A
Activating Event
Believable Thoughts
What, where, when, who with. Outside event or internal trigger, real or imagined.
What went through your mind at that time.
C Consequences Consequences of Believing the Thought
Pick a thought from column B. How do you react when you believe this thought?
Consequences of Not Believing the Thought
How are you likely to behave and feel if you do not believe the thought?
Balanced alternative thoughtoptional
De-fuse
Examples of Defusion Exercises
Notice unhelpful thoughts. Say them slowly. Write them down. Say them in funny voices. Label unhelpful thoughts and emotions, e.g. an judgement, a prediction, a feeling, a sensation, a memory etc Practice mindfulness so that you can better notice when you are in the present moment versus when you are stuck in your head in the past or future. Use metaphors to help get a different view of your thoughts, feelings, and self evaluations o E.g. Passengers on the Bus, The Beach Ball, The River, The Thought Train, Radio Doom & Gloom, Mind Monsters, Quicksand, Storyteller STOP, STEP BACK. OBSERVE (what you are feeling and thinking; how the other person is acting).
Defusion involves seeing thoughts and feelings for what they are (streams of words, passing sensations), not what they say they are (dangers or facts). What defusion technique could you use?
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Carol Vivyan 2009. Adapted from Ciarrochi & Bailey 2008
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