To reach from social hook point to sexual hook point, ask her
for example ‘are you from delhi’, and when she says yes then
say ‘interesting’.
Future projections like ‘We are gonna go skydiving together’,
‘You know what we should have some coffee together’
Introduce hypothetical scenarios like ‘What would you do if the
guy you are really attracted to have a really small dick’
Qualify her if you wanna avoid flaking
Emotionally unexplained like ‘I like you I don’t know why’, ‘I
don’t know why but there is something about you which makes
you really attractive’
Commonality like ‘Oh you also liked that movie we have so
much in common’, ‘You really like colour blue that’s so
awesome’, ‘You know I really like you coz you like colour blue’
Showing vulnerability like ‘Listen when I was a kid’, ‘I don’t
usually disclose this to people but I’
Reinforce that she is the one chasing you, winning you over
Give her room to chase, strip the girl of validation and stack it
up like ‘you know what you are a terrible kisser’
Make her invest in you. Emotional investment, time investment,
investment like when you get closer to her for the kiss, pull
back and say ‘oh so you wanna kiss me, well if you wanna do
that call me daddy’, ‘Wow you are so adventurous, I really like
that about you’
Compliance. Start with small compliances like let’s sit down,
let’s move over there. And then you could slowly increase the
level of compliance like let’s go to that coffee shop over there, I
want to take you to my car, I want to show you my home. Lead
and bounce to different environments.
Don’t let her feel like a slut.
80% pull and 20% push.
You start by approaching the girl with confidence and strong
eye contact, teasing her / messing with her, and then once
she’s putty in your hands, you let the conversation drift into
something personal with her… all the while listening and
empathizing
Then once that bonding part of the conversation’s finished,
tease her (warmly) some more, begin to escalate, and then call
an Uber to take her back to your nice, furnished apartment.
Once inside, you pour her some wine and chit-chat briefly, but
soon enough you’re kissing her, acting tender with her,
passionately exploring her body. You go down on her and make
her cum. And then, once she’s still reveling in her ecstasy, you
take her aggressively from behind, grab her hair, and display
your sexual dominance.”
It starts with desire (confident approach and teasing), then
comfort (empathizing and listening), then desire again
(cocky/funny and escalating), then comfort (convenient /
classy transportation and awesome pad / wine), then a different
form of comfort (tender sex), finished off by desire (animalistic
sex). Suffice to say, for a girl, this would be a hell of an
experience.
Although the best interactions for women are mixes of comfort
and desire, make sure you always begin them with desire
Assumption of familiarity
Maintain flirt to tease ratio
Escalate at a high point, emotionally spike her, go back and
forth
I don’t have enough fucks to give
Stand your frame
Push pull, teasing, call back humour
Neg – Wow I love your heels they look just like my grandma
one’s
Role reversal –
Disqualify –
You are perfect marriage material, you are so nice
Murder, marry, fuck
For 9s & 10s, just be a cool guy
Misinterpretation as if she is interested in you – ‘it’s so hot in
here’, ’thank you’
‘you are such an asshole’, ‘what do you like about me being an
asshole’
Banter – I have got the award for best cuddler
Exaggerate when girl gives you shit test
Sarcasm is a grey area
Role playing -
Attraction and comfort are opposite except in storytelling
Never run out of things to say
Go to approach a girl assuming that you are talking to a wall,
put 90-100% of convo one sided, once she starts responding
start reducing it.
Enjoy yourself and laugh.
Open sets with over exaggeration.
Assumption of familiarity
Maintain your frame.
Do not pause. Do not wait for her response.
The idea is not to talk about the most amazing thing but how to
make anything the most amazing thing ever.
Talk about what excites you.
Make it about you and her while free flowing and bantering.
Misinterpretation
Flirting through your eye contact, your tonality, your proximity,
your body language, kino, the flirty vibe
Start at a high point, sit next to her, keep doing kino and
escalating, storytelling, once you get to make out, pull.
Shit tests – Never qualify or justify or defend yourself – ‘you are
too short’
Don’t be too reactive to shit tests, maintain your frame
Accept your insecurities and then exergerate and don’t wait for
her response and free flow it.
You can ignore shit tests and act cool.
