication.'
The prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasallam told him to
come closer and asked him-to the nearest meaning-
'Would you like it if someone committed adultery
with your mother or with your sister?"
The man exclaimed in horror "Of course not!"
Similarly, the woman that you wish to commit
adultery with is someone's sister or mother."
The prophet Sallallahu alayhi wasallam thereafter
made du'a for him and he was protected. (Reported
by Imam Ahmad)
Subhanallah! Look how the messenger of Allah
Sallallahu alayhi wasallam explained to this young
Sahabi. Think that the girl you are befriending is
someone's sister or someone's daughter. Would you
like if someone did that to your sister or daughter?
If you do, then you need yourself checked out, ok!
It's not natural!
Take as an example a toy car which is spring loaded,
when you push it back and then let go, it goes
forward according to how much you wound it back.
The case of the eye is the same, the more you use it
to view unlawful things the more it will go ahead.
A look, then a smile, then a nod of the head,
Then a talk, then a promise, then the warmth
of the bed...
One thing leads to another.
The first step is viewing the girl or boy, the first
glance. Once you start then Shaytan starts inflating
the image like a balloon so then she or he looks so
beautiful that 'there's just no one like her.'
But, as you may have already seen that these
relationships don’t last very long. Because when the
accursed Shaytan observes that this is not going
according to plan then he puts a pin in the balloon.
And now she looks sooo ugly, just like when a balloon
bursts what do you do? bump it!
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The important question to consider is this: imagine
yourself as a married person and in years to come
(Allah forbid), you realise that the girl you are with
was once involved with someone else. How would you
feel?
You want to have a pure and clean partner that
hasn't done anything bad, similarly your partner
deserves the same. What is better, a bird that is
only yours and doesn't go round trying to attract
others or the bird that, is ever ready to fly away?
Yes, dear brothers and sisters that is the
difference between relationships before marriage
and a relationship through marriage. How pure and
clean is Islam that it has acknowledged that a boy
needs a girl in life and a girl needs a boy, therefore
let your first kiss, your first touch be to that girl
who is going to be the partner of your life.
Hopefully by now we should realise that to stop
ourselves from something we should not go near it.
Now, what if we go to high school where the
classrooms are mixed? And to avoid intermingling in
that sense becomes impossible? Well, not to worry!
Ibn Kathir has narrated that Once Sayyidina Umar
(radhiyallahu anhu) asked a Sahabi what he knew
taqwa be. The reply is an indirect answer to the
above dilemma.'Have you ever walked along a thorny
road where each side is covered with thorns?’ The
Sahabi asked.
‘'Yes"Umar Radhiyallahu Anhu replied.
"So then what did you do?" the Sahabi went on.
"I collected my clothes so as not to get pricked by
the thorns."
"That is taqwa!" the Sahabi exclaimed.
It would be ideal if this generation and all that follow
had the option of attending single sex schools where
intermingling doesn't occur, but unfortunately at
present there simply aren’t enough of these schools
to go round. But we can't just sit back and say, "O let
this generation of youth rot and we will look after the
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generations to come". No! You are also humans and
have a right to be looked after.
The journey is difficult- the traveller still has to
travel, but it will have to be in a more careful way.
Now, what does one mean by careful?
Make a good effort by talking to the opposite sex to
F the minimum: only talking when it is necessary. Let
people call you what they want, let them say : 'He's
backwards! Loner!'
How long will they carry on?
In the end they will tire. Wont they?
But tell me, if we do talk and are top in our friend's
books and they begin to say:
Veh! Man this guys cool' and (Allah subhanahu wa ta
ala forbid) we go to Jahannum, then how long will
that be for?
Not for a year, not for two years. But for eternity.
Is it really worth it?
help me!' and keep your gaze down. Insha'allah, Allah
will make your years pass easily. Don't ever let
Shaytan fool you: "Oh come ON man, how old are
you? Where you gonna get this kinda fun again? Just
look at those pretty eyes and that lovely smile. "
Keep yourself busy in fruitful activities so you don't
start dreaming away. Remember: "an idle mind is the
devil's workshop." Dreaming is the worst because
from dreaming you will get all your ideas. Don't sit
alone doing nothing read good material. Increase
your knowledge.
Think of ways by which you can help the weak and
poor of the world. Organise activities for yourself
and those friends who don’t have any illicit
relationships but DON’T let your imagination take
you away! Shaytan is your enemy, he wants YOU to
join him in going to Jahannum, say 'no' once! Twice!
Then he'll leove you alone for the time being and will
tytojet you another way. Be vigilant!
Make du'a to Allah that 'O' Allah I am weak, please
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Allah has stated in the Quran And follow not the
footsteps of the devil. Lo! He is an open enemy for
you." (surah 2 ayah 168)
Don't let peer pressure get to you. “Everyone's got
one. They all live happily, I mean why? Why do I
You may appear to look a loner in the eyes of some
but remember in the eyes of Allah you really are a
hero, while the others will be zero. Be your own
judge, don't be the tail of others- whatever they do
I do! You’ve got a brain, haven't you? Was this why I
was created? To enjoy girls only? No, no, give your
brain a hard knock if it says yes! Your friends may all
look happy but believe you me they die inside as soon
as they see their so -called partner talking to
another. Oh my, my, they can't say anything but
they melt inside, their nights are spent sleeplessly in
thinking "What can I do next to impress my bird?"
fheWoridofTeensJ.
As for you, YOU can sleep peacefully, with no
worries. 'Aaah...' what a peaceful life knowing that
Allah loves you and so does everyone else. While
those people know very well that they are in the
disobedience of Allah and the Almighty Lord is
displeased with them. Is that the life you want to
live? An artificial life! Standing in front of the mirror
for an hour just trying to get the 'mascara' sorted
out or the hair into a nice bun so he looks at me or
casting down shirt after shirt in case she doesn't like
my choice of designer labels .
For Allah's sake: think! Live naturally how Allah has
made you. I'm not saying don't have a bath. No, but
I'm saying live naturally. Insha'allah if all these
points are taken into consideration then you shall
prosper and will remember your youth as a fruitful
one, not a bitter, artificial one!
Allah ta'ala has given each of us the choice to choose
between right and wrong and it is through exercising
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this power of choice shall we be rewarded or
punished. Our nafs (ego) is like a snake that can
never die and the more we listen to its demands the
more stronger it becomes. You know today we think
that oh man its just a bit of fun i mean come on I'm
not gonna have sex with her just chilling, that is the
trick of the devil one thing leads to another so stop
yourself before its too late.
Ibn Kathir a famous commentator of the Quran has
mentioned an amazing incident that once at the time
of Bani Israeel (the nation of Musa Alayhis Salam)
there were three brothers who had a beautiful
sister. It so happened that due to unforseen
circumstances they had to travel, in those days
journeys were quite arduous and long so they could
not take their sister. But who could they leave her
with?
After a little contemplation they all agreed that the
young Barsisa was the only man suitable, known for
his piety and worship of Allah ta'ala. It took much
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persuasion to make Barsisa agree to have a little
house built for her next to his monastery. The
brothers left and Barsisa continued his daily chores
but in addition to this, every day he would stop his
worship, go out and place food outside the girls
house, a few weeks passed and shaytan whispered to
him, 'Come on she ain't no animal! How can you leave it
outside at least knock on her door and place the dish
inside!" Barsisa thought hey that’s true. Nothing
wrong with that and so began his destruction...
A few weeks later the devil whispered again; 'Look
she's all alone at least ask her how she is, if she
needs anything etc.' And Barsisa began asking if she
required anything, before long these questions
developed into long conversations. Shaytan then put
a thought in his head: ’You're a well respected
person, people pass by whilst you talk to this girl, of
course you're just asking how she is, but what will
others be thinking. It's safer for you to go inside
and talk, don't look at her. Just enter and you can
converse behind a door. As this new scenario began
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Barsisa found himself spending half an hour on a
regular basis getting to know this girl but he had still
not laid his eyes on her.
After a few days Barsisa's desires overcame him and
he removed the covering that lay between them, as
his eyes fell on her, he went as far as committing the
evil act of fornication. Realising what he had done,
Barsisa ran away to his monastery.
Nine months later the girl herself came to the
monastery carrying a baby and said to Barsisa:
"Look what you've done! You made me pregnant and
now I have given birth!" He became worried for he
knew if the brothers came and saw this he was a
finished case so the once upon a time pious Barsiso
conspired to Kill.
He thought that if he killed the girl what would he do
with the baby and if he killed the baby then the girl
would most certainly testify against him. In the end
he resolved to kill both!
Allahu Akbar.
Coincidently the brothers arrived the very same
week and asked the whereabouts of thier sister.
Barsisa let flow crocodile tears and said' alas she fell
ill and breathed her last.' The brothers were
greatly grieved by this news, but nevertheless
thanked Barsisa for his service, paid their respects
at the grave shown to them and went home. That
night shaytan came in all their dreams and told them
the truth.
Barsia was exposed, the brothers came and dug the
place they were shown in the dream and to thier
utter disbelief found their sister with a baby!
Immediately Barsisa was taken to court and a verdict
was issued that he should be put to the gallows. As
he stood there with his head in the gallows shaytan
appeared before him and said do you know who i am?
gave the brothers the idea to leave
their sister with you ItwncT . l
_ who told you to do all
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those things and only I can take you form this mess
and put you back to where you were. All you have to
do is bow your head down to me and ill sort
everything out. The helpless Barsisa did so and the
gallow came and he was no more...
bear girls and boys out there, think! this is our
enemy from the highest ranks of piety to the lowest
ranks of fornication, murder and shirk (disbelief in
Allah tala). Let us take heed from this incident for
intelligent is he who reflects on the blunders of
others. Remember drops make oceans, pebbles make
mountains, (and pennies make pounds).
Once you begin a relationship or any sin your ego will
crave for another and something bigger and in the
end there's nothing but sadness and misery , why?
Because in haram there can never be real happiness
its just temporary check the following article out
from the Daily Mail;
"As Claire lay in bed shaking, crying and sweating, unable to
contemplate moving from under her duvet, she knew
something was terribly wrong. A dreadful fever? No. In fact,
Clare’s symptoms were the result of her clinical addiction to
love. Incredible though it may sound, experts agree that love
addiction is a medical condition which can cause as much as
physical and emotional affliction as being hooked on drugs
oraicohol.’Everytime a relationship ended, it felt as though
my life had disappeared,’ recalls Clare, 46, a radio and TV
broadcaster (46! Read on and find when all this started thats
whv the poet say Watch your thoughts before they become
vour words, your words before they become actions, your
actions before they become your habits, your habits before
theybecome vour characters and vour characters before they
became your destiny..). But it was much more than just the
proverbial broken heart. ‘Some of the relationships had
lasted barelv a few dates, but I'd find myself unable to work
orsleepand would end up entertaining suicidal thoughts. ‘ I
was like a naive teenager in a womens body obsessing about
men and my own desire, to be the perfect girlfriend, believing
that this would make men love me . I was addicted to the
initial high you get in those first few weeks and months of a
relationship. That was my drug, my euphoria. The first signs
ofmy addictive personality emerged when I was 14...
I had huge crushes on boys and would always brood over
diem. I developed an obsession with my weight and the
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scales would dictate what kind of day I would have. If I was
a pound lighter then the day before, I'd be happy. But if ]
weighed more I'd be in the depths of despair. When I had a
boyfriend it would dominate my life to such an extent that
I'd spend hours in my room trying on ten different outfits.
A few years into my marriage the old habits crept back in. I
left my husband to experiment with other men I moved out
of our home into a rented flat, got a job on channel 4 news
and pored over magazine articles telling me what I should
do now that I was single. Top of the list was meeting new
people, so I decided to run the London Marathon and met
my first post (after) marriage boyfriend while we were
running. Dan and I dated for a year and the relationship was
quickly intense sexually and emotionally because that’s
what I craved.’ It marked the start of a decade of unhealthy,
addictive relationships with men. I finished with Dan after
that exciting initial period ended because I craved intensity
again. Until I locked eyes with Jake in a bar one night and felt
as though I'd been hit by a rock the feelings were so strong.
He was married with a child, but we still had an affair that
was to last eight years. During the Jake years I also met a guy
on a self- help conference who had a partner himself but this
did not stop us enjoying ourselves. Then there was a man ten
years my junior whom I met at an ITN news party and he
made it clear to me that he wanted me. In the end I found
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myself on the kitchen floor contemplating an overdose
because I was so bereft and lonely I felt I might die... (Daily
Mail Tuesday, April29, 2008)
Well what can we say she was a definite player..
That’s the true fact its never ending you doing it now
you'll do it after your married and satisfaction will
never come. May Allah make us understand.
Ok.
That was to do with the people who have not yet
moved on to this path of getting a
girlfriend/boyfriend, but who were maybe
considering it.
Now let's discuss those candidates who have a GF/BF
(G.„) but inshallah want to change their lives cause
they acknowledge that they have been in the net of
Shaytan for a time.
“ydear friends, although we transgress Allah's
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commands, He never leaves us or forgets us. Allah
says:
'(0 Muhammad), tell My slaves who have oppressed
themselves: Despair not of the mercy of Allah, for
Allah indeed shall forgive all sins. Lol He is the
Forgiving, the Merciful. "(Surah39 ayaah53)
fRepent to Allah! Yes, shaytan will probably put a last
blow in, now, knowing that you will be leaving him.
"Are you in your senses? Allah to forgive YOU?
whatever may be your faults. 0 son of Adam, I do
not care even if your sins should pile up to the sky;
and should you beg pardon of Me, I would forgive
you. 0 son of Adam, if you come to me with an earth
full of sins and meet Me, not associating anything
with Me (in worship), I would come to you with an
earth full of forgiveness.
(At- Tirmidhi)
Blanked him straight! Alhamdulillah.
After all those dates? All those kisses?
All that evil? Na bob, just leave it, you can't be
forgiven! Might as well enjoy yourself, now that
you're doomed."
Well tell him a Hadith as your goodbye words:
Narrated Anas (radhiyallahu anhu): Allah's
messenger sallallahu alayhi wasallam said, "Allah the
exalted has said: '0 son of Adam, I shall go on
forgiving you so long as you pray to Me and hope for
My forgiveness,
There are three conditions for the acceptance of
repentance:
Have regret for doing the sin.
Have a firm intention never to do it again.
And leave that sin immediately.
So how DO you leave it? Again, Shaytan will come
with another deception
”0 man! How can you do that to her? All the years
together, all those hoppy moments, no man we can’t,
Imeondon’t you even hove a ’kind cell' in your body?"
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Well tell him how can I not do it: all the days I slept
with the anger of my Lord who fed me, clothed me,
loved me, gave me parents, gave me a body, gave me
a brain, the list is endless. Who is more worthy?
So, do it my friends, you don't have to say get lost',
you can do it properly. I don't mean have one more
date or anything. You've got a brain, work it out! Tell
her in your own terms.
If you can't face her then write a note and leave it
for her.
That "my dear beloved... joking, don't write that,
write her normal name. Tell her that I really can't
carry on I am sorry bye...
Finished! To the point.
No ifs or buts. If she's clever she’ll understand, if
not, then in due time she will. Or try helping her T
realized what I have been created for. My purpose
of existence is not fun or blind enjoyment. For this
reason I have decided to abandon those things which
displease my Lord. Wassalam." Beautiful!
Flabbergasting! Imagine how happy Allah will be that
My servant, despite of possessing the means to sin,
declines only for Me. Allahu Akbar.
Remember if Allah wants to change someone either
towards good or bad it does not take long. Fathom
the fact that Allah likes you, that's why he gave you
a chance to repent. Think of how many others there
ore that are still trapped. Make du a for them. Allah
decided that he wants to accept you, chose you from
the rest. Now see the peace of life you shall
experience. Feel the coolness of your eyes in salah.
Your life will take an 180° turn towards good.
Mashallah .And, again, don't be scared of what
people will say. There will always be some people
whom you will never be able to please, so just live for
Allah, not for people.
Once there was a father and son walking through a
town and with them they had a donkey. So on seeing
*. the townsfolk exclaimed: "Look at these foolish
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people! They have a donkey yet they do not ride jj
So the son mounted the donkey whilst the
walked by his side. Upon passing another town
townsmen said;
"How disrespectful is the son, he mounts whilst his
So the son dismounted to make way for the father.
Those standing on the street corners of the next
town said,
threw the donkey into the well. So you see people will
never be happy with what you do. The best thing to
do is to leave them to their own grumblings. And,
finally, remember, that success comes in cans' and
not'cants.'
YOU CAN DO IT!!!
“What an oppressor the father is, he mounts whilst
his son walks!" Hearing this, the father and son both
sat astride the beast and do you know what the
inhabitants of the next village said? They said "Do
these people have no consideration for the donkey?
They are burdening him with the weight of two! So
the father and son had only one last option, which
was to carry the donkey! The villagers jeered at
them and said, “how foolish! They have a conveyance
yet they become its conveyance." In the end, the
father and son became so frustrated that they
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Yes, you thought teen life was just about girls, ha!
You got it wrong mate! Public enemy number one
'Shaytan' doesn't give up so easily, he's got many in
store for you, but don’t worry we can do it together!
Inshallah.
Ok let's get cracking on this case. We know the
criminal.
We have to understand the effects of this
treacherous plan, what it consists of and what it can
do to us. Then we have to look for a cure, a proper
preventive cure.
Let's take it one at a time.
Ok, Smoking!
'I wanna look cool!'
‘I wanna look tough!'
'I don't wanna to be left out'
These are the usual reasons teens give for justify'^
the act that they do. True? Well, once again you live
—--------------------
j people? Huh! Why? Are they so close to you? 0°
they shower you with presents just because you
follow them?
They are fools themselves for opting for such a way
of destruction and you're making a fool out of
yourself by following them. Think!
Do you really wanna follow people blindly?
When people start up a business they do it
through careful strategic planning. So how can you
choose a pattern of your life merely by looking at
people!
So? What are you gonna think about? Is it going to
be'Benson <& Hedges’? Or, ‘Silk Cut’? Maybe even a
cigar: more tobacco! Quicker we die!
you may not think of that aspect when puffing
Qway but it's a proven fact that smoking is a slow
Leidal act.
suicide is Haram (forbidden)
^“ys in the Holy Qur'an
"d*not Kill yourself (Nisa 29)
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Come on! We don't need so many statistical facts;
the consequences are visible with our own eyes. How
many smokers have clean teeth? None! (Unless of
course bleach is used as toothpaste. )How many
smokers suffer from serious skin problems?
In the annual conference of the American Doctors
Council which took place in Chicago in 1996, many
doctors were amazed to note that the least harm
smoking causes is that it arouses anxiety! Smoking
not only messes your internal structure but also
distorts your physical appearance drastically, and
I'm sure none of us want that to happen.
So here are the straight facts. Therefore anyone
who wants any of the following and really can't do
with out them, then go ahead and choose which fags
you like and start puffing away:
•Lung cancer- this was a very rare disease until the
end of this century, when the medical profession
witnessed a high rise in its occurrence, primarily in
Men and thereofter in women.
•Gastric Ulcers - If you don't know what that
means, then you might as well forget reading the
rest. Imagine, you don’t even know a simple phrase
like that. So if I were you I'd polish up on my English
rather than trying to copy a dragon.
Chronic Bronchitis, Increase in heart rate& blood
pressure. Apart from being les fit inwardly, your
cheeks and skin often turn more blotchy and
unsightly .Premature (ok, I'll tell you what this means
early OK?) ageing and more abundant face wrinkles,
heart disease, strokes,cancer of the mouth, larynx,
oesophagus, pancreas, cervix, uterus and bladder. (I
haven't just made these up you know. These are
thoroughly researched and proven facts)
Diminished or extinguished sense of smell and taste,
frequent colds
SMOKERS COUGH- Imagine that! They have so much
; I mean they are so unique that we have a
lamed after them, huh!) And I can go on and on
just stop here with a few more:
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Irritability, anxiety, sleep disturbances,
nervousness, headaches, fatigue, and nausea.
So if you want these then go ahead and pick anyone
you wish. By the way they all have 4000 chemicals
including 1200 known poisons.
p
Smokers: "Hey, hey you nearly killed us, now does
this mean we all got these types of cancers. What
were they? Pharynx, larynx, I don't know."
Sir: “Well yes if you don’t stop soon enough you'll
have them. But as soon as you stop your lungs begin
clearing up all the toxins, it is a long process but can
be done."
Smokers: Well look mate if I’m smoking 35 fagsfl
day, I’m not saying I am but just say, right, then
how in the world do I stop?
Sir: Drive a car fast and brake quickly, or if you’re
not at the age where you can drive, take a train and
pull the emergency communication cord.
Smokers: What!! Sir my question was about smoking,
you know, with a capital 5.
Sir: I know very well what your question was about.
What I'm trying to do is explain that when you or
someone else is driving at speed and then suddenly
hits the brakes, does the car jolt to a halt? (Hey,
that rhymes)
Smokers: Of course not! (Huh! What’s he getting at?)
Sir: Similarly, you can’t just stop smoking instantly,
you'll have to do it gradually. Ill give you a living
example of my very own grandpa, now aged over 70,
smoked from when he was a youth. One day Allah
ta'ala gave me the opportunity and I spoke to him
Qb°ut how one puff takes away a second of ones life
QWay■ I went on to explain that since he smoked 35
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so on... You won't believe it, my grand^" 33 ’"I
whom you could have said he'll never
Alhamdulillah within a month cn«o . °P PuffSl
to irie ,
"I done it me duck! And I tell yQ 1 don.
old things."
Subhanallah! Look, if a seventy vear -
Hearoldmancan(jo
it, then why cant you? I'm sure you're not that old
physically, ok maybe mentally.Just try it and see
how your life will change. You'll become a much
calmer and cooler person like my granddad! Innit
granddad?
Granddad: That's right me old chuck, absolutely
right!
Sir: Ta, grand pa.
Smokers: ok, I'll give it a try
Sir: Don’t forget to say the magic word
Smokers: Insha'allah
kflnpSi1
Sir: Excellent! Finally remember nothing ca
without His will, so effort and du'a will insh0
get you there.

Allah subhanahu wata'ala has stated clearly in the
Qur'an:
0 you who believe! 'Khamr', gambling, idols and
divining arrows are solely 'Rijs' from the handiwork
of the devil. Leave it aside in order that you may be
successful (Surah5 Ayah90)
OK! Two down! Don’t know how many left, not much!
(Hope so...)
Drugs.hmmm, sounds like a very mature 'big'd
'Manly' name don't it with a capital *D'?
But is it really a man's business or a nut case's
business? Let's see! Reason for consumption:
Tasting? Feeling low?
Overcome with problems, need some time to
forget?
Been dumped by a loved one? Or...Just feeling
bored, got nothing to do?
These are the usual reasons (I said usual, if you
wanna take some because you're hungry then I am
sorry mate, you’ve lost your senses and hope you find
it pretty soon) people take drugs. Because this is
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^ere people think they find?
ye$ the big word, a 'BUZZ' and go around with red
shot eyes, imagining themselves to be floating
Aaahh... floating in the clouds... then...
IVHAMI! They're back. Back to ground zero and
suddenly all their problems come toppling back, only
iflcouldget, that floating feeling back, only. No!
4nd my man' goes and takes another jab or sniff
then another and bang!
He has become an addict a serious addict who will not
only steal to get the Buzz but also kill.First, we take
olook at our guide book: has it mentioned anything
about this thing that can make you forget and that
con conceal our problems?
Surah Maidah (Ayah No: 90), mentioned at the
ginning of this chapter puts forward the word
'KHAMR'
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'Khamr' boys <& girls (yes, may sound patronising and
childish but just to remind you, adults don't do silly
things. They tend to think before acting, you know
what I mean!)
Khamr is an arabic word which means to cloud and
cover. Sayyidina Umar Radhiyallahu Anhu has said
'Khamr is everything that clouds the brain' (Bukhari)
So Allah Ta'ala is informing us that Kamr is rijs which
means filth is messing us up internally and clouding
our minds. Subhanallah in this one word Allah ta'ala
has mentioned all the effects drugs and alcohol can
have on a person.How consise and wonderful is His
Qur’an. That book which we have left in the
bookshelves only to gather dust. Only if we were to
open this magnificent treasure and take effect. May
Allah enable us. Ameen.
Furthermore Allah ta'ala states :
'From the works of the devil.'
Dear brothers and sisters this is the devil, the
enemy of all... You are following him. (I won't say
: don't want to include
take drugs but are reading
because you know I
^onewho don't wanna t
^diopter)
[iiully, Allah ta'ala states:
■jothotyou may become successful, so that you may
"If we stay away from drink and drugs, then we
toll be eligible for the rewards that Allah has kept
flstore for us which, insha'allah, shall be discussed
flgreatdetail in the last part.Ok, that was all from
to guide book Al Qur'an, let's now come and see
»hot the prophet Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam has
sill:
Mna Jabir Radhiyallahu Anhu reports that the
Sallallahu Alayhi Wassalam said; “verily
ill L
° tQ'ala has taken it on Him that whosoever
t toxicants will be made to drink from
hQtQlKhibaal*. The companions (may Allah ta'ala
l Gsed with them) enquired, "What is Teenatal
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replied- "the sweat of the residents of Jahannatn.''
(hell). (Reported by Muslim)
You think you can take that? Not me anyway! And
I'm sure if you've got the slightest taste you'd
never opt for such a disgusting, revolting drink! May
Allah ta'ala protect us!
We have already proved that 'Khamr' and 'Muskir'
Intoxicants are all in the same category and include
all types of drugs, alcohol etc...
If the Intoxicator is going to be made to drink the
sweat juice then obviously he will be in the same
place as them, but just to make it crystal clear that
boy!
If we're gonna sniff and inject, then we're heading
directly away from Jannah:
Sayyidina Ibn Umar may Allah ta'ala be pleased with
him said that the prophet Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam
j “Allah has forbidden Jannah for three types of
soid.
people
Consumer of Intoxicants ... (reported by Ahmed)
just that one extract from one Hadith should be
enough for a true believer to put into practice but
just for emphasis, we'll quote one more Hadith:
Ibn Abbas (may Allah ta'ala be pleased with him)
reports that the prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi
wosallam said: "A person that takes intoxicants, if
lie dies, then he shall meet Allah like an Idol
Worshipper!" (Reported by Ahmed)
Allah Akbar! Idol Worship is the greatest sin, to bow
down before someone / something other then Allah
ta'alall think that's made things extra clear and
these warnings should be enough for any Muslim or
Muslimah, but if you still wanna look like a person
just come out the grave then you know qo
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Remember He is ever ready, don't wait till
tomorrow, do it today! Don't listen to that devil
whispering to you, he only needs some company
because he is doomed to hell, so to him the more the
merrier.
Now the physical harms .Well the most famous ones
umm... bone with 'speed ', makes you 'crack', any
other? Oh yes, don't forget ecstasy. Most drugs
have professional names that don't sound fun, but
people change them. e.g.
LSb: -Na, too hard to say, so they made 'trips',
'acid', 'tabs', and 'microdots!'
Description- Generally produced on paper squares,
sometimes with a picture on them.
How is it taken - Sucked and swallowed.
Risks - From the name 'trip', once a trip has
started, can't be stopped. Sometimes people feel
hot, sick or dizzy makes one feel panicky and afraid.
Can become mentally ill. Still sounds fun?
Maybe you think you’re too slow in life and
peed an artificial boost? Well let’s see how fast you
con become.
Technical name- amphetamines
fun / slang names - Speed, uppers, whizz (now that
sounds really interesting!) amph, sulphate (hey! I
thought that was chemistry?)
Description - Dirty white or orangey yellow powder or
tablets.
tan for consumption - Makes people feel they
hove more energy, want to talk a lot and be raring.
Risks - the user can become aggressive, tense and
scared. Bad moods and tiredness tend to result after
the drug has worn off (I mean what's the point you
only get energy for a few hours, and then you're in a
worse state than when you started!) If taken in
excess can kill by causing strain on the heart! (Huh!
just for some energy you’re killing yourself. I'd call
this Drug "CRAZY", as another slang name)
^NNABIS sounds like a "cannibal!" (Man-eating
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creature) may be it is, cause it does eat you up.
Slang names- Grass, blow, weed, spliff, ganja, ^°Pe
(you will be one if you try this!) and hash
Description-Cannabis resin usually looks like small
brown lumps. The leaves, stalks and seeds of the
cannabis plant look like greeny brown tobacco.
Reason for taking - People think it makes them feel
more relaxed and more friendly, giggly and
talkative.
Risks - This drug is taken lightly by youngsters
today, they falsely believe that it doesn't present
them any harm.
So I ask you take a little poison it wont kill you
immediately. It'll just rip your intestines out that's
all! Gonna take it? Similarly, for a believer
something which is haram is haram. That's it, noifs
or buts! If to take something is to remain in the
disobedience of Allah ta'ala, then how can I even go
near such a thing? What face will I show if I do,«
the bay of Judgement?So I was saying,
underestimate this particular drug, maybe because
are a bit "dopey". But the risks are clear (you
knoW what? I don't think I should write "risks",
uresults" is a better word)
Results °f taking cannabis - Without being aware of
il users usually become Panicky, worried and
confused, (All the qualities of a dope!), blood shot
eye, dry mouth, hungry (right, this sounds like a
cannibal!)causes bronchitis, lung cancer.
O' how many left? Don't worry, just a few more and
then we have some real life incidents for all of us to
earn lessons from.
ECSTASY - A tablet of different colours and shapes
(sounds pretty innocent!)
Slang names- E, Mitsubishis, Rolexes (that's car and
watches right?)
Reasons for consumption - makes you think everyone
is your friend. Huh! Can't make any friends, so try
thinking everyone's your friend.
Results- It makes you frightened and dizzy once the
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drug has worn off, people can feel very tired but
find it very difficult to sleep. Over heating of the
body may occur which can result in death! And,
Depression.(You know most drugs have this effect,
and the funny thing is that the drugs are usually
taken to so-call 'improve problems' but it gives you
the opposite effect.)
HEROIN
Slang names- H, Smack (you will get one if you don't
stop, from someone) Horse, Junk (that explains it in
a nutshell) Brown.
Description- off-white, browny powder, usually
wrapped in small packets of paper
Reasons for consumption - Slows people down (No
commentsl)browsy, makes one feel away from the
real world.
Results after consumption - addictive, death fro1"
overdose and risk of infections such as hepatitis
A.I.b.S.
COCAINE
Slang names- Coke, Snow, Charlie, C. (Man, this
I drug has some funny names!)
Description- White powder
tarns for consumption- it makes people feel more
energetic and confident.
Results after consumption- it can make one feel
uptight, panicky, sick, sleepless, tired and
depressed. Sorry mate, but just 'don't see the point
andl'm sure you agree. You’re taking it to become a
little more energetic but you end up with all the
above, plus the anger of Allah ta1 ala.
That's it folks, enough facts, now lets look and study
o few cases of how drugs has affected people,
ready?
More we go on, we should make it clear that the
few verses and Ahadith that were mentioned with
drugs in mind, also apply to alcohol.

Cose
Chapter
s
Case St
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Cose study No 1.
Nome’- Chris Age: 14
71 aCt started aGout a year C7 used to meet my
mates down at tGe par^.Ohc day someone tarmed up witG
arcfiCC can - if was CigGtcr gas J tGin^. J said no' Gut
tkentAe otGcrs aCC Gad a go and it doomed Citio fun. 7t
frit great, Cifye J Gad ho worries. After tGat J went down
to tGc parti a Cot. We'd mess around sniffing CigGter
tefiCCs or gCue ... anytGing we couCd get our Gands on
iratty. !t was a reaC CaugG. 7Gen my parents started
asking mo questions.
Key tried to stop mo going out witG my friends - 7 Gad to
start tying to dodge tGem.7 just started to feeC so tired
atC tAc time. ewcntuaCCy tGc Geadmastcr asfyed to sec me
(fuausc 7d faCCon asCcep in cCass- &nt, 7 didn’t care. J
fett good wGen J was down at tGc parC^, wGen J was at
SiAooC or at Gome 7 feCt Gored and sort of sGut off.
lAonone day, wo aCC Gad a sniff of a can and one of my
friends said Ge foCt reaCCy dizzy.Me feCC over and fust Cay
ok tAc ground aCC curCed up. None of us were CaugGing
anymore.! was frigGtencd...
J didn’t (jnow wGat to do.7 ran off and got tGis man to
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A/et?p. Z/e turned my friend oh Ais side in case Ae w<*$ sic^
Ae said — to stop
Him cAoifing on Ais owm vomit, Ae todd me to cover Gi^
witA my coat to beep Aim warmJAe man wanted to get an
amGuCance - Gut my friend said Ae was feeding Getter and
just didn't want Ais parents to find out wAat Gc’dGccn
doing.!Ae man toCd us we were readdy duct^y - Ge said
you can die from sniffing. Sniffing from cans- Tin
finisAed witA aCC tAat.
So here was a living example of a boy age 14. And it
was a very small kind of drug. Sniffing glue and
these were the results. May Allah ta'ala protect us.
So many lessons to be learnt, particularly about
friendship - bad friendship leads to bad experience
.Let’s now look at a case study centring on another
drug which has recently been classed as "GradeC,
and teens are thinking its okay.
^inaBIS KILLED MY BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER
jmimna jumped to Ger deafA from a motorway Gridge
W let Home tArcc months ago after a ten year GattCe
nftAmcntaditGuess.
11/ Sorter (Ger fatAer) spotfe out to oppose tAo
decision to redax tAe daw on cannaGis and
tow/Kotficr young people of its dangers. "Joanna Gcgan
CAHHafiis as a stadent several years ago Gefore
$Ae sfiowed any signs of mentad AcadtA proGdems. As
itiiuunt dependent on tAo drug, tAe mentad AeadtA
poWeiHS increased, sAc ased to say, J need tAe drug to
[eel more relaxed and confident.
Dr.Pctcr Maguire of tAe BMA's science committee said,
limit colleagues aiGo are psycAiatrists and tAey quite
often say tAat wove seen many peopde witA psycAosis
^depression after using CannaGis.
BMA is extremeCy concerned tAat tAe puGCic migAt
^IHatreclassification equals safe.Jt does not",
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One more and that should be more than enough. Ok,
we've done the so called light ones and seen life
experiences; let's go to something more faster
humm.SPEED!
..
Sarah Age: 16.
•jused to M M MVCr ta(ic d'WS. 1 was Happy
did 3 need drugs for? Jf onCy Mings Had
^td Wat way ...JAo first time J toot} speed J just
miultii to try it once - to see wAat it was Ci(}c M)e were
^totkis patty, and my friends said Mat we'd Aave a
Mtet nigfit if we were off our Heads. J can't remcmGer
muAaiont (Ac party now J fcCt so tired afterwards —
nattydone in.
1 started going out witA tAesc friends quite a Git — tAey
(wvdete atd tAc good parties were, we'd meet up on a
Saturday nigAt and taf}e some wAizz' to see us tArougA.
K'< wit Having a GriCCiant time. My otAor friends at
sdootseemed rcaCty immature and Goring.
honld never Ge GotAcred to do any Aomeworf} wAen J
90I Home 1 fett so tired. lHAen J faiCed my end of year
*X(UK$J AadtAis massive row witA my dad. J Aated Going
7 Aated Geing at Aome.J started stealing
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front my mam s purse to pay for tAe drugs ond Me
out.J ^new 1 was (Letting Aer down.
TAere was tAis 6»g xigAt out pCanncd. J wanted to tiy
some C — GutJ was AroQe. Me and a mate went into town
and HicQed some stuff from one department store.Jwas
roaCCy scared we tAougAt we'd got away witA it,6attAen
tAe store detective came up to me - it was tAo worst
MiOMieMt of my wAoCe (life.
7Ae poCico toCd my parents - and now dad won’t
spea% to mo .My friends at scAoofi Aavc fonnd ord aid
tfiiey (feep away from mo. J never imagined tfiis woi<«
aee Happen J just wisA everytAing was fiacljtom<..
But alas, things can't come back to normal just lib
that, bear brothers and sisters, let us take heed
from these people's experiences and let ®
understand the reality.
In the words of a South African Scholar, "It'sj#51
quick pleasure." How true!
All the case studies we went through had funii^
beginning but then BANG!! The situations theyf^
themselves in were unpleasantj!^^^
/tolly to do with how one thinks of the consequences,
too know, if someone was told that if you walk into
Ike next room you're gonna get 50 bucks but inside
that room a serial killer awaits, surly no intelligent
person's gonna sacrifice his neck for some bucks
which he's not even gonna get to spend. Remember
soy"No!" once and for all to these people who offer
you"poison." let it ring in their ears, let it hurt them
and let them call you "immature" or "boring". But
know very well that you're not immature; I can tell
you that, because ’immature' according to the
Oxford Collins Dictionary is. "A person not fully
developed, lacking wisdom or stability." Now tell
me, are you immature or is it the guy who does not
knowthe consequences of his actions??
That shall be sufficient for this chapter, inshallah.
^before we move on, just one more piece of advice
some people who themselves don't take drugs but
W deal and sell them! (It is a known fact that
of drug dealers don't take drugs themselves) So
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you guys wanna mess up other people s lives.
And you'll •feel very Happy in your conscience when
spending that UNLAWFUL (haram) money?
For Allah's sake thinkl How can you mess innocent
people's lives up for a few bucks? Pleasel If you know
what's gonna happen to the guy 'then why? I mean,
are you that bad that you can’t get yourself a decent
paying job. Well there are many "job centres"
around; I suggest you pay a visit pretty soon So,
don’t you ever think that the boy or girl to whom
you're giving the stuff to is gonna become an addict,
start to steal, get inflicted with deadly diseases,
become unhealthy, not get very far in life and wring
your neck if he gets the chance after all that. Yes,
you may be laughing, but it's true if not in this world
then on the Day of Judgement he’s gonna grab you
and tell Allah ta'ala, "He took me astray!" that's not
gonna free his neck, but it will give him some
satisfaction to see you punished, so do give it some
serious thought, with a few knocks in the brain, Im
sure you'll get through! Hopefully!

Dhikf
Dh'fa
Looking back at the most common reasons why Youn9
people allowed them selves to be introduced to drugs,
were feeling depressed, feeling low and having nothing
to do. But, none of them seem to be able to get rid of
this boredom, this depression. Whereas Allah tool
----------------------
r r hands.
£rbring,no money can ever buy'. It's all in y°u
‘^rof Allah ta1 ala can be of many types.
has given us such a drug which is 1007o
side effects, guarantees you the'buzz
with peace and tranquillity.
This is ZIKR.
yes. The remembrance of Allah ta'ala. Allah
Almighty, stated In the Qur'an hundreds of yK,
for me and you, that-
" Verily through the
contentment."
SybhanallahGlorybeto Allah
Othernames; Tasbeeh
Reosonsfor recitation: Peace.
Results upon recitation: Allah remembers you,
guaranteed peace, a tree is planted in your Jannah so
big that an Arabian horse would not be able to
encompass its shade even after running for a hundred
years, protected from public enemy No 1 shaytan (the
devil)
Allahta'ala's nearness is gained And many more.
Just give it a try, from today: allocate someW
where you sit down and remember your Creotorf*
everything. I swear by Him, you most definitely*
f ind peace, such peace and happinessthot»i*
'LoilahaillallahThere is no god but Allah ta'ala.
Othernames: Kalimah
Reasons for recitation: Peace, gain many rewards
Results upon recitation:Peace guaranteed, entry i nto
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The Wortd of Teens 1 Dhikr
«jdo[jeens_l
Jonnoh if you die in the state that the Kalimah is with
you, gift of your face shining like the moon on the day
of Judgement if recited 100 times daily, best dhikr,
protection from shaytan, Allah ta'ala's nearness is
gained. And many more.
.(togfirullah I seek forgiveness from Allah.
^ernames'. Istigfar
Reasons for reciting: To please Allah & to Repent.
Jesuits upon recitation: He who continues to recite
Astagfirullah then Allah ta‘ ala will:
Wake an exit for him from any hardship, ease every
worry and problem, sustain him from where he had no
'SallollahuAlayhi Wasallam' May Allah's peace
Othernames: 'Salat Alan Nabi'
Reasons forrecitation: Pleasing Allah. Peace etc.
Results upon recitation:One who recites once Allah
Ta'ala:
Forgives 10 of his sins, sends 10 mercies to him,
elevates him 10 ranks in Jannah, the more recited the
more closer will be to the prophet sallallahu alayhi
wasallam, Angels also send mercy, Protection from the
devilandnearness of Allah ta'ala is gained.
hope,forgive his sins, protect him from the devil and
Allahta'ala's nearness is gained.
Allahu Akbar'. These were just the tip of the iceberg,
when it comes to the side-effects free drugs Allah
to’ala has gifted us with. Look at the reasons from
reciting and the results, don't they coincide? Don't they
match? Drugs of shaytan are totally opposite
Ok, that's it, take a break before you read the next
chapter because you must have got exhausted by this
one..
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Dua’a
4 c? ta'ab protect us. Rememb
er the key is
‘Effortand Du'a"
Bet you thought that was another drugs slang nameo
Never know could be some day
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Dua’g
^eWortdoHeensJ. Dua’a
A Christian lady was once asked as to what encouraged
hertobecome a Muslim, she said' the relationsh i p that
I saw between the creator and the creation in Islam
wassecondtonone.lt is truly a connection of a lover
andhisbeloved.
Subhannallah it's true man. If we check all the
masnoon Adiyah we have been encouraged and shown to
pray by our beloved messenger Sallalaahu Alayhi
Waslallam then we'll realise that a rapport is being
built betweenus and our creator that wherever we may
be we are reminded that we are never alone and he is
there for us. Let's look at a few translations of some
adiyah.
When wesleep at night we say oh Allah in your name do
Idieand live, waking up; oh Allah I thank you for giving
me life after death, exiting the toilet; oh Allah thank
you for relieving me from the harmful substances,
beforeweeat; oh Allah bless this food in your name do i
begin, afterwe eat; Oh Allah thank you for granting me
food and drink and making me one of the believers. And
we can carry on, but I guess you might start thinking
your in madressa , but truly amazing it is that we are
making du'a to Allah at all instances in our life. Let us
try to understand the depth of all these adiyah next
timewe pray them.
Sowhat is du'a and how should one make du'a and why is
it that we sometimes feel and see our requests not
being accepted?
Allah ta'ala has stated inthequr'an
"When my servants ask you concerning me. I am indeed
close to them. I answer the prayer of every caller when
he calls unto me." (Surah 2 Ayah 186)
So Allah ta'ala is telling us all that he answers every
prayer. And, we, Allah forbid think differently. The
answer is guys that we truly do not know how to ask
from his limitless treasures.

Dua’g
This incidentshould explain what I mean:
Once the king Hajjaj ibn Yusuf was doing Tawaf of the
Kabah inMakkah Mukarramah and he passed by a blind
man who was saying 'Oh Allah give me eyes, give me
eyes, give me eyes... Continuously he was saying these
phrases. Hajjaj became very perturbed for each round
he heard hi m like a parrot. So he got hold of him and
said i have been listening to you for so long asking from
Allah, but Allah still has not given you eyes. I'm fed up.
Ifyou can't see by the end of my tawaf (Tawaf is seven
circuitsaroundthecubicshaped building known as the
kabah) then i shall have you killed and he deployed two
soldiers to watch the blind man. Now Hajjaj was known
for his tyranny and for keeping his word. If he said he'll
kill someone then boy oh boy he meant it. The blind man
began sweating buckets and fell to the floor and
pleaded to Allah in desperation; 'Oh Allah if you do not
give me my eyesight then i shall be no more. Oh Allah I
begofyou. Please.. And he cried like never before.
AsHajajcompletedhisTawaf he called the blind man
jtoeveryone's happiness he could see! Subhanallah.
.jjjQj looked at him and smiled ' Fool! That is how you
'jkeduato Allah. Show Allah you really want the thing
,ou are asking for. don't just speak like a parrot
without paying attention to what you are saying.
i'/hat an important lesson for us all. bo we really ask
Allah for our needs in desperation? Think when a child
wants something from his parent how does he behave?
How does he plead and cry?
Sadly sometimes we just ask Allah when we are in
trouble or need something. A Muslim must always
communicate with Allah. In happy moments praise and
thank him and in difficult moments seek and plead from
him. There was once a person who was seen in a
particular masjid crying to Allah, having grown a beard
and in the first line. For a few weeks no one saw him
then the imam met himin the shops; beard gone ear
phones on and Islamic dress vanished. Upon inquiry he
said ohI needed Allah bee. my wife had done a runner.

TM ww ol feens 1
PUQ’O
The World of Teens 1 Dua’a
Butshe's back now so its ok!
Imagine thathuh!
*'ere ore a few etiquettes of making bu'a
PraiseAllah first.
SendSalutaions Upon the best of Mankind Muhammad
Sallallahu Alayhi wasallam.
Begin your du'a by asking Allah of your own needs and
then move on to your family & friends ( if you can
squeeze me and my family and teachers in... Thanks
mate.) Don’t forget to Ask Allah for the needs of the
hereafter.
Send salutations upon Rasulullah Sallallahu Alayhi
Wasallam
End with the praises of Allah ta'ala.
One should try to keep both hands in line with the
chest.aslightgapinbetweenand after dua'a pass your
hands over your face. Some people think we should not
do this passing hands over our face but you should ok.
Here's the proof from the Hadith:
IbnAbbasRadhiyallahu Anhu narrates that the
Messenger Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam said: When
you complete your dua'a then pass your hands over your
face.1
(Narrated by ibn Majah which is one of six authentic
books of Hadith.)
One last important thing we must remember is that if
the food we eat is haram then our du’as shall not be
accepted, so please check before consuming anything.

Part 2
The Worid of Teens!
1
. r> cut HEID YOU IN HER ARMS
<jS®■ XWMl'HCU« *
An extract from
Part 2
•tyoldmanjust cant keep it shut'."
•Nag'.NaglNag'. That's all he does all day!"
'Come on man, what do they know??? What faintest
oea do they have of what's it like living in the modern
oges? Huh'. Just think everyone's like them"
OUT A/Gh/I
0
Ever heard those words from your own mouth? Or
maybe from others? Sadly, these are the usual
sentences people use to describe their parents! Yes,
dear brothers and sisters, it may seem that your
parents are always nagging at you for whatever reason
but youhave got to get this right-.
if it weren't for our parents then we W0ll|d nw
existed, and if they hadn't looked after us the_
wouidneverhavegottotheagetoreadthis '
day so
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wou d have the best clothes?
A was the one that forgave you a thousand and one
tiwsJ
?$trueguys, we've really gotta think when we’re at
ogling points with our parents, that at the end of the
ocy these people whom I'm about to explode upon are
the actual cause of my existence in this world. What
must they be going through at that very moment in
When their once beautiful bouncing baby boy or
crlstarts threatening to bounce them?
WHENYOUWEREJ YEARSOLP.SHEMAPE ALL YOUR MEALS WITH LOVE
YOUTHANKEPHER BYTOSSINC YOUR PLATE ON THE FLOOR...
WHEN YOU WERE 4 YEARS OLD, SHE CAVE YOU SOME CRAYONS
YOUTHANKED HERE BY COLOURINC THE PININC ROOM TABLE...
WHEN YOU WERE 5 YEARS OLD, SHE PRESSED YOU FORTHE HOLIDAYS
YOUTHANKEP HER BY PLOPPING INTO THE NEAREST PILE OF MUD...
WHEN YOU WIRES YEARS OLD, SHE WALKED YOU TO SCHOOL
YOU THANKED HER BY SCREAMINC, "I'M NOTCOINC!'
_et< go a little into the future and catapult ourselves
ntotheirposition:
'■^e^eare, fiftyyears from today chilling at home
oopssorry we won'tbe chilling at that age will we? Let's
^Wortd ot teens 1____________________________________________ _l2LL£_
5^breathing at home... having worked our guts out for
our children, who've grown up now and seem to be fairly
independent. Now, here I am sitting at home all day
waiting for my ickle cuddly child to come and then I can
listento his day’s activities and adventures...
Suddenly he/she comes barging in...
Flings the bag on the floor...
Storms upstairs...
And' bang'.’ goes the bedroom door.
Let me see what’s wrong... I climb the stairs gently...
To be continued...
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Part 3
jhe World of Teenil
^Woddofjeensl
jnd of school day
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An extract frcrr
girl L see ya.
w. Yeah you too.
&irll: Take care. Gonna miss you. Cum on
chat.
Boy- k.
Msn ok! Well
Part 3
naif an hour later...
Corninq
rn.msn.co.uk
&.rl 1 -Hi you ok?
Boy: Yeah you? What you doing?
Girl 1: Nothing much.
Boy; I luv u
Girl I: Me2
Suddenly an odd pops up wanting to join
Allow?
Boy: Yes.
Hi ASL?
Boy-16 M UK. You?
Girl 2- 16 F USA.
Previous screen pops up
teredo
Call,n’n'e catch you
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Girl 1: Oah!
Boy: Sos man gotta go.
Girll: Okay. Xxx
Back on new screen.
Girl 2: You free?
Boy. Yeah you?
GirI2: Yep!
Boy: Got web cam?
Girl2: Yes sir.
Boy: Wanna see you. send ur pic.
Picture appears.
Boy: Wow. You look a beauty. Xxx
Girl 2: So do you wanna be friends?
Boy: more than friends!
To be continued.
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PuVWws specially T»r
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The Hijab Previews
shall inshaWah cover all aspects relating to
s^-cc-'s ssuessuch as the concept of Hijab, Periods
r; w be discussed in detail. An extract from one
ortdemthe book'.
Wrtlheeye don’t see the heart don’t desire!’
Checkthisarticleoutl
’I have a story to tell so sit back with ease and take
reed of what I am about to say. I was once young, full
cf the vigour of youth, blessed with good looks and a
personality to match. Everyday was a new adventure
£cr me I took no heed form my parents... The world
was my oyster. I had no worries. Life was for living! I
was carefree. Males desired me, females envied me.
Lfe was wonderful. That was a few years ago.. Little
j did I know how my life would change..."
To becontinued...
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